The Truth and The Myth of Unconditional Love

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  • Опубликовано: 13 июл 2024
  • When we say we want #unconditional #love, what we really mean is that we want an unconditional relationship. We want a #relationship with no consequences. We want a relationship where no matter what we do or don’t do, the other person will continue to value us and appreciate us to the degree that they will feel good towards us and never ever get into conflict suffering with us or want to leave us. Sit with this for a minute.
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Комментарии • 762

  • @jeremiahlarkins618
    @jeremiahlarkins618 4 года назад +348

    I gotta be honest, I'm glad teal swan exists.

  • @henrikpetersson3463
    @henrikpetersson3463 4 года назад +100

    Unconditional love is not the same as unconditional relationships.
    I can love someone unconditionally yet set clear boundaries and conditions for our relationship.
    My unconditional love is what allows me to still act from love when those boundaries have been crossed and conditions have been broken.
    It has to do with the way I approach and act towards others, not that I let them run over me.

    • @colorfullyme
      @colorfullyme 3 года назад +3

      well said

    • @abisheka355
      @abisheka355 3 года назад +1

      ✨✨👍

    • @ChristineRauh
      @ChristineRauh 2 года назад +1

      Extremely well said! Bravo! Absolutely to the point 🧝🏻‍♀️✨

    • @rosettesionne9139
      @rosettesionne9139 2 года назад +7

      It is True, unconditional love for me is when you still act decent and respectful towards someone who clearly cross your boundaries and who just deserves a slap. For me when someone disrespect me and that I don't react by disrespecting them back, it is already a sign of unconditional love. I can remove myself from these persons but still wish them all the best

    • @echastee
      @echastee 2 года назад +2

      That's how you end up abused.

  • @evaistheway
    @evaistheway 4 года назад +180

    “Love is not just looking at each other, it's looking in the same direction”

    • @akiinefaexperiencinglife
      @akiinefaexperiencinglife 4 года назад

      💯

    • @after1001
      @after1001 4 года назад +2

      And if you don't look in the same direction then you're incompatible and kids need to grow up with consequences of divorce. yay!!!

    • @locox89
      @locox89 4 года назад

      Naa that just is one of "relantioships pilars"

    • @alex-ander-13
      @alex-ander-13 День назад

      Thank you.

  • @methoxyll
    @methoxyll 4 года назад +189

    I remember seeing a video that she posted where she said something like "it is impossible for a fish and a bird to live a harmonious life regardless of the love because of their differences " it stuck with me. You can't love another at expense of yourself. That alone is conditional love.

    • @akiinefaexperiencinglife
      @akiinefaexperiencinglife 4 года назад +4

      💯

    • @pauloisidro9207
      @pauloisidro9207 4 года назад +9

      if i may say so, i believe a fish and a bird live in perfect harmony in their particular relationship. and thus, you don't see a bird go looking for a fish when the mating season approaches nor the fish jumps out of the water to get near the bird. they both are aware of their circumstances and of whom they are. the way i see it, only in the human realm, "fishes" and "birds" mingle in the most odd ways until the time they mature enough as to realize who they really are and go on living "fish lives" and "bird lives". sorry for my english. (unconditional) love from portugal :))

    • @divinefeminine2115
      @divinefeminine2115 4 года назад +2

      Camila Cabello started following Teal Swan on Instagram!!

    • @bernardbujard9944
      @bernardbujard9944 4 года назад +4

      "We love, and we love deeply and humanly, but with what clarity do we love?" ~ Alonysius Deeney. We are all individual living beings and yet we are incorporated with each other - in order to truly understand the concept of love there has to be another besides yourself. Who can fully understand Source love in this life with its innate conditions? Nothing is impossible for Source, the Infinite Creator.

    • @locox89
      @locox89 4 года назад +1

      @@bernardbujard9944 good one "source is just trolling" as usual also

  • @ArthurMoore
    @ArthurMoore 4 года назад +128

    Teal this is so well put! It’s the biggest mic drop you’ve ever done! I love the little acting moments 😊 and when you’re asking “did you hear what I just said?” Keeps it high energy and kept me alert the whole video 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @TealSwanOfficial
      @TealSwanOfficial  4 года назад +17

      Thank you Arthur. How are you?

