Things Narcissists LOVE that We HATE
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- Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
- In today's video Jill talks about things that Narcissists LOVE that normal, healthy, empathetic people HATE and desperately try to avoid.
Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant narcissist, she has endured years of parental alienation, has repeatedly been targeted by narcissists throughout her life. She has an intimate understanding of all aspects of narcissistic abuse and Cptsd. She uses her experience and what she has learned to help educate others and bring awareness to narcissistic abuse. She is also a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach and works with clients all over the world heal from the trauma of narcissistic abuse, parental alienation and Complex Ptsd.
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They love drama! They'll take the smallest thing and turn it into a huge elephant. So childish and pathetic!
True
Yes sex was slow
The look on their face when they know you're onto them (and don't say a word about it) is priceless.
Dam it's off the hook real??you can see the evil in them!!!yes don't say shit!!!!
I found that look quite frightening...
My female Narc had the look of abject horror and sheer terror. We broke up 9 weeks later. The best thing that I could have hoped for.
@@wmhhealth2018 she knew, her jaw dropped. Astonishment and horror, the game was over...
They also love other people's misfortune
Yes very true.
Hmm, watch how envy can drool if not obsession gets lent a helping hand.
That was not very uplifting! I can't help but accept that everything will turn out well... for all with eyes to see and care enough to remain conscious and aware!
That's better! Keep your eye on the prize!
drppr Unfortunately, my mother is this sort of person. I really feel for her though, because she was born partly-deaf and had a traumatic childhood, then she married my father in her early twenties and had many traumatic years with him. She was put on a few psychiatric drugs, including a strong antipsychotic, which destroyed her health and her mind, so ended up in a nursing home when she was only 64 years old. She lives in another country and I haven't spoken to her for a long time (she can't hear me anyway), but I remember her saying that she couldn't wait until I'm 60 when I last spoke to her! She also did terrible things to me when I was a child and it's best if I don't talk to her anymore. I didn't mean to write so much and don't expect a reply. I have trouble keeping up with them anyway. 😟
@@cyndigooch1162 I'm sorry you had to go through that - hope you can now live at peace
Chaos and confusion is number one for me. Changing plans at last moment to keep you off balance.
Sabotaging everything: my parents.
Constant inducing of chaos and enjoying How that chaos hurts you Makes them feel powerful. F*** sadistic sickos.
I don't have anything to add to this video.
I agree to what and how Jill describes this.
It is so true.
Stay away from narcissists, they are toxic and fake people.
I was told I was “one of the most selfish people” she’s ever met. No one has called me that in my life. But I spent so much time thinking “Am I selfish?”
The exact same thing happened to me , I was called selfish so much, I actually started to believe it. Its their way of projecting their shame onto us . And it will make you crazy. Its mind fuckery.
Kevin Barry it’s crazy, dude. She legit stood me up on a Friday night. When I told her I didn’t appreciate that, the insults started flying. Like she legit hated my guts.
I know exactly what you mean I was married to one for five years I never knew what narcissism was until two years ago when I started putting all the pieces together. I hope you're out and I hope you're healing because it's the most crazy experience you'll ever go through in a relationship.. I don't even know you but through the experience I went through I promise you you're not a selfish person you gave that woman everything you had and she ate it up like it was candy. Just save yourself and get away from her.
Kevin Barry yes, I’m out. She dumped me like a literal piece of garbage. No empathy. You would have thought I kicked her grandmother down the stairs. The venom was unreal. I even said to her “what you’re saying is devastating.” Her response “should I not tell you these things because it will hurt your feelings.” It was heart-wrenching. No signs previously that she was unhappy. Then, boom: over.
She did you a favor. They are all cut from the same cloth. I caught mine cheating on me red-handed I waited till I had all the proof and she still denied it. And then it became my fault because she cheated on me. She pulled her pants down knowingly and it was my fault . I'd rather be on the curb then in the same house as that crazy woman. I promise you it's a blessing and it's the best thing that could ever happen. Chalk it up as a lesson learned.
