How much of your life do you remember?
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- Опубликовано: 28 июл 2024
- It used to make me really sad that I can't remember most of my life, most of our memories will be forgotten. But recently I've started looking at it in a different way and I think it might actually be a good thing we can't remember most of our life.
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I remember thinking as a kid that people were generally good and honest at heart. Not sure when that changed
I often hear that you must find a purpose in life and I do not find anything important
Same. Tbh life has no purpose if ur not born in a certain class of society. I mean if u born to a factory worker ... what bog change r u gonna bring in this world? Unless u luck out big time.
I've recently turned 31 & realized that my purpose in this life is to minimze my own misery. It's not about experiencing the best things in life... it has always been about avoiding or escaping the worst things in life.
damn i can relate.@@ExTrimEast_kpop_lover
Most memories are remembered because they have emotion attached. It's the emotion that makes the memory stick.
I'm 63 years old and I got a lot of life to remember. In my case I've found that it's never the big occasions I remember, it's the little moments like when you see a nice view, or a moment with a pet, or some other little everyday ordinary event. Also, certain stimulus will bring back a moment. You see something similar to an event in the past, or you hear a song, or return to a spot you used to frequent. Lately I remember bits of my youth which I had not thought of in years. The memories are always stored within you, I guess, only they often get drowned out by life, get lost in the shuffle, but when you need them, they will find a way to emerge.
People always say make sure to go on vacations with your kids every year in order to build memories. So we dump time and money into it, but can only remember like a blink of our past vacations.
I'm 62. I've suffered with social anxiety, shyness, and no self esteem my whole life. The thing with memories is that I can remember every embarrassing thing I ever did or said my whole life and still feel the pain it caused that I felt the day it happened. I've lived my whole life trying to avoid putting myself in those situations where I may repeat them. I'm to the point now to where I live in almost total isolation and have been for years.
i always remember my bad memories instead of joyful memories.
This is going to be good 🍿
This comes with choices in life as well. The moments you struggle the most with are the ones that teach you lessons you'll never forget. It's about the journey.
So happy I came across ur channel only if u knew I feel exactly the way u do and I question the same things you do..I struggle daily with depression it’s so hard i NEVER fit in..I’m not a shitty person I’m actually nice & still can’t make friends they always disappear..I had a bad childhood & I come from a dysfunctional family & my mother has been a drug addict her whole life I grew up in foster homes..I feel so damaged & stuck I could go on and on…I often feel like the kind of family I was born into & the things I went through in my childhood has a big affect on how my life is today..I’m currently in therapy but I don’t feel like it’s helping because at the end of the day these feelings I have are still there no matter how much I talk about it..Keep doing what ur doing on RUclips a lot of ppl can relate well I know I definitely can ppl don’t talk about mental health enough ppl think u should just get over it..
Such a great food-for-thought topic! 👏👌🤔
It’s amazing what the mind remembers and what it forgets. You’re so right on when you said that you appreciate the memories more when you realize how much you forget. Fortunately you’ll remember some of the really good moments in your life but you’ll also remember the bad. That too is good though because those bad memories will make you appreciate the good ones that much more!
I like how you changed up your hair a little. The highlights look good on you!
It's really interesting to hear you speak, I am looking forward to more of your videos :)
i don't know if it's just me or other have this issue too
i easily forget the fun and good memories but can't forget bad things happened to me but i remember this date 7 may 2023 it used to be one of the most special day to me but now it feels like why that day even exist
It's like deja vu, all over again!
I only remember memories for four years thanks to groove book that send a you 100 photos a month but that was back when I was taking photography and capturing everything. I canceled it in 2018 and stopped taking pics to just live more in the moment. Now my memories are in my mind and not really something that I can go dust off and uncover in a photo book. I don't miss taking endless photos. I prefer to just be.
From 2012 I remember graduating highschool and my family being there crossing the stage and receiving my highschool diploma but few months later my mom passed away from breast cancer at the age of 43 😔and i was 14 years old then my days have darkened from there nothing was never the same for me after that 😢
I subscribed because your speaking real shit. Truth. From the heart man. Its like your saying the shit i think and feel daily. Its nice to know im bot alone with this bullshit. Be good brother.
Our memory tends to blur the bad things more, leaving the good ones more often. That's why sometimes we can get so nostalgic about "good old days". My own memory got worse after getting through PTSD and sometimes it's a bit scary and annoying to keep forgeting so many things. I did get quite a lot "black outs". It's slightly better now but I think my brain is not bothered anymore to focus and remember so many things as it used to. Sometimes it's blessing, sometimes it's a curse...
