I was talking to a married woman 10 years older then me. There was something about her I really liked. She would hit me up everday for a year and a half, not for sexual but other reason but I guess for a emotional fix. For awhile I told her to make things right with her husband because it was the best thing to do. I eventually started having strong feeling for her, then on day out of the blue she blocked me for no reason. I’m glad she fixing her marriage but I’m kicking myself in the butt for falling for something I knew in the beginning I had no right to in the first place. In the end it ain’t worth it. Update. She contact me again after 6 weeks, but I don’t have the feelings for her at all. It gets batter people and stay tf away from married women/men.
I'm a female and from my perspective, women don't leave their husbands for another man that they're screwing unless you make more money than her husband and if she knows that you can take care of her and her kids. Of course you're going to encounter issues from her husband too so be aware of that. Don't date married unless u can accept that it's just a fling and u won't have a future with her.
So true. A married woman needs a stable living for her and her kids. I agree with this statement, " married women are sold out to the highest bidder," Even though it sounds harsh.
@@frankiemoreno7320 not my wife, she is not so shallow that she would leave me just for money, but if I was lazy or wasn't treating her right or treating our kids right she would. And she would be correct to.
Important message on this video: "In order for someone to come into your life, you need to create a space for them". Never continue dating emotionally unavailable ppl because they will drain YOU out emotionally and they will keep feeding their ego and insecurities based on their fear of being alone. Words prove who somebody WANTS to be but actions prove who they REALLY ARE!
Jeremy H. Glad that Coach has been creating a big fanbase across the world with ppl that are willing to improve themselves but also help make the world a little bit more pleasant and optimistic 😁
The trigger word for me and my situation is “alone” she always says she doesn’t want to be alone. But I’d rather be alone than in an abusive relationship.
Honestly, Coach Corey, I use your channel as my encyclopedia for relationship info. Alot of this stuff is hard to talk about with other people, but I feel like you're talking to me when I come here for answers. Thanks for the work you do!
I was pursued by a married woman and it was the must awesome feeling I ever had. Went on for 3 month relationship. She taught me a lot about women. I am now very good at meeting women. Very good. All because of her !!
@@facundoestrada4105 1) Don't try too hard - it shows when you do. Just be yourself. 2) Get in shape 3) Maintain a good career 4) Women will notice you before you notice them, so dress well all the time - be ready 5) Get rid of the tacky gold necklace, and buy something cool 6) Man-scape ! Then I started watching some of the Alpha M vid's here on youtube....the guy is a bit annoying....but is bang-on with a lot of things....there are a lot of "Women advising Men" on RUclips that have some real good stuff to listen to. Lots of good advise everywhere.
I saw this video at exactly the right time. Kudos for advice and the timing Coach. My Ex is reconciling with her husband after a separation and I felt all the things this guy described.
You don't date a married woman, you get with her and have sex with her. I've been with a married woman before, knowing they're married you can understand why those are not dates. Needless to say, be very careful because husbands will blame you and would more than like to meet you, and its not for coffee trust me.
lol brah! I been there before, when I was 19 I was working at a warehouse, there was this older lady(36) that caught my interest, she was married but fortunately for me, her husband had cheated on her before and she was suspicious that he was still doing it, long story short, I worked my magic and one night(graveyard shift we used to get out at 4am) I left my car at home and got a ride to work, I told her my car had broken down and asked her for a ride then made my move. Good thing about being with older married women is that they'll buy you good things to keep you happy. the one that wasn't happy was the husband when he found out 😒 he tried threatening me, not directly but he said something to my mother, to which my mother replied "you have daughters too, I don't think you'll want anything bad to happen to them" in response to what he had said to her, that was the last I ever heard about him. his wife kept calling me and looking for me even yrs after. so to anyone out there, be careful.
lol not at all, i just sharing my experience, and advising anyone to be careful with it. There's only two outcomes out of it, ether she falls for you and wants to get a divorce from her man, or she tells you to f-off and not ruin her family. One thing is for sure, since they're married, they don't care about dates, they just want to have sex and quick because they have to go home and pretend everything is swell. cheers mate
Rigo Rangel yes karma does come full swing brother, not hating just stating facts. You are who and what you associate yourself with. One day you might settle down, but one day same shit WILL happen to you. It is why I never emotionally or physically cheat...wife is currently cheating but I am focusing on my kids and honestly have no ill will as I'd rather her be happy then depressed which affects the kids. So you might be bragging like Billy bad ass however you're pretty much a scumbag with zero morals or self respect...I'm baffled at this new age thinking that hooking up with taken people is a cool thing...you basically destroyed a household and ruined kids childhoods of a potential split homes/holidays you must have not come from a split household and don't understand the mind fucking it does to you as a kid.
I was married for 12 years my wife cheated on me I met a girl 8 years ago who was married she's been my girlfriend ever since and I've been dating her the whole time she was with a guy incarcerated in prison he got out of prison she is still married to him and still seeing me I put a ring on this one she is not getting a divorce she promised she was getting a divorce and never did
This is such a rough difficult topic, I'm going through a a scenario myself as guy, it makes it difficult when the girl is extremely attractive and is giving you an opportunity, its very difficult to refuse the obvious opportunity to be with a super attractive woman. But I know in my heart that it's not honorable to be with a married woman.
i was having an affair with a married woman for 1,5 years.. she was mega good looking and we always had great time and sex.. the worst thing is when you get emotionally attached.. then its game over ehh
@@gamwsas let's assume u take her. Than after whenever she get time or a perfect situation she will have affair with other men behind u That's what she did when she was with her first husband right? So what do u expect from her? Loyalty? That's not her habit, and if u want to suffer than you can have her.
Its crazy they use their children to sleep around on their husband just because they don't get enough at home. But they want fast sex because they are unsatisfiable.. so they won't leave due to the fact they are financially dependent on their husband that they clearly don't love enough to stay loyal to.
@@buttsaladninjaofficial7082 best answer ever. they wont leave their husband and prefer to f**k him without any emotions in order to sustain resources for her and the children
corey is a good example for many of the young men that i witness in this generation. This guy is great. bow ties and all. dont judge a book by its cover at its best. how a seemingly nerdy or even steriotypically less "masculine" guy can be self-assured and comfortable with who he is. good for you young man! Keep speaking the truth. highly recommended.
That was me. I went out for a year with a married woman. Not proud of if. Now, 10 weeks later, I'm still hurting. I fell in love with her and ended breaking up with me. I'm going through the pain and for the first time in my life I have been doing so much self developing work.
Me also I work with mine different shifts..but the shit hurts..never expected her to leave her husband just never thought she would stop talking to me..
@@friendlyfire782, no I do not. I have not spoken to her or seen her for 22 months now. I only saw her once at a party. I completely ignored her. A friend told me later she left 30 minutes after seeing me.
this guy and i are kindred spirits,i've dated a married woman for 10 monts after reading the book once (i was trying this stuff out) and i was saying to myself "this Corey guy talks about not going after womens who are married or have boyfriends,i guess he dosen't like adventure" but i found out for myself that even if she promises you eternal love and the sex is very good..... the bottom line is that she dosen't have what it takes to leave her husband,and even if she dose you will end up carrying dead weight,a woman that is needy and sufocates you all the time,because she dosen't know what real unclingy love is,she sees love as parasitism like M.Scott Peck says in his book the road less traveled. Much love from Romania coach... Keep up the good work
right, but when she has what it takes to leave her husband, its because she wants to move in with you, she will not jeopardize her marriage unless she has where to go
it's not about security,she was just to weak to leave him,she told me.... "well i hope he finds another woman and cheats on me so i can leave him...." He was literaly the nice guy type,the kind that is holding her handbag,she even told me...."i was looking into his eyes one day and i told to myself,why can't i feel anything for him?!",i remember telling myself.... i will rock your world girl,i know stuff now,i was dead wrong,the sex was literally amazing but spending time with her was hard often times,and to be honest you can't apply what Corey teaches because you can't enjoy all of her,it was an eye opening expirience for me
yeah I know what you mean, when I was being with the married lady, my gf was pregnant at that time, so I felt awkward because I wasn't in love with the married lady, but it sure felt good having her around. And she would say the same about her husband, with the exception he did cheated on her. they had 3 kids, after I found out they ended getting divorced.
