I was paralyzed in bed last year and I heard Jesus say out loud to me - If you believe in me get up and walk💜🕊💜 I got up and not only walked but went for a walk outside. Praise God!!!!! GOD IS ALWAYS WORKING!!!! ✌💜🕊🙏
They clean together, talking about it like its nothing... This is goals for me. I don't want a man that'll fight me about household duties. Lord hear my prayer lol
The way that I felt this comment on the highest level I absolutely understand what you mean because I have been through this already in my life and it really is frustrating
Righttt!!!! I was kinda shocked but then I remembered they have 4 children 😂😂😂I love how modest they are with their affection its so cute to me and shows the depths of their love being beyond the flesh 🤍
I just felt sorry for him when she didn't reciprocate the same feelings toward him . When he asked her what was her favorite moment and she said that she couldn't think of anything, she said she didn't have one! He said "You can't find Nothing"? 😔
This conversation encouraged me to sit down and have a conversation with someone who I avoided for two years. Jackie described me like she knew me since childhood. It's hard to look at yourself and admit that you have unpleasant qualities. But it really takes getting out of your comfort zone, out of your pride, and face what God is trying to fix.
I literally tell everybody i know about Jackie and Preston, as someone who grew up in a legalistic church, fell out of the church and now navigating my way back, y'all have been a great great help. Keep doing the Lord's work! Love from Uganda
Heavy on the " I don't want to tolerate the people i love , I want to love them well" 😪 patience is truly a virtue & I'm grateful for the grace , love& patience God has extended to me while working through this .
Wow. Wow, wow, wow. After 10 years of marriage I finally know what my issue is as it relates to conflict. I’m similar to Preston here (wanting to deal with issues immediately/lacking patience) and my Husband is similar to Jackie (shutting down). Both tie into our upbringing. Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom. Listening to this again. Team 60minutes with the Perry’s!! Let’s go!!
The same with me and my husband of 11 years. The communication is there but it’s not good arguing. I shut down and he’s confronting and be strong and wrong.
Yes! Same here. When he said he once thought that desiring to confront things right away was about unity and then recognizing it wasn't....... that hit me. I am pausing at different sections and reflecting because i am very much like Preston and I thought the same thing but I am realising impatience is really at the root.
Food for thought😩🙏🏾 pray for me pls.. I am that woman who has a SHARP tongue… more so from learnt behaviour… I grew up around predominantly single, independent, outspoken women, the first out of my parents, uncles, aunts, siblings and cousins to get married. I now have x3 girls and struggle to tame my tongue & KNOW the cycle needs to be broken. My husband has so many overt strongholds although he has come to Christ & I have so much pride to humble myself and be that submissive wife that brings him closer to Christ through my conduct. You guys are definitely one of God’s blessing in my life❤️💯keep doing what you do.
To everyone that is involved in worship...musicians, production, camera ops...don't ever think that you are simply doing a job. You are creating an atmosphere for GOD to move...for him to reveal himself in the hearts of those who are truly open and need him the most. GOD is doing the rest...he just wants US to roll out the red carpet for him...to exalt him....to be a conduit for him to work. Great job to all!
That intro question...😂 he really had one true thought. And Jackie was so calm in response to the revelation (small smile then "anything else") that THAT Was his happy moment. Lol i love their love
"The primary insecurity we have is a lack of intimacy with God" "If I'm secure in the Lord, that frees me to love without fear" Thank you for this, it is such a helpful prayer point!
I’m so Jackie! I grew up in a conflict avoidant family and lacked the know-how to even communicate. Here I am 30yrs old still learning to become more vocal and assertive 😅 GOD is still growing me in this area 🙏🏽
Love that story Preston shared in the beginning of Autumn being super sweet and loving but not as expressive emotionally and him carving out space to sit with her. I was the same way when I was little so I can relate !! 😭 When you are a deeeeep feeler sometimes it’s more vulnerable to share how you feel. So even displaying glimpses into the depth of emotion you feel toward those you love is a vulnerable feeling. As one of 4 girls I can attest to not wanting to compete for attention with my other siblings who are more quick witted I would say. Even though I was more slow placed it’s because I was taking everything in so deeply and richly. Having those big emotions in a little body is quite an experience but knowing your being held creates the space for you to start expressing it ❤️
Whew... this is my daughter, but I didn't see it 😢 I am very emotionally expressive and have raised all of them to share their thoughts and feelings, but I'm rather demanding about it. I don't like conflict, but I don't feel comfortable sitting on and through bad feelings; I HAVE TO confront it. I'm like Preston in this, for sure. But I don't have the patience for my daughter whose face is set like stone and sooo slow to express emotion. Thank you for sharing your perspective. This has changed my outlook and shown me myself. I've got a lot of work to do. Do a work in my heart, Jesus, and create in me a clean heart, indeed. For the sake of those I love, let me show love in dying to self every day, amen.
