Bodycam: Arizona Cops Confront ‘Missing’ Illinois Family Shacked Up in Camper

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  • Опубликовано: 1 май 2023
  • Bodycam footage shows Arizona law enforcement confronting and questioning an Illinois family who were reported missing in February. National headlines about the Lutz family’s disappearance in April led to their discovery in Cochise County, Arizona - nine weeks after no one heard from them. Read more about the bizarre nature of their “disappearance”: bit.ly/44nCbrb
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  • @LawAndCrime
    @LawAndCrime  Год назад +67

    Read about the bizarre "disappearance": bit.ly/44nCbrb

    • @FirstUsername
      @FirstUsername Год назад +4

      no.

    • @truecrimereaction
      @truecrimereaction Год назад +11

      Thanks it won’t be the last time they end up on tv, he’s certifiably crazy. That ten k for the house is flee money.

    • @simbamom452
      @simbamom452 Год назад +40

      Terrible title Law and Crime, I love your channel but why use the term "shacked up". Obviously this family fled Illinois and wants no contact with family. You can hear the emotion in the man's voice, people disappear for a reason.
      I took a year long round the world trip in my 30's, when I got back my passport guarantor had been called by a police sergeant 7 times. I called the sergeant and he had Interpol (and other agencies) track my passport, the sergeant knew every country I'd been to including time and dates. All because I wanted nothing to do with my family.
      To the family in this report "shacked up" in a tent trailer, I feel you, I am you and I know that you wouldn't trade that trailer for a palace if it meant going back. I wish you continued freedom and blessings, stay strong.

    • @micadean1600
      @micadean1600 Год назад +1

      @@truecrimereaction sure is! Can’t wait to see more.

    • @nevertakeadayoff
      @nevertakeadayoff Год назад +17

      reminds me of the time the internet investigated a missing hiker. Someone from the family spoke out saying "there's a reason he left everything". Mind your own effing business.

  • @chrisstokes4685
    @chrisstokes4685 Год назад +1200

    Nobody hurts you more than family.

  • @bugaures2119
    @bugaures2119 Год назад +1344

    Ain’t nothing wrong with wanting to get away from toxic people… even if it is family.

    • @dejuhvu1793
      @dejuhvu1793 Год назад +99

      A sister worried about her siblings who she hasn’t heard from for weeks isn’t really toxic. Especially if they are missing with a dad who has prior DV charges. We would be calling the sister “careless” if she DIDNT report them missing & something actually happened to them.

    • @QueenOfTheNorth65
      @QueenOfTheNorth65 Год назад +60

      The father IS the toxic one. This won’t end well. Mark my words. He has talked in the past about killing the entire family.

    • @QueenOfTheNorth65
      @QueenOfTheNorth65 Год назад +8

      @@dejuhvu1793 Exactly.

    • @bullseyebulldog8001
      @bullseyebulldog8001 Год назад +12

      @@dejuhvu1793aren’t the domestic violence charges regarding a fight between him and his daughter?

    • @pfury67
      @pfury67 Год назад +19

      @@QueenOfTheNorth65 This is what happens in a DV situation and you start exploding, and the solution is exactly what he is doing, removing and de-stressing yourself.
      The future is always unsure, but his decision was to middle finger his way out to what was best for him at the time.

  • @jaylocke2879
    @jaylocke2879 Год назад +1155

    This officer was extremely polite and a good example of great policing. He could have just done his business and walked away, but instead got to know the guy a little bit more and have a good, decent conversation with him, albeit under strange circumstances. Good example of EXCELLENT community building that a lot of officers can lack.

    • @JMHTruck32005
      @JMHTruck32005 Год назад +3

      👍👍👍

    • @stinkyelk986
      @stinkyelk986 Год назад +25

      Bs. He was fishing the whole time.

    • @tac6044
      @tac6044 Год назад +11

      Most police are good.

    • @noyopacific
      @noyopacific Год назад +22

      Looks to me like these people just wanted to get away form a bad situation and be left alone. Someone from the Sheriffs office released this video and it took me less than 5 minutes to figure out exactly where Lutz was working. The cop Romero was pleasant enough but I guess the news medias interest in ginning up a story was more important to the cops than this families privacy.

    • @thisguyshorty3554
      @thisguyshorty3554 Год назад +2

      Some of the best policing in the nation.

  • @momzillainnova
    @momzillainnova Год назад +229

    It makes me really sad because that immediate crack in his voice is all too familiar for me. We are never obligated to keep people in our lives even when they are family if they are toxic and harmful. Ive heard "You only get one mother, you really need to stay close to her" so many times in my life. My response to that is always yes, "And she only got one chance to be a mother to me."

    • @bkliebert
      @bkliebert Год назад +15

      I really dig your comment and totally relate.

    • @tobyschuring1534
      @tobyschuring1534 Год назад +8

      My father was my issue.

    • @CTGDesigner
      @CTGDesigner Год назад +4

      Same here 👌

    • @RoidRager
      @RoidRager Год назад

      Stephen Lutz is the harmful one. There is a warrant out for him for missing a court date due to his domestic violence charge. Plus: More recently, he was charged with soliciting a minor in 2020. His felony indecent solicitation charge was dismissed, and he pled guilty to obscenity, court records showed. Stephen was sentenced to a $1,500 fine and six months supervision.

    • @Las_vegas_Home_Sales
      @Las_vegas_Home_Sales Год назад +5

      True and yes I agree hes very hurt😢

  • @lisaproctor7276
    @lisaproctor7276 Год назад +526

    I did something similar with my family. I just moved away to another state. After 3 years I started talking to them again. Big mistake! If you have toxic family never tell them where you live, where you work, what's your phone number, If you need to call them use a pay phone or a throw away minutes phone.
    Sometimes you are done trying and just need to distance yourself.

    • @RandomBogey
      @RandomBogey Год назад +20

      What is this “pay phone” you speak of? Don’t you have to pay for every phone? Lol

    • @JB-js4xi
      @JB-js4xi Год назад +7

      Yeah well "disappearing" and moving away are different. Seems you had sense to leave your situation the adult way.

    • @lisaproctor7276
      @lisaproctor7276 Год назад +1

      @@McCalifornia That's a good idea!

    • @Copeandseethe822
      @Copeandseethe822 Год назад +12

      According to the article... Sounds like he's the toxic one and his family might actually be in danger with him.

    • @nidhogg00
      @nidhogg00 Год назад +6

      @@RandomBogey a phone booth

  • @briandrum1
    @briandrum1 Год назад +117

    What sucks the most about this video is that now that it's been released the family members who drove this poor family away from their *home* now know where they are. I hope the Lutz family was given the heads up that this video was going to be released, or at the very least that there's a chance it could get released so they could pack up and move from this area of AZ!

    • @rhondaalbrecht
      @rhondaalbrecht Год назад +3

      Perhaps they waited to post it, once the Lutz family had moved on, out of the area. It would then just be considered proof of life, to stop the daughter and those she was using in Illinois to stop harassing them. Let's pray that this is the situation.

    • @samanthabv
      @samanthabv Год назад +7

      I really hope this family isn’t living in this area anymore because now it’s public knowledge. It would be nice to know that their wishes were respected. It sounds like they were scared

    • @msaijay1153
      @msaijay1153 Год назад

      Do they say where they are?

    • @fazijslive
      @fazijslive Год назад +1

      What happened to restraining orders? Is it really harder to get one than go into hiding and moving out of state?

    • @rhondaalbrecht
      @rhondaalbrecht Год назад

      @@fazijslive Really? From personal experience, they're a joke. Hard to enforce. You can get them, when the victim has enough evidence to support it for the judge to issue it, but for much of the time, they're not issued. Then it's getting them enforced because you have to catch them in the act of violating the order, BY the police, not the victim. By the time they get there, the perp is long gone, and the crime has already been committed against the victim that the TRO is supposed to stop. They're also not enforceable across state lined.

