Do ASIANS Date the Same Way?

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  • Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024

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  • @ashome13
    @ashome13 Год назад +1053

    The Indian girl’s eyeshadow is really on point, matches her blouse perfectly.

    • @WastedBananas
      @WastedBananas Год назад

      Indians aren’t Asian

    • @zomacchy16
      @zomacchy16 Год назад +47

      It's not a blouse its a crop top

    • @abhishekghosh4384
      @abhishekghosh4384 Год назад +9

      Great observation skills by the way. 👍

    • @ashome13
      @ashome13 Год назад +1

      @@abhishekghosh4384 ধন্যবাদ ভাই

    • @abhishekghosh4384
      @abhishekghosh4384 Год назад +2

      @@ashome13 আপনাকে স্বাগতম

  • @RAIN__1996
    @RAIN__1996 Год назад +888

    Only One Asian can understand other Asian problems 😂 Great content 👏
    Love from India 🇮🇳

    • @akmn4505
      @akmn4505 Год назад +3

      Indian subcontinent.

    • @ashkanzahoor7242
      @ashkanzahoor7242 Год назад +16

      ​@@akmn4505 India is an Asian country and Indians are also Asians, and it's South Asia

    • @Simpyy0_0
      @Simpyy0_0 Год назад +1

      @user-st3bm4fu6i like seriously bruhh!?? We Nepalese don't have to celebrate independence day unlike you guys then how the heck you're spitting some hearsay or ig it's not even hearsay that's a Fact and matter fact your former ruler, British tried but got kicked in their arses countless times and on top of that the audacity to mock Nepalese people's dignity without some proper research can lead you to possible serious circumstances

    • @Simpyy0_0
      @Simpyy0_0 Год назад

      @user-st3bm4fu6i now firstly I get what you're trying to say and it's respectful but ya know u can't just point out the reality. even if the land was one , you can't take out someone's uniqueness as the time passed . I agree that majority of the our proportion have similar cultures and stuff , I'm aware that it's a good thing to have freedom and you seem to have this false information that I'm egoistic Abt our status but trust me I'm respectful to your country and the support that you guys offer and likewise ✌️

    • @akmn4505
      @akmn4505 Год назад

      @official.asia.military Indian subcontinent you mean

  • @rheam3920
    @rheam3920 Год назад +817

    Whats funny is that as a teenager I was so sick of my country's culture around dating and sex but now as an adult when I look at the western culture of dating I feel great that we at least have these customs where we are encouraged to focus on ourselves before getting involved in sexual relationships, where we don't have to be 'exclusive' to show our partner basic human decency and not date around, and where we value our friends and family's opinion on our lives.
    I mean yes there is an extreme side to it too but in general I believe we have progressed to a point where a lot of us have found middle ground.

    • @Nandini_Dwivedi
      @Nandini_Dwivedi Год назад +75

      Yeah bro , after watching American shows and stuff ,i mean thier lifestyle sucks , im glad to be born in india 🇮🇳😌😅

    • @ZaWarudo69
      @ZaWarudo69 Год назад +36

      Unfortunately, India is devolving in my opinion.. Social media has ruined the youth of India, making double meaning jokes literally every minute... swearing every second.. and what’s wild is that I even heard a group of girls talking about their body counts.. we were only in 10th grade. And I’m sure they didn’t even what what body count even meant.

    • @hey_you.
      @hey_you. Год назад +7

      ​@@ZaWarudo69 wtf boys love talking about their body counts

    • @progamer-hm6fn
      @progamer-hm6fn Год назад

      @@hey_you. see for boys they have to earn sex by their skill but for girls it's very easy to sleep around🤷

    • @dr.iswarchandbidyasagar7856
      @dr.iswarchandbidyasagar7856 Год назад +7

      @@ZaWarudo69 I literally heard some of the girls behind me in my coaching talking about her sugar dady like srsly whatt?

  • @vanessahobbes3072
    @vanessahobbes3072 Год назад +676

    Yeah I watched Indian match making on Netflix and loved it. I initially thought consent wasn’t a consideration, which I learned it is. So arranged marriages are not a weird concept to me at all now. I mean, tinder is weirder imo. And I was on it so I can say that haha. Love happens in the most unique of places and you never though.

    • @vanessahobbes3072
      @vanessahobbes3072 Год назад +30

      Yeah agreed! I was like why do the west think this is weird, makes way more logical sense then my app dating haha.

    • @siddhuji5868
      @siddhuji5868 Год назад +44

      Consent is common nowadays. But earlier, like 100 years ago, it was not much of thing. But that was everywhere.
      India has been strangely progressive on many women's issues. For example, india granted women right to vote since independence in 1947. The colonial Britain and France granted women right to vote later than 1947. Soviet Union also was very ahead of western world on women's rights.

    • @aiswaryabersan7983
      @aiswaryabersan7983 Год назад +37

      Arranged marriage was common in all culture. In Europe most royal marriage were arranged don't know why it turned so weird for Europeans

    • @ritishakapoor1513
      @ritishakapoor1513 Год назад +32

      Ah yes, average western opinion that arranged marriage = forced marriage.

    • @ritishakapoor1513
      @ritishakapoor1513 Год назад +5

      @@aiswaryabersan7983 Hollywood happen

  • @mikutachibana315
    @mikutachibana315 Год назад +425

    I love everyone step forward together on the first questions 😆Asian countries have a lots of similarities but also a lots of differences too 😋and that’s so beautiful! ❤

    • @pikachuthunderbolt3919
      @pikachuthunderbolt3919 Год назад +8

      and tasty food 😋

    • @direwolf7491
      @direwolf7491 Год назад +6

      Languages used to be similar too. Colonization ruined everything.
      Like there are so many similar words in Chinese and Bengali. Korean and Tamil etc.

    • @vedantvaishnav6463
      @vedantvaishnav6463 Год назад

      Just one to be specific... Genghis Khan ruled you but not us 😂😂❤

    • @0jai0maha0KAL
      @0jai0maha0KAL Год назад +1

      Take as positive way i think that Asian country culture is more similar to Indian because of the Buddhism and Jainism they are originated in India and spread to all over world.😊

  • @mainKhushhoon1
    @mainKhushhoon1 Год назад +531

    I'm from Northeast Indian and I disagree with this girl in some point. India is a diverse land and you cannot judge whole India by North Indian perspective. Every state the culture is different and that is what I love about my country.

