Hey I’ve got some really great news to share with you, Jesus Christ, the Son of God, died on a cross and resurrected on the third day so you may all have eternal life. If you believe and repent of your sins and put your faith and trust in Him as you would a parachute jumping off a plane at 25000 feet up in the air, He will give you eternal life in heaven as a free gift and I promise you, He will change your life forever as He did mine. He is the ONLY way to heaven and He loves you all. Please think deeply about this with urgency because this is your eternal life and soul, you don’t know when you could die, meaning you could die at any moment, so please consider this with all your heart. If anyone tells you that Jesus isn’t the only way, they are lying to you and they don’t care about your future.
@@IssaIbrahim1 this will be long but I will do it bro I'm only 22 years old and I've lost family members ghosted by friends cheated on/played by women disrespect by other men and I was even shot at by gang members So I realized if I want reality to be mines I with the weight N buried of existence on my shoulders I have to do it my way & these next 21 months of grinding will make it my way N I'll return as the monster
Just to be clear, going ghost mode is letting go of distractions but disappearing from the face of the earth in the true sense isn't particularly good because as much crap as you feel inside you there are still people that truly love you like your family, you just don't let their opinions impact your final goal.. but you can still have some type of communication with them.
Yeah I'd say not to completely cut off close family/friend members but interact less than you normally would, and then once you've gone through this journey, resume however feels natural
yeah, people often confuse things here. to me the real meaning is to be only around good people you are close to, while ignoring not so good ones and those who are just there, no matter what kind of people they are. to me it is about limiting social media and less socialising, but working on your health, improving your life and making your dreams come true instead. it is about rejecting conformity for something better. also, it is about not telling a single soul what are you up to, and then surprising them with the results. i hope that i will last for a year this time. I tried to disappear for the entire year of 2023, but in the march some bad things started happening and dealing with them became a top priority. i still accomplished so much in the two and a half months that it surprised me. I am not telling a single soul about it all yet because I am not done. Tomorrow is my birthday and I am starting again. Hope that the life won't trow another huge bad thing at me this time.
I applaud you for your hardwork and I liked this video. But one thing I want to say is that "having tea with your mother" is priceless and is probably worth your time.
Yes, also you never know how long your parents are with you in life. I would understand if you have a bad situation or problems with your parents but otherwise you should not be that disrespectful to your parents.
I am a woman but I feel you in almost everything you have said. Thank you so much for your content. I sent this to my son but I wanted to tell you that I needed this 💪
Amazing energy, brother. Was very surprised that you still are such a small channel, the production level was top notch. Thank you for creating amazing value!
I think this is a neccessity for any young man. I made the most progress at the start of the 2020 lockdowns when I went ghost and grinded. I did see it important to return somewhat when I had got most of the way there, it can be easy to disappear forever and keep solo grinding but its important to phase back in the people who really care about you after a few months so the friendships and relationships don't burn out or keep close friends close.
Yes. Bcz after the ghost mode is tuned off, you'll be looking for people back in your life for any kind of emotional/social support. We aren't animals or machines. We're social beings, and we need human company in different times of life.
I'm so blessed that I found your channel bro! I started 2nd month of my monk mode (s-retention 3rd week bc of relapse), exercising daily and writing my journal. While I started this routine, two things dropped off,- drinking coffee and friends. But what came back was my desire to finish my mission I gave up many years ago. Battling with my inner demons most of my 20s , I'm finally shedding my skin from the past and ready to go full ghost mode for the summer. Thank you for inspiration, Issa! Let's get s*it done!🔥
I turned around my path half a year ago, I started training seriously and changed my diet, I turned down girls that crushed on me because now after quiting my job I started putting all my focus on learning coding and working out. I do go out every other weekend just to blow off some steam but I am feeling in top form and just gotta keep grinding toward my goal to be coder one day. People who see me now say: You have changed.
Happy for you bro! How do you like coding? I’m at the point where I’ve been contemplating doing the same thing I already work out but I need a better job can’t seem to get ahead. Debating between coding and accounting. Any feedback would help tbh
@@matthewtlapanco9705 Thanks, so far I love it, I find it very interesting, mind you I have a degree in marketing communications but I found out it is not a job for me, so decided on this course, in my opinion its better to dig in the IT, more job opportunities if you are good at it and better working conditions.
Bro soon I'll turn 20 this year, time just go by. I used to care what others think about me, I suffering and anxious for a few years as I am growing up I learn and improving myself by listing to podcast ,meditate and reading . I am glad that's I am past thoses rough situation there. This is a great message for me and other people out there Thank you ♥ ♥
I'm going to turn 20 this year as well so I suppose I am in the same boat as you, more or less. I had already deleted all my posts on Instagram, and basically use it minimally for watching memes and staying in touch with long-distance friends now and then. I am in college away from my home country. I mostly live by myself, trying to juggle study, chores and work while also trying to hold onto and maybe improve upon my hobbies. In a way, I have disappeared too. I consider this time as a student as my exile. I have no interest or will to take pictures of myself and post them online. In fact, I have nothing to post as well because I think that I have nothing to show for. My pfp on my Instagram isn't even mine. It's a picture of an eclipse, as they symbolize a 'great period of change or development'. As long as it may take.
Have done the exact same thing for the past year now. Quit drinking & drugs, quit social media, left my toxic work, left my fake friends and created a new yt channel. I didn't even know this was a thing before I just clicked on your video! Excellent stuff man, Would you be interested in doing a video together?
Ive been in ghost mode going to the gym since november of last year losing almost 100 pounds and toning up and focusing on eating right and mental discipline. Best thing i have ever done. But lately i have been dealing with a whole bunch of drama from people and even women and the fact i have felt alone for the longest but that quote you said hit different, i gotta replay that part again. Being alone is actually a blessing in disguise. This video was the best thing i have watched in a minute. Thank you brother.
Man, thank you so much! I have recently just realised this myself. Quit my job, once again, a few days ago. Not only did I quit my job, I quit my entire industry. There's more, but point is, I have been looking for this confirmation. So I love this!
@@IssaIbrahim1 Even more inspirational! I know you target mostly men, but I am a woman, obviously, so just know you are talking to females as well. We all support you!
I know this came out 2 months ago but this week is my lowest point so far. I need to change and that unrest in me to change is flourishing because of this video. If this isn’t a sign from god and the youtube algorithm, I don’t know what is.
I could listen to this every day, I think what makes your content so great is that anyone can relate to it. I started my journey 5 months ago - I put on some muscle mass, started boxing and my own self-employed business. Video like this made me motivated even more that I took the right decision.
"Destroy your old self" was what hit the hardest for me. There's no indecisiveness about what things about yourself you want to keep if you start fresh and see what comes along.
