1. Move in silence 2.High income skills 3.Stay silent 4.Faith over feelings 5.Self awareness and accountability 6.Healthy Lifestyle 7.Bullet proof routine 8.Working on Communication skills 9.Your truth isn't the fact 10.Inner circle Okay now you're not that busy to not watch the full video so I say go watch the entire video and level up in life. TML!
Quitting weed is a game changer..i travel to Italy for mini solo breaks...am learning piano...and so much positivity is around me........i embrace solitude......be stoic!
@@lalailmas a current smoker at night for ptsd, I’ll break it down like this… It absolutely does quell my anxiety to a degree that I can probably get some sleep in (the onset of my ptsd, I wasn’t sleeping at ALL, even with prescriptions like Ambien). The trade off is it leaves many feeling lazy, and in my personal experience I still get “rebound anxiety” the next day, sticking one in a loop. To the negative nellys out there… I’ll stop when I’m away from the cause of said ptsd. Just surviving until I can recover. 💕🫶
Law #5: We need more people with self-awareness and accountability!! I'm seeing so many ppl who love to complain about the toxic ppl close to them, but they choose to let them in. I see it mostly with co-workers. Your videos have helped me reduce stress in dealing with all of this. I am able to look at situations more objectively and distance myself. In doing so, I have been able to increase my feminine energy and focus on myself and my needs and take accountability for myself. Thank you for all of your wisdom. It's a game changer!❤
I love that you shared a bit of your backstory. It makes your transformation more palpable because it shows by example that it can be achieved regardless of where you start. Thx Vikita!
Personally I share my dreams with the right people and never keep silent. I know my mom is going to put crazy what ifs in my head and be super negative. I know many of my friends even though I love them will meet me with contempt because we don’t align creatively. That’s why I make friends with entrepreneurs who can help, contribute, and guide me. One of them took an idea I was so gung-ho about and turned it into an even better one, then hooked me up with a partner to make it happen. But if I didn’t share with the wrong people I wouldn’t have been pushed to find the right ones.
i came across your channel less than a week ago and am beyond impressed on how much i’ve learned. I can feel my perspective being shifted and feel so much more in control in how I choose to react to any and every situation ALSO, growing up with my mom and 3 sisters, I was so conditioned to randomly lashing out during an argument and letting my emotions just run wild, but after watching a few of your videos, I’ve implemented staying calm and not impulsively reacting to how others treat me because “the world isn’t responsible for your triggers” THANK YOU!
Tip #1 is a gem. Literally what I’ve been going through as soon as I shared something I’m working on it would fall through. Learning to balance sharing my life without sharing work in progress goals . Only completed ones
Moving in silence is something I definitely need to work on because when people tell me things, I am genuinely happy for them, so I expect the same when I say it. But after years of the same results of people either steal what I want to do or fail after telling them I am done. This is the year of beginning to move in silence
Same!! I used to think sharing is caring but noooo... People are weird. I love to lift up people whwn they dream of doing something but rarely get the same treatment.
I feel you on miserable isolation. I almost completely lost the ability to function due to thyroid issues until I randomly decided to try getting sober & going gluten free. Everything got better
Fantastic video, thank you, I love the move in silence law and also staying silent and not blabbering about my dreams to everybody, because even my family is so negative and anytime I have a dream they always find a way to run it into the ground. It is what it is, I love them but I don't share my plans with them :)
I didn’t realize you’re a fellow Canadian 🙋🏼♀️ I’ve completely changed my life around too, it’s amazing what we can do. #1 has been a mantra for me for a long time. Never tell anyone anything until it’s done and their jaws drop.
OMG you were a stoner? I’m quitting smoking after 20 years of it! And I would have never guessed that from watching your vids! Wow, great transformation, you a total inspo!!
Thank god because I need some motivation I need to change my life because pot has been ruining it and honestly I think has caused my depression? I have also been smoking pot for that long and the past 4 years daily. Thanks for inspiration ❤
I was too girl, I quit cold turkey and my life changed for the better. I am motivated, prettier and more focused. It’s freedom! You will lose your old stoner friends though, but again it’s for the better.