Ursache Vasile When in the process of asking girls out for phone numbers how do you go about dealing with situations where girls end up being friends? For example, you ask a girl for her number but she rejects you and then in a different situation you ask another girl and she's interested but finds out you were got rejected by her friend 🤔🤷🏾♂️. Just want opinions
Because they’re not getting what they need and desire in their own marriage. So if the other person gives the married person what they’ve always needed, then no they won’t cheat on you too. I don’t believe if you cheat on your spouse it means you’re a cheater on anyone u get with in the future.
@@terrenceallen323 always be a cheater ? So their labeled for life? I don’t agree. I get it. Cheating sucks. But it’s not a permanent label cause said person cheated in their lifetime
Don’t do it guys, if I could take back the last 6 months I would. It’s left me broken and I’ve become someone I thought I’d never be, but I’m looking forward to rebuilding one day at a time. Stop before you start.
Actually having sex with a married woman of an unsuspecting husband is one of the most intense things you can experience in life. You feel incredible when she asks for it with desperation. And when she wants to repeat it you feel fantastic. The important thing is for both to enjoy the moment and not get hooked in a "deep romance" situation. Superficial romance (when both know it can end the next day) is fine.
I am in a similar situation. The only thing is I fell in love with her and she won't leave her husband. She would like to be friends with me. How can I be just friends with her ? Or should I just cut it off?
Still involved with a MW after 3 years and promises she’s still with him even though he abused her. Corey is right you are nothing more than the fantasy or emotional connection she doesn’t have with him and if there’s kids you will never be more important than them. The longer it goes the more your attachment and suffering and she doesn’t care because she has it all the safety net at home and you at work or on the side
I have a similar story. My ex actually got divorced and I helped her thru her emotions during that time. They have 3 kids together. Then, 4 months later I joined the army and she got pregnant by someone else. I found out when I came back home(which was 7 months away). After a few months, she wanted to come back. Four years later, a new married woman wants to have a relationship. She really attractive but, I learned my lesson. Great advice tho. I came here to convince myself to say no to that relationship.
@@ACEOBODYBAGZ you can give them a pet name but never say "I love you". You can say" I love being around you" but that's it. They will get creeped out if you say "I love you"
lol how awkward. My ex boyfriend just cheated on me with a married woman. Now she's claiming she's in love with him and misses him...while still posting happy family photos with her husband and child. *sigh* I don't get it. His loss.
I don't think that anyone should get involved with married people romantically. As the same time. I think that Single people should be more open to going out with romantic prospects and stop thinking about it in such a heavy way. Just because you go out. Does not mean that it will last or get to marriage. Go out and have fun. Once you are in a commited relationship. You can't explore new relationships for the most part.
I've dated married women.. and it's all good if there's communication and you both are clear about what you are doing, just as with everything else in life. In my cases I've dated married women that have an open relationship on the romantic part of their marriage.. all good.
Anyone who hooks up with a married person is the scum of the earth in my book and don't care what the reason is. There are plenty of single people out there. More than enough to choose from.
I used to think that way too but let's be real NOW. People who are married don't respect marriage these days, especially women who basically see it as an insurance policy or a get rich quick scheme. Young people who marry are HIGHLY susceptible of cheating. I once proclaimed that I will never interfere in a married woman's life if it's beyond friendship but now, I'll only respect her marriage if she respects her own marriage. I always wondered why women would go after unavailable men but I'm starting to understand why. It's not so much the sex but the thrill of being in something that's taboo. I'm not one to actively pursue it but if it does come my way and the opportunity presents itself, I'm not turning that down. Plus most single people are single for a reason. They more often than not exhibit traits that make them unattractive to others.
I agree, but i doubt you’ve been in the position where a really hot married women has been aggressively trying to get you into bed. That being said doesn’t make it right, but I understand how men can give in bc I’ve been there. Even though I never hooked up with the women who was pursuing me.
I am 32 and married to a seafarer for 4 years, I’m still childless. My Dad a former police officer passed away recently so I had to fix his claims and pension in the bureau. The thing is, these young police officers who are single chase me, it didn’t bother them that I am married. I asked them politely to stop but they still continue texting and calling me. I was wondering tf is wrong with these men there are so many single women out there waiting and emotionally available. 🤷🏼♀️ Edit: I didn’t threw my number to them, they took a pic of the forms I filled out.
But whoso commiteth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. Proverbs 6: 32 Romans 5: 6-11. But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
I’ve got a real bad one because she’s honestly separated from him pretty good. They don’t live together, they split the kid, they don’t hang out, there’s some things they do as a family which is fine. We have been dating for 10 months and she definitely has moved most of her attachment over to me but she’s still married, not even legally separated, it’s like she just has no concern or desire for it. She’s just having fun! She didn’t intend to go from a failed marriage to something serious with me, it just happened, but she doesn’t want to be rushed or pushed to do things. Like I said it’s really sucks because it’s like she mostly did it, she mostly brought me in and him out but there’s still things that bother me and it was hell getting to this point. They split and then we started dating shortly after, and there was so much lying, and hiding, and not standing up to him and not putting him in his place and not just telling him how it is (he’s very aggressive and harassing, intimidation, etc.) she “just doesn’t want the drama”. Getting to this point where we are now with him knowing we’re serious and I’m around his kid and being more transparent has basically ruined us. Any little thing sets me off now where I just can’t stand not just being able to be fully open and free. She says I’ve completely pushed her away with my expectations… we just broke up. It’s like all that work just for me to push her away. She sees all that work as the problem. I was just supposed to deal with it all deal with not feeling first and let her figure it out. Idk… it sucks. It’s for the good though, I don’t even respect her because of how she handled things. If your gonna leave good for you but leave, get a legal separation then go explore other people and fun outside your marriage, then get a divorce if it’s looking like you found something serious. There was definitely some have your cake and eat it too going on. This one is just really sad because she did come a long way but it should have never been done that way.
Had my ex who is now married to the douche bag she left me for hit me up out of the blue a few months ago. Im in a good place now working my dream job with potential to soar to great heights in a few years. She was telling me how much she missed me and how our chemistry/sex was way better. I couldn’t bring myself to come in the middle of their marriage, especially considering they have a 4 year old son together. Plus I’ve got girls 10 years younger than her hitting me up 😂 Don’t fall for the trap my guys, we’re better than that 🤙
While I agree wholeheartedly that this applies most of the time but not every time. You can be married separate due to physical violence and have filed for divorce. That should change circumstances. Your honest and upfront and it's the others choice if they want to get involved with you romantically. Because they like you and don't' want to be platonic friends.He did want to fix and help change me to a certain degree. I let him rescue me be co dependent because well I didn't want to die from my toxic ex and I do love this new man in my life.
To sum it up: When a woman makes excuses not to be 100% exclusive with you, especially when she's still married with another man, she is NOT FUCKING WORTH IT. And you deserve better than that, much better than that.
A scumbag at work broke my wife down and had an affair ... I don’t know what to do, I confronted him once already to stay assay from my wife and my family. Now my wife acts like they are not an item but i know he’s trying to talk to her into divorcing us . They had affair for 5-6 months. I had various thoughts how to embarsss him and makemit Known at their work but don’t want to embarrass my wife. I just want to save my marriage and family
Grow a pair! Be a man and dump that bitch! Hope you don't have any boys your probably teaching them to sit on the toilet when they pee. Men have lost all their manhood. She knows you have accepted once and blamed the other guy so when she does it again dont get mad. Guarantee, he probably is bending her over as I type. A woman doesn't want a soft ass cry baby.
