Oh please just say that you need 3 months to get to know them first - that should deter most lol let me know how it goes. never do anything you are not 100% "hell yeah" with from fellow infj (mature)
As a fellow INFJ, I don't say "yeah you can come over..." And I'm also done with trying to please people. Instead, my friends know I'm being nice if I say "Don't come to my house. Let's meet somewhere else." Or "Hell no. I'll be there when I get there."
Idk if it’s an infp thing or just a me thing but the moment a guy says “wish i was in your bed with you” I’m out. If you come over to my house I can still avoid you. But my bed is my safe space. That’s where I hang. I love my bed.
it’s just weird and perverted. A lot of ppl who say that don’t even know u that well. My bed is where I sleep lol same with my home, I am very friendly but only ppl I really really trust can be invited to my home, you know. I do live in a western country so that’s probably why I’m so careful lots of weirdos here. but in our culture being invited to someone’s home is an honor because our personal space is so important. So when ppl say this is feels like they’re inviting themselves in or trying to get you to invite them before ur ready. Which is rude. My bf has an 30-60 minutes where he just wants to be alone after school, and his room becomes his personal space. I think it would be rude of me to even mention the idea of coming in since I’m not 100% sure if he would be ready and willing.
For me personally it depends on who says it. Like you have to know me for like 4+ years to get the privilege of me responding to that. Otherwise I feel uncomfortable especially if I don't know you at all.
as an ISFP i give off a very 'comfortable to talk to energy' bt then ppl r like come over or lets hang out and it makes me scream internally bc i should've just stfu in the first place
As an INTJ, my ENFJ brother kept saying that you should socialize with people blah blah, it increases your self-confident etc. After accepting his advice I made 6 friends but... sOcIAl DrAiNiNg AHAHAHAH. Then lost all of them ☻ Because of social draining, they never gave me space alone so I had to break up with them + They were really uncompatible like (ESFP, ESTJ, ESFJ etc). But kinda craving socializing again like I've been friendless for 3 years fr, hoping to get ENTP or ENFP sumthing like that.
I’m ISFP/ESFP (I keep getting different, plus my results are half and half anyway), and that’s like so relatable I don’t wanna hang out but texting is ok 👍
@@lovelifemyself acc to internet its ESFP, ENFJ, ISFJ, ESFJ & somehow ISTP?!!(I've never had an ISTP friend i think they're so fkin HOT and im scared of them💀) personally Im in love w ISTJs, they're pretty chill, no drama. also their company make my dumb ass get up & work, i like how i get very productive in their presence which is something i struggle with a lot if posible i would wanna be friends with an ENFP/ ENTP... i want their unserious vibe in my life
Yeah me too, that's why I hate when people just tell you "hi!" without telling their intentions so I'm forced to answer to know what they want... I make them wait more if their not straightforward
As an ISTP, i dont even know who's flirting with me/pick up lines, etc... I wake up just to hear music, enjoy my alone time, eat and sleep. Like i was today years old when i got to know that "i like ur style" has a flirty side to it... Since when??!!! Why did noone say me this??!!
good to know that as an INFJ, I'm not the only one who dreads meeting that person (no matter how much I enjoy their company) several hours before said meeting and am nervous and anxious throughout...
For me flirting is a waste of time and nerves. Dating is even worse and having a bf/gf is even worse.. I can't even do anything when other btch is at home with me, I hate having roommates, I can't live with people, they're too dumb to be with me, I can't stand them, but the only people I can accept for longer are my siblings. And yes, it come from ESTPs mouth who's misanthropic, which means I hate people but I need them to be alive 😐 being Extroverted misanthope is harder than people might think..
@@Charles_Mortals You're literally me but I don't have Extraverted Misanthope. I don't like having living married life, everything JUST so overwhelming for me. I never developed crush on someone, even if I did then I repress it all easily. I just feel every point of my life overwhelming. Going outside... overwhelming, Meeting people... overwhelming, Being Loved or Giving Love... overwhelming. Everyone in my family talks about my back, these all feelings sure are strange and overwhelming.