Vickita, thank you for being so vulnerable in this video. You have helped me a lot in improving my life and becoming more feminine. Your insights on gratitude have inspired me to add more positivity and hope to my life. Watching you has given me the strength to face my own challenges. Your honesty and courage have shown me the importance of being true to myself. You’ve taught me how to embrace my femininity with confidence and grace. I’m now more hopeful and motivated to live my best life. Thank you for being a source of hope and inspiration for me. I’m excited to use your advice and see how it transforms my life.💌
The parents forcing to get a regular 9-5 job hit me home too hard. I'm literally going through the same thing and I refuse to be a corporate slave working for someone else, personally
Dude omg this video is all I needed to quit weed. Fr. Knowing you did it makes me know there’s a way. I didn’t know we started from the same place. You’re my #1 role model on this platform and have been for a while and I never knew you struggled with weed too
Accountability is key. Taking full responsibility for MY life, for MY situation completely changed my life. Remember all, you can't control anyone else's actions. The only one you have full control of is YOURSELF. Use that power.
Point 1 is so true. I used to tell my cousin, my only friend my dreams and visions. One day on the phone, after I'd told her what I wanted to do, she started laughing and saying it's great that I'm such a dreamer. I'm now midway through a business degree to take a step towards my dream. Only my husband knows I'm doing it. It feels so powerful being able to control my vision without outside negativity. I can't wait to casually drop it into conversation that I finally got my degree. It's a shame, but I really don't trust people as they laugh or try drag you down.
Wow this is absolutely AMAZING. THANKYOU for being vulnerable… I am LITERALLY in the same position as you were. First two minutes of this video you talk about how you’ve been sick for the past year, dedicated 5 years to pursue law, was a stoner, and now dedicating time to your business. that’s literally ME right now. Thankyou. I feel blessed there to be someone who understands🙏 wow God is Great!!!
LOVE the stuff about moving in silence. I talk way too much and people are always shutting down my delusions, so that is such good advice. It's so tempting to want to share, but it's true that its much better to show not tell! It is inspiring that you built a life for yourself despite your family's opinion. I'm half Indian, so I get pressure from that side of my family about work & career stuff. Like, damn, let me dream in peace....
GIRL. seeing how you were literally touches my soul every time cus im just like so freaking proud of you and it gives me hope and belief in myself and i love and appreciate you for sharing your testimony
Thank you for being so candid about substance abuse. It needs more discussion because it is a unique obstacle that makes motivation to act and change harder. But when you do get out it’s incredible. ❤
vikita, you seriously are one of the best people i have come across. everytime i feel any less confident or lost, you are my knight in the shining armour. sending you lots of love and support. thank you 💗
This video is everything. As a west indian woman making moves in silence is tough-but its true, our parents & culture can be very negative & dream crushers. Currently in the process of transformation every area of my life. Thanks for this motivation.
Yes! I’m also West Indian and it’s hard to keep quiet when you’re always being questioned about what’s going on in your life! It’s even harder when you tell them your plans and goals and they start conjuring up all the reasons why you shouldn’t, and thinking of what could go wrong. Hang in there you aren’t alone
I see so much of myself in you!! I’m not indian, but also a brown dominican girl, raised in Italy, where I always felt ‘different’ and out of place. I’m also a Taurus (may 1st) and also 27! I also was addicted to weed for quite a while and it left me in a huge depression after it killed all my dopamine and productivity. Since the first the first time I saw one of your videos I felt immediately pulled towards you and your energy; and the more you share about your life and the more I see , the more I feel connected to you in a spiritual way ♥️ Thank you for being such an inspiration for all women and for impacting my life the way you are doing.
Hey, thank you for this content. I can relate to a lot of your story. Indian, chronic illness and couldn’t get out of bed for months, parents confused and concerned by the turn my life has taken. My life now is nothing like it was when I started my transformational journey. There are key things I am missing based on your laws so thank you for sharing this. Rooting for you.
Awww…Vickita looooveed that video today sooo much ❤❤❤ thank you sooo much for letting us (again) be part of your journey. All the points were so wonderful and wonderful explained. Also made me soo happy for you (yes, RUclips makes it possible ;)), but yes, absolutely celebrated your success along with you telling us and all the good things to come and which are in the making 😊 lovely greetings from Germany
Thank you for sharing! I had a similar situation and getting myself out of my rut and chasing my dreams (in silence 😏 and alone) Can’t wait to come back and tell you about my accomplishments 🧿 Thank you Beautiful!
