Monday Me vs Friday Me
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- Опубликовано: 10 окт 2024
- So how'd your meal plan go this week? I'm still trying to keep my Friday plans, but my couch is calling. Stay tuned for behind-the-scenes and bloopers! #comedy #momlife #mondayvsfriday
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This is how I used to be - Monday me would get Friday me into all kinds of grief. Since the pandemic I've morphed into being Friday me pretty much all the time, and I'm surprisingly ok about it.
I was talking about this just yesterday; about how so many ppl have become really ok with being alone, staying home and not going out with friends since the pandemic.
Couldn’t wait to get home from dinner tonight to put on my pajamas and take off the bra and lounge in my bed !!
Taking off the bra at the end of the day is the best moment of the day!
best thing about the pandemic!
That black & white thing could actually sell as Holderness merch. "Kim's Friday Night Evening Wear"! 👍😁
Period out of nowhere "because that's just where we are right now. "
49 years old and that is absolutely the most accurate thing ever.
The period also has multiple versions of itself apparently 😝
I’m 47 and perimenopause is no laughing matter…yet somehow you managed to make Friday me smile.
Have a great Friday!
I'm 54 wishing that perimenopause would let me go now. I tried of the not knowing when it will show up from month to month.
@@battlegirldeb I get that.. I'm 54 and now there's a new experience in the perimenopause condition for me. Anxiety for no good reason just showed up a couple weeks ago. Ugh. This is no joke
I will be 54 next month and I'm FREE.....!!!
@@lynnerussell4439 My severe anxiety showed up close to 40. Please take care of yourself. Nervous breakdowns are no joke. And after having chest pains and shortness of breath before the holidays, I’m now on 3 blood pressure meds. Salt is now a no go for me and it’s scary cause i really think it’s related to hormones. And sodium is everywhere, (gives an Anakin Skywalker yell of NOOOO!)
Pretty sure I fell in love with you this episode. Thanks you for making me feel normal about being an introvert, hating EVER wearing a bra (Target has these amazing sleep tank tops that make bras unnecessary-% I'm a 36 C), comfy pants and surprise periods. 47 is an interesting age. And, yes, I would like more friends-as long as I don't have to go out with them or have daily (or weekly) contact. Wow. This video really hit me.
Yep on the Bra thing!😄
Well now I have a new reason to go to Target...thanks for the tip!
@@holdernessfamilylaughs Kim does NOT need more reasons to go to Target.
I’m going to Target to find these! Thank you!
If you could do me a solid and post a link to that sleep tank, I would have to leave the house.
"I like to ignorantly start my week with some hope!" Lol😂❤😂
It happens every Monday
Period. Pants. And 3 year old bittersweet baking chocolate. And NO bra! Yup. 😂😂😂
One of my (extrovert!) best friends taught me 20 years ago that Friday nights are for chilling out at home and recuperating from the week. I've followed her teachings ever since with few exceptions, happily. :D
That was my motto too before I retired.
Agree!
I feel personally attacked💀 I wish my husband understood the struggle of being a 45 year old woman. My hormones are all over the place. Thanks for making me smile 🙂
Glad we made you smile. Have a great Friday!
Introverts unite!! Lol! You're comedic timing and delivery is excellent, Kim. Gold!
thank you!
Haha, Kim's Friday aesthetic is totally my mood, I don't want to change out of my pyjamas or put on bras from five o'clock onwards!
Glad I'm not the only one!
You forgot the part where we remember that 10 used to be when we would go out for the night and now it’s the time we go to bed 😂
That's how you know you are middle age 😂
@@holdernessfamilylaughs
I love the humor in this, but seriously, in all honesty, a frightening revelation came to me while watching this:
I'm not depressed, I'm just getting old...er, older. 🤦🏼♀️
For anyone else going through this, it's accurate _AND_ *NORMAL!*
A newborn, 21 month old and 3 year old all day all week alone... I feel you, Friday.
