“Alpha Male” Rehab 😂
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- Опубликовано: 14 апр 2024
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Men who want to be Alpha's instead of Beta's need to realize that treating women with respect and dignity and kindness doesn't make you a simp, it makes you a man with integrity. Women aren't the enemy, if you believe all women are out to manipulate you and cheat on you the second they get an opportunity, then why are you pursuing them at all? This isn't the solution to getting your needs for connection and closeness met (which we all have).
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Yes, I hate the term "high value woman" as well...Also I DO NOT believe a woman's worth and value comes from "being someone's daughter", we all have inherent value and deserve respect and consideration.
Same dude... same.
Shouldn't both be seen as high value to each other though? If not, then they would not have that "worth or value" in the relationship, and/or it would be toxic.
*It's about perspective of what high value means.
To be respectful on the relationship please don't call woman that lol
I think woman knows their own values and we don't need to set that for em
funnily enough, they deem sex workers as low value women but they keep posting pictures surrounded by them and even get one of them pregnant ! and guess what happens ? they ask that pregnant OF model to get rid of the baby lmao
there is no consistency, because they don't care about helping their audience. they want them to stay miserable to they would keep giving them money.
So cringy i hate the "market value" bs. I do think there are good aspects of masculinity in relationship and some of the "red pill" literature is right on target - I think a lot of guys are emotionally immature and needy - things like prioritizing your needs going to the gym, cleaning up after yourself, being a leader, paying bills, having guy friends and hobbies, practicing stoicism - takes a ton of pressure off the feminine in the relationship. Two books that exemplify this self discovery for me are "no more mr nice guy" by Dr. Glover and "masculine in relationship" by gs Youngblood. Both incredible men that I have been able to talk with and spend time with.
I always cringe when I see guys flaunting themselves as “alpha males.” True alpha males don’t go around calling themselves “alpha.”
There's actually no such thing as a true alpha male
If* "alpha males" were actually a thing, they wouldn't need to go around telling people. Anyone who interacted with them would know.
This video reminds me of those protester street interviews where a few people who don't know what they are protesting about are made out look like they represent the group in a cherry-picking fallacy.
The main alpha controversy is about the "clean your room" mentality. It is about self-improvement. This movement involves making yourself a better person. It is the opposite of "I am the table". There are many marriages where one partner describes their feelings as, "I love my partner, but am not in love with them." The old school solution to save this type of marriage was to ask the dissatisfied partner what they need out of the relationships. Empirical evidence shows filling this need leads to divorce. Instead, the partner who is content should ignore what the other partner says and concentrate on improving themselves (raising their sexual marketplace value). Many marriages have been saved this way.
@@theBear89451 then why are so many of the "alpha" podcasts and topics in their forums about making women feel lesser? I've looked into those spaces myself, a LOT of what they talk about is degrading women.
@@deathXbyXlight There are two categories: self-improvement and corn start marketing. These starts play degrading characters in movies and come on the podcasts to drum up business.
Many men want alpha man entitlement but not alpha man responsibilities.
Just like all narcissists, they wanna love themselves and feel proud of themselves, but of what exactly are they proud of? The awful way they abuse others?
True. It is like feminists want the privileges of the patriarchy, but without its responsibilities. Funny, but sad.
I had a coworker say something inappropriate to me once. My response was “wow, how would you feel having ur daughter asked that question”. It immediately took him back and he apologized. We had a very respectful relationship after that interaction.
If it takes him considering how HE would feel if HIS daughter was treated badly, then he’s obviously one of those men who don’t actually see women as people and see them as possessions. He doesn’t care if any other woman is treated badly for being a woman - he only cares if it’s HIS daughter (his possession). Those men are only offended because they see it as a disrespect aimed at THEMSELVES when their ‘property’ (aka: how they see their daughters) is disrespected.
These type of men are misogynistic and just because they started seeming like they might respect (or just stop blatantly disrespecting) women in front of you, doesn’t mean they stopped disrespecting other women or that they stopped disrespecting women for the right reasons - for the reason that they are people, regardless of if they are their daughter or of no relation to them.
It's the inherent self-centeredness of these types that's annoying. It explains all their misogyny and it's infuriating
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hate how common it is, like they're trying to normalize predatory behavior by just doing it enough.
I hope this goes viral, the whole alpha male culture is deeply tragic and part of me even feels *bad* that they embarrass themselves so openly because I know they’ll regret it when they grow up some.