She renovates and flips homes for side work. She disrobed in front of me, kissed me, went to work. I dug out her tree stump by hand. Silence. No "thank you." She brags on FB about her dating profile. 😡 This was my ex-wife who hovered me 5 years after divorce with "Let's be friends" I fell for it and she eventually seduced me into bed though I wanted to resist. She never cared about me. Been learning about NPD. Now everything bad in our marriage makes sense. I didn't know what NPD was, just that she was controlling and verbally abusive. Thought her behavior was something she would eventually change. Nope. She's definitely high on the narc spectrum. Now I know. I hate that I got sucked into a hoover but good came out of it; I am educating myself on NPD, coming to terms with why the marriage failed, and being less hard on myself now. I won't fall in love with this type again.
Don't feed the Monster
Went through something similar few years ago. Her infidelity was my fault. Everything was my fault and she loved drama...loved it. Glad I got out.
Praise God you got out
Jill... girl, I love you for enlightening everyone on this!!!! You explain in 15 min what it takes therapist 4 years to!!! I wish before I ever dated that I had this knowledge
Yes !,,, but you’re stronger now and wiser 👍💡
Off topic but that is a pretty first name.
Hi ! It's amazing how accurate you are about narcs. They are infact hidden monsters who take pleasure in playing games to hurt and to satisfy their satiable need to be more popular than the other. The only way to stay saine is not to fall for their games and turn a deaf ear. That would keep them quiet otherwise they wld continue to play their games for their egos. They love to provoke jealousy as they are very jealous people themselves except that they are too stupid to know how they are. It is imperative to ignore a narc when he or she starts to play emotional games as it wld affect one's health too. Thank you for your advice.
I recently discovered that narcissists hate group texting so everybody can be on the same page.
Yes, they are allergic to clarity, because they can’t confuse a group with their lies or manipulations.
The narc. in my life had no concept of compassion whatsoever.
So true, it took decades to see this. It crushed me at first but now I have nothing but relief knowing it wasn't me. Don't ever try to comprehend pure evil, just protect yourself and your children. One day you will be free.
It's pretty sad isn't it--that they feel the need to survive and thrive in this way. The best thing I've learned is to release that person and I'm thankful for the growth I feel I've experienced despite this man's narc traits. Good video with insights we as narc victims can all use. Thank you! ❤
Very much agree. Finally understanding is empowering. The sense of freedom is invigorating.
Victims don't need a licensed therapist: they need a fast car to get away. After just a few days of going no contact, away from their toxic company, you start to recover and feel better. Just don't go back!
I love that you said they’re bored. I’ve wondered for years how bored my narc mom must be because she doesn’t do anything. She doesn’t have any friends except one that she sees a few times a year. She doesn’t go on vacations. She doesn’t have any hobbies. I pointed this out to her one time and she said she’s too busy for hobbies, and her coworkers are her friends because they go out to eat for lunch sometimes. 😂
I think trust in a relationship is overrated. When my husband started getting frequent night calls , i would ask and he would just wave off those calls as unimportant. At a time i could take no more of his lies, i decided i deserve to know what was going on. A friend of mine referred me to this great ethical hacking team( Cyberhackingsage@gmail ) who helped clone his cellphone without having to touch the device. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad i found out all his secrets and infidelity and how he planned on using this pandemic to get back to me. I got access to his Facebook, iMessage, GPS location , WhatsApp, Call Logs and Text Messages (both deleted and incoming ones) with a remote link to a programmed App on my phone. I’m here in Florida and able to access my husband’s phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. If you need help or that little bit of closure, i advice you get in touch with them Via Gmail ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text and WhatsApp them on +15713758467...........thank me later.
Everything you say is 1000% correct. They are demons incarnate who rejoice in others misery, especially if they are the ones causing it.
Great video Jill! Also, narcissist DO NOT live in a vacuum. Some of the least likely people you'd expect are their narcissistic supply. They'll even tell you how much they dislike the person, but they're having an affair with them...horrible!!
