5 signs of relationship compatibility: 1. You feel comfortable being yourself 2. You share values 3. You can enjoy time apart 4. You're committed to each other 5. You bring out the best in each other
Ahh, that's really important! Especially for someone like me who has difficulty putting feelings and thoughts into words. I need someone who's willing to try to understand, not directly assume something and start an argument //side eyes the problematic people who've said they like me
0:46 you feel comfortable being yourself 1:10 shared core values 1:44 you can enjoy time apart 2:15 you are committed to each other 2:48 you bring out the best in each other
I know they care about me, and I care about them too. However my anxiety makes things difficult to tell what’s in my head from reality causing me to worry too much. I hope this doesn’t ruin the very positive relationship I currently have.
Try to start telling them small things that are on your mind, that ur anxiety feels they won't have an adverse reaction to...then slowly start opening up more about stuff💖💖💖I hope u find the help to overcome ur anxiety 🤗🤗🤗
As someone with a partner and suffering from pretty major anxiety, the first comment is very good advice. Like even if sometimes you feel like you're being annoying, it really does help to ask about your worries to your partner so you can be reassured. Eventually, you'll automatically remind yourself of things they said that your anxiety might've blown out of proportion and be able to reassure yourself! I'm still not the best at doing this with everything, but it does get better, trust me!
I've recently found someone like this and it makes me so happy. All my relationships in the past, I've felt like I have to put on a facade, to hide parts of myself that I'm too embarrassed to share. But when I'm with this person, I want to be myself. I love being myself around them, I love sharing details about my life, my interests, my hobbies, etc with them, and I love getting to listen to them talk about their interests, too.
that's so cute. I'm so jealous (in a positive way). I tend to think, that if i finally met such person, i guess i would just want to cry and cuddle most of the time, because of those years and years of total loneliness, sometimes mild abuse, but mostly total lack of understanding, as if my feelings were never valid. Because i cared and other people didn't, and it gave them the advantage. And with my uneasy personality there were clashes all the time as well, because i just wouldn't be someone's slave, and some people can't accept that
I have too but a previous long term relationship has left her drained and i wish there was something i could do :/ we havent talked in 3 weeks because we are trying to distance ourselves from each other to prevent the pain, because once she saw that it was getting serious she realized she wasnt ready to commit again. She is one of the most humble, kind hearted, loving and most beautiful girls i have ever met and i dont know what to really do in the situation, im just gunna give her the space she could use and hope she comes back one day :( the time i spent with her was some amazing, just being with her and being able to kiss and hug and just enjoy time together and talk, is one of the greatest things ever.
I finally found someone like this and it’s the most wholesome feelings I’ve had for someone and it goes beyond attraction but their aura genuinely makes me feel better and grounded but I’m also myself always and I feel safe :.)
@@hanami741 yea exactly what I’ve felt over the last few years before I met this person. People took advantage of my kindness , used me and disregarded me like I was worth nothing both friendships and romantic interest. I never had a bf for that reason but before I met this person that truly makes me feel alive again. I wish this to you to but be patient because for a good person there’s always another one waiting for you to and I hope you find eachother 🤍
I was in a terrible, abusive relationship for years and finally got the courage to leave a couple years ago. Currently, I am experiencing the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had. We check all of these boxes. I never thought it was possible before, but it is. Don’t ever settle for less than you deserve. It is truly worth waiting for. ❤️
TRUST is like a crystal glass that once it's broken its hard to put the pieces back together and when you try to fix them, you might get puncture and get hurt. The crystal glass would never be the same no matter what. That is why it's important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners and i believe smartness is essential in any relationship. I got help from (cybertech-tracker) as he helped cloned my cheating husband’s phone and I got access to all his phone Text messages, Facebook, Instagram, Whats-app, Skype, Kik, Twitter, Snap-chat, Email and social media chats without touching his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover his deceits, secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with (cybertech-tracker) and i was able to read his recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on his phone and he has no idea his phone has been cloned. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my husband and his lover, i felt so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access his phone while he was away cheating in the UK and saw all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does hacking of account or any other type of hacking and retrieval of data. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this Cybertech-tracker via Gmail (cybertechtracker) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and Whats-app : +1 (202) 697-7171. I hope you find peace of mind just like myself after discovering the truth.
