Role model for girls? A cold, bossy woman of structure with authoritative demeanor and violent stare? No, thanks. As much as narrow-minded Kardashians are, at least they feel feminine and human. This one feels like a smart reptilian predator.
she is for some little girls....n for some its the kardashians...i can literally see the future of both types of girls....1 type is smart independent n the other teenage moms
Success is the ability to not care what others think,to unapologetically be you,to love yourself, to accept yourself flaws and all and to have compassion to even those that dont have compassion for you. Success isnt just money and materialistic things.
The “move to the outside of the circle” ⭕️ thing regarding someone you care about but is currently too chaotic or toxic / not the person they used to be but you don’t want to entirely cut them off. - that’s exactly what I needed to hear 👍 This lady’s audiobook is awesome.”!!!! Becoming Bulletproof”. I highly recommend. She has a lot of insight, a great communication style. Even the way she herself narrates the audiobook is an experience. The way she speaks. How she pronounces words and her pitch and meter of her voice is entrancing. It’s an experience in itself. Like the content of the audiobook and her narration are two lessons at once that I really enjoy listening to. I’ve simply got to up my speaking game !
« the people you surround yourself with will set that tone for you, if everybody around me is a mess or everybody around me when there’s a stressful situation where they fall apart and they’re chaotic, I’m gonna be that » « Look at who’s around you, you are them they are you and if you don’t like what’s going on with you pause and be like who am I exposed to the most » « You have a shitshow around you, it’s you. Because you’re allowing it to exist » So true
What Evy said about moving people out towards the edges of your circle is so on point. I've had to do this with some family members. Being a constant safety net for them wasn't helping them. It certainly wasn't helping me. Be choosy who you allow in your life. You can't get well with the people and environment that made you ill.
Thank you, yes. Finally, somebody is speaking the truth. It takes a lot of time and effort to realize and to accept who you are. It'd not like I went to bed with all of my insecurities and fears, and then, in the morning, I wake up with a decluttered brain and self-confidence. It's a process
Ive heard it said that we have to move up through the different frequencies attached to each emotional state one step at a time. If we try to skip a level we will fall back.
Do things that you're scared of doing, over and over until you're not scared and you're kind of bored by it. Do this over and over, with every fear, and you will find your confidence. This is not feel-good bullshit, this is doing the hard work. You can't fake confidence and if you don't do the work you will never have it. Good luck.
8:17 The people you sorround yourself with will set that tone for you. If everyone around me is a mess or they fall apart or are chaotic, you are going to become that.
There is no way I am going to move a loved one to an outer circle when they are in need ! I think that shows that I am a strong person not a weak one . I can share in their problems and still stay steady
I happy that you are able to do that without absorbing their energy. Maybe you are better at compartmentalizing their issues. I came across a Brene Brown compilation on RUclips and it tore me apart. I had no idea why I was sitting there with tears streaming down my face. I never looked back and embraced how very sensitive I am. I care deeply about people and am very empathetic but I have come to realize most people talk about their problems not their joys and and as an introvert it wears me out. So I am cautious with my energy and create boundaries for people I know aren't interested in evolving. I love them but I don't engage emotionally. It's my belief that this is what she is saying that you don't need to get mired down in people's problems when they have no interest in bettering themselves.
Amen! That was a brilliant statement. You are a kind, strong person who has your head and heart in the right place. We need more ppl like you in this messed up world.
Say that when it's people you see VERY often who regurgitate the same problems every single time, act like theyre deaf to your input or listen but then do the opposite and continue to eat your head.. in person, on the phone, on chats. Then there are those from this group who will never mirror the same care or compassion back when you are going through something. I don't think this guest was talking about close friends who you have a balanced relationship with, respect personal boundaries, and have the fortitude to sense when they are draining someone's energy. Many people are very selfish and self involved.
@@SPower-yl9wwyup, so true! I definitely know what that is like with people not giving the same back. It’s left me empty & while I am now physically struggling and they aren’t there. You would think people would care about one’s health. Say hi etc..but nope. So I don’t bother with most anymore with a lot of ppl cuz they couldn’t give a shit..and they don’t really care at all.
@@SunshineGrove04 very true. I've been through the exact same and feel as you do. Remember, God, angels and your spirit guides are there for you.. and you will feel divine presence guiding you back to health. This is what happens when all the noise from useless people quiets down. I've experienced this firsthand and wouldn't change a thing even if I could. Glad the time waiting energy suckers are gone and for ones that are left, I decide when and how much of my energy to give and share.. when its mutually beneficial. And I also have space to help poor and under privileged people I encounter from whom of course there is no expectation except their heartfelt smiles. Takes time to transition into a new way of living.
I've always known the last segment to be true, but I just can't bring myself to cut off 3 very close friends. I dived into video games to gain similar interests and picked up smoking weed and drinking. Internally, my passion was to be a better me. Just strength and be good in life. Today, I don't drink or smoke, and I BARELY play video games, and it seems like I don't know any of those people outside of that. I love working out and feeling strong and healthy and feeling vibrant, and they are just miserable energy vampires that complain all the time, and the crazy thing is that I've had a horrendous childhood compared to them. I guess im saying, its nice for someone else to approve of my decision on putting them way outside of my circle so I can be happy doing what I love, and thats being healthy ALL AROUND without feeling guilty for leaving them behind. Excellent response and questioning. What a great sequence 👏😌
You're allowed to grow. Maybe your example will be an inspiration or cause jealously. Doesn't matter. That's what sovereignty is. You make the choices that elevate you. Not everyone you start off with will be there at the end and that's OK. Find new friends that share your passion for health and vibrancy.
