How I See America After Living in Namibia for 14 Years

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  • Опубликовано: 22 июл 2024
  • It has been 14 YEARS since I moved from NYC to Namibia! Time has really FLOWN by! In this video, I chat about some of the things I've noticed about how American culture compares to Namibian culture!
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    Join me as I share the experience of the African American living in Africa, along with my own in the African nation of Namibia.
    Website: www.aainafrica.com
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Комментарии • 735

  • @wildflower7925
    @wildflower7925 6 месяцев назад +674

    You are the original trailblazer of the diaspora to Africa , you created a path where so many have followed, thank you and stay blessed 😊.

    • @AfroAmericaninAfrica
      @AfroAmericaninAfrica  6 месяцев назад +60

      Thank you so much, appreciate you guys and your support so much 🥹💫

    • @TyroneBlackman7
      @TyroneBlackman7 6 месяцев назад +7

      Truth!

    • @southafricaismyhome814
      @southafricaismyhome814 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@AfroAmericaninAfricaCOME VISIT US IN SOUTHAFRICA

    • @southafricaismyhome814
      @southafricaismyhome814 6 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@AfroAmericaninAfricaRUclips THE REAL SOUTHAFRICA WITH MARK BLANTON this black americans what relocated to southafrica your new country was part of Southafrica lot of southafricans live in Namibia 😂😂😂🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

    • @sherrisolomon2843
      @sherrisolomon2843 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@AfroAmericaninAfricaOh Wow! Good to know you're still here. I tuned in to you're channel in your early years. Hope to see you do a hang out interview with Oshay Duke Jackson and Phil from the African Diaspora.

  • @hopepray1669
    @hopepray1669 6 месяцев назад +632

    As an African living in the US, The sense of community in Africa is greater. Your next door neighbours become family . Here in the US , you will be lucky to even know the gender of your next door neighbour. Depression is definitely higher in the US.

    • @peedot39
      @peedot39 5 месяцев назад +17

      You are right.

    • @JasonVaughnMamba80
      @JasonVaughnMamba80 5 месяцев назад +17

      Absolutely! I saw that when I first went to Ghana

    • @ColetteElizabeth
      @ColetteElizabeth 2 месяца назад +4

      Wow. I'm thinking that your experience may be specific to where you are living in the US. As a 58-year-old African American, who was born and raised in California, we not only knew our immediate neighbors, but we also knew the folks in surrounding neighborhoods.
      Our neighbors and members of the neighborhood at large not only knew me, but they knew who my parents, aunts/uncles and grandparents were and vice versa. In fact, growing up, my family would ask folks upon meeting ANYONE, "who is your family." And sure, enough someone in my family (usually my grandmother, great grandmother, or great great grandmother) knew SOMEONE from their family. This was whether the person was originally from California or migrated from what we call "The South."
      I'll end by saying that in the African American community, this is the norm. EVERYBODY literally knew EVERYBODY. This is how we built community for years.

    • @roberthornbrook8374
      @roberthornbrook8374 2 месяца назад +3

      Or even if that is there real gender 😂

  • @blackmaster999
    @blackmaster999 6 месяцев назад +322

    Africa is keeping you looking young and beautiful.

  • @josephbrown1573
    @josephbrown1573 6 месяцев назад +286

    Its not that Africans are not bothered by service disruptions its because there is nothing one can do .I am from Nigeria and when the power went out in Nigeria there was no one to call and nothing to do so its not patience its learned helplessness !! As for the attitude to work , in many African countries workers sometimes are not paid for months !! In Nigeria, government workers can sometimes go six months without a paycheck , plus workers are not paid for overtime and this explains the attitude towards work !! Lateness is African BUT I now live in America and I never see any Africans coming to work late here !!

    • @josephnakale7343
      @josephnakale7343 2 месяца назад

      In my city where I am residing I never experienced a power cut or loadshedding as it called in SA.So if I may wake up one day and there is no electricity or water is something that going to worry me a lot that day because it really going to be much inconvenient. We aren't used to these types of situations. The power cut that used to come time to time people used to be informed beforehand, and mostly is coming when there is maintance going on.The power autage only last for few hours if there is repair or something in that case.Again fir my 28 years of public service I never experienced delayed payments or no mayment at all .So these these things to some is just stories we are hearing somewhere else.

    • @AntonsClass
      @AntonsClass Месяц назад +1

      That's an interesting observation, and it makes total sense.