As old as this video is… man sorry I’m about to vent. I was most recently heartbroken from dating a married woman with five kids. And married for 14years. (On their 14th anniversary we actually were together) long story short .. she ended up going back to him!! Even after being verbally abused, psychologically manipulated, and threatened he’d kill himself if she tried to leave again. I realize that she’s not leaving him. She’s both scared and want her family. And there’s nothing I could do to stop her or save her… my boys keep calling me Captain Save A Ho but… feeling grew fast and strong . And it sucks because she (in my eyes) is a good woman and beautiful. I see after watching this video that… sometimes you have to let go and remind yourself of your worth.
FIORELLOINVENTIONS Ursache Vasile When in the process of asking girls out for phone numbers how do you go about dealing with situations where girls end up being friends? For example, you ask a girl for her number but she rejects you and then in a different situation you ask another girl and she's interested but finds out you were got rejected by her friend 🤔🤷🏾♂️. Just want opinions
Im in the same situation cuz i was foolish and like he says i ignored reality thinking it will be a good dream but i dont think it will work. I am also the type of person that has the fear of abandon and i depend on her to much so simple be said i just fked myself up even more and is not Gona get any better. Yeah i also feel guilty just like this Guy says. She promised me she love only me and she will leave him and like a fool i trusted her so much.
100% I had the opportunity to last night and even though she was beautiful exactly my type . She has three kids and a husband. I could never be a home wrecker. Karma is real.
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So what if her relationship was abusive for 10 plus years she exhausted did everything in her power to make the marriage work. It didn't and with me she got the divorce?
You absolutely right you are amazing Corey they will never leave there husband i had the same relationship with married women for 15 month we fall in love she always say she will leave her husband for me never did i spend on her 23000 believe it or not and the last 2 month i find out she was dating another guy she is the biggest fucking lier always she has excuses taking my kids to the doctor i work at night lie after lie thank god i dump her even she broke my heart. Anyone out there and read this my advice don't ever date a married women they make your life miserable and you could lose everything not worth it Thank you corey Wayne you are amazing
i was married and she left me for the other guy... and she never looked back so i just think maybe this love thing it´s just not for me, maybe im just overeacting but, its frustrating
corey wassup man. I just want you to know I see what you're doing. you are dropping new videos at different times to be unpredictable just like you say how we should date. I see you. lol
I came out of a relationship with a married woman for 2 years!! She broke up with me because she wanted a dude that had more money than both me and her husband. It was hard as I loved her but then realized...":WHY" should I be upset? I had a romp for 2 years with a HOT chick and no attachments...she turned 50 last year so I know the BOTOX only lasts for so long...and I know I'm in the drivers seat....I can always make more money but SHE cant get younger and better looking LOL. I do feel for the husband though....but I cant believe he didnt know his wife was romping around, All in all I think I took a W on this one :)
I've dated a married woman. Her suppose ex husband, always called her 20 times whenever we hung out and I was like jesus, this guy is acting super fucking beta. He also called multiple times while I slept with her and I'm thinking dude needs to let her go. She told me she was divorced at first then 1 week before she went back to Virginia, she said she was still married. On top of that, she wanted to be in a relationship, I said no because I'm still dealing with other shit. Long story short, I wasn't too happy to know she was still married, didn't feel right. In addition, she had a kid and she brought that kid in my life 2 weeks of getting to know me. I'm happy she left lol I had no guilt, I was too indifferent.
Situation: “Single 52 year old successful incredibly youthful looking man post devestated heart beak two years prior” is now having affair with a married woman. The married woman “has permission” from her husband. Man has always stated he is not sure he ever wants another relationship with someone bc of past pain. His past: He was always the good faithful guy... cheated on by his girlfriends repeatedly. He never left, always fought for the relationship. Tell me your thoughts on this. Is he truly single emotionally? Is this truly just sex?
Just sex, don't allow some man to play you like that. When a man truly wants you there isn't anything get in his way to be with you. Also, he sounds like he is using the old I was screwed over thats why I don't trust women. He probably tells all his buddies he has a cougar that won't leave him alone. Stop calling him, guarantee his soft ass will start doing what ever you want
I've been good close friends with a married woman for 7 years (only friends) and in my own mind I'm thinking that something may happen along the road and we'll end up together, but (guess what?) its never happened yet (wishful thinking, huh?)
coach corey, I got dumped one month ago. My ex and I had a great connection. She said she lost attraction for me and wants to be friends. I want to say what you recommend, to walk away and mean it. She said I am attractive and I'm her type but something is missing to make things grow. I guess it was the lack of being the man in the relationship and being complacent. Do you think her interest level might be 50 per cent or higher?
I know, I've read the book already and I am on the second reading. I also saw a lot of his breakup videos over and over again but the only thing I havent done is say no to friendship before walking away
That's what I will do. I know I meant something. I've seen it but if I stray friends I will continue to be weak. Thanks a lot. You made my decision even more clear and now I am not going to back down
Just told her what I wanted and she said her feelings are never going to change and insisted on friendship. I said that is not an option because I can't settle for less than I want. It would be torture to be with her and not be able to touch her, kiss her and have her. Afterwards she said stay well then. I just replied I wish you all the best. If you change your mind you know what to do. You were the most amazing person i met. She just replied : I wish you all the best too. I'm out now. I have to be strong
It's a rebound, it's not going to work. I know I will be better my man but I still don't believe I had the balls to say what I couldn't one month ago. It was so fucking hard... I'm going to mean it. I'm going to spend some time away from home to make myself calm. I feel better when I am away from family. Do you think there is a chance for me my friend? I really love this gal more than the world Ps: she said it would be best if we stayed away from eachother not hurt eachother. Do you think most of the things she said was to try to convince me to stay? She said she couldn't accept be more than friends.
When in the process of asking girls out for phone numbers how do you go about dealing with situations where girls end up being friends? For example, you ask a girl for her number but she rejects you and then in a different situation you ask another girl and she's interested but finds out you were got rejected by her friend 🤔🤷🏾♂️
The people that chose married or attached people should just look for a casual relationship with an available person. The guy you speak of would not have had a emotional connection with this woman it just would have been physical anyway. He needs to check if he really wants a serious relationship. I see this on Tinder men professing they are married but in a loveless marriage, and they're only 40, is this true. It made me wonder if you were to initiate a relationship with a married person, you're not going to be going out in public with them even for a quick drink and you're not going to be frequenting their place. I'm all for a casual relationship but want to be able to meet the guy in public and maybe goes to his place at times. Dating a married person would just be a one way street, don't know why anyone would want to do that to themselves when there are plenty of available people out there.
I know a girl she was dating a married guy with 2 kids... (he left his wife for her because wife was a materialistic person,fighting all the time) they got married.but he died 2-3 years ago. (age 55)
You dodge a bullet there, no matter how hot she is shes not the right girl for u, if she cheated on her current husband shes was going to cheat on u someday eventually, married woman are ok to flirt around and spend a good time but not for long term relationships
Hello sir, love from India I did same thing the way you explain in every video But here i got in problem and i need some help I was behind one girl for almost 2 years that time she had friendzoned me as she was dating someone else after two year she came back to me so now wt i did i friendzoned her as she's already dating someone else now So now she's ignoring me what to do to get please help me out
My father had several affairs on my mother knowing this don't see eye to eye with my father or have talk to him in several years the guy has miss seeing his grand daughter grow up to a beautiful hearted woman. Proverbs 5 My son, pay attention to my wisdom, turn your ear to my words of insight, 2 that you may maintain discretion and your lips may preserve knowledge. 3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; 4 but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword. 5 Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. 6 She gives no thought to the way of life; her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.