It’s crazy because you’ve gone ghost and worked on yourself for a year and came back with enough clarity and passion to break through the RUclips algorithm and go viral. Crazy how hard work pays off. Ride the wave brudda, here before 200k subs
I really needed this video. I actually came to realization that I need to improve my life for the better around last year but I didn’t act upon it until 6-7 weeks ago. I was in a good flow, sleeping and waking up early, actually making myself breakfast every morning and hitting the gym 4 or 5 days a week. That was until I damaged my car and was told I need to pay $2.3k out of pocket. On top of this new bill I had to cover my car note, rent, insurance and a plethora of other things. I fell into a hole of depression and stopped working out much, I started staying up late again and sleeping till past noon. I was missing appointments and promises I made with family. I went right back to square one. This video made me realize things won’t always go my way. I can’t let 1 obstacle stop my progress. I’ll start over again today by going to the gym this evening. The gym is also what helped me sleep early but without it I’ve been staying up late. I WILL get back to the grind starting right now. Thank you Issa. Wishing you nothing but blessings.
Subhanallah, my 5 month old son's name is Isa also with one S, and this feels like him grown up telling his father to be more resilient. I had him at 26, I wasn't ready and things got complicated very fast. I became homeless due to money issues at home, I moved 3 times in the space of 4 months with a new baby and my wife and I'll say this. Through the tears and uncertainty it made me stronger than ever. I still battle with depression and anxiety but I became a beast in the gym, I learnt how to properly love a woman, how to be a father, a husband and what you have said is all true, if you're going to disappear then come back different, everyone is waiting to see you fail (maybe not close family members) but you'll be surprised at who doesn't want you to succeed. I hope my son grows to be like you, aware of the things that actually matter.
Ghost mode is not sustainable and if do sustain it, what a sad /wasted life. Coming from a guy who actually did this for more than a year. Not worth it. Balance of everything is what i found made my life rich. It's a personal choice. If you think really hard, it's terrible advice to go into this kind of mode where your ignoring important people in your life. You have limited time with parents and your loved ones and you came to this earth naked and you will leave naked. All the achievements will stay on ground. If you live like this you will just end up depressed alone , successfull maybe but it's not worth having success if there is no one else around to share your success with. This is only my opinion, everyone can make up their own minds but the whole point of ghost mode should be to refocus on your goals and this should be done daily in specific time frame so that you keep everything balanced.
totally agreed, I too was in a "ghost mode" for quite a long time and came out with massive ego, selfishness and feeling utterly disgusted. I do not regret going ghost mode but what I've realized is that its better not to take that approach as you'd only be getting farther away from your goals. We must not get stuck to that vicious cycle of perfectionism for it brings ruin to you and your surroundings. Try approaching your goals with more social exposure, who knows maybe you'd find a better goal along the way or it'd be much easier and fruitful to reach there. Also most people who encourage this "ghost mode" are the ones who have goals such as: greater wealth, being rich, beating competition, narrowing mindset to only one particular thing and other such materialistic goals. remember the difference between working hard and working like a donkey.
Even once successes are achieved, you’ll still be lonely because even though you made a meaningful effort to add value to your life (mere existence) doesn’t mean that those around you have. My entire family are resentful towards me now that I’m a fully functional adult. It’s like they are upset with me because I grew up. I don’t relate to anyone professionally (most are NPCs) and even traveling I find so many people are broken and envious and always want something and incapable of being self resourceful. Yes it’s lonely being alone but sometimes it’s a means to SURVIVE.
I been in ghost mode for 3 years since 2020 and it hasn’t affected me if anything I cutted a lot of people off and I gained my peace and happiness back I lost years ago to the point I love being in ghost mode and it doesn’t affect me whatsoever cause it taught me who actually cares about me and that’s my mom and god (and the engineer I work with at the studio) other than them screw everyone else I use to know I don’t mind meeting new people but people from my past fuck em
Wallah I needed to hear this I feel like how you did i work everyday 14 hours and i’m just mentally drained everyday, I have no time to do things I love anymore, no more hobbies, no more family time, just straight work.
I'm approaching the year mark of doing this, and I've loved it. Just knowing you're working your ass off in the shadows and coming out a whole new person is powerful as hell man.💪 I can't wait for people to be like 'Woah, you've changed'. Damn right I have, where do you think I've been the past 12 months!🤣
I honestly needed this video, so many people are holding me back from what I dream to do and I've been considering this for a really long time. I need to disappear because my goal is to be someone new.
Bro for first time in my life after I lost my everything absolutely nothing left in my life family friends my girl my money all gone and more importantly myself I was wrestler for 16 years I have 2 gold medals in my country ( iran) but suddenly I became drug addicted I suffered from everything but this video was like a punch in my face. Thank you bro I am going to be disappear from now and I will be the person who I was but much better I promise I will do it I am so tired of everything 🙏
Wow bro thank you for sharing this story.. it goes to show you that life will ALWAYS have ups and downs no matter where you are, but we MUST get up every single time! I'm rooting for your success bro!
Great video man. After I went and watched some of your older videos, now subbed. The ‘Nobody Gives A Shit About Men’s Mental Health’ video hit me like a freight train, nothing but pure unadulterated truth in there. Really hoping I’m able to get out of this deep rut I’ve been in since 2020 soon. Things really start to seem pointless after awhile of trying and getting nowhere. But I guess you just have to keep going or die trying. But thanks for being a light in this dark ass world man, all love.
Hey bro, this message really hit me personally. Thank you so much for sharing this message. The fact that I can impact you positively on any way means a lot. The men’s mental health video is one of my personal favourites on my channel so I’m glad you saw that. Please feel free to book a free call with me if you wanna talk about any of your problems!
Damn I been in ghost mode since Corona in 2020. I’m 27 now. I didn’t get back in the gym, but I went from a low income job and food stamps with a baby busting my ass working 6 days a week sometimes 16 hour days of labor to 6 figure income, 2 well taken care of children and a homeowner in 3 years. I still haven’t even gotten my mind and body right yet to be honest, I’m not close with any of my friends anymore and need to make new friends to push me which is tough to find today, but I will get the gains back and build tf out of a passive income to retire on young and something to pass down!
A seventeen year old about to turn 18, ive already begun my self improvement journey, last year, it took me a long time to realise how brainwashed i was and how deeply the people around you can leave an influence on you. It was only when i stumbled upon these type of videos(tho they were mainly focused for young men, (im a girl)) that i actually started to reevaluate myself, now im going to take a gap year to prepare for an entrance exam, and i will make sure to make every second count, thank you for this video brother 💪
The reason these types of videos are usually targeted at men is because society seems to push a lot of men to the background. That doesnt mean self improvement isnt just as valuable for women and girls. Id say it's just as important for the opposite reason. A lot of women and girls are taught to have a falsely inflated sense of self. Which is just as unfulfilling as being made to feel like you're nothing. It might not seem that way on the surface. But deep down id say it's just as painful.