    • @sax_cy
      @sax_cy Год назад +80

      That's what rest of the world needs to understand ...India is like a mini-Europe ...different cultures bound together by a single ethos. North India, Butter Chicken, Taj Mahal and Bhangra is not just what India is about and every Indian should make this a point to educate the rest of the world..especially North Indians who promote that only their culture is what India is all about.

    • @bunnyff8644
      @bunnyff8644 Год назад +1

      Right bro 😊😊😊

    • @Rahulkumar-uj1cx
      @Rahulkumar-uj1cx Год назад +4

      @@sax_cy Good Point 👍👍

    • @moviestaan2858
      @moviestaan2858 Год назад +6

      @@sax_cy bro major part of Europe share same culture
      You won't find any difference in some countries while visiting europe

    • @kavitathakur2223
      @kavitathakur2223 Год назад +7

      We are so diverse sometime it's difficult to explain

  • @compashinpei
    @compashinpei Год назад +196

    I think most people in Japan simply do not care if a couple is kissing each other in public. But its would be weird if they do that in front of their friends or family

    • @ilovenoodles7483
      @ilovenoodles7483 Год назад

      You Japanese or Latino or both?

    • @compashinpei
      @compashinpei Год назад +2

      @@ilovenoodles7483 Japanese 100%

    • @mobagenie
      @mobagenie Год назад +1

      huh? so you think other country will slap or kick someone that kissing each other in public? as Indonesian expect in Aceh there is no law or rule thath kissing in public is forbiden. but if someone do that then its w be so weird an awkard too but no one will punch or slap you because of that. i mean there is no diference betwen japan and Indonesia aon other Asian. that is just basic Asian

    • @peachmo4867
      @peachmo4867 Год назад +12

      @@mobagenie in India it's forbidden ... or maybe not by law but I've seen people beating the shit out of couples even hugging in public lol

    • @maremaralte5939
      @maremaralte5939 Год назад +3

      ​@youalrightboi158i dont know which village you live in but in cities it different i just confirm it is truely wrong, in a park you will see many couple kissing, some hide their face some are ok to do that

  • @aciuschristophores7789
    @aciuschristophores7789 Год назад +200

    3:27 "I dont think young people do that (love confession) anymore. It's all about money now"
    Truer words have never been spoken.

  • @kilanspeaks
    @kilanspeaks Год назад +314

    I was confused when Alfred stepped forward for the matchmaking question because traditional matchmaking like in India is not that common in Indonesia, but then when he mentioned matchmaking by friends I find myself agreeing to him “Oh THAT’s what he meant by matchmaking!” *nodding vigorously

    • @abandonedfragmentofhope5415
      @abandonedfragmentofhope5415 Год назад +11

      You guys need to turn it into an industry cause that can make you some good money if something like that exists in Indonesian culture anyways.

    • @kilanspeaks
      @kilanspeaks Год назад +16

      @@abandonedfragmentofhope5415 Interesting question, this is how our culture differs with others like South Asian. In Indonesia, getting your friend to match you with someone they know personally is seen as something casual; if it works then great, but if not then it’s like, “Oh well” 🤷‍♂️. Going to an actual matchmaking agency, on the other hand, would be perceived as something “desperate” by many people and would only be done in secret. Although nowadays with so many dating apps there’s less need for such business anymore (matchmaking agency).

    • @newbabies923
      @newbabies923 Год назад +11

      I think depends on where you are, in Sulawesi matchmaking by your parents is pretty common cause they want to find you someone who has money

    • @pace2999
      @pace2999 Год назад +1

      @@newbabies923 exactly in sulawesi island there's still parents who still want to matchmaking.

    • @WastedBananas
      @WastedBananas Год назад

      Indians aren’t Asian

  • @TJSaw
    @TJSaw Год назад +54

    Asian girls have the most gorgeous hair! Thick, black, shiny and healthy!

    • @nammi895
      @nammi895 Год назад

      ❤❤

    • @rupaschannel5856
      @rupaschannel5856 Год назад +7

      Yes, i like our asian black hair. I don't like blonde hair

  • @abhijeetSingh-px8mz
    @abhijeetSingh-px8mz Год назад +258

    India is a great country india have every skin tone and eyes asian to african to cocsian diverse north to south

    • @Userkangjihoon23451
      @Userkangjihoon23451 Год назад +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @rupaschannel5856
      @rupaschannel5856 Год назад +15

      @@Userkangjihoon23451 why u r laughing?

    • @Userkangjihoon23451
      @Userkangjihoon23451 Год назад +3

      @@rupaschannel5856 nothing... 🤣🤣🤣

    • @direwolf7491
      @direwolf7491 Год назад +31

      ​@@rohmatullailiyah7134 Grow up kid. Indian food has been ranked top 5 in the world.

    • @shivank8105
      @shivank8105 Год назад +21

      @@rohmatullailiyah7134 he is a katwa. Leave him.

  • @nataliasolita8152
    @nataliasolita8152 Год назад +127

    Loved the video. Asians are still so nicely shy and timid that in comparison with "progressive" Europe and North America is a pleasure to see. Other videos are more fun - relaxed and entertaining whereas this one is like another level, a balm to an educated soul.

    • @SatnaamM
      @SatnaamM Год назад +4

      That's probably the biggest difference between Indian culture and other Asian cultures. We're very similar in a lot of ways, but Indians aren't shy. We can be very blunt in situations where other asians would be shy and beat around the bush. I've also observed this among Chinese people. Ironic that the two powers with the largest populations in the world, also seem to be the least shy.

    • @patty7877
      @patty7877 Год назад

      Im latino. And indian are shy and slow if you compare whit ares

  • @kpoppergirl6235
    @kpoppergirl6235 Год назад +61

    Indian girl is so gorgeous .

  • @prettysavage8230
    @prettysavage8230 Год назад +52

    The indian girl is very beautiful

  • @manannarula9624
    @manannarula9624 Год назад +108

    I just want to say don't be ashamed of your culture instead be proud of where you are born. Don't see it from western perspective, westerners even don't have their own culture but we do. Also there is every answer for your question you just need to find right person.