    • @ArthurMoore
      @ArthurMoore 4 года назад +17

      ​@@TealSwanOfficial ​ Great! Getting a breath of fresh air after just moving to Sweden.
      Especially after spending 6 months in Covid-19 terrified Israel.
      It feels like something really good is happening to your channel (and you) lately!
      Very heartwarming to see ❤️

    • @ndumi-light
      @ndumi-light 4 года назад +5

      @@ArthurMoore She's amazing!! This topic is so simple yetmost people complicate it with the veil of judgement...she just lifted the veil - so elegantly. 🌻

    • @ivanaivy6698
      @ivanaivy6698 4 года назад +2

      Take me to Sweden :D

    • @vibrancyofsoul333
      @vibrancyofsoul333 2 года назад

      @@ivanaivy6698 same

  • @mreyna6842
    @mreyna6842 4 года назад +17

    i saw a quote on teals page that said , "if we associate love with loosing ourselves, in relationships we will become avoidant and push our partners away" .....so true 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @steffedy
    @steffedy 4 года назад +96

    Wow, this is exactly what I needed. My husband and I are separating. He has said countless times that I don't love him because I don't love him unconditionally. It always confused me because I do love him. I never knew how to respond to this and always felt guilty. Thank you for helping me to release this guilt 🙏🏾

    • @lonesmithfilms934
      @lonesmithfilms934 4 года назад +16

      to make a partner feel guilty is a tool of manipulation.

    • @wonderingheights
      @wonderingheights 4 года назад +2

      What was he asking you to love about him that made him feel unloved?

    • @quorthunsargeras7054
      @quorthunsargeras7054 3 года назад +6

      You can unconditionally love someone forever, but have a conditional relationship. If they break a boundary in a social contract, such as cheating, you can end the relationship but still unconditionally love them without being in a relationship with them.

    • @LifeIsATest4TheHereafter
      @LifeIsATest4TheHereafter 3 года назад

      @@quorthunsargeras7054 well said

    • @YouRube.
      @YouRube. 2 года назад

      @@lonesmithfilms934 your feelings are also your choice

  • @raulnatokapa
    @raulnatokapa 4 года назад +43

    Nothing is compared as saturday morning breakfast with some Teal ;)

  • @nexilic5555
    @nexilic5555 4 года назад +344

    'when manifesting a soulmate dont ask for a someone that loves you unconditionally, because that is a dog.'
    -Vianna Stibal

  • @curiouskatsayshello4673
    @curiouskatsayshello4673 4 года назад +51

    How is she so good at timing her topics. It’s spooky lol
    Thank you for your work Teal. You are a God sent. I hope one day I can pay it forward.

  • @imas2pid80it
    @imas2pid80it 4 года назад +195

    If you think a therapist love is unconditional, try not paying them!

    • @brentduanefoster
      @brentduanefoster 4 года назад +9

      richard xlin That goes for these “life coaches” as well.

    • @danielaravenous
      @danielaravenous 4 года назад +9

      Exactly! I need one so much... but I can't have one because I can't pay one.

    • @dermatologycare9971
      @dermatologycare9971 4 года назад +14

      I am laughing because I immediately thought the same thing. But I think we all get the general idea Teal was relaying. I personally get so much out of her youtubes talks. It is freeing and helpful with thinking about interactions in a good way.

    • @Mandy3141
      @Mandy3141 4 года назад +19

      A therapist love toward his clients might be unconditional, but being a therapist is still his job, so to demand that he's ok without being paid is unfair.

    • @yanzi8543
      @yanzi8543 4 года назад +1

      Why, you feel like therapists are nice?

  • @kaykobra
    @kaykobra 4 года назад +42

    I think we can love unconditionally. We can't have a good relationship without conditions. As miss Swan says, to love unconditionally means to be detached of that human being. You can care for them from afar, without letting them too close, knowing that their behavior can disrupt your life or can make you suffer. That's why I ended up believing "love" and "relationship" are 2 different things. Love is a feeling, relationship is a choice. Even loving someone insanely you might choose not to have a relationship with them, because you can see they aren't compatible to you.

  • @azuresea8086
    @azuresea8086 4 года назад +29

    Most honest and insightful relationship advice EVER! Must heed for success.

  • @CalebAble
    @CalebAble 4 года назад +24

    You're right. I've started dating a like minded woman in the past few weeks and we are really focused on being authentic and honest with each other, even if it's difficult. I might bring up the concept of compatibility and conditions further down the line a ways. Thanks!

  • @amynguyen7
    @amynguyen7 3 года назад +9

    I've always thought this. Unconditional love is unrealistic. But every time I voiced it, I was labeled as the negative person. I'm glad you put this video out. I feel less crazy now. Thank you.

    • @superbettynow
      @superbettynow Год назад

      Unconditional love IS realistic. Unconditional relationships - what most people usually mean when they talk about 'unconditional love - is not. You can completely love someone but have conditions around whether or not you want to be in a relationship with them.

