The real problem is, that when you have improved to the point where you get the girl, you will probably not want her, because she hasn’t improved. Think about it.
@@nadnel2740 well... it might be true but what are the alternatives ? giving up finding a good woman or keep trying and be content with the result because some guys actually want families or they hate being alone
my whines to the void have been unheard and my shrieks of despair coldly neglected. you are totally right. we must simply accept the cold indifference of the universe or more specifically the hands that we were dealt. we may either kneel down, stripped of the one thing that we all have innate possession off in our dignity and sob over life's unfairness or we can valiantly march forward, finding meaning and extracting strength from in the pureness of our Sisyphean struggles, in the grit and perseverance that our unfavourable odds have conjured of us.
i want to share my case, from Argentina. we are a poor family (very much the typical "clase media" here), 4 bothers: 3 men, 1 women. (all +25). the men, we all work very hard, achieved college degree, and we can BARELY make enough money to survive. neither of us got married nor had kids. on the other hand, my sister married a millionaire guy. she had 3 children so far and they lived in a private neighborhood (which avoids completely the stress of living in a place like Argentina). anyhow, the only asset that made this difference was the vagina she was born with. please, let me know if you come from a 3er world country and resonate with my story! abrazooo
It would be interesting to hear a woman's point of view on this too, if they agree or think differently. I also think part of this is differences between masculine & feminine, for example, yes men are expected to initiate more. On the other side, factoring in how much women's bodies have to go through with child birth / raising a child. You hit the nail on the head about not giving up & playing the cards!
No matter how hardship there is for men god has given the antidote too. He gave us semen retention to overpower the hardship he gave us the logical mind to checkmate all other problems unlike woman who have no semen and most of it they suffer for periods which fucked up their mind and brain thinking emotionally and mentally...but we men don't have periods we can remain empty minded whole day or year if we want it..
Hey bro, I like your channel, keep up the good work! However, I'd like to comment on this one, because I've heard this sort of thinking before, especially with how hard do men have it compared to women, and I think you made it look a bit too simple. Like, guys saying, that women are fine and successful just simply existing doesn't work for me, at least i never chased the type of woman, which only exist. I mean, there are literally women out there who's personality is so shallow, that the existence itself is the most they achieve. Recipe for this is: not being curious at all, not interacting with other to pump up the emotional intelligence, not seeking to overcome the laziness and other human weaknesses and in general not really being interested in life. Saying that, I perfectly understand, that even a girl of this calibre will have guys around her, however, I am definitely not the only guy, who is not interested in this type and is looking for something more, something deeper and more animated, to use this expression. And let's not forget about all the competitions that women have amongst themselves, most of which are hidden to the men's eye. To wrap this up, I'd say that women don't have it as easy as it was portrayed in this video. These are just my observations and my thinking of course. Bless!
As a female, the thumbnail is very concerning. Never knew men had to do make up besides having a good body. There’s a lot of pressure on females when it comes to beauty. Hell there’s even an increase of 80% in BBL operations because of the female competition amongst each other. Not to mention all the fillers. And that’s only 1 aspect. I just feel like there’s no need in comparing, every human being struggles. That said I’m too scared to watch the video in case it confirms the thumbnail..
Life is not harder for men nor for women. Life is equally complicated for all people, just in different areas. I get your point but its very limited to only achieving some sexual goals.
Life is harder for men? But I always felt glad that I'm a man and not a hot girl. Because it's fun. I get to choose the girl (approach), it's fun to go to the gym and master myself etc. It's fun to be a business owner, and conquer my fears. Plus I don't want to deal with childbirth, periods etc. I genuinely prefer it. Can't really understand how others don't lol.
I hate dating, feels like I'm boosting women's egos and putting them on a pedestal if I approach first. They never approach me, so why should I approach them. Dating apps are useless. Even if you get a date, it's generally shit and the woman just sits there judging you, expecting you to plan etc. The juice ain't worth the squeeze for me, and I'll probably remain single for a long time.
It goes back to thousands of years ago.. the hunter and the prey.. wanna eat, go get the animal to cook. Animals display this behavior all the time. The bigger Lion is more bold, he gets all the females pregnant to spread his seed. Literally all dominant male animals go out to impress the other female animal and gets her pregnant. Nothing has changed.. we are animals, women walk around wanting the bigger more confident animal to take her.. it’s on you to build balls to do it. If you want a woman to be dominant with you and approach you, you must be too feminine in the first place.