Law no. 12 is so true. I was so confident in my looks and weight and absolutely loved myself until age 10 or 11. That’s when people started calling themselves ugly and fat, and I did that because I thought that if I said I liked myself, people would think that I was full of myself. I eventually started to believe that I was ugly and fat. I would have never had self esteem problems if it weren’t for society making it the norm.
Wow it is WILD how directly you spoke to me in this video. Thank YOU. I am so so grateful for your revelations and knowledge. I’ve been back at my parents for 6 months and been dealing with gut health/auto immune issues and also working really hard at my business but not getting as much traction as I require. I was SHOCKED when you said the line about telling your mum about a really good sales call and then suddenly the client is no longer on board, that has happened to me so many times over the last few months after I tell my parents an update, and it’s been really disheartening. So I truly deeply appreciate your advice of moving in silence. Also your line about “dad I’m moving to England” SO HELPFUL. The friendship group is a big one for me, there are a couple of people who I need to distance myself from and attract new friends to be uplifted with and enjoy time with. Thank YOU I will be revisiting this video to keep these rules fresh and actively practicing them daily. Cheers.
I HAD to go on my phone so I can leave you a comment! The fear of being seen video is really resonating with me and I am going to try watch your videos, you're incredibly succinct and to the point and clear , I was kinda not judging but pooh poohing(!) you because you are younger than I am, but, lady!, you're speaking so much truth in a frank open way, I'm so impressed!!! I'm just tongue tied and can't get myself heard, it's killing me, I look forward to watching your videos, go on!!! ❤❤❤
I spent years in bed, got help, had hope and now It still takes a lot of encouragement and discipline to get out of bed and still “getting help” …..I don’t know maybe I’m just like this 😢
I (half Indian, myself) have been recovering from a chronic illness as well. I am doing much better than I was at the beginning of my health crisis.I have lost so many friends, which has been hard because I saw for a fact how little they cared about me, but now that I'm doing good enough to go out some, I am optimistic about finding the right people for my life who are aligned with this new, better version of me with no people-pleaser tendencies and better boundaries. It's beautiful to see that you have recovered & are living a life you love. This video made my day, because I am happy for you and I relate so deeply to it
I like your content, the best thing is my mom and grandma actually taught me these things as a litte girl but i guess I forgot some of them as an adult and these videos are like a reminder. It´s the first time one self help+motivation channel actually makes me think it´s possible.
Thank you for this video!! I finished university literally a week ago and last few months I was DREAMING about things I will do when I’ll be free, but all I feel now is.. I feel nothing. It’s summer, super short and most pleasant season of the year in my country, I’m 23 yo and everything seems fine in my life, but I really feel like a big heavy cold grey grumpy stone that is lying on its place and that’s all 😢 And about communication: maybe I’m not right but your situation seems better to me, because I can’t communicate at all.. I always unsure about everything and prefer keep silent. My uni teacher told me that I’m smart but too slow and need more confidence. I do understand it but can’t do anything! I do a really big job, get results but return to a suuuuper low position every time and it makes me disappointed more and more.. and when I’m around people who are loud and confident I can’t talk at all, every word is a huge weight :.( I don’t complex about my appearance a lot, more about my soul and everything that is inside of me.. it’s harder to fix!
This is powerful, young one! Never thought about the negative energy that comes from these "WOLVES IN SHEEPS CLOTHING" when you tell them what you're working on. An Energy... you hit the nail on the head with that one. I started practicing quiet action in high school but I never knew why. Move in silence and talk about it later.. Good luck in all your endeavors, Sis!
Top tier advice!! We have to wear the karma we choose, and that’s why self awareness is so important. Everything we say, Everything we do, our reactions to every situation are often automatic from a place of wounding. When we slow down and really think ahead about how our choices and actions have a huge long term impact on our lives and others it’s a game Changer, No weapon against you can prosper! I’m 46 and it’s taken me years to grasp this kind of wisdom! Thank you 🙏 💐☺️
I relate to you so much! I’m on my journey as well, and have a strong personality that I’m working on balancing and softening. I’m Latin so also relate to the white standard and friends.
Thank you, young sensei. It was hard for me to listen at first because of my life circumstances and comparing. But I am so ready for change and feel it deeply. It is time.
Very wise, you look wise beyond your dreams really great insight. Your comment waiting for other people to take accountability is just prolonging going after your dreams is so true a penny really dropped me. Lots of other really helpful tips but that just woke something up on me thank you and may you keep being blessed abundantly
I believe in this but number 1 is all about your mindset people monitor you everyday if you think that if you tell someone a dream & it won't flourish if they're jealous youre simply feeding that energy.. it all depends on your mindset if you fully believe no matter who i tell my dreams to your dreams will be accomplished & you put energy towards that you will succeed.
