That's awesome! I'm happy for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html or from a more recent advice here as well: ruclips.net/video/-OqYy_DqNJc/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/8gc53SzHrac/видео.html All the best! :-)
I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html or from a more recent advice here as well: ruclips.net/video/-OqYy_DqNJc/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/8gc53SzHrac/видео.html All the best! :-)
It’s been around two weeks now and I am not even sure I want to contact him. It helps watching these things but in the end I don’t want someone who doesn’t want me 🙋♀️
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
I screwed everything up initially after the break up and she asked for space and I agreed we shouldn’t talk for a few months, these videos have been helpful in getting myself together.
That's good! Getting yourself together is key regardless of how it turns out with your ex. Just apply the tips from my vids though, these are your best chance. Good luck!
I've dumped my ldr ex (used your advice, found that the distance was too great with no signs of it ending anytime soon) and have no intentions on getting back with him, but I still enjoy watching your videos! The "what not to do" list reminds me of my first love (ldr relationship) and how I acted in all the wrong ways, and I cringe hard at how I used to be
Im married with kids, i have applied the NC for two weeks by keeping it simple, trying to only have conversations related to our kids and simply avoid talking about "us" although he brings other conversations up. Im also working on my self by becoming more independent. Recently he told a common friend that he feels like i dont need him anymore and that im doing stuff i wouldnt do when he was in the picture. Now im confused on what to do or how to take his comment
You should not need him especially if he dumped you in the first place. It's important you get your own power back first. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
I'm happy for you! As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
I don't know what happened with me. I met a new guy. He makes me feel so good.. And every day I want my ex less. But anyway deep into my heart I miss him a lot. I can't figure out if I want him back or not.
The decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. Is your ex worth getting back together with? Check this out, though, particularly if your reasons for getting your ex back overpowers everything else: ruclips.net/video/ruPp_tCs-qg/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/PJHf-s_VwKk/видео.html once you've decided to try and get your ex back, make sure you play your cards right starting with the 30-day "no contact" rule then tick off the checklist here after: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html
U miss him! There is your answer camily, the love is still there but the time is not. We humans make mistake here and there. But only you yourself know if he is worth it. A piece of advice from me, think of the good n great things happen together as couple. Maybe its worth a shot always. Try talking things out and it may have a solution to it. Dont enter into a relationship to soon, because it may hurt the other innocent person which is unfair. I hope i m right in this but if i am wrong, my sincere apologies.
This no contact stuff is so new for me. If I didn't watch these videos I'd guarantee do something to totally f it all up. Thanks Brad! I Believe U can bring us back together again. This woman is one of a kind & I truly love her. I'm gonna stick with the 30 day cold Turkey treatment for sure.🤙🙏💙
Good! Just be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
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I have often wondered about all three aspects amidst confusion. These are good words and will make it clearer to stick to no contact while I better myself. Thank you, and I look forward to other topics. 🍒
That's right. You're welcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex, and to actually what to do in between those phases. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Best of luck!
Im at 1 month no contact, she wished me a happy birthday and my reply was short and respectful. And Im liking it so much that I think Ill continue no contact permanently. 😅😅
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. :-) Best of luck!
Hey brad.. I've been watching lots of your videos and it has always been a comfortable for me. Am so thankful. I've been with my ex for almost 2 years and within that two years our relationship has gone through a lot. She once cheated me and I forgave her and we continue dating but slowly she started losing her interest in me and we broke up. She told me she'll never trust me again.
Thanks! With regards to your situation, this is why you shouldn't forgive easily and let her earn your trust instead so as not to enable their behaviour and so you won't lose value in her eyes. So set some strong boundaries. One way of showing that is to stand up for yourself and to cut off contact. Never ever chase and don't take any bs from your ex, yeah? If she doesn't trust you and you haven't done anything to break that trust, then she's projecting, so be careful with that.
We dated for about 3 months but had a friendship for a year and a half. We only got to hangout once during our relationship due to quarantine. She broke up with me because there’s a lot going on in her life and she said it’s best she’s not in a relationship for now, but I still want things to work out. It’s been a week of no contact.
Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/ZuHWCWeG1xs/видео.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Hi Brad, me and my gf didn't contact for a month because of arguments and now I apologized but she doesn't want to forgive me and she gets angry at me. I said I will change but she don't believe me. She even blocked me from all apps but I convinced her to unblocked me but still nothing is right. I don't know if she gave up for real. Please help, I'm new to your channel btw
If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Also, pain (that's why your ex dumped you) is a very good teacher and motivator not to mention a huge catalyst, so making these changes within yourself in order for the possibility to come back together stronger and better is what you can expect and you will be able to use this progress if not for your ex, then with someone new. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: ruclips.net/video/bZ1KetALZrc/видео.html
I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html or from this advice here as well: ruclips.net/video/-OqYy_DqNJc/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/8gc53SzHrac/видео.html All the best! :-)
I started no contact 6 weeks after the break up. I didn't beg or plead for another chance but I let it be known I was struggling a lot with the break-up. I ignored her and left her on open when I started no contact. She said it was rude, and I told her I wasn't trying to be rude, just busy and didn't want to talk to her for now because I want some space. Was that the best thing I could have done? I tried covert jealousy and she has unfollowed me as well, but no reaching out. Thanks Brad
Yes, I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
HES RIGHT !! It works . My ex was crying and told me he misses his family . We have a baby together . But I kind of don’t feel the same way . But do NO CONTACT .
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
I broke up with my fiancé after she moved out to seek independence. She immediately regretted her decision and tried to come back but I couldn’t believe her when she said she’d never leave again. I recently implemented the NC method to give her time to see what life is really like without me. But I feel like I’m torturing us by not allowing her to move back home.
You don't have to employ the no contact rule if your ex proves she wants to get back together. This is something I've discussed here: ruclips.net/video/ek_4wpkV66c/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/видео.html
Use this no contact to make yourself better not to feel more sad, its no use if you do no contact without fixing your self, do what you love hangout with friends and be happy, besides it's best for you to be happy, stay strong ma friend
You ought to watch/review the tips here first, especially the first part, although I recommend you to watch the entire video to get the full gist: ruclips.net/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/видео.html and a quick overview here: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html Once you've completed the "no contact" rule for at least 30 days straight, then it's time to RE-ESTABLISH CONTACT with your ex. Start out with the tips from here: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html Also check out my other videos on my channel for more tips on what to do next and/or get my Ex Factor Guide for a comprehensive step-by-step process on how to go about this. Good luck!
Hey brad.. she told me to stop doing something but i wouldn’t listen and it got to her she said she’s done and was really stubborn.. being rude and nasty even though i know i deserve it. but i really want to change for her now even though she says it’s too late i want to prove her wrong .i began my no contact today and i can tell she really loves me but cannot withstand any pain anymore.. and i really want to change. how long would it take for her to start missing me and forgetting about all the negative moments we’ve had ?
If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: ruclips.net/video/bZ1KetALZrc/видео.html
V were in no contact for 2months. He came back. I acted excatly the same all clingy and insecure. He blocked me. Its been 6 months now v haven't talked. You think he will come back?? Any chances?? Or should I do something??
Take time to not only give each other space but to work on becoming the best version of yourself as well. Also take time to accept the breakup. When you do, you won't be acting clingy and you'll be in a much secure position in your life even without your ex. As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
advice? my ex girlfriend and i broke up with her a couple of months ago due to some personal reasons, she hates me and doesn't want anything to do with me. we see eachother a lot and are friends with the same people most of time. i see her a lot, and i just want to be able to be comfortable around her, and not so nervous and scared. i want to be able to talk to my friends while she's around as well talking to them.
Hi Brad. Well, I don't think my life has ever had such bad luck. The new guy I started talking to 3 weeks ago, Has blocked me from snap and my number yesterday. For no reason. So I have been ghosted AGAIN. Aint life just great? I've been done wrong and mistreated TWICE. So, I messaged my ex, and told him that I still would like my belongings back, he of course left me on read. Why do shitty ppl exist? I honestly have given up at this point on men. If you have any advice, Please let me know. Thank you.
If your ex has ghosted you, then I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it may be over for good. It's one of the things I've discussed here: ruclips.net/video/FP8YmErEOW8/видео.html
Hey Brad, I had recently been dumped. My ex says he needs space and had blocked me everywhere except LinkedIn and twitter saying that there’s no understanding or feelings. I tried to beg him twice after 2 days. He repelled. I started watching your videos and am applying no contact strategy. I am at day 3 right now, today I noticed he removed me as a connection from LinkedIn. I am afraid if he is moving on. But I am still trying to work on myself and be my best version hope this no contact gives me a better direction. ☺️
Yeah, stick to your path. Unless you've done something really epic to mess up things, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
I have texted "I'm going away for 30 days, won't be available for communication. See you next month." Then been away. He has been replying to my status and asking me to watch a show on Netflix. Not sure if i should be responding or not. It's been 24 hours !