@@Kimbrasa Ahhh wow thank you for sharing this. I love conversations like this where we get to see how we all process emotions differently and can grow to see and love each other even better. What a blessing 🙌🏾❤
1:30 I was watching the basketball game and Autumn came to me, "I love you daddy".. subtext, Autumn is alone and wants to interact with a daddy who is hyper focused on a televised or recorded game. She's a smart baby so she gets his attention by getting up into his lap and starting the interaction with " I love you, daddy". Smart child and a loving family environment is behind that daughter father interaction. ❤
OMG.....this has really helped me to realize how much I have kept myself away from my parent......and how much I have been trying to dominate my younger which I should not be doing.....Thank God for your words.....God bless you, your marriage and children in Jesus name. Amen.
This is so good. I really needed to hear the man’s side of disrespect. I just realized listening to this podcast I’ve been so disrespectful to my man. I do the sly comments. He hurt me and completely demolished my trust in him 3 years ago. I have become so hurtful and disrespectful. I am so thankful I found Jackie this morning.
Man this right here!! This right here is good teaching! 🔥 Jackie said “Disrespect is natural, love is supernatural” I snapped my fingers like poetry! 😂🫰🏾 All jokes aside, I love this so much this is my second time watching it. So many nuggets and Godly perspectives on communicating. 🙌🏾💯
"God's command to love our neighbor better than ourselves applies to our spouse."...our closest neighbor. Appreciate your transparency of your own shortcomings...being real. Gives the rest of us hope for change 😆
It’s the fact I have been so busy that my room was a mess, I tackled it today took 3 hours. I’m ordering jerk chicken to reward myself as I’m waiting I’m watching this. Praise God for order .
“Be quiet please” ahaha😂 I love this conversation, you two are a blessing. My mother also shuts down in the midst of conflict, avoids it fully. It’s very hard to have patience with her but I pray The Holy Spirit will urge her to change and grow🙏🏼
Jackie looking good. 4 kids!? Okay girl at pre kid weight? That's a feat. You go girl! Lol. Seriously, I love you guys. Love your ministry. Love your love. God bless you both continually❤
Wow wow wow I’m only 15 minutes in, and I am resonating heavily with Preston. I’m like Preston and my husband is like Jackie. I’ve been feeling stuck on how to change habits I formed from my childhood. This is giving me hope for how we deal with conflict in my marriage. Ok ima listen to the rest now.
As I was listening, it just came to me what a beautiful creation here on earth your marriage union is, and the conversations that arise from you two are so beneficial to those listening that I'm just so glad that such conversations are being shared with the rest of the world!
I wish this episode came out sooner, going through a break up and we could’ve learned how to put each other into perspective. Lots of wisdom to be learned here! This is what happens when Christ is at the center of your relationships
I’m SO glad you pointed out how our mothers can display bad behavior toward men that we, as young women, often repeat if God doesn’t reveal the unhealthy patterns to us. I’ve seen that, but I refuse to repeat it.
I'm not even 8 minutes in and this conversation is blessing my soul. I was actually trying to continue in order binging the previous seasons, however due to the enemy trying to plague my marriage, the Spirit instantly led me to this video. Our foundation within our upbringing can cause so much chaos within our marriages. We definitely have to clear the slate through help from God, therapy, and sitting down with our spouses to define within OUR marriages exactly how we want it to be and what we want our offsprings to see that is within Christ and how He wants us to be within the marriage. MY LORD!!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 OAN: 42:19-42:20: I need that saying on a shirt good sir! Bold Apparel indeed!
By taking my anger to God, He showed me that my communication style, ( disrespectful and or unloving) was something I used to be heard or to protect myself from others. The more I focus on serving my husband as I would serve God the more He could change the way I communicate. I am a mixture of the 2 of you. I start off bold and telling you exactly what the problem is and then I punish with silence. When God showed me myself... I had to ask Him to change me. Now I know that I can express myself and still be submitting. Thank you 2 for all of the "real-life walk" talk.