@@IntegraDIY I agree with everything you have said (I'm interested in evolution), but I still don't like approaching first...even though I've had success before It must be due to low self-esteem. I get the approach anxiety like most men, but on top of that, I also fear being successful. Because I feel like my life is boring - and they will soon find out I'm kind of a loser with not much going on. I also fear being bad in bed, because about 5 women have only given me 2 attempts in bed and I can tell they lose interest in me because of it. I probably appear disinterested and not dominant enough due to inexperience. Need to improve my life/mindset before girls - I can't even remain consistent in the gym, spend less time on the internet or quit porn... I have lots of work to do. Just find the situation irritating that women never seem to even give signals, anything to boost your self-esteem just a little bit and make you feel wanted.
@@nKarje women do give signals.. it’s literally called “Choosing Signals”.. if a woman walks in the opposing direction of you, walking your way, and she makes eye contact for 2 seconds or more, she chose you, she’s asking to be talked to. You are exactly right. You need to work on yourself and what’s within. Go on long hikes alone in the hills. Listen to your favorite music while doing so. Get a badass hobby.. be occupied in your own life. If you meet a girl, don’t worry if she thinks you are boring, enjoy things you like to do and keep doing them.. introduce her to it.. if she doesn’t like it, she made it easy for you, right? Build muscle, get better fitting clothing. Change your style a bit, where more colors, or less colors if you do already. Cut your hair, shape your beard nicely. I’m NOT super confident but I have built confidence by making my physical appearance better. Set a schedule Monday/Wednesday/Friday to lift weights. It’ll increase testosterone and benefit your sex life
In these modern times, it’s difficult to find a woman who truly has good personality traits and also human traits as well. Thus, that’s why when we do improve, we must look for a woman who is on our level of life; not below us. One tip for the guys: Do not rush trying to find a wife, it takes time. Remember this person who you will be marrying will be your kid’s mother, your wife, and a grandmother for your grandchildren. She will added to your family tree for your next generation. Do not forget this guys.
You're definitely right, and If I hadn't studied English for 4 hours a day in almost 2 years, I would've not understood what you're saying. By the way, my mother tounge is Arabic.
Its unfortunate but true. Alot of men back in ancient times used to grow up with the ideal body. Now in 2024 genetics are fucked because of the food we consume and you need to work to get back to the body that men should have.
I find your channel very insightful, and you to be super handsome and articulate--but on this one, I have to heartliy disagree. Number one, most women are looking for a guy who is generally at a healthy BMI, with basic hygiene; a job; and clothes that arent' worn, stained, or sloppy. A guy with a slight v-shape, nice haircut that suits their face, and personal style are considered top-tier men. The gladiator look is terrifying for most of us. Personally, I prefer a slim guy to a bulked one, and many women are now into dad bods. Two, I'm a slim 6-foot blonde with a small waist, nice bust, long legs, and good skin. I'm educated, polite, interested in just about everything but team sports, supportive, adventurous, and a good listener who can look out for herself. I've been asked out a handful of times ( maybe 4 or 5) and rejected way more. Why? Because I don't lighten my dark blond hair, spend hours blow drying it and then curling it to frizz free silken waves, wear false eyelashes, or show all my assets at once when dressing up, to indicate I'm "ready to go". Three, what most most men think is natural beauty is absolutely not. We are concealing, highlighting, blushing, and emphasizing features to get that dewy 16 year old glow men have come to expect at a profit of 50 billion a year to beauty companies. Four, if you look at couples around you in any urban area on any given day, 80% of the time, the girl is more attractive than the guy. I think men are now exposed to more images that convince them this is what women want. They're selling something. So, this is all to say--you're already in the top 5%. And I dont think you are attracted to any woman who is not overweight. At least not attracted enough to get serious with any of them. And that may be the catching point--we are tired of hooking up and getting gamed with guys pretending to like us to get what they want. We ladies are all talking now, and see the patterns. We're looking for fun and sex, but want to be cared enough about at least to not be treated dismissively, put down, or ghosted at the end of the romance.
I hope that most women understand that the gladiator-looking man is unrealistic. I always thought that any guy who looked like that was probably too much into his looks anyway and certainly not someone I wanted to date. I mean, toned is nice, a personality is nice. General hygiene is good. Who wants somebody that doesn't like themselves enough to take care of themselves. Is it difficult to take a shower and put on decent clothes? I don't think that's over the top difficult to achieve. Find a good wingman to talk you up to the ladies. That helps. Social media has screwed things up though. Nobody knows what's normal anymore. I do hate it for you guys though...it does seem harder for you than it used to be. Expectations are way higher. On the other hand, don't underestimate the pressures on women. I noticed all of the women you showed in this video were 10s. To achieve bodies like that would require lots of dieting, gym work, and probably injections and plastic. What do you consider a 5 anyway?