  • @Cecyk
    @Cecyk 6 месяцев назад +314

    I am Namibian now leaving in Ireland and I have noticed how people here panic about everything even little things. I have learned then that as Namibians we are very flexible, patient and can actually cope anywhere.

    • @mrsjohn5060
      @mrsjohn5060 6 месяцев назад +23

      That's so true. I feel the same as well. Good to see a fellow Namibian in Ireland

  • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
    @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 6 месяцев назад +245

    As a Jamaican 🇯🇲...You're on point, there's nothing wrong with managing time, but its not urgent and crazy like in the West.....God intended for us to take a break & ;rest.....We are also on " African time" in the Carribbean too, and trust me. Never, ever will I change that....Amen awesome content.

    • @raikie
      @raikie 6 месяцев назад +11

      Nice to see another Jamaican 🇯🇲 in the comments ❤

  • @taraji7259
    @taraji7259 5 месяцев назад +101

    I was born and raised in Kenya, but I came to America when I was very young and have lived here for many years. One day, I decided to return to Kenya to experience it as an adult for over 6 months. Oh boy, I experienced culture shock when the water and lights cut off without notice! I had an American tantrum and was so frustrated. But with time, I learned to be patient.

  • @daw7773
    @daw7773 6 месяцев назад +467

    As an African American the fear of being randomly shot at a grocery store,school is far more “inconvenient “ than not having air conditioning or electricity for a day. IMO

    • @kevinmax25
      @kevinmax25 6 месяцев назад +74

      Believe me, the climate here, especially where I'm at in Nairobi, Kenya is beyond conducive. You do not need air conditioner...Nature is just ideal for almost everyone.

  • @franman1148
    @franman1148 6 месяцев назад +194

    Before Wode Maya and the ton of RUclipsrs that make content in Africa today there was this sister. Good to see you again.

  • @demi1256
    @demi1256 5 месяцев назад +5

    She stopped aging when she landed!❤

  • @videoviewer502
    @videoviewer502 6 месяцев назад +98

    Loving the moringa tree in the background

    • @AfroAmericaninAfrica
      @AfroAmericaninAfrica  6 месяцев назад +22

      Omg you have a great eye! Teach me your ways 🙌🏾 🌱 Yes, that’s our young moringa tree that we bought middle of last year! Thanks so much for watching!!

    • @delroy232007
      @delroy232007 6 месяцев назад +8

      Btw did you know moringa is good for people with diabetes it helps in lowering your glucose level my grandmother uses it all the time

  • @CreekLocseed
    @CreekLocseed 6 месяцев назад +226

    I am a 25year old Black american and deeply resonate with everything you are saying. I’ll be moving to Nigeria soon with my girlfriend who is Nigerian from brooklyn to start a eco village and to practice self sustainability and regenerative life practices with her. Most of us coming up these days can’t even afford a half way decent life even if we have our bachelors. It’s really tough and draining and many are starting to see life here as pointless. The culture of the US is unsustainable long term and many of us in the younger generations in the US and in other western nations are beginning to wake up and smell the sugar Honey ice tea. I have a burning desire to leave this place and never ever come back. Don’t get me wrong. I love where I’m from and my culture. But it’s suffocating at times because of the narrow mindedness that runs rampant in American and Black American spaces about the rest of the world. Americans genuinely believe we are the best people on the planet and it’s incredibly Annoying how closed minded we can be at times. Even I myself have been guilty of this at times. That’s why I gottah make it out of here no matter what.The world is changing and this empire is soon to crumble.

    • @Chuwalker
      @Chuwalker 6 месяцев назад +14

      you are spot on.

    • @Chuwalker
      @Chuwalker 6 месяцев назад +41

      Since I came to the West from my home country three years ago, I discovered that my quality of life has been impacted, yes, there is great infrastructure, constant power etc, but it's like being in a robotic system without a human feel. I missed the job I left behind back home, the calmness, the human face to work and all.

    • @adeo506
      @adeo506 6 месяцев назад +14

      Oh my gosh! This is so relatable I could cry! I’m a Nigerian from Sweden about to turn 25. Is there an insta or something to follow the village ?❤ I recently started thinking of doing something similar!!

    • @alveem7295
      @alveem7295 6 месяцев назад +42

      I'm Nigerian myself and seriously if you guys live in the rural areas with solar energy (which is readily available and far cheaper than in the U.S,) a house, and a farmland. You have zero to worry about, no bills, more natural food, peace of mind, etc. And if you guys are good with agriculture you can still make money selling farm products because the population is huge and there's market for a lot of things especially food products.
      The locals would think y'all are crazy for leaving America though 😄😄
      They don't know the rat race over here is not worth it at all.

