The ONLY Way To Become More Socially Confident

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  • @AustinDunhamVlogs
    @AustinDunhamVlogs  Месяц назад +4

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  • @kripzie8480
    @kripzie8480 Месяц назад +110

    Yo, Austin Dunham, I don’t even know where to start. Your video hit me so hard, I almost did a push-up right then and there. Seriously, I was just chilling, thinking about ordering a pizza, and now I’m out here planning my future as a shredded Greek god. Who knew a few minutes of your wisdom would turn me from a professional couch potato into someone who actually considers doing burpees for fun? My whole life has flipped-my couch misses me, my fridge is full of green things, and I’ve got muscles I didn’t even know existed. Thanks for making me realize that I had abs under all those snacks. You're a legend, Austin. My future six-pack and I owe you one. 🍕💪

    • @reverbeed
      @reverbeed Месяц назад +7

      🍩🍩🧴🧴😏

    • @chief8079
      @chief8079 Месяц назад

      @@reverbeedastaghfurillah

    • @David_Phoenix23
      @David_Phoenix23 Месяц назад +6

      @@reverbeedhe is jive glazing here but hey if he’s happy on his self improvement journey and feels AD helped more power to him. Keep doing your thing my dude

    • @oscarsvgs
      @oscarsvgs Месяц назад +2

      @@David_Phoenix23go get a six pack and a job quit hating

    • @oscarsvgs
      @oscarsvgs Месяц назад

      @@reverbeedgo get a sixpack and a job quit hating

  • @KingofNewYorkkk
    @KingofNewYorkkk Месяц назад +53

    Confidence is the most attractive trait a person can have. Not only does confidence give you job opportunities, you will attract attractive women, and lastly, people see you as a leader. Every person has the ability to succeed. Believe in your potential and others will too. Dope video Austin

    • @ethancoke238
      @ethancoke238 Месяц назад +4

      How can I start being confident I’m 15

    • @mic_derin
      @mic_derin Месяц назад

      @@ethancoke238start doing what you say you’re gonna do

    • @handsomeblackchad362
      @handsomeblackchad362 Месяц назад

      @@ethancoke238
      Adopt a positive mindset. Adding positive affirmations into your life will reinforce to think more level-headed
      Speech. Speak more slowly and clear to sound more concise. Speaking slowly means you're more relaxed and less tense.
      Body Language. Practicing confident body language, such as standing up straight, maintaining eye contact, and having good posture, can help you feel more confident and make a positive impression on others.
      Dress well. Wear clothes that fit your physique. When you look good, you feel good
      Exercise. Get in the gym!
      Go against your comfort zone. Don't be afraid to take a risk!

  • @gregcharles9383
    @gregcharles9383 Месяц назад +45

    Becoming a club promoter at 22 in Miami was the best thing for my social anxiety. Approaching random strangers on south beach all day and being in the club all night killed the shy little kid in me.

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 Месяц назад +4

      I did the same thing bro. Being a club promoter nuked the shit out of my social anxiety. It was awesome!!

    • @tmac2368
      @tmac2368 29 дней назад +1

      Fr sales jobs and such are the best base for becoming good at social interactions

  • @iamjason1279
    @iamjason1279 Месяц назад +8

    W video
    I hate how society thinks every attractive person has 10/10 charisma and confidence when not that’s not always the case and it’s almost a letdown for the person you’re talking to. Appreciate the videos bro

  • @sumeshkumar4896
    @sumeshkumar4896 Месяц назад +17

    Bro is very consistent

  • @Kumari_44
    @Kumari_44 Месяц назад +8

    Big facts. As well as internal, confidence is external also. Remember that alot of confidence also comes from the constant positive reinforcement you recieve from people because you look good. If youre constantly told youre attractive over years and years, even if you dont think so yourself… trust me, after all that time you’ll eventually start to actually believe it. And knowing that within yourself will lead to you being confident in social settings/approaching women etc. Because you’ve had 200+ people over the years literally tell you that youre attractive. So you wont have anything to fear anymore because people would have literally showed you that theres nothing to fear. Your social anxiety wont even have a dog in the fight anymore, even if you wanted it to. That confidence over time will lead to you being more competent over time, because people will have allowed you the grace to achieve said competence because of your looks, and the infinite positive feedback loop continues without end. And you keep going up and up and up. So maximize your looks/physique/dress sense too, fellas. Trust me 100% it will lead to you having more confidence because of how people will react to you.