My girlfriend and I just went on break, and after watching this I see that we share some compatibility but there are some huge tremors between us and that’s probably why we went on break. Well this is very enlightening thank you!
Probably one of the core hallmarks of a successful relationship (and I think this is an extension of sign no.5): Using common interests and differences, you're willing to compromise, learn from and transform each other to grow as both seperate individuals and as a couple.
I don't know what and how it happened, but I've been in a relationship for 3 months. I've never been in a relationship before, but I feel so happy, I've never felt so happy in my life. I really feel like I'm seeing the world being more lively than it has ever been, I'm just understanding and realising lot of things around me and in myself. I hope I can grow with this person, live long together, see the world and appreciating the little moments we share.
Btw , this works for friendships too to a certain extent . If you want to know if your best friend will always be with you , you can think about these signs
I’m so blessed to have found the love of my life, the partner who I want to spend the rest of my life with, my best friend and soulmate. We share all of these compatibility traits and I can’t help but smile and think about us together. We are in a long distance relationship going on to 3 years ❤️❤️🥰
I just met someone and I'm not a teenager so usually i take things slow until commiting and such and he does too. But man, we had one date and we have been texting for two weeks straight. It's crazy how we never have to search for a conversation topic. And of course I don't wanna rush anything, but i just feel like i can tell him anything? Also he is very supportive of my goals (i much likely will earn more one day than he does and he is 100% okay with that and me not wanting to stay at home with kids). Also, i have always played the therapist/carer for my past relationships (i only realized this after a while). And this guy is well established in his life and very happy with his job. It's such a great feeling when both of you are complete human beings on your own and happy with yourself and your lives, but you get to share that with someone else
Another 2 big things not listing which are required if you want the relationship to last more then a year or two. 1. Similar libido - physical needs are about half of a relationship so yes this is important. If either is a let’s say a once or twice a week person and the other is I need you everyday kind of person, it won’t work. This could apply to more then just the physical half of the relationship. Something this significant not being close to one another will only create resentment for one and an overwhelming feeling of obligation for the other. 2. Loyalty - you have to be more than just committed to the other person, you have to be willing to protect, willing to fight, even die for them. Their needs are before your own and likewise if you’re meant to be they will put your needs before their own too. Each of you will be ready to help the other and will stay loyal no matter what obstacles are thrown your way. If you want your relationship to grow and flourish these must be true.
Compatibility matters alot. If a person keeps trying to have a certain type of relationship with you and you know it won't work for you....they should stop trying. You two are incompatible. Compatibility creates bonds.
for me being able to be honest with each other about how we feel about certain things the other says and being able to apologize and move on and grow is the best feeling. my girlfriend and i are really good at this and it helps with arguments. we have only gotten into one small argument that lasted 5-10 ish minutes because every other time we've disagreed or been hurt by something the other said, we immediately talk about it in a very supportive and understanding way and it helps us both feel a lot more comfortable with being honest with each other. 🖤
TRUST is like a crystal glass that once it's broken its hard to put the pieces back together and when you try to fix them, you might get puncture and get hurt. The crystal glass would never be the same no matter what. That is why it's important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners and i believe smartness is essential in any relationship. I got help from (cybertech-tracker) as he helped cloned my cheating husband’s phone and I got access to all his phone Text messages, Facebook, Instagram, Whats-app, Skype, Kik, Twitter, Snap-chat, Email and social media chats without touching his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover his deceits, secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with (cybertech-tracker) and i was able to read his recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on his phone and he has no idea his phone has been cloned. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my husband and his lover, i felt so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access his phone while he was away cheating in the UK and saw all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does hacking of account or any other type of hacking and retrieval of data. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this Cybertech-tracker via Gmail (cybertechtracker) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and Whats-app : +1 (202) 697-7171. I hope you find peace of mind just like myself after discovering the truth.