    • @tangerine_16
      @tangerine_16 Год назад +5

      ya you are right but not all the practices of a culture are right some of them are questionable and we need to change them other than that it's really nice to have a culture diff from everyone and follow that

    • @sam.r8610
      @sam.r8610 Год назад +8

      I agree with ur opinion but just don't say western don't have their culture infact they have it shows that still u r comparing and disrespecting towards other race which is not cool

  • @osagiee.guobadia-secondytc4624
    @osagiee.guobadia-secondytc4624 Год назад +62

    This video is kind of interesting to know why Asian countries are different. The Filipino young adult is kind of like talking the truth about finishing your education (like finishing college) before you start dating someone. This is so true when your education needs to be finished.

  • @aryanshukla7305
    @aryanshukla7305 Год назад +87

    Yeah India has like a lot of things more than half of marriages are still completely arranged while the others are mixes of different but it's like way easier to accept a guy having a love marriage or a city girl rather than just a girl or a rural girl

    • @dvine3488
      @dvine3488 Год назад

      bcoz girls are easily manipulated and highly emotional...its easier to trick them and it is to trick men...we saw what happened in the aftab shraddha case....when boys fall in love,they do a complete background check...girls don't,they fall too easily and build trust very quickly...

    • @koyelhalder7308
      @koyelhalder7308 Год назад

      No in my village or you can say a small town we are allowed to date or love marriage in west bengal nowadays it's kind awkward for me because I am single but for my family dating before marriage is acceptable

    • @aryanshukla7305
      @aryanshukla7305 Год назад +1

      @@koyelhalder7308 Good I think for my parents it's more about control which I dont ever give them but my siblings do it's not about tradition or caste or region its just control i think that know that we date without telling them but I don't atleast not until I have finished college and can be open

    • @koyelhalder7308
      @koyelhalder7308 Год назад

      @@aryanshukla7305 for my parents or I could say my whole family like marriage what's that be independent first and be capable of doing or achieve something in your life then do whatever you want

  • @georginagia
    @georginagia Год назад +69

    I found this fascinating as I am a European married to an Asian but we are in a Western country. So good to know! I’d love to see similar videos like this with people from Europe, Mediterranean, Africa, Middle East, etc. Great vid!

  • @Wupas4789
    @Wupas4789 Год назад +16

    I don't know why, but I am feeling a certain chemistry between the Chinese guy and the Indian girl.😅

  • @tj2375
    @tj2375 Год назад +51

    From what the participants explain in these countries people don't "date". It's tiring to have "date" and "dating" used has a synonym for people's love lives when it's a concept that doesn't translate to so many cultures.

  • @ggautamr4677
    @ggautamr4677 Год назад +42

    Indian girl is pretty

  • @love_your_mountain
    @love_your_mountain Год назад +7

    In north east India. Group dates are common..
    Parents are not involved until it's a quite a long time
    There are no matchmaking in the NE India also.

  • @muskandas4173
    @muskandas4173 Год назад +31

    The Indian girl is so pretty♥️⭐🦋

  • @yohanesdari4904
    @yohanesdari4904 Год назад +18

    Superb video. Actually there are lots of similarities in Asians traditions, perspectives and attitudes. They stepped forward many times together.

  • @maaziy_ghaziyIYI
    @maaziy_ghaziyIYI Год назад +287

    Guys in the videos! Don't approach or gauge or judge your own cultures through Western paradigm. You'll arrive at the wrong conclusions and will feel ashamed or inferior. You don't necessarily have to be proud or shamed of your culture. It is what it is. Take it or leave it.

    • @silveryfeather208
      @silveryfeather208 Год назад +29

      I don't feel inferior. But I do know every culture should work and improve. The whole 'take it or leave it' is how we had, in human history, women who couldn't vote, who didn't have a voice.

    • @cilthepen
      @cilthepen Год назад +8

      I don't know what you're talking about. Their telling what they see and experience. That's why they only answer agree and disagree.

    • @Tu51ndBl4d3
      @Tu51ndBl4d3 Год назад +1

      Yup that's what the world has turned to. It's happening everywhere. No one even knows why their cultures are the way it is, they only see it through western lenses, pretending that they are "progressive".

    • @notmanymore1521
      @notmanymore1521 Год назад +9

      Not everybody in the west thinks those cultures are inferior either. In fact, I sometimes really hoped that matchmaking and arranged marriage was an acceptable and normal thing in my culture (it is not), as for me it would solve a huge hassle of having to jump from dating app to dating app, filtering through hundreds of men who are nowhere near looking for marriage.

    • @maegalroammis6020
      @maegalroammis6020 Год назад

      japanese and thais persons are the worst to date

  • @_pRoXiMuS
    @_pRoXiMuS Год назад +1942

    India be like:- Everything happens here 🤡...

  • @matthewmann8969
    @matthewmann8969 Год назад +108

    From what I get online and in person a lot is that Asians usually prefer to date there own Asian group like Chinese dating Chinese, Japanese dating Japanese, Korean dating Korean, Mongolian dating Mongolian, And the listing goes on and continues and resumes and plays on yeah.

    • @ilovenoodles7483
      @ilovenoodles7483 Год назад +20

      As a Asian, I concur.
      And that's not like that for everybody, because it is up to the individual, but for the most part it is true.
      Most Asians want to preserve their culture especially if they are residing in a country that is not their native one.
      I used to think that was racist but as I get older- ish (😂 I'm still young,- 40's) I understand it and there's nothing wrong with it.
      My children are actually mixed race, and although there's nothing wrong with that, I live in a country that's not my native ethnicity, but in the country that I do live in, there's absolutely _no_ shortage of my kid's race, the side that's not my own race.
      So, even if my kids did not have their family anymore, they would still know enough about their side of race (that is not the same as mine.)
      It's all over our environment -with the language, the culture, the food, other people's of same race, the clothes, etc.
      The only thing my kids know about my side of their race is what I pass on to them, and from doing research, like RUclips videos of our race's life and lifestyle, etc.
      So my point is that, once I die, my particular race might not be passed down to generations, unless my kids' marry an Asian and also have children with the same said Asian group as me.
      The country I live in doesn't really shed light on or promote Asian life, although they kind of try.
      I don't blame them though because they really can't, because they are not my native country.
      Just like if I was living in China, no one would be one hundred percent accurate about portraying life and culture in say Papa New Guinea or what not.
      Also with Asians, it's so diverse.
      Each ethnicity is completely different from another country, even though we're all still Asian.
      I don't know if you're American or not, but I have noticed that it's really just an American thing to think that all Asians are the same or all Latinos are the same or all Africans are the same, etc.
      In Africa, everyone is proud of their particular race and country, they don't have a blanket saying calling every one and each other just "Black." An Ethiopian would be very offended if you call them an Ugandan even though both are from Africa and they both claim that they are African and they're both Black in skin tone.
      And look at what is going on in Europe; Russians don't go around calling themselves Ukrainian even though they're both the same color of skin and both European.

