Lavida Nota ON his failed marriage with musician Berita

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  • @MadamTMT
    @MadamTMT 2 месяца назад +36

    Any interview with NOTA in it, I can't miss. Any interview with PROMISE in it, I can't miss.Nna I'm educated ke sana😂😂😂😂😂.

    • @nomangesinthala8948
      @nomangesinthala8948 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂

    • @kgolaganoloate1039
      @kgolaganoloate1039 Месяц назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂and he is actually right lol I watched it and because it's Nota we gonna bash him but what he was saying neh it makes sense in a funny way yoh 😂😂😂

    • @waziliumali5729
      @waziliumali5729 16 дней назад

      Wherever there's Nota check the views kkkkk

  • @thatobaloyi6194
    @thatobaloyi6194 2 месяца назад +114

    The only thing more dangerous than a narcissistic man is a narcissist man that knows English

    • @anitadyakala1886
      @anitadyakala1886 2 месяца назад +10

      Legit😂😂😂

    • @thae9116
      @thae9116 2 месяца назад +9

      I almost spilled the tea l was holding when l was reading this comment 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @user-wl8op5tz2w
      @user-wl8op5tz2w 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂

    • @leeerato
      @leeerato 2 месяца назад +4

      😂😂😂I have Neva laughed like this

    • @pulanemotsetsela5413
      @pulanemotsetsela5413 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @pfanomakhadi8846
    @pfanomakhadi8846 2 месяца назад +46

    NOTA is the only guy in south Africa who took the words "in sickness and in health, until death do us apart" literally😂😂😂

    • @idahkanyaneleshalabe7285
      @idahkanyaneleshalabe7285 2 месяца назад

      He understood the task

    • @tabisamuru6353
      @tabisamuru6353 Месяц назад +1

      His delusional

    • @Reading_Initiative4Kids
      @Reading_Initiative4Kids Месяц назад +2

      Eish Nota!!😮 so he’s actually saying he made her “the wife” , He sounds like he’s obsessed with her though 😢 and that’s scary. Also I thought he is in his 40’s😅. Yho ai Nota!!

    • @DMkz111
      @DMkz111 Месяц назад

      😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

  • @phumzileramasehla4753
    @phumzileramasehla4753 2 месяца назад +40

    Nota is such a polarising character. He has no filter and his perspective can be jarring and sometimes borders on the delusional. I enjoy him purely because of his honesty.

  • @nakedisepaila5633
    @nakedisepaila5633 2 месяца назад +85

    This man talk too much no woman will ever tolerate him

    • @Sihawukelwe
      @Sihawukelwe 2 месяца назад

      He is a woman trapped in man's body...

    • @katlehoseutloali6985
      @katlehoseutloali6985 2 месяца назад +5

      I'd divorce him singakashadi

    • @lisangwadla4846
      @lisangwadla4846 2 месяца назад

      After divorcing him and divorce him again yheeey this is too much😢​@@katlehoseutloali6985

    • @khabovilakazi7981
      @khabovilakazi7981 2 месяца назад

      Ppl don't know what they want,when someone is too quiet UYABORA.. ..I am sure the wife 😅 one day will have the regrets why she left him...The only problem I see is the smoking of dagga.Nota'brain has too much of Cannabis he doesn't need to smoke it ,his is destroying his brain ..too much of the thing it kills or destroys..My advice is that he must completely stop Cannabis (dagga)He is the best GOAT with all the achievement the guy is super intelligent but this supplement is an overdose to his brain..Plse Nota for your age and achievements you're the GOAT..Well done young man ♂️

    • @matlawasarah1851
      @matlawasarah1851 2 месяца назад +1

      He is a danger to his Wife

  • @FavourKG
    @FavourKG 2 месяца назад +23

    Nota we don't tell our partner weaknesses in public. That's how you protect your wife. Your honesty does not have to disgraced her. No no no human being will allow that. Humble yourself ask for forgiveness.

  • @ezy78667
    @ezy78667 2 месяца назад +43

    NOTA is what we call a narcissist! People will just laugh at his actions until they meet one! Being in a relationship with one has taught me a lot about these kind of people, if you see how he was behaving on Twitter after separating with wife, then you will understand what a text book Narcissist is!! He is exactly like my ex... NOTA will never stop all the public humiliation, he sees that people did not support when he did with Berrita's character, then he is moving to her family. This is because they are not giving him attention, when Berrita moves on NOTA will come for his bf or her future husband even if he himself gets married! This behavior is seen on all narcissists! It is unfortunate that people give him the platform to do all this! Promise should not promote such behavior, it is counter productive in this patriarchal society! If Promise really wanted to talk about Berrita she could have invited her because this interview was basically to tarnish her and her family name!! People like NOTA always think they are Gods gift to human kind! I am glad Berrita left!!