Well if a woman is sick of her husband and he is a total idiot and lazy and abusive yeah I can see a married woman wanting to leave and be with someone better.
If there is no sex in the marriage I can see someone cheating also. If a woman is in a situation to where it is best for her to leave then I don't see a problem with that. Plus if he is defending his own family all the time and it's all about them and screw the wife then that is a person not to be with. No woman deserves that.
What if her husband dies and she has a kid from her passed away husband is it easy to date that person for me I find it difficult I want to see like that video.
That woman will be technically single. Then you cannot classify her as being married. She will be classified as widowed. Being widowed technically don't classify that person as being married. If she were to fill out any application, a divorcee and widowed person needs to mark the answer as being single.
Jaclyn Shaw I guess this is where women and men differ, women need emotional connection in order to have sex, this is for biological reasons such as ensuring That the male will support and protect her child, whilst men don't need an emotional connection, they can separate emotions and sex ( not all men and women are the same )
Do you realize, how many dysfunctional families there are out there. Where divorce is not an option for various reasons. One of the spouses is sick for example and unable to be physically or mentally a partner. Do you abandon him/her...or you find a way to exist emotionally, physically and otherwise/ and keep your sanity , but discreetly, without manifesting it to society and family. Is this dishonest to you? Taking the burden but wanting to be alive and have some sort of life , according to you is wrong?? When you are open about what is in your life and where you are at...I do not think this is wrong! I think that everyone has the right to be happy at least a bit, as long as he/ she is not hurting anyone in the process...
Met a married online lady who was weak here excuses were we'll see? every time we wanted too do anything it got old real quick maybe I had too much time on my hands maybe I was halving a midlife crisis but one day I just woke up id rather be in a boring relationship than be strung along by a sarcastic bitch who was hooked on codine phosphate and mad as a hatter 😞
Help me! My gf always complains we don't spend time together but when I do try she spends her time taking selfies or pictures whats happening rather than just enjoying the time together.. 2 years and a bit together.. have a house together too😓
HPD is very common in married women, esp in a work environment. I've met many who flirt but no sex. People who are married in their 20s are a lost cause. Who knows if anyone even gets married in 20 years. Smh
I met this girl last year through Snapchat quick add. She was god damn beautiful. Evil. Black hair. A side tattoo. The best damn ass you ever seen. She bought me a guitar and amp. Knew I loved music. Made sure I ate a lot of nights. Did special things for me like mail Me love notes. Drove 10 hours Florida to see me. Obsessed over me. Come to find out she has a husband, there are no excuses she can use. If she loves you and doesn’t secretly want him to give her the attention she gets from you, she’ll leave him.
Hey Corey coach sire, you always tell us to tell our ex girlfriend to come over to our place and cook dinnder together with wine and then hook up BUT what if you don't have a place of yours and live with your parents that dont allow girls in house and you always went to your ex girlfriend house in the past? What should we do then? Like to reattract her should we go to her place because bviously there is no place of mine. Any suggstions?
Married women will do more in bed with a boyfriend than a husband.
True
Facts
Yep..they save the best for the cheating ppl..whores
Why is that? Just curious on ur thoughts
Trust me I'm finding that out now she's amazing lol
I was talking to a married woman 10 years older then me. There was something about her I really liked. She would hit me up everday for a year and a half, not for sexual but other reason but I guess for a emotional fix. For awhile I told her to make things right with her husband because it was the best thing to do. I eventually started having strong feeling for her, then on day out of the blue she blocked me for no reason. I’m glad she fixing her marriage but I’m kicking myself in the butt for falling for something I knew in the beginning I had no right to in the first place. In the end it ain’t worth it.
Update. She contact me again after 6 weeks, but I don’t have the feelings for her at all. It gets batter people and stay tf away from married women/men.
I would go straight anal
I'm a female and from my perspective, women don't leave their husbands for another man that they're screwing unless you make more money than her husband and if she knows that you can take care of her and her kids. Of course you're going to encounter issues from her husband too so be aware of that. Don't date married unless u can accept that it's just a fling and u won't have a future with her.
So true married women are sold out to the highest bidderx
So true. A married woman needs a stable living for her and her kids. I agree with this statement, " married women are sold out to the highest bidder," Even though it sounds harsh.
Couldn't disagree more
@@sweetooth1967 thats every woman my boi, everything is just a fling for then until they find iut your a high value in any 1 area
@@frankiemoreno7320 not my wife, she is not so shallow that she would leave me just for money, but if I was lazy or wasn't treating her right or treating our kids right she would. And she would be correct to.
Important message on this video: "In order for someone to come into your life, you need to create a space for them". Never continue dating emotionally unavailable ppl because they will drain YOU out emotionally and they will keep feeding their ego and insecurities based on their fear of being alone. Words prove who somebody WANTS to be but actions prove who they REALLY ARE!
Jeremy H. Glad that Coach has been creating a big fanbase across the world with ppl that are willing to improve themselves but also help make the world a little bit more pleasant and optimistic 😁
True
True true that. Wise words
The trigger word for me and my situation is “alone” she always says she doesn’t want to be alone. But I’d rather be alone than in an abusive relationship.
Great point - The wife never feels remorse when cheating it is always someone else's fault
Honestly, Coach Corey, I use your channel as my encyclopedia for relationship info. Alot of this stuff is hard to talk about with other people, but I feel like you're talking to me when I come here for answers. Thanks for the work you do!
There are many men and women who are in prison because they found out that their spouse was cheating remember this.
No mom no dad
I was pursued by a married woman and it was the must awesome feeling I ever had. Went on for 3 month relationship. She taught me a lot about women. I am now very good at meeting women. Very good. All because of her !!
Ethan Rakell yeah did you dump her ads before he dumps your ass???
What did you learn? Tell us
@@facundoestrada4105
1) Don't try too hard - it shows when you do. Just be yourself.
2) Get in shape
3) Maintain a good career
4) Women will notice you before you notice them, so dress well all the time - be ready
5) Get rid of the tacky gold necklace, and buy something cool
6) Man-scape !
Then I started watching some of the Alpha M vid's here on youtube....the guy is a bit annoying....but is bang-on with a lot of things....there are a lot of "Women advising Men" on RUclips that have some real good stuff to listen to. Lots of good advise everywhere.
I saw this video at exactly the right time. Kudos for advice and the timing Coach. My Ex is reconciling with her husband after a separation and I felt all the things this guy described.
It's a good example of how avoiding suffering leads to more suffering
You don't date a married woman, you get with her and have sex with her. I've been with a married woman before, knowing they're married you can understand why those are not dates. Needless to say, be very careful because husbands will blame you and would more than like to meet you, and its not for coffee trust me.
lol brah! I been there before, when I was 19 I was working at a warehouse, there was this older lady(36) that caught my interest, she was married but fortunately for me, her husband had cheated on her before and she was suspicious that he was still doing it, long story short, I worked my magic and one night(graveyard shift we used to get out at 4am) I left my car at home and got a ride to work, I told her my car had broken down and asked her for a ride then made my move. Good thing about being with older married women is that they'll buy you good things to keep you happy. the one that wasn't happy was the husband when he found out 😒 he tried threatening me, not directly but he said something to my mother, to which my mother replied "you have daughters too, I don't think you'll want anything bad to happen to them" in response to what he had said to her, that was the last I ever heard about him. his wife kept calling me and looking for me even yrs after. so to anyone out there,
be careful.
Rigo Rangel couldn't have said it better myself
ppppffffgggghhh! what's to be expected from a hater such as yourself? Now do I feel you want to challenge me?
lol not at all, i just sharing my experience, and advising anyone to be careful with it. There's only two outcomes out of it, ether she falls for you and wants to get a divorce from her man, or she tells you to f-off and not ruin her family.