    • @phelps1485
      @phelps1485 Год назад +1

      ​@@superbettynow makes no sense,
      If I could unconditionally love someone I would want to be around them.

  • @ndumi-light
    @ndumi-light 4 года назад +17

    Compatibility. Is Everything.
    Compatible love languagea and matching values. 🌻

    • @laraking804
      @laraking804 4 года назад +1

      There’s no such thing as 'compatibility' there is only good communication skills and bad communication skills.

    • @ndumi-light
      @ndumi-light 4 года назад +1

      @@laraking804 you are entitled to your opinion...for sure.

  • @user-sp2zu4qv6y
    @user-sp2zu4qv6y 4 месяца назад +2

    I wouldn’t be able to survive this life without teal’s videos. Gods gift to us.

  • @akiinefaexperiencinglife
    @akiinefaexperiencinglife 4 года назад +8

    All I desire is a companion who is on the same vibrational energy/frequency as me,we can grow from there, embracing each other's conditions

  • @Damons-Old-Soul
    @Damons-Old-Soul 4 года назад +24

    Love is, by its very nature, unconditional. Relationships are not unconditional. You can love someone and want the absolute best for them and never want to see them again because they are utterly toxic for you. Humanity is capable of this love.
    Relationships need Communication to be able to understand what the other person needs in that relationship. As we grow as individuals, those needs will grow and mature with time. This is why communication is so important to any relationship.

  • @dramendiana373
    @dramendiana373 4 года назад +4

    And we're back to authenticity: the more clear we're about what we really are, need and want, the more we can build relationships based on authentic compatibility instead of tons of overlays of illusion... 😁❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️🙏 Thank you, Teal!!! 🥰 Watching this video felt as a great deep relief, like: a relationship actually can be easy if we both are truly compatible.

  • @sarabrown2320
    @sarabrown2320 4 года назад +16

    This makes so much sense to why I'm I'm seeking compatibility.

  • @theravenscatalyst
    @theravenscatalyst 4 года назад +9

    Love isn’t just about the good times it’s also about loving them when they are at their worst.. no pressure is a myth..

  • @cherylcakes
    @cherylcakes 4 года назад +29

    I agree with 99.9% of what you’ve said here although I think I personally draw a distinction between unconditional love and an unconditional relationship. I love my ex unconditionally and always will however there were conditions for me being able to continue the relationship with him which he chose not to meet - hence he is now my ex. This doesn’t mean I love him any less I just have made the choice not to sacrifice myself in order to continue the relationship with him.

    • @m1galler
      @m1galler 4 года назад +5

      Ya i agree. This is somewhat distorted teaching. You love someone unconditionally by letting them be whoever they want to be and do what makes them happy. Not getting what you want and hving them do what they want to you. In order to love them unconditionally you have to at the same time treat yourself the same way. So when you disagree you disagree. When something isnt how you like it you change it. That has nothing to do with how much you love them though. I think this teaching is conflicted in idea and connects things that arent really connected.

    • @vivianrosekal.7103
      @vivianrosekal.7103 4 года назад +2

      Very well put! Couldn’t have said it any better

    • @Dani-lc9hq
      @Dani-lc9hq 3 года назад +1

      Yess indeed!!

    • @darenology993
      @darenology993 2 года назад +1

      Your choice on higher love is not chosen by your standards"..

    • @cherylcakes
      @cherylcakes 2 года назад

      @@darenology993 please explain further?

  • @klingonsexy
    @klingonsexy 3 года назад +4

    I believe we can love unconditionally; after completing intense shadow work, integrating all of our aspects, and elevating our awareness of our thoughts, desires, and needs, we can love ourselves unconditionally. If we achieve this, we can potentially find compatible partners. Thank you for all that you teach!

  • @agattachp
    @agattachp 4 года назад +32

    Exactly the video I need to see right now

  • @kal2487
    @kal2487 4 года назад +42

    The hardest part is realizing you had no idea what the conditions where when you signed up. I've had long terms friends, that despite me only doing right by them, simply can't handle a difference of political opinion. If I had realized that was a condition, ahead of time, I wouldn't have invested. I doubt they realized it was a condition either. But certainly makes these strains less personal.

    • @Jessy-Francoeur
      @Jessy-Francoeur 4 года назад +2

      KAL Well, a lot of people these days are simply "indoctrinated'' by the media, the educational system and the government (without knowing it most of the time), it is almost impossible for them to hear another point of view weither the subject is political, historical or philosophical etc. So these persons realize their own hostility towards different opinions only when they are confronted to them, but wherever they go the majority of people around them has and share the same ideas. This is why sometimes the only one "other point of view'' they hear...is yours.
      I hope you the best, take care of you.