  • @lanimalorsa
    @lanimalorsa Месяц назад +4

    People dont like NOTA because he's honest and speaks without a filter. This man is a genius 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @nomzamomasombuka1834
    @nomzamomasombuka1834 2 месяца назад +37

    How on earth can one be married to this man without depending on antidepressants 😢😢😢😢

  • @innocent.amchechesi276
    @innocent.amchechesi276 2 месяца назад +26

    He is one honest man!!

  • @robynbarnett5968
    @robynbarnett5968 2 месяца назад +57

    I would have called weskoppies to wait by the door for him 😂😂😂

  • @DopeStuffOnly
    @DopeStuffOnly 2 месяца назад +23

    We need more pupil like Nota who is honest free speech

  • @ladye1253
    @ladye1253 2 месяца назад +69

    this was a true monologue, he could've recorded himself speak alone. He loves hearing the sound of his voice.

    • @SibsM93
      @SibsM93 2 месяца назад +7

      Yoh this is how Introverts feel when an outspoken person blabs on and on and on and on. It's actually energy draining when you sit and listen to a person speak like this, you cannot even engage.

    • @aluciafakude3703
      @aluciafakude3703 2 месяца назад

      💯

    • @mphojeanettemabusane8780
      @mphojeanettemabusane8780 2 месяца назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @AnnoyedBloomingFlower-ll9eb
      @AnnoyedBloomingFlower-ll9eb 2 месяца назад +1

      Imagine watching a podcast and expecting the guest to be muted

    • @elzettamurangi7228
      @elzettamurangi7228 2 месяца назад

      Guys stop 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @thabondlovu1577
    @thabondlovu1577 Месяц назад +9

    Maybe it's true that " too much of anything is not good for anyone". This man has too much information that he somewhat comes across as crazy. Great guy Nota I like him.

  • @Lisziomania
    @Lisziomania Месяц назад +3

    Nota sound like a loving, caring, supportive and protective husband. I like this dude. I wish Nota and his wife can fix things and be a happy family forever ❤

  • @ayandasam2269
    @ayandasam2269 2 месяца назад +49

    Nota is grown up physically and mentally, but inside, he still remains a little child. He might be stuck at age 4 sana he needs to visit his childhood there's something there.

  • @moilwa6209
    @moilwa6209 2 месяца назад +14

    Nota is just telling his story. I see nothing wrong in this conversation. For the longest time, women come on such platforms to bash their ex partners and in laws, but they are not crucified. Let everyone be allowed to tell their stories the way they feel it's right.

    • @jabulilenenzhelele2179
      @jabulilenenzhelele2179 2 месяца назад

      But his partner never bashed him. She actually answered respectfully on Podcast and Chill

  • @AmandaY306
    @AmandaY306 2 месяца назад +69

    This is a conversation between Nota
    & Nota. 😂😂

    • @tumi2610
      @tumi2610 2 месяца назад +2

      I had to go read up on the comments first to get a feel of how the interview was, I'm scared to watch because Nota is Nota, I can definetly believe that Promise was not part of her own interview

    • @vickyitenyo.
      @vickyitenyo. 2 месяца назад

      So true! 😂😂😂

    • @leratomokatse2276
      @leratomokatse2276 2 месяца назад

      So true... He likes the sound of his own voice🙄

    • @rinaesengani
      @rinaesengani 2 месяца назад

      Amanda wee😂😂😂😂

    • @elzettamurangi7228
      @elzettamurangi7228 2 месяца назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Sphume
    @Sphume 2 месяца назад +30

    One thing this man will do is talk sana!

  • @floradube5529
    @floradube5529 2 месяца назад +40

    I loved this interview, here's why, most people like to talk about the negative sides of marriages and forget that there was time when it was good. Berita wouldn't have married Nota if it wasn't good at some point. While Nota might have his faults he tried to be there for Berita, he loved her still does. Let's celebrate the good accomplishments in marriage the same way we frawn upon the faults. Nota might be over the top but he tried to give his wife the best.

    • @nicholasmasuku1501
      @nicholasmasuku1501 2 месяца назад +4

      Are you for real? This is bullying by Nota, I swear one day Berita is going to sue him

    • @nolubynature9513
      @nolubynature9513 2 месяца назад +2

      😮and you know this how?

    • @Mbuso784
      @Mbuso784 2 месяца назад +1

      Facts.