@@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 You can't own "Extraverted Misanthrope" I was talking about being an Extrovert who also hates people (which I described in term "Misanthrope") But same, like I don't even understand the whole concept of "loving someone", that's so "cringe" and overrated, everyone wants and does that, I hate popular things, and "love" is 1 of them Also living with partner may be good but also extremely annoying, partner would probably complain by thing I do, it's such a waste of nerves. So no. Love is HUGE *NO NO* idea to me Or maybe it's because I'm just aroace, or autistic, or both which is also possible
@@Charles_Mortals I also start hating people too when I get socially burnt. And I also agree every topic related to "love" is trash, I mean in the working world, there is no such no need for love. Love is just a irrational feeling that some people value. People when they're kids make them think love is everything when they see their parents together, so that's why I think they grow up with these mind-sets feeding their lives a whole lies.
I'm the type of person that would always ask my best friend to come over (which she always declines cuz her parents are strict), but if she ever says yes I will start panicking-
People open up to me too much (because I'm a really good listener), and then think we're close enough for them to just come over! Honey, I need atleast 3-4 business days to prepare myself for your arrival! Just the curse of an INFP I guess
as an INFP , the moment you say "wish i was in your bed" , *introvert panics* then think any possible meaning of it and i'm not going to reply , just see the notifications and if he keeps it up then not reply anymore byebye....
As an INTP I would see the first message, look at my phone the way grandmas take a selfie and then go back to watching youtube, anime or go back to sleep
I have literally cried because I live with family and they let people I barely know into the house I live currently for a visit, I put myself in a blanket cocoon
As an Introvert. If I really wanted them to come over but was too shy and awkward to ask, this just does the work for me tbh (yeah I'll still panic but that all flies away after a moment)
As an infj, this is my eternal problem. Literally, I feel trembling and afraid when someone visits us, knowing that my friend visited me at my house before.
As a INJF-T, I'd let them stay over, but it'll be awkward, if I really know them though, I'd gladly cook food for them, talk to them, and I love buying them stuff they love, comforting them, I get a bit clingy on people I'm comfortable around, quiet with people I'm not
Seriously as an INFJ I am constantly ghosting people but only cause I freak out since I keep to myself a lot but I also don’t want to be rude ugh it’s confusing
Just like infj said, as a isfj, we always say yes yo everything bc we are people pleasers, then when it's only like 1 hour before the encounter, then we start to freak out
Im an introvert and I will tell you that this is not the case for me. I am very loyal to my friend (even tho i have only one but i believe its not about quantity but quality). And I also love to spend time with my boyfriend, I always want to be around him or go out with him if he wants. The only thing is that if i meet with a group of people after i had wonderful time i feel completly drained of energy.
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Stoppp that’s part of why intj’s are the top ghosters😭
ISTJ here still related 😅
As an intj,
I just quietly go to their room before they reach mine. In this way you stay the dominating one.
Ehh, I'd say INFJ's are slightly higher than us
I am an ENFP and I fail at the first step bc I won't understand when you all be flirting 😭💀
@@harishrangra8096 💀
As an INFJ, I panic even when my best friend wants to come over. I have to remind myself that she's been to my house before.
NO FR I CAN RELATE I’m INFJ too
As an INFJ I feel so same
Omg same I'm INFJ too😅
Infj here too
Bro stop as an INFJ that's so accurate I remember freaking out and even trying to stop my bestie to come over 💀
As an Introvert, WHY IS THIS TRUE💀
Fr-
As an INTJ, I don't like coming over to ppl’s house or them coming over.
INFJs be like: “yeah you can come over…” to be nice (cuz we for some reason are people pleasers) but the internal panic starts to set in
Oh please just say that you need 3 months to get to know them first - that should deter most lol
let me know how it goes.
never do anything you are not 100% "hell yeah" with
from fellow infj (mature)
Yeah! I do this always
@@WW.PhuNuGC😂😂 💯 💫
As a fellow INFJ, I don't say "yeah you can come over..." And I'm also done with trying to please people. Instead, my friends know I'm being nice if I say "Don't come to my house. Let's meet somewhere else." Or "Hell no. I'll be there when I get there."
As a Infj i stopped being a people pleaser because i noticed that could be unhealthy but still be caring and empathetic for people
I like how INTP isn't even here because no one will flirt with them💀
People flirt with me all the time. Or so I am told by other people after the fact because I am completely clueless while it is happening.
