The Truth About Finding Yourself in a Repeat Situation

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  • The Truth About Finding Yourself in a Repeat Situation - In this video, Teal explains why we end up in the same unwanted experience (a repeat situation) as well as what to do about it if you do!
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  • @wendypeters6084
    @wendypeters6084 Год назад +403

    "Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate." -C.G. Jung

    • @sociallyinept5430
      @sociallyinept5430 Год назад +19

      And when it becomes conscious it will direct your life and you will call it choice.

    • @pkilam
      @pkilam Год назад +7

      If we could make the unconscious conscious we would

    • @shanad7450
      @shanad7450 Год назад +10

      But there's always something unconscious, no? So there's always something that gonna direct your life.

    • @stephanieharper7349
      @stephanieharper7349 Год назад +1

      I love C.G.J.

    • @beshooketh9333
      @beshooketh9333 Год назад +1

      My man, Jung

  • @christie1478
    @christie1478 Год назад +449

    “To heal is to experience the opposite.” Teal, YES! You’ll love this quote: “You do not decide your future. You decide your ‘habits,’ and your habits decide your future.”

    • @dondankleberg4965
      @dondankleberg4965 Год назад +9

      nah man think about it, when you "decide" your habits then from where are you acting? thats the real question. you gotta experience that you are love and you do that by understanding what or who told you in the past in some aspect or appearance that youre not, and then understand how you felt in that moment. the more you do that the more you realize that your nature is like a stream of love light that was taught that it is not connected to higher truth and that it is wrong. so you keep searching for a way to understand that you are indeed connected and project the feelings you had in the trauma, that has been taught, on yourself, others, your habits and so on but your intention wayyy back in the past was love, thats it. breathe love and let it shine through all of your past (and future) :D
      thats my view, much love

    • @riverboy4717
      @riverboy4717 Год назад +2

      Thank you

    • @riverboy4717
      @riverboy4717 Год назад

      @The psychological climate change in order to get on ur feet and stuff where you want to be. U have to get through the matrix. It’s the only way

    • @LoveLeigh313
      @LoveLeigh313 Год назад +4

      @@dondankleberg4965 that didn’t really make cohesive sense

    • @dondankleberg4965
      @dondankleberg4965 Год назад

      @@LoveLeigh313 you wanna say why?

  • @onreact
    @onreact Год назад +178

    The universe is like a school. When you don't learn the lesson the first time, you can repeat it as often as you need it until you raise the level of your awareness sufficiently to overcome the obstacle.
    I have been in repeat situations all my life and after a decade of meditation I finally start recognizing the patterns and assuming responsibility for manifesting the opposite - that is wanted - reality.
    When you realize that you are not a powerless victim of your fate or whatever situation you are in, you can implement actual changes that will save you from repeating the same lesson again.

    • @KawaiiJimmyMcGill
      @KawaiiJimmyMcGill Год назад +2

      Beautifully said!

    • @jeanlundi2141
      @jeanlundi2141 Год назад +2

      Where the hell do people get this idea of "lesson" from? What lessons?

    • @onreact
      @onreact Год назад

      @@jeanlundi2141 So you think it's completely random to encounter the same type of situation again and again and repeat your suffering?

    • @jeanlundi2141
      @jeanlundi2141 Год назад +4

      @@onreact No. But a lesson implies a particular course of action intended in response to that. In my opinion it doesn't happen like that. We repeat our suffering because we get energetically entangled with the collective energies in various situation.
      To say your suffering stopped because you learned a lesson is not a reflection of my experience at least. What makes you thik there was an intended, singular concept/lesson you needed to learn? And what about people who are NOT going through the same suffering in that scenario as you - are they not learning lessons? So that begs for a bigger question...what's the point of these lessons?

    • @LoveLeigh313
      @LoveLeigh313 Год назад +1

      It’s not a school

  • @aliciaarroyo6
    @aliciaarroyo6 Год назад +102

    I literally woke up this morning so depressed and asked why do I keep experiencing the same shitty situation with different people. Here is my answer.

  • @Beatrice_bb
    @Beatrice_bb Год назад +40

    The timing...is crazy... I needed this NOW
    THANK YOU TEAL +Team. Thaaaank you 🙏

    • @mpv9866
      @mpv9866 Год назад +4

      She be like that... alllways 😊💫💚🙏🌟♾🥰

    • @deja-thephonenix1424
      @deja-thephonenix1424 Год назад +4

      Me too!!!! Omg, how does she do it!!! This is EXACTLY what I needed now!!!

    • @amandacalhoun3965
      @amandacalhoun3965 Год назад +1

      Same

    • @Mr.Honest247
      @Mr.Honest247 Год назад +3

      You attracted it BECAUSE you needed it as well as I did… I was also struggling with this exact problem and this video found me as well as I found it!!! We only attract what we need to progress!!!

