It's called selective mutism. It's not as easy to get out of habit not talking after the amount of time she did without speaking and the conditioning from home didn't help things. Also stressful situation will never be a time when the child will over come it the stress would make the ability to talk even harder then in a normal situation.
I was also quiet during classes at school, not mute ( I did speak up rarely at times). For me it was the fear of saying something wrong and getting judged by other students or even teachers. As Tabbes said high school was not a fun time.
I’m a select mute. It’s not bad at all...until your teachers start bugging you about it. Then it sucks but you still don’t talk for whatever reason. AKA me.
I'm not exactly select mute, I can talk if I want to, I just choose not to and it does get difficult sometimes- I don't understand your struggle exactly, but I get the jist of it. I'm taking sign language classes over summer break to easier communicate (at least, my mum is trying to find someone who can teach me. She doesn't really know abt the whole not talking at all thing, but she knows I don't want to talk. I'm not selective mute and I don't claim to be, I'm not trying to start mini drama at all.)
@@avenbee5021 I use to be fine but now since I was 9 (I'm 14 now) my famliy( mom dad sister) have been yelling at me for their mistakes and my sister can hit me but if I hit back I get beat I'm not a select mute but this is my 2nd day not taking to them I didn't write everything they did but its really bad trust me I do plan on taking to them after they say there sorry but thats unlikey of them to do tbh they haven't even relized I'm not talking to them yet if you want I can tell you more of the things they do/did to make me do this but I just wanted to get this off my chest and I do feel a lil better
On the spectrum here, and as Jill put it, yeah selective mutism happens. It's probably why it was so hard/impossible for her to break. I know when I get super stressed, all of a sudden my blabbermouth is quiet, I get stuck in my head and I WANT to say ti aloud, to reassure my hubs and my dad and my kiddos it's fine, but I'm to the point of stress/overwhelm that it all just shuts down and I'm basically in myself. Like I can motion, I could probably write, but talking is just impossible. Basically, the stress has to let up enough/I need to calm down enough for it to get better on it's own.
A few things. One Tabbes is a girl. Two sure sign language is great and all but in a normal middle school not everybody knows how to read sign language.
Wulf well I’m sure the teacher would be advised hat the child is mute so even if they don’t know sign language the kid could write things out maybe there are also apps for text to speech a kid in my school uses it
I didn’t talk to my teachers or any adults because I had Anthrophobia and they made me get held back a year for that. And I was only in 1st grade back then. That was the first time I learned how crew the world was because there were other kids who failed all their classes but they still got to go to the next grade.
I’m just like how tabbes was and even if I try to talk at school my throat feels like I can’t, my voice gets very low and I start to get tears, it’s actually hard to talk 🗿
I'm all kinds of late but Sign Language is a thing and having the option of not verbally talking in certain situations was exactly why I want to learn- even now.
the thing is.. if there was serious issues and someone goes mute... a teacher shouldn't be pushing a student into that. Those teachers have no idea why she stopped talking. Thats not really acceptable.
Oh my teacher threatened me with my grades So I was "acting up" and he told me to go to my seat so.. I did then like 5 seconds after he said "You know what? I have a meeting with the principal and other teachers later today I might have to hold you back" My mind- BOY YOU WOULDN'T DARE MY GRANDMOTHER WOULD MESS YOU UP IF YOU HOLD ME BACK FOR "acting up" SHUT YOUR DIRTY PIE HOLE MOUTH UP
I was completely mute. But on the last day of high school, I finally spoke and everybody was calling it mute teen's finally spoken day cause people just thought being mute was *COOL* I did not know why. I was the first to be mute in my high school so people started to do it too. And when I stopped they did. I took it as a compliment but they were just like - we wanted to be like you dark edgy and stuff but I was just emotionless and mute is that actually edgy??? I was emotionless cause people tend to try to do pranks to make people cry. I thought it was pointless doing that and crying or wasting your time feeling I don't know what my mindset was but I bet it was crazy
My teacher always says "I don't speak head-nod" whenever someone shakes their head yes or no to one of her questions. So, being mute in my class is not an option.