@@icecreamcake6238 THAT PART.
Idk if it’s an infp thing or just a me thing but the moment a guy says “wish i was in your bed with you” I’m out. If you come over to my house I can still avoid you. But my bed is my safe space. That’s where I hang. I love my bed.
it’s just weird and perverted. A lot of ppl who say that don’t even know u that well. My bed is where I sleep lol same with my home, I am very friendly but only ppl I really really trust can be invited to my home, you know.
I do live in a western country so that’s probably why I’m so careful lots of weirdos here.
but in our culture being invited to someone’s home is an honor because our personal space is so important. So when ppl say this is feels like they’re inviting themselves in or trying to get you to invite them before ur ready. Which is rude. My bf has an 30-60 minutes where he just wants to be alone after school, and his room becomes his personal space. I think it would be rude of me to even mention the idea of coming in since I’m not 100% sure if he would be ready and willing.
YES EXACTLY I LOVE MY BED
Yea i feel it too...i was like wait hold up you wish you're in my bed??nah im out....even the think of it is making me shaking for no reason🥲
For me personally it depends on who says it. Like you have to know me for like 4+ years to get the privilege of me responding to that. Otherwise I feel uncomfortable especially if I don't know you at all.
Yep
When the introvert panic kicks in*
i was so scared tht i skipped the video 🤡
Fr
As an infp this is extremely accurate
really had to call me out
Ikr
as an ISFP i give off a very 'comfortable to talk to energy' bt then ppl r like come over or lets hang out and it makes me scream internally bc i should've just stfu in the first place
As an INTJ, my ENFJ brother kept saying that you should socialize with people blah blah, it increases your self-confident etc.
After accepting his advice I made 6 friends but... sOcIAl DrAiNiNg AHAHAHAH.
Then lost all of them ☻ Because of social draining, they never gave me space alone so I had to break up with them
+ They were really uncompatible like (ESFP, ESTJ, ESFJ etc).
But kinda craving socializing again like I've been friendless for 3 years fr, hoping to get ENTP or ENFP sumthing like that.
I’m ISFP/ESFP (I keep getting different, plus my results are half and half anyway), and that’s like so relatable
I don’t wanna hang out but texting is ok 👍
I'm also ISFP, i never got a good friend, can you tell me which mbti is compatible for me?
@@lovelifemyself acc to internet its ESFP, ENFJ, ISFJ, ESFJ & somehow ISTP?!!(I've never had an ISTP friend i think they're so fkin HOT and im scared of them💀)
personally Im in love w ISTJs, they're pretty chill, no drama. also their company make my dumb ass get up & work, i like how i get very productive in their presence which is something i struggle with a lot
if posible i would wanna be friends with an ENFP/ ENTP... i want their unserious vibe in my life
@zosmae8073 thanks so much 😊
As an introvert, this is 100% accurate 😭
It's not insecurity it's defense mechanism...
It's not always** insecurity.
@@ItsJustKylie- plz read my comment again... Or as many times as possible so u can understand my words...🙏
@@loneshewolf6015 - I understood them just fine. I added a clarifier.
As an intj i just ignore everyone adn just leave them unread the f**ks flirting?that doesn't exist in my safe space
As an ENTP I totally agree with you bro- 🙂👍🏻
and block them I am not dealing with the notifications hell nah.
Cuz we feel it too much and got frustrated . We like gentleman's who talk nicely 😌
Dude NAILED IT! everything from the the genuine sensuality, attraction and sexual energy to the "oh 5hit!" panic LOL
That's exactly why i read almost everything from the notifications.
I don't have to answer if i've NOT seen anything. 😂😂😂
Yeah me too, that's why I hate when people just tell you "hi!" without telling their intentions so I'm forced to answer to know what they want... I make them wait more if their not straightforward
Factssss
I'm remembering my ISFP partner trying to convince me to come over, I don't know how we ever got together lol. - ISTP
I’m an INTP and I can confirm this is how we act
As an ISTP, i dont even know who's flirting with me/pick up lines, etc... I wake up just to hear music, enjoy my alone time, eat and sleep.
Like i was today years old when i got to know that "i like ur style" has a flirty side to it... Since when??!!! Why did noone say me this??!!