  • @taokenhanma2083
    @taokenhanma2083 4 года назад +10

    I PHYSICALLY APPLAUDED at this video 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

  • @brentduanefoster
    @brentduanefoster 4 года назад +29

    I found nothing but FACTS here!!!!
    Real love is GIVE AND TAKE, SACRIFICE. It is NOT all about you!!!!
    In a relationship, two become one. Which means that your two world will collide, and that means that there are some things that you are going to sacrifice for the sake of the other person and vice versa.

    • @janelle.evangelista999
      @janelle.evangelista999 4 года назад +3

      im confused, i thought i should not self sacrifice

    • @brentduanefoster
      @brentduanefoster 4 года назад +1

      Janelle Valentina In one way or another, they will be some sort of sacrifice. But as I mentioned, it is give AND take. Each party will have to sacrifice something.
      That being said, one must figure out within themselves what is worth sacrificing.

    • @narcabusevictimgermany9687
      @narcabusevictimgermany9687 4 года назад +1

      Do not self sacrifice,!thats better

    • @natasasmrkolj8082
      @natasasmrkolj8082 4 года назад

      @@narcabusevictimgermany9687 if you're not willing to sacrifice anything for the sake of ur loved other than you are not ready or worthy of true partner yet.remember you attract the person the way you yourself are.

    • @narcabusevictimgermany9687
      @narcabusevictimgermany9687 4 года назад

      Nataša Smrkolj you are not God to decide whether I am worthy or not.

  • @mariakv86
    @mariakv86 4 года назад +10

    Oh man, this one hit the nail on the head. AND, I will spend some time defining what that "just" is. Really good question. Thank you as always Teal (and team).

  • @Selfhealers
    @Selfhealers 3 года назад +2

    This is SO GOOD! 😍 Over the past few years I have been studying and getting clear about my own standards in Life. And have also been learning how to set my boundaries. So much so that I ended up separating from my husband of 25 years 8 months ago as it became clear to me how I’d lost myself in the relationship, and for years I felt my daily mission was just to keep him happy. He had been unhappy with himself for a number of years about not fully pursuing his own dreams, and I finally realised all I did to keep him happy and relaxed on a daily basis only perpetuated his unhappiness and eventually, mine.

  • @little_bumble_bee
    @little_bumble_bee 4 года назад +50

    Your hair is positively flawless, off topic but had to be said❤️

    • @seth21069
      @seth21069 4 года назад

      Ha n

    • @pattiepepper6217
      @pattiepepper6217 3 года назад

      She is beautiful, isn't she? That's 30% the reason I watch her vids. So GORGEOUS!

  • @Ruby-dd3sp
    @Ruby-dd3sp 4 года назад +40

    teal can i ask for a huge favor?
    i need you to make a video about ghosting, i am a ghoster even to my family and my closest friends..
    and i tried to do my best i really did , but i cant put my finger on the issue..
    until you make the video, can you recommend some of your videos that may come in help?
    also ghosting is a true trait of this age and NO ONE is talking about it, only blaming the ghoster

    • @TealSwanOfficial
      @TealSwanOfficial  4 года назад +30

      great idea

    • @katm6027
      @katm6027 4 года назад +1

      And possibly ghosting vs shunning. They seem to have a different kind of energy even though the outcome seems to be the same.

    • @lazybumtot
      @lazybumtot 4 года назад

      Would you please describe the process to which you ghost and the thought process?

    • @Ruby-dd3sp
      @Ruby-dd3sp 4 года назад +9

      @@lazybumtot
      of course ,but i'm not a native please excuse the language
      will for me its a sudden act , i tend to experience this need for ghosting when i feel shattered and unstable -mentally- .
      this may sound weird but my ghosting is very sudden even to me .
      one day i'm absolutely fine then out of the blue i disappear for weeks and months.
      i refuse any kind of human interaction, i go into extreme episode of depression and self guilt , and i shut myself completely.
      i never ghost when my friend and family needs me, but when i am in need for them i vanish.
      my friend are very supportive and they them self have experienced depression, we had a lot of deep talks about my ghosting and our mental health, and i was doing fine in the past year i worked so hard on my relationships and mental health , i was so proud of the progress i made , it's been 5 months since the last time we spoken, never explain them what happened because i don't know ...i just don't...
      i did a lot of research but with no deep understanding of my problem , they tend to say that the ghoster don't usually feel guilt or doesn't care but that not the case for me at all.
      i never reconnected with them because i feel ashamed i made so many promises and i tried everything i know of but i keep hitting dead ends.
      thanks for asking its means a lot.