One thing is for sure, since they're married, they don't care about dates, they just want to have sex and quick because they have to go home and pretend everything is swell. cheers mate
Rigo Rangel yes karma does come full swing brother, not hating just stating facts. You are who and what you associate yourself with. One day you might settle down, but one day same shit WILL happen to you. It is why I never emotionally or physically cheat...wife is currently cheating but I am focusing on my kids and honestly have no ill will as I'd rather her be happy then depressed which affects the kids. So you might be bragging like Billy bad ass however you're pretty much a scumbag with zero morals or self respect...I'm baffled at this new age thinking that hooking up with taken people is a cool thing...you basically destroyed a household and ruined kids childhoods of a potential split homes/holidays you must have not come from a split household and don't understand the mind fucking it does to you as a kid.
This is why you never marry.
GAACRLON AMEN!!!!!
@@blair5475 not true, I'm married and it's great.
I was married for 12 years my wife cheated on me I met a girl 8 years ago who was married she's been my girlfriend ever since and I've been dating her the whole time she was with a guy incarcerated in prison he got out of prison she is still married to him and still seeing me I put a ring on this one she is not getting a divorce she promised she was getting a divorce and never did
This is such a rough difficult topic, I'm going through a a scenario myself as guy, it makes it difficult when the girl is extremely attractive and is giving you an opportunity, its very difficult to refuse the obvious opportunity to be with a super attractive woman. But I know in my heart that it's not honorable to be with a married woman.
its just that theres no any good outcome in any way
i was having an affair with a married woman for 1,5 years.. she was mega good looking and we always had great time and sex.. the worst thing is when you get emotionally attached.. then its game over ehh
even if she left her husband for you would you take her?
@@gamwsas no ... never ... u shouldn't.
@@comeplay2594 why not?
@@gamwsas let's assume u take her.
Than after whenever she get time or a perfect situation she will have affair with other men behind u
That's what she did when she was with her first husband right?
So what do u expect from her? Loyalty?
That's not her habit, and if u want to suffer than you can have her.
@@comeplay2594 how do you know if it's her habit or not? Do you know her very well?
Yeah I needed to hear this! And that part about using the kids for the reasons why she won’t leave is true! 😂😂😂
Its crazy they use their children to sleep around on their husband just because they don't get enough at home. But they want fast sex because they are unsatisfiable.. so they won't leave due to the fact they are financially dependent on their husband that they clearly don't love enough to stay loyal to.
@@buttsaladninjaofficial7082 best answer ever. they wont leave their husband and prefer to f**k him without any emotions in order to sustain resources for her and the children
@@buttsaladninjaofficial7082 see, in that case I would just have an open relationship with her.
corey is a good example for many of the young men that i witness in this generation. This guy is great. bow ties and all. dont judge a book by its cover at its best. how a seemingly nerdy or even steriotypically less "masculine" guy can be self-assured and comfortable with who he is. good for you young man! Keep speaking the truth.
highly recommended.
That was me. I went out for a year with a married woman. Not proud of if. Now, 10 weeks later, I'm still hurting. I fell in love with her and ended breaking up with me. I'm going through the pain and for the first time in my life I have been doing so much self developing work.
Do you see or talk to her still?
Same here still heartbroken 😞
Me also I work with mine different shifts..but the shit hurts..never expected her to leave her husband just never thought she would stop talking to me..
Same here, she was nice but showed no emotions.
@@friendlyfire782, no I do not. I have not spoken to her or seen her for 22 months now. I only saw her once at a party. I completely ignored her. A friend told me later she left 30 minutes after seeing me.
Don't date a married woman, even if she's seperated. You're setting yourself up for heartbreak. Trust me.
Grand Lake Paranormal Society maybe for you but I’ve found love from several married woman and it’s more than wholesome
this guy and i are kindred spirits,i've dated a married woman for 10 monts after reading the book once (i was trying this stuff out) and i was saying to myself "this Corey guy talks about not going after womens who are married or have boyfriends,i guess he dosen't like adventure" but i found out for myself that even if she promises you eternal love and the sex is very good..... the bottom line is that she dosen't have what it takes to leave her husband,and even if she dose you will end up carrying dead weight,a woman that is needy and sufocates you all the time,because she dosen't know what real unclingy love is,she sees love as parasitism like M.Scott Peck says in his book the road less traveled.
Much love from Romania coach... Keep up the good work
right, but when she has what it takes to leave her husband, its because she wants to move in with you, she will not jeopardize her marriage unless she has where to go
it's not about security,she was just to weak to leave him,she told me.... "well i hope he finds another woman and cheats on me so i can leave him...." He was literaly the nice guy type,the kind that is holding her handbag,she even told me...."i was looking into his eyes one day and i told to myself,why can't i feel anything for him?!",i remember telling myself.... i will rock your world girl,i know stuff now,i was dead wrong,the sex was literally amazing but spending time with her was hard often times,and to be honest you can't apply what Corey teaches because you can't enjoy all of her,it was an eye opening expirience for me
yeah I know what you mean, when I was being with the married lady, my gf was pregnant at that time, so I felt awkward because I wasn't in love with the married lady, but it sure felt good having her around. And she would say the same about her husband, with the exception he did cheated on her. they had 3 kids, after I found out they ended getting divorced.
Ursache Vasile When in the process of asking girls out for phone numbers how do you go about dealing with situations where girls end up being friends? For example, you ask a girl for her number but she rejects you and then in a different situation you ask another girl and she's interested but finds out you were got rejected by her friend 🤔🤷🏾♂️. Just want opinions
I love it brother
If they're cheating on their partner then who's to say they wouldn't cheat on you as well.
You absolutely right
Because they’re not getting what they need and desire in their own marriage. So if the other person gives the married person what they’ve always needed, then no they won’t cheat on you too. I don’t believe if you cheat on your spouse it means you’re a cheater on anyone u get with in the future.
@@jayA2454_ not all cheaters keep cheating. They'll always be a cheater though.
@@terrenceallen323 always be a cheater ? So their labeled for life? I don’t agree. I get it. Cheating sucks. But it’s not a permanent label cause said person cheated in their lifetime
@@carlel121 hey there thanks for sharing. I was married for 9 years. So I absolutely understand. If you ever need to talk I’m here :)
Don’t do it guys, if I could take back the last 6 months I would. It’s left me broken and I’ve become someone I thought I’d never be, but I’m looking forward to rebuilding one day at a time. Stop before you start.
Actually having sex with a married woman of an unsuspecting husband is one of the most intense things you can experience in life. You feel incredible when she asks for it with desperation. And when she wants to repeat it you feel fantastic.
The important thing is for both to enjoy the moment and not get hooked in a "deep romance" situation. Superficial romance (when both know it can end the next day) is fine.
I am in a similar situation. The only thing is I fell in love with her and she won't leave her husband. She would like to be friends with me. How can I be just friends with her ? Or should I just cut it off?
Ugh. You’re a pig. Idk why I got recommended this video.
@@nhannah4768 you got recommended the video because you looked up something similar. It isn't rocket science
Alberto Montano I really didn’t. I watch autopsy & murder videos all day mama.
Alberto Montano I was actually looking up why married men cheat & got this
Still involved with a MW after 3 years and promises she’s still with him even though he abused her. Corey is right you are nothing more than the fantasy or emotional connection she doesn’t have with him and if there’s kids you will never be more important than them. The longer it goes the more your attachment and suffering and she doesn’t care because she has it all the safety net at home and you at work or on the side
The longer it goes on the more u will hurt..
