I have ran into guys like this especially online. So I really don’t do the online dating anymore. I just prefer a man of GOD someone who is going to find me. In 2021 I will not be chasing anyone at all. I will be chasing more of GOD ❤️🙏🏾
I have never do online and it seems like its not possible to meet anyone apart from online im told..however I wouldnt to advertise my photo and whereabouts for anyone to see..also you dont get a feel of the person..I believe many if not most of the men online if they are attractive enough there is a reason why they are online..and have issues etc
My ex told me he was going to marry me the 1st night he met me although he was drunk so I don't know If that still stands but he asked me to marry him after 7 months. He turned out to be abusive and toxic. I thought it was amazing after a 13 Yr relationship that ended. The name calling started quickly, vile horrible name calling. Two times he was physically abusive. Even though we have split he's still chasing me, selling me a dream. No thanks
Thank you. Two very toxic men but in such different ways to one another I didn't even see it the second time. Videos like this and also rc blakes are free resources for women to seriously educate themselves before they find themselves dealing with the aftermath of men who don't know the meaning of the word love. I'm happier in the pain I'm in now than the pain I'd be in another year with that man. Thanks for the video
I'm a firm believer that what a man shows you, that's what it is. I believe in allowing him to talk and you do lots of listening. The Holy Spirit will definitely highlight and expose what you need to see. Listen at what he says but pay close attention to what he does and how he does it.
thank you i agree. i was dating a guy for several years and i had a "pet name" for his private part. one day, he said "im gonna tell my daughter you called it that". mind you his daughter is grown. i think he's sick in the head.
Thank you ,you just confirmed it,offering money in me knowing him in a week,calling his mommy uncle friends wanting me to talk to them,and I only know him for 3 days,he scheduled a photo shoot!!lolz!!His Ex is the blame,takes no accountability,talking marriage and baby..Right away!!Then he said his Ex is scared of him!And when I asked why!He could not give a reasonable answer!!I never did anything with him,not even a kiss..He calls obsessively and I have told him about it..I only know him for a week today!!!I have seen sum red flags..So I blocked him..I just felt something is off,I appreciate his comments,,but honey he over did it!!I know I am attractive,but I don’t take pics all day and admire myself..He keep trying to rush me!!!He trying to act like I am his girlfriend,but I told him we are getting to know each other..I know you for 3 days and you schedule a photo shoot of us???🤦🏽♀️then he want to hold hands in public like we a couple.And I feel he got mad when I did not want to..
A guy told me... Don't settle 4 me. I wont change. He is not going to change. I kept it cute and moving. That was the last time I went out with him. He kept calling to go out and get to know each other. ......this the same person who say dont settle for u. I aint going no where e it him.
I say forget online dating you have to go through a lot of trouble to find a descent man . it only works if two people agree to make a relationship work. It takes awhile for a man to show you his true self. It is better to find a man out in the real world. There is just too many women on online dating and there is way too many people on there with the wrong intentions. That is like a gamble you are to betting to lose a lot.
Good evening Coach Rod. This video is a sign. I fell victim to love bombing with someone I bet through Facebook. I known him for a year. To make a long storey short he doesn't have anything to do with me.
Guy I was dating was showering me with gifts when I didn't answer my phone he would get mad. One day he came knocked on my door and ask for everything back I gave it all back he left it on the ground. I was scared to date him he gave me a bad vibe.
Exactly Coach, can you do a podcast or video on a man getting mad, and ghosts a woman after only talking less than a week. And he tried to invite his self over your house, and when that didn’t work, he wants you to come to his house. Theses men out here are desperate. Clearly a RED FLAG 🚩
Thats why I hate how some christian channels tell people to marry after 4 months so there's no temptation. If he can't court you for about a year a wait then he has other issues sis. Idk a man that well after 4 months. That's just the fascination honeymoon phase. My mom said at least 4 Seasons of courting.