    • @lazybumtot
      @lazybumtot 4 года назад +2

      @@Ruby-dd3sp thank you so much for sharing. It's very interesting to see your perspective and it definitely gives a lot of insight that someone on the receiving end wouldn't ever think of. I hope you find what you need to obtain peace. Best of wishes. ❤️

  • @rajvimittal3753
    @rajvimittal3753 4 года назад +3

    Wow! This was really necessary. I too felt the need" to be unconditionally loving to everyone. And this is EXACTLY what i struggled with. Loads of love ❤️😍

  • @jarasimonson4040
    @jarasimonson4040 4 года назад +11

    I have felt natural unconditional love for friends a few times in my life. This did actually mean I didnt need anything from them because the love I felt was so big and deep and natural. They weren´t able to hurt me because of this. When one of these friends, with whom I have also been in a short relationship, decided he didn`t want to see me anymore this also didn`t hurt. Though I did`t like it. I truly felt and saw everything with love and loved and understood him naturally and also lovingly accepted my powerlessness in changing his mind about not wanting to see me at this time in his life. It`s a feeling of such deep natural fondness, space for all there is, humanity, freedom and everlasting connection. (ps. these feelings were all appearing totally naturally, I didn`t try to feel anything specifically) (It's also like never really loosing anything I guess..)

    • @locox89
      @locox89 4 года назад

      Glad now everyone is a Saint, postmodernism suck.

    • @jarasimonson4040
      @jarasimonson4040 4 года назад

      @@locox89 it`s true. You too. But I suffer a lot also still so that still happens 💕

    • @locox89
      @locox89 4 года назад

      @@jarasimonson4040 suffer ha!..."force is a bad joke a trolling mechanism" 😂 I don't have negations or fear of say it out loud now if was for me I would wish not to exist in this universe or in any of the paralel ones anymore.
      ruclips.net/video/SNI-FicT8js/видео.html
      Sometimes "power or delusion"(even in a shorterm period of time) are enough to crush
      many of the things Teal talks about(I don't mean it to be false most of what she shares).
      Enjoy 2020, "they" have been making good soldiers for 30 years probably, going to be a total circus in the upcoming future the mainstream relationship landscape.

    • @jarasimonson4040
      @jarasimonson4040 4 года назад

      @@locox89 I live in the Netherlands. Things aren't as crazy here. I am working and we don't notice a lot anymore. I wish you all the best of life and love. Take care.

  • @HannahMariaVandenBroeck
    @HannahMariaVandenBroeck 4 года назад

    Love how her vibe was so playful at the end! Her little sarcastic giggles made the day. What an inspiration 💕☺️

  • @johncox2912
    @johncox2912 Год назад

    OMG!!! I just realized something while watching this video. TS said true love is taking the other as yourself.
    This is why LOVE .... true love ... is SO POWERFUL!!!
    We take the other as our self. Which means we expand. We grow. And the other person expands and grows, too. It's a resonate or symbiotic thing that moves between the two of you and grows and expands life.
    And we can do this for ALL OF LIFE, too. We can take ALL of life as a part of ourselves. As we grow and expand our love .... it goes far beyond personal love .... it's more like PURE LOVE .... I don't what else to call it .... we have this pure love or pure joy for ALL OF LIFE. ALL of it!!! Everyone and everything.
    It's not like I have to LIKE everything or everyone. BUT I can still LOVE everyone and everything, regardless. Even the crappy parts, because it's a part of the WHOLE. NOTHING is separate. Nothing stands alone.
    I feel like this is the end result of shadow work or parts therapy or coming into full awareness of our fractured selves. Again, I don't have to LIKE everything - I certainly DO NOT like some things that have occurred in my life. BUT I do know that I could not have grown without the pain and trauma. And it's that's growth that I can love and therefore love even the shadow parts of life. All of it. Every bit. The good, the bad, the ugly.
    How do I know my boundaries unless I've had these type of experiences? How do I know growth otherwise? How do I expand?
    All things become a part of me and I become a part of all things.
    I feel that this is so very, very, very powerful.

  • @huszarolga
    @huszarolga 4 года назад

    I absolutely agree with this. After having a few relationships and being long married to the one I thought he was the love of my life, I felt very often uncomfortable with his unmet needs and ideas about what the ideal wife should be. Later, of course, escalation of situations ( phisical violence) led to divorce. But then I searched first to find/define my own Self, needs and values, and moved across the continent, to finally meet the real Love of my life, One who's mostly compatible and loving, as a manifestation to my prayers/clear desires. It's absolutely mandatory to be authentic and honest with yourself and with the possible partners, wherever it's about life partner or anybody else who are playing a role in your everyday life.
    Teal and her team, big hugs and best wishes!

