The first man to give her the feeling he can live without her. Becomes the man she will think about the most. It does not mean you will be her final choice. But she wont be able to get the man who walked away out of her head. You become more valuable to her because you are strong enough to say no to her offer.
@@itsjustnopinionok I don’t agree with people dating multiple people at once, I know people do it, however, I strongly dislike it especially when sex is involved.
@@antoniomitchell1883 true. If you both agreed to be in a monogamous relationship should do just that. It's when you find one or both have outside emotional and or sexual relationships that bring unnecessary problems into the home. Emotional problems. Sexually transmitted diseases. But some people want to have there cake and eat it to 🍰
I date 1 guy at a time and a guy complained that I'm too serious and that dating should be casual... I told him I could try causal and date than more 1 person, but be clear about what is ok and not ok. He said I'm making things unnatural...so we just stopped dating. I like exclusive dating and treat people like people and not objects.
@@johannesolofsson221You can’t be possibly serious? It disgusts me. I don’t even want to touch modern women. I wish I was gay. At least I would have a true relationship.
I online dated and tbh you have to be extremely handsome/very photogenic to stand out, or else you will be left in the dust and disregarded by women on there. The sheer amount of matches they get is unholy.
@@monaural2.988 true. I recently left the ring. I was already bleeding, the longer I stayed in that ring the more im going to bleed out. I dont compete for any woman and id never expect a woman to complete for me. Its a waste of energy, and any woman who expects you to complete with another man is only loving the attention
Think of it this way. Would you look at another dude who is sharing his girlfriend/wife with other dudes with respect? I wouldn't. So why would you put yourself in that situation. Have some self respect.
2:35 “When it comes to dating and attraction, women are just completely driven by emotions, not logic or reason… but if you say that to a room full of feminists, they’ll go beserk.” Kinda proves your point for ya, Coach. Lol
Women literally have all the power in everything. They get majority or sole custody of kids in divorce. They’re believed with zero evidence of sexual assault. I’ve yet to meet a woman who has to pay child support. They get treated better in academia and in general and are put on a pedestal by everyone. There’s literally nothing they don’t have power in yet they have the audacity to still cry about how oppressed they are…
@@starttakinnotez “she’ll come around” as you stay focused on your purpose. If she don’t, her loss. Definitely have to reaffirm it to yourself from time to time. Helps for sure.
If you're dating a woman who is seeing multiple guys, she should be doing 100% of the chasing. I guarantee all the other guys she's seeing will screw up and chase her into your arms. The man who is the least needy/most masculine will be the one she chooses in the end REGARDLESS of your height, looks, etc. (as long as you look decent fellas). Get to work on yourself and match her pound for pound.
If you make/or let a woman chase you, it put her in masculine energy and you in your feminine. The polarities (yin/yang) will be reversed. It will lead the relationship to fail if both of the man and woman aren’t in their core energy (few woman are naturally in their masculine energy, a lot had to learn to be in their masculine to adapt to this world... and bc most of men aren’t protectors but predators). Some of you are too much in your feminine energy, that’s why you want to be chased, seen as the prize (and even be provided for). A man in her true masculine energy do the chasing and provide (but he doesn’t provide for any woman though). The man in his masculine energy like competition too and isn’t afraid of it. Women having multiple option is an evolutionary thing. They need to find the right mate. Nowadays, a lot of them lost that. This is why they chose terrible men and produce traumatized children... So yeah, evolutionary speaking, it’s kind of important for women to have multiple option and be picky since the future is in their hands (or may I say uterus). Y’all need to learn how to be good providers and masculine men. And no. Providing is not only about money. If some of you think that way, then you need to educate yourself. If my post triggers some of you, then it’s a good than sign to do some digging. One day, you’ll understand that you’ll be the happiest in relationship when you provide and protect. But y’all need to heal yourself first. Women have some healing to do and they do it at a highest rate than men.
No, don’t chase women because you’ll end up chasing them away. I’ve seen this happen so many times. Logically, if you chase a person that has many options, they’ll feel that they won’t ever lose you and you’re not scarce. I think you’re confusing chase with pursue. Men should pursue a woman up to the point you realize she’s not interested, then back off, not chase.
Unfortunately another reason why modern women aren't worth settling down with. When they're talking to you, they're also talking to and sleeping with other guys. When they're with you, they've got orbiters and a sneaky link in the background.
@@EyeOfTheCat2002 while there have always been women like this, it has become greater now. With things like social media, simps, being told that sleeping around and having a high body count is "empowering", and the illusion of endless options via dating apps
@@ilyarepin3393 Yes but not all girls fall under that category, and if you are getting involved in girls like that it's on you. It's just like those feminists who say the same thing they think all men sleep around and have no feelings. If you aren't happy with the women you get involved with you need to change that not complain and generalise like the extremist feminists.
To think that a woman only is talking to u and no other guys is absolutely ridiculous. She might tell u u are the only one but u know deep down that is not the case.
You talk to multiple woman as well. She isn't the only one for you as well. Until you're in an official relationship with her, she has to prove that she deserves you.
I don’t. Sure when you just meet you probably have competition but if a girl isn’t giving me top billing after a few dates (prime weekend nights) I simply walk away. I want a girl who is excited to see me and views me as her top choice otherwise why would I waste my time and money. It’s easier to just meet other girls.
If someone on a dating app is really feeling you itll be EASY to see. The convo will flow, the messages will be thought out and have depth, youll exhange numbers quickly and have a date within a few days. The dry/weak back and forth messages that go on for weeks and dont develop into anything are a complete waste of time. I clean out my inbox every 2 days of women who died or ghosted. Its a never ending game, but if you decide to play it you take the risk of suffering in it. These apps can make people feel even lonelier.