Number 1 is my biggest hurdle. I’ll even tell complete strangers my dreams and plans, and then either it’ll take me a year to take action on it, or those plans will just fizzle out 🤦🏻♀️
I appreciate that you didn't start with this story. You teach moving past your past. Some people want infinite acceptance for their condition and never want to try to improve, or even just have an identity beyond their condition.
Vickita could you please make a video on how to make friends, maybe that sounds stupid lol but after making some bigger changes in my life I don't know quite well where to start looking for the better people or how to approach them and I don't want to fall into old patterns or waste my time with people that are not on my same level. Since you're starting on this journey too your advice would be sooo helpful! ❤
I spent years in bed…got help, had hope and….still can’t get out of bed without a lot of encouragement and discipline. I don’t know maybe I’m just like this ?
Wow this is so relatable, going through this now. The illness life is changing started a business and it’s like crickets right now. Very inspiring. Thank you and Congratulations1
Hi Vickita, content request, how about what a high value woman's social media account should look like? What to post and what to avoid and all to be elegant and classy?
This video was so inspiring. I know next to nothing about business/side hustles and am your typical brown girl in med school LOL, but I learned a lot from this video and am considering ways that I can expand on my skills and income beyond just my profession. Thanks for sharing your wisdom ❤
THE BEST VIDEO !!!... Shows the level of self reflection, warmth and openness, the precision in sequencing the points and the accuracy in video compilation/editing to bring about this beauty!.. Love from India 🇮🇳. However, I would politely suggest to take the trouble to re-take the video if found that the aesthetic part is a bit off !!.
Loved this episode, shared with friends/fam. Was excited when you mentioned Abraham. I listen to those 15 mins every morning. The way your break it down was so helpful too. I live in PR as well. I hope you and your Hispanic wife love it. Kinda too hot lately so stay hydrated! Ty for your podcasts. ❤
And always remember. The people who are sitting at the table saying disgusting things about everyone, are the ones that are going to talk about you, when you leave the table You’re not just choosing ‘friends’. You are choosing lifestyles.
1. Move in silence
2.High income skills
3.Stay silent
4.Faith over feelings
5.Self awareness and accountability
6.Healthy Lifestyle
7.Bullet proof routine
8.Working on Communication skills
9.Your truth isn't the fact
10.Inner circle
Okay now you're not that busy to not watch the full video so I say go watch the entire video and level up in life. TML!
10. Is leader energy ❤
I quit smoking weed after smoking from the age of 12 - 27. I'm now almost 5 months off of it and I am so glad I quit!
We all are so proud of you! Keep it up!
PROUD🤍
CONGRATULATIONS !!! 💕
🎉🎉🎉 congratulations!!!
congrats! super proud of you! :D
I highkey love how you’re literally a lawyer observing the laws of the universe for us🖤
Love this
Quitting weed is a game changer..i travel to Italy for mini solo breaks...am learning piano...and so much positivity is around me........i embrace solitude......be stoic!
I never smoked weed so I dont know but can you explain why? i thought weed was supposed to make you less anxious. Isnt that a good thing?
@@lalailmas a current smoker at night for ptsd, I’ll break it down like this… It absolutely does quell my anxiety to a degree that I can probably get some sleep in (the onset of my ptsd, I wasn’t sleeping at ALL, even with prescriptions like Ambien). The trade off is it leaves many feeling lazy, and in my personal experience I still get “rebound anxiety” the next day, sticking one in a loop.
To the negative nellys out there… I’ll stop when I’m away from the cause of said ptsd. Just surviving until I can recover. 💕🫶
Law #5: We need more people with self-awareness and accountability!! I'm seeing so many ppl who love to complain about the toxic ppl close to them, but they choose to let them in. I see it mostly with co-workers. Your videos have helped me reduce stress in dealing with all of this. I am able to look at situations more objectively and distance myself. In doing so, I have been able to increase my feminine energy and focus on myself and my needs and take accountability for myself. Thank you for all of your wisdom. It's a game changer!❤
I mean tbh I feel like there’s no shortage of people yelling “TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY” to people with these issues
Any Christians here listening to her videos through a biblical world view? It’s so good. God has blessed her with so much of wisdom
yeah dude i'm with you!!