I have a similar story. My ex actually got divorced and I helped her thru her emotions during that time. They have 3 kids together. Then, 4 months later I joined the army and she got pregnant by someone else. I found out when I came back home(which was 7 months away). After a few months, she wanted to come back. Four years later, a new married woman wants to have a relationship. She really attractive but, I learned my lesson. Great advice tho.
I came here to convince myself to say no to that relationship.
If you're dating a married woman, you have no respect for her or for yourself. It's fucked up a person would even do that intentionally.
Yeah they never leave their husband I know from experience as well. Just have fun and hook up and don't get attached to the married ones.
So that means avoid saying I love you calling em baby etc etc
@@ACEOBODYBAGZ you can give them a pet name but never say "I love you". You can say" I love being around you" but that's it. They will get creeped out if you say "I love you"
Be careful you don’t end up dead to
lol how awkward. My ex boyfriend just cheated on me with a married woman. Now she's claiming she's in love with him and misses him...while still posting happy family photos with her husband and child. *sigh* I don't get it. His loss.
I'm going through the same thing except the girl I'm seeing is with a married guy...facebook looks great.
There are many single women in this world, i am one of them 😁. Leave those married women alone guys!
I wish I could come across you, you seem unbelievably attractive ♥️
@@NezamMousa thank you sir. I am a village woman from indonesia
@@NezamMousa fucking weirdo
@Naser Rezayi Ha!Ha!
Only married women want me.. no joke. I’ve been single for 5 years, and only married women want me.
Love that Cory Wayne wit. "Of course she is going to leave her Husband". LOL
I don't think that anyone should get involved with married people romantically. As the same time. I think that Single people should be more open to going out with romantic prospects and stop thinking about it in such a heavy way. Just because you go out. Does not mean that it will last or get to marriage. Go out and have fun. Once you are in a commited relationship. You can't explore new relationships for the most part.
Alan McLaren , falling in love is a extreme emotion and just not a mere decision. A tough situation to be in plain and simple
Married woman wants to stay friends after I broke up with her..what should I do?
@@kumarsandhu5534 so, stay friends like I did.
100 percent true Corey , every single word You said.
I've dated married women.. and it's all good if there's communication and you both are clear about what you are doing, just as with everything else in life. In my cases I've dated married women that have an open relationship on the romantic part of their marriage.. all good.
You better have other women you're seeing besides the married woman because you'll definitely be emotionally attached.
Anyone who hooks up with a married person is the scum of the earth in my book and don't care what the reason is. There are plenty of single people out there. More than enough to choose from.
Stay classy.
Theres no rules here.
I used to think that way too but let's be real NOW. People who are married don't respect marriage these days, especially women who basically see it as an insurance policy or a get rich quick scheme. Young people who marry are HIGHLY susceptible of cheating.
I once proclaimed that I will never interfere in a married woman's life if it's beyond friendship but now, I'll only respect her marriage if she respects her own marriage. I always wondered why women would go after unavailable men but I'm starting to understand why. It's not so much the sex but the thrill of being in something that's taboo. I'm not one to actively pursue it but if it does come my way and the opportunity presents itself, I'm not turning that down.
Plus most single people are single for a reason. They more often than not exhibit traits that make them unattractive to others.
I agree, but i doubt you’ve been in the position where a really hot married women has been aggressively trying to get you into bed. That being said doesn’t make it right, but I understand how men can give in bc I’ve been there. Even though I never hooked up with the women who was pursuing me.
@@AGMartinez Well for me there are and for someone who has values there are rules even if they are made for yourself and internal.
Going through this now, will update when there’s a next move
I am 32 and married to a seafarer for 4 years, I’m still childless. My Dad a former police officer passed away recently so I had to fix his claims and pension in the bureau. The thing is, these young police officers who are single chase me, it didn’t bother them that I am married. I asked them politely to stop but they still continue texting and calling me. I was wondering tf is wrong with these men there are so many single women out there waiting and emotionally available. 🤷🏼♀️
Edit: I didn’t threw my number to them, they took a pic of the forms I filled out.
I’m dating a married woman, and it’s awesome, and I’m not trying to change her mind at all.
How is it going?
But whoso commiteth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. Proverbs 6: 32 Romans 5: 6-11. But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Still awesome? 😂😂😂
I’ve got a real bad one because she’s honestly separated from him pretty good. They don’t live together, they split the kid, they don’t hang out, there’s some things they do as a family which is fine. We have been dating for 10 months and she definitely has moved most of her attachment over to me but she’s still married, not even legally separated, it’s like she just has no concern or desire for it. She’s just having fun! She didn’t intend to go from a failed marriage to something serious with me, it just happened, but she doesn’t want to be rushed or pushed to do things. Like I said it’s really sucks because it’s like she mostly did it, she mostly brought me in and him out but there’s still things that bother me and it was hell getting to this point. They split and then we started dating shortly after, and there was so much lying, and hiding, and not standing up to him and not putting him in his place and not just telling him how it is (he’s very aggressive and harassing, intimidation, etc.) she “just doesn’t want the drama”. Getting to this point where we are now with him knowing we’re serious and I’m around his kid and being more transparent has basically ruined us. Any little thing sets me off now where I just can’t stand not just being able to be fully open and free. She says I’ve completely pushed her away with my expectations… we just broke up. It’s like all that work just for me to push her away. She sees all that work as the problem. I was just supposed to deal with it all deal with not feeling first and let her figure it out. Idk… it sucks. It’s for the good though, I don’t even respect her because of how she handled things. If your gonna leave good for you but leave, get a legal separation then go explore other people and fun outside your marriage, then get a divorce if it’s looking like you found something serious. There was definitely some have your cake and eat it too going on. This one is just really sad because she did come a long way but it should have never been done that way.
Coach Corey’s expressions always crack me up. He reads these while holding back the laughter 😂
Had my ex who is now married to the douche bag she left me for hit me up out of the blue a few months ago. Im in a good place now working my dream job with potential to soar to great heights in a few years. She was telling me how much she missed me and how our chemistry/sex was way better. I couldn’t bring myself to come in the middle of their marriage, especially considering they have a 4 year old son together.
Plus I’ve got girls 10 years younger than her hitting me up 😂
Don’t fall for the trap my guys, we’re better than that 🤙
To late already did and boy I’m I burning to hell
Well said 👍
Affairs happen when either party is missing something in their marriage.
While I agree wholeheartedly that this applies most of the time but not every time. You can be married separate due to physical violence and have filed for divorce. That should change circumstances. Your honest and upfront and it's the others choice if they want to get involved with you romantically. Because they like you and don't' want to be platonic friends.He did want to fix and help change me to a certain degree. I let him rescue me be co dependent because well I didn't want to die from my toxic ex and I do love this new man in my life.
Good for you brother. I hope you are happy 🙏🏻
To sum it up: When a woman makes excuses not to be 100% exclusive with you, especially when she's still married with another man, she is NOT FUCKING WORTH IT. And you deserve better than that, much better than that.
A scumbag at work broke my wife down and had an affair ... I don’t know what to do, I confronted him once already to stay assay from my wife and my family.
Now my wife acts like they are not an item but i know he’s trying to talk to her into divorcing us .
They had affair for 5-6 months. I had various thoughts how to embarsss him and makemit
Known at their work but don’t want to embarrass my wife. I just want to save my marriage and family
I'm sorry to hear this man. And not to be rude or anything, but shouldn't she tell him to just leave her alone??
Grow a pair! Be a man and dump that bitch! Hope you don't have any boys your probably teaching them to sit on the toilet when they pee. Men have lost all their manhood. She knows you have accepted once and blamed the other guy so when she does it again dont get mad. Guarantee, he probably is bending her over as I type. A woman doesn't want a soft ass cry baby.