  • @aisatsblake
    @aisatsblake 5 месяцев назад +5

    EVERYTHING this lady has said is true, even in the Caribbean. I'm Canadian, born and raised, but I moved to the island of Grenada 17 years ago. BEST decision I ever made, not just because Canada has gone crazy (thanks Trudeau) but because I discovered that PEOPLE are more important than PROCESS EFFICIENCY. I have a better quality of life even without Walmart and Amazon. I've learned to slow down and appreciate blue water, gentle breezes and a smile from the neighbour. I'll NEVER go back to live in North America and I'm so happy to see there are others who have made a leap and don't regret it.

  • @_kashama
    @_kashama 6 месяцев назад +95

    I was born in Congo (Kinshasa) and lived in Lusaka (Zambia) from the ages of 2 til 9, when my parents promptly moved us to the States (Connecticut).I'm now turning 32 in a few days and I don't think I've ever been genuinely content living here. I'm married to a Black American wife (with Jamaican ancesctry) and we have two beautiful children together. I bring up the idea of moving to a country in Africa, and at first, she was extremely reluctant to it. Over time, I notice that she's now a lot more open to having that convo, as the strenuous American life has taken its toll on everyone. Fingers crossed, and y'all wish me luck, in a few more years I'll be sharing my "moving back home" journey. 🤞🏾🙏🏾

  • @debbiejansen1178
    @debbiejansen1178 5 месяцев назад +8

    I'm from Pennsylvania. My mother is from South Africa. I ended not being raised by her and she then passed away. In 2006 I went to Cape Town and got to meet my family. It was the first and only time I felt like I was home. It was an incredible feeling. I've been back again and hope to go again. I'm a teacher. Sometimes I want to return and teach in the townships.

  • @kwadwosenya469
    @kwadwosenya469 6 месяцев назад +187

    You’re definitely a 🐐 One of the first people to actively vlog about move to Afrika. Still standing tall and thriving 🙌🏿

  • @kiddoq539
    @kiddoq539 6 месяцев назад +96

    I can only wish my wife had assimilated and tolerated life and traditions of South Africa back in the 1990's when we moved back to South Africa but she had a hard time and we ended up moving back to Chicago a couple of years later. Being a South African living in the US, I agree with you 100%. Your posts are always soothing to me each time I view them, but I also feel the loss of my South Africaness. Keep up the great work.

    • @AfroAmericaninAfrica
      @AfroAmericaninAfrica  6 месяцев назад +22

      It’s not easy for everyone, living abroad can be challenging so I empathize with her and also with you! ❤️‍🩹

    • @frederickgriffith7004
      @frederickgriffith7004 6 месяцев назад +10

      Please Please please my friend whatever you do.Never lose the ties to your original homeland. Especially if you have children. If I did have children, it would have to be with a lady who has cultural ties outside the country. I would want my children to have options. Besides we live in a global world. As an African American I have always felt that America may be a great place to work and make a living. But it can never be our true ancestral and spiritual home.America can provide an excellent compliment in terms of resources. But it took me to visit other countries for ten straight summers in order to ensure my mental and physical well-being. Simply because the negativity towards Black people is built into American culture. Leading to even more stress,anxiety and depression. But I also learned what America has in abundance and what it is lacking.

    • @AntonsClass
      @AntonsClass Месяц назад

      Do you think you'll end up back in SA ever? I visited SA and I loved it.

  • @seanbarnard8598
    @seanbarnard8598 5 месяцев назад +2

    I was born and raised in Namibia and I thank you for this insightful comparison. I have never been to the US (last time I left Nam was in 2013 to South Africa) but it's nice to see someone actually compare the two societies. Please make another comparison video! I'd love to learn more from you.

  • @ilonakaura1985
    @ilonakaura1985 3 месяца назад +3

    I"am so soooo proud of you to made such a move and explained it so well - life in Namibia compares to America well said ! I'am an Namibian leave in New York came here in my early 20 's love , love my New York no regret living here for so long , made good frieds here but , planning to retired back home because of the peacefulness that i feel when i come home , also financially way better than leaving in New York as we all know here its very expensive . I told my american frieds about your youtube channel they watched it and very excited to come and visit Namibia . You made it happed it take a strong black sister again i am proud of you . May God bless you , your husband and chrildren peace .

  • @carloscrockett3174
    @carloscrockett3174 6 месяцев назад +88

    Welcome back, you were one of the first African Americans to provide content on Africa. Much success to you.