I don't get embarrassed. I get disappointed. They grow up, but do they teach other menn? Much of the time, no.
How about the alpha female, aka feminist aka men haters and ‘we can do everything ourselves’
@@michaelmich00 Shifting focus is a tactic used by narcissists and gas-lighters.
@@michaelmich00if a woman says she can do everything herself and you’re not ok with that level of independence, don’t date her? Tbh the only reason I care what the “alphas” are doing is a lot of them promote violence. Why care about men/women you don’t want especially if they’re not harming anyone
@@michaelmich00what the previous commenter said. But also, what feminists want, men already have. We don’t want to be alphas, we want to be treated respectfully regardless of whether we choose to dedicate our time to family or building a career for example. We want the same for men. Men who dislike feminism are afraid that women will try to do the same to them that patriarchy has done to women - put them down and try to make choices for them. This is simply not what we want. We want respect and equity. And if we get it, men won’t lose respect and equity. They will just lose the right to treat us as servants and the less important/valuable gender.
THE “ alpha” NEED TO STAY SINGLE …..NOBODY LOVES “ alpha” in a relationship…..
What about the independent woman? It’s more less the same. We need each other.
@@Jervdbur You do not seem to understand how "independent women" work. 😅 That's women who are going about their day AND are also independent in relationships.
Please, has noone yet taught you the difference between being dependent and independent, INSIDE and OUTSIDE of relationships? It's not mutually exclusive. 🫣
If anything, independency makes ppl way more able to ace realtionships.
The difference is between "needing and having to have sth./sb." vs. "wanting and wanting to have sth./sb. in your life, cause it's lovely and it works".
And also sometimes humans have no sexual needs or romantic needs and still follow these principles of "need" vs. "want" in platonic relationships.
@@KxNOxUTA thank you!
Speak for yourself. A man should be a man but not the man in this video as I think this video is about Alpha Male. I think this scenario doesn't fit my stereotype of Alpha Male. Plus I've seen some of these videos and think this poor guy is p****whipped. By the way, I am a female and not a male. I think men need to act like men and not women and women need to be women not have bigger B**** than men.
Yes. Accountability is scary
I just wanted to thank you. My sons and I have had a huge amount of trauma in our lives due to DV from my parents and their father (yes you read that right and all safeguards and legal documents are in place to protect us now). My 16 year old suddenly met the love of his life derailing his life long desire for a career in the Royal Marines because he believed his needs and boundaries don’t matter. I’ve introduced him to your community and it’s really started to resonate with him and help him stay focused on his studies and ambitions whilst enjoying this new relationship, so thank you again for all you do ❤
"Let's not forget she is someone's daughter too". This makes me cringe. It doesn't matter if she's someone's daughter, sister or whoever. She is a person and every person deserves to be treated with respect.
Yes, Jimmy knows this. I'm confident he believes in the value of every human being.
I'm pretty sure he says this not to disrespect women, but to provide a new perspective to someone who does *not* respect women as a group, but who *does* have women that he loves and respects, and he's trying to use that as a bridge to communicate with them.
I agree that if a man doesn't need to think of a woman as a mother, sister, or daughter in order to respect her, he's a better man. But I want Jimmy to use every tool that he can, to help move men along that path!
I'm sure he knows, I just hope others will know soon as well.
It's because the men he's addressing are typically wrapped up in seeing women as sex objects that they need things to be put into perspective.
You're so right for this, and yes, women aren't property and it shouldn't take feeling ownership over them to make that connection that they should be respected. What I tell myself when I watch his videos is that he's speaking to men in the language of men, and unfortunately many haven't gotten over that "me vs them" stage and need to understand that it matters. But I'm glad we're having this discussion. Jimmy should understand how upsetting it is to hear this.
I just wish that we can switch from the property standpoint to the she is a person standpoint quicker. No hate against Jimmy, I think his work is great
Could you make a video about, as a man, feeling anxious in your relationship?
For example, being the one looking for closeness, affection or spending time together.
Hmm, your videos are really good. And I've certainly learned a lot from them. Although I think they are more directed towards the man who are on the "avoidant" spectrum. Would you be interested on making some videos about how to navigate relationships for the most anxiously attached ones?
Yes I couldn't agree more with you. Also the good idea would be to make something about starting a relationship.
Excellent idea. As a woman, it'd be interesting to see things from a man's point of view on those subjects.
I am a woman, and I am also interested in kinda stuff!