How to build true inner confidence: (since she doesn’t really answer the question) Practice something you’re already somewhat good at. Become really good at it. Do it in front of others who are also into the thing. The genuine compliments you get on the thing you can do so well, better than most, will add so many more layers of confidence. Closer to sovereignty. Several of these moments over a few years will make you bullet proof. I also want to mention how easy it is to be shot down and left with critically low self esteem. A toxic relationship with the wrong one is enuf to do it. Anyone who hurts you, and doesn’t actually care that they hurt u, will deliberately do so until you’re on “self-esteem life support“. Even if they act like it was a mistake or accident, a normal person wouldn’t keep doing hurting the person they love. It’s not love. Please love yourself enuf to leave. How will you ever meet the right one if you’re with the wrong one? The longer you stay the more confidence you’ll lose and the harder it will be (&longer it will take) to bounce back.
This is a weird paradox: Ive been working on my self-esteem and confidence for a bit now and even though I have a ways to go I find I can relate to this conversation and these two people immensely. Gives me hope I'm on the right track.
"When I became sovereign... I became a magnet." THIS is it. I very recently left a long, abusive relationship and became sovereign myself and the last time I went out EVERYONE was talking to me which usually doesn't happen. I wasn't showing off and simply dressed in a band t-shirt and jeans, but I was clearly "vibing" my own self worth. It was a long, hard road to get here, but worth every bit. Now MY life can begin.
I so appreciate the level of trust and intimacy in your coversations together😂 Thank you both so much for the magic that you each created in your easy interactions in order for this one person at least to receive more value than you’ll know❤
What about sticking with friends thru their high and lows ? If they got chaos in their lives marginalize them? Its not always so cut and dry our lives are not corporate board rooms
totally get what you mean. it’s kind of strange how people see a straight talking woman who speaks clearly and has charisma as “masculine”. like … just no .. go back to 1845
Preach! I feel and agree with everything she speaks … I too live my life through the lens of energy. Our personal energy is precious and protecting it is key! ✨✨✨
Why you hating? The dude asked valid questions and super important questions about human behavior, instant gratification it sounds like.. they are both amazing inteligente humans who are exploring the realm of psychology and human behavior. The hater is in the house 🏠.
I feel like that last point, while salient, is one that requires a bit more nuance than is being described. It's true that you need to be mindful of the people you surround yourself with and the energy they bring into your life. It's also true that establishing boundaries is important and not to let yourself get so dragged into a friend's or even family member's mess that you end up taking it on as your responsibility (children excluded of course because your child's well being is your responsibility). That said some people take this too far and become fair weather friends. Only nurturing friendships so long as those friendships currently and actively benefits them, creating distance when their friend is going through hard times yet expecting said friend to just be cool with returning/getting closer in the good times, and keeping definitions of depth loosely defined so said friend doesn't know where they stand with the person. Being sovereign is good and important but it's important to remember we are a collective species, not an individualistic one. Everything we have is build on mutual contributions others have made for us and that we make for them. So be mindful not to take it too far, lest you find yourself fallen on hard times you can't get out of on your own and the kind of people you've surrounded yourself with are the kinds where when the going gets rough you are moved to the outer circle.
Agreed. You want to be supportive but at some point when long term, it can become unhealthy that can affect your health and life. Determining that point to move them to the outer circle (as gentle as possible without feeling guilt) is the skill. I'm still working on the guilt part.
How you change yourself overnight? It can happen, but it's very hard and painful in many ways. Having a bad illness and a near death experience. It happen to me and it changed me overnight. At that point you have nothing else to loose and you let go of all the bullshit in your life, and your ego dissolves. After the excruciating experience, you are a NEW human. 🕉🙏
What if one doesn't care about it? I personally do not like it even when people talk to me, I am an introvert. I don't feel I need to come across as confident or imperative because I don't want to feel that people should anyway be so aware and careful when talking to me. I like to feel and see the humans how they truly are.
Agreed, I’m not quite sure when minding your own business became a taboo. If anything it is an example of strong mindedness and confidence if you ask me. I grew up in a European country however. Where screaming over one another would be considered rude at best. It is uncouth behavior and narcissism. In America, people perceive it as confidence somehow. I’m not sure also why prolonged direct eye contact is not considered threatening, and smiling all the time not psychopathic (but it is a different story) That is how you get into trouble, again, if you ask me. I encounter many people I don’t know, on a daily basis and many of them try extraordinarily hard to portray confidence by the volume of their voices, adjustment of posture, eye contact etc. It’s entertaining to see, it is all highly robotic, disingenuous, and rude behavior. And yes, people do tend to talk over the ones’ more polite, introverted, well read, and philosophical. It is a sad reality.
Stop chasing things and chasing people Stop looking for approval Stop trying to people please Stop taking everybody's opinion Took a lot of heavy hits from people.. Embrace them and you'll be resilient Just a remainder for myself
If you struggle with low self-confidence (speaking from experience) and you have someone who keeps strong eye contact it's too much it's too intense it's scary it's not a warm and comforting environment. So please don't think someone who's in that situation who's looking at the floor or looking at their shoe is lying. Because I was in that position years ago and for someone's focus to be is the floor you are sort of hunched over therefore making yourself appear less than confident but then again I'd a history of shame, embarrassment and severe bullying growing up. I didn't start school that way. It was over a period of time. I began stammering as a result, so my journey to finding my confidence has been an extensive period of time because I knew I wasn't any of those things like confident or strong but I just knew I wanted to be these things.
For someone who tries so hard to be powerful, perfect, and street wise, she comes off bombastic and insecure at the same time, two traits that can coexist. Why so confrontational? Why the grandiose statements? Finding your sovereign self? I actually thought she had a self-esteem problem, but I have learned that these two traits can be intrinsic. Nobody is perfect, and we all take the heavy hits in life. I found this to be an interesting interview. Thank you. Edit: Spelling error.