♥♥♥
Well God bless you! ❤
The sideways scrunchie says everything. 😂
I feel you, Kim
Oh my goodness! This is hilarious and so true. True right now. I was literally getting “dressed” into sweats and said, “I’m not leaving my house today!” 😂 right before I watched this!
Yep, it's definitely Friday today
This is hilarious and Kim is spot on. She gets us. 🤣
thanks for watching
This video speaks truth.
Well said Kim.
This was a really good one and love that you guys keep doing the behind the scenes!
thanks for watching
This video is great!!! So hilarious and true!! I also sometimes make plans for Friday and then I’m like “I don’t wanna go!” lol. Great job, Kim! Thanks, Holderness family!!🫶🏼❤️
Glad it's not just me
Omg, yes. I'm definitely an introvert and always regret making plans. Especially on the weekend. I don't get to spend a whole lot of time with my husband and 2 kids during the week so my weekends are super special to me. Making plans with others just seems like too much work for me.
“We looove people.” This is amazing.
LOL! This is too funny. My days are opposite, I drag on Mondays, then get happy on Fridays. This morning, I hopped out of bed to get ready for work, just to get it started because the weekend is near...yes!!
That's the way I was when I worked. Now I'm retired. Yay!
@@kmarch6630 Ahh, nice!! I can't wait
Holderness family you make my day! ❤
Happy Friday!
Kim, i love when u do these videos with yourself. They are so hilariously spot on! And u are hilarious.
thanks for watching!
The workout, soreness, period cycle was so on point!
Happens to me too!😂
This is my favorite Holderness video EVER! Why do we do this to ourselves?? Friday me has already postponed all my responsibilities today to next Friday because I’m too tired today 😂
Glad it's not just me!
So Monday I started on 100 day challenge! And today, Friday, I...uh... have plans for girls night...with some new friends. This video was incredibly timely.
THIS IS SO TRUE!!!! I always end up SAYING TO MYSELF “ WHAT WERE YOU THINKING ???? 😂😂😂😂😂
As an extrovert who works at home tutoring on line, I WANT to get out of the house on Friday night. The struggle is finding OTHERS who want to go out. 🤣🤣 Thankful for all my introvert friends though.
Your Monday look - was me everyday before the pandemic. Your Friday look is me everyday during and post pandemic and I don't know I'll ever go back to the Monday look ever again. LMAO
I have learned to meal prep for Mon-Thursday. If I include Friday there’s going to be too many leftovers! 😂
What makes this video so good is that so many of us can relate : )
My eyes looked like Friday's eyes for twenty years b/c of a chronic illness. Thank goodness things are getting better LOL
I love Fridays. It is the day I've procrastinated at week for! I like to finish up tasks and wash sheets and stuff. Gotta get the houses prepped for the weekend when all 6 of us are home. But I don't really enjoy social plans on Friday. In fact I have something at noon today and I want to cancel. Conveniently my 6 yr old is home sick so I can.😉
The Friday look reminds me of waking up hungover after clubbing 15 years ago lol.
Now I'm just hungover from normal Monday-Thursday life apparently 😆
This was great! I am 53 post menopausal and I can seriously relate to all of this.
Bras! Forget about it!! Fridays I am on the couch, for our movie/taco night and when I sit down, I dont want to get up and I certainly dont want to go anywhere. Lol😂
thanks for watching!
Yes! My Monday self can create more anxiety than I need. Does it seem harder for introverts to deal with the long week and then having to do something on a Friday because that positive Monday self thought it sounded like a good idea? My extroverted friends just don't understand.
I also need Saturday morning me vs Saturday evening me for all the things I think I'm going to get done and then be social... but now I have no energy after getting back from just Costco.
You are hysterical! I never realized until I saw this video that I had a Monday me and a Friday me! It’s Friday today and taking all my energy to think of making a salad.