Bro that’s just Biology.. Human revolution is driven by men having to improve themselves and women choosing the „best“ ones. but I would still choose being a men over being a woman. Just think about it for a second, imagine you are born a woman and you have bad luck and you are ugly and fat. Man life is Gonna be pretty hard for you. But if you are born a man and you aren’t good looking, man there is a lot of space for improvement, because you aren’t relying on good or bad genetical luck. You can work out, start doing pick up (which is a cheat code if you are good at it), get a good job and so on and so on. If you are a woman and you have bad genetical luck, there is only so far you can climb the sexual hierarchy ladder. It might be easy for you to get casual sex but very hard to get a decent partner for a long term relationship. So if life would be a game and you would have to choose between the 2 characters of man and woman, as a woman you would have a head start, but as a man you have way more abilities you can improve on
I admittedly am no expert on dating girls, but from experience with others and people in my family, I feel end of the day a relationship should always have a middle ground and connection that is strong. I just feel men or woman look too much into their own way, whether it’s wanting sex or woman wanting to be catered to, like a man needing to pay for every meal or everything while you get whatever you want. This is why I see these redpoll or people on Reddit claiming all woman require men to pay and that all sex whether through relationship or through pro situation requires payment. It’s kind of true but if you are in a real healthy relationship and two people really care, there isn’t this one way street for one person. Especially with sex I know real couples, would not expect one to pay everything or have all this BS. And yes while you probably still have to pay to win a girls heart, that investment is much more than paying for another girl. And that isn’t wrong too. You can do that, but it’s ridiculous seeing some people claim, to win a field heart you have to pay crazy money. A real healthy relationship with a girl, a humble girl wouldn’t expect you to pay for overrated meals at Instagram restaurants or expect you to buy Gucci to win her heart. From what I’ve seen from my own parents, I know the love wasn’t this superficial. . In a way it s process and it if it works out it’s better than everything. IDK if it’s related to the video but based on comments I feel it relates and the whole physique thing. I think it’s always been normal for two opposite sexes to like certain types more especially fit and athletic. End of the day whether it’s make or female, a real one that you can live and have a relationship with is one you can relate or have clear and healthy boundaries. If you have to pay to win a girls heart or have to be submissive to a man, then that relationship is nothing but toxic and not what love or even liking is.
i have never found this to be true.....guys have never been keen to ask me out, I was an average female. Life is Hard for everyone!!!!! We all have to work to get what we want, male and female. If you think life is easy you are living in a bubble
@@d-8664 Attention is cheap. Doesn't mean you'll be able to formulate a lasting relationship. It's not flattering for a bunch of randoms to just want to sleep with you to get their rocks off and then ditch you. You personally equate this to it being easier for women because all you are looking for in a woman is probably sex and not lasting companionship.
Handsome men that won the lottery also need to do nothing. Just trim beard and keep the hair good. From your perspective, you had to do everything to look at least 6/10, I get it. But that's not how it works.
Woman have other issues they deal with like the psychological stuff that us men will never understand. You can’t say it’s harder or easier to be a man or a woman. It just is what it is, life is hard for everyone as it’s suppose to be . Challenges is what life is all about. Dying at the boss level is exactly what we all need more of each and every single day. Endless bosses endless rounds of levels . Then you die . The entire goal to be alive is to experience life. Not sit on the couch and watch tv. That’s why he talks about the dopamine break but he doesn’t realize you get dopamine hits also from nature. What you want is to keep screen time at a minimum , and live actual life.
Ah yes, another one of ''these'' types of channels. Please for the love of God start empowering young men without throwing other people under the bus and creating a bubble like this. Whether it's women, the older generation, immigrants, I don't care. I dare you to invite someone else on a video with a different experience than yours and have a civil conversation about the different kinds of struggles you have. I bet you wouldn't get far by comparing them and searching for the answer to who has it the worst. You talked about having to accept that life is hard and to play the cards you are dealt, that is solid advice, but the way you are putting women down is not a good look on you man.... For your next video, when you pick a topic like this, please talk about this situation from your perspective, how you have experienced these feelings and hardships and how you overcame them. But that will require to to be more open and vulnerable, and that's hard. Pointing your finger towards others is easy. The choice is yours. I sincerely hope that one day, when you've lost your muscles, your career or wealth, that you still feel worth while, because you are. And so are the guys watching this. Building yourself up is awesome and you should always try to do your best. But when that doesn't work out you are still worth exactly the same. I didn't enjoy this video, but also thank you. I also tend to get stuck in this whiny attitude that you're displaying and it's ugly. I will try to better myself and think of this video when I feel sad for myself to snap out of it :)
Great video! I definitely like to point out that there’s definitely more work and money put into achieving the female beauty standard. For me, as a woman, I spend an average of 2 hours to do my hair and make up before going on a date. Even to achieve the no make up look or natural look, we still have to use a few products like primer, concealer, foundation, blush, setting powder, mascara and eyebrow wax. Have you seen the prices of makeup products at Sephora? As for maintaining good skin, I have my skin care routine that I do twice a day and takes about 30 minutes. For my hair, in order to look stylish, I use hot tools to straighten or curl my hair and changing up my hair color, which ends up damaging it, so twice a week, I will be spending a couple of hours to do my hair treatment to repair the damages done. There’s also daily hair products that I would use to nourish and repair my hair. I have eyelash extensions and that would cost 150USD and 3-4 hours a month. As I’m in my 30s, I need to start doing more skin treatment to prevent or reduce the appearance of lines or wrinkles. Those treatment would cost around 200 dollars per session for about 1 hour. That would be once or twice a month, depends on if I can afford it. I don’t do Botox or fillers, but there are women who do that to enhance the shape of their face and lift their eyes, remove lines from their face, so that would cost a lot of money and time too.