So you're saying it's been at least a month since the breakup? Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Hi brad I dated a girl for 3months and made huge mistake by lying to her so she texted me she doesnt know what to do unless I fix the problems she doesnt see the future with me. So I took full responsibility to fix it and I did. But her answers were angrily I dont want to think about it right now, or cant believe you did that out of all the guys you and my guard is up" so i plead and begged giving her flowers and letter for 1 week, and I sended her last message saying "I know you dnt want to talk to me now all I can do is ask forgiveness and wait but since you dont want to talk to me anymore I just want to say thank you for wonderful memories you gave me for 3 months and hope your eye infection becomes fine thank you and good night" so right now im on NC for five days enjoying times with friends and family posting picture being social. did I do something very stupid at anypoint? what do I need to do? please I need your help
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Hey Brad. Need help man. I did no contact for 2 times and broke them one at 10days and 2nd time at 22 days. Both the time she did approach me and I couldn't control myself spoke with her and expressed in such a way that I'm desperate to be with her. Then again she blocked me and left. Now I'm in my third try of No contact and this is 20th day today. Please let me know would it be working or not
Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html So it's it's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, assuming you've only begged for a short while as opposed to months on end, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
I don’t want her back I would just really love your opinion. She made a big assumption on something and she told me to never text again and a few days later when I reached out she told me she’s not mad she just doesn’t want me to talk to her anymore and never wants to see me. She straight up doesn’t want me reaching out, why would me not reaching out anymore surprise her? It’s been 19 days since she last told me “for the last time stop texting me”
So finally he is leaving the country next week. We were already in long distance. I went to see him last week. Had good time but he won’t share personal stuff with me. Today he broke up again saying he had made up his mind. It can’t work. I said I respect your decision and I wish you safe flight If I don’t reach out that day. He said upto you. Did I already make the mistake ? And how to fix this?
Sorry to hear that. It's hard to judge since I don't really have a solid idea on what your relationship is like but I say give it time and observe what happens. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Good luck! Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
i did 2 months no contact, texted my ex, he said he wanted to see me so we scheduled a time to get together. the day we were supposed to meet up, at 1 am, he texted me and said he didn't want to see me anymore because of the virus. i offered to get tested, but he said no. he tried to say he was excited to see me, but would rather not risk his health and job.... i understand, but i don't believe him
If cases there are rampant, his concern could be genuine. I mean, this pandemic is no joke. Just try not to make a big deal out of it and just text every now and then. Follow the texting tips on my other vids and if possible, let him initiate. Nothing left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
My ex and I broke up just over a month ago, and we kept talking after our break up, having emotional conversations on a weekly basis, and I told him yesterday it was too much for me to talk to him, and just to keep it about our apartment. I miss him so much and I want him back, I've told him I wanted to get back together multiple times already. He has asked if I need him to give me space multiple times and each time I avoided the question because I was scared, but yesterday when I finally said I need space he got upset. I'm confused and feeling like I screwed up my chances.
At this point, don't talk about giving space. Just go and do it so you won't be tempted to renegotiate the breakup, which I'm sorry to say is really not helpful at this point. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ruclips.net/video/WVB0_l60SpM/видео.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html For a complete, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Hey Brad i just want to know what If your ex was okey after the break up but during no contact they said things like "i hate you""I'm getting out of your life forever" and they blocked you. I've been blocked for almost one day and i didn't react to it at all, she called me 3 times before the day she blocked me and i ignored
Yes, it's somehow expected. A lot of things are going through your ex's mind and with mixed emotions, so make sure you don't add fuel to the fire and just ignore it. The last thing you two need is more drama.
Hey Brad! Me and my long distance girlfriend broke up more than a month ago in good terms. the thing is that I feel the urge to have her back even though I did not want her back at first. a week passed I begged her only once and we kinda agreed that we might have a chance to comeback. a couple weeks went by and we still talked but I was feeling sad. so I told her that I needed time for myself to figure out my life. she does not know that I'm applying the no contact rule, but she agreed to text me back at a random day. she did not give me an apparent reason to the breakup. she just "didn't feel comfortable with me no more." but I do no know the reason, it was because of my pride. It has affected me before.
Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hi. I think Iv made every mistake possible. She cheated and left for him. We were still talking and being intimate. I know big mistake. I went no contact for a week. She’s messaged and I broke no contact. I then Told her about it (no contact) and said I was getting better and now I think I fucked it. If I went no contact again will she reach out? Or…… I dunno what to do or think anymore. I’m so lost
Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ruclips.net/video/m27TLeyUmwg/видео.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with her if you can see she no longer wants to try. Take care!
Can no contact work a second time ? I did it with my ex before it took me almost 3 months and we get together . But there we are fighting again . And I had my second breakup . I'm in no contact for 6 months . She just check my stories and did wish me on my birthday . I said thank u and that's it . I didn't wish her on her birthday . I still don't even know if this is working or not . Help me out
It can. But an on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
the pain after brake-up it was so bad … After 2 weeks of No Contact and i feel more happier . My ex husband has a new relationship. He will come back? yesterday he comes to see our child . he looks so different even he talk to me calm after a long time
Depending on how long your marriage has been rocky and how long you've been divorced after that, he may not. And without knowing your full situation, it's really hard to say, so take the free quiz here: www.marriageguy.com/coaching
Be strong! It's definitely time to take care of yourself first though, so take time to heal and employ the 30-day "no contact" rule without these mistakes, okay? Take care!
Hi brad I'm listening to your advice. My boyfriend of 3 year ask me today for some space apart. That really hurts. He told me i can call him but not like before. I used to make breskfast for him and he told me not to anymore. What should I do please
@@BradBrowning hi brad thank you so much. I will take your advice. And see where it goes. Everything was going great and then suddenly this happened. I will not give up I will fight for us.its has only been 2 days but it feels like years apart. How long should I do the no contact for. Please Brad
I have been in no contact for almost 2 months.. He blocked me out of the blew and even blocked my phone number. After that i started no contact and now it's been almost two months, we have known each other for 9 years and we were in relationship for 4 years then there was a gap for 2 years for some misunderstanding after that we again got into the relationship everything was going well but from february 2022 he started acting hot and cold and then in July he blocked me and he had never blocked me in 9 years.
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
I am doing NC I have only contacted when he sent Happy birthday to me then I sent a message on his mums 1 year anniversary of passing away. We spoke a bit (text)but we just spoke about his mum and how he is he did not ask how I was.Its been 2 and a bit months.I miss him so much but he is also in such a bad state of grief
Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ruclips.net/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
Please help? I had relationship with my ex for 2,5 year.i broke up with her and she said it was mutual then i blocked her but i reached out 3 week's later and she didn't want me back than i went to no contact she wrote me 2 weeks later just to see how im doing nothing serious than 1,5 month of no contact she wrote me again but seems like she doesn't feel sorry for anything she did.she doesn't take any accountability.it makes me feel so anxious.she can access anytime she wants and blame me still for breaking up bu i apologized already.i can't see that she wants to fix it or say sorry.i feel like i have to force her and it makes me feel so weak.i lost all the power.i blocked her 10 days ago because she can't swallow her pride.i still want her but it ruined my mental health..what can i do now?
Hi! Sorry to hear you're going through this. Giving each other enough space can sometimes help people snap back into reality... without forcing her. Let time to its job first while you do you. I think you may find the tips from this vid useful to use on your ex: ruclips.net/video/plgoMW6GrM8/видео.html
Hello! We were togather for 11 months,she broke up with me saying that she doesn't feel safe or trust me anymore and it was just a fucking banal misunderstanding. I applied no contact and she reached out saying that she wants me and that she is very sorry and she was confused and she thaught highly of me that's why she was shoked to hear me say that ect.. and this and that...i waited a day befor replaying to her,i was on vacation during that..i was genuinely happy and relaxed..our conversation was light and happy i made her laugh so much and i ended the conversation graciously saying that friends are calling to go to the forest nearby (it was what Happened) The probleme is....i still have doubts with her..i feel that things are very awkward now and i just CAN'T see her as i used too...LOVE her i never connected on such a deep level as i did with her (she is an artist I'm an architect... conversations between us were heavenly and took houres! One time we talked for 11 houres!) I loved every detail of her Brain soul and everything..but now it's very awkward and heavy and I don't know what to do or say It's like each one of us is waiting for the other one to say something and crickets are in the background...the connection is gone.. please help! Be it even a diagnosis! If it's over it's over but i just need to know.
So your problem is you don't feel the same way for her anymore? It really depends because sometimes you just need more time apart. Have you let go of past baggage or are you holding on to resentment and have you both tried to re-ignite the spark? You may have to cut your losses so both of you can find someone you can connect with. You both deserve the best. Good luck!
@@BradBrowning Thank you Brad for your reply. I ended up breaking up with her for good,after nearly 2 months of getting back togather she showed some true colors (they were there the entire Time i just was blind) whenever i was being playful and funny she didn't stop ranting obout her father and how "he didn't care" and "dismissed her" when she was sad(she threw a tantrum over a Burger and i was making fun in hope she sees how Silly she's being) every time her dad comes in to the picture 😩, she's quick to dismiss my issues with my newly started architecture firm for her car not being comfortable ennaugh,she gets mad and passive aggressive when I'm bizy with work, extremely sneaky emotional manipulation,and tons of similar and more exhausting things,i managed to just ignore her Silly behavior and get her back on track every time but honestly i got tired of waisting my time and energy and lost every bit of interest in her and it was painful to loose what i had for her. We had an adult conversation that i needed to move on as we resonated at a different frequencies and it's not working anymore for me. We broke up less than a week ago.
If it's not too soon or too late, what's the right time? Should i text my ex first after a certain times or just waiting my ex texting me back first, no matter how long that would be?
My ex broke up with me a month ago because I overthought and overreacted, he felt like our relationship couldn't be worked out anymore. We can't really do no contact because we're in the same college, but both of us never talked to each other since then. He tells his friend that he doesn't really feel much sad about the broke up and he never reached out to me since the day we broke up. Is it possible for me to get him back? I really love him and wanna build a future with him. Currently I'm trying to improve myself by thinking positively and being more sociable, and of course I do all these not because of him but for my own good.
Do limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
Pls brad I hope you read this and reply. After the breakup I pleaded and begged my ex to come back and he ignored me all through. But after watching one of your videos, I sent him a clean slate text like you advised, but in the context I added that I’ll be blocking him for a while. And I was surprised he replied “I understand dear.” Watching this new video makes me feel I’ve lost chances of getting him back since he’s already aware I’m on a no contact with him. I just want to know if I’m still on the right track?
