HOW WE SURVIVED OUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP || TOLULOPE AND GBEMIGA ADEJUMO
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Hey Team Solutions,
We are currently in Kenya and decided to make this video that has been requested for so long.
Asante.
Music: RetroVison - Cake [NCS Release]
“Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the LORD shall be praised”
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Location: Nairobi, Kenya
Gbemiga and Temitope. God bless you both for the vlogs. I am a married woman with three children by the grace of God. My husband proposed to me some few days before his official trip (18 Months) outside the country and I had to call on Holy spirit to give me guidance on the response to give to him. He(Holyspirit) did help me and the response was positive. My husband did not return back until two weeks before our wedding (one year apart).My family introduction as he instructed was done in his absence. In a nutshell, I am a product of long distance relationship. We marked our 14th years anniversary in June 2018. Its Baba God noni.... Gbemiga was right saying "What help trust is trust", because there were some distractions which I purposely ignored. For instance, someone said, how can a man who graduated from one of the best universities in Nigeria with an opportunity to travel officially come back for HND holder. But I had to put my trust in God who saw me through. Communication helped then, unfortunately, no video opportunity but my church with the help of our pastor enabled me to wait after services to receive calls from him. It was seriously challenging because I would have to arrive home late in the night due of 6 to 7 hours time difference. At a point, his best friend became uncomfortable with the situation and bought me a desk top MULTILINK phone so as to always receive calls at home. We eventually got married and its been awesome. With my husband support and scholarship., I proceeded for my Msc. about 4years ago in UK while my husband and the children were in Nigeria. Like you too, I was a triangular student o (school, home and church). To the glory of God, I graduated with distinction and an award.Why my epistle above? The summary is "What help trust is trust" (Courtesy Gbemiga Adejumo, 2018) Don't go near distance relationship if there is TRUST issue.Thumbs up! for you and your husband. Keep up the good work. Develop thick skin and don't respond to people with negative comments. No distraction! Yes you may be exposing your private lives, but trust me, It might be the ministry that God has placed in your hands. From peoples comment, they are getting blessed and some are receiving healings. If only you can see it that way, the sky is not the limit for you. Shallom. Mercy Ogunnusi.
Oluyomi Ogunnusi Wow.... beautiful. was blessed by this. thank you so much MA for sharing. YOU ARE BLESSED AND HIGHLY FAVORED IN JESUS NAME AMEN
Amen!. Thank you so much my sister. May God alone be praised.
This is a beautiful comment!
I'm glad I read this and this gives me hope.
My pillows are currently soaked, God!!! Long distance hurts so bad.
Thank you so much for this response. God bless you bigggggggggg 🙏
Two years in a long distance relationship and two years in long distance marriage in May because of me. I am pursuing PhD. Thank God it’s coming to an end. Thank God for this man in my life.
I just watched this video and I cried so many times because it's almost like I'm the one being spoken to. I'm at a point in my relationship that's so off balance. It's a local long distance relationship with lots of ups and downs, trust issues here and there, arguments, slight communication hitches, etc. Thank you so much for that piece of prayer. Thanks. God bless your marriage.
Gbemiga's sense of humor is top notch👏. I always enjoy watching you guys...
Awesome!!! My husband and I did it for five years and now we have been married for 3 months :) The Lord bless you.
love you Tolu from Zambia
Mwiinde Moono awww congrats
i Don't know why i just came across your channel but I've been so blessed in the few hours I've spent going through this channel. i think this channel is about to be my best RUclips channel. God bless you!
Plz do they are my best
I can so relate! Time difference does not allow us to have a common time, it's either I'm sacrificing or he's sacrificing for us to have quality time with each other. Thanks for your points, very valid!!
This just add more to my knowledge....... my time difference with my partner is 6hours sometimes 7hours..... but wen am free he is sleeping and wen am sleeping he is on his way to work..... so it is so hard for me I just pray it works out.......... looking up to you guys (my best couples) ❤️❤️ #teamsolution
Oluwaseun ikuomola I feel you sis, it has to be sacrifice on both ends, It's hard but it can work let's keep holding on to God to see us through.
Thanks
it will workout by his grace, stay positive no matter what becaue trust me, people will tell you different things like hmmm do you know what he is doing over there bla bla bla, but don't give room to critics. You are in these because it's been ordained and you will scale through and win. my sister was in a long distance relationship, trust me it wasn't easy but she held on to God and he indeed proved himself and covered really good and they are happily married now. finally, surround yourself with people who have Godly vibes these will help too, and you are the best advicer to yourself. all will end in praise, pray, trust and believe
This channel is blessing my boyfriend is an army, communication is a big problem but he trust me and so do I.