About approaching girls - I have approached more than 2000 girls in cold approach style in my life - based on that alone you could say I am in the top 1% but if you don't have the results... is it worth it ? I only had sex with 13 girls out of those at least 2000 approaches ... this means less than 1% success rate. Pretty much everybody would say it's unfair considering I am also fit, never been fat, I am average looking, I dress well, I don't stink, I have average money etc. I also have a bachelor degree in psychology and I studied pickup and social dinamics since high school. All of this effort put into getting laid and I was still unsatisfied and I couldn't transform any of those gitls I hooked up with into serious relationships. Only one thing was missing so far - I think : at least 90% of the approaches were done while I was stil hooked up on pmo - not daily, but definitely weekly. We can only assume this is the sole reason I couldn't be happy with any of these 13 girls or it might be something else ? I was thinking of cold approaching again when I reach at least 6 months no fap - for now I am back to under 3 months and I feel pretty bad. Also it still takes at least 300 rejections on average to get one single girl to get laid. I am not talking about phone numbers, dates or anything else that lead to nothing intimate in the end.
@@IntegraDIY sure buddy ... you try and do that many approaches then come back and criticize my game ... its easy to be a critic when you havent done the work . I never had a chick tell me I am bad looking and some of them even told me I am good looking before having sex so its not looks ... and game is just pure invented bullshit as we know different girls respond to different things - plus I never met a more confident man than me - but you keep believing game is the problem without you even trying a cold approach yourself
hey rob i kinda need your advice and hope u read it till end. So how should i start , i start from the beginnig in february 17th 2023. In this year and month i had such an discipline long streak in Nofap/nopmo till 12th august 2023. Than i got that shit relapses but it was like every time i relapsed it was one a week and when i watched P than like for an minute or so. And that was going months till know sometimes i had 2 3 weeks nofap/nopmo somtimes 1 or 2 weeks. My question is that u understand am i in danger i mean i am fcking fighting like a warrior going to gym reading books dont even have social media on my phone for 2 years know just whatsapp for parents grandma or gf like that stuff. I mean i am traning and doing all that things. I even try my 100% best to be postive and every time a smile i gave me a advice for life that is: Never be Negative in Life bcuz life is too short to be negative and sad depression etc.. i hope u can give me an advice and understand me and my situation. I even like dont count anymore days since fap or smoking etc i mean like its important to make an new lifestyle and cut that fap/pmo of ur life. yours faithfully Dzibrill
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The real problem is, that when you have improved to the point where you get the girl, you will probably not want her, because she hasn’t improved. Think about it.
You will still want her for casual sex at least to see if it's worth it
Problem?
"we have to work 10 times more than our grandfathers to get 10 times worse than our grandmothers"
@@nadnel2740 well... it might be true but what are the alternatives ? giving up finding a good woman or keep trying and be content with the result because some guys actually want families or they hate being alone
Well not all the time because you cant just live on without pro creating but yeah i get your point.
Men feel impressed by and admire elite male physiques.
Women feel insecure from good female physiques.
my whines to the void have been unheard and my shrieks of despair coldly neglected. you are totally right. we must simply accept the cold indifference of the universe or more specifically the hands that we were dealt. we may either kneel down, stripped of the one thing that we all have innate possession off in our dignity and sob over life's unfairness or we can valiantly march forward, finding meaning and extracting strength from in the pureness of our Sisyphean struggles, in the grit and perseverance that our unfavourable odds have conjured of us.