  • @donny-crypto7615
    @donny-crypto7615 5 месяцев назад +16

    In Spain they say, Americans live to work, while in Spain people work to live, and I think that applies to most countries outside the USA

  • @mbonisamnkosi2500
    @mbonisamnkosi2500 6 месяцев назад +36

    In the case of kids with disabilities, I am in Eswatini and we have very few schools for disabled. We are in a process of implementing inclusive education though. A few of the schools are already there but a majority of the schools are still working on it. The challenges include making necessary adjustments on the infrastructure & staff training because our education system wasn't inclusive for many years

    • @TheNaturalMe2011
      @TheNaturalMe2011 6 месяцев назад +3

      Things take time. It's good that you all are moving in the right direction.

  • @ColetteElizabeth
    @ColetteElizabeth 2 месяца назад +2

    Your channel was the first one I saw when I considered relocating to the continent. Thank you for making this content 😎

    • @AfroAmericaninAfrica
      @AfroAmericaninAfrica  Месяц назад

      Thanks SO much for continuing to watch!!! Sincerely appreciate it, friend!

  • @YogaBlissDance
    @YogaBlissDance 6 месяцев назад +25

    Your skin is glowing you seem to be thriving! Congratulations.

  • @denisedixon-george3866
    @denisedixon-george3866 4 месяца назад +2

    African American married to a Nigerian & living in Nigeria 3 years, I can relate & agree to everything you’ve said. I’ve been following you for a while. Your channel was one of the channels helped me have an insight on living on the continent. I don’t regret my decision to move here.

    • @djomokolele
      @djomokolele Месяц назад

      Denisedixon which city in Nigeria do you live?

  • @carolinedelisle589
    @carolinedelisle589 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. this is what the internet was real meant for: sharing experiences from the world over easily so that we can learn from each other.

  • @jamillawebb3567
    @jamillawebb3567 6 месяцев назад +14

    Thank you sis this was great video! I’ve visited 5 African countries, 2 as a volunteer nurse and 3 as a tourist and I can totally relate to everything that was said. As long as I have a half filled bucket of water and soap to wash and a candle, a water or power outage is no big deal to me 😂. After traveling abroad you notice that typical American food is trash and the portions are waaaay to big. The best food and fruit I’ve ever had in my life came from Benin, Senegal, Brazil and Colombia. I hope to have a home overseas one day. I love experiencing other cultures 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @simplydivine77
    @simplydivine77 6 месяцев назад +43

    You are the Godmother of Black American Expatriation. I remember watching you years ago when you were one of the few. God bless for living your full life and sharing with us (while simultaneously leading the way for other).

    • @AfroAmericaninAfrica
      @AfroAmericaninAfrica  6 месяцев назад +7

      This is a huge compliment and I really appreciate it!! Thank you 🥹

  • @MzLena2You
    @MzLena2You 6 месяцев назад +21

    My screensaver is of Swakopmund. I am from CT, and I have had Namibia on my radar for at least a year now. I want to visit so badly. The school system here in the states is so volatile. I lived and worked in Westchester County for 3 years, and I would never work in a school again. The staff is stressed, the kids lack discipline, the parents are just as challenging as their kids. Although I am from the Northeast US where it's ridiculously fast paced, I prefer a respectful, laidback, welcoming environment. And that is slowly diminishing all throughout the states. It's so divided and hostile. Great informative video!

  • @Cecyk
    @Cecyk 6 месяцев назад +23

    I miss that relaxed life, I have learned that it’s very good for our mental health.

  • @againstthegrain5309
    @againstthegrain5309 6 месяцев назад +14

    Greetings sis. My family and I moved to Namibia back in August from the US. I agree 100%. So far Namibian culture moves very very slow. That's going to take some getting use to but otherwise I have no regrets with the move. Shalom

  • @spacesandplacesoutthere
    @spacesandplacesoutthere 6 месяцев назад +26

    i cannot believe it's been 14YEARS! i remember when you first came on RUclips.
    just want to say I am so proud of you my sista. You have represented our people FBA's/AA's very well.
    Many blessings to you and your lovely family.
    Shoutout from Oakland👊🏿💯✈

    • @AfroAmericaninAfrica
      @AfroAmericaninAfrica  6 месяцев назад +4

      Thanks so much! I know, the years are really flyiiiing!! 💨 I can’t believe that much time has passed myself! 🤯

  • @tammya5403
    @tammya5403 6 месяцев назад

    This was so educational and I thank you for sharing what you have learned! I’m from NYC too, so this comes as a true eye opener❤

  • @statemoneyclaim8051
    @statemoneyclaim8051 6 месяцев назад

    Great video! Thank you so much for continuing to share your journey. I found your channel about 5 years ago. You really helped me with mindset in my transition to first visiting and then moving to the continent.