Video calls helped you to carry each other along in your day.
Solution your husband is very intelligent. At first I thought this video was going to be boring but No! All his advice are very sound.
And I'm still searching for one of his musical album me and my husband played it in our car till it's scratched. 😊
Am actually in a 4 years relationship which will be 5 in few days and i have been in New York for a year and six months which makes me relate well to all you guys said. Thank you for sharing cos knowledge has no limit but am literally doing all you guys shared. We'll be getting married next year by God's grace. love u guys! Shalom
Ayovaughan doyin .WAO God is your strength Sis.I no fit wait.ehn 5 years😁😀😂 no go area.
Wowoo for it to be four into five yes wow you two have really tried upon all the challenges I am sure there was . you guys are still together to marry next year. Wow I am sure Patience has been the key virtue but any way congrats in advance.
Exel Anozie yes patience and prayers has been the key. Not a easy journey but I bless God. Thanks alot
Folusho Adeniyi I feel you but with God on our side it feels like we started dating last year🤣
Ayovaughan doyin congrats! Have a splendid married life. God bless you and your soon to be husband.
You can say that again patience is the keyoooo hmmm i base in Spain and my man in UK it isn't easy but with God all things possible. Kudos guys this gives me more strength
Tolu darling, you are blessed. Much love from Cameroon
He made a way, when our back were against the walls....! great job guys, God bless you dears
I watched the Kenya conference online and your hubby ministration was really anointed. I so much admire the sense of humour you guys have. More Grace!
Amen. Thank you
God bless you both. My husband and I are apart for two and half years now. It's so hard but this encourages me. Yes Gbemiga, it's expensive ooo. Love u both
constance Ekwoge The Lord is your strength
You guys have really inspired me. It's really expensive ooo. I tell u. Thanks for the advice. May God bless your union.
Thank you so much for being an example worth emulating.I love you guys 😍
Loved this video. Love videos with you and your husband in it. He has so much wisdom and you complement each other well in how you speak too
Aw thank you
Timely video in the midst of a rough patch of a long distance relationships. Thanks for the positive affirmations on keeping things on track understanding that there's a resolution in the clearing. The prayer was much needed and timely as well. Thank you both for being an energized bacon of hope for our future.
Pleasure. Thank you .
Love seeing you guys together..thx for sharing these tips my dear..but to be honest it expensive, it only takes the Grace of God with d effort of both in the relationship..thx guys!!
Bless God that you have the money. Sometimes love is ugly when there is no way edge over money. Nice videos though. Really love this topic
Thank you my favourite couple, long distance relationship is really expensive. You inspire me a lot, Love you both #TeamSolutionz
We really had a great time having you all in Kenya. Karibuni tena
That prayer was for me 👌🏾👌🏾😊😊. Thank you 🙏🏾
I can't believe since I came across your channel I've just be sitting down with it all day watching. But this particular one, I needed it. Thanks for this video. I agree with everything. God bless you both. Still hoping to see you someday 😃
wow, you guys are indeed a blessing. That short prayer you guys did mean a lot. God bless you so much. Always your fan, you guys rock
I was once in long distance relationship since 2015 to 2019,even immediately after my wedding my husband traveled back but today we are together .though is not that easy
Long distance relationship is tough, lots of misunderstanding over the phone but like you said delayed gratification and having God as the foundation is just everything.
Yaayyyy finally...been waiting since 4pm. #notificationgang #teamsolutions.
Awww bless your heart
Well done guys! Really good tips! Our dating / courtship period was one year together in Nigeria, 2 years apart with hubby in the UK. At that time, 29 years ago....our only communication tools were letters and phone calls. The next time we saw each other, we were getting married. What kept us? God's grace, Trust definitely, very regular love letters which has been fun to re-read many years afterwards. Long distance relationship is not easy but by God's grace, it was like we were not separated at all. 💕 your Vlogs, always. Stay REAL!!!
Tolu when you were in a long distance relationship where there days or times which you cried because you miss him ....
I love you guys!!! I can relate to every point you made. I am in the UK currently and my partner is in Nigeria.😍 😍 Thanks so much for the video.
The Lord is your strength
Tolulope Solutions Amen!!