Ok , you said a lot without giving your reason or examples from things taken IN context that your quoting from her to draw your conclusion Can you please elaborate with some evidence to back up how you came to this conclusion on her?
I used to love shy, not confident guys, they're so sweet. It's all about their face though. They were my type. If you're cute - no matter the posture, you will attract people.
Imo key to become a self respecting "confident sovereign" is to do/achieve something that is challenging and you are proud of. For her it was clearly the secret service job that is very hard to get into. So many of us dont have a job or a hobby that feels challenging enough and then to feel precious we depend on the approval of other which is DOOM as she says.
I watched her before in a British channel she was interviewed to talk about her book.. when i saw her , i said she is s beautiful could she be a British ? Now that i know she is greek and that explains it
Evie job involves a lot of male energy (strong,confident,don’t mess with me sort of face of steal;) but I hope she can turn to her feminine energy qualities quickly ( power of soft lightness and magnetism;) I like the quality of women which are such as musas for men and women)Thank you guys,I appreciate your points of view.
Step one is to investigate what was happening with your parents when you were growing up. When you start to build a picture of what was happening and who your parents were rather than presumptions you have a vantage point to build your confidence from. Some of us will need to go down before we go up during our investigation. When we emerge from our deep dive and reenter the Devils playground we can see the snakes and know if we are one. Good luck out there!
The problem with eye contact is I always seem to scare people or it starts fights with blokes for some reason? Now I don't look people in the eye when I talk, but when I do look at them briefly as I am talking they seem to either be scared or angry? It does make me sad sometimes as I am just a friendly kind of dude.
8:10 I've learned that the hard way, unfortunately some of these people are still around= it's close family and they don't understand that all of sudden I'm not a people pleaser.I have boundaries and basically I'm my own example of who I wanna be= in a chaotic situation I'm quite calm and rational which to most seems like I'm selfish and don't understand the situation 😅 funny how it works.Thx for this interview
Sounds like an advocate for using people - so long as they are good for you, great. Otherwise push them away. Not someone you’d count on to bail you out of a tough situation. Red flags from this one. Truly strong people aren’t afraid of a little chaos and stick by their close circle through the toughest times.
He hasn't realized yet that the reason this channel is successful is because he literally embodies the casting type of a talk show host - he is timid and friendly looking, and looks non threatening and gentle, has open eyes, in other words, all the things that he probably doesn't want to be because he wants to be some sort of a macho strong alpha male type. So it's tempting to draw the wrong conclusions from whatever success he's had. What people want him to do Is just ask the questions and let the guests talk and interject himself as little as possible, because that's his place based on how he appears - but he doesn't realize that that is his role. He wants to be the center of attention. There is a reason why casting directors exist. If you caste the wrong look for the role, it doesn't work.
“Before I was a successful entrepreneur that went to the gym, girls wanted nothing to do with me… but it must have been down to my cOnfIdEnCe 🥴” 😂😂😂 really??
I was looking more to hear about her voice here. I will look for other clips from this interview Interview, as she sounded like she was a powerful contributor.
Ok, so you ask a simple and good question right at the beginning. Your guest would have answered you, but instead you took three and a half minutes to keep repeating the question until you ran out of steam. Please just stop talking when you’ve asked your question and allow the guest to talk. Isn’t that why you have them on your podcast?
I hear but just playing devils advocate maybe his story was needed in order to give some useful context and therefore it was needed for her to give even a better answer
Dark chocolate, coffee combination will boost confidence And make me over talkative and more social !! Specially when I added one fruit Good sleep , good natural food , getting all nutritions needed with supplements , try to shave and look good , and understand about subject better and raise your communication skills , and try to get in shape , and try to smell good You need to raise the levels of dopamine serotonin, Acetylcholine to the highest possible from nutritions in food , exercise and sleep , and you have to maintain energy levels without any drop Why ? Because they gonna shift you to the extrovert side I believe as the circulatory dopamine will increase in the body. This is what I heard from James Hofman And some supplements I believe will have an effect as I heard You can’t boost your confidence out of nothing !! Alpha male have confidence in them and they are extrovert naturally But Introverts have to completely change and put more efforts and everything will count !!
Sincere confidence. Hmmm…. Feeling worthy of love. Feeling good enough. Feeling lovable. A God and a King? 😄 When you get rejected by a girl How do you feel about yourself? Worthless loser? How would you rather feel? Like a king or a god. Feel like a king or god. What would that be like? Feel like a worthless loser What would that be like? Alternate these two over and over again to improve your self worth and self value. You only get rejected when you chase people around. You are being driven by a feeling of being worthless. If that changes Everything changes. When you look for your value in other people then you won’t find it within yourself.
You can actually change your internal self confidence around really fast if you know how. You won’t change anyone feeling unlovable anymore. You’ll kind of stop seeking the approval of other people. You won’t kiss ass.’ You won’t be too nice.
She's misunderstanding the questioning about her job. As men in general the more established and stable our lives, the less we care about a woman's job or economic accomplishments. The core values men look for doesn't cater for a woman's need to be praised for accomplishments that don't add value to his overall life. I bet you she married someone more accomplished than her even if its in the same field.❤
One last thing because this comment kind of hit on something that I have been pondering too because like her, I just broke up with a man who wanted exactly what you were talking about and it really hurt. Here’s the thing, I am an Ivy League educated woman with a graduate degree and a six figure job. The men who want to date me are CEOs, business owners, doctors, and lawyers. So that just confirms that men will date who they are attracted to even when she is more or less their business equal. They do it all the time. What they won’t do is date someone they don’t want to have sex with.