Thank you so much! This is really helping me detach from the situation and stay no contact ❤️
Yes. She got k.n. trainwreck brother described TO A ,'T'"
Some of these things are finally sinking in. I absorbed all my father did by assuming it was all my fault and being ashamed of my self. Now I can see that he is actively violent to me emotionally and I am so, so sad and I cry now as I look at my broken relationship and all my pain. Thank you. I is painful but seeing the truth is ultimately healing! Thank you for spreading truth and helping healing, TET.
@kitty I can understand and relate to what you have gone through. It must have been very painful to face the abuse. Initially we think that it's better to give them benefit of the doubt but deep down our conscience and body rings the alarm bell within us that something is wrong or is not the normal healthy way. The thing is that people who are the victim of the narcissist, we chose not to reply them with the same abusive tone or remark as what they have thrown at us because normal healthy people believe that this will make us no different than they are. Also deep down we believe that by not replying them back with the same abusive way will make them realize their own mistakes. But here the difference lies, narcissists never realize whereas healthy people realize their mistakes. On top of that, we tend to value the relation above everything else and feel like it's better not to reply hoping that things will eventually improve. But it's the opposite, by doing this we give the narcissists immense power and sooner or later, they unleash hell on us with their verbal abuse.
I got married to a covert narcissist girl in November last year and the marriage didn't even last 20 odd days. The girl called her mother (she was on overt) to my place just after two weeks of marriage when she realized that I was not complying by her rules. She treated me like a servant instead of husband. Never cared for me and my wishes, said sarcastic remarks to me every now and then. Used to throw my clothes on the floor. Despite all of this, I was trying to show my love for her every day but it was never enough for her. I accepted her from day one the way she was and never forced her for anything or pointed out any fault in her ways of doing things even though I was witnessing things which healthy people don't do. She even said to me "I shouldn't have got married", it stuck in my mind, I kept asking and blaming myself everyday. She never did any of the household chores, I was doing almost everything from inside to outside of the home. Her mother called my a "psycho". I asked her mother to leave as I thought it's quite difficult to deal with 2 narcissists at the same time. Both the girl and her mother left the next day and filed for divorce. I am thankful to have got out from such toxic relationship. Everytime I was with her, I felt belittled, even if she didn't utter a word, my body could literally feel that I am being belittled. I believe it's true for every victim of the narcissist. I could sense that my beliefs, my ideals and my values were being challenged. Everything that I stood for or whatever morals I have, it felt like she was trying to say that it's all worthless. It's a strange feeling that can't be described in words. Jill has explained in a very subtle manner here.
I believe that the closer you are to the almighty, the earlier you will be able to see their motives and hidden agenda. So trust yourself and have faith in almighty and seek guidance from him. I prayed everyday and the almighty got me out of this in just 20 odd days. It could have been worse, may be the almighty realizes the patience level of each individual and he knew that I won't be able to handle it any longer, so he got me out even though I got out by getting ridiculed and abused and discarded at last.
Yes! My narc mom loves trying to stir up trouble between my sister and me. My sis and I are very close and are both aware of our mother's schemes, so it never works. Nmom tries to makes us jealous of one another, she twists our words about each other or outright lies about us to one another. Our mother is a pathetic collapsed narcissist and it's a bit sad to see her attempts at getting supply through these tactics when she's burned all her other bridges.
Holy smokes!,,, that’s my story !,,wow !,,, I can’t even talk to my mom because my sister lives with her !,, the triangulation sucks the life out of me !,,, the smear campaign,,, her jealousy ,,, ive never been able to get along fairly with those two ,,, it’s exhausting!!
I think trust in a relationship is overrated. When my husband started getting frequent night calls , i would ask and he would just wave off those calls as unimportant. At a time i could take no more of his lies, i decided i deserve to know what was going on. A friend of mine referred me to this great ethical hacking team( Cyberhackingsage@gmail ) who helped clone his cellphone without having to touch the device. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad i found out all his secrets and infidelity and how he planned on using this pandemic to get back to me. I got access to his Facebook, iMessage, GPS location , WhatsApp, Call Logs and Text Messages (both deleted and incoming ones) with a remote link to a programmed App on my phone. I’m here in Florida and able to access my husband’s phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. If you need help or that little bit of closure, i advice you get in touch with them Via Gmail ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text and WhatsApp them on +15713758467...........thank me later.
