The #1 CONFIDENCE HACK: Become Socially Invincible
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- 90% of people care too much about what other people think... Here's the most important step I took to overcome this!
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
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The #1 CONFIDENCE HACK: Become Socially Invincible
How to be confident in any situation! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to stop caring about what others think about you... This will allow you to feel confident and be confident in any social situation!
Discover how to be confident in any social situation, how to be confident around people and how to be grounded during social interactions!
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Oversimplification:
Suggests that overcoming deep-rooted social anxieties and achieving confidence is as simple as a "hack."
Ignores the complexity of social confidence, which can be tied to past experiences, personality traits, and mental health.
Hyperbolic Language:
The term "Socially Invincible" is unrealistic. Confidence doesn't make someone immune to negative social experiences or judgment.
This sets a false expectation, potentially leading to feelings of discouragement.
Focus on Detachment:
While reducing your need for external validation is important, complete detachment is neither realistic nor healthy. Humans are social creatures and some degree of connection is necessary.
Lack of Nuance:
Fails to acknowledge that legitimate social skills are also a part of successful interactions.
Doesn't address the real challenges of being authentic and vulnerable in social situations, even with a confident mindset.
Potential Harm:
Could downplay the need for professional mental health support when dealing with severe social anxiety.
3:47 That dude had enough of them truth bombs and self reflection.
Yeah, that was Pretty LAME of Him. If He CAN'T Handle FACTS, then Why was He there in the First Place ?! 🙄🤨
00:01 Accept criticism and embrace freedom of thought
02:12 Natural chemistry is real and it's okay to be different
06:17 Encourage internal reflection over seeking external validation
08:25 Identity is influenced by external feedback, but letting go and diving into self-reflection is empowering.
12:31 Drop the filter and express yourself freely.
14:24 Discover what you love and design your life to do more of what you love.
18:09 Celebrate every little win along the way
19:51 Embrace the present moment as the ultimate goal
23:30 You can release the negative impact from your past and reflect on your self-worth.
25:25 You are good enough as you are.
29:08 Neediness creates comfort zones and self-sabotage.
31:03 Recognize and break patterns to gain confidence.
u r awesome for posting this
Trying to be who you think other people want you to be and to try to curate other people's narrative about you is one of the most common trauma responses, and for anyone reading this-it doesn't make you a bad/fake person
Everytime someone speaks negatively about me I remember I don't have blue hair. (No offense to blue haired people)
Glad that concept clicked with you! 🔥👊
i get it but it still bugs me especially when that person starts to defame me to others who don't know me@@JulienHimself
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What if you have red hair then?
The way you emphasize authenticity is on a different level🔥
Thank you! Authenticity is all... 🙌
Are u from Pakistan
@@DAnielSaddique-iw7zdNo he is my husband
"The only way to get everyone to like you, is to be the fakest person ever." i wholeheartedly agree with you cause the faker the person the bigger social crowd they have.
Actually if they have a bigger crowd they are probably the most authentic there. You can't get a big crowd and maintain it if you're fake because you'll eventually get overwhelmed and stressed that they're gonna see through the front
For me, i feel like many times I do care about what others think of me and I try to fit into a persona rather than being my true self, so gonna work on that and try remind myself to just be the true me
What YOU think of yourself is much more important than what anyone else thinks of you... Always stay true to yourself! 👌
The best coaching video i have seen on youtube, remember people only you decide your own self worth and guess what you are frickin amazing in every step of your way!! and don't let others affect your vision of that. Thank you Julian, i don't usually like or comment but for you i did it all and i will be watching more to come, cheers
Celebrating small wins helps me to move forward with my goals. I’ve been developing an English curriculum and just finished creating a workbook and celebrated with Girl Scout cookies. Support myself and some kid going to summer camp. Win-win.
That is awesome!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Julian is legit the best coach ever. Everything feels so genuine. And I consider myself an amazing read of others.
Well if that isn’t proof
hahahahaha
@@paradise745
There's a personal metaphor that is, "we all go through deserts, luck is in knowing how to be unlucky and knowing how to have the patience to go through these deserts. Only those who know how to be unlucky are lucky" and that makes me respect the difficult phases I had in my career as a guitarist in Brazil for a metal band called Veumor. knowing how to overcome these deserts has already brought me many treasures
That was awesome 🔥 thanks for sharing that gem 💎
Legendary stuff man appreciate this being free big time, thank you.
man, this came out right when I was struggling with low self-esteem again. thank you Julian! This was really helpful and encouraging
You're so welcome! Glad this was helpful!