Beautifully written my friend, you sir should be a writer
i want to share my case, from Argentina. we are a poor family (very much the typical "clase media" here), 4 bothers: 3 men, 1 women. (all +25). the men, we all work very hard, achieved college degree, and we can BARELY make enough money to survive. neither of us got married nor had kids. on the other hand, my sister married a millionaire guy. she had 3 children so far and they lived in a private neighborhood (which avoids completely the stress of living in a place like Argentina). anyhow, the only asset that made this difference was the vagina she was born with.
please, let me know if you come from a 3er world country and resonate with my story! abrazooo
LOL. Argy here. Sad-true story.
It would be interesting to hear a woman's point of view on this too, if they agree or think differently. I also think part of this is differences between masculine & feminine, for example, yes men are expected to initiate more. On the other side, factoring in how much women's bodies have to go through with child birth / raising a child. You hit the nail on the head about not giving up & playing the cards!
No matter how hardship there is for men god has given the antidote too.
He gave us semen retention to overpower the hardship he gave us the logical mind to checkmate all other problems unlike woman who have no semen and most of it they suffer for periods which fucked up their mind and brain thinking emotionally and mentally...but we men don't have periods we can remain empty minded whole day or year if we want it..
Hey bro, I like your channel, keep up the good work!
However, I'd like to comment on this one, because I've heard this sort of thinking before, especially with how hard do men have it compared to women, and I think you made it look a bit too simple. Like, guys saying, that women are fine and successful just simply existing doesn't work for me, at least i never chased the type of woman, which only exist. I mean, there are literally women out there who's personality is so shallow, that the existence itself is the most they achieve. Recipe for this is: not being curious at all, not interacting with other to pump up the emotional intelligence, not seeking to overcome the laziness and other human weaknesses and in general not really being interested in life. Saying that, I perfectly understand, that even a girl of this calibre will have guys around her, however, I am definitely not the only guy, who is not interested in this type and is looking for something more, something deeper and more animated, to use this expression. And let's not forget about all the competitions that women have amongst themselves, most of which are hidden to the men's eye. To wrap this up, I'd say that women don't have it as easy as it was portrayed in this video. These are just my observations and my thinking of course.
Bless!
As a female, the thumbnail is very concerning. Never knew men had to do make up besides having a good body. There’s a lot of pressure on females when it comes to beauty. Hell there’s even an increase of 80% in BBL operations because of the female competition amongst each other. Not to mention all the fillers. And that’s only 1 aspect. I just feel like there’s no need in comparing, every human being struggles. That said I’m too scared to watch the video in case it confirms the thumbnail..
Life is not harder for men nor for women. Life is equally complicated for all people, just in different areas. I get your point but its very limited to only achieving some sexual goals.
This is why I don’t blame guys who go to Mexico 😅
What?
Life is harder for men? But I always felt glad that I'm a man and not a hot girl. Because it's fun. I get to choose the girl (approach), it's fun to go to the gym and master myself etc. It's fun to be a business owner, and conquer my fears. Plus I don't want to deal with childbirth, periods etc. I genuinely prefer it. Can't really understand how others don't lol.
Same.
I hate dating, feels like I'm boosting women's egos and putting them on a pedestal if I approach first. They never approach me, so why should I approach them.
Dating apps are useless. Even if you get a date, it's generally shit and the woman just sits there judging you, expecting you to plan etc. The juice ain't worth the squeeze for me, and I'll probably remain single for a long time.
It goes back to thousands of years ago.. the hunter and the prey.. wanna eat, go get the animal to cook.
Animals display this behavior all the time. The bigger Lion is more bold, he gets all the females pregnant to spread his seed. Literally all dominant male animals go out to impress the other female animal and gets her pregnant.
Nothing has changed.. we are animals, women walk around wanting the bigger more confident animal to take her.. it’s on you to build balls to do it. If you want a woman to be dominant with you and approach you, you must be too feminine in the first place.
@@IntegraDIY I agree with everything you have said (I'm interested in evolution), but I still don't like approaching first...even though I've had success before
It must be due to low self-esteem. I get the approach anxiety like most men, but on top of that, I also fear being successful. Because I feel like my life is boring - and they will soon find out I'm kind of a loser with not much going on. I also fear being bad in bed, because about 5 women have only given me 2 attempts in bed and I can tell they lose interest in me because of it. I probably appear disinterested and not dominant enough due to inexperience.
Need to improve my life/mindset before girls - I can't even remain consistent in the gym, spend less time on the internet or quit porn... I have lots of work to do. Just find the situation irritating that women never seem to even give signals, anything to boost your self-esteem just a little bit and make you feel wanted.
@@nKarje women do give signals.. it’s literally called “Choosing Signals”.. if a woman walks in the opposing direction of you, walking your way, and she makes eye contact for 2 seconds or more, she chose you, she’s asking to be talked to.