    • @jabulilenenzhelele2179
      @jabulilenenzhelele2179 2 месяца назад +6

      When you have not been with a narcissist, you will never understand that the good times come with the most pain because they weaponize it for their good. You will hear things like I made you,,,,

    • @floradube5529
      @floradube5529 2 месяца назад

      @@nolubynature9513 Because she described the best times of her marriage in an interview. It's public knowledge

  • @nickymthelebofu
    @nickymthelebofu 2 месяца назад +42

    Bathong Nota can talk the whole month without a break, like the 1st 20 minutes he took over, Promise was just mmmm yah 😅,
    How do people get energy to interview this guy Mara? Bcoz u will end up not asking real questions ⁉️

  • @dephinecee8815
    @dephinecee8815 2 месяца назад +6

    I laughed when he said the mother in law is 56yrs old and wont find a boyfriend. 😂

  • @NolwaziM
    @NolwaziM 2 месяца назад +7

    55:26 is the moment Promise was regretting inviting this guy to this interview. Waze waisola 😂😂😂

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi 2 месяца назад +84

    NOTA airing out Berita's family business is just so wrong, such betrayal and he still hopes to reconcile with her? 😭😭not to mention him talking about her fart😭..like seriously?

    • @ezy78667
      @ezy78667 2 месяца назад +11

      That's what classic narcissist do! He is a text book Narc! My ex is exactly like him!!

    • @nkosinathisitholejobe551
      @nkosinathisitholejobe551 2 месяца назад +3

      Lol why you concerned about farting

    • @zuzuh5755
      @zuzuh5755 2 месяца назад +11

      Yep! He is trying by all means to convince the whole country if not the world,that he is the best husband. He is convincing everybody but not the wife. He says he love her,but he says all the bad things abt her.
      How can she go back to a man who hang his dirty laundry to the public. Instead of having these conversations with her,he decide to have it with public.
      This is not love but,8 see a man who is sad that he allegedly helped someone to build her carrer.Then a person left. Most of the time he talk abt her career,and how was he involved. He is suffering frm "I made you" ,"You belong to me,I own you,You are nothing about me".

    • @user-wh6zo8mc1f
      @user-wh6zo8mc1f 2 месяца назад +7

      He's not delulu, coz none of us were in that marriage you would be surprised that the wife was worse, people who appear like angels in public are often the worst.

    • @Babes_Womgosi
      @Babes_Womgosi 2 месяца назад +1

      🤣🤣i should not be laughing at this

  • @Vv-fl2rm
    @Vv-fl2rm 2 месяца назад +23

    I’m so glad Barita found her Mojo and left this unhinged over arrogant empty psycho!! That woman is a gem💎 and Nota was a downgrade of epic proportions. No wonder he can’t let go and still rants about her on all platforms despite her getting away from his abuse, tantrums and meltdowns. Good for her ❤🥂

  • @vickyitenyo.
    @vickyitenyo. 2 месяца назад +3

    My dear Promise... You've displayed so much maturity on this episode. I'm your day one subbie from Kenya and I've watched EVERY SINGLE episode since this podcast started. This man is delusional, he has refused to be accountable and he portrays narcissistic traits. Just by looking at him, his nails, his hair, his beard shows that he is unkempt, meaning he is battling huge internal battles. He needs to see a PSYCHIATRIST this one is beyond a psychologist. I don't know how you did it girl.. but good job! 👏🏾👏🏾 Your poise, your calmness and maturity has indeed proven to us that you were born for this Mrs Law❤

  • @TheBoyWithThePlans
    @TheBoyWithThePlans 2 месяца назад +14

    “In 2008 the Zimbabwean economy crashed and then your father was unable to provide for your family because the money in his pocket shrank on his walk to go and buy bread, so he could afford the bread when he left his house and by the time he got to the shop he couldn’t and that was the end of everything”🤣!!! Nota is really something else

    • @DzivhuluwaniPhaswana
      @DzivhuluwaniPhaswana 2 месяца назад +2

      Hey hey 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @disciple8531
      @disciple8531 2 месяца назад +1

      @Theboywiththeplan 😂😂😂😅

    • @noziphokhumalo2963
      @noziphokhumalo2963 Месяц назад +2

      The narration is outstanding 😅😅😅😅😅

    • @Zy-gote
      @Zy-gote Месяц назад

      😂

    • @blakawt7773
      @blakawt7773 29 дней назад

      It sound like a movie but it's true events recorded and shit😅😂😂

  • @bridgetmothomoholo4514
    @bridgetmothomoholo4514 2 месяца назад +15

    I love the professionalism in sister Promise ❤ keep it up Sesi😢

  • @nthabisengmasikila4543
    @nthabisengmasikila4543 2 месяца назад +48

    Why am i watching this Ntate Molimo 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @nonz3553
      @nonz3553 2 месяца назад +7

      Lo when I saw this I was like I thought we stopped giving this guy airtime, but here I am watching 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