Also, for any women who were worried that you are too successful for love, this comment is wrong based on statistics. I discovered that not only do men marry women with similar education, success, and values, but they also stay married longer. ❤ The confusion is that not every rich man is educated so it makes sense that an uneducated but rich man will marry a mutually uneducated woman in his social circle.
Nope mostly females only care about how educated or how much a woman makes. A professional female ran through by other professionals does not add any value, its meaningless. Women prefer men taller, stronger, smarter, wealthier, more capable than themselves. But generally a high achieving man will always have a castle ready to defend for a smoking hot, young, healthy, feminine worker on minimum wage that accepts the reality, submits under his frame and is happy to extend his successful legacy according to his will.
@TR-ii3xu, the men that are visible to you are these CEO's, doctor's, B.O's. The other men below this "CEO" level are invisible from your perspective. Women are hypergermous by nature after all. Your reply about the statistics is not factoring the fact that you live in a first world country, with everything already established and built. Once the quality of life in that country drops significantly, your economic accomplishments will also mean less to you as a woman. I'm not saying you won't care, it'll just mean less. About your last reply, let me round it up for you like this. Your relationship with your ex didn't work out even though you have all these qualifications and accomplishments, the same can be said about Trumps first 2 wives. Even Trump couldn't deal with an "accomplished" woman. Not because she isn't beautiful but probably because successful accomplished women tend to be argumentative, disagreeable , and down right arrogant. These are all masculine traits. Not feminine. Again I'm not taking away from your accomplishments. I'm just stating facts. You shouldn't feel less proud.
Sorry, confidence does not happen fast. For a man, confidence can be in competence. Learn to do something useful. Take up a responsibility that you don't have to and carry through. Push your limits, mental or physical. Face one of your fears.
She may enjoy the affections and compliments people give her, on there. But she was fully assured of her self-worth before she opened her Instagram account. She even made her (stunning) looks the absolute least of her advantages in her career, and managed to excel to one of the highest ranks in the country! Period. She won't fall apart without Instagram tomorrow. She's just lucky enough to sit back and enjoy it. Why don't you do the same? I would question anyone's mindframe for being able to bypass all of her accomplishments and zoom into a non-existant potential flaw. It screams to me that that person is insecure and hoping, really hoping, to find flaws.
many people upload pictures of themselves and its not always insecurity. The most introverted and awkward people I know never post pictures of themselves. Most of the time someone uploads a picture is because they think they look good and want to show off
@@cooney2011 depends. I checked her insta - she's not actually posting daily - barely even weekly. And most of it is self promotional so I understand why its happening. Its not to do with having an ego
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I love this woman. Saw all her interviews, read her book 📖 she should be a role model for young girls and not the Kardashians
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@szilviasulyos, I would like to read her book. Is it easy to read and is it boring/interesting? Did you learn something from it?
@voiretvisite4447 easy to read and yes ,it made me more conscious in my everyday life
Role model for girls? A cold, bossy woman of structure with authoritative demeanor and violent stare? No, thanks. As much as narrow-minded Kardashians are, at least they feel feminine and human. This one feels like a smart reptilian predator.
she is for some little girls....n for some its the kardashians...i can literally see the future of both types of girls....1 type is smart independent n the other teenage moms
Success is the ability to not care what others think,to unapologetically be you,to love yourself, to accept yourself flaws and all and to have compassion to even those that dont have compassion for you. Success isnt just money and materialistic things.
Oh my goodness I love her. She is just so clear and direct
Unlike him lol
she is so impressive, I really appreciate hearing information from someone who is so knowledgeable without putting on a disingenuous show.
The “move to the outside of the circle” ⭕️ thing regarding someone you care about but is currently too chaotic or toxic / not the person they used to be but you don’t want to entirely cut them off. - that’s exactly what I needed to hear 👍 This lady’s audiobook is awesome.”!!!! Becoming Bulletproof”. I highly recommend. She has a lot of insight, a great communication style. Even the way she herself narrates the audiobook is an experience. The way she speaks. How she pronounces words and her pitch and meter of her voice is entrancing. It’s an experience in itself. Like the content of the audiobook and her narration are two lessons at once that I really enjoy listening to. I’ve simply got to up my speaking game !
She is a real role model for everyone. She is smart successful and good looking. She has it all. If you have 1/2 of what she has you are successful.
She is a stunning woman. I wish my daughter would take her as a role model and not some of the IG influencers they follow.
« the people you surround yourself with will set that tone for you, if everybody around me is a mess or everybody around me when there’s a stressful situation where they fall apart and they’re chaotic, I’m gonna be that »
« Look at who’s around you, you are them they are you and if you don’t like what’s going on with you pause and be like who am I exposed to the most »
« You have a shitshow around you, it’s you. Because you’re allowing it to exist »
So true
You are what you eat
The problem for me is everyone is a sorry sack of sh#t the people of any real value don't want to spend time with anyone they are loners.
What Evy said about moving people out towards the edges of your circle is so on point. I've had to do this with some family members. Being a constant safety net for them wasn't helping them. It certainly wasn't helping me. Be choosy who you allow in your life.
You can't get well with the people and environment that made you ill.
It's good to have the skill of stopping disruptive friends from affecting your everyday life.
She is permitted to speak from 3:33
LOL
Can't he talk?
@@archibaldbumfluff6846 he can and he did
you know this is edited right? Like this is an excerpt from a longer conversation?
@@IsThisHandleTaken 🤌🏻 it would be even stranger, if it wasn’t.
Thank you, yes. Finally, somebody is speaking the truth. It takes a lot of time and effort to realize and to accept who you are. It'd not like I went to bed with all of my insecurities and fears, and then, in the morning, I wake up with a decluttered brain and self-confidence. It's a process
Ive heard it said that we have to move up through the different frequencies attached to each emotional state one step at a time. If we try to skip a level we will fall back.