Amy Bennett It's extremely sad about your mother, but it's wonderful that you and your sister have stuck together! Unfortunately, it's not like that with me and my younger sister and it seems like it will never be okay. She's very narcissistic and has been on Prozac for about 25 years now, which has made the situation much worse. I've finally learnt that NOTHING is going to change, especially while she's on a drug that blunts empathy, so there's no point in even trying to talk to her about anyrhing. ❤
One of these creeps, aged 16 or so, has been getting pleasure in his school bullying and trying to crush the spirit of my disabled sister who also has learning difficulties. Beyond belief how low someone can be.
Thanks so much, Jill, for helping us keep the evil deeds that narcs do alive in our consciousness. We can maneuver away from them and shield ourselves from their toxic behavior because of your spot-on reminders.
Thanks for sharing your content. It is awesome to be empowered and know how to respond and protect ourselves from these monsters. I love to see their emotional grenades go off right in front of their faces, when I throw it right back at them. Just saying "No", ignoring their demands for dominance or attention, works every time.
Totally correct my mother is the monster
Jill, this is another video that presents things as they are, and I totally agree with you. I would like to point out one thing though. Nobody can ridicule you and ,make fun of you , or diminish you in any way, unless you give him the right and the means to do so through your own actions. The content of the channel is excellent. Keep it up!
I absolutely agree with you. I experienced this today. I got a text from a narc and it was so terrible but I knew he was trying to destroy me. I knew that he wanted me to respond angrily, in an uproar... He wanted me in pain and he wanted to know I was in pain. I didn't give him the satisfaction at all. My response was so awesome that I know it gave him a narc injury. I've seen enough and I've talked with him enough and now I'm going to go no contact.
@@farwm6651 I'm glad you did not allow his behaviour to affect your mood. But it is effective, if you use a strict manner towards a narc, even with a taste of anger in it, as this shows to the narc that you are on to him/her. What is the most important, is to actually feel ok and calm in mind , spirit and body, and that you make sure his behaviour if it manages to affect you, it does that only momentarily. In other words, it is not as important to make the narc believe that he has no power on you as actually not being affected by the narc in any way.
@@MariosEvoCyUnderstood. When I'm injured I feel the pain. I allow myself to feel the pain and to see what I can learn from it. If I respond to the person (narc), who has given me pain, with a response that they were NOT expecting, it's only because that's how I literally feel. My pain inflicted by the person (narc) lasts momentarily because my core is strong which enables me to continue and to enjoy life.
They'll try and the merit is ultimately deceipt.
This is so true, you are like an enlightening person to me to understand what it is, and why I was so much scared of that person, I didn't know he was narc, you have changed my life before it was destroyed, I read comments of people who had lived with narc for 30yrs. Thanks you saved me. Love from India.
so much rings true to my experience, even my daughter has set me up and is partaking in destroying my life, its horrendous painful hurtful heart breaking, it the pain never stops
It's like being in the Twilight Zone or The Outer Limits with them.
I moved 3000 miles from my family. I mind my own business, I hate the phone, I don't talk to them. Still I get phone calls now and then from every one, and at me. The nar. Stirs behind the scenes. Why do all believe her
I didn't change my phone number. I just made up my mind that if she ever calls me again, I will call her out for her narcissistic ways. I'm not afraid of her anymore. So she can just go take a long walk off a short pier, for all I care!
@Fred Fischer Mine is my sister-in-law. She's combo pack of narcissist/sociopath/toxic/and is a true Karen. You have it really bad there, with yours being in a profession where it is horrible to think that narc's can & do exist. I do recommend people get a new phone number or block their narc, but I decided that for me, I'm not going to capitulate to her & her insane demands. I am SO done with her!!! She'd best never come back into my life again. She will regret it if she does. Guaranteed!
This is my mom and sister. I have no contact with either. Life been peaceful now.
You are so on point. Thank you so much. They are murderers to the soul.
🤗 -This is the first of your videos I've ever watched, and it's one of the BEST narcissism videos I've ever seen !!! VERY insightful and to the point !!! Thanks !!!!
Thanks for the new content. Love your videos!