One more thing Jackie, I just love the way Preston dotes on you. You are beautiful and beyond. The two of you are a great example of a true Power Couple. I love the representation you two display for marriage.
Oh my goodness, so powerful!!!! I'm a lot like Jackie in not wanting to confront and never realized how it's tied to insecurity and believing that I might be abandoned. That's so on point for me.
I had a conflict at home the other day and I now understand that I dealt with it prematurely so we both misinterpreted what the other person was saying and were disrespectful to each other. This episode was pretty revealing to me I pray God guides me through confrontations in a healthy way.
Wow this is one of the best marriage conversations I've heard in a long time and of late that's the majority of what I've been watching on RUclips. Pray for my marriage to be reconciled from divorce.
Thank you so much for covering this topic in your podcast. Thanks, Preston for sharing how men feel when their wives are mean and disrespectful in the way they communicate with them. This was eye opening.
20:00 when he said if you're impatient the right person will bring that out of you. Man what a gift from the Lord. Especially in a marriage. Sanctification thru the exact thing you need to work on. But in a safe environment where you know that whatever that ugly thing about you is that is being brought out of you isn't gonna be enough to run them off. That's so good. But I think it has to be something both people are witnessing. Or at the least they both understand what God is up to in moments like that. Example one individual has to be willing to admit that whatever the situation is that's bringing out this part of them is happening not TO you but FOR you.
You can always tell when spouses value their friendship just as much as their marriage. This was such an insightful pod!! May God replenish the wisdom yal just dropped!!
WoW!! This was truly beneficial to life married, engaged, or single,. How forthright and to the point. This made me realize my mistakes in relationships, and things I put up with in relationships, that should not have been. A lot of who we are as adults is what we been through growing up. That you “Perry’s “ . God bless your marriage continuously.
To keep it 100 videos that y’all do like this has really helped me in the process of engagement to marriage. Videos like these definitely makes it easy to see my own issues in my engagement in a very convicting but loving way but what’s different about this content is that you both are giving practical answers and advice to help change the problems in both parties.. I thank God that the Holy Spirit is moving through you both. Much love Perry’s
I learned so much from this conversation, Identifying flaws in myself regarding how I handle conflict with my partner. I've also learned so much on how to deal with conflict better showing love and not being controlled by emotions and also undoing the unhealthy ways in which we saw our parents handling conflict. Thank you so much to the Perrys.❤❤
Word from Preston about not giving people the same amount of patience that the Lord gives me and that leading to frustration. He has been dealing with me but this is an eye opener!
The wholeeeeee beginning of this video (the chaotic room) is me and hubby RIGHT now! Me being an introvert with anxiety- I need for my room to be clean, and I legit don’t like being in there! Lol Thank you for this confirmation Jackie, that it ain’t just me! 🤣
God is so good…. Like wow. So my daughter struggles to deal and confront issues (there’s an issue she has with her dad and I’m tired of begging her to see him) 🙄 … I’ve listened to this podcast before but i felt i needed to listen to it again….. and wow. The answers i needed.
What Preston said about being ‘tolerated’!!! I grew up feeling tolerated. I am doing better in my love walk- but I want to be able to listen and love with patience and not on my own terms- but listening to Holy Spirit and waiting for Him to guide the conversation.
Couples with many years need to rethink their approach to a Godly marriage. Every point was thought through. Thank You. Every couple needs to rethink their approach to marriage. Every behavior in a marriage counts in Heaven.
Grateful to God for both of you and this Beautiful and timely conversation. No doubt in my mind, I was divinely guided to your video. I am blown away at how your conversation expressed the root and struggles my husband and I go through in trying to find a mature, healthy and above all, a Godly approach to a more intimate, respectful, and loving relationship/conversations. We have been married 23 years. I’ll share this video with him in the hope that he would be able to see ourselves reflected in you and began to ask God and his perfect love to guide us, so that we can finally experience the change we need in our marriage. Forever grateful! May God continue to use your lives in powerful and meaningful ways! Much love!🙏🏻☺️💛🌷
I love you guys so much, this generation needs this! Thank you for what you do! All of your podcasts and sermons, the way you live, day in day out, your example, your talks, encouragement, etc. I know it's a sacrifice, but it's helpful for myself and others and necessary in this world we live in. I'm grateful!
