What is your thought on tipping culture in the U.S.? This server gives us her thoughts

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024

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  • @chilldude1614
    @chilldude1614 Год назад +190

    It's certainly an option and they should be paid more not tipped more.

    • @jaredlaflamme354
      @jaredlaflamme354 Год назад +4

      If they get paid more then the price of your meal will probably double

    • @greenbrickbox3392
      @greenbrickbox3392 Год назад +22

      ​@@jaredlaflamme354the price of food is not double in equivalent countries with no tipping, if your business can't afford to pay employees your business model sucks

    • @jaredlaflamme354
      @jaredlaflamme354 Год назад

      @@greenbrickbox3392 I’m not saying it’s right I’m just saying that people are greedy and if they pay workers more prices go up if you don’t like how it is then don’t go out to eat there’s a thing called grocery stores and cooking your own food 🤷🏿‍♂️ restaurants are supposed to make money off customers it’s a business

    • @tierra0218
      @tierra0218 Год назад +4

      Tipping culture is out of control, gov should set wage law for the servers wage , don’t expect on customers to cover the owners expense, restaurant owners feel free to increase the meal price.

    • @victoria-ez3er
      @victoria-ez3er Год назад

      ⁠a survey was done if customers preferred high price of food or tipping. 66% vote for tipping and 16% for rising prices.
      Now new surveys are showing that people are tired of the high amount of money people are paying in tips.The problem is that if the tipping is gone the owners are obligated to rice prices to pay the minimum amount of living to employees. Having a business isn’t cheap an owners can’t afford to pay what is required for the employee. That’s why they make $2 per hour plus tips.
      Now why other countries have well paid employees in restaurants compare to USA.
      As a foreign myself in other countries the customer has to wait longer hours to receive their meal, most people go out to eat as a social activity,people want to talk and take their time compare to USA that customers want their food as soon as possible, foreign countries have less staff, that’s why they make more money, USA have economic incentives to make money and work in a fast environment.
      The culture in other countries is slower and the customer service is differen

  • @CoJoGrizzlo
    @CoJoGrizzlo Год назад +138

    *Tipping isn’t even a thing in most countries.*
    *Tipping is also one of the major excuses employers give for paying less wages.*
    *You’re mad at the wrong person*

    • @jaredlaflamme354
      @jaredlaflamme354 Год назад +3

      I agree tipping is allowing restaurants to pay employees below minimum wage they should be paid more but if they had to pay employees more than a meal that was 15$ before would be 25-30$ so idk 🤷🏿‍♂️ no matter what eating out will always be expensive

    • @Je.143
      @Je.143 Год назад +2

      @@jaredlaflamme354no it wouldn’t, in the Uk the prices are similar (in fast food) and there’s no tipping at all

  • @arshy9920
    @arshy9920 8 месяцев назад +18

    U expecting 18 20 is mad enough for me. I know underpaid is worse and ive experienced that, but thats insane having the thought of not expecting more than 50%
    Ill be grateful enogh for not expecting more than 20%. And 5% tip would make me hella happy.

    • @ShiestyApe
      @ShiestyApe 3 месяца назад +1

      A 5% tip would make you happy? You need to do better service then.

    • @arshy9920
      @arshy9920 3 месяца назад +4

      @@ShiestyApe Yes. And my answer wont change.
      Even if its 1%, id be happy to receive it.
      Now, 5% is upsetting you? Then you guys are insane. Theyre not taxes, customer is free to give you 0~100%. You should be grateful if you recieved one.
      Having shitty attitude from receiving a 5% tip is also considered a bad service.

    • @ShiestyApe
      @ShiestyApe 3 месяца назад

      @@arshy9920 You sound like a happy slave

    • @n355a7
      @n355a7 2 месяца назад

      @@ShiestyApeany tip should make you happy as it means you’ve made it to the point of good service, that is if we’re going by original tipping standards, if we’re going by now how you HAVE to tip %25 or more or you get spat in food or rude service then sure

    • @ShiestyApe
      @ShiestyApe 2 месяца назад

      @@n355a7 Someone will disrespect you with a $.50 or $1 tip on a $80 tab and you will be happy. Would hate to have your broke mindset💀 Making $3 an hour and being happy with $1 tips is embarrassing on your part

  • @sophieloves7092
    @sophieloves7092 10 месяцев назад +82

    50% she's delusional

    • @nathawayhoa1971
      @nathawayhoa1971 9 месяцев назад +18

      She’s saying she *isn’t* expecting a 50% tip. She’s saying that tipping is optional and you shouldn’t be put in a position where you feel forced to tip. You should probably listen to her a little more closely because it seems it didn’t really register with you.