I want disappear and improve so badly. But my friends and family are just not on the same path and they are just bringing me down every day. I am so bad to say NO to my friends when they want to drink and go out, and i find it extremely hard.
issa thank you. I wanna thank you for those words, for your time, for everything. I was down so bad after I struggled with my life, no contact with my family since a young age and the death of my father 2 years ago. The gym was the only point that gave me strenght and everything since I'm 15. Still, the demons got bigger and I had suicidal thoughts on a daily base. Bro, this video, when I saw your eyes when you said those things, everybody can see how bad you mean those words and how true you are about yourself. I literally had tears in my eyes because those words, those things you went through and the things you said were exactly those words that I needed to hear. Thank you so much for everything Greetings from switzerland
This is probably my first youtube comment in years but this was worth commenting on. I've been in the cave for a year now and honestly I thought it was depression or introversion, but it was way more than that. I killed the old me: super nice, always let shit slide, the guy who put people first before himself - til one day i snapped and isolated myself into this space of reconstruction and reinvention. I stopped caring about everything else except myself and growth. I changed and still evolving and people that came looking for me noticed the difference. Some find intimidating, others found it weird, while others found it inspiring. Idgaf what anyone thinks... I stumbled on this video and my eyes opened wider and made me realize on actually on the right track. Thanks Issa... you're a living legend fam 👌🏾
Ibrahim. You just changed me as of today, this was my sign to really disappear and bounce back for awhile. I’ve been holding on the social medias just to see if I’ll be noticed again or get the validation from everybody to keep me going. I don’t need nobody but myself and I finally want to change that starting today.
Was down bad yesterday... Literally dead inside. Health was worse, knees was weak, too much abuse to the body, movies n shit, shitty diet or i don't even eat sometimes, lazy as fk to even fetch water, spending hours with phone stuck on my fkin face. Man watching this flicked the fkin switch in me. Starting with maintaining a notion ledger, quitting movies n shit, curating a diet, joining a fkin gym. There is no tomorrow so started everything today. I'll come back to this in 6 six months or a year. Fk everything... Goin dark mode 💯
"Life is gonna be ruthless to you, You need to learn to be ruthless to life " I have watched a lot of videos about ghost mode or disappearing but this one actually inspired me
I was already planning to stop studying after the end of the (school) year. Before going to university i already felt like it wasn't for me. I wanted to do something else. Your video came at the right moment. I'll finish my year, go back to my hometown for a month (it was already planned long before and I didn't see my family for a year) and in August, as soon as i come back, it's grind time
@@IssaIbrahim1 Working out, dropshipping and Combat sports during the week, 9-5 during weekends to invest on dropshipping (i already have living expenses covered, i'm lucky to have a dad that pays that) How does that sound ?
Mashallah definitely needed this , total blackout, total focus, get ruthless, get selfish , let it all go , I started working 60 plus hours a week, carnivore diet, my goal is to get 100k cash in bank and have zero debt, 100 push , 100 squats daily , I'm not stopping until job done I already got sooo many missed calls asking wyd and I don't care anymore I just let voicemail text message add up I'm not looking at to point where turned off notifications and started blocking people
Doing this as we speak,also working out I deleted all my socials in October,ngl gets lonely but the pain,MY pain, and the reasons why I workout makes me go harder and sometimes clearing my mind too while I’m at it-new sub🤝🏻
@@IssaIbrahim1 dog I swear it couldn’t gone better today I saw my ex from when I was 16 she frr thought she was gonna make me sad or some and she had her new nigga too😂 and I’m laughing bc how would you feel if your girl tells you to workout next to her ex, that’s literally what happened😂 so if anything that man should feel dumb, that zyzz song frr help me go harder today forsure
My god I needed this. Just delete social media off my phone and iPad. I realised that there was nothing important to see on social media anyway. Thanks so much for this!
Great video! I did this 6 years ago and tbh I never came back. I don’t need that fake world, I found that grinding is the best zone for me. I enjoy the process. Thanks for reminding me that there’s always more to do in order to be the best version of myself.
Really good content! Checked your other stuff too, actually impressive, thanks for the motivation! Hope you will blow up soon for others to realise the lies this society brings.
Went ghost at 16 left high school friends big family I’m now 18 turning 19 nice job dream truck best shape of my life leave the distractions better yourself
I feel like all my life, there's been people holding me back and i'm sick and tired of it...all it did accomplish is pain, stress, fear, lack of motivation. But after seeing this video about going in "Ghost mode" it really clicked something inside of me..I felt for a brief moment actual peace and peace is something I haven't felt in very long time. So I got a plan and not really sure how it's going to go but First: cut off all communication and let go of stress Second: Do something I love for example "music" "writing a book" etc and let go of fear Third: Start to workout and train my breathing level and let go of pain from either past, present or future Fourth: Get my motivation back and accomplish all my goals in life
Long videos of self improvement usually just put on watch later but i dont knowwhat made me watch yours fully but this was exactly what i needed. Maybe it was my higher self , who know...anyways this video is a gold mine
Great video Issa, coming off.all social media, whittling down your contacts, in effect getting rid of dead wood. You have to be cold , its hard initially but it will pay off.
I’m currently been doing this for the past year and I love it 🤷🏽♀️😂. 2018 was the year I realized how bad I have fallen and how my life was going no where due to laziness & lack of self belief. I was overweight, depressed, and hanging around the wrong people. 5 years later, I’m 70lbs lighter, happier, and now I actually have a career. I slowly started to get off social media in 2019 and last year was the first year where all social media apps were officially deleted
Ghost mode is real! I’m happy you popped up in my feed I have been this way for several years! And the accomplishments and growth is real! You feel so elevated and clarity is spot on!
Hey Issa, I am a 14-year-old teenager, and I have had some traumatic things happening in my life. From bullying to all sorts of things, I have been made fun of, taken advantage of, and ridiculed in front of people I cared about, including my crushes. I have been embarrassed to the utmost degree. I stumbled upon this video a few weeks ago, not thinking much about it. But now I have come back to say that tomorrow, I will start my detox for 3 months or more. I am here to say thank you, and this comment is going to be a throwback comment that I will look back on in a few months. Thank you for popping up on my suggestion page. God bless you.
For too long, I've been settled in mediocrity. For too long, I've been held under by those around me. For too long, I simply looked the other way. Not anymore. I'm tired of being less than great. Today starts the beginning of the new me. Today, I become a ghost.
I agree with the sentiment of, “if it works for you then it works.” So if this works for you then awesome. For me personally, I agree with working out, spending time on things you prioritize as actually important rather than what others say is normal or what you “should do.” Though part of that for me is being open to try new things and be more honest with the people around me and understand that I can’t control their actions but only my own. It’s also in cherishing all the small moments, including those times with your mom for tea before she’s all of a sudden gone. Maybe rn I can say, “sorry mom I’m busy today, but I’m free on these days I’d love to see you again.” And prioritize enjoying and focusing on that one thing. I guess what I’m saying is I don’t want to live in regret. But part of that is truly cherishing and living in the moments I currently am in. Enjoy all the side journeys with the main quest.
Putting yourself first can be a good choice for a while! And to isolate can be necessary if you’re burned out or get super triggered by people due to trauma for example. But in the end of the day, relationships being happiness and chances for self development too. Starving yourself from connection is not something I would recommend in the long run, it’s a basic human need. And also it’s important to have some consideration for the feelings of the people that cares about you 💕.