  • @cababyboomerq6012
    @cababyboomerq6012 Год назад +332

    I can’t even imagine a daughter doing something so bad that your dad hides from you.

    • @SJC49
      @SJC49 Год назад +21

      Not her. Google Stephen Lutz.

    • @aprilfisher4947
      @aprilfisher4947 Год назад +15

      ​@@SJC49 I did and it's really strange the guy sounds deranged and dangerous and looks like the family were forced into going with him.

    • @ScottPerkins-7060
      @ScottPerkins-7060 Год назад +23

      @@aprilfisher4947 You’re just speculating.

    • @JGZ.
      @JGZ. Год назад +16

      ​@@SJC49 dismissed, so you base your opinion on dismissed allegations which have been found to be unsubstantiated.

    • @missbubblessunshine
      @missbubblessunshine Год назад +22

      @@veliahernandez6945 the officer asked them how home school was going... not sure I believe they are being homeschooled but... the officer did ask

  • @spencer7176
    @spencer7176 Год назад +398

    I get really positive vibes from this guy, brave enough to leave a bad situation and still remain loving and good character

    • @regisfilia
      @regisfilia Год назад +31

      Lol. You never know. People can put their best face on when talking to law enforcement.

    • @frits191
      @frits191 Год назад +12

      @@regisfilia That's what makes being an officer so hard, some people are great liars. 9/10 they're probably speaking the truth though

    • @laurastuart3814
      @laurastuart3814 Год назад +20

      People are rarely able to spot a domestic abuser.

    • @laughs150
      @laughs150 Год назад +10

      Kids are in school and fed. Everything is being taken care of daughter just wanted a paycheck

    • @SICresinwrks
      @SICresinwrks Год назад +3

      ​@@laurastuart3814thats not true, people are usually just to self-absorbed to pay enough attention.

  • @candysmith8724
    @candysmith8724 Год назад +374

    I don't understand why some people think this is strange, sometimes you have to do what you have to do to stay sane. Nobody is hurt or anything, it's their right to move where they want and tell who they want.

    • @frogbutts3628
      @frogbutts3628 Год назад +17

      If you do plan to just up and leave, it probably wouldn't hurt to contact your local PD and tell them you are leaving without notifying your toxic family because you don't want to be found by them, that way when the police get a report they will already know what's up.

    • @unanuevapecula
      @unanuevapecula Год назад +6

      ​@@frogbutts3628 can contact them after because some people may have family in the local PD

    • @kelly2714
      @kelly2714 Год назад +1

      Facts

    • @aprilfisher4947
      @aprilfisher4947 Год назад +14

      This dad has severe problems and this was not a normal family google his name.

    • @3vollady437
      @3vollady437 Год назад +5

      Agree. He's a grown man. Let him and his family live wherever they want. He's sick if drama and bull talk.

  • @RhetoricWolf
    @RhetoricWolf Год назад +352

    Screw the media’s pressure, if this guy doesn’t want to be found just respect the man’s wishes… 😤

    • @doomman700
      @doomman700 Год назад +17

      Lol, there is a warrant for his arrest on domestic battery. That is why he is running.

    • @leebomccool8997
      @leebomccool8997 Год назад +7

      @@doomman700 Really? Do you have a DM from him stating this FACT of yours?

    • @carolsisti7203
      @carolsisti7203 Год назад +3

      I agree; let him live his life with his family…..unless he isn’t such a nice guy after all. I wish people weren’t afraid to speak out. See it say it.

    • @carolsisti7203
      @carolsisti7203 Год назад

      @@doomman700 oh wow. I didn’t realize that. Oops; he’s probably bad news then. Lol

    • @doomman700
      @doomman700 Год назад +11

      @@leebomccool8997 I don’t need a DM, he jumped bail on the domestic battery charges he was facing and left state. It’s pretty easy to put the pieces into the puzzle. Along with his story changing, traveling the country, to staying and having a working vacation, to buying land and building a house. Then the stories available on the subject other than this video gave me all I needed

  • @sc2846
    @sc2846 Год назад +107

    I hate that the guy on the phone was trying to coerce him to call his family when he repeatedly said no.

    • @ShipsKat
      @ShipsKat Год назад +4

      He has an outstanding warrant, for alleged domestic battery, so maybe it's understandable that other family members want to check that everybody is safe.
      The charge could be without merit, or malicious, but if the police didn't make contact, & something happened to the wife & kids, everybody would be aggrieved at police inaction.
      Family drama can be rough.

    • @sc2846
      @sc2846 Год назад +21

      @@ShipsKat if he had an outstanding warrant, the officer would’ve arrested him. You don’t know what you’re talking about do you 🤣🤣💀

    • @pocketaces6756
      @pocketaces6756 Год назад +8

      @@sc2846 Not necessarily. On a misdemeanor warrant, most states won't arrest them unless the state they are wanted in will pay for the extradition. As long as he doesn't go back to Illinois, other states won't arrest him. From the linked article: "A warrant is out for Stephen’s arrest due to the domestic battery charges pending in Illinois. However, it’s a misdemeanor charge, which typically have low priorities for extradition from state to state." So you should probably apologize to Ship's Kat . Just sayin'. The more ya know. Reading is fundamental. Etc, etc. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @casualgamer3689
      @casualgamer3689 Год назад +1

      ​@@sc2846 extradition was not a priority apparently

    • @kiowa1508
      @kiowa1508 Год назад

      Everyone please google the story! It’s currently a non extraditable IL warrant for beating up the wife everyone’s so proud of. The “guy” he called is the Newton police chief who wants him back to face charges…and is working with the state to do so.

  • @staceyshaffer180
    @staceyshaffer180 Год назад +189

    What a great officer. Respect to you sir for the kindness and concern for the family.

    • @horsehide3039
      @horsehide3039 Год назад +3

      Deputy Romero is a fine, fine officer and man.

    • @jeremybilbrey1133
      @jeremybilbrey1133 Год назад +3

      the cop on the phone was guilt tripping him for more information...not cool. I feel like the other cop will absolutely spill the beans where this family is.

  • @klinnc8910
    @klinnc8910 Год назад +7

    WTF? Why doesn’t this cop know you should never question kids in front of their parents.

    • @Jessica-dy2dx
      @Jessica-dy2dx Год назад +1

      I was thinking the exact same smh

    • @klinnc8910
      @klinnc8910 Год назад

      @@Jessica-dy2dx Was that not the dumbest thing ever? Unbelievable!

  • @psweeneyville
    @psweeneyville Год назад +263

    It is odd but sometimes you need to get away from toxic relationships. Too stressful.

    • @soulwarrior7721
      @soulwarrior7721 Год назад +9

      Yet here they are posting it online that he is in Arizona.

    • @tewks4458
      @tewks4458 Год назад +30

      What is the toxic relationship we're talking about here? The Dad has a pending domestic battery charge, and it seems he's mad that his adult daughter is concerned for the family due to the charge as well as allegations she heard him muttering he wanted to kill his family. I have a hard time believing his wife and children were on board with leaving all of their belongings and cell phones in the middle of the night to go live in a tiny camper in the middle of nowhere. Sorry but something about this whole situation is off to me.

    • @SP-xk6bl
      @SP-xk6bl Год назад +2

      @Soul Warrior I don't think they can hide it. If someone does the paperwork to release bodycam, don't they have to? They did sensor some of the specifics

    • @216trixie
      @216trixie Год назад +8

      Why is it odd to get out of a toxic relationship? It's completely sane.