Wow,.. thing dong... I was wondering for myself what happend to my memories. Didn't knew that ptsd did that! I was diagnosed with it 10 years ago and did you open a thing here for me!! Is it something you can repair so to speak.. or is that permanent damage? Very interesting subject. Thanks for sharing this. Have a absolute blessed day!
@@Haagsebluf I'm not sure how that works, but being forgetful is quite common for people struggling with depression, ptsd etc. Maybe it's some sort of trauma response... I didn't really get into studying about that, just saying from my own experience and what my doctor said at the time. My memory did improve over time, although it's not as good as from before I got ptsd. Take care and good luck with healing!
Young man: what have you done to your beautiful hair?
I think you don’t remember a lot of your life, because it was painful.
But you’ve a long life ahead, with lots of wonderful memories to create.
i’m not gonna lie. i’m 23 currently and not at all happy nd don’t wanna continue anymore idk what to think
Please remember Life is a precious Gift from our loving Creator, Jehovah God our heavenly Father. And as such, I will like to encourage you to see your Life as a precious Gift and invaluable, and so take good care of yourself. Widen out, try to find good loving friends that cherish Life as a gift and friends that will make you feel happy and surround you with love. How about starting and developing a close friendship with the One who knows you best, your caring Creator. Did you know that He is interested in you and your welfare. And he wants to be your friend. You can start to feel close to Him by reading the very personal Letter He wrote for you and All other people. That precious letter is the Bible. Did you know that He also has a personal Name? Check his name in Psalm 83 Verse 18 and Isaiah 42 Verse 8.
I get that feeling
@@c0rxpseb0i13 if you ever feel like you really have no one. i’m here bro.
Your early 20s are a pretty bad time for many men. Mine were rough. The world doesn't take you seriously. You have no money. You work crap jobs. Women treat you like dirt. Etc.
You have to battle through it and get to the other side. Experience makes coping with life easier.
There is no such thing as happiness in life as an adult. I've never met a happy adult.
The sooner you let go and tell the world to f@ck off, the better off you'll be. Live life by your own set of rules. Everyone else can suck it. You owe the world nothing, and it owes you nothing.
You will be alright, don’t worry. Please try your best to try everything that you feel like trying. I mean jobs, events, school, people, relationships, and the list continues. DO NOT limit yourself, especially if you still live at home with your parents. This is the cheapest that life will ever be. Go out and get out of your comfort zone. Spend money, meet people, and try new things. Don’t limit yourself, go to the gym and get the body you want. Best wishes and take care.
keep it up on these vids! its nice hearing about these topics..i have photographic memory but there are times i can’t remember everything, sometimes i’ll unlock memories here n there if someone shares a memory of theirs or an event
You are a very thoughtful person. That is a great quality.
That question randomly popped into my head today. Good video and explanation.
What I find is strange, is that when I get together with my brothers at Christmas, they'll talk about this memory or that memory and even though I acknowledge an event that happened in the past, it feels cold, detached and lonely, and it makes me a little sad. And yet I can be walking down the street at say a particular time of year and i'll all of a sudden get a nostalgic feeling washing over me like i'm being transported back to when i was a kid.
There is a theory that I was interested in when i studied psychology, it was called the Reminiscence Bump. It is supposed to kick in when from our 30s. We start to remember a lot more from when we were younger. Not quite sure what happens but I guess it could have something to do with our prefrontal cortex which only stops developing at about the age of 25. And I think that the prefrontal cortex plays a role in planning, impulse control, working memory and decision making. I'm guessing until that finishes developing we are more inclined to live more in the moment. There were many moments in my childhood and early adulthood where I spent time self reflecting. It's not good. Because we are still impulsive by the very nature of our developing brains but we have to deal with feelings as well. I was always envious of those friends who were always doing something, hanging out with others, because I knew they didn't have time to think about stuff the way i did, or at least that was my take on the situation back then. Probably the same for them to be fair.
When i was a kid though, I wasn't well a lot of the time, I tried to make friends and I sort of had friends, but it was like just when I thought i had some friends, i'd find that they'd all go off and do something without inviting me. I was impulsive and angry quite a bit into my 20s and became quite possessive and insecure over friends but eventually you find a bunch of people to call friends and even though you maybe test friendships or relationships to almost the point of destruction you know those friends are the real deal because they stick with you. And they stick with you because they 'get' you.
And now, at the age of 57 I look at the way I was when i was a kid and I don't regret the way it played out. I don't regret being a fifth wheel or a little weird. You just have to build the world you need around you to suit who you are and if your world doesn't suit you, change your world and once you find your place, other stuff will slot into place and hopefully the little nostalgic memories will filter through as they did for me.