Hilarious! It's a running joke that I will stay up too late during the week, and then go to bed early on Friday nights. 😆
I already have plans for NEXT Friday evening that I am regretting. 😆 Great video!
No worries, there's still time to cancel them 😅
I’m 48 and feel this so bad. Love you Kim it’s so relatable.
thanks for watching
It's Friday 3:30pm and I'm already on the couch watching this video. 🤣😂🥰
perfect
Not only is it Friday, and I'm off, but winter suddenly realized it was winter. There's something I really should go out and do, but I'm having a really hard time convincing myself to do it.
Well I'm definitely Friday me every day of the week and month and year. And please no new friends. Shoot I hardly see my old one's . And that perfect.
Yes….yes…yes. You get me 😂😂! Thanks for the laugh! Really appreciate the hilarious videos that are so relatable.
Glad we made you laugh
My Friday matches your Friday 100%!
This is so relatable!!
Thanks for watching
"We just luuuuv people." lol I feel you. I'm spending my Friday night sitting on the couch telling myself to get my jammies on, watching some RUclips and TV, and falling asleep. I've already been dosing. lol
Hello my friends! :D
I never leave my house after dark, so I'm with you on the couch. I'd never put a bra back on, unless going to a doctors appointment, and then its a sports bra, no underwires for me ever again. :D
I love your Friday look, that's so honest for a lot of us, me without the makeup, but still true. LOL! :D
God bless you and your wonderful family. Have an awesome day my fabulous friends! :D
Frosty, I think we are the same person. I live on top of a mountain and am always home by dusk; forgrt ever wearing a bra-Target has these amazing sleep tank tops that make wearing a bra obsolete, especially in the winter when we wear sweaters. As far as friends, it has to be a super planned big deal and then I have to talk myself out of canceling. It's so enjoyable being isolated and comfy. Yeah, doctors appointments and twice a month running errands are the only reason for makeup and doing my hair. I'm only 47 but I happily live like a fussy 90 year old.
Those are some dog mom reflexes!!!
But seriously though, I'm feeling that mood shift this week. Monday started out so jazzed, amazing mood, cooking my Mediterrenean meal plan then Thursday hits and somehow I start and can't friggin stop crying. I was super happy the day before but pms walloped me overnight and my hormones made me feel completely weepy, could not stop all morning. So Thursday was tacos and brownies night!
This is me now at 38 - but it is more like the 5am version of me vs the 5pm version of me. The 5:00am version has a neat checklist I intend to check-off by day’s end, and has her “work/going out-appropriate” outfit ready to go, and truly intends to have dinner and drinks with her friends after work. The 5:00pm version of me checked out at 3pm and prays one of her friends cancels so she can pretend to be disappointed via group text and stop at the store for ice cream before heading home.
I’ve learned to shop for groceries according to the ‘open-ended’ method. I do have to say that I live in Europe, where the distance between holes and supermarkets is much shorter and it’s normal to do a grocery run at least once a week, often twice or more. How it goes is:
Take stock of all meal food items in the house, but in units. One unit means one family meal or, if you’ve got kids who are starting to build their own social life and not eating at home for every meal, one unit might be for a 1-person meal or a 2-person meal.
Stock might equal X amount of veggie units, Y amount of protein units, Z amount of starch units etc.
Question: how many units of each do I need to provide meals until the next scheduled grocery run?
Answer: A veggie units, B protein units, C starch units etc.