    • @kendra8888
      @kendra8888 Год назад +1

      ​@@tewks4458
      THANK YOU! I was beginning to wonder if I had watched the same video as everyone else commenting.

  • @Cowgirlkate
    @Cowgirlkate Год назад +40

    NO CONTACT, MEANS NO CONTACT!!! Leave this family alone, and get on about your business....glad they're all OK...and moving on with their lives!!

    • @SJC49
      @SJC49 Год назад +1

      You don’t sound too bright. Google Stephen Lutz.

    • @salteadog33
      @salteadog33 Год назад

      Cool, let your family members get beat up and SAed. You’re weird.

    • @bethmoore4694
      @bethmoore4694 Год назад

      ​@@SJC49 you are seriously mentally ill...get help...you should be charged with harassment and stalking. Everyone knows this story and the dads past as the media puts it. Fact is nobody really knows what happened because we were not there. Fact is there is nothing you or anybody can do about it. Another fact is ITS NONE OF YOU FKN BUSINESS! get a hold of yourself crazy 🤪 worry about what you have coming to you from your actions..not everyone's else's.

  • @catherinebeatific535
    @catherinebeatific535 Год назад +135

    This is a good solid deputy.
    This family. I feel it! When people cause issues none stop. There's been times myself I've considered relocating without warning. Y'all heard the man, keep his location mum.

    • @leebomccool8997
      @leebomccool8997 Год назад +1

      @@ShipsKat Actually the person the Arizona deputy had on the phone they talked to was the Newton Chief of Police in Illinois.

    • @RoidRager
      @RoidRager Год назад

      More recently, he was charged with soliciting a minor in 2020. His felony indecent solicitation charge was dismissed, and he pled guilty to obscenity, court records showed. Stephen was sentenced to a $1,500 fine and six months supervision.
      Stephen is currently out on bond for a domestic violence charge on the condition he does not have contact with Monica. There is also reportedly a warrant for his arrest in Illinois as a result of his missed pre-trial hearing on March 26.

    • @RoidRager
      @RoidRager Год назад

      @@ShipsKat More recently, he was charged with soliciting a minor in 2020. His felony indecent solicitation charge was dismissed, and he pled guilty to obscenity, court records showed. Stephen was sentenced to a $1,500 fine and six months supervision.
      Stephen is currently out on bond for a domestic violence charge on the condition he does not have contact with Monica. There is also reportedly a warrant for his arrest in Illinois as a result of his missed pre-trial hearing on March 26.

    • @shawnasabino7958
      @shawnasabino7958 Год назад

      ​@@RoidRager are you riding his peen??

  • @andrewh7599
    @andrewh7599 Год назад +27

    No pain like family pain. Glad he got a new start and hopefully it works out well for all of them.

  • @necole1023
    @necole1023 Год назад +73

    Such a caring police officer making sure they’re were all safe. Good for them taking there kids & getting away from toxic ppl in there lives.

  • @sierrawashington180
    @sierrawashington180 Год назад +18

    You can visibly see that he’s uncomfortable. Even in him talking you can hear the change in his voice- that man has been through enough and just wants a piece of mind in it all.

    • @SJC49
      @SJC49 Год назад

      Google Stephen Lutz.

    • @Maspets
      @Maspets Год назад

      "peace and mind" running from the law.

  • @swadings
    @swadings Год назад +141

    Upsetting the media completely blew up where this family went. This family is trying to do the right thing and sometimes families have to separate and that’s okay. Good luck to this family

    • @kevinquicksall
      @kevinquicksall Год назад +3

      The body-cam video is public record, someone found this, requested it from the city, then posted it.
      Not the police fault - the system is garbage.

    • @toasted_.coconut
      @toasted_.coconut Год назад +3

      You do realize her family thought she was murdered. He's known to the police as a domestic abuser.

    • @turnerg
      @turnerg Год назад +2

      The articles i have read say that he was out on bond for domestic violence, his conditions for bond were to not have any contact with Monica and her sons. He also has a warrant out in illinois for failing to appear in court.

    • @Supersquishyawesomeness
      @Supersquishyawesomeness Год назад +1

      @@kneel1that’s not a horrible living situation and if you think it is you are delusional.

    • @Supersquishyawesomeness
      @Supersquishyawesomeness Год назад

      @@kneel1 what is horrible about it?

  • @ThomasFrost
    @ThomasFrost Год назад +54

    What a nice officer. Just nice and genuine.

  • @kayja2949
    @kayja2949 Год назад +109

    Good luck to the Lutz family. Do what your heart and gut tell you, it's usually right on point!

  • @miriamkivlehan3498
    @miriamkivlehan3498 Год назад +90

    Wishing this family peace and joy in the future. Hearing the relative on the phone start to disrespect the man's boundaries and begin to coerce him indicates that they had good reason to take drastic action to leave their home. Hope they can make a new start far away from extended family toxicity.

    • @SJC49
      @SJC49 Год назад +3

      Really? Google Stephen Lutz.

    • @CB-kj8ed
      @CB-kj8ed Год назад +2

      He’s a abuser!!!!

    • @salteadog33
      @salteadog33 Год назад +1

      Just google him….

    • @klmoll
      @klmoll Год назад +13

      That was the local police on the phone who is being pressured by media and daughter. Also, last I hear, if charged with a crime, you are innocent until proven guilty. I’m a domestic violence rights activist and survivor, so I don’t say that lightly. Sounds like in these comments there are a lot of people friends wth the family he left behind or take for gospel everything the Media says.

    • @lorricannon189
      @lorricannon189 Год назад +5

      I don't know what truly is going on here but reading some comments looks like he may be running away before the law can investigate the situation. He mentioned he had gotten himself into some trouble back home? I hope as long as everyone is happy & safe then no worries. He obviously took off quickly as he didn't sell his house before leaving which is a little strange from a man who has no intentions of ever going back! And I hope he considers his children that he abruptly took away from there friends & possible school they aren't toddlers but 10 so I hope he's taking there wishes into consideration too. They won't last long living out of a tent trailer in that heat & barely any room. They will all get on each other's nerves & he doesn't have a phone is scary considering he plans on traveling not to mention all the wildlife incase they need EMS ! It's sad they are left in a parking spot out in the sun while he works isn't how I'd go about it. Wish them all well! I totally understand wanting to leave a toxic environment maybe a little planning ahead of time would have been better. Ontario, ❤🇨🇦 🐾

  • @sasskvetch8617
    @sasskvetch8617 Год назад +9

    Those children are in danger. Stephen Lutz is an abuser who packed up his family and fled with them to avoid charges. Get those boys back home!

  • @dolldoll2914
    @dolldoll2914 Год назад +64

    👩🏻‍💻Had to totally divorce my parents and siblings 20 years ago, best thing I ever did.

    • @johnbrooks756
      @johnbrooks756 Год назад +1

      They miss you

    • @PennelopeWhitmore
      @PennelopeWhitmore Год назад +3

      After my mom is gone that is exactly what I am doing. I had already left and my mom was diagnosed with a brain disease and was gonna have to go in a home. Nope. So I'm here and I'm gone the second she passed.

    • @angelahutson6450
      @angelahutson6450 Год назад +6

      I'm going on 3 years divorced from my "mom", siblings, uncle, aunts and everything in between, best days of my life!

    • @simbamom452
      @simbamom452 Год назад +10

      @@johnbrooks756 they can keep on missing me, just because I was born to this specific family doesn't mean doesn't mean anything. All the peeps crying in the comments never had your mother or brother put a knife to your throat and promise to kill you, multiple times over many years. Some of us have witnessed too much and the only thing we can do to be safe is to disappear. If you don't know, you don't know. Doll Doll big love to you, I'm so glad you made yourself safe.