So true. As they know run out with their evil action the more they did it.
Thank you so much for these videos its helped me understand my last relationship.
When, after 22 years, I finally told my covert narcissist sister-in-law that I was on to her, that I see right through her and that I was fed up and done with her crap, the look on her face was priceless and pathetic at the same time. For some reason I felt badly and embarrassed for her being exposed.
O see the narcissist as a center of a Black hole, where whoever enters is sucked into chaos, and in this spiral, he is the hole itself, always bringing componentes and different situations to keep the hole from wich he or she feeds
Spot on commentary, miss. Well done!
Love your videos greetings from Ireland 🇮🇪🇮🇪
You just described my exiting husband! 25 years of misery, abuse, torment & more lonely in marriage than single! Oh ya my ex husband was a big gossip with his mother & sisters! I love ❤️ this video! Its a great reminder
Empaths love/Narcs hate:
Silence.
Space.
Aloneness.
Global Lockdown.
Global lockdown. Is that a thing to love? Are you INSANE?
Always looking forward to your videos 👍 God Bless Thanks for taking the time and helping so many people
I was with a narcissist for 10 years on and off.He is a Family Doctor. As he said highest education.Being a Doctor that he is. Do you think they have empathy.?I just stopped talking to him and will never call him or text him ever! He made my life hell,and it took 9 years to understand what he is truly is,!
Thank you for your powerful and clear video. 🤗
Spot on this is ..wow . I'm still trauma bonded even though I know a this . Go figure ...I'm in a. Emotional prison of my own Making
I finally understand why my narc ex husband would start projects around the house right before Christmas every damn year
He knew I loved the holidays and he was a grinch. He also knew my stress levels were very high at Christmas with all the shopping, baking, cleaning, decorating i did in preparation of the big day. So what does he do? ADDS TO THE STRESS!
Can you talk on sociopaths at all? I believe they always need things:
Narcs- Drama for Attention/Loosh
Socios- money, prestige
Psychopaths- power and control
Thank you 😘
Love your videos and they help me with my own introspection. Thank you!
I really appreciate your work. You have a great format. Your points are very clear and easy to understand. Keep up the great work! Bullseye 🎯
It sounds like you are describing anyone possessed with evil spirits!
It is like this👾
You can feel & see it flare in their eye, a look of malice & self-hating fire that is actually enjoyed by the person. It sends a shiver up your spine to suddenly realize at a profound core: OMG, this person is being taken over by an evil force.
The narc in my life was possessed, I'll swear she was.
We called our mother the purple glassy-eyed monster when we were little. She used to have a big purple bathrobe she'd wear around the house after work and on the weekends. Boy, she could give you a look that made your blood run cold. Hatred. And to think we all thought that was normal, that all mothers had to discipline their kids by staring at them with evil in their eyes. Well, it's NOT normal! I see what she is now. Covert narcissist.
@@jacquiejy But... guess who is stronger and better off today! and once we realize our true purpose in this life, it all becomes clear and with divine guidance, we easily accept the new and right path for us! What a difference! true love makes! I LOVE you for every nasty, ugly, evil look she ever gave you and in her ignorance, selfishness and wrong upbringing, even the Creator Himself knew, that if she had a chance to ever open her eyes and see even her own self, nothing less than a soul such as yourself, could ever manage to do so and open her eyes to any truth but what she herself, was exposed to, from the cradle to the grave... and then came you and now, He will show you, from within, how to save her own soul! Wow! are you special! How do I know? I have the same!
With me, it was the chaos. It was one thing after another right from the very beginning of our relationship. I think it makes her feel special and so very interesting to have some calamity in her life to hold up like a weird show and tell. The problem was I had to clean up all the mess. Before I left, I was pretty firm with my boundaries which eventually resulted in her losing interest in me. I think she knows what she is. These tortuous urges she has control her. She will never be happy. Such a pathetic way to live. I almost feel sorry for her.
Love your videos Jill, they are wonderful, thank you.
Spot on as usual.
Powerful! Truth!
Thank you!! Another on-time video.
Yes, yes, yes, & YES!! Jill thank you
You are so accurate.