  • @azruFN
    @azruFN Месяц назад +11

    you know its a good day when Austin posts

  • @rushja4171
    @rushja4171 Месяц назад +12

    This was a well needed video Austin

  • @tmac2368
    @tmac2368 29 дней назад +2

    Confidence permeates into every activity you do, from job interviews to social interactions.

  • @jt9411
    @jt9411 Месяц назад +7

    As a fellow INTJ and introvert, I deffinetly understand the struggle of being in large social gatherings. I usually avoid it unless it's something I want to do like a concert or sporting event. It can take a while to warm up to people.

    • @handsomeblackchad362
      @handsomeblackchad362 Месяц назад +1

      As a INTJ myself, I relate. Our type are usually the independent ones. When it comes to opening up, it takes a while since we're more thinkers instead of feelers. American society in general is more emotional based.

  • @moneymakinmitch8130
    @moneymakinmitch8130 Месяц назад +2

    Doing things alone has really helped me the most. There’s still places or things I wouldn’t do alone but I’m definitely more comfortable with doing more stuff alone

  • @isaacsijuade2047
    @isaacsijuade2047 Месяц назад +1

    Probably the most relatable vid you've ever made Austin. Thanks a lot!

  • @LumisKnight
    @LumisKnight Месяц назад +15

    Increasing your confidence shows confidence & dominance

  • @abeltadesse6346
    @abeltadesse6346 Месяц назад +1

    This video so real bruh. Great great content.

  • @williamtrigoso7849
    @williamtrigoso7849 Месяц назад +2

    S/O again to Unc for this advice awhile back.Where my ASP technicians 💪🏻🌹🌹

  • @misterhampton1
    @misterhampton1 Месяц назад +1

    Can’t lie I used to deal with social anxiety real bad but from going out by myself it helped make me more comfortable around hella people.

  • @steelz7771
    @steelz7771 21 день назад

    I really felt when you said that you were a introvert to because I’ve always been a pretty decent looking guy just never been outgoing like other people

  • @DonkeyTate
    @DonkeyTate Месяц назад +3

    Austin I want to thank you for inspiring me to do calisthenics 2 years back that definitely got my social skills to skyrocket. The body it built me and friends I made got me the confidence to overcome my shyness. You're a smart guy who is ripped so thanks for the free value you give.

  • @jmaree_official
    @jmaree_official Месяц назад +4

    Damn…. I feel like I just got some grade A advice from a big brother 😁🔥🔥🔥👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @BlooBloo1021
    @BlooBloo1021 Месяц назад +4

    Im not shy. I just dont wanna talk to ppl I know that are not my type of ppl

    • @andrew2477
      @andrew2477 11 дней назад +1

      This comment needs to be at the top.

  • @thedarkestknight8381
    @thedarkestknight8381 Месяц назад +2

    Sad truth is confidence comes from success and genetic and upbringing if your not like this from get go your done you can’t change your brain wiring and personality only things that can is extreme trauma and in my opinion if you don’t have looks and height your done confidence doesn’t matter

  • @Cookiedough-dx3is
    @Cookiedough-dx3is Месяц назад +6

    I was an extrovert but became an introvert because of people who were annoyed by me talking alot

    • @mario125ww
      @mario125ww Месяц назад +2

      So this is the only problem I have when people say just need to be confident. You probably lack charisma which is another stage you will need to learn. If I had to guess, your conversation skills are too one sided and obnoxious. You have to be engaging with others. Basically make want to keep talking when you speak to them.
      I recommend to read books about body language, social skills and flirting. Now that you have confidence, you need to know how to sell yourself.

    • @Nahmannahman420
      @Nahmannahman420 18 дней назад

      Everyone is an extrovert where they feel comfortable.
      Most of the time, you are not an introvert, just insecure

    • @Cookiedough-dx3is
      @Cookiedough-dx3is 18 дней назад

      @@Nahmannahman420 about?

    • @mario125ww
      @mario125ww 18 дней назад +1

      @@Nahmannahman420 not always! As someone who is introverted at times. It's based on energy. If I go to the bar and talk to 50 people, I'm drained. No matter how good the convo was. A true extrovert can do it again and again without feeling tired

    • @Nahmannahman420
      @Nahmannahman420 18 дней назад

      @mario125ww I agree, I'm that way as well.
      But I think people today are confused when they say they are introverts. Most of the times it's just low confidence.