I love that you shared a bit of your backstory. It makes your transformation more palpable because it shows by example that it can be achieved regardless of where you start. Thx Vikita!
Personally I share my dreams with the right people and never keep silent. I know my mom is going to put crazy what ifs in my head and be super negative. I know many of my friends even though I love them will meet me with contempt because we don’t align creatively. That’s why I make friends with entrepreneurs who can help, contribute, and guide me. One of them took an idea I was so gung-ho about and turned it into an even better one, then hooked me up with a partner to make it happen. But if I didn’t share with the wrong people I wouldn’t have been pushed to find the right ones.
i came across your channel less than a week ago and am beyond impressed on how much i’ve learned. I can feel my perspective being shifted and feel so much more in control in how I choose to react to any and every situation
ALSO, growing up with my mom and 3 sisters, I was so conditioned to randomly lashing out during an argument and letting my emotions just run wild, but after watching a few of your videos, I’ve implemented staying calm and not impulsively reacting to how others treat me because “the world isn’t responsible for your triggers”
THANK YOU!
Tip #1 is a gem. Literally what I’ve been going through as soon as I shared something I’m working on it would fall through. Learning to balance sharing my life without sharing work in progress goals . Only completed ones
Moving in silence is something I definitely need to work on because when people tell me things, I am genuinely happy for them, so I expect the same when I say it. But after years of the same results of people either steal what I want to do or fail after telling them I am done. This is the year of beginning to move in silence
Yes 🙌 same! 🤐
Same!! I used to think sharing is caring but noooo... People are weird. I love to lift up people whwn they dream of doing something but rarely get the same treatment.
Felt this so deeply!!
I feel you on miserable isolation. I almost completely lost the ability to function due to thyroid issues until I randomly decided to try getting sober & going gluten free. Everything got better
Fantastic video, thank you, I love the move in silence law and also staying silent and not blabbering about my dreams to everybody, because even my family is so negative and anytime I have a dream they always find a way to run it into the ground. It is what it is, I love them but I don't share my plans with them :)
I didn’t realize you’re a fellow Canadian 🙋🏼♀️
I’ve completely changed my life around too, it’s amazing what we can do.
#1 has been a mantra for me for a long time. Never tell anyone anything until it’s done and their jaws drop.
OMG you were a stoner? I’m quitting smoking after 20 years of it! And I would have never guessed that from watching your vids! Wow, great transformation, you a total inspo!!
Hahaha yup! I quit cold turkey, you got this! Its life changing.
Thank god because I need some motivation I need to change my life because pot has been ruining it and honestly I think has caused my depression? I have also been smoking pot for that long and the past 4 years daily. Thanks for inspiration ❤
Former stoner here too! It can be done ❤😊
Chica, you'll feel amazing after, smoking a joint out in nature here and there vs daily stoner is sooooooooooooo much better
I was too girl, I quit cold turkey and my life changed for the better. I am motivated, prettier and more focused. It’s freedom! You will lose your old stoner friends though, but again it’s for the better.
Vickita, thank you for being so vulnerable in this video. You have helped me a lot in improving my life and becoming more feminine. Your insights on gratitude have inspired me to add more positivity and hope to my life. Watching you has given me the strength to face my own challenges.
Your honesty and courage have shown me the importance of being true to myself. You’ve taught me how to embrace my femininity with confidence and grace. I’m now more hopeful and motivated to live my best life. Thank you for being a source of hope and inspiration for me. I’m excited to use your advice and see how it transforms my life.💌
The parents forcing to get a regular 9-5 job hit me home too hard. I'm literally going through the same thing and I refuse to be a corporate slave working for someone else, personally
Dude omg this video is all I needed to quit weed. Fr. Knowing you did it makes me know there’s a way. I didn’t know we started from the same place. You’re my #1 role model on this platform and have been for a while and I never knew you struggled with weed too
Accountability is key. Taking full responsibility for MY life, for MY situation completely changed my life. Remember all, you can't control anyone else's actions. The only one you have full control of is YOURSELF. Use that power.
