you’re NOT a FAILURE, you JUST graduated - here’s how to cope

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  • Опубликовано: 11 июл 2024
  • Why It's Okay to Feel Lost After Graduation (And How to Cope)]
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Комментарии • 62

  • @cutecathatesme336
    @cutecathatesme336 8 месяцев назад +45

    This is so so so relatable. I don't know how many times these past months I got sudden depressing moments when I had to correct like '' I am a final year dental stu... I am a dentist.'' The feeling of ''What now'' and your whole existence expecting to go back to school in September but it's not happening.... Thank you so much for this video Faye finally someone saying all these clear and loud

    • @sm2293
      @sm2293 8 месяцев назад +5

      Same I have no job just graduated from dental school I don’t even know if I want to do this anymore feel so lost feel like I can’t do it

    • @cutecathatesme336
      @cutecathatesme336 8 месяцев назад

      We will be fine don't worry! Change is hard especially when you finally managed to do what you wanted to do for 5 years. Hoping you the best !@@sm2293

  • @smizzie__
    @smizzie__ 8 месяцев назад +13

    After completing my postgraduate degree, I couldn't find a job in that field. 5 years of studying and zero job prospects. It also didn't help that I was working a temp job that destroyed my mental health.
    I decided to make a job that technically I was over qualified for but, I was interested and it was still somewhat in the sector I want to go into. Luckily this job has been amazing, with a great team and supportive managers. Although it's not where I originally wanted to be or ever imagined myself, taking that job has been one of the best positions.

  • @karimevelasco2813
    @karimevelasco2813 8 месяцев назад +19

    I graduated almost a year ago and this whole year has been filled with anxiety and overthinking/over worrying bc of how lost I’ve felt. So I’m looking forward to watching this video

  • @karinevigneault5184
    @karinevigneault5184 8 месяцев назад +15

    You have no idea how much I relate to this... 6 months post-graduation, I am living with my family, do not know if I want to pursue a career related to my major, have no routine and barely leave the house. I hate that it takes deadlines to motivate me to do things, I wish I had more control over my life and a hint of a passion for something...

    • @sm2293
      @sm2293 8 месяцев назад +2

      You’re not alone!!
      This is me 😭

    • @chi2om
      @chi2om 8 месяцев назад +5

      My biggest issue is my lack of passion for anything either. I just want to do something I am good at and enjoy but can’t find it

    • @sm2293
      @sm2293 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@chi2om same same 🥲

  • @ricanpoeta
    @ricanpoeta 8 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you for making this video. It really spoke to me. The last 9 months I've felt the same way. As 2023 has 2 months left and 2024 is a round the corner. A much needed blank canvas to start fresh! It's all part of this journey we call life! 🙂

  • @hannahstewart8299
    @hannahstewart8299 8 месяцев назад +5

    I’ve just finished my placement year and started my final year of university. I absolutely hated it, the job/ location/ lack of friends and it’s just made me even more anxious to graduate… I’ve decided on a masters to delay it but I petrified to ever work now !

  • @GabieApolo
    @GabieApolo 8 месяцев назад +3

    I'm also going through a period of uncertainty in my life and I have been feeling extremely anxious to the point I actually had to go to the doctor to get checked. A few days ago I really thought I was literally dying and days have been really hard despite me constantly reminding myself that everything is fine and that I'm just scared because I don't know what's going to happen in the future. This video was extremely necessary for me to watch. It really made me feel better. Thank you Faye 💖💖💖

  • @sim_aware
    @sim_aware 8 месяцев назад +3

    Excellent message! So many feel like this but almost never discuss it. Thank you!

  • @marryamakbaar3014
    @marryamakbaar3014 8 месяцев назад +1

    so Glad to see you-Okay , Faye 💓

  • @natureangel33
    @natureangel33 8 месяцев назад +3

    🌟 I loved this video, it's so helpful. I say this all the time but I am so happy I was able to be here from when you were just starting med school to now. Even as someone not in the med field, your videos helped me a lot in so many different ways!! It's also so neat seeing how big your channel is now, almost 200k subs!!! I can't wait for the next video!

  • @merisk2760
    @merisk2760 8 месяцев назад +5

    You are such a light Faye! Your energy, your editing style is amazing, the way you can talk about these struggles and still stay positive. Thanks you for sharing your own struggles. It is appreciated. xx

  • @marilynwatson7151
    @marilynwatson7151 8 месяцев назад +2

    💥Great video.havent graduated before but been through very extreme changes in my lifetime and what you say makes sense.