  • @warriorsamongstmen
    @warriorsamongstmen 4 года назад +5

    Always giving truth bombs Teal, you are appreciated. Speak your truth you powerful being! ❤💫

  • @JennaDeWeese
    @JennaDeWeese 4 года назад +3

    Another DAMN!!!! moment. Haha. 🤯 love you Teal. Thank you ❤️

  • @T0rdis
    @T0rdis 4 года назад

    Exactly what I always felt about human relationships and love but could never put in words. Thank you, Teal

  • @danielaravenous
    @danielaravenous 4 года назад +2

    I needed to understand this so much! Thank you Teal. Now I am crystal clear about why my relationships went the way they went.

  • @stephaniecarducci
    @stephaniecarducci 4 года назад +4

    “Guess what, you’re not even capable of unconditional love” made me laugh

  • @TealSwanOfficial
    @TealSwanOfficial  4 года назад +1

    Incase You'd Rather Read About It: tealswan.com/resources/articles/the-truth-and-the-myth-of-unconditional-love-r413/

  • @alanpowell522
    @alanpowell522 4 года назад

    I am open and left pain behind . I don't even have to try. Honesty releases me from all. I only try to help 🙃💖🙏

  • @katatarot597
    @katatarot597 4 года назад

    One of those things that really drive you mad when you hear it, yet you hear it all the time. Glad that this video shed some crisp-clear light into this so well denied aspect of love. Greatly appreciated. 💎👍🌷

  • @zakkokurise
    @zakkokurise 3 года назад

    Since I started watching your videos, I started accept myself for who I really am. Appreciate it so much

  • @akosv96
    @akosv96 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this so much. You are so correct and you have brought up so much things in my subconscious it's really weird now. And yes it really is hard to hear and takes bravery. ❤

  • @LornaLens
    @LornaLens 3 года назад +1

    I appreciate all your hard work and amazing free content. I have three sons and I can explain things to them so well after watching Teal. What a wonderful teacher and lady for sharing her knowledge.

  • @tamerlane1
    @tamerlane1 4 года назад +4

    "Love" itself is a myth in our current reality, except if we are talking about 2 high-elevated high-vibration awakened compatible souls, but I still have my doubts..
    By the way, nice video! Very eye opening

  • @SaraJuliex3
    @SaraJuliex3 2 года назад

    You're so valuable for humanity as a whole; I feel that every time I'm watching your videos. You really help me understand things.

  • @monikazimovaart
    @monikazimovaart 4 года назад

    I love how Teal always says it exactly as it is.

  • @aniyanora
    @aniyanora 4 года назад +1

    O.M.G. When I really need a video of certain topic Teal makes one... Thank you! ❤️

  • @polinaraw
    @polinaraw 3 года назад

    I don’t know how I would be in this world without you, Teal. 💙

  • @appletree6898
    @appletree6898 2 года назад

    The most frustrating thing is when people evolve, conditions change, and relationships that were once truly solid and fulfilling no longer work. Then some seemingly shocking and hurtful argument or incident may cause everything to end abruptly, but problems under the surface were actually building up over time. People just didn't want to talk about it because they didn't want to admit where things were going; they didn't want the relationship to end.

  • @kekephillips1768
    @kekephillips1768 3 года назад

    I’m so happy I’ve found you Teal Swan!! Thank you for this message!! ✌🏽💜🕯

  • @3245james
    @3245james 4 года назад +1

    The highlight of my day. Always look forward to these uploads :)

  • @tuned_in_turned_on_light_up
    @tuned_in_turned_on_light_up 4 года назад

    This spoke so directly to me and brought precision clarity about patterns I have in my relationships. And my self relationship.
    Thank you @Teal Swan💕

  • @venn5318
    @venn5318 4 года назад

    I came to this post through one of your Teal’s IG posts. I clicked teal+truth and I really needed to hear everything she said!

  • @liz6595
    @liz6595 3 года назад

    Makes sense. When I saw the video name I was like
    I can't unconditionally love my partner.
    At least not the way he would want.
    Like I can "love " him..but that doesn't mean I can ignore. Stay silent. Or never leave no matter if he was a murder or just didn't make me happy anymore.
    I want to be with him no matter how he feels or what he is going through.
    But that doesn't mean I can overlook conflicts and stuff. Thanks for the info teal

  • @jillianbaptiste6350
    @jillianbaptiste6350 4 года назад

    The timing of this was perfect for me too. Thank you for sharing your brilliance, Teal💜

  • @00wez
    @00wez 4 года назад

    teal swan always out there to heal us -- amazing tbh

  • @elvinsimon5008
    @elvinsimon5008 4 года назад

    I love your enthusiasm on this one... very pure and genuine as usual... thank you so much for sharing. no wonder all my relations failed in the past , I need find a compatible soul in my life. thank you Teal you are a gift for this world.

