Hearing that your mother's hatred drove you away from the dress of your dreams makes me so upset for you. I think you'd make a stunning bride in it, when all the styling was done, and because your utter love for it would shine through. If you can make it happen, I honestly say do it. (Maybe a separate ceremony and reception look?)
I thought the same. I think it's cruel to say you look ugly in it. I didn't like my sister's bridal gown at all but she looked so happy, that I shut my mouth. Did I like the other dresses better? A resounding yes, but she didn't glow in them as she did in the gown she finally picked. I am kind of angry with your mother on your behalf.
Honestly my first reaction was it was definitely unique but it kinda looks like a beautiful foreign sci-fi/fantasy type noble dress, IMO you look stunning in it
Oh I’m so sorry your mom said that to you! That’s a cruel thing to say about someone’s dream wedding dress. I think it’s beautiful and so are you. I hope your real wedding dress ends up just as meaningful to you as this one.
I’m genuinely sad that your mother was so rude. She was being selfish when she made her comments. This dress is gorgeous and you are glowing in it! It reminds me of something Danielle might have worn in Ever After. It’s both classic and futuristic in the best ways. It’s stunning.
i feel like there have been a lot of sad moments with your mom during your dress shopping journey! I would hate if you fell in love with a dress but decided against it because your mom keeps being so unnecessarily harsh 😢
wow i’ve never thought i would love wedding dresses. But the ones with character… the ones you have shown that are so unique and different. I am infatuated with them.
I bet the fabric felt amazing and in person, the light catches it just perfectly and the craftsmanship, and there’s probably so many reasons to love this dress even if it doesn’t fully come across that way in a photo. It also looks great on your figure.
The thing is, no one else's opinion matters. The comments here don't matter. If you love the dress, then it's your dress! Your mother can object all she wants but at the end of the day, she doesn't have the right to reject it because it's YOUR wedding!
It gives Padme elegance in a sci-fi mixed with high fashion sort of way. Definitely takes a unique taste to appreciate it, but the vision is beautiful.
a little heartbreaking that your mom couldn't stand with your real choice for your wedding dress. it's beautiful, unique, and it's beyond obvious that it's the one you truly fell in love with. it's absolutely not the typical wedding dress, but it's just so otherwordly and suits you so well-tragic that we'll never see what could've been but i'm sure you'll look amazing in the one you (and your mom) decided on.
I honestly think the dress looks gorgeous and with the way you were posing in the photograph, how your hair is laying, just everything, it almost makes you look like a renaissance painting! I totally get why you're obsessed with it
You look like a painting! 🖼️ This is one of the most unique stunning dresses I’ve seen. I can see how it’s polarizing and sad to hear that’s the circumstances around it. Even thought I say follow your authentic desires, I can see how the opposition would damper everything. So I really understand your decision. I sincerely hope another occasion presents itself for you to use it 🤎🩵 Please tell me you bought and still own the dress, yes?
I'm sorry girl, but it's not the first time you said no to the dress you love only because of your mother... Please, stop taking her with you and take only one bff, or go yourself. It's honestly heartbreaking to see how she takes away your joy 💔
wow this is so upsetting to hear. her job is literally helping other people find their "one" and she's not permitting herself the same? who is the one getting married here? not her mom. and why is she letting herself be pushed around by someone who is trying to make her feel awful about what's supposed to be a happy occasion?
It's kind of ugly in my opinion but if you love it and feel happy with it then go for it, girly. It kind of gives me fairy godmother vibes and it would probably look better if you style it with small details like jewelry, maybe something on the hair and things like that.
Girl, stop bringing your mother dress shopping. In 20 years you're going to regret not wearing the dress you wanted. She's ruining your wedding experience. You deserve better.
You look stunning in all of the dresses. I’ve literally just stumbled upon this page 10 mins ago and already obsessed. Can’t wait to see what you decided on!