  • @lucymziri1130
    @lucymziri1130 Год назад +70

    Perfect timing. I was asking the universe to guide me with my relationship patterns. Thank you, like always, Teal.

  • @mistyblue2917
    @mistyblue2917 Год назад +8

    I will never repeat my DM/parental type of relationship dynamic again, i've finally healed from that bs, it is no longer attractive to me 🙌🏻💗🌟

  • @vitzaniadominguez6961
    @vitzaniadominguez6961 Год назад +15

    "Omg, I can't deal with this in the self-help industry anymore when people look at me as suffering as I am right now and say it's an opportunity for healing", Teal, amen to that. I love that you recognize this. I sense my place in the world is in the self-seeing or all-seeing industry and yet I also feel as you describe. 🤦 This video is answering lots though, thanks.

  • @cecilia1099
    @cecilia1099 Год назад +15

    This is so synchronized with what I was receiving from the universe myself today.

  • @normanquednau
    @normanquednau Год назад +12

    It is intimidating to break a cycle... The whole situation or system we are used to be in could crumble before our eyes. I see that over and over again. Thanks for the awesome content!

  • @amaliamoodie1014
    @amaliamoodie1014 Год назад +13

    I came across your channel by chance, but in truth nothing is by chance. I believe I was guided to you.
    I cannot describe how much sense this made to me. I was already aware that repeated patterns are the universe's way of showing us that we have not yet learned from our past experiences, but you explained this so thoroughly it finally made sense.
    Thank you so much for your knowledge 💗

  • @version.c8758
    @version.c8758 Год назад +9

    You are SO good! This was a complex, realistic, and very helpful example. You have helped me countless times on countless subjects and I have tears of gratitude for all of your hard work. Thank you for being my internet therapist for all these years. I hope I get to meet you someday, I have so much love for you! You are the same age as me, but you have more wisdom than any of my elders.

  • @Aquarian_ri
    @Aquarian_ri Год назад +23

    Thank you for this. It's exactly what I needed to hear while going through the loss of relationships due to setting boundaries. I have always been a "Jane" down to taking care of my brother who is 7 years younger while growing up. By proxy taking on way too much responsibility since childhood trying to help and keep the peace. I was the favorite scapegoat and captain save a heaux for my 27 years of life until recently. I am also an artist. The universe put this in my line of vision because I needed to hear it. So thank you again. Your content constantly inspires me.

    • @MikaAKAJada
      @MikaAKAJada Год назад +1

      I was also captain save a heaux, I retain this energy for saving myself now out and around situations.Peace and love ❤

  • @lunamagic8
    @lunamagic8 Год назад +7

    wow, I was so Jane. Such a wonderful story. helps me understand so many things. Wow, I've been looking for the reason why I am scapegoated all the time. Couldnt even word the situation. Thank you so much

  • @moonafarms1621
    @moonafarms1621 Год назад +15

    I try to remember that experiences do not happen to me, instead experiences happen for me... thank you for these thoughts Teal... we are the living soil!! 💚🌿

  • @Maui-i4c
    @Maui-i4c Год назад +33

    I was JUST thinking about how I’ve found myself in a repeat situation ONCE AGAIN and your video popped up. Perfect timing as always. Thanks Teal ♥️

  • @SammyVideoPlex
    @SammyVideoPlex Год назад +5

    Thank you Teal for your Saturday morning uploads no matter what I'm going through each video makes me feel better. I said it before you are the best podcast on youtube. Happy Autumn to you and your family I use to pray a lot but my prayers was never answered none of them. I have began to learn manifesting. 💕

  • @chiara7886
    @chiara7886 Год назад +5

    The only one who knows what she is taking about and is also capable of explain it perfectly and clearly to others.
    This is invaluable.
    Thank you Teal ❤️

  • @annikabirgittanordlander6887
    @annikabirgittanordlander6887 Год назад +8

    ”You are a Creator, whether you are a conscious Creator or an unconscious Creator. And if you have any way of thinking or behaving that feeds into creating the unwanted experience in any way, that way of thinking or behaving has to be changed for the unwanted experience not to happen”. Teal Swan. Love it Teal, thank you for sharing 🌎

  • @MontyRoyale
    @MontyRoyale 2 дня назад

    7:52
    You remind me of the main character “Elena” from the Mercedes Lackey book from the Five Hindred Kingdoms series titled: the Fairy Godmother. It’s like you’ve learned how to use the magic of the Universe to help us create our fairy tale endings. I just really admire you and appreciate how you have so many superpowers that you use for the good of mankind instead of yourself. I hope to someday use my magical powers to return the favor.