    • @esthermphanda4836
      @esthermphanda4836 2 месяца назад +7

      😂😂😂I'm actually asking myself the same question

    • @nwabisapbodlo3246
      @nwabisapbodlo3246 2 месяца назад +3

      Same but somehow i’m still watching 😂😂😂

    • @nwabisapbodlo3246
      @nwabisapbodlo3246 2 месяца назад +2

      Dude! 😂

    • @serofoennierakgogo5363
      @serofoennierakgogo5363 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂 That's me

  • @fezilemakaula1823
    @fezilemakaula1823 2 месяца назад +23

    Guys please don't be nasty, if you dont have something true or positive to say please dont comment. The guy is a gent and he is human, I havent heard him insult or swear at anyone therefore does not deserve ugly words.

    • @TheMsyZa
      @TheMsyZa 2 месяца назад +5

      Just because you haven’t heard it?

    • @Nombulelo_ace
      @Nombulelo_ace Месяц назад

      You are also delusional

  • @clveeraync
    @clveeraync 2 месяца назад +14

    Not a lot of people commenting and only focusing on the negative and ignoring some important points he made

    • @innocent.amchechesi276
      @innocent.amchechesi276 2 месяца назад +4

      He is telling the truth... Uncomfortable truth

    • @clveeraync
      @clveeraync 2 месяца назад +5

      @@innocent.amchechesi276 and one thing I've learnt recently is that women and the truth are like oil and water

    • @samkelotempi6583
      @samkelotempi6583 26 дней назад

      He is thelling the truth. Those who are in darkness will always oppose the truth

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi 2 месяца назад +22

    Basadi NOTA a re when we see his wife on the streets we must tell her to go back to her marital home, a tla re tshepela a huge task.😭

  • @lebonetsesebitloane4859
    @lebonetsesebitloane4859 2 месяца назад +8

    There are people who go to therapy consistently to gain tools to manipulate the people around them. Nota is one of those people. He believes that he did nothing wrong as a husband because he believes his wife’s success is because of him.
    He is a narcissist who does not even let people finish their sentences before jumping in to play victim and blow his own horn

  • @fusiflorence8123
    @fusiflorence8123 2 месяца назад +30

    The most genius guy I know,hence I ignore his arrogance,I look at the positive side of him,because if I will pay attention of negative side,I'll end up being a psycho,

  • @kedibonemohale1802
    @kedibonemohale1802 2 месяца назад +30

    Nota is a genuine good guy... Yes there is a lot of arrogance and a superiority complex of some sort, however he knows his position and stands with an upright posture..... Ei go gontsi maan.....

    • @nandimzanzi
      @nandimzanzi 2 месяца назад +3

      No he talks too much and thinks he is always right. Just this too much talking will make me leave man. Too much noise. He gives trauma with noise

    • @kagisoubane4078
      @kagisoubane4078 2 месяца назад

      Go gontsi ngwaneso😮😮😮

    • @shisuiuchiha480
      @shisuiuchiha480 2 месяца назад +1

      @@nandimzanzi coz you'd rather be with a nonchalant serial cheater than an outspoken man who really cares

  • @sorrynotsorry3447
    @sorrynotsorry3447 2 месяца назад +37

    I cracked up when he covered his academic failure by claiming his sisters academic success 😂😂😂
    Guys Berita saved herself.
    Any woman would choose to scramble through life than to be tied down to this mess. Money is not everything and she taught him that ngenkani 😅
    I stan that queen👑

    • @sinikiwembangi1867
      @sinikiwembangi1867 2 месяца назад +8

      Mntase that's when I knew that I'll need a drink to finish this podcast😂😂haibo are qualifications contagious na? Are my sister's degrees also mine?

    • @nolubynature9513
      @nolubynature9513 2 месяца назад

      ​@@sinikiwembangi1867😂😂😂

    • @nolubynature9513
      @nolubynature9513 2 месяца назад +1

      Same here mtase🙏🏾 I'm so glad she left! Sheesh

    • @iwasneverthereatallatallin8000
      @iwasneverthereatallatallin8000 2 месяца назад

      he said it his father's sperm- lol. the logic?! I am dying@@sinikiwembangi1867

  • @Kosmikgrxy
    @Kosmikgrxy 2 месяца назад +25

    Happy Birthday LavidaNOTA. We really appreciate you.

  • @tranquilitywithn.6362
    @tranquilitywithn.6362 2 месяца назад +12

    I love Nota so much, he's intelligent MARA he disappoints me everytime he answers questions on his marriage. His reasoning capacity just switches from good to bad 😔
    I guess you can't be a genius in all departments

  • @phelosikhakhane
    @phelosikhakhane 2 месяца назад +44

    I do not speak Xhosa but I feel like saying, "Hayi bethunana"😂

    • @sinikiwembangi1867
      @sinikiwembangi1867 2 месяца назад +2

      I feel you😂😂yhu hayi hayi hayi bethunana!