I love it, and most importantly so do you! Also, you could never look ugly in anything. Hope you have a wonderful wedding ❤ maybe you could do a romantic photo shoot with your husband in this dress. Life is short, and honestly I would do what I want to regardless of how your mom feels - no one else has to like your wedding dress but you - the point is to feel beautiful and special - it doesn’t matter how you get there.
This one is definitely unique, and would be more conventionally “beautiful” or “bridal” if it didn’t have the brown colour. Looking past the colour, I can appreciate the beauty of the silhouette
It's so gorgeous, the colors, the fit, the pleats!!! I'm not even getting married but im having secondhand sadness about me not getting to wear it either! 😂
The dress is absolutely gorgeous! It looks like an Italian renaissance painting with the way the bodice is dyed with the gradient effect at the bust. It makes it looke like a painting and i absolutely love it! ❤
You should wear what you want to wear on your wedding day. I hope you keep this video for your kids someday. You are already married so is this a party dress?
I remember you also really loved another dress that had brown details (it was gorgeous too) but this one is a masterpiece. The skirt shape reminds me of the Vivienne one you also really liked. :(
I love that you loved it. You looked good in it although, i won't lie, when you said " not everyone's cup of tea" my eyes were just drawn to the bodice!😅 But I'm here for your excitement about it.
Who gives a shit about what other people think this is YOUR wedding day YOUR dress and most importantly YOUR SPECIAL DAY and at the end of the day when your old and retired you well respected living for everyone else choices just remember that you are amazing in your own way and that everyone is different but special in their own ways ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
If you are feeling such strong emotions to a dress then I believe you should wear it. It's YOUR special day although I think that having others also loving your dress is nice it won't always happen. Get the dress if you love it and who cares if your mother doesn't it's not her choice after all. You may regret not getting it so follow your gut
Wait I actually thought it was stunning Not even in a "unique so it's pretty" way, like it's actually such a beautiful dress The colors, the neckline, the sculptural-ness.. its actually so gorgeous PLUS it's unique and special. And the way it fits you?? So so amazing I wish we could've seen more of you in this dress
Girl, when I tell you looked like a deadass live action Disney princess in this masterpiece!! It is absolutely gorgeous and fits the shape of your hair so well. Maybe fate will bring you back together in the future
I was recently looking at a dress just like this online but white. I don't like the colour of this one. The shape is interesting, it just needs something else to make it amazing. Maybe make it all blue but a nicer blue? Not the grey tone it currently is.
I actually really like that dress, especially on you. This is my biggest fear as a mom, my child not picking something (not just with a wedding) just because I don’t like something. I’m very picky with my tastes in clothing among other things so I try to be really careful expressing my honest opinions on some things because that’s all it is, an opinion. I’d rather my kid be happy than choose something to appease me
It is unique. But part of it's uniqueness is beautiful. Maybe the color scheme is what someone wouldn't want. But it's still beautiful. I like the texture of the material, the way the sleeves are, how it fits at the waist and then how the gown becomes full at the bottom.
I'm not big on it from just the photos but maybe my thoughts would be different seeing it in person. Aside from that, it's unique to be sure. A wedding with that dress would be quite interesting to attend.
Hearing that your mother's hatred drove you away from the dress of your dreams makes me so upset for you. I think you'd make a stunning bride in it, when all the styling was done, and because your utter love for it would shine through. If you can make it happen, I honestly say do it. (Maybe a separate ceremony and reception look?)
I thought the same. I think it's cruel to say you look ugly in it. I didn't like my sister's bridal gown at all but she looked so happy, that I shut my mouth. Did I like the other dresses better? A resounding yes, but she didn't glow in them as she did in the gown she finally picked.
I am kind of angry with your mother on your behalf.
When she said that I thought of someone saying the wedding is always for the guests not the couple
Honestly my first reaction was it was definitely unique but it kinda looks like a beautiful foreign sci-fi/fantasy type noble dress, IMO you look stunning in it
I looked like a renaissance alien and it just spoke to me so strongly 😭
Reminds me of Irulan's attire from Dune(1980s)
This is so sad! Wear the dress you love!! :(
Fr the sci fi royalty describes it perfectly ya got it
Oh I’m so sorry your mom said that to you! That’s a cruel thing to say about someone’s dream wedding dress. I think it’s beautiful and so are you. I hope your real wedding dress ends up just as meaningful to you as this one.