Point 1 is so true. I used to tell my cousin, my only friend my dreams and visions. One day on the phone, after I'd told her what I wanted to do, she started laughing and saying it's great that I'm such a dreamer. I'm now midway through a business degree to take a step towards my dream. Only my husband knows I'm doing it. It feels so powerful being able to control my vision without outside negativity. I can't wait to casually drop it into conversation that I finally got my degree. It's a shame, but I really don't trust people as they laugh or try drag you down.
Wow this is absolutely AMAZING. THANKYOU for being vulnerable… I am LITERALLY in the same position as you were. First two minutes of this video you talk about how you’ve been sick for the past year, dedicated 5 years to pursue law, was a stoner, and now dedicating time to your business. that’s literally ME right now. Thankyou. I feel blessed there to be someone who understands🙏 wow God is Great!!!
My truth isn’t fact , the realest thing I needed to hear today 💯
LOVE the stuff about moving in silence. I talk way too much and people are always shutting down my delusions, so that is such good advice. It's so tempting to want to share, but it's true that its much better to show not tell!
It is inspiring that you built a life for yourself despite your family's opinion. I'm half Indian, so I get pressure from that side of my family about work & career stuff. Like, damn, let me dream in peace....
GIRL. seeing how you were literally touches my soul every time cus im just like so freaking proud of you and it gives me hope and belief in myself and i love and appreciate you for sharing your testimony
Thank you for being so candid about substance abuse. It needs more discussion because it is a unique obstacle that makes motivation to act and change harder. But when you do get out it’s incredible. ❤
vikita, you seriously are one of the best people i have come across. everytime i feel any less confident or lost, you are my knight in the shining armour. sending you lots of love and support. thank you 💗
This video is everything. As a west indian woman making moves in silence is tough-but its true, our parents & culture can be very negative & dream crushers. Currently in the process of transformation every area of my life. Thanks for this motivation.
Yes! I’m also West Indian and it’s hard to keep quiet when you’re always being questioned about what’s going on in your life! It’s even harder when you tell them your plans and goals and they start conjuring up all the reasons why you shouldn’t, and thinking of what could go wrong. Hang in there you aren’t alone
@@TheNittyGritty735 💖💖
I see so much of myself in you!! I’m not indian, but also a brown dominican girl, raised in Italy, where I always felt ‘different’ and out of place. I’m also a Taurus (may 1st) and also 27! I also was addicted to weed for quite a while and it left me in a huge depression after it killed all my dopamine and productivity. Since the first the first time I saw one of your videos I felt immediately pulled towards you and your energy; and the more you share about your life and the more I see , the more I feel connected to you in a spiritual way ♥️ Thank you for being such an inspiration for all women and for impacting my life the way you are doing.
You are killing it girl! I'm so proud of you.
Girl I’m so sorry you went through that, I can 1000% relate as I’ve gone through the same exact thing with long covid…it changes you
I loved this video so much!!!! This was GOLD!!!!
Hey, thank you for this content. I can relate to a lot of your story. Indian, chronic illness and couldn’t get out of bed for months, parents confused and concerned by the turn my life has taken. My life now is nothing like it was when I started my transformational journey. There are key things I am missing based on your laws so thank you for sharing this. Rooting for you.
Awww…Vickita looooveed that video today sooo much ❤❤❤ thank you sooo much for letting us (again) be part of your journey. All the points were so wonderful and wonderful explained. Also made me soo happy for you (yes, RUclips makes it possible ;)), but yes, absolutely celebrated your success along with you telling us and all the good things to come and which are in the making 😊 lovely greetings from Germany
i had a similar experience after graduation, couldn t believe my friends moved on so easily without me
Thank you for sharing!
I had a similar situation and getting myself out of my rut and chasing my dreams (in silence 😏 and alone)
Can’t wait to come back and tell you about my accomplishments 🧿 Thank you Beautiful!
16:34 Could you make a video on these? I would love to get some ideas from you!
Law no. 12 is so true. I was so confident in my looks and weight and absolutely loved myself until age 10 or 11. That’s when people started calling themselves ugly and fat, and I did that because I thought that if I said I liked myself, people would think that I was full of myself. I eventually started to believe that I was ugly and fat. I would have never had self esteem problems if it weren’t for society making it the norm.
I faced a lot of negativity and evil eye yes its real don't share anything with anyone otherwise your life will not work out.
