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The Impact of Tonality (Video) - Charisma Matrix
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2012
- The impact of tonality is realized with every word that you speak. It is inevitable. Maximize your control over the way you are perceived with this video. It covers an explanation of the impact of tonality and how to use it in your favor.
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This is one of the most golden videos I’ve ever seen in my whole life. I call family meetings every Sunday and force everybody to watch it. My son hasn’t really gotten the grasp of the concept yet and he’s starting to piss me off. I’m giving him one more week. He thinks being four years old is an excuse
If you're joking it's hilarious, if not it's absolutely awful (and hilarious)
That's really funny 😂🤣😂
i agree. being 4 years old is not an excuse
I applied this with my boss. it was unconfortable at first but it is very powerful. makes you feel like your the prize
+adrian garcia Very true. Even adjusting your tonality a small amount from what is normal for you feels uncomfortable to start. Glad you pushed through though, the results are powerful.
Youre fired
I am this guys boss, he was let go three years ago
Johnny Black you’re ***
beieber4life thanks sir ! He was a pest
I’ve implemented this in my life and it is literally life changing.
How?
Lmao
I think I'll watch one of your videos every night from now on. this is some real quality
Good call. Enjoy
WWR
GODZ
@@CharismaMatrix u know it's not just men did u ever hear Kate beckinsdales voice? Her voice makes her like 50 percent more attractive
Omg ,there was this colleague that I never really respected but never knew why. And now this video totally nailed it.. A very high" let me kiss your ass" voice tone. It was front and center but didn't see it. Thanks for these videos. It's like what every body should know but doesn't .
When I'm outside, talking to strangers, or at work, I've been told I speak in a very authoritative way. My ex recognized that too. But when I was with her, I spoke in a much softer way. I think it's one of the reasons she broke up with me :I
It’s tough ... for me I know when I speak normally with my bass it makes people or women feel uncomfortable as if I’m angry when I’m really being neutral... sorry for your experience but it was probably for the best. You now have a new opportunity to start fresh with someone else better
Best explanation of tonality I've heard thus far
No way. Im watching it, its ok, i dont think its that good though tbh. Tonality? Jordan Belfort (wolf of wall street) is the grand master, not even leonardo dicaprio could emulate him in the movie
I never thought that there was this much to communication. I know I sound like a fan boy, but this stuff is goldddddd, goldddd I tells you! Thanks a lot for sharing this Barron.
Tone is important! When you were forced to say sorry to someone when you were a child, they could tell if you didn't mean it from your tone, not the words. I SEE WHAT YOUR SAYING, KAKLJLEJFKLJKLDFJLS:LFKJ
social media and technology has remove the art of communication
peace out
My tonality is terrible, and I never realize why people aren’t very forthcoming and sociable w me. very helpful tips.
Thanks BDub! Once you start to really pay attention to your tonality and play around with it you'll be on the fast track to improvement.
I use rapport seeking inflections with my patients and it seems to work very well in that setting. perhaps it implies respect and gives them the confidence that I truly care about them.
Thanks Kevin. "Rapport breaking tonality" means speaking with an unapologetic, non-supplicating, downward tonality. On the other hand, you can break rapport through many means some of which include eye contact, body language, tonality and the actual words you say.
11 years later this videos still gold
Absolutely, I'm glad you got some value from it.
I just started a door to door sales job and this shit is legit one of the best videos I’ve ever watched. Thanks man.
This video is a lifesaver. Helped me grow confidence.
I have to say I watched one of your videos 2 years ago and I am so much better at engaging people now. I am a curt person but in other situations I would find myself with the high pitched voice in asking questions. Big no no. So now I understand what I have been doing wrong all these years.
Thanks a bunch.
Tonality is power
I've been searching about tonality on youtube lately, and your video is the best of the few I found. Thanks for the information.
Nice. Yeah I've seen the same thing when searching for niche concepts in communication. Glad to have you on board.
Thank you bruh. Only 27 views, God brought me to this page. Thank you. Keep it going. This lesson is in line with what Ive just been taught recently about tone
Tone shows how you respect yourself.
I agree
I dont respect myself I hate myself and love others
@@fallenslave6684 “...love others as you love yourself...”
@@fallenslave6684 if u don’t love yourself u could never truly love someone else
That’s the secret sauce i was looking for all the time. It’s just too simple to be real! Amazing. I transformed myself at work with this technique.
Just talk normal to people (speaking as a supervisor)
Ok, got it. Talk like Batman. Always talk like batman.
6:14
"HOW'RE THINGS WITH YOUR WIFE?"
"Well, er, it's going pretty good, we have a baby on the way and-
"SWEAR TO ME!"
Hahahahah, awesome.
Batman talks in that shouting way? must be a scene i'm not familiar with
WHERE"S THE TRIGGER!
WHERES THE CATNIP, 'i doh nooawh'
WHERE IS SHE?!