How is this for no empathy? I’m a type one diabetic. I was with my ex fiancé narcissist for three years (I’ve been out for two)-the whole time we were together he refused to acknowledge my disease. Now,I don’t live my life for my disease,but when you’re with somebody you have to know how to take a blood sugar, how to recognize the signs of low blood sugar etc. etc. He refused to do it. He said he would “know when it happened”. Really? Toward the end when I was done with him (because I discarded him!)all of a sudden he wanted to learn and go to the doctor with me etc. etc. and he gave a shit. Yeah right. I truly believe I could have dropped dead in front of him and he wouldn’t have noticed.
I THINK YOU ARE JUST PRECIOUS!
Your right. Been there done that bought the t-shirt. You show no emotional validation for them whatsoever. You let them bow down to you. When they are in a problem, leave them alone. Your the cause now you’re going to feel the effects.🤔🧐ℹ️💯✅❤️✝️🙏🏿📖🗡👊🏿👌🏿👍🏿☯️😎
Ohhh this is exactly how it is, i had a really abusing narcissist Exgirlfriend...she manipulative, mentally abusing, mind games, super chaos ( ive never been through chaos...only with her ) , she enjoyed hurting me verbally and even raised her hand on me....i think all those evil Narcissist are not Human, no kidding...really evil , best thing is to adopt a cat, and live with true love : animals , especially cats
Some cats can be narcissistic too.
Agree whole heartedly !!!.
Thankyou so much
Hi Jill! Good Morning!!
This helps me so much.
Thanks
Thank you
Is it normal to second guess yourself about people's intentions? Everything you say strikes a cord, it's like you're describing my mother as if you've already met her. But sometimes, when I watch these videos, it's so hard to believe some people's minds actually function like that. Especially a parent. Towards their own child. I understand what my mother is, but I struggle to understand the thought process and I question my own reality. Like I know for certain what happened to me, she treated me no better than a dog. But I sometimes think "am I remembering correctly?" or "did this stuff really happen, is it all in my head?" and "is that the way my mother really felt about me?"
My dad, mom, and husband are monsters now I’m in freedom and I love it
Great video!!!
My ex-mother in law,projects her overly emotional reactions,and feelings on to me and my daughter.when That happens,I have to explain to cammy that ,despite the lies they push as the truth,I stay away from them,because they(the whole family)antagonize until they gain an emotional reaction,(then they call the police (the reaction was usually bad)claiming they are victims.all the while they sit back and laugh at how they hurt you.
Absolutely correct 👍
I never did figure out he was a narcissist I did not know they existed ,only after I divorced him I had enough
And ran in to the sunset ,my son did suffer worse then me I never left until my son was married and safely away from the horrible life we suffered together !!!
They are dark and read from the same handbook, transferring or inflicting pain, pretending or mirroring the empath. I have to work/care for one.
Love you Jill! ❤️🌹
The chaos K.N my sibling loves to do-ruins funerals, tantrum at weddings__ public dinners, TELLING MY MOM THAT DAD WAS A cheating LIAR ! "'It neededto be said"'big mouth KN INSISTS always
"People of the Lie" the hope for healing human evil. A groundbreaking book written by a psychiatrist, Dr. M. Scott Peck, who became a born again Christian after writing this epoch.
Sounds interesting! "People of the Lie"! As a child, I wondered, how, in the last days, the world would run on lies! Now I see it before my eyes! Prophecies of all kinds being fulfilled to a "T"!
@@theresefournier3269 Amen brother. That epic book was written by a psychiatrist, who are normally atheists, or agnostic. Dealing with science and meds. But this guy just described some mainstream people as evil, as they destroy people with their facade of lies. He then truly became a born again Christian.
@@theresefournier3269 Also, keep your eternal "mustard seed of Faith" in these last days, as Christ instructed us to do. And we can move any mountains of despair.
@@chrishamilton5181 People like us have faith the size of that mountain! and we never allow anyone or anything to separate us from Him that now dwells within us! It's a covenant alright! and we're His children! HalleluYah
@@chrishamilton5181 Bravo for that doctor! They are far and few in between! HalleluYah for that too! and praise to Almighty, who knows how to reach even the simplest or the wisest of us all who put any sort of sincere, genuine and true faith in His Word of Love and Life! Eternal life that is!