How is the marriage now
As old as this video is… man sorry I’m about to vent. I was most recently heartbroken from dating a married woman with five kids. And married for 14years. (On their 14th anniversary we actually were together) long story short .. she ended up going back to him!! Even after being verbally abused, psychologically manipulated, and threatened he’d kill himself if she tried to leave again. I realize that she’s not leaving him. She’s both scared and want her family. And there’s nothing I could do to stop her or save her… my boys keep calling me Captain Save A Ho but… feeling grew fast and strong . And it sucks because she (in my eyes) is a good woman and beautiful. I see after watching this video that… sometimes you have to let go and remind yourself of your worth.
Did she tell you she would leave him?
.you never , ever date a married person... EVER.
no you wouldn't. married women are amongs the most experienced they'll suck you dry and wanting more, you will not want to give that up right away.
..IT IS A MORAL ISSUE.. don't you guys understand morals. quality of character...
at 19 yrs old do you think i cared about morals?
FIORELLOINVENTIONS Ursache Vasile When in the process of asking girls out for phone numbers how do you go about dealing with situations where girls end up being friends? For example, you ask a girl for her number but she rejects you and then in a different situation you ask another girl and she's interested but finds out you were got rejected by her friend 🤔🤷🏾♂️. Just want opinions
I just wanna do her, not marry her
Im in the same situation cuz i was foolish and like he says i ignored reality thinking it will be a good dream but i dont think it will work. I am also the type of person that has the fear of abandon and i depend on her to much so simple be said i just fked myself up even more and is not Gona get any better. Yeah i also feel guilty just like this Guy says. She promised me she love only me and she will leave him and like a fool i trusted her so much.
what goes around comes around.
Jacob Kuba so fucking true.
Jacob Kuba sure does😈
That’s the only reason why I’m controlling myself pretty hard...otherwise!!!!!
Man, I really liked having the pinball machine in the background :(
Any man who plows another man's heifer is a fool
Mark Michael LePianka amen brother so many other fish out there.
Mark Michael LePianka any woman that does that is the same thing right?
Theres plenty of fish in the sea, goes both ways. Men that have a cheating wife, need to start cheating. YOLO
100% I had the opportunity to last night and even though she was beautiful exactly my type . She has three kids and a husband. I could never be a home wrecker. Karma is real.
Anyone else tired of tai Lopez ads? lol
Uhh, I am tired of Wesley Virgin ads.
That’s why I pay the 15 bucks a month for ad free. If you listen to RUclips as much as I do and then add up how much time those ads take away from your life in a month it ends up being worth it just to pay.
So what if her relationship was abusive for 10 plus years she exhausted did everything in her power to make the marriage work. It didn't and with me she got the divorce?
Is it effective yet ? They got divorced?
@@cedricporsenna yep almost immediately
You absolutely right you are amazing Corey they will never leave there husband i had the same relationship with married women for 15 month we fall in love she always say she will leave her husband for me never did i spend on her 23000 believe it or not and the last 2 month i find out she was dating another guy she is the biggest fucking lier always she has excuses taking my kids to the doctor i work at night lie after lie thank god i dump her even she broke my heart.
Anyone out there and read this my advice don't ever date a married women they make your life miserable and you could lose everything not worth it
Thank you corey Wayne you are amazing
i can believe you spent so much. i spent around 10000 on a married woman for gifts she was asking and cash. what a whore.
Please can you do some more for us females as we also need your wisdom and logic. Thank You in advance.
Gemma Jane Brookes yeah that's a good idea cuz I'm a female too
Go watch Matthew Hussey, he gives advice for woman, don't know if he responds to fan mail, but you can try. Look up his name on youtube.
Gemma Jane Brookes Yes i am a female too
My situation right now. And she has three kids! And the oldest daughter is actually okay with it because she doesn't get along with her dad
i was married and she left me for the other guy... and she never looked back so i just think maybe this love thing it´s just not for me, maybe im just overeacting but, its frustrating
maybe you didnt have children with her thats why it was so easy for her to move on
corey wassup man. I just want you to know I see what you're doing. you are dropping new videos at different times to be unpredictable just like you say how we should date. I see you. lol
I came out of a relationship with a married woman for 2 years!! She broke up with me because she wanted a dude that had more money than both me and her husband. It was hard as I loved her but then realized...":WHY" should I be upset? I had a romp for 2 years with a HOT chick and no attachments...she turned 50 last year so I know the BOTOX only lasts for so long...and I know I'm in the drivers seat....I can always make more money but SHE cant get younger and better looking LOL. I do feel for the husband though....but I cant believe he didnt know his wife was romping around, All in all I think I took a W on this one :)
I've dated a married woman. Her suppose ex husband, always called her 20 times whenever we hung out and I was like jesus, this guy is acting super fucking beta. He also called multiple times while I slept with her and I'm thinking dude needs to let her go. She told me she was divorced at first then 1 week before she went back to Virginia, she said she was still married. On top of that, she wanted to be in a relationship, I said no because I'm still dealing with other shit. Long story short, I wasn't too happy to know she was still married, didn't feel right. In addition, she had a kid and she brought that kid in my life 2 weeks of getting to know me. I'm happy she left lol I had no guilt, I was too indifferent.
Blair Fool wasn't going to do anything he lives 3000 miles away and he's back with her lol. I'm good, he's not lol.
@@DominicCruz why is he not?
Nothing good will ever come out from adultery.
Situation: “Single 52 year old successful incredibly youthful looking man post devestated heart beak two years prior” is now having affair with a married woman. The married woman “has permission” from her husband. Man has always stated he is not sure he ever wants another relationship with someone bc of past pain. His past: He was always the good faithful guy... cheated on by his girlfriends repeatedly. He never left, always fought for the relationship. Tell me your thoughts on this. Is he truly single emotionally? Is this truly just sex?
Just sex, don't allow some man to play you like that. When a man truly wants you there isn't anything get in his way to be with you. Also, he sounds like he is using the old I was screwed over thats why I don't trust women. He probably tells all his buddies he has a cougar that won't leave him alone. Stop calling him, guarantee his soft ass will start doing what ever you want
first comment haha...i love your advice man
Love these videos
Hey coach, when is your new book coming out and what will it be about?
Dated a married woman at work years ago thought she was divorced who husband was a cop did not end well at all do not do it
@@blair5475 he ended up beating the s word out of her he didn’t do anything to me thank god
@@blair5475 that was 10 years ago and really it wasn’t my problem to deal with glad he didn’t come after me guy was huge
I've been good close friends with a married woman for 7 years (only friends) and in my own mind I'm thinking that something may happen along the road and we'll end up together, but (guess what?) its never happened yet (wishful thinking, huh?)
coach corey, I got dumped one month ago. My ex and I had a great connection. She said she lost attraction for me and wants to be friends. I want to say what you recommend, to walk away and mean it. She said I am attractive and I'm her type but something is missing to make things grow. I guess it was the lack of being the man in the relationship and being complacent. Do you think her interest level might be 50 per cent or higher?
So I should do the best strategy to get an ex back that corey explained. Tell her what I want and walk away and mean it right?
I know, I've read the book already and I am on the second reading. I also saw a lot of his breakup videos over and over again but the only thing I havent done is say no to friendship before walking away
That's what I will do. I know I meant something. I've seen it but if I stray friends I will continue to be weak. Thanks a lot. You made my decision even more clear and now I am not going to back down
Just told her what I wanted and she said her feelings are never going to change and insisted on friendship. I said that is not an option because I can't settle for less than I want. It would be torture to be with her and not be able to touch her, kiss her and have her. Afterwards she said stay well then. I just replied I wish you all the best. If you change your mind you know what to do. You were the most amazing person i met.