Jackie, you are spot on regarding a woman voice. My mother was so disrespectful to my father for all the reasons you stated. All of my sisters can cut a person with their words.
I came from a relationship when my partner constantly did what Preston said "If I'm good we good" 👍🏽 I explained people that imagine stubbing your toe or hitting your foot and someone telling you in mid scream to not scream, you dont get the satisfaction to release that pain out that is very stressful for the one cut off in mid scream. 😅
God Bless you both! This was very enlightening and encouraging and I’m now more understanding and aware of how to move forward in my own marriage and in other relationships!
Dealing with conflict is an area I certainly struggle with and hearing this is super helpful and and very therapeutic. I thank you guys for being super transparent and just leaving out there. Imma watch a few times so to make sure I didn’t miss anything!! Much love and God Bless!!❤❤
Lord I just want to thank you for these two. They are making it okay to have tough conversations. This blessed me from a parent perspective… I have a 15 yr old and I’ve been having an issues with communicating my anger and hurt. Now I know how. Thank you guys!
Wow…this conversation was so enlightening. You guys have really grown so much. Jackie, I’m a communicator also and I can definitely identify with so much of what you said. Preston your perspective as a man truly blessed me. I thank God for your ministry gifts and your willingness to be transparent and vulnerable with us. May God continue to pour into your family, your marriage and your ministry.
What a conversation between two mature, and emotionally inteligent people sounds like.
that's what God does! Praise Jesus!
Disrespect is natural
Love is supernatural
-Jackie
Love this quote!
That was a word
Noted ✍️
Disrespect isn’t natural, anything with DIS is a curse, dismay, disappointment, disrespect. Love is natural.
“Oh, we’re back to you.” Jackie’s sarcasm is so funny 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Very funny
I was paralyzed in bed last year and I heard Jesus say out loud to me - If you believe in me get up and walk💜🕊💜 I got up and not only walked but went for a walk outside. Praise God!!!!! GOD IS ALWAYS WORKING!!!! ✌💜🕊🙏
Praise God
@@queenkamie1743 Amen 🙏
Thank you JESUS 🛐
May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉
AMEN!!!
Hallelujah! God is still alive and performing great works even today!
WOWWW GLORY BE TO YHWH!!!!! 💜💜💜✝️✝️✝️
They clean together, talking about it like its nothing... This is goals for me. I don't want a man that'll fight me about household duties. Lord hear my prayer lol
The way that I felt this comment on the highest level I absolutely understand what you mean because I have been through this already in my life and it really is frustrating
Amen and with joy and dancing
Me too
Amen!
Yes
Within the first 16 minutes, I realize there is a lot of humility and serving the other person in marriage.
0:10-0:41 is the absolute most precious, tender, adorably flirtatious interaction I’ve seen between the 2 of them 🥰🥰
Righttt!!!! I was kinda shocked but then I remembered they have 4 children 😂😂😂I love how modest they are with their affection its so cute to me and shows the depths of their love being beyond the flesh 🤍
Yes...ive never seen that raw affection
it made my heart flutter
I just felt sorry for him when she didn't reciprocate the same feelings toward him . When he asked her what was her favorite moment and she said that she couldn't think of anything, she said she didn't have one!
He said "You can't find Nothing"? 😔
I’m glad I’m not the only one that saw that
This conversation encouraged me to sit down and have a conversation with someone who I avoided for two years. Jackie described me like she knew me since childhood. It's hard to look at yourself and admit that you have unpleasant qualities. But it really takes getting out of your comfort zone, out of your pride, and face what God is trying to fix.
This is me too 😢
I literally tell everybody i know about Jackie and Preston, as someone who grew up in a legalistic church, fell out of the church and now navigating my way back, y'all have been a great great help. Keep doing the Lord's work! Love from Uganda
Heavy on the " I don't want to tolerate the people i love , I want to love them well" 😪 patience is truly a virtue & I'm grateful for the grace , love& patience God has extended to me while working through this .
Wow. Wow, wow, wow. After 10 years of marriage I finally know what my issue is as it relates to conflict. I’m similar to Preston here (wanting to deal with issues immediately/lacking patience) and my Husband is similar to Jackie (shutting down). Both tie into our upbringing. Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom. Listening to this again. Team 60minutes with the Perry’s!! Let’s go!!
Fr 30 mins is not enough. Lol
Girl, I literally just said this. I'm Preston, and my hubby is Jackie. This was good!