    • @216trixie
      @216trixie Год назад +4

      ​@@johnbrooks756 abusers don't usually miss anything but their victims. Toxic family is worse than toxic friends. Blood means nothing.

  • @jenn0802ifer
    @jenn0802ifer Год назад +57

    When you get to the point where our own mental health needs to be valued more than the persons who have caused the pain. 😢

    • @RoidRager
      @RoidRager Год назад +3

      More recently, he was charged with soliciting a minor in 2020. His felony indecent solicitation charge was dismissed, and he pled guilty to obscenity, court records showed. Stephen was sentenced to a $1,500 fine and six months supervision.
      Stephen is currently out on bond for a domestic violence charge on the condition he does not have contact with Monica. There is also reportedly a warrant for his arrest in Illinois as a result of his missed pre-trial hearing on March 26.

    • @randallsmerna384
      @randallsmerna384 Год назад +2

      ​@@RoidRager Don't you think that if he had a warrant out of Illinois these police would have picked it up and acted on it? Do you know something these police don't?
      Sometimes you can be wrongfully accused and wrongfully charged and the best/quickest/cheapest way out of it is to plead to a lesser charge... Not the way I would have gone - but I'm not this guy.
      The fact is, we just don't know all the details. While I do understand your concern and in agreement that child predators should be buried under jails, we just don't know ALL the facts to make an educated and fair decision.

    • @Mushroomgurl90
      @Mushroomgurl90 Год назад

      ​@Randall Smerna exactly what I was thinking. You can't always assume someone is guilty of something all because a lesser charge was offered. That's how the court system is. It's guilty until proven innocent and if you don't make bond while in the jail, they will offer you a deal where you are still guilty and people take it when they want out of jail sooner.

    • @Maspets
      @Maspets Год назад

      @@randallsmerna384 Yeah, we DON'T know, s o stop assuming he's some poor put upon man being harassed by toxic people.

  • @ivanjuniour4849
    @ivanjuniour4849 Год назад +143

    So if the family who is fleeing and doesn't want their location to be revealed why is this on the internet. I believe this guy's familys privacy should be respected. No crimes committed so he definitely has right.

    • @bluckyjones
      @bluckyjones Год назад +10

      Their obviously not in the same location anymore....they were traveling. So them showing this is not an issue. If u paid attention they silenced the part where he said where they were headed.

    • @user-peach408
      @user-peach408 Год назад +12

      Body camera footage. A FOIA request is all it takes. Remember, everyone wants to watch everything a cop comes in contact. This is one of the situations that it hurts.

    • @aggrogator4045
      @aggrogator4045 Год назад +1

      Somebody get rainbolt on the case

    • @ShipsKat
      @ShipsKat Год назад +13

      He has an outstanding warrant for alleged domestic battery.
      The entire family went "missing overnight", they left their home, belongings, & even ditched their phones.
      I think it's possible, that other family members, were concerned enough to file a missing person report. Families can be a minefield, so it's also possible, that the misper report was a malicious power-play, from a toxic person.
      The police were obligated to ensure that nobody was in danger, harmed, or taken against their will.

    • @luckyirish163
      @luckyirish163 Год назад +7

      ​@@ShipsKat oh that's a bunch of bull

  • @jdub2100
    @jdub2100 Год назад +94

    Idk what happened back home, but I'm on his side. A grown man doesn't get choked up like that for nothing. I hope they find happiness in their new life

    • @turnerg
      @turnerg Год назад +6

      Every article i have read (i googled his name) said that he was out on bond for domestic violence and the conditions of the bond stated he was not to have contact with Monica and her boys, he also has a warrant in illinois for failure to appear

    • @jaygwins
      @jaygwins Год назад +12

      @@turnerg if he had a FTA warrant they would have arrested him instead of checking on him…

    • @turnerg
      @turnerg Год назад +1

      @@jaygwins the articles i have read stated he had such a warrant 🤷‍♂️

    • @xmateinc
      @xmateinc Год назад +9

      @@turnerg if cops are this involved then they’ve already ran NCIC checks and would know about all his warrants.

    • @turnerg
      @turnerg Год назад +8

      @@xmateinc never said they didnt know, just said that i think the warrant is most likely non extraditable which would explain why there was no mention of it from the officer.

  • @tcurry1531
    @tcurry1531 Год назад +307

    Good to know these people are safe. If they have divorced from his family so be it. As long as they are safe, that is all anyone needs to know. They are no longer missing persons.

    • @moms5blessings
      @moms5blessings Год назад +4

      Except for the fact that a judge ordered him to stay away from his wife because of domestic violence!

    • @leebomccool8997
      @leebomccool8997 Год назад +7

      @@moms5blessings But his wife can make any decision she likes. The Judge didn't order her to do anything.

    • @b-bopeddie1290
      @b-bopeddie1290 Год назад +4

      @@leebomccool8997 WRONG.......

    • @leebomccool8997
      @leebomccool8997 Год назад +3

      @@b-bopeddie1290 Yeah bro typing that isn't proof to me. You post a site I'll check it out but I'm not going to deep dive it.

    • @sawyerbarney4194
      @sawyerbarney4194 Год назад +1

      @@leebomccool8997 if they are ending up in court because of that, chances are she has a restraining order regardless of her love status with him

  • @Logic-101
    @Logic-101 Год назад +24

    I feel so bad for that family. Let them alone. You clearly drove them away.

    • @sssfsshtscfjyv7600
      @sssfsshtscfjyv7600 Год назад

      The man is evil... Who is charged with domestic violence and plead guilty to a charge with a minor

    • @AbbieLewisCorrea
      @AbbieLewisCorrea Год назад +1

      Yikes. Not clearly. The father has DV charges and left the state to avoid arrest.

  • @IRONBOVINE
    @IRONBOVINE Год назад +60

    This dude is just a genuine good guy, you can just tell by his energy. Love that he did what he thought was best for him and his family.

    • @mikeb4629
      @mikeb4629 Год назад +11

      He has a warrant for domestic battery on his wife.. He's not a good dude
      "A warrant is out for Stephen’s arrest due to the domestic battery charges pending in Illinois. However, it’s a misdemeanor charge, which typically have low priorities for extradition from state to state"

    • @oliverwilliam6931
      @oliverwilliam6931 Год назад +1

      @@mikeb4629 Shut up

    • @truthbetold1855
      @truthbetold1855 Год назад +3

      Nobodies wife has ever lied about domestic battery. Innocent until proven guilty.

    • @RoidRager
      @RoidRager Год назад +5

      More recently, he was charged with soliciting a minor in 2020. His felony indecent solicitation charge was dismissed, and he pled guilty to obscenity, court records showed. Stephen was sentenced to a $1,500 fine and six months supervision.
      Stephen is currently out on bond for a domestic violence charge on the condition he does not have contact with Monica. There is also reportedly a warrant for his arrest in Illinois as a result of his missed pre-trial hearing on March 26.

    • @temposhop8739
      @temposhop8739 Год назад +1

      I got the opposite impression.

  • @charGENX
    @charGENX Год назад +60

    I did the same thing this family did. Got out and away from toxic people

    • @xprincenaz21
      @xprincenaz21 Год назад +3

      Hope life is treating you a lot better these days

    • @0oJoe
      @0oJoe Год назад +1

      Same here, packed up clothes and personal documents. Drove clear cross the country. Change of scenery and people and life is good. This was many many years ago and don't regret it all.

  • @katherineklootwyk5462
    @katherineklootwyk5462 Год назад +58

    If the Lutz family happens to be reading these comments God Bless and good luck!! ❤️

  • @SloppyxJoe
    @SloppyxJoe Год назад +15

    taken from another comment i saw: Before making assumptions that this man “has the right to leave”, he has a warrant out for his arrest in the state of illinois for beating his wife and known drug use. There’s a lot more to the story than you think. she was worried about the safety of her siblings. anyone assuming this man is automatically in the right looks really idiotic right now.