    • @AarinManik
      @AarinManik 9 месяцев назад +11

      @@nathawayhoa1971yes but she means 50% percent is so out of the question it does not need to be mentioned

    • @osenazl
      @osenazl 5 месяцев назад

      @@nathawayhoa1971yeah i think she means that it should be lower than 50% …retreat, retreat 😂

    • @mclovin1609
      @mclovin1609 Месяц назад

      Use your ears guy.

  • @whatyouthinkyoubecome7
    @whatyouthinkyoubecome7 10 месяцев назад +21

    One and only BEST solution to this nonsense.
    Just STOP tipping.
    Don’t feed entitlement.
    Customers are not responsible for their wages.
    Let the business owners pay their employees’ salaries.
    Put an end to this BS.
    Tipping is mandatory and should never be forced.
    I don’t tip. So everybody I request to stop, STOP TIPPING.
    This is the only way to bring a change.
    Don’t expect the greedy business owners to change.
    We, as customers, have to power to change this.
    Take this initiative and DONT EVER TIP, ANYWHERE.

    • @Ribbitplease
      @Ribbitplease 6 месяцев назад +3

      It’s ridiculous, being judged for leaving a 18% tip because it’s now considered “low” is ridiculous

  • @teeseries4487
    @teeseries4487 8 месяцев назад +11

    As a former server it is horrible manipulation to act like they can’t pay their employees a livable wage, especially at big chain restaurants who spend millions of $ in marketing every quarter. I used to pay a base tip of $10 but I’m done leaving tips more than 10% unless the service is great. The culture needs to change, and America needs to wake up and demand more $ for their hard work without having to beg for it from other people that are struggling too

  • @jaquelinefaivre4340
    @jaquelinefaivre4340 Год назад +15

    Even though I feel bad for waitresses I honestly think this is out of contol. Tip is based on service performance and only 10 to 15 percent maximum. I’m sorry if restaurants don’t pay enough, they charge a lot fir meals so rhey shouls have enough money to pay them decent. Is up to the waitress to stop restaurants from taking advantage, simply don’t work for cheap restaurants and you will see how quickly they raise the hourly rates.

  • @notmyrealname4488
    @notmyrealname4488 10 месяцев назад +7

    "I'm not making a livable wage. Let's ask someone who's not my employer for money"
    Tipping culture is just dumb. It should be only done to show appreciation for a service and even then there should not be some sort of minimum percentage attached to it. People should tip what they eant or not at all

  • @annie011955
    @annie011955 Год назад +11

    When I first came to US, I learned tipping 10%... now 20%? It is a lot ;(

    • @mo.kapaints
      @mo.kapaints 9 месяцев назад +2

      Say noooo don't give any

  • @jayeshahirrao3868
    @jayeshahirrao3868 6 месяцев назад +4

    We have restaurants with no tip policy even if employee accepts tip they will be fired

  • @Dntdstrbpablo
    @Dntdstrbpablo 10 месяцев назад +12

    Restaurant servers should unionize somehow and go for the real culprits here: the restaurant owners. If a business cannot pay its employees, it should not exist.

    • @cateeed.0111
      @cateeed.0111 7 месяцев назад

      definitely not. Servers like it like this. We make more money this way. Even if i made $15 an hour, id still make more with tips. We have tipping because some people will run you back and forth 57 times and yell at you. $10 an hour aint worth that.

    • @arcanaz6583
      @arcanaz6583 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@cateeed.0111 Then the consumer should stop tipping all together.

    • @cateeed.0111
      @cateeed.0111 6 месяцев назад

      @@arcanaz6583 For what reason? Say what you have to say but back ur argument up.

    • @HarshGupta-py3dw
      @HarshGupta-py3dw 6 месяцев назад +1

      Tipping culture here in USA sucks, you guys feels entitled to get tip which is main problem , I usually never tip anybody, I only tip when I had a very great day some great special moment why dining out, If you guys don't get enough in restaurant business demand the employer for hike or close the business

    • @arcanaz6583
      @arcanaz6583 6 месяцев назад

      @@cateeed.0111 You get more money than if you were paid $15 an hour, but at the cost of making a worse experiece for the customer, and allowing restuarants to offset this cost to them. This breeds a culture of greedy companies asking for tips for everything and anything, and make people like you dependent and entitled to money that should not guaranteed, even if you act as if it should be. No tourist from Europe or Asia ever said they come to the U.S. and love the tipping culture in our restuarants. I bet if everyone stopped tipping then you'd change your tune about that $15 an hour real quick. Then you'd realize your money is dependent on charity and making people feel uncomfortable and peer pressured into giving you cash. Get real.