Why would one want to become exclusive with a girl who dated and presumably slept with other guys while one went out with and got to know her? Corey teaches that strong men need to show women boundaries and consequences (walking away) when they don’t keep within those boundaries. Let‘s (re-)teach them not to de-value a budding relationship by sleeping/dating around.
Women get so many matches and messages it's hard to actually believe. I've been chillin with women before and they showed me in real time. Them getting multiple messages within a few minutes. It's a depreciating market for men cause the flow of new men in their inbox never stops. 🍻
@@honkhonkler7732 woman can 't decide, its how their brains are wired, so even if they got 200 matches they still cannot chooce who to be serious with and they will spend years on dating apps just being used by Chads
I have no issue a woman "dating" more than one man so long as it's in the talking stage. As soon as things are getting physical, I'm out. Why should she get used to the idea of being physical with someone else? That's essentially practicing/getting used to infidelity should we get together. Similarly why should I get used to spoiling another woman? Clearly my future wife should not be ok with me redirecting our family's resources towards a side woman. Simply put there's nothing wrong with getting to know more than 1 guy at a time, but as soon as there's feelings involved it's one at a time.
Corey man...I sincerely want to thank you for these videos 😂 At this point I really only watch the videos for a good laugh from these stories. Hope you're well, cheers.
I'd never keep seeing a girl with the intention of something serious if she was seeing others at the same time. If that would reach my knowledge it's bye bye farewell, there's the door. :) Bear in mind that Coreys advice is what to do if you want to get said girl, the choice is always yours to take whether to even continue dating her or not in the first place.
Yeah, if you met her and she was a looker and it was obvious she had admirers is one thing. But to be told or to find out she is reciprocating Interest in those admirers. Your best option is to turn and walk off. No explanation needed. Let her come to you and ask you why you stopped calling on her. If she don't reach out to you. You know you made the right choice. You was just a side dude in a line of side dudes.
It could be worse. She could've strung you along for months. And I found if the girl likes you, she will give you her number really fast and a lot of girls will get off the apps because they get so much attention which is why they will give you their number so you can still connect with them off the apps.
In my experience, you’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t. When I approach women in person, and if it’s smooth and natural, they get a vibe as though I’ve done it many times before and it gives them player vibes!
Dating this girl for like two months, everything was great, then I realize she is still sort of dating her ex, while she still wants to see me.. Everyone I talk to says I need to stop talking to her, but I can’t.. I like her too much, and as long as she likes me too and gives me hope, I just cannot end this.. Only thing I have planned right now is to get her to make a decision, me or him
This isnt true. Women dont have "high-quality" options, but they do have options. its just that the options are extremely low quality, physical/sexual based. A man whose wants to be emotionally invested and care is probably 1/1000 of the matches. Sifting through the people just looking for a physical based options is exhausting.
A lot times when a guy is like that, that woman will play him. Sometimes the things we want or the person we want in life, you will get but arent ready for it. That's why sometimes even people who have it all are still unhappy
Woman are on those apps for sex and drama too, not to mention validation and attention that she might otherwise never get in her boring day to day life. They are all chatting and talking to multiple men on the apps make no mistake about it,
Best advice for where the guy went wrong: He only read the book 7-8 times over the course of three years. If you put the work in, you’ll get the results. I read the book 12x in the first four months and reread it often. Now, I’m engaged to a quality smoking hot woman that can’t keep her hands off of me (and constantly keeps her legs open for me) and regularly have to turn away gorgeous women that hit on me everywhere I go. Do the prep, do the work, get the good results. Don’t do those things? Get results like these.
I texted my way out of attraction with my crush. Don't get caught up in apps. I had masculine energy turned into needy behavior. Don't text 24/7 when you start to meet
Coach is spot on with retracting the offer and knowing when to walk away. Most men seek women's approval no different than males in the animal kingdom documentaries. Like male birds dancing and jumping around everywhere, puffing their chests out trying to get laid. If the female bird gets bored and is not impressed, she flies away. Men should learn to value themselves and follow suit.
Corey, why should we even want to go for a date with a girl that just tried to flake? Even if she changed her mind after you wanted to pull back, she probably is not really into you. Is it even worth wasting your time, going out with someone that has just showed that she is not really excited and wanted to cancel just minuts/hours ago?
@Gajsu1 I’m not an expert on dating at all but if this happened to me, I’d retract the offer and leave it vague like Corey had said in the video. Don’t offer different days or time slots. Let her do that shit and if she doesn’t, then on to the next one. If she back pedals and ends up keeping the date, then just go. I would. If that tells you that she’s not that into to you because she was willing to cancel for some bs reason, make a mental note of that. You shouldn’t hold a grudge or get upset. You’re the prize my dude. If she doesn’t recognize that even after the date, then keep charging forward with someone else. Your time is valuable.
Bro, your video is great. One thing very true is that fucking around, never leads to any good. Put God first and pray you find the right one without wasting time. Once you have the right person, you can concentrate on the personal accomplishments in life.
Interesting perspectives but I think we forget that the base of women's past trauma or issues is not just potentially from her dad or father figure in her life, but how other men have treated her in formative years (before or after the age of 25) who have shifted her perspective of men.