Wow it is WILD how directly you spoke to me in this video. Thank YOU. I am so so grateful for your revelations and knowledge. I’ve been back at my parents for 6 months and been dealing with gut health/auto immune issues and also working really hard at my business but not getting as much traction as I require. I was SHOCKED when you said the line about telling your mum about a really good sales call and then suddenly the client is no longer on board, that has happened to me so many times over the last few months after I tell my parents an update, and it’s been really disheartening. So I truly deeply appreciate your advice of moving in silence. Also your line about “dad I’m moving to England” SO HELPFUL. The friendship group is a big one for me, there are a couple of people who I need to distance myself from and attract new friends to be uplifted with and enjoy time with. Thank YOU I will be revisiting this video to keep these rules fresh and actively practicing them daily. Cheers.
I'm A young woman living in south africa 🇿🇦 I love victita, I watch your videos, they helping me a lot.you are such a blessing ❤️
I HAD to go on my phone so I can leave you a comment! The fear of being seen video is really resonating with me and I am going to try watch your videos, you're incredibly succinct and to the point and clear , I was kinda not judging but pooh poohing(!) you because you are younger than I am, but, lady!, you're speaking so much truth in a frank open way, I'm so impressed!!! I'm just tongue tied and can't get myself heard, it's killing me, I look forward to watching your videos, go on!!! ❤❤❤
The timing of this video appearing in my life is perfect, like OMG
“Indian parents” was so loaded 😭😂 you are crystal clear ✨
You are like phoenix that rose up from ashes❤
Whoa! Thnx for being so vulnerable and honest about your journey ❤
I spent years in bed, got help, had hope and now It still takes a lot of encouragement and discipline to get out of bed and still “getting help” …..I don’t know maybe I’m just like this 😢
I (half Indian, myself) have been recovering from a chronic illness as well. I am doing much better than I was at the beginning of my health crisis.I have lost so many friends, which has been hard because I saw for a fact how little they cared about me, but now that I'm doing good enough to go out some, I am optimistic about finding the right people for my life who are aligned with this new, better version of me with no people-pleaser tendencies and better boundaries. It's beautiful to see that you have recovered & are living a life you love. This video made my day, because I am happy for you and I relate so deeply to it
I like your content, the best thing is my mom and grandma actually taught me these things as a litte girl but i guess I forgot some of them as an adult and these videos are like a reminder. It´s the first time one self help+motivation channel actually makes me think it´s possible.
Thank you for this video!!
I finished university literally a week ago and last few months I was DREAMING about things I will do when I’ll be free, but all I feel now is.. I feel nothing. It’s summer, super short and most pleasant season of the year in my country, I’m 23 yo and everything seems fine in my life, but I really feel like a big heavy cold grey grumpy stone that is lying on its place and that’s all 😢
And about communication: maybe I’m not right but your situation seems better to me, because I can’t communicate at all.. I always unsure about everything and prefer keep silent. My uni teacher told me that I’m smart but too slow and need more confidence. I do understand it but can’t do anything! I do a really big job, get results but return to a suuuuper low position every time and it makes me disappointed more and more.. and when I’m around people who are loud and confident I can’t talk at all, every word is a huge weight :.( I don’t complex about my appearance a lot, more about my soul and everything that is inside of me.. it’s harder to fix!
This is powerful, young one! Never thought about the negative energy that comes from these "WOLVES IN SHEEPS CLOTHING" when you tell them what you're working on. An Energy... you hit the nail on the head with that one. I started practicing quiet action in high school but I never knew why. Move in silence and talk about it later.. Good luck in all your endeavors, Sis!
Top tier advice!! We have to wear the karma we choose, and that’s why self awareness is so important.
Everything we say, Everything we do, our reactions to every situation are often automatic from a place of wounding. When we slow down and really think ahead about how our choices and actions have a huge long term impact on our lives and others it’s a game Changer, No weapon against you can prosper!
I’m 46 and it’s taken me years to grasp this kind of wisdom! Thank you 🙏 💐☺️
You bodied this!! Thank you! 🙌🏾❤️
This video is golden!!
Such a powerful and insightful video. Thank you for sharing ❤
As a Jamaican 🇯🇲 here, i am in full agreement with you...I love thjs content, absolutely beautiful.
Congratulations vickita you really inspiring us to take actions. Most informative video so far.
Make a video on inner child deep past traumas healing
I relate to you so much! I’m on my journey as well, and have a strong personality that I’m working on balancing and softening. I’m Latin so also relate to the white standard and friends.
Thank you, young sensei. It was hard for me to listen at first because of my life circumstances and comparing. But I am so ready for change and feel it deeply. It is time.