I came here broken. Dated a man two years. He never told me how he felt about me. I asked what his intentions were and he ignored my question. Fast forward about a year ago he started screaming at me and criticizing everything I do. He broke my spirit. Kept a lot of secrets. I can't do it anymore. I haven't spoken to him in days because I told him Things aren't going to be the same so leave me alone. I told him you dogged me enough.so he backed off
Friends shouldn't have a problem excepting the girlfriend or boyfriend of their friends if a friend is a friend. As for love bombing my first real experience left me feeling rushed and STICKY, literally, like pancake syrup.He told me as we continued to talk I was suppose to slow he down. I had never heard of such foolishness. I didn't have time for off the GRID (that tiny house talk, lol) communication and continuous texting sense I was on my way to Greece at the time.
I did the same and told him back in 1890 they d marry after the first meeting ..lol but I apologised after I felt strongly about him fancied him ..I then sent several texts to say I wanted to get to know each other and see if we get on well. for marriage..but no reply .. but I didnt know him and his character as you said you mentioned so many red flags that we dont think about ..and since then few men have approached me and they showed all red flags you mentioned..even one that was attractive enough and it made me re think that I didnt know that person I felt strongly about..
and after a year the marriage needs to happen..a year max..you are right and I find there are always red flags when you first meet..and they can be small and you d need to get to know the person more..to see if red flags are confirmed
Thanks 🙏🏽
Thank you for looking out for us I appreciate your godly wisdom
This really helping me
Thank You For Listening
Me too 😊
Lord have mercy amen 🙏🏽
Good topic 👍
Thank you, you might have saved my life
I have ran into guys like this especially online. So I really don’t do the online dating anymore. I just prefer a man of GOD someone who is going to find me. In 2021 I will not be chasing anyone at all. I will be chasing more of GOD ❤️🙏🏾
I have never do online and it seems like its not possible to meet anyone apart from online im told..however I wouldnt to advertise my photo and whereabouts for anyone to see..also you dont get a feel of the person..I believe many if not most of the men online if they are attractive enough there is a reason why they are online..and have issues etc
Right on!
Thank you Coach Rod!
My ex told me he was going to marry me the 1st night he met me although he was drunk so I don't know If that still stands but he asked me to marry him after 7 months. He turned out to be abusive and toxic. I thought it was amazing after a 13 Yr relationship that ended. The name calling started quickly, vile horrible name calling. Two times he was physically abusive. Even though we have split he's still chasing me, selling me a dream. No thanks
Good on you for getting out after the second time! You recognized a pattern.
I'm glad you got out.
Thank you. Two very toxic men but in such different ways to one another I didn't even see it the second time. Videos like this and also rc blakes are free resources for women to seriously educate themselves before they find themselves dealing with the aftermath of men who don't know the meaning of the word love. I'm happier in the pain I'm in now than the pain I'd be in another year with that man.
Thanks for the video
Sound like you had a narcissist.
I'm a firm believer that what a man shows you, that's what it is. I believe in allowing him to talk and you do lots of listening. The Holy Spirit will definitely highlight and expose what you need to see. Listen at what he says but pay close attention to what he does and how he does it.
thank you i agree. i was dating a guy for several years and i had a "pet name" for his private part. one day, he said "im gonna tell my daughter you called it that". mind you his daughter is grown. i think he's sick in the head.
❤God Bless You, and keep living in your Purpose, you are helping many souls❤
Thank You
I love God so much he always leading me the right way in Jesus Christ name amen 🙏🏽
🚩🚩🚩🏁 Red flag mean game over. Do not ignore the red flags⚠️
Facts
The ones who push money on u are controlling happen to me before... yet the ones who have no money still take from u a different way
Facts
Safe travels Coach
Thank you
"Heal before you deal"...I like that!
Thank you ,you just confirmed it,offering money in me knowing him in a week,calling his mommy uncle friends wanting me to talk to them,and I only know him for 3 days,he scheduled a photo shoot!!lolz!!His Ex is the blame,takes no accountability,talking marriage and baby..Right away!!Then he said his Ex is scared of him!And when I asked why!He could not give a reasonable answer!!I never did anything with him,not even a kiss..He calls obsessively and I have told him about it..I only know him for a week today!!!I have seen sum red flags..So I blocked him..I just felt something is off,I appreciate his comments,,but honey he over did it!!I know I am attractive,but I don’t take pics all day and admire myself..He keep trying to rush me!!!He trying to act like I am his girlfriend,but I told him we are getting to know each other..I know you for 3 days and you schedule a photo shoot of us???🤦🏽♀️then he want to hold hands in public like we a couple.And I feel he got mad when I did not want to..