Dating around doesn’t mean sleeping around. This is how dating works. Secure men don’t care if women are dating multiple guys especially when you’re not exclusive. Dating is collecting data and you are doing it to find the best fit for you. Be yourself and be confident that if you’re the right person for them, you’ll make them more interested by default of being YOU and if you want the same things in life. :)
Wow. Yeah. You should definitely apologize to her for calling her a slut… that’s disgusting. Again, going on dates and getting to know someone is NOT wrong. This isn’t a relationship we are talking about. And Honestly, No one owes anyone exclusivity until they both agree to it. You can feel free to ask a woman if she dates multiple people at a time and choose only to date women who date one person at a time as you do. But you don’t have the right to tell someone not to go on dates with multiple people in order to find the right person. I had to learn this in my own dating journey.
Wow. Yeah. You should definitely apologize to her for calling her a slut… that’s disgusting. Again, going on dates and getting to know someone is NOT wrong. This isn’t a relationship we are talking about. And Honestly, No one owes anyone exclusivity until they both agree to it. You can feel free to ask a woman if she dates multiple people at a time and choose only to date women who date one person at a time as you do. But you don’t have the right to tell someone not to go on dates with multiple people in order to find the right person. I had to learn this in my own dating journey.
Wow. Yeah. You should definitely apologize to her for calling her a slut… that’s disgusting. Again, going on dates and getting to know someone is NOT wrong. This isn’t a relationship we are talking about. And Honestly, No one owes anyone exclusivity until they both agree to it. You can feel free to ask a woman if she dates multiple people at a time and choose only to date women who date one person at a time as you do. But you don’t have the right to tell someone not to go on dates with multiple people in order to find the right person. I had to learn this in my own dating journey.
The way to handle it is to steer clear of them. If she likes you that much, you'll know it and she won't entertain anyone else. If she is entertaining other guys, you're not doing it for her and that's what she's looking for. If she ends up with you, it's because her first choice (or 2 or 3) didn't want her and you'll end up being cheated on.
Here's my take on this whole "dating" thing. I don't give a f***. I'm busy working on two businesses, investing, improving my knowledge and skill set (Finance degree), and strategizing for my future. Women are not even top 10 in my priority list. Hang out, hook up, have fun. That's as far as it goes. If you're focused on your own self - you will attract better quality females. If you're obsessing over women, good luck. Your ex will be texting me for a hang and bang. Have a great weekend! :)
Being a 3 percent man means you never lose. There is no competition. You accept what comes to you and you get to keep it because you are that, but not being a 3 percent man puts you into a competition, because you’re fighting against the wind of life instead of flowing with it.
I have been on two dates with this girl and she snap chats other guys right in front of me. I found it very rude. If I'm on a date my phone is pretty much on silent the whole time. This girl was on her phone constantly. It leaves me scratching my head if she even thinks she was on a date. I met her at my work place (hospital) we do not work in the same department. Everything for the "date" was pre planned, picking her up, I set the time, made all the plans, paid for everything, activities, dinner. I'm thinking did this girl think we were just hanging out?
Dating apps are such a waste of time. I approached and dated very cute ladies, very fun interactions. The Apps gave me picky demanding unfun average looking chicks.
10:01 drop her dude, cold, you put distance like it doesn’t matter to you.. that’s the solution Then she’s going to wonder why it was so easy for you to drop her and then come crawling back
what if this happens in real life? in the same setting? should i just ignore her in the meantime and hope for her to reject the other dude? or still keep talking to her?
If you make/or let a woman chase you, it put her in masculine energy and you in your feminine. The polarities (yin/yang) will be reversed. It will lead the relationship to fail if both of the man and woman aren’t in their core energy (few woman are naturally in their masculine energy, a lot had to learn to be in their masculine to adapt to this world... and bc most of men aren’t protectors but predators). Some of you are too much in your feminine energy, that’s why you want to be chased, seen as the prize (and even be provided for). A man in her true masculine energy do the chasing and provide (but he doesn’t provide for any woman though). The man in his masculine energy like competition too and isn’t afraid of it. Women having multiple option is an evolutionary thing. They need to find the right mate. Nowadays, a lot of them lost that. This is why they chose terrible men and produce traumatized children... So yeah, evolutionary speaking, it’s kind of important for women to have multiple option and be picky since the future is in their hands (or may I say uterus). Y’all need to learn how to be good providers and masculine men. And no. Providing is not only about money. If some of you think that way, then you need to educate yourself. If my post triggers some of you, then it’s a good than sign to do some digging. One day, you’ll understand that you’ll be the happiest in relationship when you provide and protect. But y’all need to heal yourself first. Women have some healing to do and they do it at a highest rate than men.
Why you don’t want a woman in her masculine energy ? A women in her masculine energy will mother you (she will have to plan for everything, do everything for you and tell you what to do...) which will kill the (sexual and emotional) attraction after time. She will (or you will) end leaving you or cheating on you with someone who’ll make her feel like a woman again and not a mother. A man in her feminine energy create a lazy man. He lets the women do most of the plans bc he’s just « carefree ». This type of men will also leave or cheat with a women you make him feel like a man. If you want to be in a happy relationship, DON’T activate her masculine energy. I think only few of you will have the maturity to understand what I’m saying.
I just love it how most of you guys have read Coreys Book 3%Man 10-15-20-30 times and still email him for help..🤣🤣👍👍 CommonMan Only read 3%Man once but have had lots of life experiences so thats where the self reliance comes in. LETS GO BRANDON
Actually the guys who read the book 10-15 times are the ones with the most success and the ones who read it less than 10 times are the ones who email him for help. If you only read it once, it will be a matter of time before you do something you shouldn't do.
Actually no. Theres a big difference between life experiences and reading a book buddy. I already had related to a lot in the book. Someone who has already learned and advanced has aquired those skills which is instilled in them. That way there is no need to read the book. Evidence shows that a lot of emailers have read Coreys book many times over and still need his help. Which isnt a bad thing just that it reverts to them having more infield experience.