Id say i have a rare case in which i have somewhere around 15 friends (separated in to 2 groups) that are all actually lifting me up. And i say that after a real assessment (ive been on self improvement for a year or so and my dads passing 276 days ago really improved my judgment) about people) i am also 20 and have already found my purpose in life. I wanna get that ghost mode effect but without actually leaving my friends and my purpose.
@@IssaIbrahim1 thank you Issa, means a lot. Id say my biggest problem rn preventing myself from progressing in life is discipline and structure. I dont think i should completely disappear but rather start working on my goals in a more structured and focused way (i mean i already know that im just struggling to do that)
I needee to see this. Just got out of a narcissistic relationship that really messed with my mental health. Deleted all social media, dropped 24 lbs in the last month working out 2x a day and focusing on my diet and seeing a therapist now. This battle for the next year is me vs me.
Thanks for this video! I actually did go ghost mode- I didn't realize that was the term. But for sure I feel a lot of the comments echo the correct sentiments- you learn who your true friends/family are. I will say though its important to not completely cut people out. I am battling loneliness and its healthy to try and seek solutions to that. Some of us need people to support us during the tough times, but also celebrate the good times with.
I’ve been on ghost mode for a year now I lost 70 pounds and my physic is better than ever it’s been the loneliest journey but the reward is PRICELESS!!!!
I guess the next step is to find out when to travel in a group vs alone🤔 I think depending on your situation, 1 is needed more than the other and vice versa.
Everyone should do this- just ghost for a year especially if you’re young, no major responsibilities but yourself. Stop finding an excuse to do hard work.
This is one of the very few guys Hamza was talking about when he was mentioning that crazy zone on the other side of the tunnel of peace. God bless, big brother ☦!
Technically, I was a ghost for like 4-5 years once I moved from my hometown. Moved back and everyone thinks I’m hotter shit than I really am 😂 I love it.
I've been doing this on and off my whole life. Did it as a kid by cutting off all friends and concentrating on school work. The did it again in my late teenage years, cut off all my friends and social media, even college to work full-time. Then I put a bit of undesired weight on during Covid pandemic, lost my job and fell into a bad routine. I put my foot down and did what I know best. Cut off all distractions and got to the grind again. Joined the Gym, lost considerable amount of weight. I even started Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu because I've always wanted to try it. Got myself a decent paying Job and things are looking way better. I encourage anybody if they are going through something and you have multiple distractions in life. Try this and I can guarantee you will learn a lot about yourself as well as bettering yourself. 👍
I know sometimes I feel guilty for being at peace while others are judging me for living differently.. live the way you want brother cause they will always find a way to hate
Started this jounery one week ago, going into my second week. Deleted social media accounts - Facebook, Instagram and TikTok. Removed my Netflix account and WhatsApp for the next 11 months. Went back to the gym, cut out coffee and the list goes on. As a female, this is one of the most liberating things I've done in a while. Cannot wait to see where I'll be in 2025 🎉
Guys I hope you understood that the mother comment was a joke.. I promise I love my mother to death ♥️
I was like "Yo... That's your mom bro"😮
Thanks for clarifying
Hey I’ve got some really great news to share with you, Jesus Christ, the Son of God, died on a cross and resurrected on the third day so you may all have eternal life. If you believe and repent of your sins and put your faith and trust in Him as you would a parachute jumping off a plane at 25000 feet up in the air, He will give you eternal life in heaven as a free gift and I promise you, He will change your life forever as He did mine. He is the ONLY way to heaven and He loves you all. Please think deeply about this with urgency because this is your eternal life and soul, you don’t know when you could die, meaning you could die at any moment, so please consider this with all your heart. If anyone tells you that Jesus isn’t the only way, they are lying to you and they don’t care about your future.
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"Every single day you ignore your higher self is another day wasted towards fulfilling your soul." Love that.
I know you feel the same bro, we’ve been on the grind together! 💪
@@IssaIbrahim1 absolutely man
"If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together. "
- African Proverb
How you going to get far with a lot of people that knows nothing
@@martavionhamilton3634 people learn and grow. One that can't get that isn't fit to lead
@@thatguyoverthere2217 so why wouldn’t I duck off to get right so I can teach them
Aint no way he just told me to enter my villain arc
hahaa sometimes we gotta be the villain bro 😂
@@IssaIbrahim1 this will be long but I will do it bro I'm only 22 years old and I've lost family members ghosted by friends cheated on/played by women disrespect by other men and I was even shot at by gang members
So I realized if I want reality to be mines I with the weight N buried of existence on my shoulders I have to do it my way & these next 21 months of grinding will make it my way N I'll return as the monster
@@TERRELL_GASKINS21 months, or 12? 🤔
@@ofanning06 21 I'll go the extra mile for my grindset
I have to enter the Villian zone
Just to be clear, going ghost mode is letting go of distractions but disappearing from the face of the earth in the true sense isn't particularly good because as much crap as you feel inside you there are still people that truly love you like your family, you just don't let their opinions impact your final goal.. but you can still have some type of communication with them.
Yes cutting everyone out is seriously not healthy. Young men esp need to realise this with feelings of loneliness increasing in the modern world
Eat the meat and spit the bone bro
Loneliness, Solitude we have to get used to this for a reason
Yeah I'd say not to completely cut off close family/friend members but interact less than you normally would, and then once you've gone through this journey, resume however feels natural
yeah, people often confuse things here. to me the real meaning is to be only around good people you are close to, while ignoring not so good ones and those who are just there, no matter what kind of people they are. to me it is about limiting social media and less socialising, but working on your health, improving your life and making your dreams come true instead. it is about rejecting conformity for something better. also, it is about not telling a single soul what are you up to, and then surprising them with the results.
i hope that i will last for a year this time. I tried to disappear for the entire year of 2023, but in the march some bad things started happening and dealing with them became a top priority. i still accomplished so much in the two and a half months that it surprised me. I am not telling a single soul about it all yet because I am not done. Tomorrow is my birthday and I am starting again. Hope that the life won't trow another huge bad thing at me this time.
I applaud you for your hardwork and I liked this video. But one thing I want to say is that "having tea with your mother" is priceless and is probably worth your time.
True
So true
Yes, also you never know how long your parents are with you in life. I would understand if you have a bad situation or problems with your parents but otherwise you should not be that disrespectful to your parents.
I am a woman but I feel you in almost everything you have said. Thank you so much for your content. I sent this to my son but I wanted to tell you that I needed this 💪
That's amazing, thanks for sharing!
Amazing energy, brother. Was very surprised that you still are such a small channel, the production level was top notch. Thank you for creating amazing value!
I’m glad you enjoyed the production value bro, it really means a lot 🙏🏼
I think this is a neccessity for any young man. I made the most progress at the start of the 2020 lockdowns when I went ghost and grinded. I did see it important to return somewhat when I had got most of the way there, it can be easy to disappear forever and keep solo grinding but its important to phase back in the people who really care about you after a few months so the friendships and relationships don't burn out or keep close friends close.