  • @trisectamiddle9681
    @trisectamiddle9681 Год назад +8

    Just in time, as always. The peace I felt listening to this, is immense. Thank you.

  • @Mark-bj4um
    @Mark-bj4um 15 дней назад

    Thank you, Teal! Having studied the “Blue Book” (Acim) for a while, it never really specifies WHAT the hell “healing” exactly means. Although it eludes to these same ideas over and over…..and over….and over…again, I’ve never had the privilege to actually see it written down as you have done here in this lesson. Thank you..❤️

  • @auryn684
    @auryn684 Год назад +29

    Teal/Jane - I appreciate you so much. This is what I missed from your blogs, hearing how you’re using your own teachings in your life. I wanted to write a long thing about how what I’ve been through the past 2 years is similar to what you’ve been going through (you and I have the same exact birthday), but typing on the mobile app is too difficult. Anyways, just wanted to say I see you, I appreciate you, and I’m so thankful I get to learn from you and with you in this life! ❤

    • @rozaSkroza
      @rozaSkroza Год назад +1

      oh yes, I was looking for this comment 💜

  • @faraheb
    @faraheb Год назад +1

    So much love and respect 🤍

  • @ElectraSirena
    @ElectraSirena Год назад +5

    Thank you Teal, this video reeeeaaallly saved my sanity in a repeat situation - I was able to identify it, reconsider my options, and change towards healing

  • @adrianaloveable
    @adrianaloveable Год назад +7

    I am going through a repeat miscarriage right now… this video really spoke to me.

  • @universalwisdom33
    @universalwisdom33 Год назад +2

    Be humble, grow each Day.simple as That.

  • @hannahk.summerville5908
    @hannahk.summerville5908 Год назад +3

    A dysfunctional relationship with pressure. YESSSS! Omg Teal I swear nobody else gives me these🤯 moments because once again you have given me exactly what I needed to figure something out. A small but not so small detail I have been constantly overlooking for aaaaaages. Jeez. Thank you🙌🏻

  • @ikulobiocha
    @ikulobiocha Год назад +3

    Wow ! Exactly what I m experimenting right now ! I just changed the pattern and said clearly what where my responsabilités and what where not . In a similar situation as the one you describe.
    I took the time before to feel my emotions : frustration , sadness , felt rejected , downgraded etc etc then I treated it like an echo residue of what I was living as a child !! My mother would ask me to apologize to my father when he was cruel with me … and the whole responsibility was on my little shoulders I had to do it because otherwise she would potentially not love me anymore and her relationship with my father was always her priority . The potential consequences would be the broken family . So that was my condition to be loved!
    As I was processing I imagined the worse scenario and there was fear . But as I managed to get to feel and recognize fear , I also remembered what I tell my students “ behind this fear , there is always beauty “ .
    The first element of beauty has been a great feeling of relief and respect for myself , the second one has been a non agressive response ( wow).and this video ✨I ll see what s going to happen from here .
    Looking forward to how it s going to unfold . But doing this I positioned myself ! And I choose when and where !
    Thank you ! ✨🙏

  • @WilliamDickinson_
    @WilliamDickinson_ Год назад +6

    I loved this video, thanks Teal.
    I enjoy when the "intangibility" of the law of attraction is broken down into onbvious logical conclusions. Well explained

  • @christavinson
    @christavinson Год назад +6

    Teal, this is exactly what I needed. My life seems been on repeat. I want more. I want better but constantly find myself in the same place

  • @billeepace7405
    @billeepace7405 Год назад +3

    This is exactly what I needed to receive from you, the timing is impeccable Teal. I’m recovering from damage from a repeat pattern and doing heaps of shadow work to unearth where origin is so I can make better decisions in the future.

  • @Yulandapotee423
    @Yulandapotee423 Год назад +3

    Perfect timing on this issue, I just asked this question earlier to myself. However it's geared towards financial reasons of repeating the same over and over again. I'm going to search through some of your old teachings to see it differently. No such thing as coincidence! Perfect timing😉

  • @mariamschoolenjoy6546
    @mariamschoolenjoy6546 Год назад +4

    I feel like this story reflects your personal experience, Teal. Thank you

    • @Mrgg-vo9hr
      @Mrgg-vo9hr Год назад

      She's building her defense..

  • @michaelfinley4187
    @michaelfinley4187 Год назад

    I believe you would never betray me Teal..........❤️🧡💛💚

  • @rhuwrong1135
    @rhuwrong1135 Год назад +2

    In the exact situation...thank you for the *abselute* truth mam.