@@zocuad6710 Same to you brother. Everyone has different stages of learing I guess some are quick learners others take longer for things to sink in so As long a s people learn their lessons then thats great.
Both men and women date multiple ppl at the same time! Quit the hypocrisy, people and deal with it! And just because a guy temporarily has a dry spell doesn't mean he is actually interested in being exclusive and committed if he actually had other options. Men so need to get over themselves 🤦🏻♀️
Worst part, she will tell you she is dating multiple people. If she finds out that you are also seeing multiple people, she will freak and your done. If you say it’s not fair, she will say, “this sh-t ain’t equal mofo, it’s a sellers market.”
This will be my 9th. date. We met online, she played hard (4 dates) to give me sex. She was amazed with my skills and since then along with incredible passional sex we started developing feelings for each other and sharing many other things out of the bed. Last date she said: you met me through an online dating site and that is what I was doing; dating many guys but I think I will have to break up with them, because of you. I really like this girl and I know all of this is risky. QUESTION: Should I continue doing what I have been doing so far or should I start inquiring about her dating status with other guys??? The true is, every new date I am more in love with her. Thanks
there is not huge diffrerence between onkline dating and really one...the girl who gives u a number do the same to others,..so....online dating is harder I mean
Coach..with all due respect..if a woman stalls..unless they are in the hospital..walk away..don't offer anything. Like you say..don't get butt hurt..just say..ok..take care and end the call politely. Maybe she will reach out..maybe not. That's a true test if she's really interested..if she's testing you..and.most importantly..her character.
I dated a beautiful gal almost 10 years off and on. I learned at an early age sone women just want fun when they want it. She told me we could never be boyfriend girlfriend from the beginning. She would show-up pay for the date and I would get great sex. Not going to lie I would have liked more out of the relationship, but after getting knocks on my door from various boyfriends looking for her over the years , I'm glad we were never a thing.
But if she is the one canceling why do you have to be to one to say, "Oh ok why don't you let me know when you can reschdeule" Dude I wouldn't even say that!! I would just say something like, Oh I am sorry to hear that and let it go at that. Let her be the one to wonder in the days perhaps weeks ahead
I agree that he should withdraw the date and shut up but I think she could have backed out for many reasons and she could have been faking it about the other guy.There is not enough info about her to come to any conclusion.Some women don't want to continue on with smart guys or good looking guys.They chase after guys they can control.If she was rejecting you and felt sorry for you she would not tell you about another guy.If she is taking shots at you it is because she is losing the battle. Regardless of how you feel about her today,tommorow you will see her in for what she really is.
Really, guys have been doing this forever!! I just find it funny that when women do the same thing then they are easily labeled…da da da. I agree with one thing, the woman should be honest and tell “him” she is not interested for the real reason.
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If she can't make a decision between you and another guy just retract your offer.
Well said.
The first man to give her the feeling he can live without her. Becomes the man she will think about the most. It does not mean you will be her final choice. But she wont be able to get the man who walked away out of her head. You become more valuable to her because you are strong enough to say no to her offer.
@@itsjustnopinionok I don’t agree with people dating multiple people at once, I know people do it, however, I strongly dislike it especially when sex is involved.
@@antoniomitchell1883 true. If you both agreed to be in a monogamous relationship should do just that. It's when you find one or both have outside emotional and or sexual relationships that bring unnecessary problems into the home. Emotional problems. Sexually transmitted diseases. But some people want to have there cake and eat it to 🍰
@@antoniomitchell1883agreed
I date 1 guy at a time and a guy complained that I'm too serious and that dating should be casual... I told him I could try causal and date than more 1 person, but be clear about what is ok and not ok. He said I'm making things unnatural...so we just stopped dating.
I like exclusive dating and treat people like people and not objects.
Good for you!
He simply wasn't interested in committing to you. Gotta move on to the next.
@@honkhonkler7732perfect profile picture, dumb answer to this statement
He thought he can do better than you that’s why he was multi dating. Women are not yours, it’s just your turn
Pretty much every woman in this era. Protect yourself at all cost. Always use protection you never know these women have been before
100% no exceptions
its just your turn
It just makes it hotter..
@@johannesolofsson221You can’t be possibly serious? It disgusts me. I don’t even want to touch modern women. I wish I was gay. At least I would have a true relationship.
I online dated and tbh you have to be extremely handsome/very photogenic to stand out, or else you will be left in the dust and disregarded by women on there. The sheer amount of matches they get is unholy.
The absolute truth
You’ll only get matched up by fat chicks named Destiny 😂. Online dating is the biggest joke ever lol.
A long time ago I used P.O.F., I got alot of easy woman off there! Noone of substance, just fun.
@@monaural2.988 a first-aid kit to deal with rejection and attachment?
@@monaural2.988 true. I recently left the ring. I was already bleeding, the longer I stayed in that ring the more im going to bleed out. I dont compete for any woman and id never expect a woman to complete for me. Its a waste of energy, and any woman who expects you to complete with another man is only loving the attention
The men who work in themselves and their social skills in particular weed these women out very quick, thanks for your work coach.
Think of it this way. Would you look at another dude who is sharing his girlfriend/wife with other dudes with respect? I wouldn't. So why would you put yourself in that situation. Have some self respect.
Excellent comment
If that’s the case, it’s not his woman. Fwb
2:35
“When it comes to dating and attraction, women are just completely driven by emotions, not logic or reason… but if you say that to a room full of feminists, they’ll go beserk.”
Kinda proves your point for ya, Coach. Lol
Genius!
Thats actually in his book 😂
Thanks!