Make a list stating that, and only that, plus what you have in the house. Head to the grocery store. Check what’s on offer on site, choose according to what’s on offer and what you already have. Focus on what I call ‘meal flexibility’: items you might easily ‘recycle’ into a new meal if there are leftovers. For example: leftover steamed veggies can end up in a stirfry with leftover protein. Leftover gravy or sauce can be added to soup. Leftover sausage can go into a stirfry, a soup, or be used on a sandwich/bread based meal. Leftover salad leaves can go into a soup, or garnish a sandwich, or into a green smoothie. Leftover bolognaise sauce, with the addition of a few spices and some beans can be a faux chili if you’re not from Texas (in which case it would be bean stew), etc etc etc. Ground meat can morph into burgers, meatballs, bolognaise, chili, meatloaf. Stewing beef can be chili, boeuf bourguignon, part of a soup, stew, curry… chicken with the skin on (thigh and drumstick together) can go in the oven (traybake or roasted solo), in a soup (take skin off), pot pie (debone and skin), on the BBQ…
Based on the proteins you have, head to the veggie section and the spices section to create a flexible haul that allows you to build meals according to your mood or energy level. And if your oven is large enough, there’s nothing wrong with roasting two separate meats simultaneously for two separate days. Partially prepped meals that can basically be thrown together in a flash at the end of the week are a life saver. Fridays are often “must-go-mystery-casseroles” or “must-go-stirfry” nights.
The amount of times Monday Me planned lasagna later in the week for me to change my mind and end up making bolognaise on Wednesday followed by “something vaguely reminiscent of Chili” on Friday are countless.
It should be noted that at my house, soups aren’t “leak soup”, “tomato soup”, “pumpkin soup” etc. They go by the colour they end up being when I’m done making them. “Green soup” can contain leek, broccoli, lettuce, peas, chard, kale, Brussels sprouts… etc. “Red soup” will often be based on tomatoes and/or bell peppers with anything that won’t alter that colour too much: pumpkin, cauliflower, carrots, etc. “Orange soup” will contain any variety of white, yellow and orange veggies.
I found that this provides a balance between frugality (everything gets used up) and relaxation. Monday Me gets to shop for groceries. Friday Me gets to throw together a bunch of stuff and call it a day. And a good supply of herbs, spices and pastes covers up a multitude of sins as long as you use them fearlessly.
I can relate to this video 100%! PS-totally on my couch!
This is me every week!!! Love it!
Welcome to my world😂... Planned stuff for my 43rd last Monday, and voila! The Period showed up that morning...what?! And had me in bed till late evening, found me taking pain meds and dealing with mood swings... Life's surprises for my 43rd birthday!Why didn't that happen 30 years ago!
found this channel today and this made me smile. Just subscribed!!
I plan our meal calendar on Sundays. When I sit down to the healthy, nutritious meal on a future day, I sometimes grumble at past me for setting it up.
Friday Kim is an absolute mood. Yes it's Friday and hell yes I'm home. Friday evening plans, are you kidding me? :D
It’s so funny how when our youth Friday night was the night to let loose and go out and see everybody and now as an adult I just want to hang out in my house with no social pressure… also not wearing uncomfortable things that hold body parts
This is definitely me as well. Between being introverted and being on the spectrum, I will be really excited for something but by the time that something comes around I will be absolutely burnt out half the time.
As I am lying around watching videos on a Friday night LOL
Fridays eyes! A whole mood
I naturally slid into slacker mode 10 years ago and haven’t the need to change!🤣
Its Friday and I literally look like Friday Kim, eating chips and watching youtube 😏
2:05 "I'll see you right here, real soon." [patting couch]
I am totally on the couch sick because I overdid it this week. Sigh. This video is totally realistic!
Feel better soon!
Yep. It’s Friday and I already planned to skip tonight!
Enjoy your night of cancelled plans!
So relating😂 This is every week!
I appreciate my friends who are my "high maintenance/low maintenance friends" - those who I know and love and are in my prayers and I love hearing updates (high) but if we don't talk or see each other for years at a time, it's cool because we're busy and there's a lot of really good tv on and it's reciprocal (low). Friday me just wants to watch a movie. But that's also every day me.
I feel seen. Honestly this is me but I typically try to avoid Friday plans because I really just want a Friday night comfy on the couch.
Soo relatable...although my Friday self shows up after work Wednesdays these days 😴
Friday Me (getting ready to go out for coffee): “Monday Me, ya did me dirty!”