Thanks for the input bro, couldn’t agree more 🙏
Yes. Bcz after the ghost mode is tuned off, you'll be looking for people back in your life for any kind of emotional/social support. We aren't animals or machines. We're social beings, and we need human company in different times of life.
I'm so blessed that I found your channel bro! I started 2nd month of my monk mode (s-retention 3rd week bc of relapse), exercising daily and writing my journal. While I started this routine, two things dropped off,- drinking coffee and friends. But what came back was my desire to finish my mission I gave up many years ago. Battling with my inner demons most of my 20s , I'm finally shedding my skin from the past and ready to go full ghost mode for the summer. Thank you for inspiration, Issa! Let's get s*it done!🔥
So cringey lmao
Respect bro Good luck on your grind!
I turned around my path half a year ago, I started training seriously and changed my diet, I turned down girls that crushed on me because now after quiting my job I started putting all my focus on learning coding and working out. I do go out every other weekend just to blow off some steam but I am feeling in top form and just gotta keep grinding toward my goal to be coder one day. People who see me now say: You have changed.
I love to hear that bro. Keep at the grind 💪🏽
Happy for you bro! How do you like coding? I’m at the point where I’ve been contemplating doing the same thing I already work out but I need a better job can’t seem to get ahead. Debating between coding and accounting. Any feedback would help tbh
@@matthewtlapanco9705 Thanks, so far I love it, I find it very interesting, mind you I have a degree in marketing communications but I found out it is not a job for me, so decided on this course, in my opinion its better to dig in the IT, more job opportunities if you are good at it and better working conditions.
I’m going through same journey but it’s hard to find people with same goal in real life
@@prasitsingh6713 just work on yourself, the right people will come when they need to.
Bro soon I'll turn 20 this year, time just go by. I used to care what others think about me, I suffering and anxious for a few years as I am growing up I learn and improving myself by listing to podcast ,meditate and reading . I am glad that's I am past thoses rough situation there. This is a great message for me and other people out there Thank you ♥ ♥
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
What do you read? Looking to get started on reading
I'm going to turn 20 this year as well so I suppose I am in the same boat as you, more or less. I had already deleted all my posts on Instagram, and basically use it minimally for watching memes and staying in touch with long-distance friends now and then. I am in college away from my home country. I mostly live by myself, trying to juggle study, chores and work while also trying to hold onto and maybe improve upon my hobbies.
In a way, I have disappeared too. I consider this time as a student as my exile. I have no interest or will to take pictures of myself and post them online. In fact, I have nothing to post as well because I think that I have nothing to show for. My pfp on my Instagram isn't even mine. It's a picture of an eclipse, as they symbolize a 'great period of change or development'. As long as it may take.
@@AyushSharma-hx9sw that's good on you mate!
Have done the exact same thing for the past year now. Quit drinking & drugs, quit social media, left my toxic work, left my fake friends and created a new yt channel. I didn't even know this was a thing before I just clicked on your video! Excellent stuff man, Would you be interested in doing a video together?
Wow that’s amazing bro! Hopefully sometime in the future 🙏🏼
Ive been in ghost mode going to the gym since november of last year losing almost 100 pounds and toning up and focusing on eating right and mental discipline. Best thing i have ever done. But lately i have been dealing with a whole bunch of drama from people and even women and the fact i have felt alone for the longest but that quote you said hit different, i gotta replay that part again. Being alone is actually a blessing in disguise. This video was the best thing i have watched in a minute. Thank you brother.
Glad to hear you find it helpful bro, get back on the grind and crush it 💪
Man, thank you so much! I have recently just realised this myself. Quit my job, once again, a few days ago. Not only did I quit my job, I quit my entire industry. There's more, but point is, I have been looking for this confirmation. So I love this!
Glad I could help! I've also quit an entire industry I devoted 8 years to so I know how you feel
@@IssaIbrahim1 Even more inspirational! I know you target mostly men, but I am a woman, obviously, so just know you are talking to females as well. We all support you!
I know this came out 2 months ago but this week is my lowest point so far. I need to change and that unrest in me to change is flourishing because of this video. If this isn’t a sign from god and the youtube algorithm, I don’t know what is.
That’s some real stuff. The path of most resistance is often the most fruitful
You got it bro 💪🏼
I could listen to this every day, I think what makes your content so great is that anyone can relate to it. I started my journey 5 months ago - I put on some muscle mass, started boxing and my own self-employed business. Video like this made me motivated even more that I took the right decision.
I'm glad you can relate to this! It sounds like you got your life together, keep grinding bro!
"Destroy your old self" was what hit the hardest for me. There's no indecisiveness about what things about yourself you want to keep if you start fresh and see what comes along.
This is exactly what I’ve been going through for the past month. Really needed this right now. Thank you Issa.
Gotchu bro 💪
It’s crazy because you’ve gone ghost and worked on yourself for a year and came back with enough clarity and passion to break through the RUclips algorithm and go viral. Crazy how hard work pays off. Ride the wave brudda, here before 200k subs
It’s because of people like you that it is all possible, thank you for your support 🙏
I really needed this video. I actually came to realization that I need to improve my life for the better around last year but I didn’t act upon it until 6-7 weeks ago. I was in a good flow, sleeping and waking up early, actually making myself breakfast every morning and hitting the gym 4 or 5 days a week. That was until I damaged my car and was told I need to pay $2.3k out of pocket. On top of this new bill I had to cover my car note, rent, insurance and a plethora of other things. I fell into a hole of depression and stopped working out much, I started staying up late again and sleeping till past noon. I was missing appointments and promises I made with family. I went right back to square one.
This video made me realize things won’t always go my way. I can’t let 1 obstacle stop my progress. I’ll start over again today by going to the gym this evening. The gym is also what helped me sleep early but without it I’ve been staying up late. I WILL get back to the grind starting right now. Thank you Issa. Wishing you nothing but blessings.
Wow beautiful bro!
Subhanallah, my 5 month old son's name is Isa also with one S, and this feels like him grown up telling his father to be more resilient. I had him at 26, I wasn't ready and things got complicated very fast. I became homeless due to money issues at home, I moved 3 times in the space of 4 months with a new baby and my wife and I'll say this. Through the tears and uncertainty it made me stronger than ever. I still battle with depression and anxiety but I became a beast in the gym, I learnt how to properly love a woman, how to be a father, a husband and what you have said is all true, if you're going to disappear then come back different, everyone is waiting to see you fail (maybe not close family members) but you'll be surprised at who doesn't want you to succeed. I hope my son grows to be like you, aware of the things that actually matter.
Ghost mode is not sustainable and if do sustain it, what a sad /wasted life. Coming from a guy who actually did this for more than a year. Not worth it. Balance of everything is what i found made my life rich. It's a personal choice.
If you think really hard, it's terrible advice to go into this kind of mode where your ignoring important people in your life. You have limited time with parents and your loved ones and you came to this earth naked and you will leave naked. All the achievements will stay on ground.
If you live like this you will just end up depressed alone , successfull maybe but it's not worth having success if there is no one else around to share your success with.