I never thought about this. I shut down too
The same with me and my husband of 11 years. The communication is there but it’s not good arguing. I shut down and he’s confronting and be strong and wrong.
Yes! Same here. When he said he once thought that desiring to confront things right away was about unity and then recognizing it wasn't....... that hit me. I am pausing at different sections and reflecting because i am very much like Preston and I thought the same thing but I am realising impatience is really at the root.
Food for thought😩🙏🏾 pray for me pls.. I am that woman who has a SHARP tongue… more so from learnt behaviour… I grew up around predominantly single, independent, outspoken women, the first out of my parents, uncles, aunts, siblings and cousins to get married. I now have x3 girls and struggle to tame my tongue
& KNOW the cycle needs to be broken. My husband has so many overt strongholds although he has come to Christ & I have so much pride to humble myself and be that submissive wife that brings him closer to Christ through my conduct.
You guys are definitely one of God’s blessing in my life❤️💯keep doing what you do.
To everyone that is involved in worship...musicians, production, camera ops...don't ever think that you are simply doing a job. You are creating an atmosphere for GOD to move...for him to reveal himself in the hearts of those who are truly open and need him the most. GOD is doing the rest...he just wants US to roll out the red carpet for him...to exalt him....to be a conduit for him to work. Great job to all!
Thank you so much for this ❤️ God bless you!
beautifully said💫
I'm not married but I need to keep this ep in my back pocket. Thank you Lord.
Communication with your partner is extremely key. One is able to grow in humility, respect, love and honor for the other person.
There isn't any partnership, It's simply Husband and Wife, representing Christ and his church.
@@andrewgadson89Humm, can you elaborate on that.
When I watch them, it reminds me of why my last relation didn’t work. I couldn’t have conversations like this, ever
That fear of rejection after conflict, yep Jackie
🤯🤯🤯 never thought of it that way
@@mrsburton7911right?!! I was like that’s a revelation😂
These people are so wise.
But also keep me so entertained.
And they have the most beautiful family.
Keep the discussions coming please
That intro question...😂 he really had one true thought.
And Jackie was so calm in response to the revelation (small smile then "anything else") that THAT Was his happy moment. Lol i love their love
Okay 😂 I slick saw that and busted up laughing
"The primary insecurity we have is a lack of intimacy with God" "If I'm secure in the Lord, that frees me to love without fear" Thank you for this, it is such a helpful prayer point!
This is a needed discussion so many young and/or newly married couples need.
I’m so Jackie! I grew up in a conflict avoidant family and lacked the know-how to even communicate. Here I am 30yrs old still learning to become more vocal and assertive 😅 GOD is still growing me in this area 🙏🏽
This was absolutely beautiful. Thank you guys for this 🙏🏽
Love that story Preston shared in the beginning of Autumn being super sweet and loving but not as expressive emotionally and him carving out space to sit with her. I was the same way when I was little so I can relate !! 😭 When you are a deeeeep feeler sometimes it’s more vulnerable to share how you feel. So even displaying glimpses into the depth of emotion you feel toward those you love is a vulnerable feeling. As one of 4 girls I can attest to not wanting to compete for attention with my other siblings who are more quick witted I would say. Even though I was more slow placed it’s because I was taking everything in so deeply and richly. Having those big emotions in a little body is quite an experience but knowing your being held creates the space for you to start expressing it ❤️
Whew... this is my daughter, but I didn't see it 😢 I am very emotionally expressive and have raised all of them to share their thoughts and feelings, but I'm rather demanding about it. I don't like conflict, but I don't feel comfortable sitting on and through bad feelings; I HAVE TO confront it. I'm like Preston in this, for sure. But I don't have the patience for my daughter whose face is set like stone and sooo slow to express emotion. Thank you for sharing your perspective. This has changed my outlook and shown me myself. I've got a lot of work to do. Do a work in my heart, Jesus, and create in me a clean heart, indeed. For the sake of those I love, let me show love in dying to self every day, amen.
@@Kimbrasa Ahhh wow thank you for sharing this. I love conversations like this where we get to see how we all process emotions differently and can grow to see and love each other even better. What a blessing 🙌🏾❤
Disrespect is natural. Love is supernatural....😮 Let us think about that.....
