I’m an INTJ man who’s been blessed with an INFP wife for the last 21 years. It sounded like you were describing our relationship in detail. I couldn’t imagine a better partner.
INFP: *Playing guitar riff* INTJ: "Hey cool! Show me how to to play that." 2hrs later... INTJ: "I changed your riff and wrote a whole whole song around it." *Plays song* INFP: "Hey cool! Here's 3 more riffs, and hey, I have this really great idea for a 3 disc multi-album conceptual..." INTJ: 🤔😰🤔🤔😠🤔🤔😈🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔💖 INTJ: "Here's how this is going to work..."
Yes, there is a strong natural attraction between these two types, but their core Fi values must align. They cover each other's weaknesses and help each other grow where they are deficient. And they are both idealists and can work on a shared passion/vision together. It's magical.
@@brainvsheart3171: You are "Alteori" (the black Arctic-fox), if I am 'not' mistaken on your "voice". Have a good day/evening, to you both. Signed: Zragonal [An INTJ with Asperger's along with other co-neurological "disorders".]
Interesting. I'm INFP with an INTJ, and our relationship is very different. He's like the most generous person, and I'm the one who's always like "stop letting people take advantage of you." Also he has a very hard time with things like paying bills and staying on top of finances. He's so immersed in big projects and his ideas to be bothered with those kinds of things. I gladly take charge and excel at those small things.
There are INTJ-A and INTJ-T. The Ts require more structure and control to feel secure, because they need that control and security. The As are more comfortable and don't feel like they need to take control and structure everything so tightly to feel secure.
I wouldn’t say INTJ aren’t creative. Myself I’m an INTJ artist. Our logic does not replace our creativity. Elon Musk who is also an INTJ that takes a lot of creativity backed by logic to shoot a Tesla into space.
I am an infp married to an intj for over 60 years. It is very much as you explain; the relationship becomes stronger and more comfortable with time. Life does happen and it helps to have a well developed sense of humor.
This a beautifully verbose flood of truth, Again I thank you for this overflowing font of knowledge. The subject you are talking about is esoteric inherently, but from your unique perspective comes an utterly pure source of a truth that resonates so strongly with me. It shows with every syllable, every concept. You give my life more clarity, and for that I thank you endlessly.
I am the INTJ and my husband is the INFJ. We've been together for 10 yrs and have 3 kids. He is broadly known as easily likable while I have a reputation for being more problematic. Its just not that normal for a woman to be an INTJ so it makes it hard culturally to do things like Mom groups, bc you really arent supposed to be bluntly honest bc women can be more sensitive and def less forgiving of other women. I find if i do have female friends they are 15 yrs younger or older. If they are younger im really great at problems solving for them and if they are older they have a tough enough skin that has survived worse things then being offended. Sometimes ill tell my husband ppl really dont like me to which his response is " as long as your good to me and the kids so what" which kinda even took him a while to get to, bc he really likes ppl to get along so he was a lot of times trying to explain my thinking or actions. I was married once in my early 20's I dont know what his personality type was but we were choas together. When we would fight he would often bully me into doing what he wanted and would say you need to do things XYZ way. Since I like to fix things I had us attend marriage therapy three times with different ppl , on the last attempt he revealed he didnt feel like he had to make changes bc i was so good at just taking things . Just hearing from his mouth what concluded just further made me check out of the relationship and plan my exit. My current husband and i talk all the time and feel like we are 95% the same person besides being different sexes. having different cultures , and a small age gap . its the easiest relationship ive ever had
INFP fellow here that is fascinated by INTJs too. Subscribed. :] ps. You show how pragmatic side of ralationship work for you. But how romatic side look?
@@Fr1day-RT I agree I'm currently also unavailable been focusing on many projects lately, dating isn't worth most of the time for me maybe it's an INTJ thing but the break is needed.