    • @softsakura
      @softsakura Год назад +5

      What’s the link with this video ?

    • @zigman3105
      @zigman3105 Год назад

      False. The don't want tiny penis soy asian men. They usually date them out of family obligations or financial reasons

    • @epsilonxvi5675
      @epsilonxvi5675 Год назад +1

      @@ilovenoodles7483 40s is not young and what i know is Asian Woman in the west look down there own kind and marry white man than when white man devorce them because they already get the sex. They usually put asian man in there last list to date and marry them like a beta provider. Asian dude get more sex with other race of woman than with Asian woman in the west
      You asian woman look down on your own asian man especially i am talking about the south east asian and east asian.
      I believed that in Asia the man prefere to marry 18 to 30s, only few daye above 40s and single mom..
      You put white man as your first instead your own kind you are the only woman act like that in the west but in asia its the filipina.

    • @imaafrikaaner4669
      @imaafrikaaner4669 Год назад

      @@ilovenoodles7483 in africa we still have race here. Black , white,mixed and asians. Black will identify as their tribe with other black but acknowledge their race with non black pple

  • @emilaslan3316
    @emilaslan3316 Год назад +175

    The Indian girl is super gorgeous.

    • @hirenahir76200
      @hirenahir76200 Год назад +3

      Naah

    • @ashwinvk4124
      @ashwinvk4124 Год назад +18

      ​@@hirenahir76200 she really is very attractive

    • @direwolf7491
      @direwolf7491 Год назад +13

      She is ok normal from an Indian perspective
      May be a 7😅

    • @Pant10
      @Pant10 Год назад

      Sure is but i don't like how she fakes her accent a lot . Cringe asf

    • @Pant10
      @Pant10 Год назад +2

      @ashwin don't forget there is tons of make up there, without it yeah def 7/10 or something

  • @mercedesbenz3751
    @mercedesbenz3751 Год назад +97

    7:01
    About That Manglik thing :-
    A person born under the influence of Mars as per Hindu astrology is said to have "mangala dosha"; such a person is called a Mangalika.
    Mars is considered the planet of war, Mangal dosh creates highly unfavorable circumstances for marriage. In the married life of such persons, tensions, discomfort, unhappiness and separations are very much expected. Most of such people experience disharmony in family life.
    In my knowledge, a Manglik person should marry only a manglik person. My aunt is a manglik and she married a non-manglik guy and they don't have kids even after 25 years of marriage.

    • @mahimapanwar4293
      @mahimapanwar4293 Год назад +13

      i'm manglik too. but if you see, 40% of the earth population is manglik lol

    • @dazzly6109
      @dazzly6109 Год назад +12

      Not having kids after marriage isn’t a bad thing lol

    • @AradhyaPandey-q2w
      @AradhyaPandey-q2w Год назад +13

      @@dazzly6109 not producing kid means you did not have contributed in continuation of human species, in ancient time it was considered bad but not now.

    • @AradhyaPandey-q2w
      @AradhyaPandey-q2w Год назад +10

      @@mahimapanwar4293 40% that's very big number , maglik dosh isn't that common beacuse postition of other stars also matters not just mars.

    • @dazzly6109
      @dazzly6109 Год назад +5

      @@AradhyaPandey-q2w yeah we have 8 Billion humans now. I think that’s really enough… population is only going to increase

  • @dev_peace_soul
    @dev_peace_soul Год назад +39

    YASSS INDIAN QUEEEN ☝️
    YOU DID GREAT JOB
    GURL YOU SLAYYYY

  • @ayushi72
    @ayushi72 Год назад +33

    The Chinese guy is so good looking. His laugh is very endearing.

  • @surabhikashyap241
    @surabhikashyap241 Год назад +12

    I love the Chinese guy especially his smile. Should have included one Korean too plus someone from West, Central and Northern Asia.

  • @phillipii4709
    @phillipii4709 Год назад +30

    Abhivyakti's abhivyakti was on point. She is smart.

  • @introvert2023
    @introvert2023 Год назад +17

    Indian Girl explained India very nicely. I appreciate.

  • @aakashjana6225
    @aakashjana6225 Год назад +16

    In short Asian countries are conservative and Asian people are shy. Hence natural bonding between men and women of same age is less than other continents. Nothing wrong with that but definitely has pros and cons.

  • @NewFelixTwo
    @NewFelixTwo Год назад +14

    Thanks for including India in Asia

    • @marikitako6195
      @marikitako6195 Год назад

      Are they Asians?just kidding😂😂😂😂😂

  • @I_am_FRANCO
    @I_am_FRANCO Год назад +74

    I love this video I hope All asian countries unify with love

  • @wavstudionet
    @wavstudionet Год назад +15

    @Dating Beyond Borders Please do A video series on "What Dating A Bicultural Partner is Like." I had a Canadian friend whose mother is traditional Korean and father is indigenous Canadian. They influenced how she approached dating before she ultimately went her own way.

  • @tobiojo6469
    @tobiojo6469 Год назад +21

    Please keep making more videos like this

  • @indiantiger4595
    @indiantiger4595 Год назад +132

    India agreeing in everything except that Oyo thing 🗿

  • @_asingh
    @_asingh Год назад +25

    3:20 moment of truth, respect bro.

  • @Hengul
    @Hengul Год назад +14

    Abhivyakti knows her things. She is explaining everything clearly😀

  • @sax_cy
    @sax_cy Год назад +40

    One thing that the "Indian" girl doesn't get it right is on the fact that her perspective is not "Indian" to begin with...it's probably reflective of the region and mindset of the people/region her family comes from....mostly North Indian....there's a huge India outside the region her family comes from....My family is a mix of Maharashtrian and Keralite...and I want to say that we might actually have a waaaaay different outlook from the "Indian" girl here. I think any Indian trying to "represent" India should start of with a disclaimer that India is like a mini-Europe with each state and region ever so different in its culture, language, food ,etc. India is not just Taj Mahal, Butter Chicken, and Bhangra!...it's like saying All of Europe should be represented by Eiffel tower and Croissants...how would the Germans, Italians, Greek, Spaniards, etc feel?..so think of India and its vast and extremely diverse culture through a similar lens.