  • @meldawilliams1636
    @meldawilliams1636 6 месяцев назад

    You are back so happy to see you, am always checking for your videos

  • @theshoemakinglady
    @theshoemakinglady 6 месяцев назад +15

    I so agree with you. Even living in a small suburban area in the States, things were slow but not so much anymore. I can't wait to see and compare once I get to the continent.

  • @emiliec.5070
    @emiliec.5070 6 месяцев назад

    Again, a great video ! Thank you...
    I love your authenticity.

  • @Umar1975ful
    @Umar1975ful 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow so good to hear from you sis! Your intellect and info is very much appreciated.

  • @LuxeGlobalLifestyle
    @LuxeGlobalLifestyle 6 месяцев назад

    I am so glad to see you back on with new videos. Thank You for enjoying your process behind the scenes and being able to share your personal experience from living abroad in Africa all these years. You were the one the first resource of showing its possible as a fellow New Yorker who lives in Africa.

  • @mbusoguma5504
    @mbusoguma5504 6 месяцев назад +4

    I appreciate how unique your story is, living and raising a family with a brother from here in the motherland. Very refreshing perspective. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏿

  • @HebrewsandGentilesalikei-sc9dq
    @HebrewsandGentilesalikei-sc9dq 5 месяцев назад

    I came across the older/earlier videos this gave me deeper insights about Africa so I have to thank you tons for your experience you have with Namibia. :)

  • @barboo2
    @barboo2 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much, Queen! This was wonderfully informative and inspiring! Subbed and looking forward to receiving more of your content about Home.

  • @p.t.9709
    @p.t.9709 6 месяцев назад +3

    So glad to see you again Sis. Thank you for the inspiration. We’re 2 years on the continent now. I can identify with many of these points.

  • @NESTG1973
    @NESTG1973 6 месяцев назад

    This is a piece of resourceful educational content you have here.
    You know what, you have a great upbringing influence and now that you are in a society that has more of a cultural values
    I m particularly proud of you

  • @kimberlymelvin2571
    @kimberlymelvin2571 6 месяцев назад +14

    Thank you so much for this video. You are so right about American ways. My son lived abroad for 2 years. He came home and often said we have so many unimportant first world problems. We are a nation of speed, greed and need. I love seeing how so many other countries appreciate just taking the time to slow down, breathe and live life. I appreciate your videos, continued blessings Kaylan❤

  • @thenewchief9911
    @thenewchief9911 6 месяцев назад +2

    I legit been following since day one. So proud of you..

  • @py20
    @py20 6 месяцев назад

    That's sister Kaitlyn, always on point! Blessings to you and yours.

  • @TonnyOkello
    @TonnyOkello 6 месяцев назад +2

    Good to hear from you again! The first RUclipsr I started following

  • @mohamedkamara8153
    @mohamedkamara8153 6 месяцев назад +2

    Such a pioneer from New York. Happy New Year to you and your family. Stay blessed.

  • @-beee-
    @-beee- 5 месяцев назад

    Super interesting perspectives! Thank you so much for sharing your reflections and a glimpse into your world!

  • @TurtleIslandADOS
    @TurtleIslandADOS 6 месяцев назад +1

    Lovely! A very informative and balanced commentary. Thank you!

  • @1maggotbrain
    @1maggotbrain 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are a gem, great catch! Your spouse is lucky, great to see you again!

  • @mojisoladeji
    @mojisoladeji 6 месяцев назад +1

    You hit the nail on the head on pretty much everything. I particularly like your explanation on so-called 'African time'. Respect for elders, no rush, etc is all true. Your video came up randomly on my feed and I have now subscribed. 😊

  • @sergioozar9696
    @sergioozar9696 6 месяцев назад

    Welcome back our QUEEN! We missed you alot.

  • @pls5201
    @pls5201 6 месяцев назад

    Beautiful video. You are an amazing influencer. Thank you. Please keep educating us.

  • @Johnged15
    @Johnged15 6 месяцев назад +2

    This was a great posts. Looking forward to my African journey.

  • @jeffkashman8803
    @jeffkashman8803 6 месяцев назад +3

    Nice one... Awesome video.... Much respect for you to stay that long in Africa.... From Zambia...