  • @cato451
    @cato451 Год назад +58

    I don’t tip anymore.

    • @jaredlaflamme354
      @jaredlaflamme354 Год назад +3

      I don’t agree with tips unless you’re having food delivered to your house or have a server waiting on you providing good service if they don’t deliver good service then I understand not tipping

    • @amymanihera4705
      @amymanihera4705 Год назад +9

      Everyone should stop tipping, make the employers pay decent wage. Or go on strikes.

    • @cato451
      @cato451 Год назад

      @@amymanihera4705 exactly!!!!

    • @VerbenaRP
      @VerbenaRP 11 месяцев назад

      wait so, you just go out to eat in resteraunts and if you get a super friendly and really kind server, you just dont tip them at all? like not even an extra dollar?

    • @cato451
      @cato451 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@VerbenaRP I do tip restaurant servers just no one else.

  • @congfu9442
    @congfu9442 4 месяца назад +1

    As far as I know, the food ain’t really cheap in America, I think it’s pretty enough for bosses to pay well for their staff.

  • @patriciarichardson5570
    @patriciarichardson5570 Год назад +29

    Restaurant food costs are off the roof however, I always tip. I prefer to cook my own food because of the decreased Restaurant food quality.

    • @jaredlaflamme354
      @jaredlaflamme354 Год назад

      The quality is going down mostly because of short staff and restaurants are so desperate for employees that they hire anyone who walks in off the street, I work at a restaurant and some nights it’s it’s just me and 1 other employee and we trying to do online , walk in , and phone orders 2 people trying to serve dozens and dozens of customers every hour and then they are so picky and difficult nowadays and prices had to go up because min wage went up

  • @FrothyPine
    @FrothyPine 8 месяцев назад +4

    They need to stop speaking in percentages. Imagine going to a normal restaurant and buying some fancy wine for like some high price of $500 and they ask for a 10% tip which would be $50 for handing over a bottle of wine.

    • @reginageorgetownuni
      @reginageorgetownuni 4 месяца назад

      Exactly. It's crazy they expect to get paid for doing a job they're already getting paid for.

  • @animeaddict8427
    @animeaddict8427 2 месяца назад +1

    I won't pay 50% even if i am drunk 😂😂😂

  • @Lala_monzz
    @Lala_monzz 3 месяца назад +1

    If it’s optional, then it shouldn’t be an expectation. But the thing about Americans is that they expect it, and if you don’t give it to them, you’re a horrible person who doesn’t deserve to eat.😂 and corporations and companies love this, they love that servers and fast food workers are shaming people into tipping because they can pay their workers less and make customers pay their own workers😂

  • @amymanihera4705
    @amymanihera4705 Год назад +3

    This all points back to the employer. They should be paying their workers better. This is how they get richer. Giving them half ass wages and the customers have to pay out more on top of the meal. IT’s rediculous.

  • @KateMG
    @KateMG Год назад +12

    No i’ll never tip 18-20. My max is 10% and depends on the service take it or leave it!

  • @jaspreetsingh3164
    @jaspreetsingh3164 4 месяца назад

    How’s that my problem if you don’t get paid enough wtf, my pockets ain’t that heavy 😂

  • @reginageorgetownuni
    @reginageorgetownuni 4 месяца назад

    I think servers do get paid enough for what they do: serve the food. Nurses, on the other hand for example, don't. They actually put their lives on risk taking care of sick people and get paid peanuts.

  • @JohnDoe-gq6yg
    @JohnDoe-gq6yg Месяц назад

    Percentage tips as a concept are the most insane thing ive ever heard. If you give some amazing service ill maybe tip you like 5 or 10 bucks but thats it.

  • @luziaflone1951
    @luziaflone1951 8 месяцев назад +2

    So as a server she do her job with no salary and have to carry 1 ton of rice bags I guess. She says like it's the hardest job on earth

  • @jackisblack443
    @jackisblack443 Год назад +4

    If I could choose to tip any member of a restaurant staff I would choose to tip cooks/chefs IF the food was great. I don't care if waitresses and waiters are underpaid. When people travel to a restaurant to eat the last thing on their minds is a f****** tip for a server.