Thank you for sharing but yrs ago I meet a man who was a narc who hit me but regretted that day because his ass went straight to the hospital🙌🏽🙌🏽💆🏼💆🏼I am a woman who believes if a man abuse and hit then one must take serious action🎯😇🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💞💞💞💞
Mine just stole 30,000 from me. Now he’s gone. The abuse got so bad at the end I was suffering so badly.
Oh God, they are so twisted...
My daughter and I have recently discussed my ex, her mother, being a "Narcissist" my comment was I see how you get that but I think its more like counselor "Cindy" diagnosed which is clinical insecurity. She displays many of these things you mention BUT her world is an "eor" "poor me" type existence...she lacks empathy etc but the ALIENATION is the real issue for my daughter. She was used to supervise her older brother who was more of an "ally" to me versus her when compared to my daughter. She tacitly made these things apparent and my daughter was far more AWARE of this than my son. We had an extreme distance for visitation and this did not help. I worked hard to do a once a month regiment of visitation. Holidays on top of that as well but I did get counseling to help her deal with obvious alienation symptoms at age 10 or so. By age 12 or 13 they subsided but she was still quite tender when it came to her mom.
Gaslighting is my ex to a T. She does this to my daughter who has inherited my dads brain...THANK GOD...she literally shreds her up each time...but it drives her nuts. How do we proceed? She is now 24.
The things listed below are. Exactly. Right ,. Because. You are watching this video. Speaks volumes,. YOU ARE UNDER ATTACK ,. LEARN ALL YOU CAN ! YOU MUST RUN. !
Jill will you do a video on why some people will jump from abusive relationship to another
On number 4 if she believes the alienation of my daughter hurts me isn’t she winning in her mind? I’m bothered by the circumstances yes, but
Is there a way to combat against giving her supply?
I have been doing everything through the courts, it’s slow and when I do get a date she doesn’t show up. I thank God for people like you that have helped me along in my healing and more importantly my understanding of what she is.
It’s been almost 2 years and my daughter will be 2 I haven’t seen her and MY daughter and family have never been able to meet her yet. The only communication is through my own accord in giving money per week through an app. Any advice I would greatly appreciate! Maybe you could email me
Or I will hopefully get a notification if you respond.
Thanks 🤎
Selfish and Jealous.
Pure greed. Sounds like the devil.
Spot on
Narcs a dime a dozen... EMPATHS ARE PRICELESS!
Yes he stabbed me in the back numerous times... meanwhile ... the rest of us know about people who live in glass houses....
Narcissists are so addicted to narcissistic supply if they are living alone or they along with their immediate family becomes socially isolated will then resort to causing chaos outside their home in the city they live in or if they have enough resources depending on their resentments and grudges being held will cause chaos, across state or provincial and national boundaries and across oceans sometimes while using airplanes and their employees and their children to accomplish it instead. And if any employee or child of theirs protests the narcissist launches immediate into a smear campaign about them next too. All of a sudden sometimes overnight an employee or a child of theirs can go from being raved about to anyone who will listen to then according to them being one among the worst kind of people in the word to ever be around while claiming that could not ever be when it comes to them not both borderline and dichotomous thinking too.
Thanks.
Soooooo true xxx
I kinda don’t understand the point of life. My whole life is filled with narcissist and I’m super tired of being strong.
Can you do a video on if the supply cheats and how it affects the narc and supply? Yep I’m guilty of it and he set it up to where he got me to come clean then flew to Vegas the same week and did the same and now feel horrible about it cause I love him but why did I do it then!
Entity not species, they're still human but different beings
Possessed
... Thanks so much for clarifying these crazymaking attitudes... I m just wondering... Clinically speaking could this be classified as Scizofrenia?
Check this our Jill. Observation of a sadistic narcissist outside of a coffee shop. I am calling this THE STING.
This opened up in front of me and shows the sadistic side of these clowns.