I need to remember this constantly
1:30 I was watching the basketball game and Autumn came to me, "I love you daddy".. subtext, Autumn is alone and wants to interact with a daddy who is hyper focused on a televised or recorded game. She's a smart baby so she gets his attention by getting up into his lap and starting the interaction with " I love you, daddy". Smart child and a loving family environment is behind that daughter father interaction. ❤
Quick confessions keeps the enemies lies at bay 🔥🔥🔥
we love a NOT 30 minutes with the Perrys 👏🏽🔥
Literally😅 I never want it to end lol
@@TheWordwithWhit SAme thoughts
Literally I could listen to them talk about the same topic for HOURS and never get tired of it 😭
OMG.....this has really helped me to realize how much I have kept myself away from my parent......and how much I have been trying to dominate my younger which I should not be doing.....Thank God for your words.....God bless you, your marriage and children in Jesus name. Amen.
This is so good. I really needed to hear the man’s side of disrespect. I just realized listening to this podcast I’ve been so disrespectful to my man. I do the sly comments. He hurt me and completely demolished my trust in him 3 years ago. I have become so hurtful and disrespectful. I am so thankful I found Jackie this morning.
Be honest. Were you not doing the sly comments before he lost your trust? Did it really start only after that?
Christlike love is just as vulnerable as submission...I have never looked at it from that vulnerability standpoint. That's deep. Thanks!!
Man this right here!! This right here is good teaching! 🔥 Jackie said “Disrespect is natural, love is supernatural” I snapped my fingers like poetry! 😂🫰🏾 All jokes aside, I love this so much this is my second time watching it. So many nuggets and Godly perspectives on communicating. 🙌🏾💯
I need therapy!!! I've listened to so many of your podcasts, and they are speaking to me do deeply!!
"God's command to love our neighbor better than ourselves applies to our spouse."...our closest neighbor.
Appreciate your transparency of your own shortcomings...being real. Gives the rest of us hope for change 😆
It’s the fact I have been so busy that my room was a mess, I tackled it today took 3 hours. I’m ordering jerk chicken to reward myself as I’m waiting I’m watching this. Praise God for order .
“Be quiet please” ahaha😂 I love this conversation, you two are a blessing.
My mother also shuts down in the midst of conflict, avoids it fully. It’s very hard to have patience with her but I pray The Holy Spirit will urge her to change and grow🙏🏼
Enough to make a grown man cry. Such great stuff...I just discovered this podcast and I'm so glad I did. Thank You Lord!
Jackie looking good. 4 kids!? Okay girl at pre kid weight? That's a feat. You go girl! Lol. Seriously, I love you guys. Love your ministry. Love your love. God bless you both continually❤
Dis was so good. So many fruitful things said! “Be angry, but sin not” 🎯
Wow wow wow I’m only 15 minutes in, and I am resonating heavily with Preston. I’m like Preston and my husband is like Jackie. I’ve been feeling stuck on how to change habits I formed from my childhood. This is giving me hope for how we deal with conflict in my marriage. Ok ima listen to the rest now.
As I was listening, it just came to me
what a beautiful creation here on earth your marriage union is, and the conversations that arise from you two are so beneficial to those listening that I'm just so glad that such conversations are being shared with the rest of the world!
I wish this episode came out sooner, going through a break up and we could’ve learned how to put each other into perspective. Lots of wisdom to be learned here! This is what happens when Christ is at the center of your relationships
This whole setup is amazing. Look at Jackie loving on her man all comfortable by him , showing us her soft side ❤ loooooove this !!!!!
You guys are so transparent about everything. I Love It.
Yes Love the way thay teach open bless them
This is Blessed is peacemaker for they shall be call the children of God. You have be wise in how confront, so peace is made.
This whole video lead me to repentance, forgive me, Lord. Thank you for this couple. Lord continue to bless them!
Amen on ALL fronts!!!
@@islandQueen246 amen! Lord help us to grow IN you!
Yes! 🥹🙌❤️
I’m SO glad you pointed out how our mothers can display bad behavior toward men that we, as young women, often repeat if God doesn’t reveal the unhealthy patterns to us. I’ve seen that, but I refuse to repeat it.
YESSSS!!! That part spoke to my SOULLLLL!!
@@ashleefigaro4604Wow!
These videos are such a blessing to my marriage. Thank y’all so much.
this couple is sooo authentic. Thank you for being gentle but straight with each other
I'm not even 8 minutes in and this conversation is blessing my soul. I was actually trying to continue in order binging the previous seasons, however due to the enemy trying to plague my marriage, the Spirit instantly led me to this video. Our foundation within our upbringing can cause so much chaos within our marriages. We definitely have to clear the slate through help from God, therapy, and sitting down with our spouses to define within OUR marriages exactly how we want it to be and what we want our offsprings to see that is within Christ and how He wants us to be within the marriage. MY LORD!!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
OAN: 42:19-42:20: I need that saying on a shirt good sir! Bold Apparel indeed!