    • @UseByDate-Expired
      @UseByDate-Expired Год назад

      liar, the warrant is for battery, not a word about drugs, he left because of people like you

    • @luciennetaylor4608
      @luciennetaylor4608 Год назад

      If there's a warrant why would that officer not know that?

  • @katdelrio5316
    @katdelrio5316 Год назад +46

    As long as the kids are actually doing home school and not falling behind then I'm with this family. Don't blame them for saying screw all the drama and choosing peace instead. If they're happy and the kids are really learning online then that's all that matters. Really appreciate blocking out any identifiers so their privacy and location is protected. Wish them all the best.

    • @Eddie-tn2om
      @Eddie-tn2om Год назад +5

      Precisely the home schooling is the main concern. The grownups can do whatever they want.

    • @lindasue263
      @lindasue263 Год назад +3

      City & state revealed in notes for this post!! Screw L&C network!!

    • @carolann811
      @carolann811 Год назад +3

      @@lindasue263 If he followed the plan he outlined to the officer, he's not there anymore.

    • @julesbuscho2063
      @julesbuscho2063 Год назад +6

      Actually what matters is if the kids are SAFE. He is a DV abuser and s*x offender.

    • @jeanarino732
      @jeanarino732 Год назад +4

      @@julesbuscho2063 do you know this for sure?

  • @DeeVination
    @DeeVination Год назад +107

    As someone who cut ties with family, I get so tired of people trying to guilt me for my decision the way the cops are trying to guilt that family. Trust me their kids know exactly what's going on and the cops know they are fine now and need to leave them alone. If the daughter keeps filing missing person reports knowing they are ok, she should be charged or ticketed. This family is begging for them not to disclose where they are and yet they basically said and showed their location of work and home in this video. Very sad. If that happened to me, I would be forced to pack up and move again. The cop continuing to ask him questions about his plans, is he going to move, get an apartment, how long their going to stay there, etc... is BS. You know they are safe, leave them alone.

    • @t-and-p
      @t-and-p Год назад +22

      In fairness to that officer, he's in a no-win situation. If he digs deeper, he's invading their privacy. If he doesn't dig deeper, and something happens (much like the Gabby Petito case), he'll be under fire for not doing more. For that reason, I suspect he was aiming for the middle ground, whilst trying to be respectful to all involved.
      Having worked in safeguarding for a while, I suspect that the officer asked those things as the daughter has most likely made a bunch of allegations. As there are minors involved, he had a duty of care to them, so asked questions about their plans, etc. Why? So that, when the daughter comes back with more allegations and starts this up again, if the family are innocent he can say "actually, they didn't just run after they spoke to me, they did exactly what they said they would, making them credible". He's putting the building blocks in place to either protect them from future false allegations and harrassment from the daughter, or protect those kids if they genuinely are in danger (by sussing out the parents, using their reactions to his questioning and their reliability to keep their word).

    • @DeeVination
      @DeeVination Год назад +7

      @@t-and-p He can ask questions, but he shouldn't be forcing answers or guilting them into calling family or anyone else. The man and woman both said they were uncomfortable and said no many times, but officer kept on. He saw that everyone was fine but forced the phone call even though he could've relayed to the sheriff that everything was fine. Then the sheriff trying to guilt the guy into calling family. No, sorry they went too far on this one.

    • @spikenomoon
      @spikenomoon Год назад +3

      He’s not carrying. He exposed where their at when asked not to. He then went into see if he could find a crime by asking kids about school.

    • @rosemaryus-ct6151
      @rosemaryus-ct6151 Год назад +1

      i hear u on the toxic family stuff; other people dont understand

    • @t-and-p
      @t-and-p Год назад +5

      @@DeeVination I didn't feel he was inappropriate in the way he asked. He did the standard police thing of politely pushing for an answer, but repeatedly told the family that they were not in any trouble, so wasn't trying to coerce them with his authority. They could've said no. I suspect that he's so used to questioning like that, he didn't even think he was being pushy.
      I still believe that he did the best in a bad situation because, by getting answers now, he doesn't have to keep going back and harassing them everytime the daughter calls with a new allegation. In their shoes, I would rather go through this once and be left alone than be continually visited - especially as repeated visits have the potential to endanger work and living opportunities. Surely repeat visits are more of an invasion of privacy than a slightly longer/more in depth questioning - especially if you're wanting to clear your name and not have the local law enforcement in the new place you've moved to think you're some kind of abuser or someone to watch.

  • @jenniferheaton5306
    @jenniferheaton5306 Год назад +27

    I love that they are TEACHING their children all kinds of neat things and he’s able to work and spend time with his children! BEST way to raise a family! Others deserve to know they are alive and well but not necessarily where.

    • @smalltowngirlbigcityheart3724
      @smalltowngirlbigcityheart3724 Год назад

      Stability is what is best for children. I’m sorry, I disagree with your take. God Bless You!

    • @jenniferheaton5306
      @jenniferheaton5306 Год назад +1

      @@smalltowngirlbigcityheart3724 family, being with your mom and dad is best. And it sounds like things weren’t very stable where they were. But I do completely understand what you’re saying about stability. Sounds like they want to get them out of a bad environment, teach them some amazing things as a family, and get them settled. Hopefully it’s a win win.

    • @Maspets
      @Maspets Год назад

      @@jenniferheaton5306 OH DO YOU LIVE WITH THEM? HOW DO YOU KNOW?

  • @i.can.d
    @i.can.d Год назад +96

    This sounds like a real cool guy who’s determined to protect his peace. Good luck to him.

    • @fearless7989
      @fearless7989 Год назад +6

      That's my take as well. Peaceful guy, did the right thing

    • @traviesababe1
      @traviesababe1 Год назад +6

      @@fearless7989 he’s not a good person according to his daughter. She’s in the comments. He has a DV warrant.

    • @fearless7989
      @fearless7989 Год назад +6

      @@traviesababe1 Then why is she chasing him? No one's trying to catch her.

    • @traviesababe1
      @traviesababe1 Год назад +8

      @@fearless7989 do you know what a warrant is? He’s wanted in Illinois for violence against his wife. His daughter wants to make sure her brothers are safe.

    • @joshshelton796
      @joshshelton796 Год назад +8

      That's her story. Who knows if it's true. She could just be vindictive...

  • @luckyirish163
    @luckyirish163 Год назад +43

    He's totally upset and you can hear it in his voice!! I have done this to my family. My family was full of drunks and they tried taking me down and I didn't let that happen. I have two wonderful children happy as can be. And they have never been around the family drama!! I won't let that happen. I agree with everyone if he and the family he has with him don't want to be bothered ,doesn't want to be found leave ppl be !!!

  • @lauragibb6014
    @lauragibb6014 Год назад +27

    You can tell without even the daughter being involved in the initial contact that she wants more then just 'they're alive and well'. She wants to know where they are for whatever reason and they have every right to remain un-located.

    • @SJC49
      @SJC49 Год назад +3

      Wrong! Google Stephen Lutz.

    • @TheWestlandgirl
      @TheWestlandgirl Год назад +3

      Then the chief of police that talked to him wouldve ordered the police there on camera to arrest him. They did not!

  • @GooseyPooPoo
    @GooseyPooPoo Год назад +14

    This officer is hands down the best at his job. I really enjoyed watching the whole video!

  • @keressabeverage2622
    @keressabeverage2622 Год назад +76

    Good luck to this guy and his family, takes guts and determination to make that healthy break, I hope and pray it all goes well for them!