As an anxious attached woman, I struggle with this too :( :(
He has stated in another video that much of his content can be taken with man or woman replaced with partner, and the meaning remains the same. If you are male and also the anxiously attached person in your relationships, then the advice still applies to you and can help you. Certain behaviors and attachment styles might be more prevalent in one gender, but they aren't exclusive to it. This video addresses the alpha male concept, which is obviously more specific, but if you dig deeper into his content, you will find help and good advice for your personal situation as long as you aren't hung up on gender each time you watch. If you know yourself well enough to accurately place yourself in these scenarios, you can find how to adjust your approach and how to heal.
👏👏👏👏👏FINALLY & THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SAYING THIS. Sadly, some men won't identify or care to do anything about their issues or traumas.
Jimmy, I so appreciate your videos and I deeply hope guys are listening. It's all true. Value me, respect me - "or like a ghost, I'll be gone"
😍Naaaaaailed it! This one was SO good, so sweet and funny, thank you!
Hello 👋 Beautiful Lady 🌹…How are you and the weather condition like?
Another statment, which I heard usually when I dated men: "When I didn't have anyone, no woman wanted me! But now, that I have you, woman feel, that I have more self esteem, and they want me".
I just realised later, that this is a huuuuge red flag! Besides, there was no more girl, they just imagined that girls are smiling or ask for something, because they are like that anyways.
Intresting take.
We've been so bombarded by the blatant toxic message that most of those guys are spewing.
We've failed to see the reason why? Beyond the belief, they just want adult fun time.
But, more likely, it's because of their own insecurities. So instead of doing self work and learning to grow and heal. They've instead decided to bury themselves deeper into their self-doubt and hatred. To the point of no longer valuing themselves as a person and they're lashing out at others.
Relating a woman to someone is an important point.
It means, not until HE faced consequences did he care.
No. Because ppl have intrinsic value and human rights. The way that connection must be made for men in specific, is because they often really struggle with the basics of compassion and perspective taking.
Growing up in sexistic societies hapoen to screw men over this way, thus, "crutches" are used to slowly helo them to get there. But it's by no means "the end result". It's merely an aid to enable at least some degree of access to tgese skill sets.
@@KxNOxUTAif men struggle so much with compassion and perspective taking then that sounds like a skill issue, and clearly men aren’t relationship material.
You can’t have a happy, long-lasting or real relationship with people who aren’t compassionate.
Perfectly explained! 💯
"Let's not forget she is someone's daughter too." Loved it! Thank you for sharing the video. 🌷🙏🏻
The term "high value woman" is, at its core, objectifying & dehumanizing. Attempting to genuinely engage with any person who thinks in those terms is pointless because they don't see "high value women" as human beings.
Excellent work Jimmy! Thank you!
Most of those guys don't want love or even sex if they're honest. They want control, they want to dominate... They can't even conceive of someone doing something for them out of love, much less hope for it.
You can't father their inner child into understanding because their inner child has had to become mother (mother is god to an infant). They've chosen father figures that their very young inner child thinks could have better forced their mother to give them the nurture and love they needed. You aren't it.
They need it demonstrate in a physically concrete way (even if it's fiction like most of the "alpha" content creators) that your way would guarantee the results they needed as children. Then you might start to get to them.
Many absolutely do want love. Not control. It's just that control is the only way they feel like they can secure a woman's love. Many have warped views of relationships because of movies, shows, and lack of proper role models.
@@Dice-Z They do want love. Deep inside they need it, like anyone. Most just don't know what love is well enough to even fathom it. They take bad father figures from movies, social media, etc. for a reason. They accept the messages because they are already damaged too much to understand what the love they need is. They are looking for confirmation that they're right, that it's something that can be gained through a power struggle, and they find the "alpha" stuff because they are so deeply into their delusion that they are actively looking for guidance on the skill to achieve it.
It doesn't mean there's no solution. It just means rationalising it as he does in the video, doesn't work. He's preaching to the choir but it won't reach the people who need to change.
Btw, I'm not looking for ways to just flip it around and blame the mother / women for this state of things. They are locked in the conflict with the role they took on , of being their own mother (the god to their inner infant) and inner child, playing it out in real relationships or, more likely, wished for relationships - but most often their actual mother's inability to give them what they needed still comes back to patriarchal structures and male dominance.
@Dice-Z I believe you. Whatever this perceived power struggle between the sexes is, it has to stop. How can anyone possibly feel loved if they're too busy trying to perform, or feel trusted when they're being manipulative, themselves?