Hi, sorry but no. I wouldn't encourage anyone to beg or plead or even negotiate the breakup with your ex. This is why most of my videos always suggest to employ the 30-day "no contact" rule first.
It's been 27 days since I started no contact. 3 more days. But I'm still afraid to contact her, even after the 30 days cause I feel like shes still gonna reject me
If you feel like that just now i would wait a little longer, if that is to be the case it'll hurt less, and on the other hand she may be days away from reaching out to you.
Noting ventured, nothing gained, though, right? Just make sure you follow my texting tips and don't overanalyze stuff. Also wait for your ex to respond and never bombard her with text messages. This should help you get started once you've summoned enough courage: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html
Please answer, i need help! I broke up with my long distance bf and i remember he said that he believe if people break up it'll never be the same when they get back together. We broke up because he said he couldn't gimme time and attention and don't wanna hurt me. We split a few days ago. I said No at first but i respect him. Do i still have chance??
Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey Brad! My ex dumped me because of his mother as she really said him to stop the things..but he decided to be friends with me as very already were..he always show anger towards me whenever I talk about our breakup and always say I was having no attentions to do that I am helpless..I can't do anything just move on..he text me daily but I really Hurts me..it's been 50 days of our breakup.. should i apply these strategies and no contact?
He could be pushing you away because of his mom. If your ex is in the right age to make his own decisions that’s independent from their parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it's best to consider moving on from this, okay? I’m not quite sure why parents had to get involved in the first place. It's either you're both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!
Hey brad, we dated for 4 months ( In the four months we were going out on dates twice a week for around 1.5 months then we stayed together for 3 weeks and then we had long distance for one month and breakup after two days of meeting again) we were quite serious and close with each other, all was going great, i was asking her to come over and she said no i asked why and out of the blue she broke up with me saying there’s no future and we both know it’s gonna end eventually after our course complete which is after 5 months, it will hurt a lot less if we end it now. We did meet twice and made out once after the breakup, talked for sometime i once kinda begged but then a week after my breakup i blocked her from everywhere but whatsapp and i have maintained no contact for 18 days now, she has not texted me yet and I don’t think she even cares now, she just asks friends that how am I doing. Should I unblock her from social media or is there still a chance she will text?
Blocking an ex on social media is really like opening a can of worms. There's no need to do that at all. Anyway granted it's been months, do you think you're ready to give it a try? Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ruclips.net/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/видео.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE
Hi Brad. I'm on day 16 of no contact. There's just one problem. me and my ex broke up in the heat of the moment and he blocked me everywhere saying he's finished with me for good. he also deleted all evidence of me as far as i've heard. so he doesn't know i'm employing the no contact strategy, but in his mind, we're never speaking again. i don't really know what to do or how i'll contact him on day 30 as i'm almost sure he won't respond or will block my account. i'm really nervous and don't know what to do. i can't stop thinking about him and every day has only been tougher.
Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
So sir my situation is that Sir My Girlfriend Broked with me about 1month ago but at that time she told me that she have no any reasons to broke up with me but she felt that she not love me .and at that day she also cried lot .but after that day we both are friends. But after some day of being friend I felt bad because she erase my name from her instagram id and from her fb profile so i felt bad and i text to her that why you are doing this Did you know how bad i felt etc.... And she from that day she not text with me in right way she only text with me as she not want to text with me. Sir I thought that it is because of atmosphere of the lockdown and because she bored with me. Etc.. So sir what can I do to bring Her back in me life ? Sir is no contact rule is effective in my case or not? if not then sir please give me right path to get her back. And sir I am so appreciate your work of helping those helpless persons to bring there life back 👏
The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Watch this first to help set your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: ruclips.net/video/TnZzeEIPEik/видео.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ruclips.net/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/видео.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
I’ve been following no contact for two weeks, hoping it might work to get my ex back, but now I’ve found this video and feel regret because I told her that I don’t think I can be contact with her as she was happy still be my friend. She already knows to expect no contact. I feel like I’ve no hope now. On the upside I’m in a better place than I was and I am getting better. I just still really wish to start something new with her
You both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: ruclips.net/video/FLeP1eRCkCk/видео.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowning Thanks Brad! I don’t think there are too many bad memories, we split because she just didn’t feel the same as me. Hopefully time apart is what it’ll take to change her mind if she does.
Brad Browning, one of my other crushes said 9 or 10 months ago that she’s not comfortable with me anymore and keeps blocking me everywhere. The blockage started before then. Can you please tell me how to win her back, while using the no-contact strategy, since her mom continues to follow me on Instagram?
He said to our mutual friends for a couple time "please tell her that i miss her" should i respond ? he miss me but it doesn't mean that he want to get back together . Im doing no contact and ignored him but he keeps reaching out to me . What should i do now?
A simple thanks will do, then end the conversation first as soon as possible and tell your ex you're busy and have things to tend to. I don't think your ex will ask, but let her/him wonder what you're doing for your birthday. Post pictures where you're having a blast. Good luck!
Hey Brad, I’m on day 25/30 of no contact. Right after the breakup my ex kept texting me and I just kindly told her that I do not want her to use me as a crutch and that we need to stop talking, because I need time to heal. She understood and was OK with it. Is it now worthless because I made that mistake?
Not at all! Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex, and to actually what to do in between those phases. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Best of luck!
Hey brad the thing is she is just tired and said i dont wana be in a relationship and ended the things, mentioning we were 4 years with each other,she was tired and iritated and frustated because of me, because of my overcaring and overposessive nature,she wanted to be free,i know she still love me and i too still love her with all my heart,and she even said if it is meant to be we will be with each other but rn we cant continue,I really want her back and i even promise i wont make same mistakes again,Can you please tell me what to do❤️
Sorry to hear that. The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Brad I’ve made the mistakes after break up we talked and I’ve reached out a few times every 2 weeks. Constantly apologized and sent nice texts. I left it alone and sent a genuine conversation starter after I saw one of your past videos and she read it fast but never replied so I haven’t contacted her for 2 weeks now and am wondering is it time to just move on because I would love a second chance
Give each other space for AT LEAST 30 days. The space should help you both to clear your mind and do your own thing. See, you both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: ruclips.net/video/FLeP1eRCkCk/видео.html Good luck!
We had a fight she blocked me I didn't contacted her for 10 days....after 10 days she says she have moved on and told me to do so.....which m not able to go through.....it was my fault....but I just want a chance to make things right....I tried convincing her she told me many times she had moved on already..... Please do reply what I should do to get her back I can't live without her....I need somebody to guide me rn....💔 Expecting you would reply ❣️
Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. What were you two fighting or arguing about? It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ruclips.net/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/видео.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ruclips.net/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/видео.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
Hey Brad, quick question about telling your ex that you're in no contact... So I did the emotional thing and begged and pleaded with her to please reconsider. I'm happy with myself that I didn't get angry with her, and I only reached out 5 times over two weeks after we broke up. The last time I texted her she told me that she was getting anxiety from my texts and she wants to go no contact. At the time I hadn't heard of no contact before, so I just replied to her that I believe that our relationship was worth fighting for but if she wanted that then I would go no contact. I wasn't telling her my strategy (I hadn't even heard of it before 😅), I was just agreeing with her. Is that the same thing that you cautioned against? It's been 23 days of NC since then
Not fighting it had been a good move, yeah. Just be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Its hard doing the positive things during lockdown though. But yeah he snaps me everyday even if I dont respond. And our break up was so out of the blue he just went to see his friends old housemates went from I love you I miss you to a phone call saying his moving out. I know our relationship got stale because being in lockdown and I needed a bit of space since he was a needy person. But I didn't think he would leave since his whole life his been abonded and shit. And he was always afraid of me leaving him. And I was his first love. But we were so close everyone shipped us we were that couple. Then all a sudden he broke it off. And im still super confused. I just want to fix things I fucked up when I stop doing things with him even though we were living together. Im fixing all my flaws now while I'm doing the barely any contact thing. I just really don't lose him. He doesn't think like a normal person and hoping 30 day contact means forever over
im confused as he moved out 2 monthd ago but has begged that whole time for me back but was too confused and now after me giving personal things back he has blocked my number/email where do i start or do i go 30 days from now ... help please !
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Hi brad, I've been doing no contact for a week now but he reached out to greet me happy new year last night. I replied casually that's all. Then I found out he also greeted my mom and said sorry but my mom viewed his message only and did not reply. Will this affect my chances of getting him back? Please reply. Thank you
Affect your chances? Not at all. Just try to make sure you maximize what you can within this 30-day period such as healing yourself, enjoying your own company, as well as spending time to see where it all went wrong, but only when you start to feel better, so be sure to take time to grieve first and feel the loss and cry all you want but then make an effort to pick yourself up first. Remember, you can't pick someone up (to be back in a relationship with you) if you're also feeling down yourself. Now is the time for self love. So give yourself the time and attention you need to heal first, all right? Make sure you watch my other vids too for more tips on what to do next. Good luck!
Hi Brad, my ex and i have been speaking again recently (seemingly going well). But today i told her that i dont think we can be friends and i wanted to stop speaking for a while (hadnt seen this video until after) to give myself some time to clear my head and that we could talk when i felt a bit clearer. It was very respectful but she just read the message and didnt reply. I just wanted to know if i still had a shot or if i blew it by letting her know that i wasnt going to speak to her anymore. I feel like she may have bad feelings towards me now i said it.
It depends. How long has it been since the breakup? If it's within the 30-day period, that's really understandable especially if she dumped you. However, if you've already cut off contact and then acted strange after re-establishing contact, that may lead your ex to think you're playing mind games. Try to avoid that in the future, okay? Anyway as it is, do give yourself time to really accept the breakup first so you can play your cards right going forward when you interact with her. I highly suggest you check out my other videos for more especially if you're not getting my guide. Good luck!