This is common thing now. Women have all the power in dating apps it's better to never take a women seriously when is still using dating apps.
Women literally have all the power in everything. They get majority or sole custody of kids in divorce. They’re believed with zero evidence of sexual assault. I’ve yet to meet a woman who has to pay child support. They get treated better in academia and in general and are put on a pedestal by everyone. There’s literally nothing they don’t have power in yet they have the audacity to still cry about how oppressed they are…
Thirsty men is the reason why women have this so called power
She belongssss to the skreettss
Dafuq is a skreet?
jk fix your grammar bro👍
Skrrrrrt
@@kiwi9065 you belong in the skeettss
💀💀
@@starttakinnotez “she’ll come around” as you stay focused on your purpose. If she don’t, her loss. Definitely have to reaffirm it to yourself from time to time. Helps for sure.
If you're dating a woman who is seeing multiple guys, she should be doing 100% of the chasing. I guarantee all the other guys she's seeing will screw up and chase her into your arms. The man who is the least needy/most masculine will be the one she chooses in the end REGARDLESS of your height, looks, etc. (as long as you look decent fellas). Get to work on yourself and match her pound for pound.
It’s still disgusting. You shouldn’t even want to end up with something who wanted to take a bunch of dick
If you make/or let a woman chase you, it put her in masculine energy and you in your feminine. The polarities (yin/yang) will be reversed. It will lead the relationship to fail if both of the man and woman aren’t in their core energy (few woman are naturally in their masculine energy, a lot had to learn to be in their masculine to adapt to this world... and bc most of men aren’t protectors but predators). Some of you are too much in your feminine energy, that’s why you want to be chased, seen as the prize (and even be provided for). A man in her true masculine energy do the chasing and provide (but he doesn’t provide for any woman though). The man in his masculine energy like competition too and isn’t afraid of it.
Women having multiple option is an evolutionary thing. They need to find the right mate. Nowadays, a lot of them lost that. This is why they chose terrible men and produce traumatized children...
So yeah, evolutionary speaking, it’s kind of important for women to have multiple option and be picky since the future is in their hands (or may I say uterus).
Y’all need to learn how to be good providers and masculine men. And no. Providing is not only about money. If some of you think that way, then you need to educate yourself.
If my post triggers some of you, then it’s a good than sign to do some digging.
One day, you’ll understand that you’ll be the happiest in relationship when you provide and protect. But y’all need to heal yourself first. Women have some healing to do and they do it at a highest rate than men.
@@Bbeiiybuzwhat are your tips then?
No, don’t chase women because you’ll end up chasing them away. I’ve seen this happen so many times. Logically, if you chase a person that has many options, they’ll feel that they won’t ever lose you and you’re not scarce. I think you’re confusing chase with pursue. Men should pursue a woman up to the point you realize she’s not interested, then back off, not chase.
Gross.
‘...I’m just overwhelmed by all this new dating energy’
Boom!
Let me tell you how to handle a woman who’s dating multiple men…
You don’t.
Indifference is the difference.
Agreed, if I’m not enough for her she doesn’t deserve enough of my time.
Unfortunately another reason why modern women aren't worth settling down with. When they're talking to you, they're also talking to and sleeping with other guys. When they're with you, they've got orbiters and a sneaky link in the background.
Don't date then🤷🏻♂️. It's not a "Modern Women" thing girls have always been like this.
@@EyeOfTheCat2002 while there have always been women like this, it has become greater now. With things like social media, simps, being told that sleeping around and having a high body count is "empowering", and the illusion of endless options via dating apps
@@ilyarepin3393 Yes but not all girls fall under that category, and if you are getting involved in girls like that it's on you. It's just like those feminists who say the same thing they think all men sleep around and have no feelings. If you aren't happy with the women you get involved with you need to change that not complain and generalise like the extremist feminists.
To think that a woman only is talking to u and no other guys is absolutely ridiculous. She might tell u u are the only one but u know deep down that is not the case.
You talk to multiple woman as well. She isn't the only one for you as well. Until you're in an official relationship with her, she has to prove that she deserves you.
I don’t. Sure when you just meet you probably have competition but if a girl isn’t giving me top billing after a few dates (prime weekend nights) I simply walk away. I want a girl who is excited to see me and views me as her top choice otherwise why would I waste my time and money. It’s easier to just meet other girls.
If someone on a dating app is really feeling you itll be EASY to see. The convo will flow, the messages will be thought out and have depth, youll exhange numbers quickly and have a date within a few days. The dry/weak back and forth messages that go on for weeks and dont develop into anything are a complete waste of time. I clean out my inbox every 2 days of women who died or ghosted. Its a never ending game, but if you decide to play it you take the risk of suffering in it. These apps can make people feel even lonelier.
I totally agreed!
Yea I didn't last 1 week on the apps, was taking a toll on my mental health. Meeting women in public is so much easier
(Posted by Rick Pickell) Here's exactly how you handle a woman like that. You don't. You walk away and let someone else fall for that trap.
Why would one want to become exclusive with a girl who dated and presumably slept with other guys while one went out with and got to know her? Corey teaches that strong men need to show women boundaries and consequences (walking away) when they don’t keep within those boundaries. Let‘s (re-)teach them not to de-value a budding relationship by sleeping/dating around.
Women get so many matches and messages it's hard to actually believe. I've been chillin with women before and they showed me in real time. Them getting multiple messages within a few minutes. It's a depreciating market for men cause the flow of new men in their inbox never stops. 🍻
..women get many 'matches' because there''s often not much going on 'upstairs' to match WITH !!
honestly i had a super ugly fat chick n even her getting crazy amount of matches n dated w multiple men 😂
Eh it doesn't last for them. I'm 28 and I already see the tables turning in real time as I advance my career and gain more confidence as a result.