Amazing video.
The first 5 mins are absolute GOLD!
I've learned quite a bit from Julien just watching these videos, sometimes its good to have information delivered in a different way to hammer home the main points. Great stuff my good sir.
Julien, I'm only 16, but your content randomly popped into my feed and resonated with me. I've been binging your videos. Thank you for being you. I hope someday I can go to one of your events in person. 🌻
AHH same I'm 15 and I wanna join transformation mastery but I'm too young😢😅
First time i see such a clever man speaking the naked truth! I like it so much!!! Thank you Julien!
It's one of your best videos. Thanks.
Just wow !!... you're the best coach ever
This video is a fucking masterpiece the diference you make in my life is huge. Im so grateful for your teachings
Sometimes I wish I didn't fit so many of your descriptions and examples. However, I'm glad because it's something I relate to with intentions of positivity.
Most if not everyone fits these descriptions to some degree at some time. It's not you, it is your reticular activating system. It betrays your self image. You gotta get your self image swole. But you wanna train
Natty. Compassion, critical thinking, perspective. Roids would be negative coping mechanisms and masking. You're in the gym when you are relating to yourself of others. So all the time. The weights are your positive thoughts about yourself. You want to start off light or there will be too much resistance and you wont be able to clear the weight. You can’t go from "I suck at social interaction" to "It's alright if I stumbled over my sentence talking to that girl. She's definitely done the same and maybe she recognized that fact. Maybe not. Oh well." Thats like trying to start benching at 350.
Thank you for your always insightful and bold observations, you allow us to look at important places that few people look at, You deserve many good things
waaaaw ❤ thank you Julian!
Valuetainment 💎🔥
As always Amazing, awesome❤
Wow, man. My friend linked me this video, and I have to say you and this content are ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE. Thank you for bringing us your power.
This last videos are amazing Julien, all your videos that I have seen are good but in this last tour you have said essential things. Thank you ❤
Damn, Julien. Haven’t listened to you in about 10 years. You’ve come so far and evolved tremendously. 🤘🏼
I discover you last week and I've been watching your videos and practicing since then. It's been useful but still a lot of of work to do, specially shadow work, auto-sabotage and the chase of approval.
Nice! Welcome to the channel! 🙏
@JulienHimself Thank you! I will definitely stay and learn!
Very powerful, thanks!
I love this channel men ❤❤❤
I like the content for sure ..
But I also like how you present .. you even use audio effects as you speak .. awesome 😃
Hello Julien, I've found your content very fasinating and helpful in ways. I'm just wondering for someone just starting on this journey where is the best place to start?
Great. Another motivational speaker.
The guy in orange left at the moment he gave such a wonderful presentation was testing him Juliehimself at the spot. I personally love his channel which gives us courage and freedom
What a nuke of wisdom, holy shit! Love your stuff!
Such good information. I want this to be ingrained into my mind, soul or whatever.
My Dad upon observing my dating relationships said I was very accommodating. Ouch. That was over 25 years ago. I'm just now practicing these principles. It's so freeing & hey, I like myself!
My mom called me gumby, because I was TOO flexible for other people.
awesome video thank you :)
great video. lots of value in this gem
Thanks! 🙏
Simply a brilliant speech from Julien
regarding "running out of things to say". When that happens to me it's because I got stuck in an internal negative dialogue. Usually thinking / monitoring what others think about me. "The solution" to that is to chip away at that conditioning that gets me in that internal dialogue in the first place.
Another great video ❗
I luv this video thank u 🙏🏾
Wow I’m so glad I saw this
I am an introvert and a shy person because when I was 10 I transferred to a new school but I felt there that I was Outcast , i was lonely too , and my brother was in this school too but he was a smarter student than me , so teachers was comparing me with him , and even one teacher said that I forget what learn not my brother, they expect me to be like him , but I was different, , and there I hated that people in that school focus on me or expect to me , I am a sensitive person too , and because of me use a pen to write in a different way not like others too , make people in that school surprised at me , and in that school I became more and more lonely , sad , shy , introvert , and my hands started to sweat alot from the time I begin being in that school and until now ,
My anxiety increased and I developed an obsessive-compulsive disorder I think because being alone for a long time ( 9 years ) , I started care alot how people think about me , I couldn't trust myself, I was so harsh when speaking to myself, I thought then I am not a beautiful, I didn't smile there too because I thought my tooth is not beautiful,
Plus my father is so harsh when talking to me , and He criticizes me and makes fun of me and he is a kind of like Perfectionism . So my personality was really destroyed.