Hello there, yesterday I met my ex girlfriend in the city. She were with her friends in cafe. I recognized that it’s her when I noticed that somebody is looking at me. I had meeting with my friend. We were about to do workout so we moved on from city. Later at night me and my fellas came back to city because there were concert. I was about to leave the action when I saw her again walking around me with her girl friend. This time she was looking straight forward. When I came home I found out that I have still some feelings for her. By the way we were in 4 months relationship. I broke up with her and applied no contact immediately. Once I have started posting stories I have realized she saw all of them. My question is if it’s right time to find out if there is some chance to get her back and contact her. Thanks for response.
Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
So I have a question if she said she feels we need space and I talked for a while have a break from talking and she contacted me on my birthday and I accidentally reached out not meaning to in the past month and a half of us being apart do I still have a chance she feels that the spark was gone but she didn’t want to admit it was gone but she felt like she needed to is there still a chance for me to get her back?
As surprising as this may sound, she has already lost attraction for you, hence the breakup. Whether she thinks the breakup was a mistake or not isn't something you should be concerned about because you have zero control over it and you shouldn't base your life around that. Okay? If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
I called my ex by an accident. I had no intention to call them. And I cancelled the call immediately. Does that count as breaking no contact? They most likely got the missed call notification. We have been in no contact for 14 days. And I was strictly following the no contact and calling them by an accident made me really upset as now I feel like I broke the no contact rule. I didn’t beg or message them any further.
Yes, just try not to make the same mistake twice. Remember once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
HEyy dear brad or anyone can you please reply if our relationship lasted for only 2 months whats the ideal time for no contact... and i also pleaded and begged her so whats should be the ideal no contact period 14/21 days or 1 month or 3 months.. Anyone please reply.. your reply is very valuable to me 😍
Try to shorten it to just two weeks. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Best of luck!
I ended up breaking no contact early and she asked for space. I've been in true no contact for about a month now and I'm doing much better mentally, but should I wait for longer because she specifically asked for space? We were in a 9 month relationship before that so a longer break could be better?
Average time is 30 days but can go anywhere from 4 to 6 weeks in usual cases. If there's been some endless begging and/or refusing to cut off contact on your end, however, I usually suggest to give it more time, around 2 months or even more. Cheating instances are different if you've cheated, could be longer or shorter depending on how your ex reacts. Do take note that in some instances where the dumpee just couldn't take the hint and continually bugs their ex for months, there comes a time where the ex reaches a "breaking point" and confirms it's the right decision to break up and becomes hellbent in moving on from you. So the bottom line is the "no contact" rule is best applied when the breakup is still fresh. Discussed the importance of silence here: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Also don't forget to watch my other vids so you'll know what to do after the "no contact" phase, especially if you're not getting my Ex Factor Guide. Good luck!
The thing is if I made mistakes in the very beginning can you still turn it around. Because I’m almost pretty sure that she is in a rebound relationship. And I made a bit of mistakes because it came so out of the blue. I talked about her with what I did and to my surprise she did understand why I reacted like it, of course it was hard for her, but she understood and accepted my apology after that I decided to break contact and only react to really important messages and started to contact her when I was emotionally ready to talk to her again. I haven’t reached my goal yet, but right now we are on speaking terms. I’ve visited her multiple times and yesterday she messaged me out of the blue to give her a call. I still have trust and a good feeling that I can turn this around even though I made some mistakes. She seems happy with her new partner, but she does not hate me and doesn’t bother her to have contact with me. She doesn’t seem really affected by the mistakes I made. And even though I made mistakes the relationship she has is still not healthy
What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html and from my other vid here: ruclips.net/video/PN-07kAtIjw/видео.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
hi Brad, my ex asked and told me via Telegram text that i should take vaccination program of Covid, do you think this kind of text should i reply or not?, if yes, should i reply it directly or maybe 2 days after?
I recommend you to stay calm and to take time to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Hello Brad, so basically I started the no contact couple of days ago and I'm just wondering if I should disappear from social media and not post anything? We haven't blocked each other on social media either so should I still open up her Facebook stories and like her posts or ignore everything?
You're putting too much emphasis on social media and it means you need to stop looking, especially reaching a point of obsession, at any of your ex's pages, and especially if you're still on the 30-day "no contact" phase. Doing so will not only make you overanalzye and/or worry over the most inconsequential stuff, but you'd also be consumed about thoughts of your ex when this time is supposed to be about YOU. Makes sense? Discussed that unhealthy tendency here: ruclips.net/video/sJg4udwCS90/видео.html
Hi Brad. I've used no contact till I get contacted for almost 70 days now. She unadded me in one of social media. Is she moving on or is that the sign that no contact is working?
That's not a sign and you shouldn't worry or overanalyze it. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Hey, I really hope you Will answer me. I cant get over my ex. I still want him, and think about him, Even I am with other Guys. It is 2 mounth ago he left me. He say he is moved on, and see an another girl. I am blocked All places. I tried the no contact rule, and he unblocked me for a while, and say there we are never getting back again, Even like friends. I cant Come over him, but I cant get him back. He dont want to try again, but I think of him everyday. And last week we saw each other on the Street, he did wink to me or nothing. It hurts a lot. What to do? It feels like I want him back.. Btw. Sry for My bad english. Hope you understand.
Okay, so what have you done so far? I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
What if we were talking already for a few months after the breakup and we’re friends and I told her how I wanted her back but she says she wasn’t even thinking about that. We continued friendly conversation but after she said that I told her I appreciated what she said but needed time to myself? Is that a mistake?
Bad move. Things should happen naturally and organically. Asking to get back together without making the necessary actions on your part will always get a no 99.9% of the time. Watch this to get a better understanding: ruclips.net/video/L0hxYTCJ2hU/видео.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning
After 11 months dating and her meeting my family and me meeting hers we were getting very close, and she cut me off blocked me out of no where. I showed up a week later snd she was so mad and said she never wanted to talk to me again. I left so confused now its been 7 days im blocked everywhere and do not know what to do i want ti reach out to apologize but how can i
Unless you've done something really epic to mess up things, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ruclips.net/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
Hi brad, my ex and I broke up 3 days ago and then I decided to engaged on no contact rule, he was so angry at me when he broke up with me to the point that he blocked me on all messaging apps and told me to leave him alone, dont talk to him ever again and move on .. I am worried that I will be waiting for nothing, what if within that 30 days of no contact rule he is seeing someone elses already or sleeping with someone else and I cant accept him back and not deciding to reconcile if he had already dated or sleep with someone elses.. is it a behaviour of a man to sleep around after they broke up with their woman? Thanks
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
Hello 😊 I hope you are doing great! Your videos are helping me so much! And I bought your Ex Factor Guide!! 😊 I made some of the mistakes I shouldn’t have done (begged and plead) and now I am 6 days into the No Contact (but I did not send the Clean Slate Message before going on NC, we were just talking about when I first met him and my last message was “I didn’t know where I was putting myself into 😂” and he responded with “😂😂😂” and I left it there)... I don’t think it’s a good ideia to send the Clean Slate message out of the blue now that I am 6 days into NC but I would like to know your opinion... I was thinking that if he reaches out meanwhile and asks how am I doing I could say that I prefer not talking to him as respect the space he asked me (and something along the lines of your Clean Slate Message)... What’s your opinion!? Thanks!!
If there's been begging and pleading, yes, send it as soon as possible but stick to the rules and go back to not contacting your ex right after you send it. Don't go into long drawn out conversations with him because your ex needs space! All right? :-) Follow the guide down to a tee. Good luck!
Unless you've done something really epic to mess up things, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
I am in no contact but my ex is facing serious trouble cause her dad had an accident, I feel I should contact and give her my wishes, but I should be ready for consequences also
This man is a legend.....I implemented no contact for almost 1 week and my ex was asking me for a second chance and now we are happier than ever....
That's awesome! I'm happy for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html or from a more recent advice here as well: ruclips.net/video/-OqYy_DqNJc/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/8gc53SzHrac/видео.html All the best! :-)
Thank you Brad.can I have your number.i need your help
I need your help later also.i will update you about my condition
I claim this right now😂
Hey man, how long before you you started no contact after you guys broke? 1,2,3 weeks? I’d appreciate your insight! Thanks!
I went 66 days of no-contact. She came back.
I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html or from a more recent advice here as well: ruclips.net/video/-OqYy_DqNJc/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/8gc53SzHrac/видео.html All the best! :-)
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Im so happy for you!
It’s been around two weeks now and I am not even sure I want to contact him. It helps watching these things but in the end I don’t want someone who doesn’t want me 🙋♀️
Aww I'm in your same boat too CCW...wish I could find a girl like you around hun.
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
I screwed everything up initially after the break up and she asked for space and I agreed we shouldn’t talk for a few months, these videos have been helpful in getting myself together.
That's good! Getting yourself together is key regardless of how it turns out with your ex. Just apply the tips from my vids though, these are your best chance. Good luck!
I've dumped my ldr ex (used your advice, found that the distance was too great with no signs of it ending anytime soon) and have no intentions on getting back with him, but I still enjoy watching your videos! The "what not to do" list reminds me of my first love (ldr relationship) and how I acted in all the wrong ways, and I cringe hard at how I used to be
Knowledge is key, so yeah, you'll do better next time. Good luck on your future endeavour! :-)
Im married with kids, i have applied the NC for two weeks by keeping it simple, trying to only have conversations related to our kids and simply avoid talking about "us" although he brings other conversations up. Im also working on my self by becoming more independent. Recently he told a common friend that he feels like i dont need him anymore and that im doing stuff i wouldnt do when he was in the picture. Now im confused on what to do or how to take his comment
You should not need him especially if he dumped you in the first place. It's important you get your own power back first. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
2 years of no contact nice
2 months of no contact and...