Memorizing to much is getting you stuck in the past,.. Don't try to get stuck in there,.. be more aware and thankful from now on! Live in the now and don't forget about it. You're a good thinker! Hang in there mate things will turn out for you too in this life. It can't be all bad. Keep going.. Not yesterday not tomorrow is what counts,... it's the NOW! Life isn't meant to be an easy ride in the park although it looks like for others in your eyes BUT, believe me when I say you couldn't guess the incredible mess behind their masks. Everyone got his own path.. And you don't know where yours is leading you and that feels scary. But you will never face anything YOU can't handle! Because it's all part of the plan (you still don't know about) ;P
Turn your potential energy inside, all the answers you have are in you! Just find them. Love yourself and you'll never be alone again and it will change your perspective on this life. I want to give you a thousand advices to counter the crap in life cause I already dealt with a lot myself. Im 42 myself and I watched your video about the depressed rant,.. No one gives a fuck about you?! Almost 10.000 comments... How you think about that now? It's just perspective right? Cheers man and keep exploring this beautiful journey called,.. LIFE!!
You seem a very nice guy! Have a great day..
Take care
It would be nice to remember everything in my opinion because I hate forgetting things that I wish I could remember. It sucks for me as I don't remember too much about my mother that passed away 10 years ago.
THIS IS THE BEST TOPIC
on youtube 😊😊 I don't
remember anything
about my Life...the VAST of
my childhood memories are
non-existent 😢😢😢😢😢😢
WHY DO I EXIST !??
Bro, you just need to surround yourself with people who really love you, and have your back
You’ve gotta get new interests. Anyway you can. I was unhappy working in a school, so I started trying to go into healthcare, now I work in a hospital. Get into hiking, or reading, or kareoke and try and go out and meet new people. I’ve struggled with some of the things you’ve mentioned
I think that remembering is akin to nostalgia and is a waste of time unless its to help you right now to figure something out, like to solve a problem. Otherwise looking at the past is a stupid and probably (in most cases) a debilitating experience. The feeling you talk about will vanish, and you will only be left with your scars, which will either shine or cast a shadow over you. Imagine comtemplating a wound, a broken bone let say (It could be a positive experience in opposite too) and then your bone heal up. Looking at your scar trying to feel it again is not understanding what it is for you now, you must Integrate it. But you look infront of you and change the way you behave because you feel stronger or want to avoid breaking it again is maturity.
Now is the moment to cast aside your doubts and view life from a fresh perspective. You possess both intelligence and attractiveness, and my words are not merely to comfort you, but are spoken from sincerity and a genuine concern for authentic individuals like yourself. Remember, you're still at the beginning of your journey, with a wealth of knowledge and experiences ahead. Don't fall into the trap of believing you've unraveled all of life's mysteries. Yes, life will present its challenges, but it will also unfold in wondrous and beautiful ways. Believe in that.
What you're experiencing is completely normal for the majority of people & at any age.
Something else that is normal for many older people, is that they can remember lots from many many years ago & in many cases, in great detail...but they don't remember anything or very little from the past days, weeks or months.
The hair looks good!
I feel if it weren’t for photos, I wouldn’t remember what I do remember - bc the photos 😮
So, so glad I have them ❤
I remember quite a bit. Which is scary!! lol
You’re right about the memory stuff I suck at it.
Who can even prove if there even was a yesterday or even if there will be a tomorrow
If you want to know, who you are, simply have a look, what Moments you remember.
The Memorys are sticking on the Lime of you Character.
Hey dear,i love your videos ,keep going
I just thought about this today, so many days we lived and we can't remember more than 1% of them, it's really a waste
i cant remember anymore of that. makes me sad kinda becouse i dont really had any good memories so far in 29 years
i love you man!!!!
I can remember everything. It's not a bad thing, not a good thing, just is. Either way, look back on life with rose tinted glasses cause who wants to remember the bad anyway
Write a journal. Glad to see you. Hope all is well with you sweetheart.🙏👍
keep a journal, write down your memories in detail and not just bullet point sentences like “had ice cream with a friend”. but write in paragraphs describing every single detail you can remember of that day. what flavor was the ice cream, what did you guys talk about. Add a few dialogue from conversation. It may seem like a chore to write down everything, but 20-40 years going back to that journal, it’ll be surprising to go back to it.
You’re not alone I’d love to be your friend and hang out with you we think the same
Intuition.
Soul's overall knowledge. Accessible in every lifetime.
You can't remember your past lives it would drive you crazy [mad].