Now I am 25 , of course things became better, but still I care bout other people thinking of me , and I am comparing myself a lot with other people , still shy and so good at make conversation.
I am still until now to heal myself but really it is so hard , and I think It really will take a long time to free myself.
But now even my mother and father want me to marry even if I don't now , they don't listen to my opinion no matter what I say , and I feel guilty for them , so I think I just need to do as they want .
I just wanted to be happy , I just want the life I want .
Thanks to anyone who read this .
Dont listen to your parents. Get a job wich is not draining you and maybe even one where you have time do let go in work time. Learn how to let go and you will turn around your life in 1-2 years. Recommend book letting go of david hwkins and sedona method free youtube course 1991. it will be very hard but if you see the value in letting go it will feel manageable. For me it feels i opened a void of all the suppressed feelings a year and a half ago and from then i was letting go several hours a day. It was a crazy heavy time but it baid off even if im still letting go of stuff every day. Highly recommend
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Hey Julian, i dont know if youll go through this comment or not but i think you said in a video you changed yourself for the better (back in 2006-07)
How long did it take you to change all the conditioning. And did you focused working on one this at a time?
Thanks
Genius video
In some video games, when I lost all hope of passing the level, after successive failed attempts, I played dispassionately, accepting that I was going to lose again, and suddenly, I won...
The funny thing is that on some occasions, the same thing happened in real life.
I am increasingly convinced that becoming obsessed with winning is not the same as winning, but rather not knowing how to accept the fall, which is why it is much more difficult to get back up.
Accepting defeat, naturally, is the game of life, try again.
I’ve actually connected better with people who I can hate before I can like
Embrace it!
Julien I like your videos so much, If there are coaches out that I needed to choose i was taken you to be Coach me but im far away!
Thank you! If you're interested in online coaching, you can apply here: application.julienhimself.com/?l=tv11ils8lj 👌
I would like to come to your seminer when will it be the next time@@JulienHimself
@@EranMesilati www.noanxietytour.com
since my self worth increased i just think waaay less about who i am, get less triggered and just go with the social flow, and i dont talk about myself anymore that much
I’m stuck in a cycle of self sabotage. I keep telling myself I need to get better. Right when I have my dream right in front of me I make sure I self sabotage to make sure I remain in the “I need to get better cycle.”
For example I am a trader and I was going to receive a large sum of money. I could have stopped trading and received a large payment but I made sure I lost all the money.
I don’t know why I do these things. I am addicted to chaos. It’s like I won’t let myself be great. Even tho I have the skill set to hit the next level.
because you act as if that money is for your flesh to give away, yet it's only your will's to give away. you let emotions do what they want, but they do not own you, you own you with your will. therefore, you may conclude that you are acting on behalf of your emotions and not your will. not that knowing this will somehow solve your issue, but hope it gives you a lead
Julien What are your bigest flaws that you have overcome and actualy do you have any left inside you
you can tell this dude has transcended self-consciousness by his outfit choices
ngl I am happy to se you in black T-shirt again
Changed my life
Glad to hear this was impactful! 🙌
Some people just need to realize that they've been chasing others but never truly themselves, when all they truly needed to find true happiness was to chase themselves for themselves and not others, for if one is good, good comes. If one is bad, bad comes. It is just the same for whether one's self is good or bad.
"But what if I don't have anything good about me?" My response to that is how do you even know that when you haven't even chased yourself? When you chase something you naturally focus on it and when you didn't truly chase yourself, you didn't truly focus on yourself. And we all know how the lack of focus affects things, and for those who don't, well, your progress slows down. Your distractors wins. And when you apply this knowledge to not focusing oneself. You lose. Your distractors win. Your progress slows down. And even if you truly didn't have anything good, why not make good? If you don't have it, go get it. If you're hungry, go get food. "But what if I really can't?" Here's where the phrase if you can't love yourself, you can't love others, come in. Because if you truly loved yourself, you'd truly know yourself and you'd do anything to get what yourself best needs. See the words "you'd truly know yourself?" To truly know one's self, one must first chase oneself. One must truly focus on himself. And now if you truly loved yourself you'd definitely understand what others truly need best and if you didn't. You wouldn't be able to understand others which would lead to being not "good" enough. So I tell you all. Love yourselves and love others. Truly chase yourselves for if together we chase ourselves. Together we can find and increase the capability to love one another in a world where we'd maybe used to think that we weren't good enough. "Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself” - The Bible.