I'm getting to meet a new lady😁
I'm happy for you! As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
I don't know what happened with me. I met a new guy. He makes me feel so good.. And every day I want my ex less. But anyway deep into my heart I miss him a lot. I can't figure out if I want him back or not.
Think carefully. You're probably rebounding.
The decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. Is your ex worth getting back together with? Check this out, though, particularly if your reasons for getting your ex back overpowers everything else: ruclips.net/video/ruPp_tCs-qg/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/PJHf-s_VwKk/видео.html once you've decided to try and get your ex back, make sure you play your cards right starting with the 30-day "no contact" rule then tick off the checklist here after: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html
@@JPogi690thank you. :)
I hope it's not rebounding.
U miss him! There is your answer camily, the love is still there but the time is not. We humans make mistake here and there. But only you yourself know if he is worth it. A piece of advice from me, think of the good n great things happen together as couple. Maybe its worth a shot always. Try talking things out and it may have a solution to it. Dont enter into a relationship to soon, because it may hurt the other innocent person which is unfair. I hope i m right in this but if i am wrong, my sincere apologies.
Why tf are you with another dude while missing him that’s fucked
This no contact stuff is so new for me. If I didn't watch these videos I'd guarantee do something to totally f it all up. Thanks Brad! I Believe U can bring us back together again. This woman is one of a kind & I truly love her. I'm gonna stick with the 30 day cold Turkey treatment for sure.🤙🙏💙
Good! Just be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
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I love this man's advice. Practical & simplistic
Hi! I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)
I have often wondered about all three aspects amidst confusion. These are good words and will make it clearer to stick to no contact while I better myself. Thank you, and I look forward to other topics. 🍒
That's right. You're welcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex, and to actually what to do in between those phases. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Best of luck!
Im at 1 month no contact, she wished me a happy birthday and my reply was short and respectful. And Im liking it so much that I think Ill continue no contact permanently. 😅😅
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. :-) Best of luck!
Hey brad.. I've been watching lots of your videos and it has always been a comfortable for me. Am so thankful.
I've been with my ex for almost 2 years and within that two years our relationship has gone through a lot. She once cheated me and I forgave her and we continue dating but slowly she started losing her interest in me and we broke up. She told me she'll never trust me again.
Thanks! With regards to your situation, this is why you shouldn't forgive easily and let her earn your trust instead so as not to enable their behaviour and so you won't lose value in her eyes. So set some strong boundaries. One way of showing that is to stand up for yourself and to cut off contact. Never ever chase and don't take any bs from your ex, yeah? If she doesn't trust you and you haven't done anything to break that trust, then she's projecting, so be careful with that.
We dated for about 3 months but had a friendship for a year and a half. We only got to hangout once during our relationship due to quarantine. She broke up with me because there’s a lot going on in her life and she said it’s best she’s not in a relationship for now, but I still want things to work out. It’s been a week of no contact.
Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/ZuHWCWeG1xs/видео.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Hi Brad, me and my gf didn't contact for a month because of arguments and now I apologized but she doesn't want to forgive me and she gets angry at me. I said I will change but she don't believe me. She even blocked me from all apps but I convinced her to unblocked me but still nothing is right. I don't know if she gave up for real.
Please help, I'm new to your channel btw
If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Also, pain (that's why your ex dumped you) is a very good teacher and motivator not to mention a huge catalyst, so making these changes within yourself in order for the possibility to come back together stronger and better is what you can expect and you will be able to use this progress if not for your ex, then with someone new. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: ruclips.net/video/bZ1KetALZrc/видео.html
I used this technique for exactly 2 weeks and my gf came to me yesterday and she wants a second chance
I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html or from this advice here as well: ruclips.net/video/-OqYy_DqNJc/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/8gc53SzHrac/видео.html All the best! :-)
I started no contact 6 weeks after the break up. I didn't beg or plead for another chance but I let it be known I was struggling a lot with the break-up. I ignored her and left her on open when I started no contact. She said it was rude, and I told her I wasn't trying to be rude, just busy and didn't want to talk to her for now because I want some space. Was that the best thing I could have done? I tried covert jealousy and she has unfollowed me as well, but no reaching out. Thanks Brad
Yes, I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
made a bunch of serious mistakes ,,2 weeks into no contact and i feel like sending a clean slate message.
I did mention that here: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html
HES RIGHT !! It works . My ex was crying and told me he misses his family . We have a baby together . But I kind of don’t feel the same way . But do NO CONTACT .
You have a baby together but hadn’t spoken for 30 days?
We haven’t spoken in a week . And because we have a baby together he hasn’t reached out for that period of my daughter I don’t feel the same way
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
I broke up with my fiancé after she moved out to seek independence. She immediately regretted her decision and tried to come back but I couldn’t believe her when she said she’d never leave again. I recently implemented the NC method to give her time to see what life is really like without me. But I feel like I’m torturing us by not allowing her to move back home.
You don't have to employ the no contact rule if your ex proves she wants to get back together. This is something I've discussed here: ruclips.net/video/ek_4wpkV66c/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/видео.html
5 months has passed still no contact still hurts💔
Use this no contact to make yourself better not to feel more sad, its no use if you do no contact without fixing your self, do what you love hangout with friends and be happy, besides it's best for you to be happy, stay strong ma friend
You ought to watch/review the tips here first, especially the first part, although I recommend you to watch the entire video to get the full gist: ruclips.net/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/видео.html and a quick overview here: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html Once you've completed the "no contact" rule for at least 30 days straight, then it's time to RE-ESTABLISH CONTACT with your ex. Start out with the tips from here: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html Also check out my other videos on my channel for more tips on what to do next and/or get my Ex Factor Guide for a comprehensive step-by-step process on how to go about this. Good luck!
Hey brad.. she told me to stop doing something but i wouldn’t listen and it got to her she said she’s done and was really stubborn.. being rude and nasty even though i know i deserve it. but i really want to change for her now even though she says it’s too late i want to prove her wrong .i began my no contact today and i can tell she really loves me but cannot withstand any pain anymore.. and i really want to change. how long would it take for her to start missing me and forgetting about all the negative moments we’ve had ?
If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: ruclips.net/video/bZ1KetALZrc/видео.html
V were in no contact for 2months. He came back. I acted excatly the same all clingy and insecure. He blocked me. Its been 6 months now v haven't talked. You think he will come back?? Any chances?? Or should I do something??
Take time to not only give each other space but to work on becoming the best version of yourself as well. Also take time to accept the breakup. When you do, you won't be acting clingy and you'll be in a much secure position in your life even without your ex. As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
advice? my ex girlfriend and i broke up with her a couple of months ago due to some personal reasons, she hates me and doesn't want anything to do with me. we see eachother a lot and are friends with the same people most of time. i see her a lot, and i just want to be able to be comfortable around her, and not so nervous and scared. i want to be able to talk to my friends while she's around as well talking to them.
Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/PN-07kAtIjw/видео.html
Hi Brad. Well, I don't think my life has ever had such bad luck. The new guy I started talking to 3 weeks ago, Has blocked me from snap and my number yesterday. For no reason. So I have been ghosted AGAIN. Aint life just great? I've been done wrong and mistreated TWICE. So, I messaged my ex, and told him that I still would like my belongings back, he of course left me on read. Why do shitty ppl exist? I honestly have given up at this point on men. If you have any advice, Please let me know. Thank you.
If your ex has ghosted you, then I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it may be over for good. It's one of the things I've discussed here: ruclips.net/video/FP8YmErEOW8/видео.html
Hey Brad, I had recently been dumped. My ex says he needs space and had blocked me everywhere except LinkedIn and twitter saying that there’s no understanding or feelings. I tried to beg him twice after 2 days. He repelled. I started watching your videos and am applying no contact strategy. I am at day 3 right now, today I noticed he removed me as a connection from LinkedIn. I am afraid if he is moving on. But I am still trying to work on myself and be my best version hope this no contact gives me a better direction. ☺️
Yeah, stick to your path. Unless you've done something really epic to mess up things, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
I have texted "I'm going away for 30 days, won't be available for communication. See you next month." Then been away. He has been replying to my status and asking me to watch a show on Netflix. Not sure if i should be responding or not. It's been 24 hours !
So you're saying it's been at least a month since the breakup? Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Hi brad I dated a girl for 3months and made huge mistake by lying to her so she texted me she doesnt know what to do unless I fix the problems she doesnt see the future with me. So I took full responsibility to fix it and I did. But her answers were angrily I dont want to think about it right now, or cant believe you did that out of all the guys you and my guard is up" so i plead and begged giving her flowers and letter for 1 week, and I sended her last message saying "I know you dnt want to talk to me now all I can do is ask forgiveness and wait but since you dont want to talk to me anymore I just want to say thank you for wonderful memories you gave me for 3 months and hope your eye infection becomes fine thank you and good night" so right now im on NC for five days enjoying times with friends and family posting picture being social. did I do something very stupid at anypoint? what do I need to do? please I need your help
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Hey Brad. Need help man.
I did no contact for 2 times and broke them one at 10days and 2nd time at 22 days. Both the time she did approach me and I couldn't control myself spoke with her and expressed in such a way that I'm desperate to be with her. Then again she blocked me and left.
Now I'm in my third try of No contact and this is 20th day today. Please let me know would it be working or not
Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html So it's it's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, assuming you've only begged for a short while as opposed to months on end, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
I don’t want her back I would just really love your opinion. She made a big assumption on something and she told me to never text again and a few days later when I reached out she told me she’s not mad she just doesn’t want me to talk to her anymore and never wants to see me. She straight up doesn’t want me reaching out, why would me not reaching out anymore surprise her?