  • @marisaosodo7133
    @marisaosodo7133 6 месяцев назад +45

    Thank you my daughter, Thank you for telling them. Mzungus are coming and staying, Chinese are staying. They need to be more patient and not the other way round. You can survive off grid. Take your rightful place in the African society.

  • @samona7152
    @samona7152 6 месяцев назад +3

    Oh wow, I remember you. I came across your channel about 5 or 6 years ago. I plan to move to Afrika this year and Namibia is one of the many countries I would love to visit and possibly live. Blessings to you & happy New Year!

  • @zen9428
    @zen9428 6 месяцев назад +1

    Welcome back Namibian sister, it's been a long time sense your last post many blessing to you + family !!!

  • @FrozenAfricaPrincess
    @FrozenAfricaPrincess 6 месяцев назад

    I've been following your channel since you posted your wisdom tooth video and I always appreciate your insights. Thank you for sharing!

  • @msbanji4963
    @msbanji4963 6 месяцев назад +2

    Beyond being happy for you creating your family in Namibia, i am happy to see the trees in your compound have grown. Am sure your compound is very beautiful

  • @TheeMcMas
    @TheeMcMas 6 месяцев назад

    Glad to see you back online Sister😇

  • @robinsonfamily222
    @robinsonfamily222 6 месяцев назад +46

    Thank you for another video!
    I wanted to mention that not all of the USA is strict with time. That is only certain regions. I am from the northeast (Philly) but have lived in about 7 states and now on the west coast. In the northeast there was a major push for doing everything early and strict with time. But I was mainly raised down south and in some southern areas, we are barely on time and it isn't an issue. It is also laid back in the south and southwest. I do notice here in Arizona there are a lot of people migrating from other places bringing that rush rush mentality so hopefully they don't shift the laid back culture. It also depends on the field you work in. I am a substitute teacher and there is a little wiggle room with the time. But of course I have to be there when class starts. But I have been late a few times since the bus runs late and nobody made a big deal about it as long as I call and let them know. That is one reason I cannot live in those major cities around the USA. Smaller towns aren't that bad.
    As far as shelters around the USA, there is a crisis here. Most shelters are full. And with the influx of illegals coming into the country, you are lucky to find a shelter or even a hotel in some areas if there are football games etc going on. Now as far as respect, listen; I can't argue with that. These students in the USA are disrespectful and hate learning. You should see what happened yesterday when I handed out an assignment. A few of my students speak Arabic and Swahili and they entered the work into a translator, sat there quietly, completed the work, and was done before all of the American students. The other students just kept talking and being unruly as usual.
    I am glad your children won't be raised here since a lot of schools (private and public) contain students who are coming from broken homes where values no longer matter in the USA.

    • @AfroAmericaninAfrica
      @AfroAmericaninAfrica  6 месяцев назад +13

      Hi! Thanks for watching and the comment! Thats true about Southern culture, for example, being slower paced! About the shelters, yes, I’ve been following the news about the migrants and their impact on the system! In the States they have them even if they’re full. Here, it’s another story. Sorry about the school incident 🫤 I hear a lot of American teachers in the US voice similar frustrations.

  • @oaknyno
    @oaknyno 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for posting. It's always a pleasure to hear from you. Your earrings are absolutely beautiful!

    • @AfroAmericaninAfrica
      @AfroAmericaninAfrica  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks so much for watching and for the earring love!! 💗

  • @AntonsClass
    @AntonsClass Месяц назад

    You helped inspire me to make it down to Namibia. Glad to see you're doing well!

  • @annamensah8261
    @annamensah8261 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Kayleen,
    You are very very very...right on point. Please tell them,open their ears and minds...I love you big big big time.Hit the nail on the head.
    Compliments of the new season to you and your beautiful children and the man in your life.
    Thanks bye

  • @acajudi100
    @acajudi100 6 месяцев назад +8

    I moved to Queretaro in 2021 at 79. I am always happy to see you sweet lady. God continue to bless you and those you love.
    Judi Grace.

  • @Moses.m
    @Moses.m 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow! That was a concrete explanation of the differences in cultures.As a Kenyan I relate a lot with what you have said.

  • @soyamor6528
    @soyamor6528 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am European, I used to live in a city and work for an american corporation. I've been living in rural Indonesia for 14 years and I so much relate to what you are talking about. I am grateful everyday for taking the decision of moving here and being able to enjoy this kind of live style.

  • @maksheadroom8985
    @maksheadroom8985 5 месяцев назад

    Very well spoken, and realistic descriptions - also it seems you have embraced the way they do things around there!

