Makes sense. Though I do not think you "have to accept,/love yourself first, before anyone else does". If you can, that is fantastic. But your partner (and family and friends) can through their acceptance/love help you in seeing what they see and value in you. Which is big help in the way of self-acceptance. Cheers ❤
the thing is since you're attracting what you are and what you are exhaling, you kinda will end up with people and their attitude matching yourself, meaning unless you have a freaking amount of chance for your actual familly, you gonna end up with people in the level you are/with the equivalent attitude, meaing you don't love yourself, people won't. Saying that by experience
I think this isa deliberate lie to cover for the deeply selfish and inadequate performance of mothers over the last 70 years. Totally failed to take care of babies in the first year of life. This is all that is vital to humans, and women have failed so completely. Evil.
you only get out of life what you invest into it. if a guy spends 15 years partying at strip clubs it would be absurd for him to wake up one day at 35 and ask the universe where his wife and his children are.
I am serious about getting married, the most common thread I’ve found is women who aren’t willing to sacrifice anything for a spouse and children. Sometimes they are open they want someone wealthy so they can trade their current life for an easier life after marriage. They want to marry someone who can buy a house, cleaning lady, pay for childcare, live on “easy” mode. Even if I were wealthy, I find the attitude very unattractive. As a healthy man, I would gladly sacrifice my body and mind to provide more than what a wife and children need but getting that message makes me not want to, while getting an attitude that she wants to do her share and gratitude for everything I do would encourage me to greater effort.
If a woman rejected relationships because she put career first, how can she expect someone to suddenly put a relationship with her as a top priority?
Makes sense. Though I do not think you "have to accept,/love yourself first, before anyone else does". If you can, that is fantastic. But your partner (and family and friends) can through their acceptance/love help you in seeing what they see and value in you. Which is big help in the way of self-acceptance. Cheers ❤
the thing is since you're attracting what you are and what you are exhaling, you kinda will end up with people and their attitude matching yourself, meaning unless you have a freaking amount of chance for your actual familly, you gonna end up with people in the level you are/with the equivalent attitude, meaing you don't love yourself, people won't. Saying that by experience
I think this isa deliberate lie to cover for the deeply selfish and inadequate performance of mothers over the last 70 years. Totally failed to take care of babies in the first year of life. This is all that is vital to humans, and women have failed so completely. Evil.
you only get out of life what you invest into it. if a guy spends 15 years partying at strip clubs it would be absurd for him to wake up one day at 35 and ask the universe where his wife and his children are.
I am serious about getting married, the most common thread I’ve found is women who aren’t willing to sacrifice anything for a spouse and children.
Sometimes they are open they want someone wealthy so they can trade their current life for an easier life after marriage. They want to marry someone who can buy a house, cleaning lady, pay for childcare, live on “easy” mode. Even if I were wealthy, I find the attitude very unattractive. As a healthy man, I would gladly sacrifice my body and mind to provide more than what a wife and children need but getting that message makes me not want to, while getting an attitude that she wants to do her share and gratitude for everything I do would encourage me to greater effort.