I do sales in grocery stores. This should definitely be a part of our training for reps. Thank you
Good stuff baron keep them coming
I don't even know if you read these comments but I wanted you to know that you explain things in such an amazing way. I have 2 autistic sons that have trouble with social cues. I found your videos by trying to find ways to help explain things to them. Your videos have done exactly that. 😊 thank you so much!!!
EVERYONE seems to use this ;but, me! I'm SURROUNDED. lol!!
one of the best videos, presentations on the internet i have seen so far. straight to the point, doesnt bounce around, knows what he is talking about, educates. very good job. thanks
Cool! Funny this was one of my very first videos like 5 years ago. Still goin strong! Cheers
Crazy how that works, I don’t consciously feel any different
6:10 lol hilarious. Love your videos man. Don't stop
This is great information! I knew tone was impactful from painful childhood experiences. This video on tone describes key non-verbals that are expressed through tone. Loved!
Brought a bag for my gold! Thank you for sharing.
your introduction HELLO is damn good...rappo down....superb
This is one of the most useful videos I’ve ever encountered. Never thought of it that way.
Very nice video. Although previously familiar with this information, you have described it in a way that has allowed me noticeable results. The most important element I've missed is that a downward or neutral vocal inflection can still be rapport seeking along with body language. Intention is key.
Very nice!
This video is very useful, thank you.
I'm fascinated with these ideas, and taking them a step further. Meaning: the tone of each individual word, and the subtleness of whether it's a command or a question, and how to use this in persuasion (for the good). I guess this could be viewed as involving NLP, perhaps.?
Best way to learn is making it a game your playing
Btw can you elaborate on
"Please throw me bone, put me on" just killed me. lol
youre just the most awesome instructor i have seen so far , thank you very much for that
Whenever I talk to a police officer I always do it in a seeking tone, subconsciously. Would it be better to talk to them in a neutral tone? Or are there situations where you ought to use a seeking tone? This is in the context of getting pulled over btw
***** Good Question. You'll notice that the police officer likely used a very rapport breaking tonality with you, to help elicit a supplicative, or seeking tone from you.
There are situations when using a supplicative tone can be effective, but always be sure that it is used intentionally, rather than by accident. Only use to it accomplish something specific, that can only be done through that type of frame.
Great video man! Really enjoyed it
6:13 you scared the shit out of me (i was just listening)
thank you brother. your beginning "hello" was not seeking for approval, in fact that was the moment i started to like you. so stupid dont you think? People like people who are neutral to them, because THEN they become the ones seeking for approval. science
This helped so much. I'm grateful & greatly appreciate you for this video
very useful Alhamdulillah. thanks :)
Wow.. your channel is a goldmine. Thanks a lot for the info!
Great to hear! Thanks
Greatest video i ever watched
Excellent video. It was well presented with clear examples. I'm even more inspired to work on my tonality now. Thank you!
works for me... great clip young man
Great video! Thank you!
Matrix. Very Good Psychological Videos. 👍........
Just wanted to let you know that in different CULTURES, and different COUNTRIES, These Tonality psychological methods are sometimes the opposite. I think this VARIES from culture to culture. GREAT MATERIAL MATRIX. 👍👍👍
Thank you sir.
Actually, most of the time I use a tonality that is perfectly monotone. I struggle to show -any- emotion in my voice. One reason I'm happy I found this video. And hopefully I can find more useful stuff on your page. ^^
I really need to learn how to use the silly human things like voice and body in speaking. (Cuz the alternative either freaks people out or make them interpret everything I say bad.)
Man i love your videos... Keep em coming!
Good job. Thanks
Great video!! Thanks, will consciously use neutral tone more!
Excellent - very helpful. Used your clip during a training session with my phone concierge team. I hope you don't mind.
Jonine Baker Great, glad you were able to share the ideas!
Don't seek report, assume report
These videos are great! How do you not have more views
Bobby Jones Hey Bobby, thanks for your support!
People don't want to change yet want their circumstances to change thats why
What’s the difference between downward inflection and simply speaking in a deeper voice?
Good question. I guess its more about if you keep it at a level at the end rather than it trailing off higher or lower.
Thank you. I find a lot of sense in your coaching. Gonna try some this. You have a scope on social engagement . Thanks
6:12 Focking hell. That shit is scary. Blew my ear drums out
This is good stuff.
hi, this is a cool video, but i wonder what would happen if you approach someone with a rapport seaking voice: "Hey! how are you whats happening?" then the second sentence respond with a joke and de third sentence respond with a rapport breaking tonality. after that just talk normal. wouldn't that just boost your charisma? it seems like you build a kind of relationship with someone this way very quickly and make you charismatic. i'd like to hear your opinion about this
Love the out of the box thinking Wolf. Mix-matching tonalities in a way that is much different that the social norm can be used to speed up rapport and achieve a very high level of communication efficiency. It's an advanced topic that I plan to speak upon in the near future. Thanks for the comment!