    • @VedicGuy
      @VedicGuy Год назад +1

      How is dating like in your end?

    • @knv9090
      @knv9090 Год назад +3

      So then, what is your outlook -- why don't you state it here instead of just criticizing her? China is huge, and so is Indonesia. No need to state obvious disclaimers about differences in culture.

    • @SandeepMeena79
      @SandeepMeena79 Год назад +1

      When you call her north indian and considered all northern Indian State have same culture itself is stereotypes and your ignorance. A north west rajasthani and gujrati culture is highly different from a bihar society and culture. First learn to respect every State.

    • @SandeepMeena79
      @SandeepMeena79 Год назад

      Your so called north indian image is from Delhi or sarrounded area but it's better you should learn about difference in many north States.

  • @johngonzalez4298
    @johngonzalez4298 Год назад +25

    Happy Thursday, Marina! Japanese 🇯🇵 women are very beautiful in my perspective. More videos like this please. Sending my love from Miami, Florida, USA 🇺🇲

  • @soniajasrotia374
    @soniajasrotia374 Год назад +14

    Indian damn her dress n makeup beautiful

  • @harshitabhuyan8892
    @harshitabhuyan8892 Год назад +48

    Let me clear up what the indian girl said, she was only talking about the arranged marriage scenario, normal young people also date without involving the families at all in India. I think she is only speaking from a very conservative family perspective. She should have highlighted that things vary depending on families and regions you're from.

    • @rahulvats95
      @rahulvats95 Год назад +14

      If my mom finds out I am dating a girl they would want me to get married quickly or leave her.

    • @raghurajan336
      @raghurajan336 Год назад +1

      @@rahulvats95 same here

    • @AYUSHKUMAR-yw7hj
      @AYUSHKUMAR-yw7hj Год назад +8

      Nah..😅Dating culture and having a girlfriend is not common in India. But things are changing quickly here.

    • @knv9090
      @knv9090 Год назад +5

      Dating publicly without family involvement at all is very rare in India. Remember that a few westernised people in a couple of big metros are a small minority in the billion population.

    • @TechnoArpan
      @TechnoArpan Месяц назад

      @@AYUSHKUMAR-yw7hj depends on where you are. Pretty common in cities

  • @PaulM68322
    @PaulM68322 Год назад +44

    I had a Vietnamese girlfriend who I met in Vietnam
    I was having dinner with her family one day and they were talking about partners cheating. I asked her sister how many men do they think cheat in Vietnam, she said about 70%
    I asked her why she thought that was. She said he had no idea.
    I asked her if she thought it was because men and women only seem to marry out of pressure and self/family/society imposed ideals and not because they took the time to get to know whether they actually like each other or not.
    Apparently she never thought about it that way before.......

    • @ritishakapoor1513
      @ritishakapoor1513 Год назад +9

      Assuming you're from the west, it's kind of ironic coming from a person wherein despite the liberal norms of dating cheating still exists in huge numbers possibly more than the 70% you got to know in vietnam.
      Very similar to those folks who preach about increasing birth rates to Japan, meanwhile despite having different policies their country's birth rate isn't different either.

    • @PaulM68322
      @PaulM68322 Год назад +4

      @Ritisha Kapoor I'd assume your ideas of 'western' = America, you do realise that there are many many many countries considered to be the 'west' that doesn't include America, cheating in my country might in fact happen, but it's considered to be so taboo that you would be ostracized socially from many groups and will be constantly reminded that you're a cheat if you ever complain about about significant others. I'd also imagine the same goes for other Europen countries. I've rarely ever heard of cheating in my life.
      But it might also be a good idea to have an actual fact to back up your claim as apposed to "there is probably more cheating in the 'west' than in Vietnam" a fact you can't actually back up and stems from most likely anti 'western' rhetoric
      So no, there is no Irony in the statement, in fact there is nothing 'ironic' about it, I think you meant hypocritical.... but by labeling all 'westerns' as hypocrites , that's a racist statement, so you trying to label me as something and then actually allowing me to label you as a racist is Ironic, so well done on playing yourself

    • @ecstasyseuphoric
      @ecstasyseuphoric Год назад +13

      And that's where the concept of family involving comes in India, like our parents makes sure if their kids have brighter and happier future and it's really not common(not at all) to cheat or to even get divorced, and that's why I think indian parents get involved cuz they simply want to ressure that their kid is going to lead a happy life and Indian parents are highly protective, so yeah, that's it

    • @rahulvats95
      @rahulvats95 Год назад +1

      In India people seldom cheat although majority marry through arrange marriages, I have been to USA worked there, the marriages usually fall apart from cheating even decades after marriage. Coming to Philippines, Thailand they don't really have strong traditions and are quasi-westernized. Philippines didn't even have a writing system until Europeans showed up, most of these South East Asian cultures borrow heavily from western cultures and traditions are not sophisticated or deep rooted. China and India have rigid systems that seem to perform certain functions well although they aren't without flaws.

    • @manfunny917
      @manfunny917 Год назад +1

      @@PaulM68322 She is right though. You had no problem generalize all Vietnamese men with that fake story. Actually western men are super cheaters, especially those come to Asia. Thats why theres so many RUclips comments talking about "ex" from "Asia". Older they are, worse they are, they have family back home yet its not shameful to cheat. Just check the internet, its encouraged to be passport bros or something. Its funny and "ironic" you ask such weird question. BTW, saw what western especially nordic (should really add k there) men doing to Ukrainian women, refugees and widows. Icky

  • @SOCKETBHAI12
    @SOCKETBHAI12 Год назад +33

    INDIA in every field 😁😆

  • @nightflame9895
    @nightflame9895 Год назад +66

    Japanese and Indian girl were cute.

    • @rumuelnathanael8043
      @rumuelnathanael8043 Год назад +6

      Indonesian too.

    • @ksyth-e4k
      @ksyth-e4k Год назад +1

      Japanese 💗

    • @rikiyaaragaki
      @rikiyaaragaki 8 месяцев назад

      @@rumuelnathanael8043 girl, is the indonesian one is a girl?

    • @NoName-if7of
      @NoName-if7of 3 месяца назад

      @@rikiyaaragaki noo ,the boy one is Indonesian, a dyed hair man

  • @lione777
    @lione777 Год назад +15

    Would love to see more videos like that!