  • @chettehc5134
    @chettehc5134 4 года назад +1

    "We are One" What a beautiful quote. Also, I love your voice, I find it very soothing :) 🙏 🤗

  • @jennye9723
    @jennye9723 4 года назад

    Perfect timing for this video. Thank you, Teal. 🙏🏻

  • @RagePrinceOfFire
    @RagePrinceOfFire 4 года назад

    Wow! This has been the most eye-opening thing I've learned all year.
    Thanks Teal.

  • @AmandaExpressions
    @AmandaExpressions 4 года назад

    Thank you Teal for putting words to something I've been feeling but couldn't quite get my head around!

  • @Tenaciousangels
    @Tenaciousangels 4 года назад +3

    I am blessed to have great amounts of love in my life thank you teal🙏🏻

  • @victorcondurache6215
    @victorcondurache6215 3 года назад

    Thank u so much Teal 💟 You bring light in my life. With everything u said and do, my beliefs are changing.

  • @djavocuddle
    @djavocuddle 4 года назад

    Thank you so so much for this Teal, as always you are able to make my understanding of love and life grow. I have been watching you for years now and every time I learn more. You are an inspiration always and your message is helping so many of us. Thank you! Sending you love and peace 🙏❤️

  • @c-0de
    @c-0de 3 года назад +1

    There has to be boundaries I see that now. Your explaination was good and I understand that I perhaps felt the need for value and there has to be consequences even if you love someone. Thank you Teal.

  • @LukeMindPower
    @LukeMindPower 4 года назад +16

    If you are reading this i want you to know that within the next 6 months you will become a millionaire. Keep taking action and believing in yourself, the energy you put out to the universe is being recieved and your time is coming. Keep it up!

  • @martins3037
    @martins3037 3 года назад +1

    Can we appreciate the great stock photos and videos 😆

  • @abadaccident528
    @abadaccident528 7 месяцев назад +1

    A lot of people perceive unconditional love as the emotion of love that exists in an exclusive relationship, eg. Partnerships, friendships, familial relationships.
    Unconditional love is universal, it applies to all beings.
    Unconditional love can exist WITH BOUNDARIES. As an individual, I love unconditionally. I can unconditionally love my partner, my family, strangers.
    However, to maintain a healthy relationship, conditions must be met as they are my attachments, they are considered as an extension to me. My partner and I set expectations and conditions to how we show up, one of those conditions being growth and improvement together towards the same direction.
    Unconditional love can exist universally.
    Unconditional love can exist in relationships, albeit with consequences that may not be very bueno.
    Unconditional love is love without attachments. If you're using this term in a relationship, self work is what you need (probably :D).
    I sat here listening trying to define what Swan meant by unconditional love, and up until a WHILE, it was crazy to me that unconditional love was defined or considered to be in a relationship, and really, it's best not.

  • @bethanyridewood6657
    @bethanyridewood6657 4 года назад

    Thank you Teal! I really appreciate this perspective and the help in becoming aware of this in myself. Great video

  • @user-bl9hh1xm9w
    @user-bl9hh1xm9w 4 года назад +12

    Well in the end you accelerated SO MUCH that it equaled to the “Proficiency Degree” Oxford Level for me as a non-English speaker! 😜😅
    Definitely an other Good Video, l will Pause & Restart the ending to Understand/Innerstand it!
    Have a Nice Weekend from Greece! 🙏🏼❤️

    • @AsNatureIntended13
      @AsNatureIntended13 4 года назад +2

      Remember you can slow down the video as well :)
      Greetings from munich

    • @user-bl9hh1xm9w
      @user-bl9hh1xm9w 4 года назад +1

      @@AsNatureIntended13 Thank You Very Much!
      Have a Nice Weekend! 😄

  • @mahmoudiamir
    @mahmoudiamir 21 день назад

    My life is separated to before and after seeing this video
    All my knowledge and studyings and experiences with love came to a clear understanding, after seeing this video.
    Thanks alot

  • @eleazarcuba4115
    @eleazarcuba4115 4 года назад

    Anything that Teal talks about is universal spiritual knowledge that can be understood with enough introspection but the way Teal explains things is just simple, beautiful and eloquent. She is so good at logically explaining the intuitive. Teal is like my sarcastic spiritual Google :)

  • @carlarynbeek6510
    @carlarynbeek6510 4 года назад

    Teal, Thank You...important!💓

  • @dulcegomez6155
    @dulcegomez6155 4 года назад

    very powerful theme Teal, what you are saying in its essence is this: if i want a certain traits in a partner, i must first possess those same interests and values. you are what you attract!