  • @nilabhjaiswal1100
    @nilabhjaiswal1100 9 месяцев назад

    Buddy you should ask increment in your salary to your manager asking tip to coustomer is not good they paid for food

  • @narutoroxanne22
    @narutoroxanne22 2 месяца назад +1

    Sounds like a beggar. So, are people who are sexually harassed at work supposed to get millions from their customers then? 😅

  • @AMK190768
    @AMK190768 3 месяца назад

    And I would deduct 3% for every “like”… 😂

  • @sophieloves7092
    @sophieloves7092 10 месяцев назад

    Most states have laws that the employer has to make up for tips in order for the employee to make at least minimum wage in that state. Please check into your state laws before you're made to believe that waiters make any less than anyone else

  • @Ziggyhere57
    @Ziggyhere57 15 дней назад +1

    Should I get a tip for cleaning restroom I want my tip why server is only one get a tip ? Make no sense

  • @FaizanKhan-jf1mt
    @FaizanKhan-jf1mt 3 месяца назад

    50% for feeling good........ Maybe she's another kind of server.....☠️

  • @Alk4AA
    @Alk4AA Год назад +4

    You can find a different job if you think you're not getting paid enough I've seen job postings of restaurants paying them more than average retail employees and that's minus the tips side

    • @Alk4AA
      @Alk4AA Год назад

      ​@@jaredlaflamme354you don't get a tip and you're making the most difference

  • @Hood.Housekeeping
    @Hood.Housekeeping 4 месяца назад

    All of us have rough days honey. Servers have such entitlement.

  • @parmars7577
    @parmars7577 Год назад +2

    If your service is good, I'll definitely tip you but don't expect me tip everytime 😺

  • @ahmadutama-cd9pb
    @ahmadutama-cd9pb Год назад +1

    But Why you dont get paid enough tho?

  • @italotoffolo
    @italotoffolo 7 месяцев назад +1

    50% 😂😂😂😂

  • @blah7918
    @blah7918 2 месяца назад

    Most people have bad days in their jobs and don’t get tips

    • @Ziggyhere57
      @Ziggyhere57 15 дней назад +1

      Right tryna hit sad sob on us 😂

  • @JM-wn6gu
    @JM-wn6gu 7 месяцев назад

    50%? No fkn shit you don't expect that

  • @angelam6768
    @angelam6768 3 месяца назад

    Who is expecting 50% tip. These waitress should know its not our problem they get paid less. We work to pay our bill. Its not falling from trees. If your are paid less leave the job find other jobs

  • @danielasmr6021
    @danielasmr6021 7 месяцев назад

    CNA here making $19 an hour 😢

  • @John5.24
    @John5.24 6 месяцев назад +1

    Everyone has rough days at work, tips for everyone then?

  • @bibiixer
    @bibiixer 10 месяцев назад +3

    You do not have to tip. I almost never do unless it was truly exceptional. You get paid for what you do. Every server has been informed about their hourly wage and they agree upon it as they sign the job offer.
    If you want to get paid more try a different profession. If you want to achieve something, you go for it. Serving is not a sales or commission based job. Why should you expect people to pay you free money? their own hard earned money.
    People say “Standard tipping” - Why what is that?? Who has come upon with this magical 20% or 18% or the best one is if 8 or more mandatory…. hahaha.
    If you think you deserve to be paid more, you ask for it. If you do then you will.
    If you think your boss is an a**hole then you should leave that job. If you think you would not get another serving job, you are mistaken.

  • @anthonyromero3817
    @anthonyromero3817 7 месяцев назад

    Bring back the 10%

  • @gagankainth7837
    @gagankainth7837 5 месяцев назад

    Ok so ask your boss to get a raise

  • @HarshGupta-py3dw
    @HarshGupta-py3dw 6 месяцев назад +1

    Just ask you employer to paycheck hike, or leave the job
    Why we give our hard earned money to you guys for free ,
    Tip should never be asked or expected

  • @Crazyclay78YT
    @Crazyclay78YT Год назад +4

    One time for lunch (in highschool) me and my friends went to a nearby diner and our bill was like 50$ so we split it all and payed, so I dropped a 20 on the table and left. my friend asked me why I left like a 50% tip and I was like "I work in restaurants, I know how it feels to not get a tip. Sometimes those tips can determine if you get a snack that day, or buy your kid a little treat." Also 20$ isn't all that much to me.