@@honkhonkler7732 woman can 't decide, its how their brains are wired, so even if they got 200 matches they still cannot chooce who to be serious with and they will spend years on dating apps just being used by Chads
Leave her. Easy as that.
I have no issue a woman "dating" more than one man so long as it's in the talking stage. As soon as things are getting physical, I'm out. Why should she get used to the idea of being physical with someone else? That's essentially practicing/getting used to infidelity should we get together. Similarly why should I get used to spoiling another woman? Clearly my future wife should not be ok with me redirecting our family's resources towards a side woman.
Simply put there's nothing wrong with getting to know more than 1 guy at a time, but as soon as there's feelings involved it's one at a time.
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this.
Oh my God, the way you said “special night together” at 11:00 left me rolling on the ground 😭😂
Corey man...I sincerely want to thank you for these videos 😂 At this point I really only watch the videos for a good laugh from these stories. Hope you're well, cheers.
I'd never keep seeing a girl with the intention of something serious if she was seeing others at the same time. If that would reach my knowledge it's bye bye farewell, there's the door. :) Bear in mind that Coreys advice is what to do if you want to get said girl, the choice is always yours to take whether to even continue dating her or not in the first place.
Yeah, if you met her and she was a looker and it was obvious she had admirers is one thing. But to be told or to find out she is reciprocating Interest in those admirers. Your best option is to turn and walk off. No explanation needed. Let her come to you and ask you why you stopped calling on her. If she don't reach out to you. You know you made the right choice. You was just a side dude in a line of side dudes.
Ok thank you I won't tell you
great session coach
The streets are calling!
It could be worse. She could've strung you along for months. And I found if the girl likes you, she will give you her number really fast and a lot of girls will get off the apps because they get so much attention which is why they will give you their number so you can still connect with them off the apps.
This is true
When I first read this title I said to myself, “you don’t date her,” lol.
In my experience, you’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t. When I approach women in person, and if it’s smooth and natural, they get a vibe as though I’ve done it many times before and it gives them player vibes!
Dating this girl for like two months, everything was great, then I realize she is still sort of dating her ex, while she still wants to see me..
Everyone I talk to says I need to stop talking to her, but I can’t.. I like her too much, and as long as she likes me too and gives me hope, I just cannot end this..
Only thing I have planned right now is to get her to make a decision, me or him
This isnt true. Women dont have "high-quality" options, but they do have options. its just that the options are extremely low quality, physical/sexual based. A man whose wants to be emotionally invested and care is probably 1/1000 of the matches. Sifting through the people just looking for a physical based options is exhausting.
A lot times when a guy is like that, that woman will play him. Sometimes the things we want or the person we want in life, you will get but arent ready for it. That's why sometimes even people who have it all are still unhappy
Woman are on those apps for sex and drama too, not to mention validation and attention that she might otherwise never get in her boring day to day life. They are all chatting and talking to multiple men on the apps make no mistake about it,
"Anything worth doing, is worth overdoing. Moderation is for cowards."
love that
Still a Boss Coach all these years later. Good to see Brother. Thank You for your service
Best advice for where the guy went wrong: He only read the book 7-8 times over the course of three years. If you put the work in, you’ll get the results. I read the book 12x in the first four months and reread it often. Now, I’m engaged to a quality smoking hot woman that can’t keep her hands off of me (and constantly keeps her legs open for me) and regularly have to turn away gorgeous women that hit on me everywhere I go. Do the prep, do the work, get the good results. Don’t do those things? Get results like these.
I texted my way out of attraction with my crush. Don't get caught up in apps. I had masculine energy turned into needy behavior. Don't text 24/7 when you start to meet
Coach is spot on with retracting the offer and knowing when to walk away. Most men seek women's approval no different than males in the animal kingdom documentaries. Like male birds dancing and jumping around everywhere, puffing their chests out trying to get laid. If the female bird gets bored and is not impressed, she flies away. Men should learn to value themselves and follow suit.
“She was ready to get turnt up” 🤣🤣🤣
Corey, why should we even want to go for a date with a girl that just tried to flake? Even if she changed her mind after you wanted to pull back, she probably is not really into you. Is it even worth wasting your time, going out with someone that has just showed that she is not really excited and wanted to cancel just minuts/hours ago?
That's up to you. It's my job to help you get what you want. Not make your choices for you.
@Gajsu1 I’m not an expert on dating at all but if this happened to me, I’d retract the offer and leave it vague like Corey had said in the video. Don’t offer different days or time slots. Let her do that shit and if she doesn’t, then on to the next one. If she back pedals and ends up keeping the date, then just go. I would. If that tells you that she’s not that into to you because she was willing to cancel for some bs reason, make a mental note of that. You shouldn’t hold a grudge or get upset. You’re the prize my dude. If she doesn’t recognize that even after the date, then keep charging forward with someone else. Your time is valuable.
Good question. I think you know the answer to it. 👍🏽
@@ironyouth3384 I just think she's stupid for walking away from a high-value male for low-hanging fruit. Stupid women.
Good morning coach!
You are the absolute man corey!👏
Proverbs 11:9
An hypocrite with his mouth destroyeth his neighbour: but through knowledge shall the just be delivered.
Bro, your video is great. One thing very true is that fucking around, never leads to any good. Put God first and pray you find the right one without wasting time. Once you have the right person, you can concentrate on the personal accomplishments in life.
Women who date multiple men shouldnt get married. They should stay single and continue sleep around. No sane man would choose such women as wife.