  • @nicasolinap1146
    @nicasolinap1146 8 месяцев назад +1

    Didn't think I would find this relatable, but it was just what I needed

  • @aryameshram9886
    @aryameshram9886 8 месяцев назад +1

    faye even tho I'm in highschool your videos do help a lot! very grateful for youu babyy! love youu xx💗💗💗

  • @user-fb1sk3di8b
    @user-fb1sk3di8b 8 месяцев назад

    Can I just say I love ur vibe it’s insane how calming you are

  • @sidhasilanayak6994
    @sidhasilanayak6994 8 месяцев назад

    Thank Youuuuu, Faye😊 This made me feel better. I thought I am the only one who is going through these emotions

  • @sreejanichavidi6901
    @sreejanichavidi6901 8 месяцев назад +1

    I love you faye... I'm obsessed with your videos🌟⭐💫🌟

  • @Nina_balance
    @Nina_balance 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this video, i have started in a New Job and have been feeling the same as you❤

  • @barkanilina6968
    @barkanilina6968 8 месяцев назад +5

    as a third medical student , feeling so lost after my first experiance in the hospital , this video wasn't really relatable in my case still it was pretty hopfull . Thank you for sharing the reality of the journey with its best and worst ❤

    • @barkanilina6968
      @barkanilina6968 8 месяцев назад

      @@thenoobalmighty8790 hopeful* .I hope you're happy now

  • @sm2293
    @sm2293 8 месяцев назад +2

    Graduated in July from dental school no job and lost all the passion for it not sure what I’m going to do with my life been at home and now have no money so need to work I hate this

  • @maisiericex7178
    @maisiericex7178 8 месяцев назад +7

    🌟Faye this video came at the perfect time for me and you were able to articulate exactly how I have been feeling. Thank you. You are the best ❤

    • @sim_aware
      @sim_aware 8 месяцев назад +1

      #YouGotThis!

  • @graceherman2155
    @graceherman2155 5 месяцев назад

    I’m in this exact space right now: I just finished med school and I’m waiting to match and I feel all the things you’re describing. Your video just helped me so much - it put things in perspective and helped me relax about what I’m feeling. Thank you so much!!

  • @marryamakbaar3014
    @marryamakbaar3014 8 месяцев назад +1

    'From all the way-other side of the world', I felt the same when i started my Masters of Philosophy, after a 10 year break after getting married and having kids BUT after struggling for continuous six months and fear of failing i kept pushing my self through it and came out the other side in one piece 😂 so who ever is reading: you will be fine ! yes this period is dark and pulling you down; still keep on going and God will 'WILL' take care of you !

  • @haffizahali3457
    @haffizahali3457 8 месяцев назад +1

    Can't wait to watch! Will we be getting a vlog soon?

  • @xCiaraLouisexx
    @xCiaraLouisexx 8 месяцев назад

    I graduated 2 years ago and I’ve really felt this recently after a relationship break down and starting a new job! I also agree that I hate LinkedIn 😂

  • @chi2om
    @chi2om 8 месяцев назад +1

    Looking for a temp job currently and it’s going terrible right now sigh

  • @Melissa-cn5kb
    @Melissa-cn5kb 8 месяцев назад

    Love your videos🫶🏻✨💫

  • @catherineButterfly
    @catherineButterfly 8 месяцев назад

    ❤ could find a star x

  • @oliviamettler7075
    @oliviamettler7075 8 месяцев назад

    The editing and sound effects are a bit distracting from the message of the video… but great message! Very helpful and honest.

  • @Bruno123brasil
    @Bruno123brasil 8 месяцев назад

    Obrigado 🙏

  • @jericho5615
    @jericho5615 12 дней назад

    I just graduated hs and even tho i have college in the fall and I literally have all these feelings. I didnt think id make it for a long while and pushed to graduate from hs 😅 my life as an adult just started but everything changed 🙃

  • @Gotem601
    @Gotem601 8 месяцев назад

    💙🧸😉👍 good video

  • @user-wt8cm1ix6q
    @user-wt8cm1ix6q 7 месяцев назад

  • @Rs90sR
    @Rs90sR 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hello 👋
    I work in the United States of America as an anesthesiologist’s assistant, where we do 99% of the work of an anesthesiologist’s assistant, and our degree is a bachelor’s degree. We bring the patient and stay at the anesthesia cart, and after treatment we monitor the intensive care equipment (ICU).
    Can I work in the UK 🇬🇧? Do you have information about working in this field? I hope you have a great day.❤

  • @zjnaj470
    @zjnaj470 8 месяцев назад +1

    Where can I get the cardigan from ?😍😍😍

  • @craftworld-pr4qt
    @craftworld-pr4qt 8 месяцев назад

    💫✨

  • @CYRINTHIA212
    @CYRINTHIA212 5 месяцев назад

    🌟🌟

  • @Jessiolah
    @Jessiolah 8 месяцев назад

    ⭐️✨🥰

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    @user-jh1zs4zh8n 8 месяцев назад

    🌟

  • @Jac-Jay
    @Jac-Jay 8 месяцев назад

    40 seconds of ads before the video starts.. get that coin Faye

  • @marryamakbaar3014
    @marryamakbaar3014 8 месяцев назад

    🎇

  • @Yogeshvlog1437
    @Yogeshvlog1437 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hi how are you nice video my dear friend I love 💕💕💕💕💕💕😘 you you're looking beautiful and why are you crying 😭

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    @monetalexx 8 месяцев назад

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    @fefrtcrf5656 8 месяцев назад +1

    السلام عليكم ورحمت الله 👍👍👍👍🎉

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    @oliviaboardman534 8 месяцев назад

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    @Crazyvampireobsessed 8 месяцев назад +1

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    @alexismundy5893 8 месяцев назад

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    @reesejoyce 8 месяцев назад

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