  • @carlosortega1563
    @carlosortega1563 Месяц назад

    This video was a win. I love the self reliance topic - epitome of masculinity 👍

  • @GTS300Coupe
    @GTS300Coupe Месяц назад +1

    Great video subject thank you

  • @CrayonsYummyYummy
    @CrayonsYummyYummy Месяц назад

    Thank you for this video Austin, I really needed this

  • @nathanmark4224
    @nathanmark4224 2 дня назад

    Love this

  • @chaucdoesfitness
    @chaucdoesfitness Месяц назад

    relate to this vid fr g, appreciate all the game

  • @phines93
    @phines93 Месяц назад +1

    Low key this a really good video 10/10

  • @DarkAnGel-ox9pw
    @DarkAnGel-ox9pw Месяц назад

    lets get that half a million subs, keep going bro!

  • @kyleoxtoby
    @kyleoxtoby Месяц назад

    So relatable this, great advice Austin! Keep the great content coming

  • @chrisdawarlordtriggacollie
    @chrisdawarlordtriggacollie Месяц назад +1

    I talk to people I'm more comfortable with so social when I really feel up to it not naturally some guy who just talks to anyone

  • @CEEJAY024
    @CEEJAY024 Месяц назад +1

    Take notes chat, Austin cooked with this one.

  • @iconz7689
    @iconz7689 Месяц назад +2

    1:38 dawg i almost spat out my drink lmao

  • @jbohler33
    @jbohler33 Месяц назад

    Excellent video 👏🏻

  • @professorderoteiro
    @professorderoteiro Месяц назад

    Agree. Remember to always dress well, so then you dont scare other people after you start a conversation.

  • @pheinclewis8644
    @pheinclewis8644 Месяц назад

    This is good for cold approaching even when you’re alone

  • @VR-oy3fu
    @VR-oy3fu Месяц назад +3

    lets be honest, the only was to become more confident is to become better looking

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 Месяц назад

      Exactly looks and height make you confident so in a sense it isn’t confidence but what backs it up confidence comes from succcess

  • @sleep7220
    @sleep7220 7 дней назад

    Get yo ass on tht spiritual journey my guy 😂

  • @Roadrunnerz45
    @Roadrunnerz45 Месяц назад

    look forward to the patreon video on the natural drugs to increase confidence and decrease anxiety. momentum worry as you said one time.

  • @Slendzy
    @Slendzy Месяц назад

    I’m an infj but appear like an entj , so it’s pretty cool that you’re an intj who appears like an enfj.

  • @luciddreams5272
    @luciddreams5272 29 дней назад

    I'm a ENTJ, i always wondered what a INTJ was like.

  • @Charlsxtar
    @Charlsxtar Месяц назад

    Good job Austin

  • @shinobi339
    @shinobi339 Месяц назад

    thanks for the info

  • @joshuacarrero5360
    @joshuacarrero5360 Месяц назад +2

    Looks will get the woman's attention but confidence will get the woman's intention. 😉

  • @Amarchosenone
    @Amarchosenone Месяц назад +1

    Also fitness/sport helps

  • @JamesMvula-g1q
    @JamesMvula-g1q Месяц назад

    I’d take observation Austin, I like your style.🧠

  • @rpd7573
    @rpd7573 Месяц назад

    Im infj the most extroverted of the introverts 😎

  • @user-uc3qs1gx2d
    @user-uc3qs1gx2d Месяц назад +1

    Sigma Introvert 😅

  • @businessentreprenuer4174
    @businessentreprenuer4174 Месяц назад

    I like this content

  • @rianlaney8691
    @rianlaney8691 Месяц назад

    My bad recognized you from somewhere. Took a min. Watch out for the crack heads round here

  • @stefanarcticjr.6534
    @stefanarcticjr.6534 Месяц назад

    Wassup Austin

  • @thebillionaire7776
    @thebillionaire7776 Месяц назад

    Game 🎯

  • @sparky1282
    @sparky1282 Месяц назад

    I did that test I am an INFP

  • @sparky1282
    @sparky1282 Месяц назад

    Guys follow his advice go from a 6 to a 9 💪💪

  • @Mentor-kh9gh
    @Mentor-kh9gh Месяц назад +2

    Can you still human flag?