The fact this is the first time watching y’all and Autumn is my name I’m instantly crying SUBSCRIBED😭
Amen
By taking my anger to God, He showed me that my communication style, ( disrespectful and or unloving) was something I used to be heard or to protect myself from others. The more I focus on serving my husband as I would serve God the more He could change the way I communicate. I am a mixture of the 2 of you. I start off bold and telling you exactly what the problem is and then I punish with silence. When God showed me myself... I had to ask Him to change me. Now I know that I can express myself and still be submitting. Thank you 2 for all of the "real-life walk" talk.
One more thing Jackie, I just love the way Preston dotes on you. You are beautiful and beyond. The two of you are a great example of a true Power Couple. I love the representation you two display for marriage.
Oh my goodness, so powerful!!!! I'm a lot like Jackie in not wanting to confront and never realized how it's tied to insecurity and believing that I might be abandoned. That's so on point for me.
My goodness. This one was so meaty! "Women who are communicators..." whew 😮💨
Pure wisdom! Real, relevant and necessary.
Thank you for discipling me in this area of relationships and marriage, I bless the Lord to see your kingdom relationship continue to grow!
I had a conflict at home the other day and I now understand that I dealt with it prematurely so we both misinterpreted what the other person was saying and were disrespectful to each other. This episode was pretty revealing to me I pray God guides me through confrontations in a healthy way.
Wow this is one of the best marriage conversations I've heard in a long time and of late that's the majority of what I've been watching on RUclips. Pray for my marriage to be reconciled from divorce.
Will 🙏
I’m late but said a prayer for you. I pray things are moving in a better direction now.
Salute to you preston, for bring more Gospels of Jesus, God might bless you more wisdom and understanding bro
Thank you so much for covering this topic in your podcast. Thanks, Preston for sharing how men feel when their wives are mean and disrespectful in the way they communicate with them. This was eye opening.
The fact that you guys are still getting to know each other and are still intrigued by each other is so beautiful to me💜
20:00 when he said if you're impatient the right person will bring that out of you. Man what a gift from the Lord. Especially in a marriage. Sanctification thru the exact thing you need to work on. But in a safe environment where you know that whatever that ugly thing about you is that is being brought out of you isn't gonna be enough to run them off. That's so good. But I think it has to be something both people are witnessing. Or at the least they both understand what God is up to in moments like that. Example one individual has to be willing to admit that whatever the situation is that's bringing out this part of them is happening not TO you but FOR you.
The Chemistry you two have is amazing to watch
I'm not married, but this touched me cause I'm confrontational but my friends & family are so passive aggressive
You can always tell when spouses value their friendship just as much as their marriage.
This was such an insightful pod!!
May God replenish the wisdom yal just dropped!!
WoW!! This was truly beneficial to life married, engaged, or single,. How forthright and to the point. This made me realize my mistakes in relationships, and things I put up with in relationships, that should not have been. A lot of who we are as adults is what we been through growing up. That you “Perry’s “ . God bless your marriage continuously.
To keep it 100 videos that y’all do like this has really helped me in the process of engagement to marriage. Videos like these definitely makes it easy to see my own issues in my engagement in a very convicting but loving way but what’s different about this content is that you both are giving practical answers and advice to help change the problems in both parties.. I thank God that the Holy Spirit is moving through you both. Much love Perry’s
I learned so much from this conversation, Identifying flaws in myself regarding how I handle conflict with my partner. I've also learned so much on how to deal with conflict better showing love and not being controlled by emotions and also undoing the unhealthy ways in which we saw our parents handling conflict. Thank you so much to the Perrys.❤❤
Word from Preston about not giving people the same amount of patience that the Lord gives me and that leading to frustration. He has been dealing with me but this is an eye opener!
The wholeeeeee beginning of this video (the chaotic room) is me and hubby RIGHT now!
Me being an introvert with anxiety- I need for my room to be clean, and I legit don’t like being in there! Lol
Thank you for this confirmation Jackie, that it ain’t just me! 🤣
Should have a trillion views...so needed in this 🌎.