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Hi baby
Plz make a detailed video on meditation how to meditate and stuff
THANK YOU! Once again this is helping me deeply. You're so inspiring!
Thanks for the important reminders!
Very wise, you look wise beyond your dreams really great insight. Your comment waiting for other people to take accountability is just prolonging going after your dreams is so true a penny really dropped me. Lots of other really helpful tips but that just woke something up on me thank you and may you keep being blessed abundantly
I believe in this but number 1 is all about your mindset people monitor you everyday if you think that if you tell someone a dream & it won't flourish if they're jealous youre simply feeding that energy.. it all depends on your mindset if you fully believe no matter who i tell my dreams to your dreams will be accomplished & you put energy towards that you will succeed.
One of your best videos yet! Loved it 👏🏼
Number 1 is my biggest hurdle. I’ll even tell complete strangers my dreams and plans, and then either it’ll take me a year to take action on it, or those plans will just fizzle out 🤦🏻♀️
Girl u scaring me cause why I’m literally in a situation like this omg omg I can’t right now I’m seriously about to cry
I believe in you!! You got this girl you’re making your dream life!!
Tysm! I love you! God bless you! 💖
You're welcome!! ♥️
Do you have a video showing how to create bulletproof routines?
I appreciate your content girlie 😘
I too am trying to get out of depression. Thank you for your video 💕
I appreciate that you didn't start with this story. You teach moving past your past. Some people want infinite acceptance for their condition and never want to try to improve, or even just have an identity beyond their condition.
Vickita could you please make a video on how to make friends, maybe that sounds stupid lol but after making some bigger changes in my life I don't know quite well where to start looking for the better people or how to approach them and I don't want to fall into old patterns or waste my time with people that are not on my same level. Since you're starting on this journey too your advice would be sooo helpful! ❤
I would love to know your morning and evening routines. Please make a video!
Girl I love this video. So inspiring ❤
You go girl! ❤
You are such an inspiration ❤❤❤
I spent years in bed…got help, had hope and….still can’t get out of bed without a lot of encouragement and discipline. I don’t know maybe I’m just like this ?
Wow this is so relatable, going through this now. The illness life is changing started a business and it’s like crickets right now. Very inspiring. Thank you and Congratulations1
Hi Vickita, content request, how about what a high value woman's social media account should look like? What to post and what to avoid and all to be elegant and classy?
You are one in a million- I so appreciate you and the content you share. Thank you!!
So honest and relatable video❤ I think best one so far. Thank you🙏
This video was so inspiring. I know next to nothing about business/side hustles and am your typical brown girl in med school LOL, but I learned a lot from this video and am considering ways that I can expand on my skills and income beyond just my profession. Thanks for sharing your wisdom ❤
Wow, law 4 and how you put it is sooo good!! Thank you, lots
THE BEST VIDEO !!!... Shows the level of self reflection, warmth and openness, the precision in sequencing the points and the accuracy in video compilation/editing to bring about this beauty!.. Love from India 🇮🇳. However, I would politely suggest to take the trouble to re-take the video if found that the aesthetic part is a bit off !!.
Loved this episode, shared with friends/fam.
Was excited when you mentioned Abraham. I listen to those 15 mins every morning. The way your break it down was so helpful too.
I live in PR as well. I hope you and your Hispanic wife love it. Kinda too hot lately so stay hydrated!
Ty for your podcasts. ❤
You’re amazing ❤
Thank you for all your content Vickita, it's very helpful and welcome to England. 🤗
I'm sure a few of us would appreciate seeing a video of what your illness was and how you healed yourself 😊
Best advice ever! Perfect timing!!Thank you!! I’m happy you’re feeling better!! Take care!!❤
So much good advice here🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️❤
💖Vickita the queen 👑
My love ♥️
True queen
Your parents must be so proud and thrilled for you! ❤
Vickita thank you for all the work you do here! I feel extremely positive and confident after watching your videos ❤
Sending love from India xoxo
Thank you! ❤
So inspiring and authentic! Thank you!
Im feeling better just viewing this video. Never happenned to me. Thanks you a lot. ❤
Another great video girl!!! 🩷
And always remember. The people who are sitting at the table saying disgusting things about everyone, are the ones that are going to talk about you, when you leave the table
You’re not just choosing ‘friends’. You are choosing lifestyles.