    • @cbeverage18
      @cbeverage18 Год назад +1

      Hey, is your last name really Beverage? so is mine! very little family that I know of....

    • @DrakeDancer
      @DrakeDancer Год назад

      Exactly. Toxic family is a common thing.

    • @RoidRager
      @RoidRager Год назад +2

      “More recently, he was charged with soliciting a minor in 2020. His felony indecent solicitation charge was dismissed, and he pled guilty to obscenity, court records showed. Stephen was sentenced to a $1,500 fine and six months supervision.”

    • @keressabeverage2622
      @keressabeverage2622 Год назад

      @@cbeverage18 married name, maiden name was Coffey! Truth! Hahahaha

    • @Maspets
      @Maspets Год назад

      @@DrakeDancer Oh shut it, you don't know what happened or if this is a good guy.

  • @chucknorris3rdnut
    @chucknorris3rdnut Год назад +18

    Good for this man and his family. I don't know the situation, but from the sounds of it, he got himself and his family out of a toxic environment.

  • @bigred1363
    @bigred1363 Год назад +6

    I think more people should research the whole story before commenting that this is normal....... . In my opinion

  • @bobbyp7403
    @bobbyp7403 Год назад +18

    That's how a police interaction should be like. To the lutz family keep doing what you think is best for your family!

  • @nancybrouse5070
    @nancybrouse5070 Год назад +5

    Someone needs to talk to the children without the parents present. There is something way off with this.

  • @tatianaquiroz4615
    @tatianaquiroz4615 Год назад +10

    Hearing the dad all most tear up says a lot about his hurt. The daughter must have hurt him deeply. Sounds like a toxic situation in the family. Praying for healing and glad they look safe.

  • @ItsOnlyMeAgain
    @ItsOnlyMeAgain Год назад +92

    This family didn’t want anyone to know where they are so this video and story gets posted on RUclips and now everyone knows where to find them. Good one Law and Crime! 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷‍♀️

    • @Kiss__Kiss
      @Kiss__Kiss Год назад +5

      Not only that, this officer let them know (A few times)that the body cam was on to verify. Which means, they can request this footage.

    • @unanuevapecula
      @unanuevapecula Год назад +3

      Really? Where are they?

    • @ItsOnlyMeAgain
      @ItsOnlyMeAgain Год назад +3

      @@unanuevapecula watch the video and read the article if you really need to know.

    • @timsworld9342
      @timsworld9342 Год назад +2

      It's all public information That's the way the law works

    • @wandererfoolish5126
      @wandererfoolish5126 Год назад +14

      The cool thing about a mobile camper is that it moves

  • @aliciaburchell3012
    @aliciaburchell3012 Год назад +5

    I love this cop - he's so sweet and even very personable and tries to give advice on a place this family may like to live or visit. Great job officer!!

  • @JessBlake2
    @JessBlake2 Год назад +7

    Yikes, if he was not supposed to be in contact at all with his wife and kids but could just pack them up and whisk them to another state, the wife must feel she has no way to be safe. It's shocking he can do something so erratic and clearly against the law, and the cops just let them go and say they look fine while obviously on the run. WTF!

  • @dustinstoner6195
    @dustinstoner6195 Год назад +30

    This officer deserves a huge raise.

  • @soulfaring3285
    @soulfaring3285 Год назад +14

    Who here is old enough to remember when the nice cops fell for Brian Laundrie's nice guy act? That woman is clearly petrified.

    • @SJC49
      @SJC49 Год назад +3

      Yes. Google Stephen Lutz.

    • @sbaker4920
      @sbaker4920 Год назад

      She seemed very relaxed to me, not tense at all.

    • @joywebster2678
      @joywebster2678 8 месяцев назад

      Don5vthink they so m7ch fell for the act, butvwerexput off by Gabbies self depreciation and hystericsxandxadmitting she grabbed the steering wheel. They further called in another agency that had a female cop to talk with Gabby. They separated them recommended she call her parents. But her fear of driving the van alone was so high, she went ahead and picked up brian in the morning...to her detriment. No one deserves death by a psychopath, but she wasn't an angel.

  • @ironbutterfly1981
    @ironbutterfly1981 Год назад +79

    There is no law that you have to live in a brick n mortar home, home is where you make it. The kids are homeschooled and they're fine. Each to their own mind your own.

    • @jackyoung2441
      @jackyoung2441 Год назад +1

      There’s actually are laws against living full time in travel trailers/campers

    • @barneshomestead1240
      @barneshomestead1240 Год назад +4

      And lots of folks from all walks of life do just that & it isn't a bad thing. Sometimes it becomes a necessity.

    • @truecrimereaction
      @truecrimereaction Год назад +1

      Look what happened to Gabby Petito, dmv, fleeing police.. This is the same thing all over again.

    • @perryrush6563
      @perryrush6563 Год назад

      ​@@jackyoung2441 I'm not sure about that. Also different in different states. FL has a unique law that even allows you to vote and claim residence in RV parks.

    • @hunterkautzer5831
      @hunterkautzer5831 Год назад +2

      @@jackyoung2441 you’re completely wrong.

  • @erikorehek7843
    @erikorehek7843 Год назад +11

    Man, that dude on the phone was making me mad how he kept making it seem like he owed them something for leaving, and he sound like he would tell their location too. I would not have called him at all. All he would have gotten was the body cam footage.

    • @laliciaj1
      @laliciaj1 Год назад +1

      He sounds terrified of the 2 ladies- Brittney et al. Kinda sad really

  • @lanaegun41020
    @lanaegun41020 Год назад +5

    I hope this family finds a safe, unknown place to live their lives and to be left alone. They deserve peace.

  • @robdixson196
    @robdixson196 Год назад +23

    Confont, Missing, Shacked up. So many intensely loaded words for a family that is GASP!!!!! IN A CAMPER!!!

    • @simbamom452
      @simbamom452 Год назад +7

      Exactly, the "shacked up" in the title pee'd me off. Umm it was formerly known as "camping" Listening to dad talk sounds like the adventure of a lifetime for the boys.

  • @writeidea
    @writeidea Год назад +4

    When I left, I flew to another country with my cats and didn't tell my immediate family either. The worst was leaving all my close friends behind. It's not an easy decision but a life-saving one. No regrets.

  • @BarneeFife
    @BarneeFife Год назад +101

    I feel great for this family. They had the fortitude to escape a bad situation. Too bad more people don’t do the same. I’ve known some families with members who are mistreated intra-family.

    • @jlcollins7673
      @jlcollins7673 Год назад +2

      Did you read the article?

    • @doomman700
      @doomman700 Год назад +9

      I can tell you this, he told the cop he was traveling the country. Then it was working vacation, all of a sudden he wanted to buy land and love to build a house on it. My radar is going off.

    • @leebomccool8997
      @leebomccool8997 Год назад

      @@jlcollins7673 There was nothing special in the article. Said he was wanted on a misdemeanor DV warrant but gives no information at all about it. He's going to have to be in Ill. for anyone to care about that though.

    • @jlcollins7673
      @jlcollins7673 Год назад

      @@doomman700 yes!!!!!

    • @jlcollins7673
      @jlcollins7673 Год назад +1

      @Leebo McCool yeah there is sooo much more than that to this story. Period.

  • @midwifeohyeah22
    @midwifeohyeah22 Год назад +13

    Sounds like they left a bad situation ❤ glad they met with a great officer

  • @cynthia6389
    @cynthia6389 Год назад +5

    I sure wish them well. Strong, brave people.

  • @TheRealInky
    @TheRealInky Год назад +58

    Look, people are free to run off and get away from whatever they want to, for any reason whatsoever.
    I'm glad everyone's okay. They really don't need to pry this much imo but again, glad everyone's alright

    • @ElSantoLuchador
      @ElSantoLuchador Год назад +1

      They're just trying to close out a missing person's case, otherwise they don't GAF. I agree that people are free to run off for any reason, and I'm sure the cops agree.