  • @charlesbooker1393
    @charlesbooker1393 Месяц назад

    Austin what brand are most of your shirts with the S with one line through it i really like to get a few

  • @fauzansyed3303
    @fauzansyed3303 Месяц назад

  • @IsaacRivas-hg6kg
    @IsaacRivas-hg6kg Месяц назад +4

    It’s best that you get into Christianity Austin. Spirituality is just another excuse to be connected to a metaphysical force without accountability to a superior being

    • @homiesenatep
      @homiesenatep Месяц назад

      Why are you trying to get him into Christianity, all you’re doing is promoting rules

  • @fliiban
    @fliiban Месяц назад +1

    Hi

  • @NTO2SO
    @NTO2SO Месяц назад +2

    Doo, did you stop lifting?

    • @Skip12a3r5
      @Skip12a3r5 Месяц назад

      That's how he looks with a shit on

  • @kwamhope55
    @kwamhope55 Месяц назад +1

    I am the 5th person to watch this video. Who’s the next?😀

  • @henryized1762
    @henryized1762 Месяц назад

    Anyone knows the beats from 03:20? 🙏🏽

  • @abraham2217
    @abraham2217 Месяц назад

    Get ready for cowards saying they are introverted!

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 Месяц назад

      It’s not being a coward it’s being born that way your personality is genetic and environmental and the only thing that changes it is trauma I’ve had so much negative social trauma that I will never be confidence not that I think confidence even matters or makes you attractive if your not good looking tall it’s over

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 Месяц назад

      Stop shaming people cause our brain is wired differently

    • @abraham2217
      @abraham2217 Месяц назад

      @@thedarkestknight8381 I genuinely am sorry for not claryfing it. Introverts exists. Of course. But many poeple who haven’t dealt with their anxiety, subconciously explain it away as their way of being. Otherwise introversion and anxiety are two separate things.

  • @ojiakodaniel6071
    @ojiakodaniel6071 Месяц назад

    Austin, I think you're ISTJ. Your Se is more developed than Ne. I've studied you for almost two years to know this.

  • @hansw7878
    @hansw7878 Месяц назад

    all the smart rich people are INTJ like Elon Musk and the late Stephen Hawking

  • @vit0766
    @vit0766 Месяц назад

    Going out alone helped me a lot in improving my social skills and game. Its like a shock treatment, you have no choice but socialize with strangers at the venue or you’ll look like an creep standing there alone, wich is a hundred times worse.

  • @jungshin87
    @jungshin87 Месяц назад

    Intj bros

  • @glehappletonjr6565
    @glehappletonjr6565 Месяц назад

    😊

  • @Predator02-YT
    @Predator02-YT Месяц назад

    Vote here for Austin Dunham👇

  • @ethancoke238
    @ethancoke238 Месяц назад

    How can I start being confident at 15

    • @Cam-lu9ys
      @Cam-lu9ys Месяц назад +1

      You should play sports or get in the gym my guy.

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 Месяц назад +5

      Bingo. Gym, sports, activities, groups etc. at 15 you’re literally in the best environment of your life to be social in. You’ll have this awesome environment all the way till you finish university. Dont waste it bro 👊🏽

    • @Skip12a3r5
      @Skip12a3r5 Месяц назад

      By improving yourself

  • @adebiyimatthew4062
    @adebiyimatthew4062 Месяц назад

    Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe

  • @daravenjackson
    @daravenjackson Месяц назад +2

    Don’t listen to Austin i guts tee he don’t get women unless he pay them

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 Месяц назад +6

      But the advice actually isn’t wrong though. Even if you Pretend that it Wasnt him saying it, it’s still 100% true. Your personal dislike of him doesn’t disprove the truth he is saying.

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 Месяц назад

      @@Kumari_44confidence doesn’t matter if your short and or not good looking

  • @Chaosfury50
    @Chaosfury50 Месяц назад +1

    2nd

    • @Nyshellm
      @Nyshellm Месяц назад +2

      If you’re second, then whose first?

  • @joballa5339
    @joballa5339 29 дней назад

    Only 7% of the world has low confidence ❓😭😂so pretty much no one has that problem