It’s been 19 days since she last told me “for the last time stop texting me”
Been watching your channel since last year and enjoying it😉
Thanks!
So finally he is leaving the country next week. We were already in long distance. I went to see him last week. Had good time but he won’t share personal stuff with me. Today he broke up again saying he had made up his mind. It can’t work. I said I respect your decision and I wish you safe flight If I don’t reach out that day. He said upto you. Did I already make the mistake ? And how to fix this?
Sorry to hear that. It's hard to judge since I don't really have a solid idea on what your relationship is like but I say give it time and observe what happens. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
4 more days of no contact and the 30 days is over ..... I dont noticed that 26 days has passed ....
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wish me luck brad
Good luck! Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Like always thanks dear brad
You're welcome!
Your videos are very helpful mentally
Good to know it has helped you. Stay strong!
i did 2 months no contact, texted my ex, he said he wanted to see me so we scheduled a time to get together. the day we were supposed to meet up, at 1 am, he texted me and said he didn't want to see me anymore because of the virus. i offered to get tested, but he said no. he tried to say he was excited to see me, but would rather not risk his health and job.... i understand, but i don't believe him
If cases there are rampant, his concern could be genuine. I mean, this pandemic is no joke. Just try not to make a big deal out of it and just text every now and then. Follow the texting tips on my other vids and if possible, let him initiate. Nothing left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
My ex and I broke up just over a month ago, and we kept talking after our break up, having emotional conversations on a weekly basis, and I told him yesterday it was too much for me to talk to him, and just to keep it about our apartment. I miss him so much and I want him back, I've told him I wanted to get back together multiple times already. He has asked if I need him to give me space multiple times and each time I avoided the question because I was scared, but yesterday when I finally said I need space he got upset. I'm confused and feeling like I screwed up my chances.
At this point, don't talk about giving space. Just go and do it so you won't be tempted to renegotiate the breakup, which I'm sorry to say is really not helpful at this point. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ruclips.net/video/WVB0_l60SpM/видео.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html For a complete, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Hey Brad i just want to know what If your ex was okey after the break up but during no contact they said things like "i hate you""I'm getting out of your life forever" and they blocked you.
I've been blocked for almost one day and i didn't react to it at all, she called me 3 times before the day she blocked me and i ignored
Yes, it's somehow expected. A lot of things are going through your ex's mind and with mixed emotions, so make sure you don't add fuel to the fire and just ignore it. The last thing you two need is more drama.
Hey Brad! Me and my long distance girlfriend broke up more than a month ago in good terms. the thing is that I feel the urge to have her back even though I did not want her back at first. a week passed I begged her only once and we kinda agreed that we might have a chance to comeback. a couple weeks went by and we still talked but I was feeling sad. so I told her that I needed time for myself to figure out my life. she does not know that I'm applying the no contact rule, but she agreed to text me back at a random day.
she did not give me an apparent reason to the breakup. she just "didn't feel comfortable with me no more." but I do no know the reason, it was because of my pride. It has affected me before.
Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hi. I think Iv made every mistake possible. She cheated and left for him. We were still talking and being intimate. I know big mistake. I went no contact for a week. She’s messaged and I broke no contact. I then Told her about it (no contact) and said I was getting better and now I think I fucked it. If I went no contact again will she reach out? Or…… I dunno what to do or think anymore. I’m so lost
Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ruclips.net/video/m27TLeyUmwg/видео.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with her if you can see she no longer wants to try. Take care!
Can no contact work a second time ? I did it with my ex before it took me almost 3 months and we get together . But there we are fighting again . And I had my second breakup . I'm in no contact for 6 months . She just check my stories and did wish me on my birthday . I said thank u and that's it . I didn't wish her on her birthday . I still don't even know if this is working or not . Help me out
It can. But an on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
Same with me
No contact is not for the weak ones, it is too hurting 😀. especially if u love that person so much.
It hurts indeed. Breakups are never easy but cutting off contact is often necessary for your own sake.
Awesome video man
Thanks for watching! :-)
the pain after brake-up it was so bad … After 2 weeks of No Contact and i feel more happier . My ex husband has a new relationship. He will come back? yesterday he comes to see our child . he looks so different even he talk to me calm after a long time
Depending on how long your marriage has been rocky and how long you've been divorced after that, he may not. And without knowing your full situation, it's really hard to say, so take the free quiz here: www.marriageguy.com/coaching
I'm crying rn I'm so broke😭😭😭💔💔
Me too!!
@@daddysdaughter7934 how?
@@daddysdaughter7934 I believe in Brad though
Be strong! It's definitely time to take care of yourself first though, so take time to heal and employ the 30-day "no contact" rule without these mistakes, okay? Take care!
But what do I do if I already told him that? Can I fix it?
Just continue and do better.
Hi brad I'm listening to your advice. My boyfriend of 3 year ask me today for some space apart. That really hurts. He told me i can call him but not like before. I used to make breskfast for him and he told me not to anymore. What should I do please
Really sorry to hear that. This video is for you: ruclips.net/video/QPJprJuf-iU/видео.html
@@BradBrowning hi brad thank you so much. I will take your advice. And see where it goes. Everything was going great and then suddenly this happened. I will not give up I will fight for us.its has only been 2 days but it feels like years apart. How long should I do the no contact for. Please Brad
I have been in no contact for almost 2 months.. He blocked me out of the blew and even blocked my phone number. After that i started no contact and now it's been almost two months, we have known each other for 9 years and we were in relationship for 4 years then there was a gap for 2 years for some misunderstanding after that we again got into the relationship everything was going well but from february 2022 he started acting hot and cold and then in July he blocked me and he had never blocked me in 9 years.
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
I am doing NC I have only contacted when he sent Happy birthday to me then I sent a message on his mums 1 year anniversary of passing away.
We spoke a bit (text)but we just spoke about his mum and how he is he did not ask how I was.Its been 2 and a bit months.I miss him so much but he is also in such a bad state of grief
Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ruclips.net/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
Please help?
I had relationship with my ex for 2,5 year.i broke up with her and she said it was mutual then i blocked her but i reached out 3 week's later and she didn't want me back than i went to no contact she wrote me 2 weeks later just to see how im doing nothing serious than 1,5 month of no contact she wrote me again but seems like she doesn't feel sorry for anything she did.she doesn't take any accountability.it makes me feel so anxious.she can access anytime she wants and blame me still for breaking up bu i apologized already.i can't see that she wants to fix it or say sorry.i feel like i have to force her and it makes me feel so weak.i lost all the power.i blocked her 10 days ago because she can't swallow her pride.i still want her but it ruined my mental health..what can i do now?
Hi! Sorry to hear you're going through this. Giving each other enough space can sometimes help people snap back into reality... without forcing her. Let time to its job first while you do you. I think you may find the tips from this vid useful to use on your ex: ruclips.net/video/plgoMW6GrM8/видео.html
Hello!
We were togather for 11 months,she broke up with me saying that she doesn't feel safe or trust me anymore and it was just a fucking banal misunderstanding.
I applied no contact and she reached out saying that she wants me and that she is very sorry and she was confused and she thaught highly of me that's why she was shoked to hear me say that ect..
and this and that...i waited a day befor replaying to her,i was on vacation during that..i was genuinely happy and relaxed..our conversation was light and happy i made her laugh so much and i ended the conversation graciously saying that friends are calling to go to the forest nearby (it was what Happened)
The probleme is....i still have doubts with her..i feel that things are very awkward now and i just CAN'T see her as i used too...LOVE her i never connected on such a deep level as i did with her (she is an artist I'm an architect... conversations between us were heavenly and took houres! One time we talked for 11 houres!) I loved every detail of her Brain soul and everything..but now it's very awkward and heavy and I don't know what to do or say
It's like each one of us is waiting for the other one to say something and crickets are in the background...the connection is gone.. please help! Be it even a diagnosis! If it's over it's over but i just need to know.
So your problem is you don't feel the same way for her anymore? It really depends because sometimes you just need more time apart. Have you let go of past baggage or are you holding on to resentment and have you both tried to re-ignite the spark? You may have to cut your losses so both of you can find someone you can connect with. You both deserve the best. Good luck!
@@BradBrowning
Thank you Brad for your reply.
I ended up breaking up with her for good,after nearly 2 months of getting back togather she showed some true colors (they were there the entire Time i just was blind) whenever i was being playful and funny she didn't stop ranting obout her father and how "he didn't care" and "dismissed her" when she was sad(she threw a tantrum over a Burger and i was making fun in hope she sees how Silly she's being) every time her dad comes in to the picture 😩, she's quick to dismiss my issues with my newly started architecture firm for her car not being comfortable ennaugh,she gets mad and passive aggressive when I'm bizy with work, extremely sneaky emotional manipulation,and tons of similar and more exhausting things,i managed to just ignore her Silly behavior and get her back on track every time but honestly i got tired of waisting my time and energy and lost every bit of interest in her and it was painful to loose what i had for her.
We had an adult conversation that i needed to move on as we resonated at a different frequencies and it's not working anymore for me.
We broke up less than a week ago.
If it's not too soon or too late, what's the right time?
Should i text my ex first after a certain times or just waiting my ex texting me back first, no matter how long that would be?
Depends on how your conversations with your ex progress. Each situation progresses differently.
My ex broke up with me a month ago because I overthought and overreacted, he felt like our relationship couldn't be worked out anymore. We can't really do no contact because we're in the same college, but both of us never talked to each other since then. He tells his friend that he doesn't really feel much sad about the broke up and he never reached out to me since the day we broke up. Is it possible for me to get him back? I really love him and wanna build a future with him. Currently I'm trying to improve myself by thinking positively and being more sociable, and of course I do all these not because of him but for my own good.