"She belongs to the streets!" lol 😂 Male orbiters...
He covers it all
29. Been a follower for years. I’m really experiencing this right now lol.
Interesting perspectives but I think we forget that the base of women's past trauma or issues is not just potentially from her dad or father figure in her life, but how other men have treated her in formative years (before or after the age of 25) who have shifted her perspective of men.
this newsletter video always make my day.
Dating around doesn’t mean sleeping around. This is how dating works. Secure men don’t care if women are dating multiple guys especially when you’re not exclusive. Dating is collecting data and you are doing it to find the best fit for you. Be yourself and be confident that if you’re the right person for them, you’ll make them more interested by default of being YOU and if you want the same things in life. :)
I’m secure enough to dump a hoe in her tracks if I catch her talking to you. Keeping her around scared to lose her is opposite of secure.
Precisely
Wow. Yeah. You should definitely apologize to her for calling her a slut… that’s disgusting.
Again, going on dates and getting to know someone is NOT wrong. This isn’t a relationship we are talking about. And Honestly, No one owes anyone exclusivity until they both agree to it. You can feel free to ask a woman if she dates multiple people at a time and choose only to date women who date one person at a time as you do. But you don’t have the right to tell someone not to go on dates with multiple people in order to find the right person. I had to learn this in my own dating journey.
Wow. Yeah. You should definitely apologize to her for calling her a slut… that’s disgusting.
Again, going on dates and getting to know someone is NOT wrong. This isn’t a relationship we are talking about. And Honestly, No one owes anyone exclusivity until they both agree to it. You can feel free to ask a woman if she dates multiple people at a time and choose only to date women who date one person at a time as you do. But you don’t have the right to tell someone not to go on dates with multiple people in order to find the right person. I had to learn this in my own dating journey.
Wow. Yeah. You should definitely apologize to her for calling her a slut… that’s disgusting.
Again, going on dates and getting to know someone is NOT wrong. This isn’t a relationship we are talking about. And Honestly, No one owes anyone exclusivity until they both agree to it. You can feel free to ask a woman if she dates multiple people at a time and choose only to date women who date one person at a time as you do. But you don’t have the right to tell someone not to go on dates with multiple people in order to find the right person. I had to learn this in my own dating journey.
The way to handle it is to steer clear of them. If she likes you that much, you'll know it and she won't entertain anyone else. If she is entertaining other guys, you're not doing it for her and that's what she's looking for. If she ends up with you, it's because her first choice (or 2 or 3) didn't want her and you'll end up being cheated on.
Here's my take on this whole "dating" thing. I don't give a f***. I'm busy working on two businesses, investing, improving my knowledge and skill set (Finance degree), and strategizing for my future. Women are not even top 10 in my priority list. Hang out, hook up, have fun. That's as far as it goes. If you're focused on your own self - you will attract better quality females. If you're obsessing over women, good luck. Your ex will be texting me for a hang and bang. Have a great weekend! :)
I can get hang and bangs. I want them to only think of me lol.
Get off the dating apps
Honestly, you either become her fwb or just leave her alone.
1k for you mister 🙏🏻💪🏻💪🏻
Being a 3 percent man means you never lose.
There is no competition.
You accept what comes to you and you get to keep it because you are that, but not being a 3 percent man puts you into a competition, because you’re fighting against the wind of life instead of flowing with it.
I'd have to add Jerry Rice!
I have been on two dates with this girl and she snap chats other guys right in front of me. I found it very rude. If I'm on a date my phone is pretty much on silent the whole time. This girl was on her phone constantly. It leaves me scratching my head if she even thinks she was on a date. I met her at my work place (hospital) we do not work in the same department. Everything for the "date" was pre planned, picking her up, I set the time, made all the plans, paid for everything, activities, dinner. I'm thinking did this girl think we were just hanging out?
Dating apps are such a waste of time. I approached and dated very cute ladies, very fun interactions. The Apps gave me picky demanding unfun average looking chicks.
10:01 drop her dude, cold, you put distance like it doesn’t matter to you.. that’s the solution
Then she’s going to wonder why it was so easy for you to drop her and then come crawling back
Just in time for my situation
Attraction is only built in person
Coach, I think it was a typo and he meant to say "sage advice".
life is dangerous, wear a helmet
Was about to make the same comment. F is next to the G.
Um………….. u dont
She won’t see me again
I actually 'won' this situation. Was great for a year then hell for 4.
I wouldn’t mind Coach giving some Tinder bio tips 😅😅
just... don't
what if this happens in real life? in the same setting? should i just ignore her in the meantime and hope for her to reject the other dude? or still keep talking to her?
Yes never get upset
real question is "why" to "how"
Yo I didn't know he still posted videos lol right on ma
Omniman: That’s the neat part…you don’t.
You don't.
Corey is pretty jaded about dating apps. I’m average looking and have great success when I use them and have never had the issues he has.
If you make/or let a woman chase you, it put her in masculine energy and you in your feminine. The polarities (yin/yang) will be reversed. It will lead the relationship to fail if both of the man and woman aren’t in their core energy (few woman are naturally in their masculine energy, a lot had to learn to be in their masculine to adapt to this world... and bc most of men aren’t protectors but predators). Some of you are too much in your feminine energy, that’s why you want to be chased, seen as the prize (and even be provided for). A man in her true masculine energy do the chasing and provide (but he doesn’t provide for any woman though). The man in his masculine energy like competition too and isn’t afraid of it.
Women having multiple option is an evolutionary thing. They need to find the right mate. Nowadays, a lot of them lost that. This is why they chose terrible men and produce traumatized children...