  • @muskansingh7057
    @muskansingh7057 Год назад +50

    🇮🇳❤️ they are so beautiful 😍

  • @mommynaurayasser3007
    @mommynaurayasser3007 Год назад +14

    in indonesia sex before marriage is a shameful thing to do.. especially for women.. if the parents find out their daughters got pregnant, they will rush the marriage to cover the shame..
    dating is still ok but you have to know the limit..
    I had a relative who got pregnant out of marriage and when the baby was born no one in my big family see the baby or the mother or saying congratulation.. because it is shameful for them knowing just after 4 months, she got a baby..
    people will forgive but they never forget.. for avarage people, sex before marriage is seen as very high risk action that can have great consequence not just for the couple who do that but also for the parents and the big family... and later for their children
    I, myself, got the case of a man proposed me and he told me that he had done sex with his ex girl friend.. and because I was confused whether to accept him or not so I talked about it with my parent, and my father rejected him right away.. in some cases like my family who are still conservative, traditional and religious.. sex before marriage is like you throwing dirt on the parent's faces...

    • @Ffdipedie
      @Ffdipedie Год назад

      Itu kan zaman dulu, skrg mah asal pacaran sdh tidur bareng. Saya kelas 2 SMA melakukan hubungan intim dengan pacar saya, itu 20 th lalu, tepatnya 2002.. sekarang malah bukan hal tabu, krn orang tua juga melakukan hal yg sama dg anaknya..

    • @mommynaurayasser3007
      @mommynaurayasser3007 Год назад +4

      @@Ffdipedie yah mungkin.. itu jadi hal yg biasa bagi kaum muda zaman sekarang.. segala hal yg dilakukan akan ada konsekuensinya dlm hidup baik di dunia atau di akhirat (bagi saya yg diajarkan nilai agama yah, bagi orang lain yang terserah karena hidup anda tanggung jawab anda)
      yang pasti berhubungan seks sebelum nikah punya resiko tinggi krn jika anda hamil, bagus klo si laki2 mau tanggung jawab. kalo ga perempuan yg banyak ruginya..
      banyak temen saya juga yang Married by accident.. bukan hal baru dr dulu terjadi tp orang akan selalu membicarakan di belakang mereka
      simpan aib anda jgn diumbar ke orang lain.. setiap orang punya aib masing2 dlm hidupnya hanya saja Allah tidak membuka aib itu jd mereka baik2 saja..

  • @anuragrana805
    @anuragrana805 Год назад +49

    only thing we Indians disagree on is that sex before marriage question.

    • @diganta1
      @diganta1 Год назад +4

      how can you explain?
      I visited 10 states from India and I totally agree with her

    • @anuragrana805
      @anuragrana805 Год назад +10

      @@diganta1 yeah me-too brother
      what I meant to say that is she agreed on everything except that particular question, which she did right disagreeing with

    • @Awesome-21
      @Awesome-21 Год назад

      ​​@@anuragrana805 Yup you are right but I guess you should edit your comment bro cause it can lead to misunderstanding.

  • @sonalchandwani202
    @sonalchandwani202 Год назад +69

    Indian girl n Chinese guy would make a cute couple

    • @DeusEstAmor________137
      @DeusEstAmor________137 Год назад +7

      I see many Indian girl dating Chinese guy in Shanghai.
      Mostly Uighurs or Mongolian Chinese

    • @pavanpooja2460
      @pavanpooja2460 Год назад +10

      @@DeusEstAmor________137 what? indian girls date uyghur peoples ,is that true🤔

    • @DeusEstAmor________137
      @DeusEstAmor________137 Год назад +3

      @@pavanpooja2460 umm yeah they date Uighur ... Uighur Chinese looks different

    • @pavanpooja2460
      @pavanpooja2460 Год назад +11

      @@DeusEstAmor________137 but uyghur peoples follow islam right? how indian girls accept that...

    • @DeusEstAmor________137
      @DeusEstAmor________137 Год назад +6

      @@pavanpooja2460 only dating not marrying with them and I think indian girls date Muslim in India too

  • @saman_pradhan
    @saman_pradhan Год назад +10

    As an Indian she really told the whole scenario quit accurate I can say

    • @-rate6326
      @-rate6326 Год назад +1

      That girl is confused

  • @nishanttripathi4021
    @nishanttripathi4021 Год назад +7

    Lots of people here consider a mere difference as a problem.
    We Asians must only see this as a difference rather than calling it a problem. We are different from the West and yes first we should accept the fact that being different is pretty natural...

  • @vibesxyt7368
    @vibesxyt7368 Год назад +6

    That girl is more beautiful than
    Indian movie celebrities !

  • @hrishabhjoshi5847
    @hrishabhjoshi5847 Год назад +3

    Manglik means "In astrology terms Mars impact is more on your life" mangal bhari hai (might be deadly to other partner) so usually both should be manglik

  • @Nitro.Z74
    @Nitro.Z74 Год назад +13

    As long as I have money things will workout in any country
    Always be successful
    No rejection

  • @JADE-vc3dt
    @JADE-vc3dt Год назад +40

    Asian countries might be separated by religion and culture buh pew they're mostly alike being kinda isolated and secure not open in a western type of way
    I do love the Japanese tho they try to be more western buh they still have that big shyness I feel like they and Korean are almost the same Philippines are also mostly open minded buh still families get involved and u hardly do what u wished too 🙂🙂🤷😅 buh I like them all ✌️✌️

    • @tj2375
      @tj2375 Год назад +1

      What's so open in western countries? They're open to the small differences between them and other western cultures, outside that, tough luck.

    • @aiswaryabersan7983
      @aiswaryabersan7983 Год назад +4

      All asian culture are same

    • @oxy2986
      @oxy2986 Год назад +1

      Religion and culture? Lol you make me laugh .

    • @beautiful_sky111
      @beautiful_sky111 Год назад +3

      We don't want to be western in that way, we're good with our own culture with a little amount of improvement.

    • @JADE-vc3dt
      @JADE-vc3dt Год назад

      @@oxy2986 what funny there 🤒🤷

  • @siddhuji5868
    @siddhuji5868 Год назад +37

    Rural India is very different.

    • @mercedesbenz3751
      @mercedesbenz3751 Год назад +18

      Not just rural India. Even in the modern cities people having many different ideologies live.