I have every reason to distrust the opposite sex. But I also believe many men must have their reasons for distrusting women, as well.
Both sides have to give a little latitude to get some, I think. Otherwise, we'll remain at an impasse.
@@MaryDunforda lot of the "reasons" for men comes from having to give up privilege. When you've always had privilege and you have to give it up, for many people it feels like they're under attack and have something stolen from them.
Just think about it. Suddenly they can't just have sex in their marriage anytime they want, whether the wife wants to or not, because rape in marriage suddenly became an offense. And not that long ago, either, for most developed countries, that happened only in the mid 1990s(!), so well within living memory.
And not only can the wife no say no and call the police, she's now financially independent enough to divorce these guys and walk away. When only 30 years ago alpha guy could have just done whatever he wanted. Yeah sure he's angry when what used to be his free sex slave cattle property is suddenly upgraded to a "real human"TM and gets all "uppity" and demands decent treatment - to those guys their God given cattle suddenly got all entitled. The audacity!
And then there's the job market. There's way less jobs that require physical strength anymore. Also, those jobs, that they all (or their fathers) broke their backs for are no longer respected or even shamed as bad for the environment (like, eg. coal mining). So, they went from being slave owners with respected jobs to disrespecting, looked-down upon, probably unemployed guys in just 3 decades. Because "the feminists" got all uppity and now they even have to compete with them in office workplaces.
Yes, there will be a percentage of women who do men dirty. But the majority of the anger and mistrust of men against women comes from resentment of structural change and loss of privilege and position and potentially feeling useless.
Colleague of mine broke up with her guy not too long ago because he tried to go all alpha male on her. Guess what, she earns almost 3x than him. And he couldn't take it. Because the reasonable choice would have been for him to reduce his hours to take care of the household and their little kid more instead of the family suffering a loss of income if she had stayed home (which is what he wanted). But naaah, his pride, his precious pride!
@@TheFeldhamsterThe system still really enables ego and selfishness for men, I do hope it will change over the next couple of decades
Why are your videos so on point every time 💁♀️🔥
🎯🏆Love this! ❤️ Thank you for highlighting a major cultural problem! These men could learn a lot from you 💪
I love your work thank you for what you do
Love this ❤. Keep them coming.
very important message Jimmy. Thank you for creating this content.
Woha Jimmy you nailed It. At some point a women heals and same old tricks can't work anymore. You want real love, quality and loyal love? You get It through reciprocity and edifiying your girl so she feels loved and cared for. As It Is written husbands love your wives as your own body and she Will submit to you and rejoice! But...society needs to learn what Is love actually AND that Is why we all need Jesús ❤ God bless your family
Why is it still so common to reference a sister, mother, friend, (future) daughter when it comes to womens' rights issues? Like how fucked up is it that we assume that people who have no/little respect for girls and women overall somehow have all the necessary respect for the women close to them? I get why this tactic is used but I fear for the women close to the people this tactic is used on.
Because like it or not men don't see women as people until it affects them directly. I think it's just part of the male psyche, one of the negative character traits that is commonly found in males worldwide. You can be mad about it or you can just work with it
@@MegaGraceiscool i don't think it's an inevitable part of every man's psyche at all. Nurture over nature.
I think it stems from a disconnection to a daughter, sister, mother relationship. They aren’t sexually attracted to them as a mate in that part of the lizard brain. So it takes that context out and allows for the realization of what is part of a nurturing and loving relationship looks like with a woman (minus coitus).
@@sherrieschmidt6869 that makes an eerie amount of sense. Thank you.
Madonna/whore complex. Inability to view women outside of these two extremes. "Where such men love they have no desire, and where they desire they cannot love."- Sigmund Freud. Very prevalent in western society and especially in Christian culture.
Most of the time u make me figure out some things thank u for the vids! 😁
When he said “everyone’s scared!”
I felt that.
Thanks!
Fantastic video ❤❤
That’s a good one Jimmy. 🎉
It seems like you are a big fan of him like me
I can't thank you enough for these videos. They're helping me so much. I have some trauma from previous relationships, but im healing, and i hope that I'll meet a good, interesting guy, and we can create a beautiful and respectful relationship.
These are such helpful videos to bring up topics and to help find your voice.