  • @the1betterpodcast84
    @the1betterpodcast84 4 года назад +9

    I love Teal:)

  • @williamrogers1151
    @williamrogers1151 3 года назад

    Finally someone telling it how it is no matter what! 🦋💓🦋

  • @jaz_ok
    @jaz_ok 4 года назад

    Unconditional love , loving regardless of the conditions ,
    And yet , you are a creator and get to create the conditions you want ,
    And you are loving the whole time ,
    And the true place to find love , is within .

  • @alexandruracila7500
    @alexandruracila7500 4 года назад

    Omg.... I so rarely comment, but your perspective has unlocked such a treasure in perception and yet I've sometimes in the past I felt honest about my conditions.
    Honesty does save everyone's time (in my view).
    I value your work and your team's very much!

  • @everydaychristianapologeti2614

    I love a lot of what you said. Agree in fact. Disagree with the point that love is taking something. It’s giving

  • @dealorea
    @dealorea 4 года назад

    Thank you 🖤
    You never stop blowing my mind....
    And I am so grateful for it.

  • @ntokozomkhize2585
    @ntokozomkhize2585 Год назад

    Teal Swan is mind-blowing💜, love you so much💜

  • @bunnyluv045
    @bunnyluv045 3 года назад

    Thank You Teal. My all time favorite so far.

  • @lively3119
    @lively3119 2 года назад

    Wow took my breath away ;) this is the most truthful and accurate analysis of relationships I ever came across.

  • @EricaJoyArts
    @EricaJoyArts 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Teal! Love your videos!😊✌❤⭐

  • @wisdomofthewildempathsview581
    @wisdomofthewildempathsview581 4 года назад

    You're an incredible teacher I watch you even though I know the lessons you teach I watch to get another view of what I already know to help me teach others around me

  • @TheExtinctSpecies
    @TheExtinctSpecies 4 года назад

    Thank you Teal, I come back to your videos here and there. You're great for me to find my common sense when down and confused.

  • @jackthe15headedmonster25
    @jackthe15headedmonster25 3 года назад

    Every single time I watch your videos it always ends up brightening my day. (Thank You)

  • @emaambition9378
    @emaambition9378 4 года назад

    Hello Teal. Love your channel. Every time you speak the truth comes out. If most women think like you. The world would move right direction instead we spent our time fighting about Petty stuff. That’s why most people are less ambitious. I’m always grateful for everything you do 💯❤️

  • @SofiaTarnawska
    @SofiaTarnawska 4 года назад +1

    Oh my god... this video... the timing couldn’t be more perfect

  • @ericabluth8747
    @ericabluth8747 2 года назад

    This is definitely one of teals best videos, people need to understand this more than ever now

  • @MochaxMatcha
    @MochaxMatcha 4 года назад

    I would love a part 2 on this 💖 this is sooo good to hear someone articulate like this

  • @savanner.6525
    @savanner.6525 3 года назад

    this is my all time issue in every relationship ever. Thank you for this video 🙏💛

  • @Kurashinno
    @Kurashinno 4 года назад

    Incredible video Teal! And I love how the text appears as you're saying it. Makes it much easier to follow somehow. The angry scenes, though, I found distracting. I actually had to look away to hear your words. Anyway this has inspired a ton of action on my part already. Thank you so much again! Let's keep changing life on this planet for the better!

  • @pedrokoury1352
    @pedrokoury1352 Год назад

    I thought about the question and this idea came "i'm already loved for being just me. I'm source and source is choosing to refragment itself through me. I can already find love and validation there. Now, here in the 3D, I gotta worry about the transaction in my relationships. I have come across a beautiful, interesting girl this month and now I'm wondering if I should have a relationship with her. But my single life is giving me so much in return! And single life is a relationship that you have with others and yourself. I gotta be conscious of what this single life relationship is going to provide for me..."

  • @dermatologycare9971
    @dermatologycare9971 4 года назад

    Thank you for this relationship education. I strongly believe many people lack some fundamental understandings on interactions with all other sentient beings. Keep doing what you are doing! You have an innate understanding and ability to communicate this information. You are humble. You are kind. You are wise. You thrive on helping others. You are a very good person. I am so glad I came across you during an internet search. You are the real deal. Stay just who you are. You are touching so many lives for all to be their greatest potential! Lots of unconditional Love!