  • @PreYeah
    @PreYeah Год назад +1

    Very eye-opening! Yes, the core belief I was taught by my parents was that, “the more you do, the better it gets”.
    Needless to say, my parents were always taken advantage of by their family but they were in denial about it. Needless to also say, it then set me up to be taken advantage of by my peers which I was also in denial about.
    The worst part is our tolerance for this kind of abuse is so high and our denial or hope/fantasy that it’ll get better, keeps us stuck. So it takes a massive amount of pain and burnout to pierce through our own disillusionment and for us to actively say, “enough”. But once you’re on that path, very little will take you off it. Videos like Teal help revalidate and reinforce to keep asserting myself so I can get my worth.

  • @peakexperiencelifestyle
    @peakexperiencelifestyle Год назад +38

    I find for myself as I end up in these repeat situations (right now I am broke and homeless and alone once again) I am less affected by them. I’m not sure if this is a numbness or a sign of progression as I’ve noticed these experiences have forged my character and built in me a certain strength that I notice is lacking in others. It has also given me tremendous clarity on my purpose and what I am meant to do and also precisely what I need to build in terms of a business model to have massive financial success. So yeah it completely sucks sometimes to the point of basically longing for death but this is mostly from just the total aloneness and lack of friends/support. So I’ve realized what I am meant to do is to help the collective with this specific problem and create a way for people to meet up with like-minded and like-hearted individuals in a supportive container to find meaningful connection and have support in accomplishing their goals.

    • @onreact
      @onreact Год назад +5

      Stay strong man. Someone said that "God puts his toughest warriors in the most difficult situations". I'm not religious really but there is some truth to it - you face this hardship because you can overcome it and move on to the next level. Treat life like a computer game and grab the magic wand this time.

    • @peakexperiencelifestyle
      @peakexperiencelifestyle Год назад +1

      @@onreact Thanks man this really resonates 👊

    • @peakexperiencelifestyle
      @peakexperiencelifestyle Год назад +2

      @الحق والطبيعة I find acceptance of the situation first and foremost is the most important thing. If you are resisting it then nothing can change, and erode your are stuck on suffering because of it. Once you fully accept you can begin brainstorming and then executing on the most practical and actionable solutions. Put one foot in front of the other and just keep moving forward. This is what I’m doing and it seems to be working.

    • @ms.heart3371
      @ms.heart3371 Год назад +2

      Although my situation is different, I can completely relate with every word you said. There must be a state of mastery in learning how to keep being faced with the same situation and learning to see it and handle it from a total different perspective. I therefore wouldn't call it numbness. It is the very things we conquer that take us where we are meant to be❤

    • @gabrielasaid8713
      @gabrielasaid8713 Год назад +4

      What helped me overcome poverty is changing my belief systems from the ones that did not work for me like : '' I have no friends, nobody cares about me etc'' to "The universe is conspiring to my happiness''. This is a state of being that I repeated to myself to exhaustion. When it comes to doing i set myself goals and paid myself first. Hope this helps!

  • @R0CK0Nbaby
    @R0CK0Nbaby Год назад +11

    Oh my goodness Teal, I am really loving the colors in your videos, your top layer is just stunning - I wonder if it's one of your paintings turned into clothing?? It would be so amazing if you created a clothing line with your art, like what you're wearing! Thank you so much for your videos, this was another phenomenal video that's so relevant and helpful to so many of us! I know I go through many repeat lessons, but each time I am indeed a little bit more aware and evolved from the last time I went through that lesson - I believe I'll get there eventually! Thank you so much, I truly love and respect you!!!

    • @dwsel
      @dwsel Год назад

      Possibly, pattern on her clothes looks like her painting style.

    • @TealSwanOfficial
      @TealSwanOfficial  Год назад +4

      Thank you so much. We actually do this: shop.tealswan.com/pages/frequency-clothing

    • @R0CK0Nbaby
      @R0CK0Nbaby Год назад

      @@TealSwanOfficial Awesome, thank you!!! I'm browsing the clothing options now and I feel overwhelmed with excitement at all these incredible options, OMG! So gorgeous - all of them! Definitely gonna save up and get one of those bomber jackets!

  • @mindbodyspirfit
    @mindbodyspirfit Год назад +2

    Reminds me of Paulo Cuelho the alchemist. When you're on your path the universe will conspire for you

  • @SandraLemenaite
    @SandraLemenaite Год назад +1

    i just paid rent at the very last second… and a second later, Teal mentioned those words regarding Jane. unreal. I just got an explanation for a very very old and unhealed pattern. thank you, Teal❤

  • @crimsonskiss
    @crimsonskiss Год назад +3

    Teal I just want to say how proud I am of you. You have managed to turn your pain into power and build an empire. You’re a strong woman and an inspiration. I’m not just saying this!! It actually moves me how consistent and intelligent you are and that you’re able to excel in psychology far more than any man I have ever known. It makes it hard to find a man that would contain even just a quarter of the intellectual capacity you do.