Wow
I now block all men who cannot give a reasonable explanation
Gotta watch his actions most men ain't going to be honest lets be real
That's true.
Facts Queen
A guy told me... Don't settle 4 me. I wont change. He is not going to change. I kept it cute and moving. That was the last time I went out with him. He kept calling to go out and get to know each other. ......this the same person who say dont settle for u. I aint going no where e it him.
I say forget online dating you have to go through a lot of trouble to find a descent man . it only works if two people agree to make a relationship work. It takes awhile for a man to show you his true self. It is better to find a man out in the real world. There is just too many women on online dating and there is way too many people on there with the wrong intentions. That is like a gamble you are to betting to lose a lot.
I’ve experienced most of this list. This video is on point🎯 #QueenTribe
Good evening Coach Rod. This video is a sign. I fell victim to love bombing with someone I bet through Facebook. I known him for a year. To make a long storey short he doesn't have anything to do with me.
Guy I was dating was showering me with gifts when I didn't answer my phone he would get mad. One day he came knocked on my door and ask for everything back I gave it all back he left it on the ground. I was scared to date him he gave me a bad vibe.
Exactly Coach, can you do a podcast or video on a man getting mad, and ghosts a woman after only talking less than a week. And he tried to invite his self over your house, and when that didn’t work, he wants you to come to his house. Theses men out here are desperate. Clearly a RED FLAG 🚩
O wow yes
@@coachrod8324 thanks so much coach God bless
This happened to me about a couple of months ago...I figured him ghosting was protection for me! 👍🏽
@@STEPSOFPURPOSE exactly boy bye
"There is no fool like a religious fool."
Thats why I hate how some christian channels tell people to marry after 4 months so there's no temptation. If he can't court you for about a year a wait then he has other issues sis. Idk a man that well after 4 months. That's just the fascination honeymoon phase. My mom said at least 4 Seasons of courting.
Amen Facts, 4 months is the honeymoon phase.
I came here broken. Dated a man two years. He never told me how he felt about me. I asked what his intentions were and he ignored my question. Fast forward about a year ago he started screaming at me and criticizing everything I do. He broke my spirit. Kept a lot of secrets. I can't do it anymore. I haven't spoken to him in days because I told him Things aren't going to be the same so leave me alone. I told him you dogged me enough.so he backed off
I was watching this movie and the guy was telling the other guy dating widows they be lonely and desperate and is a easy target to get money out of.
Come on Friend speak on it ❤❤❤🙏🙏
He wants that green card! 90 day fiance! Wake up.
Lol Facts
Lol 😂 Kmsl
Friends shouldn't have a problem excepting the girlfriend or boyfriend of their friends if a friend is a friend. As for love bombing my first real experience left me feeling rushed and STICKY, literally, like pancake syrup.He told me as we continued to talk I was suppose to slow he down. I had never heard of such foolishness. I didn't have time for off the GRID (that tiny house talk, lol) communication and continuous texting sense I was on my way to Greece at the time.
I did the same and told him back in 1890 they d marry after the first meeting ..lol but I apologised after I felt strongly about him fancied him ..I then sent several texts to say I wanted to get to know each other and see if we get on well. for marriage..but no reply .. but I didnt know him and his character as you said you mentioned so many red flags that we dont think about ..and since then few men have approached me and they showed all red flags you mentioned..even one that was attractive enough and it made me re think that I didnt know that person I felt strongly about..
and after a year the marriage needs to happen..a year max..you are right and I find there are always red flags when you first meet..and they can be small and you d need to get to know the person more..to see if red flags are confirmed
Thanks for sharing Coach Rod, how long should a woman wait to visit a man's place? Thank you.
About three to six months
Hey Rod
its pathetic to get someone on its back to be honest lol
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