My quote: “Health & wealth come to us in but 1 way, by the little bitty choices we make each & every day”~CMG
I could hear this woman talk for days. Amazing interview. I needed that.
Do things that you're scared of doing, over and over until you're not scared and you're kind of bored by it. Do this over and over, with every fear, and you will find your confidence.
This is not feel-good bullshit, this is doing the hard work. You can't fake confidence and if you don't do the work you will never have it. Good luck.
Agree
Wow powerful❤
Thank you
8:17 The people you sorround yourself with will set that tone for you. If everyone around me is a mess or they fall apart or are chaotic, you are going to become that.
this lady has a very calming voice
And?
So much real, practical, simple wisdom here. Yes, yes, yes.
Everything she said had a lotbof wisdom behind it. Thanks for sharing
There is no way I am going to move a loved one to an outer circle when they are in need !
I think that shows that I am a strong person not a weak one . I can share in their problems and still stay steady
I happy that you are able to do that without absorbing their energy. Maybe you are better at compartmentalizing their issues. I came across a Brene Brown compilation on RUclips and it tore me apart. I had no idea why I was sitting there with tears streaming down my face. I never looked back and embraced how very sensitive I am. I care deeply about people and am very empathetic but I have come to realize most people talk about their problems not their joys and and as an introvert it wears me out. So I am cautious with my energy and create boundaries for people I know aren't interested in evolving. I love them but I don't engage emotionally. It's my belief that this is what she is saying that you don't need to get mired down in people's problems when they have no interest in bettering themselves.
Amen! That was a brilliant statement. You are a kind, strong person who has your head and heart in the right place. We need more ppl like you in this messed up world.
Say that when it's people you see VERY often who regurgitate the same problems every single time, act like theyre deaf to your input or listen but then do the opposite and continue to eat your head.. in person, on the phone, on chats.
Then there are those from this group who will never mirror the same care or compassion back when you are going through something.
I don't think this guest was talking about close friends who you have a balanced relationship with, respect personal boundaries, and have the fortitude to sense when they are draining someone's energy.
Many people are very selfish and self involved.
@@SPower-yl9wwyup, so true! I definitely know what that is like with people not giving the same back. It’s left me empty & while I am now physically struggling and they aren’t there. You would think people would care about one’s health. Say hi etc..but nope.
So I don’t bother with most anymore with a lot of ppl cuz they couldn’t give a shit..and they don’t really care at all.
@@SunshineGrove04 very true. I've been through the exact same and feel as you do.
Remember, God, angels and your spirit guides are there for you.. and you will feel divine presence guiding you back to health. This is what happens when all the noise from useless people quiets down.
I've experienced this firsthand and wouldn't change a thing even if I could.
Glad the time waiting energy suckers are gone and for ones that are left, I decide when and how much of my energy to give and share.. when its mutually beneficial.
And I also have space to help poor and under privileged people I encounter from whom of course there is no expectation except their heartfelt smiles.
Takes time to transition into a new way of living.
I love everything Evy has to say, it makes perfect sense. ❤
Listen to and learn from this very intelligent lady.. Evy knows the secret of life..
I've always known the last segment to be true, but I just can't bring myself to cut off 3 very close friends. I dived into video games to gain similar interests and picked up smoking weed and drinking. Internally, my passion was to be a better me. Just strength and be good in life. Today, I don't drink or smoke, and I BARELY play video games, and it seems like I don't know any of those people outside of that. I love working out and feeling strong and healthy and feeling vibrant, and they are just miserable energy vampires that complain all the time, and the crazy thing is that I've had a horrendous childhood compared to them. I guess im saying, its nice for someone else to approve of my decision on putting them way outside of my circle so I can be happy doing what I love, and thats being healthy ALL AROUND without feeling guilty for leaving them behind. Excellent response and questioning. What a great sequence 👏😌
You're allowed to grow. Maybe your example will be an inspiration or cause jealously. Doesn't matter. That's what sovereignty is. You make the choices that elevate you. Not everyone you start off with will be there at the end and that's OK. Find new friends that share your passion for health and vibrancy.
congratulations man
How to build true inner confidence: (since she doesn’t really answer the question) Practice something you’re already somewhat good at. Become really good at it. Do it in front of others who are also into the thing. The genuine compliments you get on the thing you can do so well, better than most, will add so many more layers of confidence. Closer to sovereignty. Several of these moments over a few years will make you bullet proof.
I also want to mention how easy it is to be shot down and left with critically low self esteem. A toxic relationship with the wrong one is enuf to do it. Anyone who hurts you, and doesn’t actually care that they hurt u, will deliberately do so until you’re on “self-esteem life support“. Even if they act like it was a mistake or accident, a normal person wouldn’t keep doing hurting the person they love. It’s not love. Please love yourself enuf to leave. How will you ever meet the right one if you’re with the wrong one? The longer you stay the more confidence you’ll lose and the harder it will be (&longer it will take) to bounce back.
This is a weird paradox: Ive been working on my self-esteem and confidence for a bit now and even though I have a ways to go I find I can relate to this conversation and these two people immensely. Gives me hope I'm on the right track.
Impressive and real talk... Some might say this is a golden nugget of wisdom for both men and women.
"When I became sovereign... I became a magnet." THIS is it. I very recently left a long, abusive relationship and became sovereign myself and the last time I went out EVERYONE was talking to me which usually doesn't happen. I wasn't showing off and simply dressed in a band t-shirt and jeans, but I was clearly "vibing" my own self worth. It was a long, hard road to get here, but worth every bit. Now MY life can begin.