  • @TheMediumChannel
    @TheMediumChannel Год назад +3

    If you can get so present as to not be your personal identity which is all programming anyway you pierce the layers of the subconscious and are granted clear insights into how your repetitive (usually unhealthy) patterns began, evolved over time, hiw you subconsciously perpetuate them and how to free yourself of them.. but you have to get past the self…. when I meditate every morning I cease to be my name, my job, my group associations etc and then I find my true identity as Spirit.. Energy…one with God.. part of the fabric of all life….

  • @nashmichaeld
    @nashmichaeld Год назад +1

    Like others here. I too am currently in a repeat. A biggie. Family expectations and I’m never giving enough. Blah blah blah … insert Teal giggle… only THIS time, I noticed the repeat, and I feel on the outside of it. It’s different. And as usual, the perfect timing of this video helps me make sense of that. 🎉.
    I see the world from a perspective that just doesn’t dove tail into the lives of many I’m “close” to. There’s always ‘resistance’ and the opposite of engagement or interest in my perspective.
    Thanks to you Teal, I can see the impact I’m having, the creation I’m getting into the flow of. And I’m feeling more full inside my body than ever before.
    It feels like ‘Control Drama’ is my family’s way of getting me back into line, back to taking responsibility for their happiness and financial needs while my needs seem to be something I must manage alone.
    This journey is NOT overnight (thanks Pantene), and sometimes it’s scary… but it’s happening.
    IM COMING ALICE!!! 🐇

  • @tpriestess
    @tpriestess Год назад +1

    The example you give in Jane sounds like it could be your recent situation. I say this in kindness.
    And I thank you for shedding light here. It is helping me in my situation.
    I relate to the pressure part especially, Teal.

  • @iankenney6602
    @iankenney6602 Год назад

    Ahhh to Heal by the magical love of Teal..! You really Nailed this one.

  • @tdesha100
    @tdesha100 Год назад +1

    This whole year has been full of these for me. They’re coming on one after the other it’s happening so much faster than usual. Handled them all well so far but I hope I can continue to. It’s exhausting!

  • @anttitaalto
    @anttitaalto Год назад +1

    Lol, I've created a very narrow point of balance for myself to be empowered, emobodied, wilfull, surrendered, compassionate, masculine and feminine. Usually the moment I think I've "got" whatever is the most obvious challenge in my face, another balancing act announces itself in. Quite literally as in "you thought getting the other one in was the end of me, now look and assimilate the new me." It all moves forward and refines, of course. Love the content Teal.

  • @caroleelaschwa5294
    @caroleelaschwa5294 Год назад +4

    Wow, Jane’s situation was eerily similar to what happened to me in an all female band... very hurtful, but an amazing healing experience.

  • @andysavvy
    @andysavvy Год назад +1

    It's amazing to see your healing going so well, Teal. It's great to see you coming back with greater insight and a greater sense of connectivity. It must have been a really hard time for you while going through what you were. Welcome back, Teal. Namaste.

  • @0rchlid
    @0rchlid Год назад +9

    Thank you so much
    This video is LITERALLY what I needed

  • @emilyplayscello
    @emilyplayscello Год назад +6

    Thanks Teal, I would love your insight on going through death/loss of people close to us on this topic. I lost my mother to cancer in Sept 2020, and exactly a year later, my cat who had been my primary companion for 10 years also got cancer and died 6 months later. I spent most of my cat's illness trying to believe it wasn't true and she wasn't going to die, particularly because everyone around me encouraged me to be positive, focus on a miracle, and her prognosis wasn't extremely clear. Trying to be positive and not believe what was happening was extremely taxing, especially having just lost my mother to cancer. It felt impossible not to believe the same was about to happen to my beloved cat, who I leaned on so much during my grieving. But I wanted to do everything in my power for her to live, so I held on to hope.
    This attempt to be "positive" during my cat's illness made the entire process extremely confusing and painful. I surprisingly did very well with my mother's death, despite how close I was to her, because of a lot of acceptance and healthy conversations with my mom and her own acceptance of her illness. I took a more optimistic approach with my cat, and it did not yield results and I think caused me additional stress when I could have been coming to acceptance. How responsible are we for the deaths of others in our lives? Does coming to peace and acceptance with their imminent death will MORE death to come into our lives because we "accept" it? This has been a very difficult area for me to understand as I don't feel the death of loved ones is on the same level as a breakup of a relationship, etc.