The wolf of wall street, Jordan Belfort, would use a similar process as you mentioned minus the joke.
True model. Love this Chanel.
Sounds very interesting and lots of good advice, but I think it's overly simplistic.
Off the top of my head I can think of many situations that I speak with a rapport seeking tonality to loved ones, or they speak to me like that, and it doesn't come across like either of us respects the other more than themselves - it certainly feels like we're absolutely equals.
Unless I'm missing something and this 'categorising' only applies to people you're not very close to.
Thank you
excellent video!
So good .... sharing with my office
So True!!!!
Awesome video!! Definetely suscribing
Thanks Sebastian, good to have you on board!
Great video, thank you... I hope really hope that USA customs at airports watch this video because their tones is frustrating, which I believe is intended for some reasons
barron thats an awesome video mate, can you give some tips on how one should practice these things? that would be really helpful. anyway thanks, keep up the good work!!..
Whats up man. Check out my playlist for "Tonality," on my channel. Tons of new content pertaining to this. Cheers!
Hi Barron, thanks for the wonderful tips. Is the rapport neutral and breaking happening in ALL sentences or just the opening introduction? I’ve been practising these low downward ending pitch and my family said i’m monotonous like a robot; and asking question with a low pitch instead of ending with a high one showing curiosity
. Also during remote interviews, are we supposed to have these neutral and breaking tones as this may make us less engaging or likeable. Seeking your advice to further improve.
Solid
Awesome advice Barron! This has helped me when I have conversations with people I hear and see a big difference
Always awesome to hear of the impact that applying these ideas can have. Nice job Danny.
Barron, Awesome videos. Just watched like 10 of them straight, crazy interesting. Iv always been really interested in verbal and non verbal communications. Id appreciate some advice. I have a stutter and of course the perception exist that I'm nervous or submissive. I'm really neither; much of the time I wonder why people who don't stutter are so afraid to speak and feel awkward in social situations, No judgement, everybody has their thing. I can walk up to anyone and start a conversation and I enjoy conversing. I am a serial entrepreneur, book and street smart, a veteran, I have an awesome social circle and colleges. I feel that I have strong situational and physical confidence. Is it possible for a tonality to somewhat override the perception of weakness, nervousness or lack of confidence or intellect? The next step in my career is basically sales and contract negotiation, Id like my customers to feel I am fully confident that I can handle their needs and am the go-to-guy they want. Thanks Shane
Great video. Thanks!
Thanks for the comment Hamed.
True. Some people are just soft spoken or have weird voices lol. I've always tried to change my weird voice sometimes I sound weird sometimes I sound cool at least to myself anyway xD as long as you dont sound like nervous I guess xD most people probly dont think about it as much as I do D :
This is excellent stuff
***** Thanks man!
How do you use tone when speaking with immediate family members? I am struggling with this. My Mom tells me I’m combative
When is it appropriate to speak with a report breaking tone? For example, if someone is speaking down to you or condescending, is it appropriate then to compensate with breaking report?
I'm Japanese and looking for a program that is focused on inflection and musical tonality of when speaking English. Do you think your way of enhancing tonality works for me?
Do you live in Japan or elsewhere?
Currently, I live in Los Angeles, but I'm going to move to NY in a month.
You would be an elite teacher hs or college
Hey Barron .. Thanks for making these videos, there helping me lots. do you have any videos or thoughts were u are greeting about 2000 people a night and you can only speak to them about 15 second at a time . Thanks for your help
would be much better if you had actual real-life people talking, and you analyze THAT.
whats the difference between pitch and tone? i looked it up and the answers are all relating to music... i feel like im just lowering my voice and not sure if im doing it right
Awesome! I'm in highschool and the advice that you gave is really practical. Keep it going, I enjoy it!. One question, is report breaking tonality similar to a downward tonality? I think rapport breaking is when you purposefully sound the sentence more negatively while downward tonality is just changing the inflection and tone of the last few words more like a commanding tonality but achieving the same result of a neutral tonality. Awesome and Thank you! I'm going to check out your other vids!
what if you were to use a rapport breaking tone with a boss? would this be seen as disrespectful?
people respect those that respect themselves
When should I use rapport seeking? Should I ever even consider using it?
Ty
thank you soo much!
Since masks are more acceptable now. Can a mask or ear-insert be made that analyzes ones voice and auto-corrects the pitch and tone if needed to sound positive?
2:20 2:45 4:40
lol old Barron videos. he has certainly stepped his game up since then
hahahaa thanks for noticing!
(deep voice)Holy sh*t
Fantastic
great tips. 06:12...CRACK ^FUNNEY.... What if you over correct and actually do sound like 06:12? then what???
Lol that would be incredible...wouldn't take long to spot your error by the responses from people :)
My problem is that my voice cracks sometimes and i sound like a 11 girl...How do i fix this issue???
Sorry i cant find your name? Your vid really high valuable contents... Thanks for do this vid.