So yeah, evolutionary speaking, it’s kind of important for women to have multiple option and be picky since the future is in their hands (or may I say uterus).
Y’all need to learn how to be good providers and masculine men. And no. Providing is not only about money. If some of you think that way, then you need to educate yourself.
If my post triggers some of you, then it’s a good than sign to do some digging.
One day, you’ll understand that you’ll be the happiest in relationship when you provide and protect. But y’all need to heal yourself first. Women have some healing to do and they do it at a highest rate than men.
Why you don’t want a woman in her masculine energy ?
A women in her masculine energy will mother you (she will have to plan for everything, do everything for you and tell you what to do...) which will kill the (sexual and emotional) attraction after time. She will (or you will) end leaving you or cheating on you with someone who’ll make her feel like a woman again and not a mother.
A man in her feminine energy create a lazy man. He lets the women do most of the plans bc he’s just « carefree ». This type of men will also leave or cheat with a women you make him feel like a man.
If you want to be in a happy relationship, DON’T activate her masculine energy.
I think only few of you will have the maturity to understand what I’m saying.
This is very accurate.
I just love it how most of you guys have read Coreys Book 3%Man
10-15-20-30 times and still email him for help..🤣🤣👍👍 CommonMan
Only read 3%Man once but have had lots of life experiences so thats where the self reliance comes in.
LETS GO BRANDON
Actually the guys who read the book 10-15 times are the ones with the most success and the ones who read it less than 10 times are the ones who email him for help. If you only read it once, it will be a matter of time before you do something you shouldn't do.
Actually no. Theres a big difference between life experiences and reading a book buddy. I already had related to a lot in the book. Someone who has already learned and advanced has aquired those skills which is instilled in them. That way there is no need to read the book. Evidence shows that a lot of emailers have read Coreys book many times over and still need his help. Which isnt a bad thing just that it reverts to them having more infield experience.
@@TheADRIANOVALENTINO Well good for you bro. Hope all is well down under. GOD bless.
@@zocuad6710 Same to you brother. Everyone has different stages of learing I guess some are quick learners others take longer for things to sink in so As long a s people learn their lessons then thats great.
dating app gives insane attention and power to women
Both men and women date multiple ppl at the same time! Quit the hypocrisy, people and deal with it!
And just because a guy temporarily has a dry spell doesn't mean he is actually interested in being exclusive and committed if he actually had other options.
Men so need to get over themselves 🤦🏻♀️
How about don't give a fuck what she's doing when she's not with you?
Exactly, being insecure and jealous will only fuck it up. Dont care, focus on attraction.
lol you say that until you’re 5 beers deep
It cracks me up when Corey talks like a girl lol
They chase, but only if she is attracted by him!
Worst part, she will tell you she is dating multiple people. If she finds out that you are also seeing multiple people, she will freak and your done. If you say it’s not fair, she will say, “this sh-t ain’t equal mofo, it’s a sellers market.”
Great video. Too bad I didn't find your channel a few weeks ago!!!!
This will be my 9th. date. We met online, she played hard (4 dates) to give me sex. She was amazed with my skills and since then along with incredible passional sex we started developing feelings for each other and sharing many other things out of the bed. Last date she said: you met me through an online dating site and that is what I was doing; dating many guys but I think I will have to break up with them, because of you.
I really like this girl and I know all of this is risky. QUESTION: Should I continue doing what I have been doing so far or should I start inquiring about her dating status with other guys??? The true is, every new date I am more in love with her. Thanks
You want a relationship? Or no? She is asking you what you feel and think... she wants a relationship
@@MaricaIvica its just his turn
there is not huge diffrerence between onkline dating and really one...the girl who gives u a number do the same to others,..so....online dating is harder I mean
Coach..with all due respect..if a woman stalls..unless they are in the hospital..walk away..don't offer anything. Like you say..don't get butt hurt..just say..ok..take care and end the call politely. Maybe she will reach out..maybe not. That's a true test if she's really interested..if she's testing you..and.most importantly..her character.
Let her go asap
You don't, they're not worth it
I dated a beautiful gal almost 10 years off and on. I learned at an early age sone women just want fun when they want it. She told me we could never be boyfriend girlfriend from the beginning. She would show-up pay for the date and I would get great sex. Not going to lie I would have liked more out of the relationship, but after getting knocks on my door from various boyfriends looking for her over the years , I'm glad we were never a thing.
Thats why I always say get off these apps!!!
You don’t want her anyway. Walk away.
Easy answer to the title. When you find out, leave. Period.
You don't.
You'll be in competition with all of them and she isn't worth it.
But if she is the one canceling why do you have to be to one to say, "Oh ok why don't you let me know when you can reschdeule" Dude I wouldn't even say that!! I would just say something like, Oh I am sorry to hear that and let it go at that. Let her be the one to wonder in the days perhaps weeks ahead
I agree that he should withdraw the date and shut up but I think she could have backed out for many reasons and she could have been faking it about the other guy.There is not enough info about her to come to any conclusion.Some women don't want to continue on with smart guys or good looking guys.They chase after guys they can control.If she was rejecting you and felt sorry for you she would not tell you about another guy.If she is taking shots at you it is because she is losing the battle. Regardless of how you feel about her today,tommorow you will see her in for what she really is.
She’s a 304. And why is she inviting a man to her place on the FIRST DATE?!
I will tell you how to handle her-- don't! have nothing to do with her.
Really, guys have been doing this forever!! I just find it funny that when women do the same thing then they are easily labeled…da da da. I agree with one thing, the woman should be honest and tell “him” she is not interested for the real reason.
Again, energy, dating energy? Is thus the same energy that Einstein was talking about?