I'm glad you mentioned the men fumbling their words point. It really doesnt matter, guys. I appreciate a man's bravery in speaking up. I certainly don't hold it against him if he's a little nervous. He is responding to my "invitation". That is the important thing. 😊
The last three attempts I’ve made to ask a woman out who I swore was heavily flirting with me went so badly, with rude, shaming responses and social ostracization that the last time I thought a woman was giving me signals I just got mad and left. I couldn’t help it. I’m fed up with guessing games. Say something to me, or it’s not happening. I’m trying to learn how to be smoother, but without an irrefutable verbal invitation, I’m in monk mode these days.
Finally somebody I can ask this question. What are we considering rude, shaming responses, and social ostracization? I’ve had so many male clients (thousands!) and none of them have corroborated this for me. I need to know what you guys think you’re seeing. Please. 👍
good vid Carey. quick and to the point. i cant find much to disagree with. it is possible though that many men recognize the hints, but dont want to get involved with new acquaintences due to lack of trust. it is sad, but there are lots of risks out there, especially future legal risks. credit metoo for those risks.
Can you address the other side of things - women actually asking men out? I'm so tired of hinting to men, hoping that THEY will ask me out. It's 2025 for goodness sake! I've had the best results over the past 30 years (both before my marriage and since my breakup 5 years ago) with being direct and asking men out. I spent my teens and 20s hinting to men that i was interested in with very mixed results ... it got much better when i took the initiative and started speaking up for myself! Give it a try ... it's easier to get a No and move on, then spend time with playing games, hoping that he gets the message! (PS Teaching my 25 year old daughter the same thing!)
It’s the same advice. Be bold, be brave! What’s the worst that could happen? As you said it’s a no, and you move on. Love this for you and your daughter! 🤎
PS: I only accept two hints: 1) physical touch 2) prolonged staring accompanied by a big smile. Anything thing else is too passive for my sensibilities.
Well, there are another 2 options (minimum): .Be alone or be assertive. if you’re cool with either of those, then you can totally ignore everything I said. 🤷🏻♀️
I have really bad eyes. Even with my glasses, I can barely make out what people's faces look like. Noticing if a woman is looking at me when her eye's just look blurry to me, makes it impossible for me to even notice any possible hints. I can't even tell if a woman is attractive or not, until I'm within a couple of feet from them. Not legally blind but I'm not far from it. I can't count the times I've been told after the fact by friends, that a woman was giving me the so-called "Eye." I couldn't tell. Every relationship I've had was with women that came up to me and told me that they liked me. I wish more women would do the same.
Enough of the woman hints vids or the "what a guy has to do to attract a woman" vids. How about women pull their sleeves up, speak up and let the guy know. Guys are not interested anymore, is this not obvious yet? If you don't speak up...we are never happening.
That stop watching these types of videos, Brent and do things your own way wait for one of these women you’re speaking about to ring your doorbell. Just keep playing video games and eventually she’ll show up with your pizza. I’m sure. Lol. Or maybe you could just act like men did 15 years ago and easily find yourself a partner. Your call. YDYD. 🙄
BRILLIANT STRATEGY?!! Thank you. I agree, that’s why I spent years of my career accumulating this knowledge, and hours of my time creating this video to share with you. 👍
As a totally blind guy I wouldn't be surprised if I've missed a lot of these over the years LOL.
Do ya think? ;) Make partner with a guide dog named Wingman?
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I'm glad you mentioned the men fumbling their words point. It really doesnt matter, guys. I appreciate a man's bravery in speaking up. I certainly don't hold it against him if he's a little nervous. He is responding to my "invitation". That is the important thing. 😊
Love this. Thank you, Dawn!
The last three attempts I’ve made to ask a woman out who I swore was heavily flirting with me went so badly, with rude, shaming responses and social ostracization that the last time I thought a woman was giving me signals I just got mad and left. I couldn’t help it. I’m fed up with guessing games. Say something to me, or it’s not happening. I’m trying to learn how to be smoother, but without an irrefutable verbal invitation, I’m in monk mode these days.