Am so excited about you two. Pastor Emmanuel, you ministered well in RCCG Kenya, Tolu, i love you and i love your mother in law. God bless you and your ministry
Amen. Thank you
Gbemiga and Tolu, you were made for each other. You both make marriage look so simple, fun and playful. That’s the way it is supposed to be. You may be assured, Plano, Texas loves you a lot. I hear people discussing you both; all good of course! I watch you all the time on the train going to work and on weekends. May the good Lord cloth you both and your baby in his garment of joy, always. Take care!
Am so blessed and I have to send it to my guy, guess what he said... I love the guy he's been real( distance relationship is expensive ) and I was like Tolu is real too, she talks out of lady's feeling. ... Funny enough, he said am considering Tolu because we are name -sake. lol. Am so glad for this video cos I got some tips that can help. ..Thx a lot.
T O P TRUE
Gbemiga you are more of mummy in way that you show love to your your wife Tolulope , I pray God will help you to appreciate this grace of God on yourlife
Tolu congts....i am looking forward to his or her arrival.. lovely couples
cool gamer my sister me sef I see am ooo
BRENDA N.
Sharp lady
I also noticed so much.
Cynthia Acha cool
sis Tolulope , thank you very much for the video, you a such an inspiration. I'm watching you for the first time but i love you already especially for the boldness to stay away and develop your education, its an encouragement , love you.
Thank you for your advice. It is still very timely even after one year of posting. God bless you.
God bless u guys for this video....by the grace of God..ours are going on well....Thank God for everything
Your videos are my new obsession😘😘. Love it here😘😘😘
I'm keeping a long distance relationship but I pray it works out
Gbemiga I read some others comments and indeed you are blessed young man of God. May His grace keeps you in the journey
Your husband is very funny he said Australia and China. It is a great video😍😍😍
I’ve been on this channel for 2days now😫❤️
Thank you for that seasonal prayer. The Holy Spirit is amazing..
Welcome to Kenya..I was at queen Esther's generation on Saturday. I love your ministry and channel..( this is sound advise
Thank you. Please come say hello next time.
I will do that. Be blessed
hmmmm .... not easy bt wit God we still in it! 😚
Long distance relationship is expensive 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, I just love you both
STAYING POSITIVE AGAINST ALL ODDS PRAYERFULLY REALLY HELPS
Our time difference is 6hours but I do know when is free to call him ...thank God for technology, face time
Nice one guys. I was also in a distance relationship for 10years. UK and Nigeria, wasn't easy at all but thank God for grace. Married now for 5 years.
Olusayo Folowosele wow😳how did u do that ,am in one now..united state and Nigeria not easy😒
Kai... I like you guys.. i rarely follow stuff on social media and almost never drop a comment, but you guys struck the right cords in me. Both of you are funny and seem so natural that it blesses me. This vlog is really timely and the prayer at the end?..boom! didnt see it coming. Thanks guys...God bless you both so much. PS: you forgot to talk about the goofy stuff he posted on IG, maybe there's a part two somewhere
Amen. Thank you so much for this video. Me watching this video after months later and I felt like you two really spoke to Me. God bless you so much. I love you Tolulope and Gbemiga
Continue what you are doing. U are really making impact. Watching this video only it shows life is in different stages and whatever happens depends on what you come with him. Sincerely I will love to meet you and your husband one day. It must happen. Having your husband and you as a friend is indeed going to be a blessing. Just be prayerful the Lord will direct your path and give you more ideas and wisdom. Pastor gbemiga you are one in a million. We must do something great together and shake this world for christ. I love you both Dearly. Please can I have your numbers. God bless.
Thanks Tolu u inspire me a lot with your videos. I am in a long distance relationship too but we put in our best to communicate more. Thanks so much love u both and I tap the grace to have a happy home like yours
LOVE THE SINCERITY AND IS REALLY APPRECIATED
Waooo did u just say u where let in ur spirit to tell some one who is going through a bad time? God I thank u. U are talking to me I'm in a distance relationship and things are not that good for me right now. I say a big amen to that prayer
awesome advice ...lovely couple. how can i get Pastor Emmanuel adejumo music , he blessed us a lot in London mothers summit.
love you guys. God bless you
Pastor Gbemiga is so funy...Your family is blessed... I stumbled on your channel yesterday and I have almost watch all Ur videos so inspiring and educaticeb
The last prayer is for me, God I pray you give me more strength to carry this relationship am into Amen🙏
I havn't been in this kind of relationship but I want to say Thank You for speaking so honestly......