  • @criptovida
    @criptovida 6 месяцев назад

    It's amazing to see new videos, keep posting sis. Cheers from Angola.

  • @priscillabaileymusic
    @priscillabaileymusic 6 месяцев назад

    I was thinking about you the other day. Glad you're still on here.

  • @gettochess
    @gettochess 6 месяцев назад

    This was a great broadcast. Keep up the work. Coming to you from Los Angeles, Ca.

  • @viciwo3396
    @viciwo3396 6 месяцев назад

    Great video. Glad to come back to your video after some time.

  • @mojavedesertsonorandesert9531
    @mojavedesertsonorandesert9531 6 месяцев назад +13

    Always good to see Americans leave them come back for a visit and see how strange the U.S. is in many simple aspects... When I take a long vacation and come back you see the difference. I think living in a very rural area of the desert in California is a lot less stressful than a city or suburb...

  • @panafrican.nation
    @panafrican.nation 6 месяцев назад +1

    You're such a pioneer. I remember your first videos. God bless you. We've had a few long power disruptions in Kenya, but I realized that such are opportunities to reset. Being plugged in 24/7 isn't human. Subscribed.

  • @Jessendlesslove
    @Jessendlesslove 6 месяцев назад +1

    Omggg I'm so happy to see your blogs popping up! I've been wondering where you've been ❤

  • @ArA-og1dv
    @ArA-og1dv 6 месяцев назад +3

    👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 my Caribbean siStar is back, D first I subscribed to With Nambian tales more than decade ago( i thinkk) ...All is well with u n fam. Great to c u. Asè ❤❤

  • @akuashope7477
    @akuashope7477 6 месяцев назад +5

    Glad you are back sis. I missed you. I watched you in the early days and you encourage my decision to move to Africa as a retiree. Now I permanently live between Ghana and South Africa for the last two years. And you are so right in your assessment. We have to be humble, patient and adopt to the culture. Everything you mentioned is an opportunity for entrepreneurial industry. Afro-Americans with skills need to think about starting a business here because it’s so needed. Again Welcome back!

  • @digitalvictory8266
    @digitalvictory8266 5 месяцев назад

    Fascinating! Thank you for posting this extremely informative video.

  • @Smiley0725
    @Smiley0725 6 месяцев назад

    Just bumped into this channel, loving it

  • @JACKIELVSGOD
    @JACKIELVSGOD 6 месяцев назад +2

    I REALLY LOVED THIS VIDEO ON HOW U COMPARED THE TWO. I SUBSCRIBED, THUMBS UP AND I SHARED IT WITH MY DAUGHTER WHO IS ATTENDING THE UNIVERSITY TO BECOME A PSYCHOLOGIST. I FEEL YOUR CHANNEL CAN HELP HER UNDERSTAND THE TRUE AFRICAN CULTURE IF AND WHEN THERAPY IS NEEDED. THANK YOU FOR SHARING

  • @afrakanaswahilitv5520
    @afrakanaswahilitv5520 4 месяца назад

    Good to see you back. Karibu sana!

  • @mocisse8319
    @mocisse8319 6 месяцев назад +9

    "It's not the end of the world" it's a mindset that will allow you to be free.

  • @hilmanakambale5781
    @hilmanakambale5781 6 месяцев назад +26

    Kaylan, thank you so much for sharing your journey in Namibia. You are incredibly resilient, and I am glad you still enjoy staying in Namibia. I am from Okahao - born and bred there. I have been living in the US for the past few years and had a tremendous culture shock when I first got here. I totally agree with you on your observations in Namibia and the comparison to the US. The US and Namibia are vastly different, and they both are surely far from perfect. I also had a sojourn in several European countries before, but the US is just so different. My idea of America was always shaped by books and movies, so I thought I knew what to expect when I got here.
    I agree that Americans are super concerned about almost everything - safety and convenience. The hypervigilance culture in the US - gunshot alerts, bad weather alerts - paradoxically makes me feel unsafe because you are always bombarded with something to worry about almost every time. The other thing that shocked me when I first got here was the number of unsheltered people on the streets and the amount of garbage downtown in most major cities that I have visited. It seems that homelessness is a serious concern in major US cities.
    I definitely agree with you on the issue of the shortage of social services in Namibia. I guess the main issue is that there are vast cultural differences between the US and Namibia. In capitalist countries like the US, where everyday politics involve public conversations about how taxpayer money is spent, people demand more from the government, including the provision of services that in some countries are exclusively confined to the realm of family responsibilities. Duties like caretaking are also sentimental in many African cultures, such that when those are outsourced from the government, for example in the form of hospices, that is mostly deemed as neglect. Governments' functions in many ways are informed by local culture, what that unfortunately does is that it leads to the neglect of some essential services that a few people who might not have conventional families, extended families, homes, and communities might need.
    On kids' behavior, I think the way kids are raised in the general American life is tremendously different from Namibia and most African countries. I was shocked to learn that kids in the
    US generally are not required to wear school uniforms. Americans are mostly too liberal and that has an effect on children’s behavior - not respecting elders and generally just being hard to discipline. I have observed that the American society generally does not respect conformity. I am socially conservative, so I am still trying to wrap my mind around that.
    Consumerism was also another shock for me. Every second you’d see a commercial on your screen persuading you to buy something that you definitely know you do not need. I must confess that I enjoy watching commercials though, haha... it is fun when you are trying to guess the product in the first few seconds, just to find out it's nothing out of the ordinary, it’s just Tylenol!
    Thank you once again for sharing your journey in Namibia and I hope you will continue sharing valuable lessons from your life in the motherland!