This is only my opinion, everyone can make up their own minds but the whole point of ghost mode should be to refocus on your goals and this should be done daily in specific time frame so that you keep everything balanced.
totally agreed, I too was in a "ghost mode" for quite a long time and came out with massive ego, selfishness and feeling utterly disgusted. I do not regret going ghost mode but what I've realized is that its better not to take that approach as you'd only be getting farther away from your goals. We must not get stuck to that vicious cycle of perfectionism for it brings ruin to you and your surroundings. Try approaching your goals with more social exposure, who knows maybe you'd find a better goal along the way or it'd be much easier and fruitful to reach there. Also most people who encourage this "ghost mode" are the ones who have goals such as: greater wealth, being rich, beating competition, narrowing mindset to only one particular thing and other such materialistic goals.
remember the difference between working hard and working like a donkey.
Even once successes are achieved, you’ll still be lonely because even though you made a meaningful effort to add value to your life (mere existence) doesn’t mean that those around you have. My entire family are resentful towards me now that I’m a fully functional adult. It’s like they are upset with me because I grew up. I don’t relate to anyone professionally (most are NPCs) and even traveling I find so many people are broken and envious and always want something and incapable of being self resourceful. Yes it’s lonely being alone but sometimes it’s a means to SURVIVE.
I been in ghost mode for 3 years since 2020 and it hasn’t affected me if anything I cutted a lot of people off and I gained my peace and happiness back I lost years ago to the point I love being in ghost mode and it doesn’t affect me whatsoever cause it taught me who actually cares about me and that’s my mom and god (and the engineer I work with at the studio) other than them screw everyone else I use to know I don’t mind meeting new people but people from my past fuck em
Wallah I needed to hear this I feel like how you did i work everyday 14 hours and i’m just mentally drained everyday, I have no time to do things I love anymore, no more hobbies, no more family time, just straight work.
I’m glad I can help 🙏
I'm approaching the year mark of doing this, and I've loved it. Just knowing you're working your ass off in the shadows and coming out a whole new person is powerful as hell man.💪
I can't wait for people to be like 'Woah, you've changed'. Damn right I have, where do you think I've been the past 12 months!🤣
Hahaa respect bro 🙌🏼
And remember your gonna fall, but can’t stay down. Get back up, and keep moving forward.
Just like Alfred said, "Why do we fall?" "So we can pick ourselves back up" 🙏
amazing video. You know its not fake when you see the enthusiasm and the look in Issa's eyes
LOL
I honestly needed this video, so many people are holding me back from what I dream to do and I've been considering this for a really long time. I need to disappear because my goal is to be someone new.
Let them go and do yourself the biggest favour 🙏🏼
Bro for first time in my life after I lost my everything absolutely nothing left in my life family friends my girl my money all gone and more importantly myself I was wrestler for 16 years I have 2 gold medals in my country ( iran) but suddenly I became drug addicted I suffered from everything but this video was like a punch in my face.
Thank you bro I am going to be disappear from now and I will be the person who I was but much better I promise I will do it I am so tired of everything 🙏
Wow bro thank you for sharing this story.. it goes to show you that life will ALWAYS have ups and downs no matter where you are, but we MUST get up every single time! I'm rooting for your success bro!
@@IssaIbrahim1 thank you so much bro your video was honest and just hit me hard wish you all the best and hope everyone get at top much respect 🙏🙏🙏
Great video man. After I went and watched some of your older videos, now subbed. The ‘Nobody Gives A Shit About Men’s Mental Health’ video hit me like a freight train, nothing but pure unadulterated truth in there.
Really hoping I’m able to get out of this deep rut I’ve been in since 2020 soon. Things really start to seem pointless after awhile of trying and getting nowhere. But I guess you just have to keep going or die trying.
But thanks for being a light in this dark ass world man, all love.
Hey bro, this message really hit me personally. Thank you so much for sharing this message. The fact that I can impact you positively on any way means a lot. The men’s mental health video is one of my personal favourites on my channel so I’m glad you saw that. Please feel free to book a free call with me if you wanna talk about any of your problems!
Damn I been in ghost mode since Corona in 2020. I’m 27 now. I didn’t get back in the gym, but I went from a low income job and food stamps with a baby busting my ass working 6 days a week sometimes 16 hour days of labor to 6 figure income, 2 well taken care of children and a homeowner in 3 years. I still haven’t even gotten my mind and body right yet to be honest, I’m not close with any of my friends anymore and need to make new friends to push me which is tough to find today, but I will get the gains back and build tf out of a passive income to retire on young and something to pass down!
thanks mr Mcringleberry!
A seventeen year old about to turn 18, ive already begun my self improvement journey, last year, it took me a long time to realise how brainwashed i was and how deeply the people around you can leave an influence on you. It was only when i stumbled upon these type of videos(tho they were mainly focused for young men, (im a girl)) that i actually started to reevaluate myself, now im going to take a gap year to prepare for an entrance exam, and i will make sure to make every second count, thank you for this video brother 💪
I’m turning 18 on June 8th!! Definitely gonna make a big change myself
ah same...
preparing for entrance exam too
17 about to turn 18 soon
I wish I had the courage and bravery at your age to take a gap year. Wishing you the best on your journey 🙏🏽
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The reason these types of videos are usually targeted at men is because society seems to push a lot of men to the background. That doesnt mean self improvement isnt just as valuable for women and girls. Id say it's just as important for the opposite reason. A lot of women and girls are taught to have a falsely inflated sense of self. Which is just as unfulfilling as being made to feel like you're nothing. It might not seem that way on the surface. But deep down id say it's just as painful.
I want disappear and improve so badly. But my friends and family are just not on the same path and they are just bringing me down every day. I am so bad to say NO to my friends when they want to drink and go out, and i find it extremely hard.
It will be worth it in the end bro, you can do it 🙏
issa thank you. I wanna thank you for those words, for your time, for everything. I was down so bad after I struggled with my life, no contact with my family since a young age and the death of my father 2 years ago. The gym was the only point that gave me strenght and everything since I'm 15. Still, the demons got bigger and I had suicidal thoughts on a daily base. Bro, this video, when I saw your eyes when you said those things, everybody can see how bad you mean those words and how true you are about yourself. I literally had tears in my eyes because those words, those things you went through and the things you said were exactly those words that I needed to hear. Thank you so much for everything
Greetings from switzerland
Wow bro thanks for sharing your story and I hope you can continue to summon strength to endure anything that comes your way 🙏🏼
This is probably my first youtube comment in years but this was worth commenting on. I've been in the cave for a year now and honestly I thought it was depression or introversion, but it was way more than that. I killed the old me: super nice, always let shit slide, the guy who put people first before himself - til one day i snapped and isolated myself into this space of reconstruction and reinvention. I stopped caring about everything else except myself and growth. I changed and still evolving and people that came looking for me noticed the difference. Some find intimidating, others found it weird, while others found it inspiring. Idgaf what anyone thinks...