    • @phelosikhakhane
      @phelosikhakhane 2 месяца назад +3

      @@sinikiwembangi1867 kuthafu oe😂

    • @sinikiwembangi1867
      @sinikiwembangi1867 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@@phelosikhakhane comrade took me out when he said "there are women throwing themselves at me"😂😂😂 hayini bethuna!

    • @phelosikhakhane
      @phelosikhakhane 2 месяца назад +4

      @@sinikiwembangi1867 heyi issa lot, nginethiloma😂

    • @sinikiwembangi1867
      @sinikiwembangi1867 2 месяца назад +1

      Mntase issa lot😂so much thiloma bathong😢ngaze ngay'sola bo😂😂

  • @Reset_With_Louisa
    @Reset_With_Louisa 2 месяца назад +6

    Promise you were born for this, your interview skills keep improving and I pray you grow and get more brand deals

  • @mrvipworlwide2269
    @mrvipworlwide2269 2 месяца назад +11

    a narcissist makes for a great story teller, they know how to win hearts of those observing from the outside. the person who carries the sword's edge of such a narcissist is the one who lives behind closed doors with them. I Doubt that Beritha was perfect. but I am certainly sure she wasn't crazy either.

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh5755 2 месяца назад +7

    Yoooh! I thought Nota has changed after visiting America but neeh,he is still the same. His x wife is never going around talking abt him.But he find comfort in embarrassing her,every chance he get.
    How can she really go back to him. He doesn't acknowledge that the wife is Talented. He pretend as if her songs were no 1 bcs of him doing some calls.I think he is holding on her bcs he think he made her,so he think he owns her. I dont see him anywhere where he show deep love for her without talking abt her music carrer.
    He act like her music manager,but not like a husband who love his wife. Yonke into ayishoyo udicilela phansi isithunzi sakhe. Its all abt "i made you",I made calls so that her songs can be no1,I,I,I. Nota without making her no 1 in music,but the woman needed a husband and love. Nota has ready answers for everything. He doesnt wanna listen to understand but he listen to respond. Always in a defence mode ay ngeke yooh! asoze.Isdina sendoda akukho thando la,lo ukhalela imali yakhe shwem.

    • @LesegoMadisaEllesG
      @LesegoMadisaEllesG 2 месяца назад

      Everything is about what he did. No tender memories.

  • @nyashabothwell5839
    @nyashabothwell5839 2 месяца назад +10

    his the only guy that can go toe to toe with a Lady and still win the Argument #AUTHORITY

  • @user-bf3vy4lp1u
    @user-bf3vy4lp1u 2 месяца назад +21

    Been going to therapy since I was four.😂😂😂 You didn’t stand a chance promise gale a thoma this

    • @hlengiweyourstruly
      @hlengiweyourstruly 2 месяца назад +12

      According to this Psychologist, narcissist usually manipulate, lie and twist things even with their therapists.
      It's really pointless

    • @user-bf3vy4lp1u
      @user-bf3vy4lp1u 2 месяца назад +4

      @@hlengiweyourstruly 🤣🤣 that’s why I was saying his a professor at this

  • @disciple8531
    @disciple8531 2 месяца назад +3

    I love Nota. ❤❤❤
    I love your stance on your marriage. I pray that your marriage gets restored.
    Enjoyed this interview, always enjoy listening to Nota.

  • @dieketsengfume5618
    @dieketsengfume5618 2 месяца назад +14

    Kore Promise cannot even finish her question without this guy interfering...Huu eee Promise I respect you sham

  • @tebogoramokgobedi2309
    @tebogoramokgobedi2309 2 месяца назад +21

    I don't know why Nota remind me of Young Sheldon 😅😅he is really smart

  • @mahlohonololebuso741
    @mahlohonololebuso741 2 месяца назад +60

    Nota has delusions of grandeur

  • @malekaletang8765
    @malekaletang8765 2 месяца назад +5

    Great interview. Not everything said was perfect but if u listen to understand you will get closure on what is happening in this guy's life.

  • @candyoabile5661
    @candyoabile5661 2 месяца назад +9

    We are proud of you promise...every episode is growth mami

    • @ladye1253
      @ladye1253 2 месяца назад

      😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @elonmyidol.
    @elonmyidol. 2 месяца назад +7

    Done watching I really enjoyed it.😊

  • @simbulele.mdleleni
    @simbulele.mdleleni 2 месяца назад +5

    "I don't want you to be like Beyonce." yho hay mna I would never have left Nota 😂😂😂😂

    • @NokuphiwaM
      @NokuphiwaM 2 месяца назад

      That Beyoncé comment killed me 😂

  • @HSN77
    @HSN77 2 месяца назад +10

    Way to go Nota. AKA died having been labeled as some violent abusive guy because he cared about preserving his 'wife's' legacy. Now he is not here to defend himself.
    Truth to power!