Do limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
Pls brad I hope you read this and reply. After the breakup I pleaded and begged my ex to come back and he ignored me all through. But after watching one of your videos, I sent him a clean slate text like you advised, but in the context I added that I’ll be blocking him for a while. And I was surprised he replied “I understand dear.”
Watching this new video makes me feel I’ve lost chances of getting him back since he’s already aware I’m on a no contact with him. I just want to know if I’m still on the right track?
Hi, sorry but no. I wouldn't encourage anyone to beg or plead or even negotiate the breakup with your ex. This is why most of my videos always suggest to employ the 30-day "no contact" rule first.
It's been 27 days since I started no contact. 3 more days. But I'm still afraid to contact her, even after the 30 days cause I feel like shes still gonna reject me
If you feel like that just now i would wait a little longer, if that is to be the case it'll hurt less, and on the other hand she may be days away from reaching out to you.
Noting ventured, nothing gained, though, right? Just make sure you follow my texting tips and don't overanalyze stuff. Also wait for your ex to respond and never bombard her with text messages. This should help you get started once you've summoned enough courage: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html
Please answer, i need help! I broke up with my long distance bf and i remember he said that he believe if people break up it'll never be the same when they get back together. We broke up because he said he couldn't gimme time and attention and don't wanna hurt me. We split a few days ago. I said No at first but i respect him. Do i still have chance??
Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey Brad! My ex dumped me because of his mother as she really said him to stop the things..but he decided to be friends with me as very already were..he always show anger towards me whenever I talk about our breakup and always say I was having no attentions to do that I am helpless..I can't do anything just move on..he text me daily but I really Hurts me..it's been 50 days of our breakup.. should i apply these strategies and no contact?
He could be pushing you away because of his mom. If your ex is in the right age to make his own decisions that’s independent from their parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it's best to consider moving on from this, okay? I’m not quite sure why parents had to get involved in the first place. It's either you're both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!
Hey brad, we dated for 4 months
( In the four months we were going out on dates twice a week for around 1.5 months then we stayed together for 3 weeks and then we had long distance for one month and breakup after two days of meeting again) we were quite serious and close with each other, all was going great, i was asking her to come over and she said no i asked why and out of the blue she broke up with me saying there’s no future and we both know it’s gonna end eventually after our course complete which is after 5 months, it will hurt a lot less if we end it now. We did meet twice and made out once after the breakup, talked for sometime i once kinda begged but then a week after my breakup i blocked her from everywhere but whatsapp and i have maintained no contact for 18 days now, she has not texted me yet and I don’t think she even cares now, she just asks friends that how am I doing. Should I unblock her from social media or is there still a chance she will text?
Blocking an ex on social media is really like opening a can of worms. There's no need to do that at all. Anyway granted it's been months, do you think you're ready to give it a try? Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ruclips.net/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/видео.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE
Hi Brad. I'm on day 16 of no contact. There's just one problem. me and my ex broke up in the heat of the moment and he blocked me everywhere saying he's finished with me for good. he also deleted all evidence of me as far as i've heard. so he doesn't know i'm employing the no contact strategy, but in his mind, we're never speaking again. i don't really know what to do or how i'll contact him on day 30 as i'm almost sure he won't respond or will block my account. i'm really nervous and don't know what to do. i can't stop thinking about him and every day has only been tougher.
Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
So sir my situation is that
Sir My Girlfriend Broked with me about 1month ago but at that time she told me that she have no any reasons to broke up with me but she felt that she not love me .and at that day she also cried lot .but after that day we both are friends. But after some day of being friend I felt bad because she erase my name from her instagram id and from her fb profile so i felt bad and i text to her that why you are doing this Did you know how bad i felt etc.... And she from that day she not text with me in right way she only text with me as she not want to text with me.
Sir I thought that it is because of atmosphere of the lockdown and because she bored with me. Etc..
So sir what can I do to bring Her back in me life ? Sir is no contact rule is effective in my case or not? if not then sir please give me right path to get her back.
And sir I am so appreciate your work of helping those helpless persons to bring there life back 👏
The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Its one year from the breakup and like 6 months of no contact at all. Please help me.
Watch this first to help set your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: ruclips.net/video/TnZzeEIPEik/видео.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ruclips.net/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/видео.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
I’ve been following no contact for two weeks, hoping it might work to get my ex back, but now I’ve found this video and feel regret because I told her that I don’t think I can be contact with her as she was happy still be my friend. She already knows to expect no contact. I feel like I’ve no hope now. On the upside I’m in a better place than I was and I am getting better. I just still really wish to start something new with her
You both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: ruclips.net/video/FLeP1eRCkCk/видео.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowning Thanks Brad! I don’t think there are too many bad memories, we split because she just didn’t feel the same as me. Hopefully time apart is what it’ll take to change her mind if she does.
Brad Browning, one of my other crushes said 9 or 10 months ago that she’s not comfortable with me anymore and keeps blocking me everywhere. The blockage started before then. Can you please tell me how to win her back, while using the no-contact strategy, since her mom continues to follow me on Instagram?
He said to our mutual friends for a couple time "please tell her that i miss her" should i respond ? he miss me but it doesn't mean that he want to get back together . Im doing no contact and ignored him but he keeps reaching out to me . What should i do now?
Ignore it unless he says it directly to you. If he does, apply the tips here: ruclips.net/video/RSKJi8VK2g8/видео.html
What do you do if your ex wishes you happy birthday during no contact?
A simple thanks will do, then end the conversation first as soon as possible and tell your ex you're busy and have things to tend to. I don't think your ex will ask, but let her/him wonder what you're doing for your birthday. Post pictures where you're having a blast. Good luck!
Hey Brad, I’m on day 25/30 of no contact. Right after the breakup my ex kept texting me and I just kindly told her that I do not want her to use me as a crutch and that we need to stop talking, because I need time to heal. She understood and was OK with it.
Is it now worthless because I made that mistake?
Not at all! Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex, and to actually what to do in between those phases. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Best of luck!
Hey brad the thing is she is just tired and said i dont wana be in a relationship and ended the things, mentioning we were 4 years with each other,she was tired and iritated and frustated because of me, because of my overcaring and overposessive nature,she wanted to be free,i know she still love me and i too still love her with all my heart,and she even said if it is meant to be we will be with each other but rn we cant continue,I really want her back and i even promise i wont make same mistakes again,Can you please tell me what to do❤️
Sorry to hear that. The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Brad I’ve made the mistakes after break up we talked and I’ve reached out a few times every 2 weeks. Constantly apologized and sent nice texts. I left it alone and sent a genuine conversation starter after I saw one of your past videos and she read it fast but never replied so I haven’t contacted her for 2 weeks now and am wondering is it time to just move on because I would love a second chance
Give each other space for AT LEAST 30 days. The space should help you both to clear your mind and do your own thing. See, you both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: ruclips.net/video/FLeP1eRCkCk/видео.html Good luck!
We had a fight she blocked me I didn't contacted her for 10 days....after 10 days she says she have moved on and told me to do so.....which m not able to go through.....it was my fault....but I just want a chance to make things right....I tried convincing her she told me many times she had moved on already.....
Please do reply what I should do to get her back I can't live without her....I need somebody to guide me rn....💔
Expecting you would reply ❣️
Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. What were you two fighting or arguing about? It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ruclips.net/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/видео.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ruclips.net/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/видео.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
Hey Brad, quick question about telling your ex that you're in no contact... So I did the emotional thing and begged and pleaded with her to please reconsider. I'm happy with myself that I didn't get angry with her, and I only reached out 5 times over two weeks after we broke up. The last time I texted her she told me that she was getting anxiety from my texts and she wants to go no contact. At the time I hadn't heard of no contact before, so I just replied to her that I believe that our relationship was worth fighting for but if she wanted that then I would go no contact. I wasn't telling her my strategy (I hadn't even heard of it before 😅), I was just agreeing with her. Is that the same thing that you cautioned against? It's been 23 days of NC since then
Not fighting it had been a good move, yeah. Just be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Its hard doing the positive things during lockdown though. But yeah he snaps me everyday even if I dont respond. And our break up was so out of the blue he just went to see his friends old housemates went from I love you I miss you to a phone call saying his moving out. I know our relationship got stale because being in lockdown and I needed a bit of space since he was a needy person. But I didn't think he would leave since his whole life his been abonded and shit. And he was always afraid of me leaving him. And I was his first love. But we were so close everyone shipped us we were that couple. Then all a sudden he broke it off. And im still super confused. I just want to fix things I fucked up when I stop doing things with him even though we were living together. Im fixing all my flaws now while I'm doing the barely any contact thing. I just really don't lose him. He doesn't think like a normal person and hoping 30 day contact means forever over
im confused as he moved out 2 monthd ago but has begged that whole time for me back but was too confused and now after me giving personal things back he has blocked my number/email where do i start or do i go 30 days from now ... help please !
I have already pleaded him a lot ..what to do now??
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
I did said that to him..no anger there.
Some keep their anger inside. At the very least, these mistakes are annoying.
Hi brad, I've been doing no contact for a week now but he reached out to greet me happy new year last night. I replied casually that's all. Then I found out he also greeted my mom and said sorry but my mom viewed his message only and did not reply. Will this affect my chances of getting him back? Please reply. Thank you
Affect your chances? Not at all. Just try to make sure you maximize what you can within this 30-day period such as healing yourself, enjoying your own company, as well as spending time to see where it all went wrong, but only when you start to feel better, so be sure to take time to grieve first and feel the loss and cry all you want but then make an effort to pick yourself up first. Remember, you can't pick someone up (to be back in a relationship with you) if you're also feeling down yourself. Now is the time for self love. So give yourself the time and attention you need to heal first, all right? Make sure you watch my other vids too for more tips on what to do next. Good luck!