But you can access your overall life to life progress in the form of intuition.
Knowledge you just know, without education or experience in this lifetime to justify it.
A library, you are continuing to add to.
The older your 'soul' the stronger your intuition and the more likely you WIN the game of life God made.
Wow that is actually pretty good Philosophy, i was also wondering about this, do i change as person when i forget constantly even who i am: i would think so. But saying we remember always emotion, or was it feeling of a new memory that fascinates me, but i have no idea what this could be for consciousness, self, identity as so on. We are fucking mystery!
You remind me of me, I'm recovering after narcissistic abuse, think of your environment, are the people around you keeping you on edge? Maybe you need to think about being in a different environment, I only figured this out a few months ago
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Hey, your loved. We don’t know each other but you’re so loved. Be my friend - ❤❤❤❤
Awesome content as always. This may be sorta random but is Mari short for anything? I was curious bc it's my nickname :)
It’s short for Mariano. Nice to meet u other Mari.
Believe I was playing Xbox 360 and smoking weed on February 27th 2012. Would be good to see what XBLA game was released around that time. Would've probably been playing that one. Trials Evolution I was probably playing.
I know the Lyrics to all Songs I listen to
and the Details of all movi's Ive watched
(Irrelevant Memories for No Reason)
and my BirthDay Is Easy to Recall as Its
always just another UnEventful
Day of Silent Loneliness
most of all I Will Never forGet
Nothing at all Matters .. ..
What's your opinion on the philosophy of antinatalism?
Hi again dear Mari,
I'm happy to see that you are growing strong.
Have you started to enjoy your Bible study yet?
Your in-depth Bible study will help have a close friendship with the One who created you and cares for you. Find His personal Name in Psalm 83 Verse 18 and Isaiah 42 Verse 8. I WISH YOU ALL THE SUCCESS!.
the buy bull is just a story....an imaginary friend.....if it works for you great but dont push bullshytttt
February 27th of 2012. i was in school just Like you.
When you are actively visualizing the things you want [manifesting], always be sure to EVOKE the emotion!
How does it make you feel? This will root it in real time ;)
seriously youre Not Bad Looking you have car and health and Energy . All you Need Man
Why don’t you keep a journal - it’s very helpful to get yourself out of loops that we tend to get stuck in - but you need to have the discipline to do it every day
Unrelated Like the hair want to do that someday
Thank you. You should go for it.
This life is nothing but an illusion, the Abode of the Hereafter is The Real life, if only they knew.
Most men I've met have bad memories or they pretend to.
I don’t remember none of the titles of movies I’ve seen. I dnt remember most of m childhood either. Is ok.
record record record ur life. take picture and print them out. digital pictures are worthless, you'll never look at them once u have taken them. going trough old photobooks makes me remember unsignificant days very vividly i would have forgotten otherwise
Hey Mari, I just watched your video and I must say that it was really informative and well-made. I was wondering if I could help you edit your highly engaging videos and thumbnails which will help your video to reach to a wider audience and increase your subscribers and viewers.
I think you should try motorcycling. It is one of the best things for fixing up your mental state.
But get some good training not just a basic MSF. And try get out on a tour with other new random people.
Have some adventure and leave your current life behind for a week if you can.
This may help you find to reflect and hit the reset button, think about what you want.
Glad to see you look happier in the later videos.
I remember every conflict and every time someone helps me unexpectedly.
I’ve learned I like helping and teaching others as I get older.
Keep sharing ❤
You probably won't see this, but you're really cute.
The worlds psychotic wish folk would think moe
Hi Mari,
I'm sorry to let you know that due to the rude response directed to me here from someone responding to your video, I am now unsubscribing. He came out with terrible vulgar language, telling me to stop encouraging you to start your personal Bible study. I'm so shocked and very disappointed. Him and I are complete strangers, and did I give him a reason to swear at me? It's clear that I didn't. All I did is, I wrote to you with encouraging words of wisdom.
I wish you to keep going and getting stronger, and be successful in life, as well as in your relationship with your Creator.
Yo, the dyed blonde hair is not it. I’d keep it longer too
Men are so analytical
Your hair is a little shorter, neater. Keep your natural color though. Try buying a really nice Bible, and read the Psalms. Trust me. This will do you good.
Remember My Words. Trust No One.
REPENT & BELIEVE
The GOSPEL of JESUS CHRIST
He's ain't real
Epstein's victims should've prayed harder then they would've escaped. But they sleepin on my nibba christ💪
You don't know that :D@@_looner
@@EWOKakaDOOM where's the proof?
I don’t remember anything fr, my childhood and what I do I wish I could forget.