I’m genuinely sad that your mother was so rude. She was being selfish when she made her comments. This dress is gorgeous and you are glowing in it! It reminds me of something Danielle might have worn in Ever After. It’s both classic and futuristic in the best ways. It’s stunning.
It is giving early Italian Renaissance and looks amazing on you.
i feel like there have been a lot of sad moments with your mom during your dress shopping journey! I would hate if you fell in love with a dress but decided against it because your mom keeps being so unnecessarily harsh 😢
wow i’ve never thought i would love wedding dresses. But the ones with character… the ones you have shown that are so unique and different. I am infatuated with them.
I bet the fabric felt amazing and in person, the light catches it just perfectly and the craftsmanship, and there’s probably so many reasons to love this dress even if it doesn’t fully come across that way in a photo. It also looks great on your figure.
It fits your essence so nicely. It's classic, yet edgy and pure art. Those who get it, get it.
Yes!!! That's the perfect way to describe it. It fits her personality/essence
This dress has a vibe of gothic romance set in a bavarian castle invaded by aliens with iris van herpen it feels like it hs everything
The thing is, no one else's opinion matters. The comments here don't matter. If you love the dress, then it's your dress! Your mother can object all she wants but at the end of the day, she doesn't have the right to reject it because it's YOUR wedding!
In the second photo, you look like Mona Lisa. Very ethereal and other-worldy.
Gorgeous. It's just not everyone's idea of a wedding dress. Giving more red carpet than bride, but still beautiful. I understand why you love it.
It gives Padme elegance in a sci-fi mixed with high fashion sort of way. Definitely takes a unique taste to appreciate it, but the vision is beautiful.
a little heartbreaking that your mom couldn't stand with your real choice for your wedding dress. it's beautiful, unique, and it's beyond obvious that it's the one you truly fell in love with. it's absolutely not the typical wedding dress, but it's just so otherwordly and suits you so well-tragic that we'll never see what could've been but i'm sure you'll look amazing in the one you (and your mom) decided on.
It’s okay! What’s meant to be will be. I loved that dress but it’ll be waiting for me for another moment 🫶🏻
that dress is so gorgeous on you!! i love how the brown portion looks with your hair
I know it just really went so well with my hair 🥲
I honestly think the dress looks gorgeous and with the way you were posing in the photograph, how your hair is laying, just everything, it almost makes you look like a renaissance painting! I totally get why you're obsessed with it
You look like a painting! 🖼️
This is one of the most unique stunning dresses I’ve seen. I can see how it’s polarizing and sad to hear that’s the circumstances around it. Even thought I say follow your authentic desires, I can see how the opposition would damper everything. So I really understand your decision.
I sincerely hope another occasion presents itself for you to use it 🤎🩵 Please tell me you bought and still own the dress, yes?
Omg no, it was too expensive to buy just for fun 🥲
I'm sorry girl, but it's not the first time you said no to the dress you love only because of your mother... Please, stop taking her with you and take only one bff, or go yourself.
It's honestly heartbreaking to see how she takes away your joy 💔
It’s giving crimson peak very ethereal
I really thought I’d hate it, but the more I looked at it, the more I actually loved it! It’s absolutely giving non-cosplay Corpse Bride! 🥰
wow this is so upsetting to hear. her job is literally helping other people find their "one" and she's not permitting herself the same? who is the one getting married here? not her mom. and why is she letting herself be pushed around by someone who is trying to make her feel awful about what's supposed to be a happy occasion?
so wear it? I’m confused as to why your mom’s opinion is sooo binding when you clearly love this dress more than life, it’s your wedding?
It's not a dress it's a piece of art
It so reminds me of the Fifth Element (Dune too for recency bias). I loved the costume design in both movies.