    • @ShipsKat
      @ShipsKat Год назад +4

      He has a warrant for an alleged domestic battery, so the police have to check that his wife & kids are ok. If they didn't & the wife & kids disappear, or their bodies turn up, everyone would proclaim that the "system failed them", & "they ignored the warnings"
      They have a duty of care, to verify everybody is accounted for, to close the missing person case.
      There's a link to an article in the description. 🙂

    • @leebomccool8997
      @leebomccool8997 Год назад +1

      @@ShipsKat So you agree that all your stipulations for people to now leave them alone have been met. Oh and he doesn't have a warrant for domestic battery he has a bench warrant for missing a court date, I got one of those dismissed and my tickets put back on the docket a month after missing my court date. $150 to my attorney and I walked away with an improper equipment.

  • @acctjz
    @acctjz Год назад +20

    I wish them the best, seems like a good dude

    • @FierceZs1
      @FierceZs1 Год назад +8

      A dude with prior domestic battery charges. The daughter worrying about her siblings is actually a good thing.

    • @millennialodyssey5956
      @millennialodyssey5956 Год назад

      I have to give him props for not sticking around hearing the bull and standing his ground.

  • @rosemariegillis2610
    @rosemariegillis2610 Год назад +101

    Everyone has a right to their privacy a right to choose where they wish to live how they wish to live and who they wish to talk too. This is ridiculous leave this family alone. PERIOD.

    • @earthwormjim420
      @earthwormjim420 Год назад +11

      Until they turn up missing for good and people like you are in the comments talking about how big of a shame it is

    • @Algebruh2407
      @Algebruh2407 Год назад +10

      There is a reason why these missing persons investigations exist. One time they turn out to be just left alone, the next they are found dead in the woods on the other side of the country. And I think that everyone would rather look for the people and find out that they are ok rather than ignored and never seen by anyone ever again.

    • @SeeKrez
      @SeeKrez Год назад

      @@earthwormjim420 be civil and respectful - read the rules. Your opinion, and the statement as such is not made with volition. However, you are a fool and I pity you for failing to recognize the base of it all, reality I know.
      They have a good police force and a percentage of the nation, aware. They’re probably safer than you are with your family and immediate family less than 5 miles away.
      But to each their own, ya can’t place glasses on a blind man and tell him to see but I can tell you, ya helped no one expressing your negative opinion.
      Hey … those family members need another toxic member to keep them company. You volunteering? ‘Brittany and Mary’ need you!

    • @shannonbarna
      @shannonbarna Год назад +4

      This man is on the run from a warrant for his arrest for beating his wife. Then all of a sudden they disappear with the children after he reportedly threatened to kill his wife and children... So I think the older daughter is in the right just to check and make sure the kids are ok.

    • @shannonbarna
      @shannonbarna Год назад +2

      And the condition of his bond was to not be in contact with his wife... Which he is breaking. Unfortunately the state of Illinois cannot act on the warrant if he is not in the state.

  • @KuostA
    @KuostA Год назад +11

    how do I contact him to make that deal for buying that house
    ?

    • @bluckyjones
      @bluckyjones Год назад +1

      That's exactly what I wanted to know. Hahaha. I said I'd jump on that asap

  • @leslieortiz7387
    @leslieortiz7387 Год назад +2

    You can actually hear the hurt in his voice when talking about needing to be away from his family. So sad 😢 for some reason he reminds me of my father. Trying to his his feelings and the way he is reacting to the situation. My heart goes out to him.

  • @akabutu7565
    @akabutu7565 Год назад +9

    I completely understand his decision, it's his life and he has the right to live it. I've been in the same situation and wish I could do what he has done, that takes so much courage. I wish nothing but good things for this family.

  • @freemandavis4796
    @freemandavis4796 Год назад +11

    I'm That Family Member Who Doesn't Mind Not Being Family Anymore

  • @gelthegemini
    @gelthegemini Год назад +1

    sending love to this guy and his family.. sucks to have to leave 💜

  • @anitaallen4143
    @anitaallen4143 Год назад +4

    I wish this family the best.

  • @Victoria_USA_
    @Victoria_USA_ Год назад +101

    I sure can relate to packing up and going where no one knows. Been there done that. Only my oldest son knew where I was bc he was in the military. I moved by his base. He came to eat and bring me his laundry. Brought Buddies and they'd stay the weekends and do their thing. AS I cooked and ironed BDUs. 🙂
    Best thing I ever done. Loved Washington state.

    • @punapeter
      @punapeter Год назад +1

      LOL I packed up and moved every 2 months after I wore out a town.

    • @tacticalpause3767
      @tacticalpause3767 Год назад

      Fort Lewis/McCord?

    • @ChucklingAway
      @ChucklingAway Год назад

      you 100% was the milf on the base that everyone tapped ;)

    • @yurivalen5688
      @yurivalen5688 Год назад

      @@tacticalpause3767 aaayyyyyyyyeeeeeeeee i grew up in fort lewis woo hoooooooooooooooo let's gooooooooooooooo

    • @Juicetheeunuch
      @Juicetheeunuch Год назад +1

      That sounds awesome for everyone involved.

  • @mrjp2149
    @mrjp2149 Год назад +8

    I can relate to this man wanting to disappear from toxic situations

  • @sassyfrass7029
    @sassyfrass7029 Год назад +4

    Save those children.

  • @heartoftheparty6786
    @heartoftheparty6786 Год назад +5

    hope this man and his family find peace

  • @CrazyDealsandSteals
    @CrazyDealsandSteals Год назад +3

    Good luck to this father and his wife and children. Him starting to cry speaking with his family on the phone was so sad. Clearly, this man loves his wife and kids, and is doing whatever he can to protect them

  • @christywhitley6053
    @christywhitley6053 Год назад +3

    What kind of parent blames their daughter for leaving and living in a camper in an undisclosed location? For the children’s sake, it’s necessary to ask specific questions regarding school and well being. Instead of asking if they are still doing home school, they need to be asked something like what type of math homework are they doing today? If a daughter is pushing for them to be found, she is probably trying to protect her siblings. I know first hand as soon as cops or children services walk away, the kids soul can be screaming, Please don’t leave me here! These parents concern me.

  • @francesca3453
    @francesca3453 Год назад +4

    This is going to end badly. The sister can feel she’s done everything she could to save them. But that father is dangerous.

    • @KaceyIlliot
      @KaceyIlliot Год назад +2

      He didn't appear dangerous to me..maybe the sister is dangerous and is why he had to get away

    • @TheUglyTruthWriterOfficial
      @TheUglyTruthWriterOfficial Год назад +2

      ​@@KaceyIlliot his record you can read on google says otherwise. Please for the love of God. Think before you speak. The people in this comment section are so unbelievably gullible. They'll just watch something and not bother to investigate before forming an opinion.

    • @TheUglyTruthWriterOfficial
      @TheUglyTruthWriterOfficial Год назад +1

      @@edd7 are you capable of reading? 😂 Ever heard of public records?

  • @deniseschaefer5436
    @deniseschaefer5436 Год назад +1

    Best wishes to this family❤

  • @heatherbrecht257
    @heatherbrecht257 Год назад +4

    Love this. Good job from everyone involved. ❤

  • @mojo6605
    @mojo6605 Год назад +32

    This is weird. Something is up.

    • @annwilliams2958
      @annwilliams2958 Год назад +2

      She has a husband, she don't want anymore, that's why she left with her lover😂

    • @Herofixtv
      @Herofixtv Год назад +3

      Why , they just want to live the vanlife , free and easy .