I'm already dreading heading out later this afternoon/early evening just to pick up my shop from home order and dinner. Wasn't planned Monday; I thought about it Wednesday 😕🙄!
I applaud your Monday YOU. My Friday ME has been loud, proud, and in charge my whole life... including these past twenty-nine years of marriage while raising two kids 😂
🤣 I don't know the name of what Friday you is wearing but I have one and I live in it (my best friend gave it to me for Christmas)😂 this is totally me- ambitious Monday and exhausted Friday, love y'all!
I could live in this thing!
I think Kim should do another one with the fashion designers meeting about the new looks again. I loved that one.
The kid's game might start at 8PM but they need to be there in the morning. Volleyball tournaments are sooo long. It's an 8 to 9 hour day and they play 4 games, minimum 1 hour drive each way too.
good guy Penn catching the smokey eye look 😅👍
I am with you on the three-year-old baking chocolate 😂
This is me every week!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Staying home tonight as usual 😂
Lol!! We have Family Dinner Night every Friday at my house...so I cannot veg until Saturday. 😞 But then there is always stuff so do around the house over the weekend too. Usually I go and go and go until my brain and body force me to take a veg day. Sigh...
Planning my day in my pjs reviewing how well I did yesterday, which was Monday. But it’s after 10:00 am and I’ve had breakfast but no shower yet. This hits hard!!!
I’m watching this on Friday morning and dreading my big Friday night plans… I should know myself better.🤦♀️
Friday night comments... yup! Totally accurate 🤣🤣🤣
Monday me thought I’d use my evenings SO WISELY to get all my creative stuff done. Friday me has barely started them but will probably be up late tonight riding the Friday high to get a sewing pattern drafted
😆 This could start a series!!?😉 January me vs February me, 2019 me vs 2020 me, Summer me vs Winter me 🤣🤣
Love the "behind the scenes".
Your Friday has real 'Phoebe when she's gonna lay down some truths' vibes.
I hate Mondays and the Friday version of you, is the Saturday version of me. 🤣 I just love scrolling Tik Tok on the weekends! And also, love the Taylor Swift reference in the behind the scenes portion of the video! 👍
Sports mom here. I’ve got a varsity basketball game to go cheer on and there are definitely days I don’t want to do anything.
"But do you love people after 5 on a Friday?" 🤣 I mean let's just be honest with ourselves, here!
Friday me feels personally attacked. 😂
😂😂 those are the only two versions that exist of myself.
But they alternate at random.. 😬😬🙈
By the way, love the attention to detail with the sign and the make up.
It's like everyday is a new surprise, haha
@@holdernessfamilylaughs pretty much, yea 😅
Yup. "Monday me" made plans for a girl's day Friday. Then was absolutely elated that my friend got sick and couldn't go. Not glad she was sick, just was glad to "be excused" from a shopping trip " Friday me" wasn't interested in..
Where I come from, cold weather makes a “Friday” me!
Hi Kim, I completely relate to this video! This Friday I am going to go home, take a nap, order pizza for myself and my child and then think about catching up on work. Luckily for me, I did not have a Monday version of myself this week.... ; )
sounds like a great Friday
Friday me is heading for comfy clothes and a night on the couch scrolling through TikTok right now!
Love this upload!!! I was just saying the other day that the last time I remember ever WANTING to go out on Friday night is when I was about 28 years old. Close to half my lifetime ago, lol. It would be easy to say that it’s the fear of gun violence, fear of pandemic illness, and traffic that has me wanting to stay in… but The reality is that I was doing an introvert’s job instead of an extrovert’s job while actually being an introvert :) lol
As always, you make me smile! I know you're not looking for new friends, but if you and I could share a couch on Fridays, we could insert that part about having drinks but just do it from your couch!! Just hoping you have a guest room because those Friday drinks can get a bit rough!