INFP rejects INTJ boyfriend for 2 months straight - Whats going on?

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 23

  • @kevinchavarria6792
    @kevinchavarria6792 4 года назад +38

    Who doesn't want an xNTJ father figure it's a shame, I feel that xNTJs make excellent father figures well for the most part, INTJs struggle too much already in selecting their partners can take years and years but when they do they usually are very loyal and put tremendous effort in the relationship.

    • @chrisp1705
      @chrisp1705 3 года назад +5

      My intj husband adopted my daughter im an infp and we eventually had a son best dad ever and she will tell you that they don't always get along but she respects him and I've seen other dad's with their kids and wives he really is the best dad and husband any one can ask for. ❤

  • @yt-sh
    @yt-sh 2 года назад +4

    I see why you're in a relationship with INTJ, very smart and to the point with multiple view point, you're an INTJ yourself. Thank you!

  • @theodorefbutenhoff7917
    @theodorefbutenhoff7917 4 года назад +30

    This might come off as tribalism, and I really hope it doesn’t. I neither like nor approve of tribalism, but! If your INFP girlfriend is reacting strongly negatively to something you did, I guarantee you she isn’t wrong

    • @theodorefbutenhoff7917
      @theodorefbutenhoff7917 4 года назад +11

      She might not be 100% right, but she’s in the high double digits

  • @davidtaylor4071
    @davidtaylor4071 4 года назад +17

    Absolutely excellent advice and interpretation of the information presented to you. I have no idea about your education and training, but you could be an excellent therapist or couples counselor. Thank you for an excellent video.

  • @OfficialSpyderr
    @OfficialSpyderr 4 года назад +9

    This video reminds me of my last comment on another video of yours. The one where I'm getting blamed for something I didn't do just because I was the only person who was willing to risk our friendship and speak up against something which I knew wouldn't last. I'm done caring now any way. Her loss more than mine

  • @HippieHeste
    @HippieHeste 3 года назад +5

    I would say the issue is the kids. Infp would mess up there own lovelife if they think the kids are not ok with it. I would. The partner must bond with the kids, take them out and do stuff. Let mommy have some complete alone time. Rest asure this will tickle her brain All Day long and she will be tender in the evening.

  • @johnknight9150
    @johnknight9150 11 месяцев назад

    Loosing is when you make something looser/more loose, such as a knot in a rope. Losing is when you lose something, like all hope in humanity when Miley Cyrus does a Metallica cover.

  • @courtneypacholka2302
    @courtneypacholka2302 3 года назад +1

    Going through this exact same thing.

  • @paranormalphenomena563
    @paranormalphenomena563 4 года назад +5

    I really loved you fruitloops

  • @publicpitchblendeorg
    @publicpitchblendeorg 3 года назад

    Awwwwww poor guy

  • @janpauledwarddedios5366
    @janpauledwarddedios5366 2 года назад +2

    Break it off. If she wants you back then she will call you.

  • @bowenarrow2213
    @bowenarrow2213 4 года назад +3

    wonder what you do with a woman who never quits 'processing?'

  • @shakour4084
    @shakour4084 2 года назад +1

    Lol y'all need therapy, stay away from us INTJs until you go through therapy and deal with your past traumas.

  • @lyndouninette8881
    @lyndouninette8881 4 года назад

    Did she say that intj are not okay with intimacy?? And he was okay with it because she was beautiful??Omg... Are all INTJs like this?

    • @brainvsheart3171
      @brainvsheart3171  4 года назад +12

      No definitely not and those that are, it's just foreign to them. The ones I've known initially are not lovey dovey but when they get to know someone they are a lot more loving. For example my grandma's late husband was one and he didn't do the whole kissy kissy I love you thing. My grandma wasn't like that either but Grandfather would have moved heaven for her. That kind of "intimacy" wasn't in his nature. However there are also many different ways different people show intimacy. INTJs, especially ones that have been burned before won't show that off the bat until they trust you or you tell them you require that kind of intimacy.