Hi Brad, my ex and i have been speaking again recently (seemingly going well). But today i told her that i dont think we can be friends and i wanted to stop speaking for a while (hadnt seen this video until after) to give myself some time to clear my head and that we could talk when i felt a bit clearer. It was very respectful but she just read the message and didnt reply. I just wanted to know if i still had a shot or if i blew it by letting her know that i wasnt going to speak to her anymore. I feel like she may have bad feelings towards me now i said it.
It depends. How long has it been since the breakup? If it's within the 30-day period, that's really understandable especially if she dumped you. However, if you've already cut off contact and then acted strange after re-establishing contact, that may lead your ex to think you're playing mind games. Try to avoid that in the future, okay? Anyway as it is, do give yourself time to really accept the breakup first so you can play your cards right going forward when you interact with her. I highly suggest you check out my other videos for more especially if you're not getting my guide. Good luck!
Hello there,
yesterday I met my ex girlfriend in the city. She were with her friends in cafe. I recognized that it’s her when I noticed that somebody is looking at me. I had meeting with my friend. We were about to do workout so we moved on from city. Later at night me and my fellas came back to city because there were concert. I was about to leave the action when I saw her again walking around me with her girl friend. This time she was looking straight forward. When I came home I found out that I have still some feelings for her. By the way we were in 4 months relationship. I broke up with her and applied no contact immediately. Once I have started posting stories I have realized she saw all of them. My question is if it’s right time to find out if there is some chance to get her back and contact her. Thanks for response.
Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Hlw..if he wish on any special occasion on very beginning of no contact period should I reply?
Yes, just keep it brief and end the conversation first.
So I have a question if she said she feels we need space and I talked for a while have a break from talking and she contacted me on my birthday and I accidentally reached out not meaning to in the past month and a half of us being apart do I still have a chance she feels that the spark was gone but she didn’t want to admit it was gone but she felt like she needed to is there still a chance for me to get her back?
As surprising as this may sound, she has already lost attraction for you, hence the breakup. Whether she thinks the breakup was a mistake or not isn't something you should be concerned about because you have zero control over it and you shouldn't base your life around that. Okay? If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
I called my ex by an accident. I had no intention to call them. And I cancelled the call immediately. Does that count as breaking no contact? They most likely got the missed call notification. We have been in no contact for 14 days. And I was strictly following the no contact and calling them by an accident made me really upset as now I feel like I broke the no contact rule. I didn’t beg or message them any further.
Yes, just try not to make the same mistake twice. Remember once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
HEyy dear brad or anyone can you please reply if our relationship lasted for only 2 months whats the ideal time for no contact... and i also pleaded and begged her so whats should be the ideal no contact period 14/21 days or 1 month or 3 months.. Anyone please reply.. your reply is very valuable to me 😍
Try to shorten it to just two weeks. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Best of luck!
@@BradBrowning hey I sent reply to your Gmail please revert me back there and thanks so much do your valuable reply😍
I ended up breaking no contact early and she asked for space. I've been in true no contact for about a month now and I'm doing much better mentally, but should I wait for longer because she specifically asked for space? We were in a 9 month relationship before that so a longer break could be better?
Average time is 30 days but can go anywhere from 4 to 6 weeks in usual cases. If there's been some endless begging and/or refusing to cut off contact on your end, however, I usually suggest to give it more time, around 2 months or even more. Cheating instances are different if you've cheated, could be longer or shorter depending on how your ex reacts. Do take note that in some instances where the dumpee just couldn't take the hint and continually bugs their ex for months, there comes a time where the ex reaches a "breaking point" and confirms it's the right decision to break up and becomes hellbent in moving on from you. So the bottom line is the "no contact" rule is best applied when the breakup is still fresh. Discussed the importance of silence here: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Also don't forget to watch my other vids so you'll know what to do after the "no contact" phase, especially if you're not getting my Ex Factor Guide. Good luck!
I made the first mistake of telling about no contact what can I do now? I told her i need some time for myself for like a week or two
Just leave it be but make sure you're sticking to it for at least 30 days.
What if you make mistakes like begging an pleading? or breaking no contact when they call you
Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/7PRx8XXmgrU/видео.html
The thing is if I made mistakes in the very beginning can you still turn it around. Because I’m almost pretty sure that she is in a rebound relationship. And I made a bit of mistakes because it came so out of the blue. I talked about her with what I did and to my surprise she did understand why I reacted like it, of course it was hard for her, but she understood and accepted my apology after that I decided to break contact and only react to really important messages and started to contact her when I was emotionally ready to talk to her again. I haven’t reached my goal yet, but right now we are on speaking terms. I’ve visited her multiple times and yesterday she messaged me out of the blue to give her a call. I still have trust and a good feeling that I can turn this around even though I made some mistakes. She seems happy with her new partner, but she does not hate me and doesn’t bother her to have contact with me. She doesn’t seem really affected by the mistakes I made. And even though I made mistakes the relationship she has is still not healthy
What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html and from my other vid here: ruclips.net/video/PN-07kAtIjw/видео.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html
Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
My ex contacted me after 3 months by wishing me a happy birthday at 12am. I replied a short thanks. He never replied again lol
Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
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hi Brad, my ex asked and told me via Telegram text that i should take vaccination program of Covid, do you think this kind of text should i reply or not?, if yes, should i reply it directly or maybe 2 days after?
Yes, you can response whenever you feel comfortable.
He deleted my number what I should do please help me
I recommend you to stay calm and to take time to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Hello Brad, so basically I started the no contact couple of days ago and I'm just wondering if I should disappear from social media and not post anything? We haven't blocked each other on social media either so should I still open up her Facebook stories and like her posts or ignore everything?
You're putting too much emphasis on social media and it means you need to stop looking, especially reaching a point of obsession, at any of your ex's pages, and especially if you're still on the 30-day "no contact" phase. Doing so will not only make you overanalzye and/or worry over the most inconsequential stuff, but you'd also be consumed about thoughts of your ex when this time is supposed to be about YOU. Makes sense? Discussed that unhealthy tendency here: ruclips.net/video/sJg4udwCS90/видео.html
Hi Brad. I've used no contact till I get contacted for almost 70 days now. She unadded me in one of social media. Is she moving on or is that the sign that no contact is working?
That's not a sign and you shouldn't worry or overanalyze it. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Hey, I really hope you Will answer me. I cant get over my ex. I still want him, and think about him, Even I am with other Guys. It is 2 mounth ago he left me. He say he is moved on, and see an another girl. I am blocked All places. I tried the no contact rule, and he unblocked me for a while, and say there we are never getting back again, Even like friends.
I cant Come over him, but I cant get him back. He dont want to try again, but I think of him everyday. And last week we saw each other on the Street, he did wink to me or nothing. It hurts a lot. What to do? It feels like I want him back..
Btw. Sry for My bad english. Hope you understand.
Okay, so what have you done so far? I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Thanks so much fr this video
What if we were talking already for a few months after the breakup and we’re friends and I told her how I wanted her back but she says she wasn’t even thinking about that. We continued friendly conversation but after she said that I told her I appreciated what she said but needed time to myself? Is that a mistake?
Bad move. Things should happen naturally and organically. Asking to get back together without making the necessary actions on your part will always get a no 99.9% of the time. Watch this to get a better understanding: ruclips.net/video/L0hxYTCJ2hU/видео.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning
After 11 months dating and her meeting my family and me meeting hers we were getting very close, and she cut me off blocked me out of no where. I showed up a week later snd she was so mad and said she never wanted to talk to me again. I left so confused now its been 7 days im blocked everywhere and do not know what to do i want ti reach out to apologize but how can i
Unless you've done something really epic to mess up things, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
Im done with no contact. Now what to do?
Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ruclips.net/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
Hi brad, my ex and I broke up 3 days ago and then I decided to engaged on no contact rule, he was so angry at me when he broke up with me to the point that he blocked me on all messaging apps and told me to leave him alone, dont talk to him ever again and move on .. I am worried that I will be waiting for nothing, what if within that 30 days of no contact rule he is seeing someone elses already or sleeping with someone else and I cant accept him back and not deciding to reconcile if he had already dated or sleep with someone elses.. is it a behaviour of a man to sleep around after they broke up with their woman? Thanks
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
Hello 😊 I hope you are doing great! Your videos are helping me so much! And I bought your Ex Factor Guide!! 😊
I made some of the mistakes I shouldn’t have done (begged and plead) and now I am 6 days into the No Contact (but I did not send the Clean Slate Message before going on NC, we were just talking about when I first met him and my last message was “I didn’t know where I was putting myself into 😂” and he responded with “😂😂😂” and I left it there)... I don’t think it’s a good ideia to send the Clean Slate message out of the blue now that I am 6 days into NC but I would like to know your opinion... I was thinking that if he reaches out meanwhile and asks how am I doing I could say that I prefer not talking to him as respect the space he asked me (and something along the lines of your Clean Slate Message)... What’s your opinion!? Thanks!!
If there's been begging and pleading, yes, send it as soon as possible but stick to the rules and go back to not contacting your ex right after you send it. Don't go into long drawn out conversations with him because your ex needs space! All right? :-) Follow the guide down to a tee. Good luck!
Hey brother, it's been 10 days of no contact and now yesterday she blocked me on instagram , what could be the reasons...
Unless you've done something really epic to mess up things, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
I am in no contact but my ex is facing serious trouble cause her dad had an accident, I feel I should contact and give her my wishes, but I should be ready for consequences also
Just keep it light and casual. Don't bring any drama and you'll see how the situation will change!