Please spread this to everyone you know, guys. It's all I ask of you all.
You can see the guy in the bottom right side corner of the screen shaking his leg constantly throughout the whole film. This caught my eye while watching this not even a minute through the video. This is too funny
Exactly... I focused on that after reading your comment
It could be heightened anxiety, stress or ADHD. He's at one of Juliens seminars taking positive steps in the right direction.
5:15 did that guy just changed into a new outfit to sit back down?
privacy will prevent this entirely
I was on the bus next to a girl I turned my head to ask her for the time but she turned her head and looked at me with question mark look I did not sa anything i looked at her, then turned my head looked away. It's like deer in the head lights. I did not say anything just because i did not expect her to turn her head when i turned my head. Did i have a chance to say something to her to make her less defensive? I could have said excuse me but my line was in my head "do you have the time" Could i have said that line even though she turned looked at me with question mark look on her face? Did i make it worse by looking anay not say anything?
Julien, where can I watch whole seminars?
Here's my upcoming schedule: www.noanxietytour.com 👌
Great
Imagine having a 7 fig business about confidence and self love , people these days are f*cked.
What can I do if I can't never get to the first time I experienced a certain sensation during the meditations?
Go as far back as you can, and then focus on the sensations that surface... 🙏
6:37 holy shit. my mom was exactly like that. im sure she ment well but this "every picture is the ebst picture ever" was what she did every time. the result was exactly what you descibe
Yes, people are allowed to think negative about me, but i can tell u one thing. They wont be in my circle.
I think the problem with people is they cannot criticism. They are people who are going to judge you and thay okay. Its better to not waste time on things that dont help you. The sooner you relize you are the person not revovling around the sun, the sun revovles around you, you will understand that you not that important person in the world. You are saying i am good enough.
I'm already invisible
wITH OR WITHOUT, i'm fine. Just the way i am
The second you mention you ACTIVELY watch Rick and Morty imma head out
Okay? lol
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It's not all about the money but it sure is nice to be able to pay the bills.
13:15 me at work giggling to myself watching this video 😊😂🎉❤
Julien, goddamit. Youre fucking brillhant
5:04 I RUclipsd for this video haha
Truth spoken 💯
Glad this resonates! 🔥
@@JulienHimselfYup! I like the part where you said "Don't find meaning in what's to come find meaning in what is" 🙌🏻
one hunnit
4:06 bro that guy peaking back looks like white future 🤣
10:40 I loled 😄
Will you write a book?
Planning on writing a book this year, actually.
Oh nice
How can he be confident with hair like that?
Looks are 30% of confidence brother, self love is where it's at
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Had some random chick walk by and whisper to her friend. "Oh he looks so old" it really pissed me off
Don’t be pissed dude 1 of them was probably checking you and then her friend probably cock block’s by saying yeh that
Bro not dressed like pimp this time 💀♥️
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What's up w the mom shirt tho
Ngl crowded rooms get hot man and them momma shirts are the way 😂
29:13
3:51 did that guy just walk out of the seminar out of disinterest?
Question for you: Have you ever seen someone leave for the toilet?
@@TrumpForPrison2023Question for you: Do you bring your Jacket, water bottle and phone with you every time you go to the toilet?
@@interesting2491 Woah, doing the reverse question on me. Legendary move. I suppose he was worried of leaving his stuff there. Not even you would leave your phone there. Perhaps he had his wallet in the jacket. Maybe we wanted to refill his water bottle as well. Many possible explanations.
@@TrumpForPrison2023 Idiot.
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But what is that shirt 😭
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This video is awesome, but the guy in it is suspicious. Keep your eyes on that one.
He woke. He did mushrooms
I wanted to like this guy but he drifted from point to point without really finishing a point. Make a point and explain it properly before moving on. Otherwise it just sounds like babbling.
Way too agresive, I disagree in many points with your philophy.
For example if you said in one room "I don't like your purple hair" I do woud take offense because you verbally attacked someone, like you depicted it.
The secret is you always feel verbally attacked if someone disagrees and you should not have to bacause you should not care.