"If you have a shitshow around you, it's you"
Yes.. another saying .. if it smells like shit … walk away … if it is still always there …check your shoe
He is not repeating but trying to let people to connect to the question from his personal experience.
A Palestenian will read this and weap
Bingo
Can this guy just shut up and let the guest talking?
Such an impressive young lady. THIS is a REAL WOMAN
ugh.
I so appreciate the level of trust and intimacy in your coversations together😂 Thank you both so much for the magic that you each created in your easy interactions in order for this one person at least to receive more
value than you’ll know❤
What about sticking with friends thru their high and lows ? If they got chaos in their lives marginalize them? Its not always so cut and dry our lives are not corporate board rooms
You missed the whole point of what she was saying, situations that pop up out of nowhere that you didn’t cause will be evidence of this
She’s confident and NOT masculine. Evy is an interesting and unique example of a certain kind of femininity.
Yes she is masculine.
She's incredibly masculine..
totally get what you mean. it’s kind of strange how people see a straight talking woman who speaks clearly and has charisma as “masculine”. like … just no .. go back to 1845
Preach! I feel and agree with everything she speaks … I too live my life through the lens of energy. Our personal energy is precious and protecting it is key! ✨✨✨
Why you hating? The dude asked valid questions and super important questions about human behavior, instant gratification it sounds like.. they are both amazing inteligente humans who are exploring the realm of psychology and human behavior. The hater is in the house 🏠.
I feel like that last point, while salient, is one that requires a bit more nuance than is being described. It's true that you need to be mindful of the people you surround yourself with and the energy they bring into your life. It's also true that establishing boundaries is important and not to let yourself get so dragged into a friend's or even family member's mess that you end up taking it on as your responsibility (children excluded of course because your child's well being is your responsibility).
That said some people take this too far and become fair weather friends. Only nurturing friendships so long as those friendships currently and actively benefits them, creating distance when their friend is going through hard times yet expecting said friend to just be cool with returning/getting closer in the good times, and keeping definitions of depth loosely defined so said friend doesn't know where they stand with the person. Being sovereign is good and important but it's important to remember we are a collective species, not an individualistic one. Everything we have is build on mutual contributions others have made for us and that we make for them.
So be mindful not to take it too far, lest you find yourself fallen on hard times you can't get out of on your own and the kind of people you've surrounded yourself with are the kinds where when the going gets rough you are moved to the outer circle.
Agreed. You want to be supportive but at some point when long term, it can become unhealthy that can affect your health and life. Determining that point to move them to the outer circle (as gentle as possible without feeling guilt) is the skill. I'm still working on the guilt part.
His confidence level speaks through his body mannerisms
I'm grateful to have you buddy bringing these extraordinary people to us
Can't afford you with South African currency. But enjoyed the lady's analysis.
Hope she inspires more women with her way of thinking. Amazing.
and men
Wow... She is GOOD! (period)
How you change yourself overnight? It can happen, but it's very hard and painful in many ways. Having a bad illness and a near death experience. It happen to me and it changed me overnight. At that point you have nothing else to loose and you let go of all the bullshit in your life, and your ego dissolves. After the excruciating experience, you are a NEW human. 🕉🙏
She is truly amazing
She's right, great conversation, if it were me instead of Stephen, it would have been wild convo.
Confidence comes from keeping promises to yourself
She's smart and beautiful
Four SOLID minutes of this guy yapping before he lets her add value to the video we wanted
❤ I am isolated... I SURROUND MYSELF WITH YOU!!! ❤ 😊
Self belief is confidence.
What if one doesn't care about it? I personally do not like it even when people talk to me, I am an introvert. I don't feel I need to come across as confident or imperative because I don't want to feel that people should anyway be so aware and careful when talking to me. I like to feel and see the humans how they truly are.
same
Agreed, I’m not quite sure when minding your own business became a taboo. If anything it is an example of strong mindedness and confidence if you ask me. I grew up in a European country however. Where screaming over one another would be considered rude at best. It is uncouth behavior and narcissism. In America, people perceive it as confidence somehow. I’m not sure also why prolonged direct eye contact is not considered threatening, and smiling all the time not psychopathic (but it is a different story) That is how you get into trouble, again, if you ask me. I encounter many people I don’t know, on a daily basis and many of them try extraordinarily hard to portray confidence by the volume of their voices, adjustment of posture, eye contact etc. It’s entertaining to see, it is all highly robotic, disingenuous, and rude behavior. And yes, people do tend to talk over the ones’ more polite, introverted, well read, and philosophical. It is a sad reality.
@@gardenimperfectplants well explained!!!
Stop chasing things and chasing people
Stop looking for approval
Stop trying to people please
Stop taking everybody's opinion
Took a lot of heavy hits from people.. Embrace them and you'll be resilient
Just a remainder for myself
Very wise woman
If you struggle with low self-confidence (speaking from experience) and you have someone who keeps strong eye contact it's too much it's too intense it's scary it's not a warm and comforting environment. So please don't think someone who's in that situation who's looking at the floor or looking at their shoe is lying. Because I was in that position years ago and for someone's focus to be is the floor you are sort of hunched over therefore making yourself appear less than confident but then again I'd a history of shame, embarrassment and severe bullying growing up. I didn't start school that way. It was over a period of time. I began stammering as a result, so my journey to finding my confidence has been an extensive period of time because I knew I wasn't any of those things like confident or strong but I just knew I wanted to be these things.
I think the thing that makes it hard to fake anything is being able to keep the facade going
For someone who tries so hard to be powerful, perfect, and street wise, she comes off bombastic and insecure at the same time, two traits that can coexist. Why so confrontational? Why the grandiose statements? Finding your sovereign self? I actually thought she had a self-esteem problem, but I have learned that these two traits can be intrinsic.