    • @nolubynature9513
      @nolubynature9513 2 месяца назад +1

      😅😂 lol Nota said AKA pushed Anele after the incident happened...relax and STFU 😂

    • @khabovilakazi7981
      @khabovilakazi7981 2 месяца назад

      @@nolubynature9513 No one knows what happened behind the scene Yes AKA is gone cannot answer to this.

  • @hlobilentuli2791
    @hlobilentuli2791 2 месяца назад +18

    🤣🤣🤣😂ai shem Berita must Run away angeke.

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi 2 месяца назад +18

    Yena he is smart but something is off...ekare he's on the spectrum.

    • @nothandodube7573
      @nothandodube7573 2 месяца назад +5

      You might be onto something herr

    • @nthatsh437
      @nthatsh437 2 месяца назад +3

      I try not to laugh mare😂😂😂😂. I mean should we be worried?

    • @neinei6611
      @neinei6611 2 месяца назад +2

      I think he is

    • @teboJoh
      @teboJoh 2 месяца назад +2

      Ray, I just laughed out loud after reading your comment because you summed up everything in one short sentence and you are so right 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @goitseonemonyatsi2767
      @goitseonemonyatsi2767 2 месяца назад +2

      I agree. Mild apergers?????He just talks with no filter. Something is just off

  • @palesamokoena8405
    @palesamokoena8405 2 месяца назад +3

    I thoroughly enjoyed this interview...

  • @kedibonemohale1802
    @kedibonemohale1802 2 месяца назад +2

    I love your marriage content and your bold and unapologetic approach to marriage and ultimately family....

  • @pastorswifempowerment.
    @pastorswifempowerment. 2 месяца назад

    I love you Promise and I'm happy to see your growth and progress. I'm motivated indeed

  • @MabasiaVisagie-mi1sc
    @MabasiaVisagie-mi1sc 2 месяца назад +22

    I wish Nota could listen more.

    • @Longfellow12
      @Longfellow12 2 месяца назад +3

      He's the one being interviewed what u mean😂

    • @ManMan-cl1gg
      @ManMan-cl1gg 2 месяца назад

      😂

    • @sharonmafagane6947
      @sharonmafagane6947 2 месяца назад +1

      Right? He’s been on and on and on 😞

    • @Bee61320
      @Bee61320 Месяц назад +1

      True, I find him really interesting

  • @palesatiti4324
    @palesatiti4324 2 месяца назад +40

    I'm sure the wife, keeps on saying haibo now and then listening to his. Surely thanking the Lord for taking her out

    • @big1ne
      @big1ne 2 месяца назад

      This... As I sit here, not even being the wife, saying haibo every 10 seconds 😂

    • @boitumeloqueen1580
      @boitumeloqueen1580 2 месяца назад

      Thank God that she left...yhoooo

    • @samuhlongwane5243
      @samuhlongwane5243 29 дней назад

      Good move by the wife... His just too much, no full stop...I hate these types of man who thinks whatever they do is always right

  • @MarryOnChain
    @MarryOnChain 2 месяца назад +1

    Marriage is a beautiful union between two people who commit to sharing their lives together. A wedding is a celebration of this commitment, filled with love, joy, and cherished memories. It marks the beginning of a new chapter in their lives, where they create a future filled with happiness and togetherness.

  • @thapeloashley4778
    @thapeloashley4778 2 месяца назад +1

    Nota i know exactly what you are talking about. I can relate like fully. Thank you for explaining this so nicely more than i could have had

  • @moshemoshes3580
    @moshemoshes3580 2 месяца назад +16

    This man makes so much sense🥺🥺 just listen to him. He’s the modern day YE.

  • @Kat-A-Pilla
    @Kat-A-Pilla 2 месяца назад +3

    Love you Nota don't ever change my guy😊

  • @takuforex156
    @takuforex156 2 месяца назад +3

    Blessed Up King Nota
    Its high time Men start speaking up for themselves

  • @gcebiledlamini118
    @gcebiledlamini118 2 месяца назад +9

    Iyhooo Nota xhem, he is a confusion, typical Narc, he can be extremely nice to his wife but Also bad....Poor Berita xhem, her life was confusion everyday. One moment he is good, the next moment its toxic. And I wouldn't be surprise if she can go back becauase when he is good its extremely good. She needs therapy to keep herself together.