Your teacher is ableist because it a condition called selective mutism and the people who have it can’t help it so your teacher needs to be fired because she’s not being inclusive of all the students in her class
IF a kid didn't break out of their shell to help someone...RED FLAGS! I would be the nosiest person and be like oh yeah your parents need a talkin to. 'Yes, hello, I would like to address your child being mute." Parents: Sh!t this teacher
I been mute for 7 months for bullys snd cyber bullys. I gained depression.. And gianed trust issues for being betrayed 3 times. So I decided to have no friends not play and not talk. 7 months later i gianed friends.
lol i was like this but there was no resson i was just shy i guess and everytime i tried to talk my throat would hurt and ill tear up, so i kinda understand why she didnt talk if she felt that too
I didn’t talk in elementary school at all in 3rd grade I started talking and then I got bullied because people thought I was very weird but I’m middle school I got accepted for who I was so I’m happy now :p also I’m a chatter box now
i went thru a realy quit phase it went on for all of elementry school i went through each year saying 2 word it basicly gave me an idea to not talk my mom askes me what do i have to say for my self having nothing to say i thought hey i have nothing to say so why ever say anything i was stupid
You all woke up at 7 o clock I freaking woke up at 5 o clock EVERYDAY and if you didn't the bus will leave without you and i even sleep in class and my teacher didn't notice because everyone sleeps in class
I'm not surviving this mrs. Realest class I am one of the quiet cuz I don't speak very often and when I do it's either because someone's ask me a question I'm talking to my friends that's it
That's me i didn't care for anything nore anyone i had my own miss realest i told her " i don't care if you died and your child got a spike threw her head!"and i got sent to the principal,and the psychiatrist and she gave up on me and i just spent the hole 8 grade's with not a single word
It's called selective mutism. It's not as easy to get out of habit not talking after the amount of time she did without speaking and the conditioning from home didn't help things. Also stressful situation will never be a time when the child will over come it the stress would make the ability to talk even harder then in a normal situation.
Jill Hewitt you could just comment this on the actual video
100 like :)
Jill Hewitt also I want to take a moment to enjoy your profile picture it’s sooooo beautiful
I think I had this for the past few years and this video pretty much explains it all
I think I might have the same yhing
I was also quiet during classes at school, not mute ( I did speak up rarely at times).
For me it was the fear of saying something wrong and getting judged by other students or even teachers.
As Tabbes said high school was not a fun time.
ちゃんTsukiko 月子 me too but I talk to my friends
Me too but its because im scared of my teachers
I’m a select mute. It’s not bad at all...until your teachers start bugging you about it.
Then it sucks but you still don’t talk for whatever reason.
AKA me.
I'm select mute as well literly went from talking to my friend to using sign language the secount my teacher came up
I'm not exactly select mute, I can talk if I want to, I just choose not to and it does get difficult sometimes- I don't understand your struggle exactly, but I get the jist of it. I'm taking sign language classes over summer break to easier communicate (at least, my mum is trying to find someone who can teach me. She doesn't really know abt the whole not talking at all thing, but she knows I don't want to talk. I'm not selective mute and I don't claim to be, I'm not trying to start mini drama at all.)
@@avenbee5021 I use to be fine but now since I was 9 (I'm 14 now) my famliy( mom dad sister) have been yelling at me for their mistakes and my sister can hit me but if I hit back I get beat I'm not a select mute but this is my 2nd day not taking to them I didn't write everything they did but its really bad trust me I do plan on taking to them after they say there sorry but thats unlikey of them to do tbh they haven't even relized I'm not talking to them yet if you want I can tell you more of the things they do/did to make me do this but I just wanted to get this off my chest and I do feel a lil better
Iam okey with the teacher my clasmates bugg me off for not talking to them or that i dont talk that much
@@idk-ou2qm I’m so sorry I hope things get better
"Who is yiff?" oh my sweet summer child-
XD
What is yiff though? I'm scared to search it up 😅
@@notmyrealname6040 basically furry porn
@@notmyrealname6040 DON'T LOOK IT UP
@@rozaeees what is a porn
"In the real world You need communication skills..."
The mute community says... nothing, but they wave hi.
Jason Hathaway
*paper*
*sign language*
*white board*
“Yeah okay lol”
text to speech :0
Pretend everyone's naked and you'll be fi-
Wrong situation
@VYRUS calm down bud.
Dem kids be like
DRUG ADIC
Five?!
lol
On the spectrum here, and as Jill put it, yeah selective mutism happens. It's probably why it was so hard/impossible for her to break.
I know when I get super stressed, all of a sudden my blabbermouth is quiet, I get stuck in my head and I WANT to say ti aloud, to reassure my hubs and my dad and my kiddos it's fine, but I'm to the point of stress/overwhelm that it all just shuts down and I'm basically in myself. Like I can motion, I could probably write, but talking is just impossible.
Basically, the stress has to let up enough/I need to calm down enough for it to get better on it's own.
AyChristin: who is yiff
Me: oh boy... where do I begin...
Oh God please NO
Who is yiff
Saul Vishera idk either ;-;
@@milkncookies4632 I learned from comments its furrys doing adult..... stuff....
Saul Vishera .
If a teacher wants me to talk even though I won't talk ...and gives me a Zero ..