    • @Aradhaya45720
      @Aradhaya45720 Год назад +2

      ​@@improbablynotahooman5782 I mean they did related to education specially for women. Not in every village but yes mostly villages .

    • @kishanrajput4750
      @kishanrajput4750 Год назад

      I don't think so.

    • @tomorrow.
      @tomorrow. Год назад

      Pretty much. Societal norms is different in different parts of India

    • @rupaschannel5856
      @rupaschannel5856 Год назад

      I don't think. I am from rural

  • @thirst-t2653
    @thirst-t2653 Год назад +2

    ROFL...so many dating tactics same across Asian countries...thanks for making this video...we are understanding the commonality and individualistic traditional approach happening across the culture...

  • @Akash_Bardhan7
    @Akash_Bardhan7 Год назад +6

    The Indian girl is so cute.
    Proud to be Indian

  • @MEMEMAHARAJA
    @MEMEMAHARAJA Год назад +1

    India is Diverse that it can not be represented by 1 person form 1 Part..North South and North east are very different

  • @jmedz893
    @jmedz893 Год назад +8

    In a way, I sort of envy these guys because they all come from cultures where dating still holds that traditional approach with a modern twist. As a British-Filipino here in the UK, I grew up with a lot of South Asian friends who's families paired them off with the right person, & I always wondered why we don't have that sort of thing in Filipino culture .. I guess it comes down to knowing the right circle of Filipino/Asian friends, but unfortunately I never really had that growing up, despite having friends of many different backgrounds. I guess I've missed the boat of knowing the right people in life & will probably just end up being a passport bro ..

    • @coldblooded9015
      @coldblooded9015 Год назад +2

      I recommend looking for a gf/wife in PH, mas madaling makahanap ng babae dito na mamahalin ka kahit mahirap ka at di ka basta-basta iiwanan kumpara sa Europe or US. Ofcourse, there are also women who behave/think like people in the west or gold diggers pero mas madami pa din ang pinalaki ng maayos. Iba din talaga ang culture dito depende nalang sayo ang pagpili ng right woman.

  • @itz__pankaj17
    @itz__pankaj17 Год назад +2

    That indian girl is really so much respectful❤❤

  • @yccn410
    @yccn410 Год назад +5

    I wanna see more Taiwanese participation in Asia related videos!

    • @Sumit-rp5mx
      @Sumit-rp5mx Год назад

      Then it'll be China VS Taiwan solo fight.

  • @petronash22
    @petronash22 Год назад +64

    India is so different from other Asia Pacific countries

    • @s9ka972
      @s9ka972 Год назад +13

      They are Caucasian- Australoid mix

    • @uiop1801
      @uiop1801 Год назад +25

      is india an asia pacific country ?, india is in indian ocean not a pacific ocean, i don't know how these grouping works, but probably indian is not an asia pacific country.

    • @ecstasyseuphoric
      @ecstasyseuphoric Год назад +8

      @@uiop1801 then based on that the whole American continent should be Asian since they are associated with the Pacific ocean as well. Like c'mon bro, you won't see these cultural similarities between any western countries and Asian countries

    • @uiop1801
      @uiop1801 Год назад +9

      @@ecstasyseuphoric As i said i don't know how these grouping works. based on the name "asia pacific" i assume the member should be asian countries that sit on pacific ocean. "then based on that" american cannot become asia pacific because it's not asian country in the first place.
      asia pacific country :
      Indonesia : in Asia ✅ in pacific ✅
      philippines : in Asia ✅ in pacific ✅
      japan : in Asia ✅ in pacific ✅
      Not asia pacific country :
      India : in Asia ✅ in pacific ❌
      america : in Asia ❌ in pacific ✅
      south africa : in Asia ❌ in pacific ❌

    • @weirdgrimjow5372
      @weirdgrimjow5372 Год назад +2

      @@s9ka972 also middle eastern genes a little bit

  • @aloksahu6004
    @aloksahu6004 Год назад +14

    I love my country India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @abandonedfragmentofhope5415
    @abandonedfragmentofhope5415 Год назад +22

    The Indonesian guy sounds like he has an Australian accent.

    • @Ffdipedie
      @Ffdipedie Год назад +1

      because English lessons in Indonesia are taught by teachers from the Philippines and Australia. So the accent is American-Philippines and Australian

  • @Miniflower25
    @Miniflower25 Год назад +7

    Here in majority parts of India, Families nd Relatives be like - Sry what is Dating? Dating is spoiling of family reputation, Even Talking about Dating is 'Dumb ways to Die' 😂

  • @hussam9393
    @hussam9393 Год назад +8

    nice show but i noticed that in almost every episode, there is someone present from a Heterosexuall background, somehow i gett the feeling they are being pushed to be noticed

  • @nitomurray6137
    @nitomurray6137 Год назад +2

    Dude for China was basically making a meme face every question

  • @kramlacia2467
    @kramlacia2467 Год назад +8

    Nice niceee. Every country has it owns perspective

  • @vidhitiwari1478
    @vidhitiwari1478 Год назад +5

    4:20 Abhivyakti you just explained arrange marriage first meeting , it isn't considered a date😂😂Thenafter when the girl - boy meet that's called a date.
    And Mangalik is an astrological condition which means your partner might be in danger if they "marry" you only if they're are not mangalik too.

  • @Finds.4444
    @Finds.4444 Год назад +23

    The girl in purple is the best❤❤

  • @iimmortalldreams
    @iimmortalldreams Год назад +2

    When pragmatism came up I knew the Chinese guy would burst through like the Kool Aid man 😂

  • @RUDRA00700
    @RUDRA00700 Год назад +4

    Bro this Chinese guy is too extrovert and energetic for a Chinese isnt it 😂😂

    • @anittas224
      @anittas224 Год назад

      Yeah probably white washed

  • @fakyu9346
    @fakyu9346 Год назад +1

    1:46 but in Indonesia, that sound means your friends are teasing you, but not in a shaming way. It's neutral, not negative.

  • @rahulbiswas9694
    @rahulbiswas9694 Год назад +3

    Here the indian girl only represented the tier 1 cities and the western influenced youths.The mindset and culture changes if you move out from the tier 1 cities.Villages with strong religious sentiments will be completely different from that of the city life.

  • @Mo-qh3in
    @Mo-qh3in Год назад +1

    By far the best video..I felt as if we are one❤

  • @nitishsaxena1372
    @nitishsaxena1372 Год назад +42

    While whatever this Indian girl said is true, the opposite is also true. Everyone dates and many have pre-marital sex too but they ensure their parents don't get to know about it.