Nobody is perfect, and we all take the heavy hits in life.
I found this to be an interesting interview. Thank you. Edit: Spelling error.
Agreed!
Ok , you said a lot without giving your reason or examples from things taken IN context that your quoting from her to draw your conclusion
Can you please elaborate with some evidence to back up how you came to this conclusion on her?
@@matthewharris9580Why the fuck should he? He just don’t give a fuck about you. He is a confident man.
Thank you for this interview. This is one that provides real clear responses. Thanks again!
But I dont want bigger guests, I want interesting guests
Great honesty you articulated so well ❤❤❤❤
I used to love shy, not confident guys, they're so sweet. It's all about their face though. They were my type. If you're cute - no matter the posture, you will attract people.
Imo key to become a self respecting "confident sovereign" is to do/achieve something that is challenging and you are proud of. For her it was clearly the secret service job that is very hard to get into. So many of us dont have a job or a hobby that feels challenging enough and then to feel precious we depend on the approval of other which is DOOM as she says.
I watched her before in a British channel she was interviewed to talk about her book.. when i saw her , i said she is s beautiful could she be a British ? Now that i know she is greek and that explains it
I love how super hot she is. It’s not just the looks but she exerts confidence and strength. What a woman
Wow so powerful right on point I’m getting her book❤
Evie job involves a lot of male energy (strong,confident,don’t mess with me sort of face of steal;) but I hope she can turn to her feminine energy qualities quickly ( power of soft lightness and magnetism;) I like the quality of women which are such as musas for men and women)Thank you guys,I appreciate your points of view.
3:22 I’ve just paused the video to say here that until this moment just the guy, who is supposed to be the interviewer, talked. Unbelievable.
Good
Yeah, he talked too much. Didn’t add as much value to the conversation as she did.
You have a shit show around you, it’s you cause you’re allowing it to happen around you. Simple but powerful point
I don’t know why I see her more of kind off “don’t come close and mess with me” than a magnetic warm feminine power?..
damn she's awesome. What a great conversation! I found this channel about a month ago and it hasn't disappointed yet. Keep up the good work brother!
Well said Evy!!!
Step one is to investigate what was happening with your parents when you were growing up. When you start to build a picture of what was happening and who your parents were rather than presumptions you have a vantage point to build your confidence from. Some of us will need to go down before we go up during our investigation. When we emerge from our deep dive and reenter the Devils playground we can see the snakes and know if we are one. Good luck out there!
Love her an inspiration amazing
I always under play my true powers just so I can see how someone acts..
The problem with eye contact is I always seem to scare people or it starts fights with blokes for some reason? Now I don't look people in the eye when I talk, but when I do look at them briefly as I am talking they seem to either be scared or angry? It does make me sad sometimes as I am just a friendly kind of dude.
8:10 I've learned that the hard way, unfortunately some of these people are still around= it's close family and they don't understand that all of sudden I'm not a people pleaser.I have boundaries and basically I'm my own example of who I wanna be= in a chaotic situation I'm quite calm and rational which to most seems like I'm selfish and don't understand the situation 😅 funny how it works.Thx for this interview
Where there fck was talk about body language in this video!?! 🤷
Wrong title 😂
he baits with his title... every video. His guests are awesome but him...
I would have loved to be with an agent woman !! So cool (maybe I am still a kid at heart for agents)
Sounds like an advocate for using people - so long as they are good for you, great. Otherwise push them away. Not someone you’d count on to bail you out of a tough situation. Red flags from this one. Truly strong people aren’t afraid of a little chaos and stick by their close circle through the toughest times.
I thought this was going to be an analysis of FRIENDS scenes.
I Love Evy
I hate him blabbing on and on. I want to hear her.
lol let the man cook.
True I want to hear her talk.
He hasn't realized yet that the reason this channel is successful is because he literally embodies the casting type of a talk show host - he is timid and friendly looking, and looks non threatening and gentle, has open eyes, in other words, all the things that he probably doesn't want to be because he wants to be some sort of a macho strong alpha male type. So it's tempting to draw the wrong conclusions from whatever success he's had. What people want him to do Is just ask the questions and let the guests talk and interject himself as little as possible, because that's his place based on how he appears - but he doesn't realize that that is his role. He wants to be the center of attention. There is a reason why casting directors exist. If you caste the wrong look for the role, it doesn't work.
Just put the full podcast. Steven is a greta host.
She's a hard act to follow. 😊
“Before I was a successful entrepreneur that went to the gym, girls wanted nothing to do with me… but it must have been down to my cOnfIdEnCe 🥴” 😂😂😂 really??
Nailed it! I'm laughing with you 🤣. Money Money Money 💰 makes the girls come around the girls come around...,
I honestly thought he was gay from his voice and mannerisms so I was mostly surprised by the fact that he said he was interested in women.
You don t need to fake anything ... Just BE yourself. That is enough.
I was looking more to hear about her voice here. I will look for other clips from this interview Interview, as she sounded like she was a powerful contributor.
Less is more. She’s awesome.
Where’s the body language part?
Interview the 'Everyday Spy' guy if you haven't already, please.
Phenomenal!!!
Can she tell us more about the Metroids?
I understood that reference.
🤔??? 🙏🏻
@@Wonkywatkins She is reminiscent of Samus Aran from Metroid.
she aint wrong.
Funny to hear a Cia employee talk about "sovereignty "..
Rules for thee
"If you have shit around you, it's you." 😂
Ok, so you ask a simple and good question right at the beginning. Your guest would have answered you, but instead you took three and a half minutes to keep repeating the question until you ran out of steam. Please just stop talking when you’ve asked your question and allow the guest to talk. Isn’t that why you have them on your podcast?