I ordered a bacon roll and a banana milkshake "to go"from a local cafe but because it was a beautiful day, i decided to sit outside.
After chatting with a friend on my phone, i became aware of a large red-faced man staring directly at me but with a stare i recognised. It was trance-like and as i looked back, three times, then a fourth, i glanced at my milkshake and saw that a wasp had decided to "bathe" in my milk-shake. I came to realise this is what this clown was staring at.
I looked back at him three more times and during me talking to a waitress about the possibility of a replacement milkshake he was still staring. Then, in the blink of an eye, he disappeared...but he had NOT disappeared.
As i drank my replacement milk-shake a finished my roll and turned to leave..there he was, positioned on my other side behind me. But WHY?...
He stuttered out in a conversation with me some words which horrified me...."ha, ha, ha...that was a near miss with your wasp...i wondered how you managed not to get stung".
In that split second i worked out what he was up to. He was staring at the milk-shake and waiting for me to suck the straw and the wasp with it and his move to another position was so obviously for a better view. What this fool had missed in his move from chair to chair, was the swift replacement by the waitress of my milk-shake.
Now, coupled with these events and his obvious "life story about his homelessness, getting a flat and being a former doorman(security man), i looked at him in a different light.
This sadistic son of a bitch had been willing NOT to tell me about something very important which could have turned life-threatening.
I deliberately listened to more of his bull-crap about his life...then stopped him mid-flow with a question...
" ...i have to catch a bus now..but please tell me this...dumb question but WHY THE F*CK DIDN'T YOU TELL ME ABOUT THE WASP??"...
He just laughed with a narcky stare once again aimed at me. So, something i have learned in the past. The narcs hate you staring at them...so i turned around, took off my sunglasses and without as much as another word...STARED DIRECTLY AT HIM...he got up from his chair immediately and left, swearing his stupid little head off. As i walked away, an old lady grabbed my wrist and said..."WHAT DID YOU JUST DO??....did you tell him to leave with your mind young man...I SAW THAT...I SAW THAT".
I left with these words..."WORRY NOT DEAR LADY..he won't be back..take care now".
....and i left with knowledge to share with you and your subscribers Jill.
ENJOY....they can be got at!!!!
....and STUNG!!!!!
What a great story, loved it
@@hippopotamus6765 ..there is MORE.
Yesterday, i went back to that cafe with a friend...suddenly, from nowhere STINGER-NARC(my new name for the fool above) was standing behind us in a queue...this was NO coincidence.
I sent my friend down the High Street and told him i would explain...bought another milkshake an coffee "to go" and walked out past STINGER-NARC with no contact, headphones on and zero eye contact....in a puff of smoke, i was gone.
This clown, like all narcissists is targeting folk.
@@BLITZY261 years ago I had a similar situation. A neighbour who was the known village idiot used to feed hundreds of parrots out the front of his house. He was known as Birdman and consistently exhibited bizarre behaviour. One day I arrive at the shops and he was there. He was overwhelmed with excitement when he saw me, bending down to read my number plates as I got out of the car. I said to him are you alright mate. His reply was "no I'm left." And disappeared behind a brick column.
He was known to have bipolar disorder.
I bin in that for more then 3 years,,, but I still don´t get it. I left 2 month ago, without any contact... But 14 days ago on my birthday, and on that day she put a ProfilPicture on Facebook that I know the story about... I can´t figure out if it was a coincidence, or if it was done because she know, that I know????
Please help me my name is Catherine and I was diagnosed with complex PTSD I believe my mother is narcissistic due to the things that she's done and the way that she's treated me so I guess this is why I continue to fall into narcissistic relationships, my narcissistic partner is killing me inside killing my spirit I don't know how to keep pushing through I'm only human I honestly can't take the hurt anymore I've tried going no contact multiple times and she always finds a way to get around it I really can't take anymore and I need help can someone please help me I'm hanging on by a thread here. 😪
Sounds like you need to heal from codependency. Look that up. Also, get away from your partner and mother, they are not your friends and will sabotage your recovery.
After 32 yrs I've believe that the lie was I am totally completely uncommitted to being comit ed to you!!
How does the narc know they've hurt someone?