BLESSINGS 💖
This!!!! My God described my marriage to a T. God bless your ministry man and woman of God
You guys are so real and so Beautiful! I Love listening to you guys. Praise Jesus!
Their conversation is so cozy, comfortable, open and inviting to each other. Beautiful to see 😢
Absolutely love this channel. Thank you for the content.
I can relate to Jackie so much ❤❤ thank you for opening up . I was unable to understand my emotions and i hadnt related to anyone until now
God is so good…. Like wow. So my daughter struggles to deal and confront issues (there’s an issue she has with her dad and I’m tired of begging her to see him) 🙄 … I’ve listened to this podcast before but i felt i needed to listen to it again….. and wow. The answers i needed.
They’re both really deep souls. Having the deep knowledge of God, having the mind of Christ. Jesus has certainly knitted their hearts together.
What Preston said about being ‘tolerated’!!! I grew up feeling tolerated. I am doing better in my love walk- but I want to be able to listen and love with patience and not on my own terms- but listening to Holy Spirit and waiting for Him to guide the conversation.
That "he just constipated" line was funny. But fr every episode is insightful "Conflict can create more intimacy"
Couples with many years need to rethink their approach to a Godly marriage. Every point was thought through. Thank You.
Every couple needs to rethink their approach to marriage. Every behavior in a marriage counts in Heaven.
This is one of my fav episodes! Loved it! So many gems in this one ❤ I so happily saved this episode
Grateful to God for both of you and this Beautiful and timely conversation. No doubt in my mind, I was divinely guided to your video.
I am blown away at how your conversation expressed the root and struggles my husband and I go through in trying to find a mature, healthy and above all, a Godly approach to a more intimate, respectful, and loving relationship/conversations. We have been married 23 years. I’ll share this video with him in the hope that he would be able to see ourselves reflected in you and began to ask God and his perfect love to guide us, so that we can finally experience the change we need in our marriage. Forever grateful! May God continue to use your lives in powerful and meaningful ways! Much love!🙏🏻☺️💛🌷
I could watch this over and over .... well done you guys !
I love you guys so much, this generation needs this! Thank you for what you do! All of your podcasts and sermons, the way you live, day in day out, your example, your talks, encouragement, etc. I know it's a sacrifice, but it's helpful for myself and others and necessary in this world we live in. I'm grateful!
GURRRRRRRRRL when you said “Silence” that is definitely a weapon!!! This all around was great!
Lord knows I need to hear this, the flesh wants to argue about why I gotta wait for 2days for this but the title of this video is humbling me😂
Jackie, you are spot on regarding a woman voice. My mother was so disrespectful to my father for all the reasons you stated. All of my sisters can cut a person with their words.
Your marriage is so beautiful and I love your transparency in sharing these challenges and learning patterns.
I love the vulnerability! always a blessing you guys
Let’s go!!! I’m here for it. Very appreciative you guys are sharing your word, relationship, and biblical dialogue.
To anyone who's reading this, YOUR SITUATION IS SUBJECT TO CHANGE, WINNING IS IN YOUR DNA
Amen❤
This was edifying . Thanks ❤
I came from a relationship when my partner constantly did what Preston said "If I'm good we good" 👍🏽 I explained people that imagine stubbing your toe or hitting your foot and someone telling you in mid scream to not scream, you dont get the satisfaction to release that pain out that is very stressful for the one cut off in mid scream. 😅
God Bless you both! This was very enlightening and encouraging and I’m now more understanding and aware of how to move forward in my own marriage and in other relationships!
Dealing with conflict is an area I certainly struggle with and hearing this is super helpful and and very therapeutic. I thank you guys for being super transparent and just leaving out there. Imma watch a few times so to make sure I didn’t miss anything!! Much love and God Bless!!❤❤
Communication is key in relationships. This blessed me.
Lord I just want to thank you for these two. They are making it okay to have tough conversations. This blessed me from a parent perspective… I have a 15 yr old and I’ve been having an issues with communicating my anger and hurt. Now I know how.
Thank you guys!
Wow…this conversation was so enlightening. You guys have really grown so much. Jackie, I’m a communicator also and I can definitely identify with so much of what you said. Preston your perspective as a man truly blessed me. I thank God for your ministry gifts and your willingness to be transparent and vulnerable with us. May God continue to pour into your family, your marriage and your ministry.
i’m just here for preston’s hand on jackie’s foot. that’s all.
glory 🙌🏽