  • @donred1693
    @donred1693 6 месяцев назад +16

    You're absolutely right. I was born and raised in N.Y.C during the 60's and 70's also and was uncomfortable with the hustle and bustle for survival and progress. Everyone in competition with each other as individuals as well as groups of individuals and many don't last to long. I was happy to leave in 76's. still in the U.S., but away from the brutal environment. I too hope to one day leave the continental U.S.A

  • @LUKE-TeNnIneTeeN
    @LUKE-TeNnIneTeeN 5 месяцев назад

    HI there! It is a blessing to have your channel come across my recommendation. Refreshing and informative. One thing you said stands out to me about the many options at the grocery stores. I saw a documentary about how we have an illusion of choice. Its an illusion. Like all the choices are under an umbrella of a handful of companies. For example, the have 10 different choices of arm deodorant to choose from but in reality one company owns 8 of them. I was blown away. Its true with foods, the illusion of electing a president, cars, etc
    I have been fed up with mystery babylon since the great awakening(2020)
    I am so grateful for this video. Your family is beautiful!

  • @chilombomululu6034
    @chilombomululu6034 3 месяца назад

    This is beautiful to wtch.ur so courageous 🎉❤and ur spirit settled well in namibia its where ur soul connected to.

  • @Cynjae167
    @Cynjae167 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for your view point , they are always inspiring and honest , thank you 😊👍👋✌️

  • @Jasubakende
    @Jasubakende 5 месяцев назад

    A very informative and balanced evaluation of the different cultures.

  • @natatruffle
    @natatruffle 6 месяцев назад +1

    Love your videos, such an inspiration to me, good to see you sis xx

  • @gracethi5663
    @gracethi5663 5 месяцев назад +1

    So interesting! Thank you for sharing your experience, your journey 🧡

  • @user-lc3ps7hx3k
    @user-lc3ps7hx3k 5 месяцев назад

    Good to hear from you again,
    I love Africa, I'm African.

  • @banayisolelenegus
    @banayisolelenegus 6 месяцев назад +6

    Greetings!! I definitely salute you Sis. I was inspired by your journey as I watched it unfold while living in Canada years ago. The Most High has also made a way for me to repatriate to the continent iand I met my husband in The Gambia. I'm so happy for you and your family and pray for all the best for you guys. All praises!!

  • @ohsokrispi
    @ohsokrispi 5 месяцев назад +3

    Loved your video. The very last thing you said is what lead me to comment…You talked about being ready to “shed your skin” when you moved abroad but realized that it’s a part of you. I had the same experience. I never knew how American I was until I moved away…going on 18 years now. 🎉

  • @annicyakale
    @annicyakale 6 месяцев назад +1

    So good to see you. I just wanted to let you know that I missed your videos.

  • @JoshuaTanzer
    @JoshuaTanzer 5 месяцев назад

    This is a terrific video and terrific perspective. Thank you!

  • @mrsjohn5060
    @mrsjohn5060 6 месяцев назад +6

    Good to see you back Kaylan. As a Namibian living in Ireland, I totally agree with you. Great content🙌🏾

    • @AfroAmericaninAfrica
      @AfroAmericaninAfrica  6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so much for watching!! Sending hugs to you in Ireland! 💗

  • @peterbsims
    @peterbsims 6 месяцев назад

    I love your channel. Thanks for sharing with us!