Are you the animated fox girl that does movie reviews and has Angry Eyes During certain parts of the movie. I'm an intj mail and I watch a lot of literature Nvidia format I recognize your voice
Well yea there are thousands of people in a city. Statistically there are about 20 intjs in a population of 1000. A healthy infp chooses their partner and friends carefully. In my case (because every infp is different) I naturally click with INTJs they can be very sincere very blunt sometimes but sincere. And out of the hundreds of people that I’ve meet in my life there has been more than you think. Some People just aren’t fast at recognizing them.
It’s just the energy… We are naturally drawn to each other… We’re like magnets, we will pull each other closer when we’re not that far from one another. Btw, as an intj girl, I already have like 5 infj friends… And infj is the rarest personality in the world!!!
I’m an INTJ man who’s been blessed with an INFP wife for the last 21 years. It sounded like you were describing our relationship in detail. I couldn’t imagine a better partner.
And mine with my INTJ. He is amazing. Fascinating mind. 🥰
Try be the infp man ..
INFP: *Playing guitar riff*
INTJ: "Hey cool! Show me how to to play that."
2hrs later...
INTJ: "I changed your riff and wrote a whole whole song around it." *Plays song*
INFP: "Hey cool! Here's 3 more riffs, and hey, I have this really great idea for a 3 disc multi-album conceptual..."
INTJ: 🤔😰🤔🤔😠🤔🤔😈🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔💖
INTJ: "Here's how this is going to work..."
that devil face inbetween XD
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂
not bad 👏👏👏
😂😊❤love it 😂😂
Yes, there is a strong natural attraction between these two types, but their core Fi values must align. They cover each other's weaknesses and help each other grow where they are deficient. And they are both idealists and can work on a shared passion/vision together. It's magical.
Exactly! The values are totally important.
@@brainvsheart3171:
You are "Alteori" (the black Arctic-fox), if I am 'not' mistaken on your "voice". Have a good day/evening, to you both.
Signed:
Zragonal
[An INTJ with Asperger's along with other co-neurological "disorders".]
I’m an INFP woman married for 22 years to an INTJ man and this is accurate to a T. Thank you. 😊
Interesting. I'm INFP with an INTJ, and our relationship is very different. He's like the most generous person, and I'm the one who's always like "stop letting people take advantage of you." Also he has a very hard time with things like paying bills and staying on top of finances. He's so immersed in big projects and his ideas to be bothered with those kinds of things. I gladly take charge and excel at those small things.
There are INTJ-A and INTJ-T. The Ts require more structure and control to feel secure, because they need that control and security. The As are more comfortable and don't feel like they need to take control and structure everything so tightly to feel secure.
@@Aubatron Ooooh, thanks for explaining that
I don't think he is an intj
Sounds like my husband and I. We are best friends ❤️
Thanks 💙 m an intj guy, she's infp, 💙
I wouldn’t say INTJ aren’t creative. Myself I’m an INTJ artist. Our logic does not replace our creativity. Elon Musk who is also an INTJ that takes a lot of creativity backed by logic to shoot a Tesla into space.
Filip Salamon I think the INTJ creativity is more “novel remix” than “never seen before” what do you think?
Yeah except Elon is not an INTJ either an ENTP or INTP. I wondered if he was an INTJ too at first but Ive studied him a lot
@@allisonscanlan4144 He is Ni-Fi dominant.
Elon Musk is the most unrelatable person on the planet 🤮
@@basedneeble7350 Why do you think so? He is more normal than your average CEO
I am an infp married to an intj for over 60 years. It is very much as you explain; the relationship becomes stronger and more comfortable with time. Life does happen and it helps to have a well developed sense of humor.
This a beautifully verbose flood of truth,
Again I thank you for this overflowing font of knowledge.
The subject you are talking about is esoteric inherently, but from your unique perspective comes an utterly pure source of a truth that resonates so strongly with me. It shows with every syllable, every concept. You give my life more clarity, and for that I thank you endlessly.
That means so much. My desire it to be as candid as possible as well as edifying. I am still learning so much. :D
I am an INTJ and I am really can relate and I liked what you said. It was very funny and touching.