I stumbled on this video and my eyes opened wider and made me realize on actually on the right track. Thanks Issa... you're a living legend fam 👌🏾
Wow bro thanks for sharing your story… very powerful! Keep it up man 🙌🏼
Ibrahim. You just changed me as of today, this was my sign to really disappear and bounce back for awhile. I’ve been holding on the social medias just to see if I’ll be noticed again or get the validation from everybody to keep me going. I don’t need nobody but myself and I finally want to change that starting today.
I found the hidden gem. Perfect video and videos. I totally believe you are going to grow your channel very fast. Salam from Turkey
I'm glad I have you as a subscriber, thanks bro 🙏
This video is probably the best thing I’ve watched in ages ! So motivational!
Thanks for the support bro 🙏🏽
Was down bad yesterday... Literally dead inside. Health was worse, knees was weak, too much abuse to the body, movies n shit, shitty diet or i don't even eat sometimes, lazy as fk to even fetch water, spending hours with phone stuck on my fkin face.
Man watching this flicked the fkin switch in me.
Starting with maintaining a notion ledger, quitting movies n shit, curating a diet, joining a fkin gym.
There is no tomorrow so started everything today. I'll come back to this in 6 six months or a year.
Fk everything... Goin dark mode 💯
Aye let’s get it brother 💪🏼
Brother, I feel this so much. I feel Peace the first time in months. Just Grinding and balancing myself with lifting.
I am watching this video every day. Love you brother, you just changed my life
Thank you bro! I really appreciate your support 🙏
"Life is gonna be ruthless to you, You need to learn to be ruthless to life "
I have watched a lot of videos about ghost mode or disappearing but this one actually inspired me
Crazy quality for the amount of subs, keep up the great work brother
Thanks, will do! Appreciate all the support I can get 🙏🏼
Balance is key. Being completely self-centered is not the way.
I was already planning to stop studying after the end of the (school) year.
Before going to university i already felt like it wasn't for me. I wanted to do something else.
Your video came at the right moment. I'll finish my year, go back to my hometown for a month (it was already planned long before and I didn't see my family for a year) and in August, as soon as i come back, it's grind time
You got this, keep us updated on your journey 💪🏽
@@IssaIbrahim1 Working out, dropshipping and Combat sports during the week, 9-5 during weekends to invest on dropshipping (i already have living expenses covered, i'm lucky to have a dad that pays that)
How does that sound ?
Mashallah definitely needed this , total blackout, total focus, get ruthless, get selfish , let it all go , I started working 60 plus hours a week, carnivore diet, my goal is to get 100k cash in bank and have zero debt, 100 push , 100 squats daily , I'm not stopping until job done I already got sooo many missed calls asking wyd and I don't care anymore I just let voicemail text message add up I'm not looking at to point where turned off notifications and started blocking people
Hey man I appreciate you making this video…going through a breakup and your advice helps a lot for me and all the fellow kings
Hope you get through that breakup man!
Doing this as we speak,also working out I deleted all my socials in October,ngl gets lonely but the pain,MY pain, and the reasons why I workout makes me go harder and sometimes clearing my mind too while I’m at it-new sub🤝🏻
The journey is tough but very much worth it 🙏🏽 keep at it bro!
@@IssaIbrahim1 love you dog, no homo lol
@@IssaIbrahim1 dog I swear it couldn’t gone better today I saw my ex from when I was 16 she frr thought she was gonna make me sad or some and she had her new nigga too😂 and I’m laughing bc how would you feel if your girl tells you to workout next to her ex, that’s literally what happened😂 so if anything that man should feel dumb, that zyzz song frr help me go harder today forsure
My god I needed this. Just delete social media off my phone and iPad. I realised that there was nothing important to see on social media anyway. Thanks so much for this!
Let's keep grinding bro 💪
Great video! I did this 6 years ago and tbh I never came back. I don’t need that fake world, I found that grinding is the best zone for me. I enjoy the process. Thanks for reminding me that there’s always more to do in order to be the best version of myself.
Good shit bro
Really good content! Checked your other stuff too, actually impressive, thanks for the motivation! Hope you will blow up soon for others to realise the lies this society brings.
Bro that means a lot! Thank you for your support 🙏🏼
Went ghost at 16 left high school friends big family I’m now 18 turning 19 nice job dream truck best shape of my life leave the distractions better yourself
Wow what a beast 💪
Going through all of this at the moment. There is a lot of pain involved. But trust me. It is worth it 🙏🏽💪🏽💪🏽
6 months into being off social media and I am finally feeling a shift in mental growth and a firm security in my beliefs.
I feel like all my life, there's been people holding me back and i'm sick and tired of it...all it did accomplish is pain, stress, fear, lack of motivation. But after seeing this video about going in "Ghost mode" it really clicked something inside of me..I felt for a brief moment actual peace and peace is something I haven't felt in very long time.
So I got a plan and not really sure how it's going to go but
First: cut off all communication and let go of stress
Second: Do something I love for example "music" "writing a book" etc and let go of fear
Third: Start to workout and train my breathing level and let go of pain from either past, present or future
Fourth: Get my motivation back and accomplish all my goals in life
I’m rooting for you bro! Let’s get on this grind 💪🏼
Keep moving forward no matter what !!!
You already know bro!
Long videos of self improvement usually just put on watch later but i dont knowwhat made me watch yours fully but this was exactly what i needed. Maybe it was my higher self , who know...anyways this video is a gold mine
That means a lot bro, thank you!
Great video Issa, coming off.all social media, whittling down your contacts, in effect getting rid of dead wood. You have to be cold , its hard initially but it will pay off.
The way you talk my guy you will become a leader of the inspirational community if you stay creative. Proud of you boss
Hence why they say, “It gets lonely at the top”.
You a real one bro! You can’t put a price on peace and good health. Starting up my channel and learning from you on this journey 💪🏼
I’m currently been doing this for the past year and I love it 🤷🏽♀️😂. 2018 was the year I realized how bad I have fallen and how my life was going no where due to laziness & lack of self belief. I was overweight, depressed, and hanging around the wrong people. 5 years later, I’m 70lbs lighter, happier, and now I actually have a career. I slowly started to get off social media in 2019 and last year was the first year where all social media apps were officially deleted
Nobody misses me,
Nobody's looking for me,except the billing companies
Ruthlessness with your goals is key!
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this an amazing video. very good content, im grateful for this wake up call. thank you sir
Thank you for the support 🙏🏽
Ghost mode is real! I’m happy you popped up in my feed
I have been this way for several years!
And the accomplishments and growth is real! You feel so elevated and clarity is spot on!
Hey Issa, I am a 14-year-old teenager, and I have had some traumatic things happening in my life. From bullying to all sorts of things, I have been made fun of, taken advantage of, and ridiculed in front of people I cared about, including my crushes. I have been embarrassed to the utmost degree. I stumbled upon this video a few weeks ago, not thinking much about it. But now I have come back to say that tomorrow, I will start my detox for 3 months or more. I am here to say thank you, and this comment is going to be a throwback comment that I will look back on in a few months. Thank you for popping up on my suggestion page. God bless you.
yoyo hows it going
For too long, I've been settled in mediocrity. For too long, I've been held under by those around me. For too long, I simply looked the other way. Not anymore. I'm tired of being less than great. Today starts the beginning of the new me. Today, I become a ghost.