    • @jabulilenenzhelele2179
      @jabulilenenzhelele2179 2 месяца назад +1

      Berita is in therapy. She spoke about this on podcast and chill

  • @ancientmeditationsounds7254
    @ancientmeditationsounds7254 2 месяца назад +3

    Nota is just a danger to loved ones around him and himself.

  • @Leboko80
    @Leboko80 2 месяца назад +24

    Nota is Nota...he is himself and unapologetic.

  • @nomaswazimagagula7814
    @nomaswazimagagula7814 2 месяца назад +13

    One thing about Nota his story is the same on every interview.

    • @tshephomanyothwane1916
      @tshephomanyothwane1916 2 месяца назад +8

      If it's the same it means he is telling the truth

    • @jabulilenenzhelele2179
      @jabulilenenzhelele2179 2 месяца назад

      nope, not always the case for narcissist as the aim is to tarnish the image of another and never account for their part. Their speech is rehearsed and replayed because repetition wins more audience and attention that they thrive off@@tshephomanyothwane1916

  • @LarnyVeliti-ov1rl
    @LarnyVeliti-ov1rl 2 месяца назад +7

    You have a gift that you're not aware of. Please consider a private consultation on marriages and relationships. There's a high score of marriages that are currently falling apart due to miscommunication and misunderstanding.
    Please request a private and confidential one on one session/consultation with Nota and Berita. This doesn't have to be published or aired.

  • @thevillagegist
    @thevillagegist 2 месяца назад +18

    Imagine being married to Nota .... I can't imagine it 🤣🤣🤣

  • @phiwosweetness9945
    @phiwosweetness9945 2 месяца назад

    What a conversation😊 Sana this guy's mind is way ahead I'm thinking he's reached a conclusion already. I have to give it to him today he spoke a lot of sense bandla. I enjoyed this one too much. Thank you Promise

  • @kgutsomakoti3553
    @kgutsomakoti3553 2 месяца назад +2

    I really wish Nota and berita get back together. . . ❤ He clearly loved this woman 🎉❤

  • @tshudumavhungu1593
    @tshudumavhungu1593 2 месяца назад +4

    we need a podcast called LIE LIKE NOTA

  • @ojewakeng
    @ojewakeng 2 месяца назад +11

    55:48 got so irritated on this part, I mean Black Coffee ungenaph?? Nota aowa hle

  • @makaselaentertainment373
    @makaselaentertainment373 2 месяца назад +21

    Nota is a Narcissists. Talking about his in-laws recklessly and still expects to gix his marriage is just crazy.

  • @phenyomatseke557
    @phenyomatseke557 2 месяца назад +6

    This guy needs an appointment at Tara Hospital ASAP Rocky.

  • @zandimeme165
    @zandimeme165 2 месяца назад +46

    Textbook narcissist, poor Berita 😔

  • @rudzanikharivhe6294
    @rudzanikharivhe6294 2 месяца назад +46

    Why comparing yourself with black coffee, you dont even exist in his world....keep yourself busy Nota, go and help SAPS with AKA case, you are very good with analysing

  • @tsholofelomhlaba8820
    @tsholofelomhlaba8820 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you Nhlamulo for inspiring & upholding the institution of marriage. It is still my prayer that you re-unite with your wife. What God has joined together LET NO man separate Matthew 19:6. Thank you to the host as well for allowing N the platform to express himself & for speaking an unpopular message & yet very constructive. I love Gugu very much by the way. Thank you to the two of you for 'Keys of Love.'

  • @tumelomarungwana9321
    @tumelomarungwana9321 2 месяца назад +2

    Ladies, Pray for a man who will give u peace and equally I must have peace too ... dating a mental conditions people is hectic....did that ans after year I left him ans I didn't look back ...best decision ever...only to find out he has been struggling with that but he didn't alert me .

  • @reflioekheswa6314
    @reflioekheswa6314 2 месяца назад +125

    The level of delulu keeps worsing every year

    • @SibsM93
      @SibsM93 2 месяца назад +15

      It's the only solulu for him my dhiye 😂

    • @evezazzle5974
      @evezazzle5974 2 месяца назад +4

      This is very serious and dangerous but your comment my sister in Christ 🤣🤣🤣😭

    • @masegomaubane6686
      @masegomaubane6686 2 месяца назад +4

      Every second of every minute😂😂😂

    • @lethabosiwa5861
      @lethabosiwa5861 2 месяца назад +2

      😂

    • @sthembisomkhize3823
      @sthembisomkhize3823 2 месяца назад +4

      It's "worsening" 🤺

  • @randomlady
    @randomlady 2 месяца назад +5

    No I didnt grow up soft but I grew up going to family vacations all the time😂😂😂😅😅😅 Tiktok is the downfall of my marriage...😂😂😂 All my exes see a father figure in me cos they have daddy issues....
    Guys you can be brilliant at your craft but be terrible at life😬😬I'm not saying Nota is terrible at life but I can see why Berita keeps her distance😂

  • @brianmthethwa2583
    @brianmthethwa2583 2 месяца назад +1

    After this interview I really understand Nota.You are real bro

  • @hlongwarebotile7029
    @hlongwarebotile7029 2 месяца назад +3

    Everything I know about Betita’s family I heard it from Nota without asking yet he wonders why his mother-in-law preferred talking to Berita in private.