The silhouette reminds me of Joan of Arc- you look so stunning in it and your joy about the dress is so sweet!
THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL THE BROWN COMPLIMENTS YOUR HAIR SO MUCH PLEASE DO IT
It's kind of ugly in my opinion but if you love it and feel happy with it then go for it, girly. It kind of gives me fairy godmother vibes and it would probably look better if you style it with small details like jewelry, maybe something on the hair and things like that.
What a gorgeous dress! I hope you’re just as passionate about the one you DID choose!
I'm not sure about the brown, but the DESIGN? UGH BEAUTIFUL
Girl, stop bringing your mother dress shopping. In 20 years you're going to regret not wearing the dress you wanted. She's ruining your wedding experience. You deserve better.
You look stunning in all of the dresses. I’ve literally just stumbled upon this page 10 mins ago and already obsessed. Can’t wait to see what you decided on!
I like the dress but that brown color.. I just can’t
Maybe a deep deep blue instead of the brown or even a sort of heavily saturated plum?
I love it, and most importantly so do you! Also, you could never look ugly in anything. Hope you have a wonderful wedding ❤ maybe you could do a romantic photo shoot with your husband in this dress. Life is short, and honestly I would do what I want to regardless of how your mom feels - no one else has to like your wedding dress but you - the point is to feel beautiful and special - it doesn’t matter how you get there.
It reminds me of a Siamese cat and I LOVE that
Im lowk with your mom on this one 😭 its a shame you couldn't get it and wear it for another event / part of the wedding though 😢
The way I’m entirety obsessed with this dress and the way you wear it AHHH it’s perfect seriously, like I see that dress in my dreams now
This one is definitely unique, and would be more conventionally “beautiful” or “bridal” if it didn’t have the brown colour. Looking past the colour, I can appreciate the beauty of the silhouette
I tried it in white but it just didn’t speak to me as much as the color did!
It's so gorgeous, the colors, the fit, the pleats!!! I'm not even getting married but im having secondhand sadness about me not getting to wear it either! 😂
The way your eyes shined says it all. If you're that happy talking about it, its the dress for you!!!
it looks so better, I love the form and fabric of the dress
ALSO😄 the shape, and the color of the dress suit you so well❤
Ahhh mothers!!! We love them and yet they break out hearts, sometimes more than others. Sending you a big hug.❤❤❤
Im so sorry ur mom is against this dress, but Go Girl! U look so ethereal! U can still wear it on other occasion or smth 🥺
The sleeves look very fantasy armor. I love it! I hope the dress you got makes you feel as good!
The dress is absolutely gorgeous! It looks like an Italian renaissance painting with the way the bodice is dyed with the gradient effect at the bust. It makes it looke like a painting and i absolutely love it! ❤
It reminds me of Dracula armor in Coppola's movie, love it!
if you like it, wear it! not your moms day
My heart STOPPED when I saw this dress 😭😭😭. It’s like post-apocalyptic magical sage priestess in the desert. What a VIBE 🤩🤩🤩
I love this dress for you. It's unique, regal, and memorable. I wish i could see what bouquet you would have chosen to compliment it
"you've never looked uglier" from mom had me rolling im sorry 😂 moms have no filter
I like it but the sleeves really irritate me for some reason
The sleeves are super polarizing, I love them!
You should wear what you want to wear on your wedding day. I hope you keep this video for your kids someday. You are already married so is this a party dress?
Can you wear this as one of your dresses at the wedding party? You look stunning in this
Stunning! I love watching these!!
I remember you also really loved another dress that had brown details (it was gorgeous too) but this one is a masterpiece. The skirt shape reminds me of the Vivienne one you also really liked. :(
The fact that you are so obsessed with it MAKES me love it
your family have no taste cuz all the dresses you said they said were the ugliest were the best dresses😂
It’s so beautiful!!!!! Love the style of it
I absolutely love this dress too! So unique and gorgeous!