You are exactly right. You need to work on yourself and what’s within. Go on long hikes alone in the hills. Listen to your favorite music while doing so. Get a badass hobby.. be occupied in your own life. If you meet a girl, don’t worry if she thinks you are boring, enjoy things you like to do and keep doing them.. introduce her to it.. if she doesn’t like it, she made it easy for you, right?
Build muscle, get better fitting clothing. Change your style a bit, where more colors, or less colors if you do already. Cut your hair, shape your beard nicely. I’m NOT super confident but I have built confidence by making my physical appearance better.
Set a schedule Monday/Wednesday/Friday to lift weights. It’ll increase testosterone and benefit your sex life
In these modern times, it’s difficult to find a woman who truly has good personality traits and also human traits as well. Thus, that’s why when we do improve, we must look for a woman who is on our level of life; not below us. One tip for the guys: Do not rush trying to find a wife, it takes time. Remember this person who you will be marrying will be your kid’s mother, your wife, and a grandmother for your grandchildren. She will added to your family tree for your next generation. Do not forget this guys.
You're definitely right, and If I hadn't studied English for 4 hours a day in almost 2 years, I would've not understood what you're saying.
By the way, my mother tounge is Arabic.
It scares me to be alive yet I dont want to die. What the fuck is this ?
Its unfortunate but true. Alot of men back in ancient times used to grow up with the ideal body. Now in 2024 genetics are fucked because of the food we consume and you need to work to get back to the body that men should have.
Feels like an agenda.
Gym ruined my knees 😂
I find your channel very insightful, and you to be super handsome and articulate--but on this one, I have to heartliy disagree.
Number one, most women are looking for a guy who is generally at a healthy BMI, with basic hygiene; a job; and clothes that arent' worn, stained, or sloppy. A guy with a slight v-shape, nice haircut that suits their face, and personal style are considered top-tier men.
The gladiator look is terrifying for most of us. Personally, I prefer a slim guy to a bulked one, and many women are now into dad bods.
Two, I'm a slim 6-foot blonde with a small waist, nice bust, long legs, and good skin. I'm educated, polite, interested in just about everything but team sports, supportive, adventurous, and a good listener who can look out for herself.
I've been asked out a handful of times ( maybe 4 or 5) and rejected way more.
Why? Because I don't lighten my dark blond hair, spend hours blow drying it and then curling it to frizz free silken waves, wear false eyelashes, or show all my assets at once when dressing up, to indicate I'm "ready to go".
Three, what most most men think is natural beauty is absolutely not. We are concealing, highlighting, blushing, and emphasizing features to get that dewy 16 year old glow men have come to expect at a profit of 50 billion a year to beauty companies.
Four, if you look at couples around you in any urban area on any given day, 80% of the time, the girl is more attractive than the guy.
I think men are now exposed to more images that convince them this is what women want.
They're selling something.
So, this is all to say--you're already in the top 5%. And I dont think you are attracted to any woman who is not overweight. At least not attracted enough to get serious with any of them.
And that may be the catching point--we are tired of hooking up and getting gamed with guys pretending to like us to get what they want.
We ladies are all talking now, and see the patterns.
We're looking for fun and sex, but want to be cared enough about at least to not be treated dismissively, put down, or ghosted at the end of the romance.
Bro... This video is literally amazing for us men🥹, such an underrated channel bro🔥 thank you dude
🤣truth 💯☝️
The bare minimum that women got is the period, imagine how easy it would be without that too
I hope that most women understand that the gladiator-looking man is unrealistic. I always thought that any guy who looked like that was probably too much into his looks anyway and certainly not someone I wanted to date. I mean, toned is nice, a personality is nice. General hygiene is good. Who wants somebody that doesn't like themselves enough to take care of themselves. Is it difficult to take a shower and put on decent clothes? I don't think that's over the top difficult to achieve. Find a good wingman to talk you up to the ladies. That helps.
Social media has screwed things up though. Nobody knows what's normal anymore. I do hate it for you guys though...it does seem harder for you than it used to be. Expectations are way higher.
On the other hand, don't underestimate the pressures on women. I noticed all of the women you showed in this video were 10s. To achieve bodies like that would require lots of dieting, gym work, and probably injections and plastic. What do you consider a 5 anyway?
@@darlene5286 Well said!
Fantastic video, sir.
Bro that’s just Biology.. Human revolution is driven by men having to improve themselves and women choosing the „best“ ones. but I would still choose being a men over being a woman. Just think about it for a second, imagine you are born a woman and you have bad luck and you are ugly and fat. Man life is Gonna be pretty hard for you. But if you are born a man and you aren’t good looking, man there is a lot of space for improvement, because you aren’t relying on good or bad genetical luck. You can work out, start doing pick up (which is a cheat code if you are good at it), get a good job and so on and so on. If you are a woman and you have bad genetical luck, there is only so far you can climb the sexual hierarchy ladder. It might be easy for you to get casual sex but very hard to get a decent partner for a long term relationship.