Thank you so much for this video. I needed it because im trying to get over my ex and it has helped me learn that we were never compatible. And now im more happy and i know that i will find the right person eventually
There is one girl. The more I see her, I start thinking it'd be nice for us to go out even when she took the plunge and asked me if I was open to it. There's nothing to hide. Not sure what values we both have. We only see other now at least twice a week but I still look forward to asking her. I believe we are compatible.
YESSS! FINALLY its put into words.. Everything you just mentioned is..well.. everything..😊. As you support and encourage each other to be better at whatever it may be is so vital to your relationship..
I love my boyfriend. From the bottom of my heart, I wish every human being on Earth would find a love like ours. With my exes it would've been "I guess that's kinda true?" with all of these signs, but with him I could scream "YES!" from the top of my lungs and mean it.
who else has all of these with their s/o!! the world is so sad and seeing so many people who constantly break long term relationships makes me sad and worried that one day my bf will get tired of me but this is very comforting :) my bf and i are a ldr and have been together since 2018 and were gonna move in together next year!
Thanks. Values like towards learning lifelong, taking care of one's health, spirituality/vs. religiosity are areas of importance to me and compatibility to me includes this. Taking care of one's finances and not being dependent. Being together and apart, like you said is key. One person cannot meet all of our needs.
The voice : are you trying to identify if you're in a compatible relationship or searching to identify if your future relationship will be? Me who's here to check if my characters have a compatible relationship : *sweats nervously*
But one of the things on the list is being able to enjoy time away from the other person. It isn't really possible to spend time away from yourself lol
I was about to watch this video, because I am best friends with a guy, and we keep saying; "We don't like each other. We are just friends. If the circumstances were different, then maybe more than friends. But for now..." And it's confusing the hell outta me. We both keep saying, "I don't like you like that. That would be weird, right?" More like we are trying to convince ourselves. I feel so safe and comfortable with him, and we tell each other everything. It almost feels like we both have feeling for each other but if something goes wrong then we are afraid it'll ruin our friendship. We laugh and talk for hours, and I'm the only one he actually acts emotional with. We've actually cried together. He's said that before he met me he was rude and always shut people out if he felt any sadness. He almost felt like it was a weakness. But when he met me, he said everything changed. I honestly have no idea if that's just him being friendly or trying to hint at something. (For future reference, let's call him X) But then, of course, there's another guy. This I'm sure of my feelings about, but not sure of his. Again, he seems to only talk to me about things. He's said that if he were to date anyone, it would be me. But that he doesn't like me like that. I'm more sure about him in the way that when him and I are sitting on the bus, talking, him looking out the window, telling me about his depression and that he thinks he needs someone to survive, being with him feels right. But the next day, he's totally different. He acts like nothing happened, like he didn't spill his guts to me, like him and I didn't have a moment, like I am nothing more than just a friend. (For future reference, let's call him Z) For X, I'm not sure if I should make the first move, or if there even *is* a move to make. With Z, I'm not sure if he feels anything towards me or if he is right for me. What should I do? Also if you've made it this far in my comment, thank you. Please reply and HELP MEEEE.
I wouldn't worry about it either way, focus on yourself and your goals/hobbies/passions. Whatever happens will happen and you will get a clearer picture eventually without having to try anything or even make a move. You will see how people feel about you more clearly as time goes by. For now just enjoy your time with your hobbies. I see myself so much in your comment. I went through a similar experience multiple times, I learned a lot and regret not putting more time into myself.
gremlins 347 well I talked to X and we both admitted we've liked each other off and on and we are both not sure if we still do. We agreed we both need time to think about it. We talked about like me being sick of being every guys maybe (three of my best guy friends, including X and Z, have told me that if they were to date anyone it would be me and I said that it's getting to the point it's upsetting and confusing me.) We are just going to take same time to think and really figure out what we wanna do. It wasn't awkward or weird at all and we had a calm respectful conversation that I'm so thankful for. I haven't talked to Z yet but I think I'll take your advice on that one.