I'd be writing a narrative and send it to the local news station
I like your profile picture just saying
*YOU SHALL NOT PASS!*
I give your comment a Pass
@@soulessyuri5649 thanks! , now I can go get pizza
And they all lived happily ever after because Luna Crest got Pizza
Hope its Pineapple pizza
@@soulessyuri5649 pineapple meatfeast?
Here’s one thing that would make Mrs. Realist’s thingy not work. What if.... somebody...... COULDN’T ACTUALLY SPEAK!
Then she would know that this person can't speak and wouldn't bother him.
Wulf sign language my boi
A few things. One Tabbes is a girl. Two sure sign language is great and all but in a normal middle school not everybody knows how to read sign language.
Wulf well I’m sure the teacher would be advised hat the child is mute so even if they don’t know sign language the kid could write things out maybe there are also apps for text to speech a kid in my school uses it
Red,Ribbons, Roses well you gots a good point.
I didn’t talk to my teachers or any adults because I had Anthrophobia and they made me get held back a year for that. And I was only in 1st grade back then. That was the first time I learned how crew the world was because there were other kids who failed all their classes but they still got to go to the next grade.
I’m just like how tabbes was and even if I try to talk at school my throat feels like I can’t, my voice gets very low and I start to get tears, it’s actually hard to talk 🗿
sounds like selective mutism. might want to go to a therapist for that
I'm all kinds of late but Sign Language is a thing and having the option of not verbally talking in certain situations was exactly why I want to learn- even now.
The video that tabbes made is relatable..
I'm a very quiet person at times.I feel like i'll say the wrong thing and make someone angry
the thing is.. if there was serious issues and someone goes mute... a teacher shouldn't be pushing a student into that. Those teachers have no idea why she stopped talking. Thats not really acceptable.
i dont talk to people in public that often. Because i'm shy.
christen your not alone xD
I used to pronounce "tabbes" as "tables" ;^;
Me: mom can i get my phone
Mom: YOU SHALL NOT PASS
me: ;-;
I fully support this reaction u credited her witch is realy respectable
Oh my teacher threatened me with my grades
So I was "acting up" and he told me to go to my seat so.. I did then like 5 seconds after he said "You know what? I have a meeting with the principal and other teachers later today I might have to hold you back"
My mind- BOY YOU WOULDN'T DARE MY GRANDMOTHER WOULD MESS YOU UP IF YOU HOLD ME BACK FOR "acting up" SHUT YOUR DIRTY PIE HOLE MOUTH UP
I was completely mute. But on the last day of high school, I finally spoke and everybody was calling it mute teen's finally spoken day cause people just thought being mute was *COOL* I did not know why. I was the first to be mute in my high school so people started to do it too. And when I stopped they did. I took it as a compliment but they were just like - we wanted to be like you dark edgy and stuff but I was just emotionless and mute is that actually edgy??? I was emotionless cause people tend to try to do pranks to make people cry. I thought it was pointless doing that and crying or wasting your time feeling I don't know what my mindset was but I bet it was crazy
Tabbes, is pronounced tabs it's spelled kind of funny though. Love you so much!!
My teacher always says "I don't speak head-nod" whenever someone shakes their head yes or no to one of her questions. So, being mute in my class is not an option.
Your teacher is ableist because it a condition called selective mutism and the people who have it can’t help it so your teacher needs to be fired because she’s not being inclusive of all the students in her class
Me watching this : hmmm, this sounds like a good idea. I'm gonna be mute for as long as I can
I hate talking seriously it’s probably my number one fear or socialization with strangers
I mean it’s my number one fear to not or I accidentally misspelled
Christine I herd your baby 💜💜. Congrats
At 7:03
ThisIsALongNameForAChannel YT *heard**
Everyone knows
@@galactie8335 damn ok it was a mistake...
@@Anon-np7nd tHeN cOrReCt It
The baby's like *HELLO, IVE BEEN EXPECTING YOU*
" yall will let me now down below" are we your google?
*TrIgGeReD cOmMeNt WaRnInG*
bad little phoenix munoz *who is yiff*
She is just asking if any of us know it.
I think we are
@@thehollowayproject1445 I have never been so useful in my life ._.
Hey Christine! :D i hope you're doing good today :3
What everyone says : I used to be a quiet kid but now I'm not😁
What I say : I used to be an outgoing kid, but now in my quiet one 😆😅😂
For the first 3 years of my life I never spoke. I just observed evreything
its tabs ok ? and i really like your vid and hers to :D'
Wow, I asked if you could do a video on tabbs a week ago. So happy you actually decided to do it
IF a kid didn't break out of their shell to help someone...RED FLAGS! I would be the nosiest person and be like oh yeah your parents need a talkin to. 'Yes, hello, I would like to address your child being mute."