BEAUTIFULLY DONE! 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💗💗💗💗💗
Love this spot on ❤
Excellent approach! Thank you! 🙏
You are really good Jimmy - thanks for this short little nugget ! I’ve been through a lot of mental health therapy and you are just hands down the best - what a tremendous distillation of attitudes and perceptions . I have three beautiful daughters and this is just as solid as can be. You are a purveyor of wisdom and peace - thank you . ( you are an amazing actor and role player as well ) 🙏🌏✌️
Right on.
I don't think anyone apart from teenage boys in hi school actually believes or even talks about treating a girl bad so she'd drop her status and stay. So that narrative is very biased against men.
Mostly its unintentional behavior done out of defense mechanism from insecurities, I don't think anyone goes out of their way to set up an entire plan in how to be "disrespectful" in a real relationship.
So real!!
💯 spot on! 👍🏻
Wow. Have you been watching real footage of my relationship over the last week? Nailed it.
The comment "i feel pretty pissed" after all the discussion
i love your videos....Sooooo much !!!
Same goes to me I have learnt a lot from him but don't have a practice ground
That was bloody good. Nicely done.
Almost all of men's weird shit seems to stem straight from insecurities.
"Deep down we all want actual connection with another person."
We could connect with anyone off the street reality is women want to connect with a minority of men not the ugly guy at walmart not the sewer cleaner not the homeless man etc
Perfect, no notes 👌🏽
BRILLIANT!!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
When men start discussing "alpha males," I cannot help but think of the very specific Omega/Alpha/Beta kink. I won't kink shame, but putting it that frame makes these supposedly "alpha males" really funny.
BRILLIANT 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
This video deserves two thumbs up
Hi Jimmy, I'm not sure if you'd read this, but fingers crossed!
I've been watching your videos for a while and my partner and I have been practising healthy communication skills (e.g. emotional validation) based on your videos. It's been really helpful, but the problem is that my partner's first language is Chinese and it's kind of difficult for her to understand everything especially with the technical terms and "therapy terminology".
I really hope that she'd be able to watch your videos independently because they are very, very helpful. Would you consider the option of allowing viewers to add subtitles to your videos? I've seen several content creators that have enabled this function. In this way, I could add Chinese subtitles to your videos (I'm a native English and Chinese speaker) so that my partner and people whose first language is Chinese could access your videos more easily.
Amen!
man this channel can extra hurt after a break up nontheless you are ofc right
🫂 hope you're healing
Jimmy, you are absolutely 💯 brilliant. Shakesperian quality stuff. EPIC TRUTH. GOD BLESS YOU. 🫂
Hmmm, so if I'm emotionally unhealed I'm a "low value" woman? I don't think so brother!
Brilliant depiction 🤩
Man low key lives in a tropical green house
😂😂😂😂😂 i love this guy 😂😂😂😂😂 You get it
These abusive partners will run you down nonstop yet they still stay with you instead of going out and getting better lmao thats a clue
If all else fails, it's time to call Sheila Darwin, from Alpha Males In The Wild, and Sheila Darwin: Alpha Male Hunter. I've never seen anyone take down alpha males so fast and effective. Sometimes I think she's our only hope...
Thank you for this. Never heard of her. Definitely be looking into it.
Also her last name being Darwin is kind of amusing because he once said those adaptable to change survive and she talks to those who are unwilling to change. Modern Darwin effect, I guess.
@@Amanita._.Verosa._. I find most of @Stanzipotenza 's videos hilarious, but the Alpha Male Hunter, the failing serial killer and the imcompetent cop ones take the cake
I hadn't even thought about the surname like that lol. I agree, that's very amusing and fitting.
😮 Mic Drop 🎯
I am actually shocked to see such a smart video from a man 😅
I don't want to hurt or disrespect anyone 🥺.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago, The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing. how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her/him?
Her name is suzanne ann walters , she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex
Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up now online. impressive.
ALWAYS A LISTENING PLEASURE🎉YOU ARE JUST TOOOOOOOO GOOOOOOOOOOD🎉😂BRAVO! 💐 🥳 🎊 KUDOS
100%me 😅thy jimmy
BOOM! Great job, Jimmy!
I'm someone"s daughter too 😂😂😂🤮
If someone hasn't been diagnosed with anything and you've expressed that they should find help and they didn't take it seriously until you brought it up again, should you accept that they will now take it into consideration or should you take note that you have to push someone to be better for you and that maybe you should not have to beg someone to consider what you say...