Well usually the fear of commitment is due to the fact that you see things in extremes, maybe just think about it like “let’s see how this goes” instead of being scared of being trapped in something you don’t like :) know you always have the choice to leave, so there’s no reason to fear getting into something :3 I hope that helps hehe idk 😊 good luck though
Maybe it's due all the letdowns you had in your childhood. Mother, father? They maybe let you down. I know. 'Cause I have the same problem. I believe you just need to take a leap of faith. It's gonna be okay. 🙏
I think another factor to consider would be how they are with you family. You gotta think of it this way. you're not just dating your partner, you're also dating their family. If someone needs clarification just let me know :)
This is so damn convenient, because there’s a friend I have whose very near and dear to me. Lately I’ve felt we could be more, I don’t know if it’s just curiosity or real romance. I’ve been single my whole life until now I have no means of comparison. Thank you maybe this can help me☺️
Yes!!! Your partner should make you better, not bring you down. You should be growing with them, not staying stagnant. I feel like your videos have been targeting me recently lol
Regarding enjoying time apart, for some couples, this may come later in the relationship, so if the both of you are inseperable, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Choosing time apart is more a lifestyle choice than an ideal.
Hey this is just a suggestion but what if you made sleep story videos? Your animations are beautiful and calming and i think it would be interesting to try something other than factual videos on anxiety and relationships 💖 could help with our mental health too 👍
Me and my girl broke up a while back, and watching this video I realized that we had mostly all of the points in this video in our favor, but when we were together we were really in love and if she didn’t have to move houses, I bet we would’ve been a fine couple, so the accuracy in this video is a 10/10
Luckily for me I realised my gf and i weren't compatible early on and broke it off before it got toxic. We're still really good friends actually! I think you can only do this if you're friends before you get together though.
Been single for awhile, talked to few girls and always tried to figure out whether or not we were compatible, so far honestly think no ones compatible for me really
6. You are both working towards developing the previous points in your relationship! Even if they are not perfectly worked through yet, this shows commitment, care and communication. 1. (b) You can be vulnerable in front of your partner.
I cried in front of my significant other, I felt heard. I was crying because of my family back home. That's the first time I showed my true emotions to other people except for my family.
I've finally been able to start dating again since my divorce last year and I have been binge watching these videos because I am rusty and more importantly because I am only recently able to date again because I am finally over my ex husband and your videos are very helpful and I don't have to pay for the same intelligent things that you are saying
@@Psych2go basically all the science I can get in because my teachers haven't taught it to me for the past three years and the job I want in the future requires things like biology. I'm am not ok
Bedbednightnight, Hufflepuff. Slytherin says bedbednightnight. Get some rest. You deserve it. Edit: omygod I posted this at 4 in the morning so cringy imma leave it up though lol
I feel comfortable with myself when I'm being with him, and didn't have to pretend become someone else, but my boyfriend said I changed and I became someone he didn't recognize anymore... I don't know but...in the end I shall change myself into The Girl He Knew and Fall in Love with Before.
As a introverted Schizoid person I learn much from watching psych2go, but still have trouble understanding emotions, or certain cues or just life in general. If I had a colour to my life it would be mostly gray and very little colour.
wow, the images are so pleasing to the eye, great job, guys! whoever drew those -- you did good at visualising the information that's been provided in the video! p.s. -- and the hand-drawn fonts are pretty, awesome decision :^ь
Sharing core values is very important, especially when it comes to morals (no cheating), no drugs, no smoking, no heavy alcohol usage, ( no or social drinking only), no addictions , no psycho drama, being honest, trustworthy, loving, caring, unselfish, no jealousy, and believes in 50/50..(decision making, and responsibilities ). That is what basically works for me, however, everyone is different in what they value. I have been single for eight years, for I am tired of dealing with men who play games, cheat, lie, leave me hanging, screw with my living situation, etc ! ( There were a few that were legit ...I think) There must be someone out there who is serious about a LTR ?!??