Parents: Sh!t this teacher
I been mute for 7 months for bullys snd cyber bullys.
I gained depression..
And gianed trust issues for being betrayed 3 times.
So I decided to have no friends not play and not talk.
7 months later i gianed friends.
Love you Christine!💗
Omg please more tabbes
*who's yiff* how innocent are you what woman-
YOU SHALL NOT PASS
me:0-0 °-°
♡♡♡♡♡
You are amazingggggg
Your art is amazingggg
Yay!!!! She reacted to it!!!! Love your videos!
OMG "WHO IS YIFF" GTFO WHAAAAA WHAT U MEAN YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YIFFING IS XD
@@petrified7221 it's nasty
10:20 did she just say que(what)- **GASP** SHES SPANISH
I was the one that had no friends cause I was so quiet I was super shy and I did that in kindergarten now I’m in 5’th grade 👌😎
"crip crip crip" lmao 1:12
lol i was like this but there was no resson i was just shy i guess and everytime i tried to talk my throat would hurt and ill tear up, so i kinda understand why she didnt talk if she felt that too
When aychristene uploads a video 😮😀😌🙆
YASSS MORE TABBES!!!
"Who is Yiff?" Oh god lordy no!!! lol.
Everyone in my class calls me lumberjack for no reason 🤨
Christine: who is yi-
Me: oh shush child you don’t want to know
OH MY GOD I LOVE TABBES.
*"Hello. I've been expecting you."*
“HeLlO I’v BeEn ExPeCtINg yOu”
I would have been selective mute if I could've controlled my voice...
OMG I LOVE DIS VIDEO
I CANT EVEN STAY QUIET FOR 5 MINUTES
I love tabbes
0:23 SAITAMA? IS THAT YOU?
I didn’t talk in elementary school at all in 3rd grade I started talking and then I got bullied because people thought I was very weird but I’m middle school I got accepted for who I was so I’m happy now :p also I’m a chatter box now
I can't even be mute for a day
7:32 TheOddOnesOut book!!
It named the hated child mad by me
i can relate well my class mate can relate she never EVER talks
7:03 Christine your baby is crying!!
Who else heard the baby cry in the background?
For your information She has a baby
@@vacui1 really?
@@reaganburns3270
Yep
i went thru a realy quit phase it went on for all of elementry school i went through each year saying 2 word it basicly gave me an idea to not talk my mom askes me what do i have to say for my self having nothing to say i thought hey i have nothing to say so why ever say anything i was stupid
The captions said" hey Mr vodka scene"
introverts after reading the title: *Starts clapping hands*
*Takis > cabbage* do you mean *TAKIS > ALL FOOD*
"what's yif?"
OH NO
What if she was actually mute (like unable to speak)? Then they;d literally be talking to somone who CANT talk and trying to get a miute to talk
"Who's yiff?" she said
"WhO's Y i F f ?"
When it's almost been 3 years since this video released
7:55
*say something I'm giving up on you*
Why would a teacher say the quiet ones won't pass when most teachers say don't talk and you should pass so it makes no sense
Different : I am depressed
U stay depressed
I have depression
U can conquer
Tabbes I LOVE HER SHE THE FUCKING BEST
Tabbs is how say dat
I was watching your videos and i saw this xD
You don't wanna know who yiff is
You all woke up at 7 o clock
I freaking woke up at 5 o clock
EVERYDAY and if you didn't the bus will leave without you and i even sleep in class and my teacher didn't notice because everyone sleeps in class
I'm not surviving this mrs. Realest class I am one of the quiet cuz I don't speak very often and when I do it's either because someone's ask me a question I'm talking to my friends that's it
13:15 she was throwing up not even close to dropping...
I was mute for 11 mouths because my mom left my dad and I don't know why
*I clicked as fast as I could..*
may be there was a 4 year old in her class
AHH OMG NEW VID FROM HER ... Its not bmc.. I guess ill still watch
I went 5 years without taking.
Tabbed has a new video
It's night here
For me its 3:21 PM
@@nemu_gamez9380 20:28 here :D
@@nemu_gamez9380 you like gacha
@@wafflezyas3829 Yep That's My channel
I rarely talk at school...
Love your videos
I been mute for 6 years even now
It pronounces to (Tab-bees) XD
no its tabs like internet tabs
"Who's yiff" poor cristen
That's me i didn't care for anything nore anyone i had my own miss realest i told her " i don't care if you died and your child got a spike threw her head!"and i got sent to the principal,and the psychiatrist and she gave up on me and i just spent the hole 8 grade's with not a single word
6:19 you shall not pass !
"heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeell no"