    • @Ena48145
      @Ena48145 Год назад +6

      Sounds like they're just sick of their family's bs and want to live in peace. Sounds like it was a bad enough situation that living in a van is better than in a comfy house

    • @lukashood25
      @lukashood25 Год назад +1

      Way to really go out on a limb

    • @1erinjames
      @1erinjames Год назад

      @@Ena48145 exactly

  • @ericsmith1923
    @ericsmith1923 Год назад +6

    A great police officer l, super respectful and patient to hear out the other guy. Other guy is doing his best. I hope the best for him and his family. A great video.

    • @momof1576
      @momof1576 Год назад

      That is a good officer

  • @HomeEF
    @HomeEF Год назад +3

    Great officer , caring about the family safety! 🙏👍🇺🇸❤️

  • @proudpatriotUS1776
    @proudpatriotUS1776 Год назад +17

    They don't need permission to do this. When he said 'you aren't in any trouble' I laughed out loud. People can leave whenever they want and they don't have to ask permission or let anyone know.

    • @doomman700
      @doomman700 Год назад +5

      You obviously didn’t read the article associated with the video, he has warrants for domestic battery for him. That’s what he ran from.

    • @tishwitch
      @tishwitch Год назад +2

      They wanted to check.... Look up Lori Vallow. Sometimes couples disappear and it turns out their kids are buried in the pet cemetery. So it's always good to do a simple welfare check. They only had one side of the story. I think the officer handled the situation wonderfully.

    • @proudpatriotUS1776
      @proudpatriotUS1776 Год назад +3

      @@doomman700 I watched a video. On RUclips.
      If he had a warrant then why wasn't he arrested?

    • @proudpatriotUS1776
      @proudpatriotUS1776 Год назад +1

      @@tishwitch True. People can do this to try and hide a crime. But then there are the crimes we see thrown in our faces every day like Biden and his family, Epstein's client list, and so on and nothing ever happens and no one seems to care. Yet everyone is so obsessed with this family.

    • @pocketaces6756
      @pocketaces6756 Год назад +5

      @@proudpatriotUS1776 From the article linked in the description of the video: "A warrant is out for Stephen’s arrest due to the domestic battery charges pending in Illinois. However, it’s a misdemeanor charge, which typically have low priorities for extradition from state to state." You are allowed to click on the link and read it, if you can. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @smokedogg396
    @smokedogg396 Год назад +2

    Good Peace Officer,great attitude

  • @kaseyoconnor2665
    @kaseyoconnor2665 Год назад +1

    I can hear the pain in his voice. Poor guy

    • @SJC49
      @SJC49 Год назад

      Google Stephen Lutz.

  • @al-us4lo
    @al-us4lo Год назад +26

    It’s okay to move on and live a different life, away from people that no longer serve you. What’s not cool is wasting resources to find you. All it takes is one phone call.

    • @leebomccool8997
      @leebomccool8997 Год назад +7

      That's on his estranged daughter, bill her.

    • @KaylaSalerno-jk8zc
      @KaylaSalerno-jk8zc Год назад +8

      Before making assumptions that this man “has the right to leave”, he has a warrant out for his arrest in the state of illinois for beating his wife and known drug use. There’s a lot more to the story than you think. & she was worried about the safety of her siblings.

    • @lilyj0000
      @lilyj0000 Год назад +1

      Not sure they knew they were listed as missing.

    • @noetic8354
      @noetic8354 Год назад +4

      @@KaylaSalerno-jk8zc He still has a right to leave, warrant or not. the Warrant doesn't bar him from leaving the state. Even with a warrant for his arrest, if he gets a lawyer that warrant can be addressed remotely, aside from that unless the court ordered him to stay or put him on a flight risk, he can come and go as he pleases. so yes he has a right to leave

    • @unanuevapecula
      @unanuevapecula Год назад

      ​@@KaylaSalerno-jk8zc well somebody needs to tell the police who is speaking with him about the warrant.🤨😐

  • @sonnyechols5140
    @sonnyechols5140 Год назад +4

    They were so bad old boy packed up his family and started living in a camper and they still wouldn’t leave the man alone

  • @neoskater420
    @neoskater420 Год назад +2

    This is exactly how I feel. My family lives here in Arizona I helped them out before now I need the help nothing but a bunch of scumbags and don't get me started on my mom.

  • @kibundle
    @kibundle Год назад +1

    I got away from toxic people decades ago. Best decision ever.

  • @Callsmit
    @Callsmit Год назад +8

    Seems like this guy is fleeing from something and his daughter is trying to force him to confront it.

  • @maxuntonodo2685
    @maxuntonodo2685 Год назад +3

    I have a problem with the police chief on the other end of the phone. Why is he so insistent and why won’t he respect this man’s wishes? Very strange.

  • @stremendous73
    @stremendous73 Год назад +10

    Of course, none of us know exactly what has happened behind closed doors. But, I can't help but question why one would go to such lengths and isolate certain family members so much if there wasn't something to hide or if he wasn't trying to control others who cannot or will not speak up to protect themselves.

    • @klmoll
      @klmoll Год назад +4

      What? He wants to walk away from them, he has every right as an adult. So does his wife. Settle down.

    • @sssfsshtscfjyv7600
      @sssfsshtscfjyv7600 Год назад +1

      ​@@klmoll read some posts...the guy took off and I think the family is in danger

  • @awj918
    @awj918 Год назад +5

    Sometimes I wish I had the willpower to do what this man did. Seems like a good hard working man and wants his children to have the best life possible.

  • @gladyskravitzjr825
    @gladyskravitzjr825 Год назад +8

    I am a native of Cochise County. I can think of worse places to run away to. I sure miss it.

    • @lynettekrick2324
      @lynettekrick2324 Год назад +2

      I live in Cochise County currently. I was a native of Colorado before I moved here 19 years ago. This is a beautiful place. I live on 10 acres and love the quiet.

    • @aftaflash
      @aftaflash Год назад +1

      I live on planet mars, it’s a litter bit cooler here but I do miss the goat heads in Cochise.

  • @cg741graf5
    @cg741graf5 Год назад +8

    The way his voice cracked was just heart dropping. Family issues are just so difficult and praying for Peace for all.

    • @RoidRager
      @RoidRager Год назад +2

      More recently, he was charged with soliciting a minor in 2020. His felony indecent solicitation charge was dismissed, and he pled guilty to obscenity, court records showed. Stephen was sentenced to a $1,500 fine and six months supervision.
      Stephen is currently out on bond for a domestic violence charge on the condition he does not have contact with Monica. There is also reportedly a warrant for his arrest in Illinois as a result of his missed pre-trial hearing on March 26.

    • @sssfsshtscfjyv7600
      @sssfsshtscfjyv7600 Год назад +1

      ​@@RoidRager at the time this cop was talking he didn't know?

  • @mama.ashley
    @mama.ashley Год назад +1

    I love that this officer covers up his camera to hide the location as best he could after the man walked away from the phone call.

  • @hazelhadley-britt6396
    @hazelhadley-britt6396 Год назад +9

    The pain in this mans voice when he speaks about his family and what they possibly did to him.

    • @SJC49
      @SJC49 Год назад +1

      Wow - love you trolls. Go Google Stephen Lutz.

  • @TammyToo
    @TammyToo Год назад +16

    There is so much more to this story and things that are left out. Trust me there was 100% reason to be concerned and that hasn't changed.

  • @Rubyranch393
    @Rubyranch393 Год назад +1

    Good luck on your travels!

  • @allthejuice8236
    @allthejuice8236 Год назад +2

    Get those children to safety & have them interviewed by social workers WITHOUT the parents present. This whole situation seems creepy.