Listen from the “ wish I was in bed with you “ I would have started freaking out and stopped talking 😂
Sameee
I wouldnt have even flirted back, just been like "no i have a twin size bed, theres not enough room for two people"
good to know that as an INFJ, I'm not the only one who dreads meeting that person (no matter how much I enjoy their company) several hours before said meeting and am nervous and anxious throughout...
how come that I'm the introvert of my whole friend group but still am the only one who even tries to make conversation here
ISFP.... I barely start the flirting process. I can't even remember the last time I did lmao. Too much work.
For me flirting is a waste of time and nerves. Dating is even worse and having a bf/gf is even worse.. I can't even do anything when other btch is at home with me, I hate having roommates, I can't live with people, they're too dumb to be with me, I can't stand them, but the only people I can accept for longer are my siblings. And yes, it come from ESTPs mouth who's misanthropic, which means I hate people but I need them to be alive 😐 being Extroverted misanthope is harder than people might think..
As an INTJ, this is big NO-NO for me.
I start panicking when someone flirts with me or either I'm flirting with them (never did but supposition).
@@Charles_Mortals You're literally me but I don't have Extraverted Misanthope.
I don't like having living married life, everything JUST so overwhelming for me.
I never developed crush on someone, even if I did then I repress it all easily.
I just feel every point of my life overwhelming.
Going outside... overwhelming,
Meeting people... overwhelming,
Being Loved or Giving Love... overwhelming.
Everyone in my family talks about my back, these all feelings sure are strange and overwhelming.
@@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 You can't own "Extraverted Misanthrope" I was talking about being an Extrovert who also hates people (which I described in term "Misanthrope")
But same, like I don't even understand the whole concept of "loving someone", that's so "cringe" and overrated, everyone wants and does that, I hate popular things, and "love" is 1 of them
Also living with partner may be good but also extremely annoying, partner would probably complain by thing I do, it's such a waste of nerves.
So no. Love is HUGE *NO NO* idea to me
Or maybe it's because I'm just aroace, or autistic, or both which is also possible
@@Charles_Mortals
I also start hating people too when I get socially burnt.
And I also agree every topic related to "love" is trash, I mean in the working world, there is no such no need for love.
Love is just a irrational feeling that some people value.
People when they're kids make them think love is everything when they see their parents together, so that's why I think they grow up with these mind-sets feeding their lives a whole lies.
Well damn…hits me in the feels…I mean groin… -infp
This was relatable and cute as an INFJ😊
Bro just summed up my relationship life in one video 💀
I'm the type of person that would always ask my best friend to come over (which she always declines cuz her parents are strict), but if she ever says yes I will start panicking-
The introvert panic...we've all had it
really just called me out-INFJ
If someone ever tried flirting with me, I'd just turn around and leave.
I have a fear of people coming to my house. Like I get literal PTSD and start crying. Heck yeah 😎🔥
Ima intj and any flirting make me panic
People open up to me too much (because I'm a really good listener), and then think we're close enough for them to just come over! Honey, I need atleast 3-4 business days to prepare myself for your arrival! Just the curse of an INFP I guess
As an INTJ-T, I am afraid of ppl💀
I don't think it was panicking, more like being so excited
as an INFP , the moment you say "wish i was in your bed" , *introvert panics* then think any possible meaning of it and i'm not going to reply , just see the notifications and if he keeps it up then not reply anymore byebye....
"next week, hows thursday?"
why did not you put our type in the hastags ? 😂the most introverted type INTP
😂
@@mbti_me I'm offended 😔
@@Ab-ub2ii I will remember you next time 😂
As an INTP I would see the first message, look at my phone the way grandmas take a selfie and then go back to watching youtube, anime or go back to sleep
As an introvert you shouldn't even expact a "Goodnight" 😂
I would put my phone on ✈️ mode and never open that chat again 🤣
😂😂❤
Me too, but in my case i set limits and he blocked me
Me all the way 😂
Thiiss , ciao 😂
😂😂😂😂heck same I will be deleting even app
Accurate af, freaks me out everytime
So true, we just say nothing for a while
I have literally cried because I live with family and they let people I barely know into the house I live currently for a visit, I put myself in a blanket cocoon
As an infp I get awkward even when my close friends want to come over ..