Finally somebody I can ask this question. What are we considering rude, shaming responses, and social ostracization? I’ve had so many male clients (thousands!) and none of them have corroborated this for me. I need to know what you guys think you’re seeing. Please. 👍
good vid Carey. quick and to the point. i cant find much to disagree with. it is possible though that many men recognize the hints, but dont want to get involved with new acquaintences due to lack of trust. it is sad, but there are lots of risks out there, especially future legal risks. credit metoo for those risks.
Pretty sure that as long as men understand that no means no and stop means stop that #metoo is a moot point.
If more men understood that no means no there would have been no need for the me too movement.
How about no ghost the dude when he reads the hints and approaches?
You weren’t for her, she wasn’t interested, that’s fine; move on.
@ I’m for nobody it seems that’s why I gave up it’s pointless to continue
Can you address the other side of things - women actually asking men out? I'm so tired of hinting to men, hoping that THEY will ask me out. It's 2025 for goodness sake! I've had the best results over the past 30 years (both before my marriage and since my breakup 5 years ago) with being direct and asking men out. I spent my teens and 20s hinting to men that i was interested in with very mixed results ... it got much better when i took the initiative and started speaking up for myself! Give it a try ... it's easier to get a No and move on, then spend time with playing games, hoping that he gets the message! (PS Teaching my 25 year old daughter the same thing!)
men approve of this. agreed.
It’s the same advice. Be bold, be brave! What’s the worst that could happen? As you said it’s a no, and you move on. Love this for you and your daughter! 🤎
None of this ever happens to me...
That's because we aren't 6'5" with a trust fund and work in finance.
Or maybe it doesn’t you’re not paying attention
PS: I only accept two hints: 1) physical touch 2) prolonged staring accompanied by a big smile. Anything thing else is too passive for my sensibilities.
Well, there are another 2 options (minimum): .Be alone or be assertive. if you’re cool with either of those, then you can totally ignore everything I said. 🤷🏻♀️
Are these signals universal whether the woman is 20 or 70 years old ? Asking for a friend….
Hmm 🤔 is this woman female?
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I like this woman!!!
I have really bad eyes. Even with my glasses, I can barely make out what people's faces look like. Noticing if a woman is looking at me when her eye's just look blurry to me, makes it impossible for me to even notice any possible hints. I can't even tell if a woman is attractive or not, until I'm within a couple of feet from them. Not legally blind but I'm not far from it. I can't count the times I've been told after the fact by friends, that a woman was giving me the so-called "Eye." I couldn't tell. Every relationship I've had was with women that came up to me and told me that they liked me. I wish more women would do the same.
And they just wish you would make an appointment with the optometrist! Do it!!
Like most modern men... Me too won't notice these subtle signals. Be brave ladies and state your intentions.
Or we could just say open your eyes and pay attention.
How do women learn to give these hints?
I just demonstrated them for you in photos. And unfortunately, with a smile and a tilt of my head as well. Lol.
@@CoffeewithCarey I mean I’m a guy. I just wonder where this stuff comes from.
Not happening for me. Besides I can't see greenlight. I only see red flags!!!
Nobody’s forcing you to do anything, Daniel.
Enough of the woman hints vids or the "what a guy has to do to attract a woman" vids. How about women pull their sleeves up, speak up and let the guy know. Guys are not interested anymore, is this not obvious yet? If you don't speak up...we are never happening.
That stop watching these types of videos, Brent and do things your own way wait for one of these women you’re speaking about to ring your doorbell. Just keep playing video games and eventually she’ll show up with your pizza. I’m sure. Lol. Or maybe you could just act like men did 15 years ago and easily find yourself a partner. Your call. YDYD. 🙄
Stop with the hints BS. We don't take them or we get them wrong. We get called creeps, or some crap like that.
Thousands of male clients and not one has ever been called a creep. I think you guys here on the Internet are just making this up.
BS
BRILLIANT STRATEGY?!! Thank you. I agree, that’s why I spent years of my career accumulating this knowledge, and hours of my time creating this video to share with you. 👍