So if life would be a game and you would have to choose between the 2 characters of man and woman, as a woman you would have a head start, but as a man you have way more abilities you can improve on
your point is totaly nonsense.
I admittedly am no expert on dating girls, but from experience with others and people in my family, I feel end of the day a relationship should always have a middle ground and connection that is strong.
I just feel men or woman look too much into their own way, whether it’s wanting sex or woman wanting to be catered to, like a man needing to pay for every meal or everything while you get whatever you want.
This is why I see these redpoll or people on Reddit claiming all woman require men to pay and that all sex whether through relationship or through pro situation requires payment.
It’s kind of true but if you are in a real healthy relationship and two people really care, there isn’t this one way street for one person.
Especially with sex I know real couples, would not expect one to pay everything or have all this BS. And yes while you probably still have to pay to win a girls heart, that investment is much more than paying for another girl. And that isn’t wrong too. You can do that, but it’s ridiculous seeing some people claim, to win a field heart you have to pay crazy money.
A real healthy relationship with a girl, a humble girl wouldn’t expect you to pay for overrated meals at Instagram restaurants or expect you to buy Gucci to win her heart. From what I’ve seen from my own parents, I know the love wasn’t this superficial.
. In a way it s process and it if it works out it’s better than everything. IDK if it’s related to the video but based on comments I feel it relates and the whole physique thing. I think it’s always been normal for two opposite sexes to like certain types more especially fit and athletic.
End of the day whether it’s make or female, a real one that you can live and have a relationship with is one you can relate or have clear and healthy boundaries.
If you have to pay to win a girls heart or have to be submissive to a man, then that relationship is nothing but toxic and not what love or even liking is.
i have never found this to be true.....guys have never been keen to ask me out, I was an average female. Life is Hard for everyone!!!!! We all have to work to get what we want, male and female. If you think life is easy you are living in a bubble
That is not true. Go on a dating app and see your succes pour in.
@@d-8664average girl privilege is real
@@d-8664 Attention is cheap. Doesn't mean you'll be able to formulate a lasting relationship. It's not flattering for a bunch of randoms to just want to sleep with you to get their rocks off and then ditch you.
You personally equate this to it being easier for women because all you are looking for in a woman is probably sex and not lasting companionship.
The final video game part is the real message
hey rob, it's just not worth it anymore (a girl)
I hope you make a video of this sentence, god bless man.
Thats why i always play games on extreme difficulty, hard mode completed. 😉
Handsome men that won the lottery also need to do nothing. Just trim beard and keep the hair good.
From your perspective, you had to do everything to look at least 6/10, I get it. But that's not how it works.
Woman have other issues they deal with like the psychological stuff that us men will never understand. You can’t say it’s harder or easier to be a man or a woman. It just is what it is, life is hard for everyone as it’s suppose to be . Challenges is what life is all about. Dying at the boss level is exactly what we all need more of each and every single day. Endless bosses endless rounds of levels . Then you die . The entire goal to be alive is to experience life. Not sit on the couch and watch tv. That’s why he talks about the dopamine break but he doesn’t realize you get dopamine hits also from nature. What you want is to keep screen time at a minimum , and live actual life.
I love the way you look at things
I wish I knew this when I was younger.
Ah yes, another one of ''these'' types of channels. Please for the love of God start empowering young men without throwing other people under the bus and creating a bubble like this.
Whether it's women, the older generation, immigrants, I don't care. I dare you to invite someone else on a video with a different experience than yours and have a civil conversation about the different kinds of struggles you have. I bet you wouldn't get far by comparing them and searching for the answer to who has it the worst.
You talked about having to accept that life is hard and to play the cards you are dealt, that is solid advice, but the way you are putting women down is not a good look on you man....
For your next video, when you pick a topic like this, please talk about this situation from your perspective, how you have experienced these feelings and hardships and how you overcame them. But that will require to to be more open and vulnerable, and that's hard. Pointing your finger towards others is easy. The choice is yours.
I sincerely hope that one day, when you've lost your muscles, your career or wealth, that you still feel worth while, because you are. And so are the guys watching this.
Building yourself up is awesome and you should always try to do your best. But when that doesn't work out you are still worth exactly the same.