    • @shawnknive
      @shawnknive Год назад

      THANK YOU.
      i grew up poor like but im not gonna stay like that. $100 is not much to me $10000 aint even much life is worth so much more than just money. i say dont be stingy live with joy and love for everyone around you.

    • @SpongebobsRippedPant
      @SpongebobsRippedPant Год назад +7

      Travel. Your country not paying workers enough is disgusting and imhumane. You servers forcing people to tip is also inhumane.

    • @jaredlaflamme354
      @jaredlaflamme354 Год назад

      @@SpongebobsRippedPant i agree but if restaurants paid servers more money than the prices would double to compensate for it

    • @princee6383
      @princee6383 Год назад

      ⁠@@jaredlaflamme354would it really?

    • @jaredlaflamme354
      @jaredlaflamme354 Год назад

      @@princee6383 probably yea it’s a business pay employees more they need to compensate for that either way the customer is the only income no matter what the customer is paying it

  • @ponnappaganapathy9941
    @ponnappaganapathy9941 Месяц назад

    END tipping

  • @mo.kapaints
    @mo.kapaints 9 месяцев назад +1

    These teenagers or adult dont wanna work and expecting someone should give them 50% money for 15 sec of serving a meal from kitchen to table is insane.
    Just take out guys say noooo for tip i dont care i will 100% say no

  • @patrickgomes2261
    @patrickgomes2261 8 месяцев назад

    Tips based on percentage makes no sense

  • @tititius889
    @tititius889 Год назад +1

    50% u are dreaming. You shouldnt expect a percentage, it is your job, my frd.

  • @ABHISEK1YEARFORIIT
    @ABHISEK1YEARFORIIT 9 месяцев назад

    Leave the job 😤

  • @jaredlaflamme354
    @jaredlaflamme354 Год назад

    When you go to a restaurant and have a waitress or waiter it only hurts the worker the restaurant owner and manager couldn’t give a shit if you tip or not it makes no difference to them it only hurts the the person waiting on you even if you only leave a dollar or 2 it’s better than nothing and if you don’t want to tip then get takeout

    • @rezarfar
      @rezarfar Год назад +4

      It is not not the customers responsibility to pay for what the owner isn't, most eating at these places are not exactly rolling in money themselves, so expecting them to pay is a prime example of barking up the wrong tree.
      You need to be talking to your boss.

    • @jaredlaflamme354
      @jaredlaflamme354 Год назад

      @@rezarfar the other thing is that if you don’t want to tip and you’re struggling with money then you shouldn’t be eating out restaurants are already short staffed because nobody wants to deal with how picky and difficult customers are nowadays everyone is a food expert now and expect 1st class service and then don’t tip on top of it

    • @jaredlaflamme354
      @jaredlaflamme354 Год назад

      @@rezarfar also when I worked at a restaurant if we had a repeat customer who we know doesn’t tip nobody they would be waiting forever because none of the servers wanted a non tip table

    • @rezarfar
      @rezarfar Год назад +3

      @@jaredlaflamme354 except it isn't just restaurants that expect a tip now, coffee shops, cafes and bars now want a tip too... like bruh, you are a low class establishment.... if i visit a restaurant i will tip though, other places, nah.

    • @jaredlaflamme354
      @jaredlaflamme354 Год назад

      @@rezarfar i agree with that and I work at a place that had the tablet that asks for a tip while you pay and I actually don’t like it I get embarrassed when someone elderly can’t see what it says and I have to tell them it’s asking for a tip …. I started just pressing “no tip “ for them and saying not to worry about it

  • @euphisa8127
    @euphisa8127 Год назад

    So she is expecting tips

  • @Jonssnow4
    @Jonssnow4 6 месяцев назад

    Study

  • @DigambarPatil-v6d
    @DigambarPatil-v6d 3 месяца назад

    Tipping culture is bad

  • @donaldktrump8942
    @donaldktrump8942 6 месяцев назад +1

    fool culture tipping is begging

  • @The-rolling_man
    @The-rolling_man 7 месяцев назад

    If my plate cost like 10 bucks I’m not tipping 15 20. I’ve always thought it was backwards you too a server and not the cook all servers say they don’t get paid enough but what about the cooks they don’t bitch and cry and it’s known they make less than you