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Big Think Interview with Kay Redfield Jamison
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Big Think sits with the Professor of Psychiatry at Johns Hopkins University and author of “Nothing Was the Same.”
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Kay Redfield Jamison:
Kay Redfield Jamison is a Professor of Psychiatry at Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, where she also do-directs the Mood Center. Once a manic depressive herself, she is now a prominent expert on mental health, suicide, and creativity.
Her books include Touched With Fire: Manic Depressive Illness and the Artistic Temperament; An Unquiet Mind; Exuberance: A Passion For Life; and Nothing Was The Same.
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TRANSCRIPT:
Question: What was your experience of living with your husband after his diagnosis?
Kay Redfield Jamison: I think that one of the many advantages of death accruing over a long period of time, in the case of my husband and with many people who have cancer or other chronic illnesses, is that you do have time to meet a lot of other people who are going through similar situations and one of the great delights of our life actually was sitting around in labs waiting for the results of tests and talking to other people who were waiting to find out whether their cancer numbers were going in the right direction or not.
I think it makes you very aware of just the acute pain and anxiety that people do go through. What I had not been aware of and what I was very interested in writing about was how extraordinary grief is. I mean people talk about grief as if it's kind of an unremittingly awful thing, and it is. It is painful, but it's a very, very interesting sort of thing to go through and it really helps you out. At the end of the day, it gets you through because you have to reform your relationship and you have to figure out a way of getting to the future. And grief does that. I was interested in the difference between that and depression because I had gone through depression and I thought that I might well get depressed again after Richard's death and I didn't. The similarities were interesting but the differences were to me far more interesting.
Question: Is it possible to live a full life after a fatal diagnosis?
Kay Redfield Jamison: Well I think first of all I think most people do in a funny sort of way. I think one of the things that you're not prepared for, I was not prepared for, was how exhausting it is to be the person -- I was the only person who took care of my husband and I loved being able to spend time with him and so forth. But it was tiring and I'm like a high voltage, high energy person and it was exhausting. I think that that's a really unfortunate side of that, but we counted ourselves blessed to have the time together actually. When you look at people who lose someone through a heart attack or suicide or an accident and they haven't the time to spend, we were very blessed in that respect and I don't think either of us ever took that for granted. And also we both were really busy, Richard in particular was well-known scientist and was always going off to meetings and giving papers and so forth. We both were zipping around like crazed weasels. At some point we just couldn't and didn't and wouldn't do that anymore and as a result we had just a lot of time to sit around and read together and talk and go out to movies and be with friends. It's not like he was sick all the time; just gradually make incremental changes in how he was able to get around.
But it was, it was for the most part delightful. We actually had fun. You don't lose the person; that's not true for people who have dementing illnesses or people who progressively really get so weak. But in our case, we were lucky he was able to enjoy life actually until very near the end.
Question: What was the last day with your husband like?
Kay Redfield Jamison: I think we both knew that it wasn't going to be very long before he died; that was clear from all the scans and his general deteriorating health, but we didn't have a sense that it was going to be that soon. We did. We had a wonderful last day; we had a room where we just sat and read. I used to -- he was very dyslexic and so I used to read to him. We just did. We talked and we had very meaningful talk about -- he was a scientist and he was concerned about how he would never understand the science of the disease schizophrenia that he had studied all of his life. He would never know what caused it, he would never know the treatments that came out, he'd never know the genetics of it.
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[@michaelureadi2884]

I have total respect for this lady, for divulging so much personal insight and articulating in a way which is easily idendifiable...Thank you Dr Refield.

[@maideacevedo5605]

My son suffers bipolar disorder, I have to thank this amazing and smart woman, she has contributed a lot to mental health , god blessing her !!

[@contactkeithstack]

big think thank you because your videos always remind me my screen needs to be cleaned

[@NikolaTaylor7]

Honest, moving, intellectual but also visceral. She draws an important distinction between grief and depression. Thank you Ms. Jamison for all of your contributions. You are doing such important work.

[@abhinavanand9717]

I love her, a wonderful mind

[@Omgitsover1552]

An unquiet mind*

[@hparamesh]

I have read your book unquiet mind great book. You’re amazing.

[@karyncavallo1516]

She is my hero too!! Thank you Kay, Thank you!! 💗

[@seanericanderson3666]

She's awesome

[@davidgee1048]

I like her consideration of the creative potential occurring during depressed mental states.

[@erichendryckx7351]

thank you so much for your humanity

[@JohnPaul-le4pf]

Exceedingly thoughtful, intelligent, poignant, pertinent. One of the best "bt" interviews. I've read two of her books also, her memoir and "Touched by Fire, her study of bipolar disorder in the arts; both are excellent. She is a brilliant woman.

[@gabo3color]

Great!!!

[@margaritavargas5894]

Buenos dias dra tengo una hija con estos problemas pero no quiere seguir su tratamiento porque le quita la inspiration (bailarina de danse contemporaine)la familia ha sufrido todos estos cambios spécialemente para mi ya es insoportable hace 5 años ..si pudiera darme un consejo..gracias....si pudiera entender lo que ud explica en los vidéos.

[@dongon3837]

mania for me is among many things super powerful strength. I have personally lifted a reversing car. Don't believe me ask my wife the driver.

[@gabo3color]

but is it worth it?

[@denisesimpson591]

I thought you were going to talk about your own manic depression and is a tad elitist.