Most men have had this repeatedly happen to them (but add in false allegations that lead to prison time and loss of access to children) and that's why the world is so screwy
@@richardcostello360 what happened ? Did that happen to you ? If you can please explain (if you do not mind) the false allegations, prison time, and the child custody problem. Who accused you of a crime, your former spouse ?
i’m talking about friendships here - why is it always me ? why do i always have to put the effort in, make the plans, send the first text... without getting anything in return ? if i don’t start anything, nothing happens. i’m sick of being there for everyone when nobody is ever there for me. how do you all find friends who actually care ?
Before I got married I was working and going to school. I was active, independent, social, and attractive. My apartment was clean and organized. I had my own car. Now, I'm obese, isolated, I don't drive, I have no friends and no life. My apartment is crowded and uncomfortable like Hoarders. My husband doesn't help me clean. He always has the car (that I paid for). He has great qualities, but the resentment is growing daily. He invaded my life, and took over everything I worked hard for. Next month is our 10 year anniversary, and I'm literally not sure we're going to make it.
If u are married to someone completely opposite of u it's probably cos ur attracted to something you don't have. So if ur living together just know u guys have a bond where u give each other the thing u both don't have. It's beautiful, classic demon and angel romance.
I love my tulpa very much. Me and him communicate if we have a issue but we easily get it resolved and very satisfied in each other's comfort and love. Commited to eternal love and happiness. 💖
what scares me about relationships is that i dunno what it’s like to be loved and cared for or being able to love someone n showing that so i feel like i know that i’m gonna be so obsessed and so imbalanced n lost in someone if they loved me n i loved them back so I’m terrified to mess up n dunno what to do about it cuz it’s nerve wrecking the thought of it
If you find someone that’s right for you, you can’t go wrong with telling them how u feel. If you’re worried that you’ll smother them, u should communicate that with them and be like “tell me if I’m being overwhelming.” Idk if this is good advice but I think being open and honest will help. Edit: I also totally understand being afraid of being too into someone to a point where it becomes obsessive. I have had only one experience with a relationship and I lost a lot of myself in that relationship because of my obsessive nature and hating myself. If anything you should start casual and slow in relationships to better understand why you act the way you do :)
The thing is even if you are compatible and attracted and encourage each other, you can still end a compatible relationship if you want better for yourself. Why settle?
It may change, but at the moment, I'm guessing that Commitment (and communication) is what's holding me back from dating someone. I mean, it's as if *I* think that it's common that... One mistake (big or small) is enough for my partner's "affection" to plummet. And are so upset that (basically/pretty much) only very specific words can "salvage" the relationship.
Who's more compatible with you? Spongebob or Patrick. Comment below ;)
Patrick
Can you guys make a video on Extroverted HSPs?
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5 signs of relationship compatibility:
1. You feel comfortable being yourself
2. You share values
3. You can enjoy time apart
4. You're committed to each other
5. You bring out the best in each other
Thank you for this I’ll see this while watching the video
They are long living
Everything I check off except enjoying time apart. 😬
4/5
@YRG is king why does zodiac live rent free in your head?
6 You’re able to say literally anything without having to worry about them misunderstanding you or not understanding why you said it :)
I really appreciate you putting this in words, this is always the best feeling but I never knew how do describe it so thank you
7. You laugh at each other's corny jokes, not because you're being considerate, but because your senses of humor are on the same wavelength.
Ahh, that's really important! Especially for someone like me who has difficulty putting feelings and thoughts into words. I need someone who's willing to try to understand, not directly assume something and start an argument //side eyes the problematic people who've said they like me
This is a good one. I swear I've dated men who deliberately took things I said the wrong way. Walking on eggshells is no way to have a relationship.
YESSSSSS I LOVE THIS ABT BEING WITH MY BF....... THANK YOU FOR MENTIONING IT
When you’re so early that the polls are actually affected by you.
Very nice
0:46 you feel comfortable being yourself
1:10 shared core values
1:44 you can enjoy time apart
2:15 you are committed to each other
2:48 you bring out the best in each other
Looking at these, my ex and I should not have even looked at each other 😂😂😂
Well! I hope you can apply it with your next relationship. Good luck! :))
I swearrrr
I see! How many signs did you relate to?