Love to hear that bro! I’m looking forward to your growth 💪🏼
Inspirational, besides the rejecting your mom part - good outways the bad in that scenario.
ignoring your mom isn't the right thing to do
Man. You’re killing it bro 💪🏻 looking forward to next week’s episode!
Let’s keep posting brother 💪🏼
I agree with the sentiment of, “if it works for you then it works.” So if this works for you then awesome. For me personally, I agree with working out, spending time on things you prioritize as actually important rather than what others say is normal or what you “should do.”
Though part of that for me is being open to try new things and be more honest with the people around me and understand that I can’t control their actions but only my own. It’s also in cherishing all the small moments, including those times with your mom for tea before she’s all of a sudden gone. Maybe rn I can say, “sorry mom I’m busy today, but I’m free on these days I’d love to see you again.” And prioritize enjoying and focusing on that one thing.
I guess what I’m saying is I don’t want to live in regret. But part of that is truly cherishing and living in the moments I currently am in. Enjoy all the side journeys with the main quest.
Putting yourself first can be a good choice for a while! And to isolate can be necessary if you’re burned out or get super triggered by people due to trauma for example.
But in the end of the day, relationships being happiness and chances for self development too.
Starving yourself from connection is not something I would recommend in the long run, it’s a basic human need.
And also it’s important to have some consideration for the feelings of the people that cares about you 💕.
Id say i have a rare case in which i have somewhere around 15 friends (separated in to 2 groups) that are all actually lifting me up. And i say that after a real assessment (ive been on self improvement for a year or so and my dads passing 276 days ago really improved my judgment) about people) i am also 20 and have already found my purpose in life. I wanna get that ghost mode effect but without actually leaving my friends and my purpose.
I’m sorry to hear about your dad bro, you must be taking a lot on your plate. In that case, continue to grow with the people around you!
@@IssaIbrahim1 thank you Issa, means a lot. Id say my biggest problem rn preventing myself from progressing in life is discipline and structure. I dont think i should completely disappear but rather start working on my goals in a more structured and focused way (i mean i already know that im just struggling to do that)
Dawg how did u find your purpose in life at 20 years old. I’m 20 and I just go from job to job, making just enough money to pay the bills.
@@KrunchyMemes id say im lucky in a way but it was inevitable...ive been searching for it since i was 7-8 years old
Grateful to the algorithm for bringing me here my best friend named his son essa and I believe he will grow up to help change the world for the better
Best video i have seen in a while, straight to the point, no messing around
Thanks bro 💪🏽
Bro this video is literally Gold.
Thanks for the support bro 🙏🏽
SAME! GET HEALTHY! GET HEALTHY! Im struggling to actually do this. I know keep hearing if you dont do it on your own. we will make it happen.
I needee to see this. Just got out of a narcissistic relationship that really messed with my mental health.
Deleted all social media, dropped 24 lbs in the last month working out 2x a day and focusing on my diet and seeing a therapist now.
This battle for the next year is me vs me.
Looking forward to seeing where this next year takes you bro! Keep up the grind! 💪
Good for you man you deserve to be happy
Thanks for this video! I actually did go ghost mode- I didn't realize that was the term. But for sure I feel a lot of the comments echo the correct sentiments- you learn who your true friends/family are. I will say though its important to not completely cut people out. I am battling loneliness and its healthy to try and seek solutions to that. Some of us need people to support us during the tough times, but also celebrate the good times with.
I did this years ago. I’m the best sharpest man I ever been.
I’ve been on ghost mode for a year now I lost 70 pounds and my physic is better than ever it’s been the loneliest journey but the reward is PRICELESS!!!!
Wow respect to you brother 🫡
Congrats and keep at it brother 💪🏽
You forgot the second part of that quote. "One who travels the fastest travels alone, but the one that travels the furthest travels with others."
I guess the next step is to find out when to travel in a group vs alone🤔 I think depending on your situation, 1 is needed more than the other and vice versa.
Careful not to cut off ties with people who love and care for you, have tea with your mum because you’ll regret it when you can’t
My man you've spoken nothing but truth.. ghost mode is okay but parents and family must not be compromised.
The full quote is "He who travels the fastest travels alone, but he who travels the furthest travels with company"
yeah i love this bro, started listening to it everyday as a reminder ty♥️💯
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Truly inspiring! You've earned a new subscriber, brother 🙏
Thank you for your support 🙏
Hell yeah brother! Rock On! 🤘
IF I LISTEN TO THIS EVERYDAY THERE NO WAY MY MENTALITY DOES NOT FUCKING CHANGE!! Thank You!
Let’s get after it bro! 💪
Everyone should do this- just ghost for a year especially if you’re young, no major responsibilities but yourself.
Stop finding an excuse to do hard work.
You got it bro 💪🏽
Instant legend. God knows how many men are now making content like this, but I’ve not seen anything like your channel, brother. Thank you.
That means the world to me bro 🙏
This is one of the very few guys Hamza was talking about when he was mentioning that crazy zone on the other side of the tunnel of peace.
God bless, big brother ☦!
Technically, I was a ghost for like 4-5 years once I moved from my hometown. Moved back and everyone thinks I’m hotter shit than I really am 😂 I love it.
As long as im not at work im pretty much a ghost , no social media, dont go out, just focus on what i want to do
You got it bro 💪
I've been doing this on and off my whole life. Did it as a kid by cutting off all friends and concentrating on school work. The did it again in my late teenage years, cut off all my friends and social media, even college to work full-time. Then I put a bit of undesired weight on during Covid pandemic, lost my job and fell into a bad routine. I put my foot down and did what I know best. Cut off all distractions and got to the grind again. Joined the Gym, lost considerable amount of weight. I even started Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu because I've always wanted to try it. Got myself a decent paying Job and things are looking way better.
I encourage anybody if they are going through something and you have multiple distractions in life. Try this and I can guarantee you will learn a lot about yourself as well as bettering yourself. 👍
Let's hope this works out. See you on the 19th of June, 2024.
This video definitely needs to get recommended by RUclips 😍
Hahaa I hope so 🙏🏼
Thnx for the message, here I thought I was kinda crazy feeling this kind of peace in my life.
I know sometimes I feel guilty for being at peace while others are judging me for living differently.. live the way you want brother cause they will always find a way to hate
Started this jounery one week ago, going into my second week. Deleted social media accounts - Facebook, Instagram and TikTok. Removed my Netflix account and WhatsApp for the next 11 months. Went back to the gym, cut out coffee and the list goes on. As a female, this is one of the most liberating things I've done in a while. Cannot wait to see where I'll be in 2025 🎉
The “I fucking stop hanging out with my girl” made me laugh but this is true. Good video
Glad you found the humour in it bro 😂