    • @ng9047
      @ng9047 Месяц назад +1

      😂great observation there

  • @mantelekhitsane8935
    @mantelekhitsane8935 2 месяца назад +5

    Aah Jehova Nota can talk 😢jerrr this guy can talk 🙆‍♀️Promise ausy take your 🏆if is me aah I will stop cz jooh monna enwe ke trompeta

  • @nthabee
    @nthabee 2 месяца назад +8

    He asked himself questions and answered them... Promised asked around 5 questions🤣🤣🤣🤣I can never interview this little man!

    • @evezazzle5974
      @evezazzle5974 2 месяца назад

      Your comment made me LOL😭🤣🤣🤣🤣 YIIIIIIIIII 😭 BATHONG WENA!!!! Even telling her how to question him

  • @AmapianoMeetsTikTok
    @AmapianoMeetsTikTok 2 месяца назад +3

    His level of narcissism is scary 😨

  • @user-wh6zo8mc1f
    @user-wh6zo8mc1f 2 месяца назад +5

    Bring Nota again, here does have some valuable points. Those that think he is delulu won't watch especially for young musicians I think he'll make a great mentor. He might fail as a husband but he knows his job I remember he picked up Berita's song Ndiceli Kiss, and it blew up. Bring him back to share hie expertise.

  • @user-wh6zo8mc1f
    @user-wh6zo8mc1f 2 месяца назад +4

    Nota's story has been the same on every interview, he has never changed, he is telling the truth tle.

    • @Lisziomania
      @Lisziomania Месяц назад

      And he's very intelligent. He's one of those people who might not have a degrees but very intelligent.

  • @tshephomanyothwane1916
    @tshephomanyothwane1916 2 месяца назад +13

    If he is telling the truth, he is a great husband, he might have his flows but husband wise he is

    • @MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt
      @MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt 2 месяца назад +1

      A great husband going around telling the world how her wife's fart smells??

    • @rawtruth5730
      @rawtruth5730 2 месяца назад

      ​@@MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt you didn't get the point he was making

    • @jabulilenenzhelele2179
      @jabulilenenzhelele2179 2 месяца назад

      for the fact that you use "if" tells a lot about the vote of confidence in his statements

    • @tshiamondlhovu1243
      @tshiamondlhovu1243 2 месяца назад

      ​@@MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt😂😂😂😂I've never laughed like this bathong!

    • @MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt
      @MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt 2 месяца назад

      @@tshiamondlhovu1243 😂😂😂

  • @leratomawila4769
    @leratomawila4769 2 месяца назад +1

    Lol this interview wasn't easy mara shem you held it down ngwanyana 👏nkebe ke ngadile nna😂.
    I love Nota nna and enjoyed this episode. Lol by the way omotle and that dress is a 100%👌

  • @kholofelomadalane3593
    @kholofelomadalane3593 2 месяца назад

    Love ya to bits Prommy , you look so stunning babe girl ❤

  • @user-qg3up8ht4h
    @user-qg3up8ht4h 2 месяца назад +6

    I enjoyed this interview. Nota is a wonderful dude 😊

    • @Lisziomania
      @Lisziomania Месяц назад

      Same here. He's very open and say it as it is

  • @angelinahmoeketsi
    @angelinahmoeketsi 2 месяца назад +3

    Well spoken Nota. I'm not sure why he's always criticized. I think he's just telling his truth

  • @ojewakeng
    @ojewakeng 2 месяца назад +9

    Ok Promise you tried, you listened, you offered advice indirectly... Nota always wants to be right and have the last say ai

  • @floradube5529
    @floradube5529 2 месяца назад +4

    We love you Nota ❤

  • @lattoyahdiago-kj9fs
    @lattoyahdiago-kj9fs 2 месяца назад +3

    He can't even realise that his exposing himself, telling the world how he was abusing the wife.trying to play a victim mxxm his a narcissist

  • @makhosazanamadi7759
    @makhosazanamadi7759 2 месяца назад +3

    Promise your patience cc ,I applaud you 👏

  • @kitsokebaitse7814
    @kitsokebaitse7814 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you Promise for being tolerant ❤u ddnt fight him or cut him to ask other questions....