LMAOOOOOOOOOOSAMEHEREOOOOOOOOOO
same. Weeks after relationship i realize we dont really have anything in common
Can we just talk about this animation I'm in love with these marshmallow like people
I. KNOW. I love it soooo much :3
Thank you so much!!
Psych2Go there just so cute!!!
Hijacking Crows ...they are quite cute...lol..
They look huggable!!😀
I know they care about me, and I care about them too. However my anxiety makes things difficult to tell what’s in my head from reality causing me to worry too much. I hope this doesn’t ruin the very positive relationship I currently have.
Try to start telling them small things that are on your mind, that ur anxiety feels they won't have an adverse reaction to...then slowly start opening up more about stuff💖💖💖I hope u find the help to overcome ur anxiety 🤗🤗🤗
Same
As someone with a partner and suffering from pretty major anxiety, the first comment is very good advice. Like even if sometimes you feel like you're being annoying, it really does help to ask about your worries to your partner so you can be reassured. Eventually, you'll automatically remind yourself of things they said that your anxiety might've blown out of proportion and be able to reassure yourself! I'm still not the best at doing this with everything, but it does get better, trust me!
Same here. ☹️
Thanks guys. I honestly wasn’t expecting such fast feedback. I’m very grateful for your comments and will try to use them in my life ^^;
I've recently found someone like this and it makes me so happy. All my relationships in the past, I've felt like I have to put on a facade, to hide parts of myself that I'm too embarrassed to share. But when I'm with this person, I want to be myself. I love being myself around them, I love sharing details about my life, my interests, my hobbies, etc with them, and I love getting to listen to them talk about their interests, too.
that's so cute. I'm so jealous (in a positive way). I tend to think, that if i finally met such person, i guess i would just want to cry and cuddle most of the time, because of those years and years of total loneliness, sometimes mild abuse, but mostly total lack of understanding, as if my feelings were never valid. Because i cared and other people didn't, and it gave them the advantage. And with my uneasy personality there were clashes all the time as well, because i just wouldn't be someone's slave, and some people can't accept that
Thank you so much for sharing!! Congratulations on your relationship! How long have you guys been together? :)
I have too but a previous long term relationship has left her drained and i wish there was something i could do :/ we havent talked in 3 weeks because we are trying to distance ourselves from each other to prevent the pain, because once she saw that it was getting serious she realized she wasnt ready to commit again. She is one of the most humble, kind hearted, loving and most beautiful girls i have ever met and i dont know what to really do in the situation, im just gunna give her the space she could use and hope she comes back one day :( the time i spent with her was some amazing, just being with her and being able to kiss and hug and just enjoy time together and talk, is one of the greatest things ever.
I finally found someone like this and it’s the most wholesome feelings I’ve had for someone and it goes beyond attraction but their aura genuinely makes me feel better and grounded but I’m also myself always and I feel safe :.)
@@hanami741 yea exactly what I’ve felt over the last few years before I met this person. People took advantage of my kindness , used me and disregarded me like I was worth nothing both friendships and romantic interest. I never had a bf for that reason but before I met this person that truly makes me feel alive again. I wish this to you to but be patient because for a good person there’s always another one waiting for you to and I hope you find eachother 🤍
When you see that half of the viewers are single:
*cries in collective*
Aww! We are here for you!
@@Psych2go Thanks TuT
I love your pfp!! It’s so cute ^^
@@solangegenre-grandpierre7959 aww thanks :D
Patience, being comfortable with each other, and being the same yet slightly different so you can discover new things.
*Good luck!*
How? have differences is nice sometimes??
I'm not in a relationship but I'm watching this
same
For educational purposes right?