Very nice informative video, soo impressed with you both espically the way it was ended. Your husband praying such a blessing and a breath of fresh air.😍😍😍😍😍😍😍💪💪💪💪💪💪👏👏👏👏🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐✌✌✌✌❤❤❤❤
This is so great and interesting, but please wat are things prospective couples should be discussing or talk about... I love this family, more blessings.
You are coming to Tz oooh 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
Hello! I am blessed by this. The prayer at the end of this video is for me, thank you so much.
Such a lovely couple!!!!!
Very important . God bless you for sharing . I'm 6hours ahead of my B.f. I agree with you ...communication is the key to distance relationships .
You just got yourself a new subscriber, I enjoyed everybit of this video
You guys are magical. The moment you said " There is someone who is hurt, my spirit connected and I thank God I came across your channel. With love from Australia. New subbie. :)
nikky nolisa Awwww.... welcome beautiful subscriber. thank you so much for subscribing. GOD BLESS YOU IN JESUS NAME AMEN
HEY MY GORGEOUS BOURNEMOUTH FAMILY....YOUR VIDEOS ARE EVERYTHING.....ITS ME AJOKE....
Am in it, though is tough along the way but glory be to God am getting married soon.
stumbled on your channel some hours ago... enjoyed the video and can totally relate to all the tips you guys gave and coincidentally i apply to my relationship and it works for me but truly not easy. well done and really want to grow spiritually, so will be looking forward to more videos on faith... God bless your family and baby...
I always enjoyed listening to ur videos and is helping me in my relationship too tanks to dis wonderful couples 👏❤
Great job from young people I love it coz its not like an advice from the old but a real story from the young. In the time of trouble this work if urs will help u
More wisdom to you both.
The vedio is Seasoned with grace ..I can so relate with it.
God bless you.
#teammsolutions... May God continually bless your home. I love you plennnnntyyyyy......
Amen. Thank youuuu.
IFEOLUWA AKINBO IN JESUS NAME AMEN
Thank You for this video!
It's absolutely inspiring!
This is just for me right now, my boyfriend is in Nigeria while am in United States... He always tell me to be patience with that it's just a matter of time bcus he's very busy guy nd am busy too but i do complain he doesn't hv time for me but i'hv learnt sumtn now. I miss him like kilode every day.
Firstly T Mary oh my daysssss this is so me my bf is in Nigeria and am in the United States
Miracle Oni
It's not easy at all but i hope with God nd enough patience things are gonna work out well....
Firstly T Mary amen ma
Firstly T Mary preach#...the time zones are completely different and the busy schedules as well...talk about Australia and Nigeria#sadface#
amaka iwuh
Honestly it's sad at times but wetin person wan do unless be prayerful nd exercise more patience...
AWESOME 😎 VIDEO GUYS I REALLY ENJOY 😉 THIS VIDEO GOD BLESS YOU BOTH...
Welcome to Kenya am your Kenyan fan here
This is soooo helpful so reaffirming for me... Thank you Tolu & Gbenga !!!
Beautiful couple.
No way!!!! I literally just subscribed and now you are in my country!!!! lol!
the typical Nigerian in me wants to believe BABY SOLUTIONS is on the way with that throw pillow's position!!!!.... the Solutions family await u cutie
You guys are so real and authentic!
your union inspires me !
Honestly could you Bliv that I have to watch their engagement video over and over again I just love their union
Thanks to you guys for being a blessing to me and your postings has pushed me to invent new strategies to keep my home moving as a Christian family. I love you guys I can't stop watching your videos.
Just found you and I am so loving you...
Love you guys💓
Yes ooo, Even short distance needs a really lot of patience
Aunty Tolu I want to ask u a question how can someone that have married with two kids but now outside d county alone now, but she was not d only wife of her husband they were three and she use to be d third wife the problem now is that her husband did not give her attentions again and d lady was not in Nigeria with him, how can she survived and still maintain her marriage while still outside d country. Note she has two kids for her husband and both d kids and d husband were in Nigeria
Am looking forward on advise for cases like this. Thank u so much ma
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olaide sogoye yes o IN JESUS NAME AMEN
wow, I love this topic. long distance relationship hmmm..I love you guys. solid points.
Aunty Tolu I really love your videos may God continue to bless your marriage and your carriers
You guys are wise! God bless you both.
Love you guys 😘😘
really expensive ooo... 😂😂😂
Wow I love this video. It's just the tonic I need at the moment.