    • @helenacummings2745
      @helenacummings2745 Год назад +3

      None of us are responsible for the death of others unless of course we are the actual ones who caused someone's death, like in a car accident for example. Any Loss is hard, weather it's people or animals we are close to. You never want to give up hope, it's always Good to pray hope and believe for things but if it does not turn out how you hoped, don't loose faith. Just know they are in a better place with no more pain or suffering, let yourself Grieve and heal and think about the happy moments, it's all we can do. I feel for you with the lose of your Mom and cat, I lost my Dad and my Brother and a cat as well, I know how it feels, Stay strong🙏

    • @pallmallninjak
      @pallmallninjak Год назад

      I agree with @Helena Cummings. The universe has a way of sending challenges into our lives to understand and overcome. They are not seen as challenges though they are interpreted as problems by most people. Yet it sends challenges that you are capable of over coming but may think otherwise to. Death is apart of life and in regards to family I’ve only lost grandparents but when they passed I mourned their deaths for a short time then celebrated their life to honor them. I have watched documentaries on people experiencing a situation where they died for a period of time but was brought back thanks to medical aid or other and the majority of them who recalled their after death experience claimed it was a place where they felt a beyond bliss like feeling so intense they had little desire to return to a physical state. Most of what many people experience in life is in reflection to aspects that are psychosomatic, meaning what the mind makes of it. So be careful of doubt of faith you believe in especially when viewing yourself. Things happen for a reason and problems always end up becoming a learning experience. If it’s made positive or negative that’s on the individual. 😁

    • @annat9898
      @annat9898 Год назад

      Accepting death doesn't "bring more death" into your life. Since death is unavoidable the best way to deal with it is to accept this and live each moment as fully as possible. And also to grief fully and allow our emotions once death does reach us. Surrendering to life is to accept death. There is no responsibility in the death of others through accepting this simple fact, as death is a natural part of life, it's the only promise given to us when being born.
      Let go of your guilt, both for "not praying hard enough so she could keep living" (which just isn't true) and "not allowing to process this earlier through accepting her current health."
      Wish you the best

    • @TheRealJashminn
      @TheRealJashminn Год назад

      Oh My God, the same thing happened to me. My mother died in 2018 very suddenly, she was suffering from depression and was on meds and I went into shock about her death and still am in coz finance is scarce and therapy is expensive. Then in a line 6 of my cats and 1 mouse died (yes they were elderly cats except 1) I am so scared now to love anyone in fear of losing them and recently I found a stray mama cat and fell in love with her black new born and guess what the black kitten died mysteriously again.

  • @sandycollins3613
    @sandycollins3613 5 месяцев назад

    I am in love with Teal (in a respectful and healthy way). You put into words how I've been feeling for over 50 years! Your words of wisdom are true compassion and true love.

  • @Dee-Ann_Louise
    @Dee-Ann_Louise Год назад +2

    Thank you, Teal. I am in a repeat situation. I have actually been doing this... looking at how I can do things differently this time... acting out of my own self interest instead of aligning myself with others' values.
    Blessings

  • @caramackenzie1271
    @caramackenzie1271 Год назад +1

    thank you so much for your intelligent honesty

  • @salchst
    @salchst Год назад +3

    I needed this today! I applied it to a present repeat problem I am having.

  • @ericowen357
    @ericowen357 Год назад +1

    aayyyee - love the new music

  • @yveqeshy
    @yveqeshy Год назад +2

    I guess another way of looking at this is by understanding that all those things that keep trigerring you are the pathways to healing, and they will keep recurring until you learn how to approach and deal with them differently from a more conscious pov as opposed to habit

  • @Trinity30585
    @Trinity30585 Год назад +1

    I had to watch a few times for it to start clicking. I'm guilty. I've been doing this everyday my whole life. Getting the unwanted thing is a life changer .I never experienced for fear of outcome or whatever reason. I know it will free me. I've been down on myself for this since I was child. Everything is what it is because of this.. ty Teal..

    • @Trinity30585
      @Trinity30585 Год назад

      Ty for kickstarting my heart again. I'm 55 and lost all hope of any next step. Life hasnt changed yet but I know I'm more motivated and happier since I've found your channel just recently.

    • @Trinity30585
      @Trinity30585 Год назад

      Ty for sharing. The world's a better place.

  • @septemberdawnluketz
    @septemberdawnluketz Год назад +2

    This is my story right now. In yet another repeated situation of knowing what I don’t want and experienced it over and over again. So this is precisely what I needed to see in order to break this cycle once and for all. Thank you!