Agreed. Let me hear the answer.
I hear but just playing devils advocate maybe his story was needed in order to give some useful context and therefore it was needed for her to give even a better answer
i think its an edited video?
If anything he was just getting it all out.
@@JayTheLane he certainly was 😊
Dark chocolate, coffee combination will boost confidence And make me over talkative and more social !! Specially when I added one fruit
Good sleep , good natural food , getting all nutritions needed with supplements , try to shave and look good , and understand about subject better and raise your communication skills , and try to get in shape , and try to smell good
You need to raise the levels of dopamine serotonin, Acetylcholine to the highest possible from nutritions in food , exercise and sleep , and you have to maintain energy levels without any drop
Why ? Because they gonna shift you to the extrovert side I believe as the circulatory dopamine will increase in the body. This is what I heard from James Hofman
And some supplements I believe will have an effect as I heard
You can’t boost your confidence out of nothing !!
Alpha male have confidence in them and they are extrovert naturally
But Introverts have to completely change and put more efforts and everything will count !!
Sincere confidence.
Hmmm….
Feeling worthy of love.
Feeling good enough.
Feeling lovable.
A God and a King? 😄
When you get rejected by a girl
How do you feel about yourself?
Worthless loser?
How would you rather feel?
Like a king or a god.
Feel like a king or god.
What would that be like?
Feel like a worthless loser
What would that be like?
Alternate these two over and over again to improve your self worth and self value.
You only get rejected when you chase people around.
You are being driven by a feeling of being worthless.
If that changes
Everything changes.
When you look for your value in other people then you won’t find it within yourself.
You can actually change your internal self confidence around really fast if you know how.
You won’t change anyone feeling unlovable anymore.
You’ll kind of stop seeking the approval of other people.
You won’t kiss ass.’
You won’t be too nice.
Her: "... I ended up dating an Asian and marrying him."
Me: "Okay, Greek, Italian, Asian ... That's an unexpected twist!"
Also me: "Oh ... AGENT" 😂😂😂
She's misunderstanding the questioning about her job. As men in general the more established and stable our lives, the less we care about a woman's job or economic accomplishments. The core values men look for doesn't cater for a woman's need to be praised for accomplishments that don't add value to his overall life. I bet you she married someone more accomplished than her even if its in the same field.❤
One last thing because this comment kind of hit on something that I have been pondering too because like her, I just broke up with a man who wanted exactly what you were talking about and it really hurt. Here’s the thing, I am an Ivy League educated woman with a graduate degree and a six figure job. The men who want to date me are CEOs, business owners, doctors, and lawyers. So that just confirms that men will date who they are attracted to even when she is more or less their business equal. They do it all the time. What they won’t do is date someone they don’t want to have sex with.
Also, for any women who were worried that you are too successful for love, this comment is wrong based on statistics. I discovered that not only do men marry women with similar education, success, and values, but they also stay married longer. ❤
The confusion is that not every rich man is educated so it makes sense that an uneducated but rich man will marry a mutually uneducated woman in his social circle.
Nope mostly females only care about how educated or how much a woman makes. A professional female ran through by other professionals does not add any value, its meaningless. Women prefer men taller, stronger, smarter, wealthier, more capable than themselves. But generally a high achieving man will always have a castle ready to defend for a smoking hot, young, healthy, feminine worker on minimum wage that accepts the reality, submits under his frame and is happy to extend his successful legacy according to his will.
Funny fact: 2 out 3 of Trumps wives have a college education. Ivana had a masters degree. lol. I mean. 😂
@TR-ii3xu, the men that are visible to you are these CEO's, doctor's, B.O's. The other men below this "CEO" level are invisible from your perspective. Women are hypergermous by nature after all.
Your reply about the statistics is not factoring the fact that you live in a first world country, with everything already established and built.
Once the quality of life in that country drops significantly, your economic accomplishments will also mean less to you as a woman. I'm not saying you won't care, it'll just mean less.
About your last reply, let me round it up for you like this. Your relationship with your ex didn't work out even though you have all these qualifications and accomplishments, the same can be said about Trumps first 2 wives. Even Trump couldn't deal with an "accomplished" woman. Not because she isn't beautiful but probably because successful accomplished women tend to be argumentative, disagreeable , and down right arrogant. These are all masculine traits. Not feminine.
Again I'm not taking away from your accomplishments. I'm just stating facts. You shouldn't feel less proud.
Sorry, confidence does not happen fast. For a man, confidence can be in competence. Learn to do something useful. Take up a responsibility that you don't have to and carry through. Push your limits, mental or physical. Face one of your fears.
Why asking a questuon when you give the answer.... ?
Is this the cop bunny from Zootopia?
She doesn't need anyone, but she sure needs validation from her instagram selfies.
ok lady.
She may enjoy the affections and compliments people give her, on there.
But she was fully assured of her self-worth before she opened her Instagram account.
She even made her (stunning) looks the absolute least of her advantages in her career, and managed to excel to one of the highest ranks in the country! Period.
She won't fall apart without Instagram tomorrow. She's just lucky enough to sit back and enjoy it. Why don't you do the same?
I would question anyone's mindframe for being able to bypass all of her accomplishments and zoom into a non-existant potential flaw. It screams to me that that person is insecure and hoping, really hoping, to find flaws.
many people upload pictures of themselves and its not always insecurity. The most introverted and awkward people I know never post pictures of themselves. Most of the time someone uploads a picture is because they think they look good and want to show off
@@leigh7507 And that's not weird or egotistical at all?
@@cooney2011 depends. I checked her insta - she's not actually posting daily - barely even weekly. And most of it is self promotional so I understand why its happening. Its not to do with having an ego