    • @newhorizon175
      @newhorizon175 Год назад +20

      she is correct. what you are taking about is the exception not the rule. Majority of Indians don't date, there is zero dating culture here and pre marital sex is deal breaker for most partners. May be you also have to lie to your partner to get married if you are not virgin

    • @nitishsaxena1372
      @nitishsaxena1372 Год назад +15

      @@newhorizon175 it really depends on a lot of factors like region, social class, exposure etc. Btw my first sentence literally says that whatever she said is true. While what you call an exception might not be the majority but it is still practiced by many. I'm 28 and hardly anyone (guys or girls) I know of around my generation who is a virgin. Even the one virgin guy I know has a dating experience. The dating culture very much exists among some people but definitely it's not mainstream.
      As someone said about India "whatever you say about India, the opposite is also true." The country is so huge and culturally diverse that it's difficult to call anyone one Indian culture.

    • @newhorizon175
      @newhorizon175 Год назад +3

      @@nitishsaxena1372 You and your friends circle are certainly exceptions.This is why we have to talk about the general rule rather than our own personal experiences while dating or pre martial sex. It is very rare once we cross a few posh neighbourhoods and cities. In south even the cities are very conservative

    • @nitishsaxena1372
      @nitishsaxena1372 Год назад +5

      @@newhorizon175 read my last comment again for your first sentence. Also, neither I nor my circle is "posh".

    • @sneha7435
      @sneha7435 Год назад +10

      @@newhorizon175 n,o, this is not true. NFHS survey says that many Indians have had sex before marriage and this number is even higher for those living in villages than those in cities.

  • @leivonlamkang3426
    @leivonlamkang3426 Год назад +4

    Chinese guy is so handsome and gentlemanly

  • @sam.....1
    @sam.....1 Год назад +15

    Indians 🇮🇳 - hold my hand because we are more than 36 countries put together with different religions, customs, cultures, languages, ... And many things 😂

  • @hansibryan
    @hansibryan Год назад +21

    If I may, I like to say Ms. Desi is extremely gorgeous. Can we get to know each other? 😉

    • @WastedBananas
      @WastedBananas Год назад

      Stay away from our women.

    • @dejavu6514
      @dejavu6514 Год назад

      Go to her Instagram

    • @tomorrow.
      @tomorrow. Год назад

      Lol 😂😂😂

    • @Hindu428
      @Hindu428 Год назад

      Line maar rhe ho 🌚

    • @mimis.5139
      @mimis.5139 Год назад +1

      She is taken by the Chinese guy... He was sending electric signals to her from his eyes

  • @rmano6518
    @rmano6518 Год назад +5

    Abhivyakti you look stunning ffs.❤

  • @mrussel2392
    @mrussel2392 Год назад +2

    Filipina is so me. Soft spoken

  • @Andbhaktkabap1
    @Andbhaktkabap1 Год назад +13

    Chinese guy are very funny and handsome 👍

  • @gauravkumargupta9622
    @gauravkumargupta9622 Год назад +1

    There is a famous saying about india that : 'If something is true in india, its exactly opposite is also true.'

  • @luka_modric162
    @luka_modric162 Год назад +45

    I would say Philippines is following more of American/Western culture than other Asian countries

    • @akita_inu-il6em
      @akita_inu-il6em Год назад +4

      Well actually not

    • @dejavu6514
      @dejavu6514 Год назад +15

      Philippines is very extreme..if people are liberal, they are very liberal and if they are conservative, they are very conservative..there's nothing in between

    • @akita_inu-il6em
      @akita_inu-il6em Год назад +8

      Philippines has lots of conservative stuff which might was common in Europe 400 years ago but is very far from Europe nowadays. Even though some stuff originally came from Europe it is way more close to other South East & East Asian nations nowadays. Also values, social behavoir, parenting and so on is actually very East/South East Asian. Filipinos unfortunately often want to be more Western than they are. Unfortunately a very typical colonial mentality, but luckily the languages were protected. The influence by the Spaniards is fortunately way less there than in the colonialized South American countries.

    • @pikachuthunderbolt3919
      @pikachuthunderbolt3919 Год назад +4

      Nobody cares where even divorce isn't legal lol

    • @akita_inu-il6em
      @akita_inu-il6em Год назад +7

      @@pikachuthunderbolt3919 it's a beautiful country with lots of open minded people towards other countries. Why should no one care?

  • @SOCKETBHAI12
    @SOCKETBHAI12 Год назад +24

    japan have love hotel
    india have OYO
    you know what i mean 🤣🤣

  • @willileo2373
    @willileo2373 Год назад +34

    South Korea & Thailand should be included

  • @Gangleader499
    @Gangleader499 Год назад +4

    Everything fair and wrong at the same time in India 😅😅

  • @mehismaknae2769
    @mehismaknae2769 Год назад +1

    The way I could relate to the Indian girl.....I was cmg back home w my male bestfriend (frnds since 6 yr olds) in 12th after giving a paper in metro (subway) and some of my dad's collegues saw me eating w him at a restaurant on our way back cuz we were famished and called my dad saying "OMG your daughter is with a boy ALONE in a restaurant eating!! Control her!!" and my dad asked me when I got back home and ofc my parents didn't mind cuz that guy is basically my brother after all these years lmao

  • @nagc2404
    @nagc2404 Год назад +3

    Indian has an Ana de Armas aura.

  • @rakeshalex7483
    @rakeshalex7483 Год назад +2

    The Indian girl looks like Ana De Armas for some reason. Or maybe I'm blind.

  • @ashutoshpal6595
    @ashutoshpal6595 Год назад +4

    The Chinese guy is super cool ✌️✌️

  • @hellosunshine2460
    @hellosunshine2460 Год назад +2

    so interesting!

  • @samyeharshel
    @samyeharshel Год назад +5

    Oh! It's an Asian thing not just Indian 😁

  • @nemumami
    @nemumami Год назад

    My partner (American), was extremely surprised at the difference in dating there and here was. We found a middle ground but he still finds some things surprising. Example would be ligawan; you’re not together-together, you’re just vying for her hand (usually this becomes solid when parents give their approval), after a lengthy courtship is when you can say you’re officially together.
    Me and him settled that dating=ligawan because I want to keep that tradition going (and of course meet his parents first!), date to marry I guess lol