  • @crystalclearice
    @crystalclearice Год назад +1

    Wow!! Thank you so much for this video, Teal😘

  • @Lucida1818
    @Lucida1818 Год назад +1

    I understand what you are saying because I am in this right now. I also understand the opportunity for me to heal.
    The story almost fits the situation I’m in except everyone’s responsibility is for their own rent. And I have pulled back on cleaning the kitchen

  • @mirushekerkuti7205
    @mirushekerkuti7205 Год назад +3

    Thank you so much for explaining this is best given information ❤️ now I understand why I was trying to solve everyone's problems in my family and my circles.of friends and coworkers , in the end I'm the bad guy, very sad 😔

    • @mirushekerkuti7205
      @mirushekerkuti7205 Год назад

      I'm the scapegoat, the story you telling resonate with Me, I'm in repeat situations, I have to sign in for your upcoming events and read your books. I need your help 😢 😔

  • @lanachild7731
    @lanachild7731 Год назад +8

    My problem is that I always end up around "the same" people I've gotten away from in my childhood/past. I'm looking for a discussion on how we attract people we can't get along with. I guess, I repeat my behavior, that's why I find myself in a repeat situation of being around people with mutual conflict and spite.

    • @ermasing
      @ermasing Год назад +1

      That means who you are internally and who you are externally don't match.
      Find yourself,
      Be yourself,
      STAY yourself!

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 10 месяцев назад +1

      You're not attracting them, you're repeating a familiar pattern. What traits did you overlook at the beginning? Are you too open/ accepting yet don't realize it? That would require a 1-1 conversing with a therapist

    • @Patton0911
      @Patton0911 7 месяцев назад

      I have the same issue. I don’t know how I’m attracting them. Maybe it’s because I need to learn how to deal with these types of people. Learning not to judge, which I am bad about. 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @nganvu9612
    @nganvu9612 9 месяцев назад

    T'm so greatful that the universe has led me to Teal's video.
    Also Teal, thank you so much for your guidance. It really helped me alot.

  • @TheEmperorAs
    @TheEmperorAs Год назад +1

    Awesome new Music!

  • @josierenee3613
    @josierenee3613 Год назад +3

    The story example literally feels like my life and I kind of don't think that is a coincidence 🙃💚✨💚

  • @horsiegal90
    @horsiegal90 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this video. When I am in a repeat situation I tend to criticize myself & ask myself why I do this when I know the out come is not what I want. Changing my perspective to looking at a repeat situation as chance for healing is something I want to incorporate into my practice & thought pattern.

  • @BuzzChronicles
    @BuzzChronicles Год назад +3

    i realize this a few months ago about my life & currently trap in the revenge stage of this where i want to get revenge on everyone who did me this & i think im in a worst place for it

  • @laurasanjur6414
    @laurasanjur6414 Год назад +3

    I SOOO FEEL YOU!! love the new music by the way 🦄🐘💜

  • @csc8697
    @csc8697 Год назад

    Recently came across Teal...one smart lady! She has figured out human nature.
    She just doesn't reley on the "religion" cop out.

  • @metasamsara
    @metasamsara Год назад +3

    What you say about mirroring reminded me of a thought I had just today playing an online competitive video game. I felt for a while I was unfairly held at a lower rank than I deserve because of some mental blocks that make me behave differently than the path the rank up algorithm wants me to take to earn the points. But this got me finally thinking, while trying to take ownership of the situation: "hm, how can I play good against bad players? if my entire persona works through mirroring then adjusting". I think I'm starting to get to a break through about "doing my thing" and finding secure in it regardless of others. I countered my superiority for too long with huge amounts of self doubts to keep myself in check and objective, but when i empower who i am I am miiiiles ahead of others :') but i still lack aspects of cognition that would turn my understanding into practical success so im still working at it. ill definitely work on taming this ego in a healthy productive way👀i've become more aware of my impact on others directly while practicing grounding in the present. empathy takes 2 even through incompatibilities. relativity of the universe.

  • @polinaraw
    @polinaraw Год назад +1

    Opened my eyes on a lot of patterns in my life. Love you Teal 💙

  • @yoganature3598
    @yoganature3598 Год назад +1

    Willing to awaken !
    A lot of offloading out there seems jus saying
    & yes of family lineage that didn’t deal well with its issues .. 😙 tough gruff stoic denial or too soft then incur injury ... 🙄 ....
    The extractive model is a resolute No for me. 😌

  • @berzima1764
    @berzima1764 Год назад +4

    Teal, thank you for being so crazy strong.