Again ... I helped my INTJ to learn to meditate ... It was so cool
I am the INTJ and my husband is the INFJ. We've been together for 10 yrs and have 3 kids. He is broadly known as easily likable while I have a reputation for being more problematic. Its just not that normal for a woman to be an INTJ so it makes it hard culturally to do things like Mom groups, bc you really arent supposed to be bluntly honest bc women can be more sensitive and def less forgiving of other women. I find if i do have female friends they are 15 yrs younger or older. If they are younger im really great at problems solving for them and if they are older they have a tough enough skin that has survived worse things then being offended. Sometimes ill tell my husband ppl really dont like me to which his response is " as long as your good to me and the kids so what" which kinda even took him a while to get to, bc he really likes ppl to get along so he was a lot of times trying to explain my thinking or actions. I was married once in my early 20's I dont know what his personality type was but we were choas together. When we would fight he would often bully me into doing what he wanted and would say you need to do things XYZ way. Since I like to fix things I had us attend marriage therapy three times with different ppl , on the last attempt he revealed he didnt feel like he had to make changes bc i was so good at just taking things . Just hearing from his mouth what concluded just further made me check out of the relationship and plan my exit. My current husband and i talk all the time and feel like we are 95% the same person besides being different sexes. having different cultures , and a small age gap . its the easiest relationship ive ever had
Thank for sharing
Intj infj pair is like hal and lois from Malcom in the middle, or Kim and Ron from Kim possible
Or the couple from up
At least that's what I think ,maybe
I love your explanations
Infp here ... Love of my life was INTJ ... Miss him so much
What happened o.o?
@@MentalPlotting he dumped me but bought me a car
@@publicpitchblendeorg I am very sorry for you , I pray you find a better partner !
Loved your videos on INFP INTJ
Infp here ... He broke my heart
😥
What happened ?
INFP fellow here that is fascinated by INTJs too. Subscribed. :]
ps. You show how pragmatic side of ralationship work for you. But how romatic side look?
Do you have advice for the gender-reversed version? I.e. INTJ girl and INFP guy?
Hey I would love to hear a video on suggestions for how to better connect between an INTJ and INFP
Let us know when you find one :)
Let us know when you find one :)
Hey, that’s a good idea
INFJ here, I want one so bad!!! I want to free up creative bandwidth and have a relationship ahhhh the things I could build. Great Vid Thx
Good luck on you quest. We're rare and often take long breaks from the dating pool.
@@Fr1day-RT I agree I'm currently also unavailable been focusing on many projects lately, dating isn't worth most of the time for me maybe it's an INTJ thing but the break is needed.
@@kevinchavarria6792 Yep Lijo talks about "the thing" but for me it's the things. Dating is always second to them.
Hope you find one. I (INTJ) LIVE to provide my wife of 21 years with the space and time she needs to create. It’s a beautiful relationship.
I love your videos ✨☺️ INFJ/P here!
I am an INFP.. But I have never been called an extrovert. Most of the times everyone says I look shy or still..
Completely agree👍
Im an infp and my bf is an intj , i remind him to do things and im the planner ( which i hate ) LOL
I saw your newer video titles. 💔
Are you the animated fox girl that does movie reviews and has Angry Eyes During certain parts of the movie. I'm an intj mail and I watch a lot of literature Nvidia format I recognize your voice
Is that you and your INTJ in the picture
Plot twist it is
Why was he gonna use CMS?
you are still together? :0
So you went out with multiple intjs even though there are only a 2% out in the world? ....idk about that
That’s still about 140 million people you know
Well yea there are thousands of people in a city. Statistically there are about 20 intjs in a population of 1000. A healthy infp chooses their partner and friends carefully. In my case (because every infp is different) I naturally click with INTJs they can be very sincere very blunt sometimes but sincere. And out of the hundreds of people that I’ve meet in my life there has been more than you think. Some People just aren’t fast at recognizing them.
Its more common for INFPs to date ENFJs.
It’s just the energy… We are naturally drawn to each other… We’re like magnets, we will pull each other closer when we’re not that far from one another. Btw, as an intj girl, I already have like 5 infj friends… And infj is the rarest personality in the world!!!