She just replied : I wish you all the best too. I'm out now. I have to be strong
It's a rebound, it's not going to work. I know I will be better my man but I still don't believe I had the balls to say what I couldn't one month ago. It was so fucking hard... I'm going to mean it. I'm going to spend some time away from home to make myself calm. I feel better when I am away from family. Do you think there is a chance for me my friend? I really love this gal more than the world
Ps: she said it would be best if we stayed away from eachother not hurt eachother. Do you think most of the things she said was to try to convince me to stay? She said she couldn't accept be more than friends.
Awesome video love it!
Out of respect for yourself, dont date a married woman. She will forever be compromised.
You can't date married people. It's called having an affair. 😒
"Never date a Married woman."
Up next: "Do this when she Backs Away."
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Dont date em..just fuckem...and toss em
who else thinks I'm the only female here😂😂
Tanya Taderera well on the plus side you have your pick of us 3% men, only after we read the book 10-15 times! 😂😂😂
Tanya Taderera you're not
Tanya Taderera I'm a female too and it's nice to check out vids like this to see a man's perspective
M. Harrison no one wants your dumbass pursuing them.
John Smith it works both ways. You cheat and u get what u deserve as well
When in the process of asking girls out for phone numbers how do you go about dealing with situations where girls end up being friends? For example, you ask a girl for her number but she rejects you and then in a different situation you ask another girl and she's interested but finds out you were got rejected by her friend 🤔🤷🏾♂️
very true Dude thx Corey
Thank you so much for this you might have just Helped me here :) But part of me cannot let go what do i do :)
Dating? More like side piece.
Exactly
@@apimpnamedslickback9453 ,thirsty as fuck
You have to date a married women, but no one said anything about sleeping. 😅
Hey Corey Great Video. How about a Q&A video?
The people that chose married or attached people should just look for a casual relationship with an available person. The guy you speak of would not have had a emotional connection with this woman it just would have been physical anyway. He needs to check if he really wants a serious relationship. I see this on Tinder men professing they are married but in a loveless marriage, and they're only 40, is this true. It made me wonder if you were to initiate a relationship with a married person, you're not going to be going out in public with them even for a quick drink and you're not going to be frequenting their place. I'm all for a casual relationship but want to be able to meet the guy in public and maybe goes to his place at times. Dating a married person would just be a one way street, don't know why anyone would want to do that to themselves when there are plenty of available people out there.
I know a girl she was dating a married guy with 2 kids... (he left his wife for her because wife was a materialistic person,fighting all the time) they got married.but he died 2-3 years ago. (age 55)
I was dating a married woman now she want us to be friends she's living with her husband I have strong feelings for her what should I do
You dodge a bullet there, no matter how hot she is shes not the right girl for u, if she cheated on her current husband shes was going to cheat on u someday eventually, married woman are ok to flirt around and spend a good time but not for long term relationships
You still making Corey's Green Juice, Corey? Have you made any updates to it?
Vintage Wayne, today!
Hello sir, love from India
I did same thing the way you explain in every video
But here i got in problem and i need some help
I was behind one girl for almost 2 years that time she had friendzoned me as she was dating someone else after two year she came back to me so now wt i did i friendzoned her as she's already dating someone else now
So now she's ignoring me what to do to get please help me out
My father had several affairs on my mother knowing this don't see eye to eye with my father or have talk to him in several years the guy has miss seeing his grand daughter grow up to a beautiful hearted woman.
Proverbs 5
My son, pay attention to my wisdom,
turn your ear to my words of insight,
2 that you may maintain discretion
and your lips may preserve knowledge.
3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;
4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,
sharp as a double-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
her steps lead straight to the grave.
6 She gives no thought to the way of life;
her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.
Thanks my friend!❤️🇨🇦
This is happening to me in this specific moment I’m dating and madly in love with a married woman and it’s fucking hell help dont know what to do
You still dating her?
@@DB10887 nope cut ties completely
@@beardlong8235 I decide to end it it was not whorth it
@@edward9161 were you dating other people at the time, or were you just focused on her?
@@edward9161 exactly, I've been in your shoes unfortunately. Focusing on just her will drive you crazy
Im not getting married , why when u gon get cheated on anyways ? Then be stuck with them unless u have lawyer money 😤💯
Well if a woman is sick of her husband and he is a total idiot and lazy and abusive yeah I can see a married woman wanting to leave and be with someone better.
If there is no sex in the marriage I can see someone cheating also. If a woman is in a situation to where it is best for her to leave then I don't see a problem with that. Plus if he is defending his own family all the time and it's all about them and screw the wife then that is a person not to be with. No woman deserves that.
Yes
What if her husband dies and she has a kid from her passed away husband is it easy to date that person for me I find it difficult I want to see like that video.
its more acceptable
That woman will be technically single. Then you cannot classify her as being married. She will be classified as widowed. Being widowed technically don't classify that person as being married. If she were to fill out any application, a divorcee and widowed person needs to mark the answer as being single.
What do you think about guys who are with married women for a couple of years... without emotional attachment. What is their issue?
Jaclyn Shaw they obviously using them for sex 🤣
Its so weird that a guy can hold such a strong sexual attraction for so long for someone he doesn't care about.
Jaclyn Shaw I guess this is where women and men differ, women need emotional connection in order to have sex, this is for biological reasons such as ensuring That the male will support and protect her child, whilst men don't need an emotional connection, they can separate emotions and sex ( not all men and women are the same )
Do you realize, how many dysfunctional families there are out there. Where divorce is not an option for various reasons. One of the spouses is sick for example and unable to be physically or mentally a partner. Do you abandon him/her...or you find a way to exist emotionally, physically and otherwise/ and keep your sanity , but discreetly, without manifesting it to society and family. Is this dishonest to you? Taking the burden but wanting to be alive and have some sort of life , according to you is wrong?? When you are open about what is in your life and where you are at...I do not think this is wrong! I think that everyone has the right to be happy at least a bit, as long as he/ she is not hurting anyone in the process...
Met a married online lady who was weak here excuses were we'll see? every time we wanted too do anything it got old real quick maybe I had too much time on my hands maybe I was halving a midlife crisis but one day I just woke up id rather be in a boring relationship than be strung along by a sarcastic bitch who was hooked on codine phosphate and mad as a hatter 😞
Some people are sociopaths and have no empathy.
so if i come from a horrible background i wont be able to change and have a healthy relationship?
Ignorance Is Bliss Coach Wayne claims he came from a messed up family and now has a fulfilling life. You should read his book
Lynn Melo guilty conscience much. You can change yourself but you must find a partner that's equal paradigms as yourself.
It's like Corey is following my life lol its very coincidental that he made this video after I dated a married woman.
Help me! My gf always complains we don't spend time together but when I do try she spends her time taking selfies or pictures whats happening rather than just enjoying the time together.. 2 years and a bit together.. have a house together too😓
x Mottify x she's addicted to her phone
she's dry sucking another dude
Your girlfriend is lame. BREAK HER STUPID HEART
HPD is very common in married women, esp in a work environment. I've met many who flirt but no sex. People who are married in their 20s are a lost cause. Who knows if anyone even gets married in 20 years. Smh
I met this girl last year through Snapchat quick add. She was god damn beautiful. Evil. Black hair. A side tattoo. The best damn ass you ever seen. She bought me a guitar and amp. Knew I loved music. Made sure I ate a lot of nights. Did special things for me like mail
Me love notes. Drove 10 hours Florida to see me. Obsessed over me. Come to find out she has a husband, there are no excuses she can use. If she loves you and doesn’t secretly want him to give her the attention she gets from you, she’ll leave him.
Hey Corey coach sire, you always tell us to tell our ex girlfriend to come over to our place and cook dinnder together with wine and then hook up BUT what if you don't have a place of yours and live with your parents that dont allow girls in house and you always went to your ex girlfriend house in the past? What should we do then? Like to reattract her should we go to her place because bviously there is no place of mine. Any suggstions?