The dress is gorgeous honey!!! You look like a work or art! I literally clicked on this because of thumbnail of you in the dress.
You always tell us to get the dress we love, not the ones others want for us, I hope you can go back and get this one for yourself
I love it. From a different time and it makes you look like 15th century Princess.
I get it. 😘🫶🏻
the dress looks like a painting! i'm so sorry that you ended up saying no, you looked gorgeous 🥹
It gives me Padme Amidala vibes big time!!! So pretty and natural!!!
Not your mom roasting you like that 😂
Its YOUR day! This dress is breathtaking. ❤️
I love thisss, you look so regal
I LOVE this dress!!!
The silhouette is giving exactly like queen victorias dress but the brown is not it 😂 Nope hahaha
I love that you loved it. You looked good in it although, i won't lie, when you said " not everyone's cup of tea" my eyes were just drawn to the bodice!😅 But I'm here for your excitement about it.
Who gives a shit about what other people think this is YOUR wedding day YOUR dress and most importantly YOUR SPECIAL DAY and at the end of the day when your old and retired you well respected living for everyone else choices just remember that you are amazing in your own way and that everyone is different but special in their own ways ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I loooove it!!!! OMG I want it!!! I have nowhere to wear it to, but I just want it🤩 also, it looks like something I would save on Pinterest😁
If you are feeling such strong emotions to a dress then I believe you should wear it. It's YOUR special day although I think that having others also loving your dress is nice it won't always happen. Get the dress if you love it and who cares if your mother doesn't it's not her choice after all. You may regret not getting it so follow your gut
Wait I actually thought it was stunning
Not even in a "unique so it's pretty" way, like it's actually such a beautiful dress
The colors, the neckline, the sculptural-ness.. its actually so gorgeous PLUS it's unique and special. And the way it fits you?? So so amazing I wish we could've seen more of you in this dress
Sorry your mother spoke to you in such a hateful and disrespectful manner...you're beautiful inside and out, and no piece of clothing can change that.
When I covered up the bottom half of the sleeves, it looked a lot better
Girl, when I tell you looked like a deadass live action Disney princess in this masterpiece!! It is absolutely gorgeous and fits the shape of your hair so well. Maybe fate will bring you back together in the future
Full Mona Lisa fantasy
I was recently looking at a dress just like this online but white. I don't like the colour of this one. The shape is interesting, it just needs something else to make it amazing. Maybe make it all blue but a nicer blue? Not the grey tone it currently is.
its actually soo beautiful
Your Mom is mean. 😢 You look beautiful in this ❤
The pallette is beautiful on you.
People pleasing will leave you with regrets.
I actually really like that dress, especially on you. This is my biggest fear as a mom, my child not picking something (not just with a wedding) just because I don’t like something. I’m very picky with my tastes in clothing among other things so I try to be really careful expressing my honest opinions on some things because that’s all it is, an opinion. I’d rather my kid be happy than choose something to appease me
Amen! You sound like an amazing mom ❤!
You look quite ethereal in that dress :)
This looks perfect for the Dune 2 premier in the best way
It is unique. But part of it's uniqueness is beautiful. Maybe the color scheme is what someone wouldn't want. But it's still beautiful. I like the texture of the material, the way the sleeves are, how it fits at the waist and then how the gown becomes full at the bottom.
Oh this gives absolute Dracula 1992 vibes, it’s stunningggg.
somehow I can 100% imagine you wearing this in a DUNE au
Major "Ever After" vibes
I love it though instead of brown I prefer like another color maybe
Its gorgeous.. but I would have made it so the brown fades into moroon or burgundy.
The dress you really liked is pretty! It reminds me of something they would wear in the movie ever after
There's something about it that's giving me star wars wardrobe department vibes, I don't hate , I actually kind of like it
You look angelic in this
This is gorgeous
I'm not big on it from just the photos but maybe my thoughts would be different seeing it in person. Aside from that, it's unique to be sure. A wedding with that dress would be quite interesting to attend.
It’s so regal.
Aah, that dress looks straight out of a painting!