People who need help get it FOR THEMSELVES. Not for you. Like an alcoholic quits drinking for themselves, not for the people around them who are begging them to get help. Getting help is hard work. If it's something THEY want, maybe they'll do it. If it's only for you, forget it. Won't happen.
Actually there are some who really dont want real connection.
@sharicoburn deep down they do but the fear of their own vulnerability keeps it stuffed way down inside.
@@juju1896 eh....I've known people who truly don't want connection. But they are rare
More of these lol
YESSSSS!!!!!!!!!!
Beta males do this too. Just with a different public and private persona.
You are digging too deep ‼️ 2:05
Alpha Male- the new scarlet letter.
Wow 🤩 this
Does that “what if it’s your sister, daughter or mother?” thing work? I tried it before… he could care less. 😕
Upload the video of you and hussey to yt please!
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I thank myself and the universe for helping me get rid of my disrespectful ex.
I have a question: what would you suggest to someone in a relationship like me who has a partner with very crude humor? I’ve told him that it bothers me and he says while he doesn’t quite understand why some of the things he says/jokes about bothers me, he’s trying to work on it but every once in a while he’ll forget that I’m not one of his buddies and say something really off-color that makes me wonder if I just need to give him a pass and trust that he’s working on it or if it’s just going to be like this because that’s “just who he is” and if I should leave while I can
Oh my god, thank you for! 🙏🏻 It's so necessary to unmask this grotesque concept! Hint: if you want a high value woman, how about valuing her a lot? 🤯😜
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Sadly the only people this will never help is the alpha.
🎉 please talk about alpha women
Why am I the only guy to reach 48 and not know what a relationship entitles.
It's not the gooie feelings
Ouch Jimmy I am of hight value but devalued and discarded for the moment but he calls me and when he realizes I’m not taking the bait I’m devalued, disrespected even more to include flying monkeys.
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At the beginning of the video, I have a question, could those persons not only try to be "alpha male person" but also maybe narcissistic? Could a narcissistic person present themselves at first like that or to give that impression to someone only after to realise they are actually scared and only build walls or could that also be a manipulative way that they try to use?🤔
he finna make me cry🥹
OOOOOOOOF 👌
Let's go to the gym to be of "higher value" and more "alpha".
It works to get laid. But it won't last
Can you please make this reverse gender video? 😅
1:10- Quick someone send this clip to Myron, Walter, Andrew Tate and @JustPedoThings.
2:04- Someone tell that same thing to Andrew Tate about all the women he trafficked, please?
Praying for more healthy wise men and less macho aplha..lol😉
I really feel like many men would be so much happier if they were in a relationship with another man, but are too afraid to even attempt it because they feel deep shame. It makes me sad to think of all the women who have to live with men who clearly resent them and those same men who will never feel truly connected to or fulfilled with a woman. To the men reading this - think to yourself: What is love to you? What does it mean to you to love a woman? How would a woman show you she loves you? How do you view women? What do you like about women? Is it only their primary (vulva/vagina) and secondary (breasts) sexual characteristics? Do you have crushes on women, but when you actually are in a relationship with one, that crush fades aftet awhile and you feel like cheating/"going on the hunt"? Do you feel annoyed when your girlfriend/wife wants to share her interests with you? Do you even care about her interests? Or only what she can give to you (food, sex, offspring)? Is her personality annoying to you, but you "put up with it, because it's normal for your girlfriend/wife to annoy you constantly"?
We should just go back to how sexuality was viewed in the West before the spread of Christianity, at least on the male part. And the only reason the Bible views homosexual relations as sinful is because they exist just for pleasure, i.e., they cannot produce offspring. Being sexually intimate with your wife, who uses birth control, is the same sin as being sexually intimate with a man according to the Bible. The infamous rhythm method could even be the same sin, because you are purposefully avoiding having children and are only having sex for pleasure. Save yourself the lifelong disappointment of constantly forcing yourself to be with people you will never even like, let alone love. You will cause hurt to both yourself and your female partner. There is nothing shameful about dating and falling in love with other men as a man yourself.
That is a very flawed view of homosexuality.
So basically, you're pretty much completely wrong about every single underlying, unspoken assumption you make in your comment.
If you want to answer those question, think about if a man asked the exact same questions about women, think about how you'd answer to them, and you'd have an answer that's about 99% the same as the questions you asked. Men and women are not aliens or mythical creatures, people need to stop acting like they are.
A person’s sexuality, whether it be hetero or homosexual, is NOT a choice. Stop trying to say that it is.
This was really ignorant