  • @jeanpaul9739
    @jeanpaul9739 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much! I am gratefully aware of the blessing i received by having non influencing, absent and non parents for parents
    Now, i expect nothing Want, different story

  • @onelittledropintheocean
    @onelittledropintheocean Год назад +15

    I divorced my family of origin for certain reasons only to find other people taking their place! It seems that although mentally & emotionally I know what I want, I am still attracting what I don't want on an energetic level.
    So yes, change doesn't happen overnight but it does happen. Remember that life is in a constant state of change and to stay focused on redirecting habit-loving energy and knowing it is happening ... Like a flower unfolding, you don't see it happen and yet it happens 🙏💖🕊️

  • @alicem3642
    @alicem3642 Год назад +2

    Feeling like Jane was Teal...!

  • @mariarohmer2374
    @mariarohmer2374 Год назад

    The wrap up towards the end is brilliant, Teal. I hope everyone stayed and got what they needed from it. I sure did.

  • @carolinemorillafernandez7243
    @carolinemorillafernandez7243 Год назад +4

    Thank you Teal ❤

  • @andyherod653
    @andyherod653 Год назад

    Teal, you’re just so cool.

  • @user-dr1yb2qj7b
    @user-dr1yb2qj7b 7 месяцев назад

    How funny this video come up in my recommended videos today as I've been sitting down and analyzing my choices and the outcome of those decisions. Funnier even so to notice that I do have a pattern of repeating. I did not realize at 37 years old, my entire life was going to shift. Thank you, Teal for everything you do and share with the world. Have a good week.

  • @pepijnschermer5002
    @pepijnschermer5002 Месяц назад

    Thank you for providing the necessary mindfuck today. My repeat situation is mutually falling in love with women that are already in a relationship. Don't really know why that is, and how I should feel about it right now but it is what it is. Right now I just want to lay down and just do nothing...

  • @JoannaSenexis
    @JoannaSenexis Год назад

    I asked about it via „Ask Teal” message few days ago and now, boom! Perfect timing!❤

  • @cailax11
    @cailax11 Год назад +1

    Thanks queen

  • @jellesyare
    @jellesyare Год назад

    thank you, Teal. thank you always

  • @amandacalhoun3965
    @amandacalhoun3965 Год назад +1

    What a beautiful story we've written ❤️ ♥️ Thank you for existing

  • @luukassl
    @luukassl Год назад +1

    Thank you, I love these deep informative videos. Happy Saturday Teal

  • @sojourdaze
    @sojourdaze Год назад

    I had watched this video six months ago during my repeat situation and now six months later, I f**king get it! It makes so much sense than it did six months ago. This is on point. God/Universe, whatever you believe, IS looking out for you. It takes time

  • @sunriseoftheheart
    @sunriseoftheheart Год назад +5

    So my topic today!!!!!! Perfect Timing. Thank you ♥️🌟

  • @cathleenmclaughlin6367
    @cathleenmclaughlin6367 Год назад +1

    Wow!!!! Thank you for showing me what I needed to see!

  • @shaniaothman3320
    @shaniaothman3320 Год назад +1

    Thank you Teal❤

  • @WyldeRatttz
    @WyldeRatttz Год назад +1

    Thank you for this! It's just perfect for where I'm at. I had a breakthrough earlier this year about my major repeat situation, and started to see it differently and react differently. I kinda backslid recently, but this encourages me to keep at it. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

  • @cristinaaquino9717
    @cristinaaquino9717 Год назад +3

    I love this video Teal! Always so well explained. I'm eternally grateful for you. xx

  • @annaemeralda
    @annaemeralda Год назад +1

    The example with Jane is similar to my situation. I was the scapegoat and I ended up in the same situation in my adult life. The first time I couldn't change the pattern.
    The second time happened a few months ago and I reached the resolution just when this video popped up on YT...
    Now I managed to change the pattern. It was intense, but I was guided, I felt the support from the Universe and I was determined to change this pattern.
    For me the resolution was to actually walk away, what I was afraid do the first time. The first repeat time I accepted the scapegoat role. The second time I didn't.
    It wasn't escaping, because it wasn't a push away or denial, it was a conscious choice.
    They were left in their toxic energy and they are furious because they have nobody to blame anymore and still not willing to take responsibility for anything, but it's on them, now they have to face themselves or do whatever they want.
    I don't care anymore if I loose connections due to setting boundaries, because these people are toxic anyway so I didn't lost real connections.

  • @milomazli
    @milomazli Год назад +1

    Thank you so much Teal

  • @ethereal_musik
    @ethereal_musik Год назад +6

    ALWAYS EYE OPENING!! Damn! Thank you. Very much needed

  • @allychar7316
    @allychar7316 Год назад

    My new favorite video, I'm really at a loss for words and this has me intentionally looking at the events that have recently transpired from a different perspective.

  • @KayoQueiroz
    @KayoQueiroz Год назад

    The timing os this! Omg I'm a Jane lol, great video!

  • @awildbecoming
    @awildbecoming Год назад +1

    This was sooo good, thank you!