Aint this the gott dayumm truth!!!
Lol, true except I'd just stop responding and then forget to turn off WiFi and fall asleep and forget about it
As introvert that so real..💀
Oh. That’s why I’m so good at ghosting people :/
Ma as an INTP: baby I'm not even here I'm hallucination
As an Introvert. If I really wanted them to come over but was too shy and awkward to ask, this just does the work for me tbh (yeah I'll still panic but that all flies away after a moment)
As an infj,relatable
This is too real! 🤣🤣🤣
Okay but as an extrovert I woulda been like: “Okay yeah sure I’ll save a setup prepared for you in 10 minutes”
As an infj, this is my eternal problem. Literally, I feel trembling and afraid when someone visits us, knowing that my friend visited me at my house before.
An INTP & I were flirting hardcore, and when I asked to come over I guess I spooked him 😅
-ENTP
I dont even answer
-intp
You are acting makes it accurate 😂😂
Well that escalated… no you cannot come over.
There is once a man who told me I'm beautfold (typo), I fixed it to him and left the chat🏃, INTJ is here
the panic is sooo spot-on 😭😭😭
bruh I thought I commented 💀
Me: BRB
Also me: never comes back. ❤
this litteraly happened to me last night....
good thing she abort in the last minute....
i felt relieved when that happened
To those extroverts it's nothing personal it's just too wild when introvert gets their comfort zone invaded💀🧍
As a INJF-T, I'd let them stay over, but it'll be awkward, if I really know them though, I'd gladly cook food for them, talk to them, and I love buying them stuff they love, comforting them, I get a bit clingy on people I'm comfortable around, quiet with people I'm not
Introvert instincts kick in be like-
THIS IS SO TRUE THEN I SAY NO AND AFTER A FEW YRS I REGRET IT HELP
Me as an INFP and my bf when he flirt with me ISTG I'm always panicked 😂😂😂
As an introvert, I can confirm that's exactly how I panick everytime someone decides to pay me a visit.
LMAO AHHHHH CALLING ME OUT 🤣
As an INFP, too true 😅, not that I don’t want to and I can’t keep my word/like to lead people on, I just am too nervous and get cold feet. 😭
Omg, I felt this.😂😂😂
Seriously as an INFJ I am constantly ghosting people but only cause I freak out since I keep to myself a lot but I also don’t want to be rude ugh it’s confusing
Truth...ISTJ
Indeed... INTJ
As an introvert this is so true
As an introvert thus is so true 😂
I can’t count how many times this has happened to me 😂😂😂
As an INTP, I don’t even pick up the phone
If you did this on the internet with a person ever, you mighty be the reason why i do not have some apps anymore(friendly) 😂😂😂
This is so accurate 😂
As an introvert... I start and end the conversation with a sweet ✨~goOdniGht~ ✨
This is why I have 238 unread messages in my inbox.
I'd be too awkward to even answer that 🎉
LMAaooooooO I'm an INFP and my flirt game is impeccable. I just can't follow through when it gets Hella serious. Ruuuuun! .....ghost
That panic is literally me 😂😂😂 also I am INTJ 😂😂😂😂😂
I once had such a conversation. I was so tired of him that I blocked him and fell asleep
As an INFP & INFJ
I think this is accurate
as an introvert, I’m the one that flirts.
It's so on point omfg 💀
Truer words have never been said. -INTJ
Just like infj said, as a isfj, we always say yes yo everything bc we are people pleasers, then when it's only like 1 hour before the encounter, then we start to freak out
Why so relatable 😂😢
no because its nice to imagine but so terrible to actually happen😭
As an intp you will never get the chance to talk to me in the first place lmao
as an ISFP i start panicking even when my friend wants to voice call me
Yup this me but I don't say any last word just immediately ghost the person.
Lmao so true, few want to take me out and ask address and suddenly im busy 😅
Got the most to say till the time comes to do
me being the flirter 😭
-ENTJ
Im an introvert and I will tell you that this is not the case for me. I am very loyal to my friend (even tho i have only one but i believe its not about quantity but quality). And I also love to spend time with my boyfriend, I always want to be around him or go out with him if he wants. The only thing is that if i meet with a group of people after i had wonderful time i feel completly drained of energy.