I didn't enjoy this video, but also thank you. I also tend to get stuck in this whiny attitude that you're displaying and it's ugly. I will try to better myself and think of this video when I feel sad for myself to snap out of it :)
Love your work sir ❤
I think a better title for this video would be "Finding a relationship is more difficult for men". Men have it easier in the work place.
thank you for saying things as they are !
Good show 👏🏾
It will be harder for man at the beginning but keep going 🌟
Nice one
Great video! I definitely like to point out that there’s definitely more work and money put into achieving the female beauty standard. For me, as a woman, I spend an average of 2 hours to do my hair and make up before going on a date. Even to achieve the no make up look or natural look, we still have to use a few products like primer, concealer, foundation, blush, setting powder, mascara and eyebrow wax. Have you seen the prices of makeup products at Sephora?
As for maintaining good skin, I have my skin care routine that I do twice a day and takes about 30 minutes. For my hair, in order to look stylish, I use hot tools to straighten or curl my hair and changing up my hair color, which ends up damaging it, so twice a week, I will be spending a couple of hours to do my hair treatment to repair the damages done. There’s also daily hair products that I would use to nourish and repair my hair. I have eyelash extensions and that would cost 150USD and 3-4 hours a month.
As I’m in my 30s, I need to start doing more skin treatment to prevent or reduce the appearance of lines or wrinkles. Those treatment would cost around 200 dollars per session for about 1 hour. That would be once or twice a month, depends on if I can afford it.
I don’t do Botox or fillers, but there are women who do that to enhance the shape of their face and lift their eyes, remove lines from their face, so that would cost a lot of money and time too.
That is still a lot less work than the average guy has to put in to become succesful at dating.
Big mouth, small brain.
About approaching girls - I have approached more than 2000 girls in cold approach style in my life - based on that alone you could say I am in the top 1% but if you don't have the results... is it worth it ?
I only had sex with 13 girls out of those at least 2000 approaches ... this means less than 1% success rate. Pretty much everybody would say it's unfair considering I am also fit, never been fat, I am average looking, I dress well, I don't stink, I have average money etc.
I also have a bachelor degree in psychology and I studied pickup and social dinamics since high school.
All of this effort put into getting laid and I was still unsatisfied and I couldn't transform any of those gitls I hooked up with into serious relationships.
Only one thing was missing so far - I think : at least 90% of the approaches were done while I was stil hooked up on pmo - not daily, but definitely weekly.
We can only assume this is the sole reason I couldn't be happy with any of these 13 girls or it might be something else ?
I was thinking of cold approaching again when I reach at least 6 months no fap - for now I am back to under 3 months and I feel pretty bad.
Also it still takes at least 300 rejections on average to get one single girl to get laid. I am not talking about phone numbers, dates or anything else that lead to nothing intimate in the end.
If your results are that bad after so many approaches, your looks and game aren’t good enough.
@@IntegraDIY sure buddy ... you try and do that many approaches then come back and criticize my game ... its easy to be a critic when you havent done the work .
I never had a chick tell me I am bad looking and some of them even told me I am good looking before having sex so its not looks ... and game is just pure invented bullshit as we know different girls respond to different things - plus I never met a more confident man than me - but you keep believing game is the problem without you even trying a cold approach yourself
@@IntegraDIY my reply got deleted ? wtf ?
I will post it again - it's not appearence or game... but first go ahead and do at least 1000 approaches... then come back to me and talk about game
@@Dark_Angel555Talk about game? You do not have any game if your succes rate is 1%?
That's simply not true. I'm sorry to break it to you but you didn't really understand female beauty standarts
Enlighten us.
wrong
Just exercise get booty and boobs 😅
Feel free to elaborate.
She's probably thinking of botox or hair dye or some other bullshit thing that women have deluded themselves into thinking that men like..
Of course is it unfair like you and you guys
hey rob i kinda need your advice and hope u read it till end.
So how should i start , i start from the beginnig in february 17th 2023. In this year and month i had such an discipline long streak in Nofap/nopmo till 12th august 2023. Than i got that shit relapses but it was like every time i relapsed it was one a week and when i watched P than like for an minute or so. And that was going months till know sometimes i had 2 3 weeks nofap/nopmo somtimes 1 or 2 weeks. My question is that u understand am i in danger i mean i am fcking fighting like a warrior going to gym reading books dont even have social media on my phone for 2 years know just whatsapp for parents grandma or gf like that stuff. I mean i am traning and doing all that things. I even try my 100% best to be postive and every time a smile i gave me a advice for life that is: Never be Negative in Life bcuz life is too short to be negative and sad depression etc.. i hope u can give me an advice and understand me and my situation. I even like dont count anymore days since fap or smoking etc i mean like its important to make an new lifestyle and cut that fap/pmo of ur life.
yours faithfully Dzibrill