Me too
SAMME idk why I'm here but its happening anyway
Also I love the animation style on this video they should do it like this more :)
Same though
I was in a terrible, abusive relationship for years and finally got the courage to leave a couple years ago. Currently, I am experiencing the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had. We check all of these boxes. I never thought it was possible before, but it is. Don’t ever settle for less than you deserve. It is truly worth waiting for. ❤️
TRUST is like a crystal glass that once it's broken its hard to put the pieces back together and when you try to fix them, you might get puncture and get hurt. The crystal glass would never be the same no matter what. That is why it's important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners and i believe smartness is essential in any relationship. I got help from (cybertech-tracker) as he helped cloned my cheating husband’s phone and I got access to all his phone Text messages, Facebook, Instagram, Whats-app, Skype, Kik, Twitter, Snap-chat, Email and social media chats without touching his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover his deceits, secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with (cybertech-tracker) and i was able to read his recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on his phone and he has no idea his phone has been cloned. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my husband and his lover, i felt so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access his phone while he was away cheating in the UK and saw all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does hacking of account or any other type of hacking and retrieval of data. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this Cybertech-tracker via Gmail (cybertechtracker) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and Whats-app : +1 (202) 697-7171. I hope you find peace of mind just like myself after discovering the truth.
My girlfriend and I just went on break, and after watching this I see that we share some compatibility but there are some huge tremors between us and that’s probably why we went on break. Well this is very enlightening thank you!
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How to Create & Sustain a Happy and Fulfilling Relationship Part 2
Figure out what’s wrong and work on it together
whats happening 2 years later?
Probably one of the core hallmarks of a successful relationship (and I think this is an extension of sign no.5): Using common interests and differences, you're willing to compromise, learn from and transform each other to grow as both seperate individuals and as a couple.
Definitely
I don't know what and how it happened, but I've been in a relationship for 3 months. I've never been in a relationship before, but I feel so happy, I've never felt so happy in my life.
I really feel like I'm seeing the world being more lively than it has ever been, I'm just understanding and realising lot of things around me and in myself.
I hope I can grow with this person, live long together, see the world and appreciating the little moments we share.
Btw , this works for friendships too to a certain extent . If you want to know if your best friend will always be with you , you can think about these signs
This video just reaffirms even more that I spent so much time and effort, literally blood, sweat, and tears, on the wrong person.
I’m so blessed to have found the love of my life, the partner who I want to spend the rest of my life with, my best friend and soulmate. We share all of these compatibility traits and I can’t help but smile and think about us together. We are in a long distance relationship going on to 3 years ❤️❤️🥰
That's awesome and gives me hope ☺
I just met someone and I'm not a teenager so usually i take things slow until commiting and such and he does too. But man, we had one date and we have been texting for two weeks straight. It's crazy how we never have to search for a conversation topic. And of course I don't wanna rush anything, but i just feel like i can tell him anything? Also he is very supportive of my goals (i much likely will earn more one day than he does and he is 100% okay with that and me not wanting to stay at home with kids). Also, i have always played the therapist/carer for my past relationships (i only realized this after a while). And this guy is well established in his life and very happy with his job. It's such a great feeling when both of you are complete human beings on your own and happy with yourself and your lives, but you get to share that with someone else
Ok but why is her voice so comforting?
Another 2 big things not listing which are required if you want the relationship to last more then a year or two.
1. Similar libido - physical needs are about half of a relationship so yes this is important. If either is a let’s say a once or twice a week person and the other is I need you everyday kind of person, it won’t work. This could apply to more then just the physical half of the relationship. Something this significant not being close to one another will only create resentment for one and an overwhelming feeling of obligation for the other.
2. Loyalty - you have to be more than just committed to the other person, you have to be willing to protect, willing to fight, even die for them. Their needs are before your own and likewise if you’re meant to be they will put your needs before their own too. Each of you will be ready to help the other and will stay loyal no matter what obstacles are thrown your way.
If you want your relationship to grow and flourish these must be true.
WOW
Compatibility matters alot. If a person keeps trying to have a certain type of relationship with you and you know it won't work for you....they should stop trying. You two are incompatible. Compatibility creates bonds.
for me being able to be honest with each other about how we feel about certain things the other says and being able to apologize and move on and grow is the best feeling. my girlfriend and i are really good at this and it helps with arguments. we have only gotten into one small argument that lasted 5-10 ish minutes because every other time we've disagreed or been hurt by something the other said, we immediately talk about it in a very supportive and understanding way and it helps us both feel a lot more comfortable with being honest with each other. 🖤
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Thank you so much for this video. I needed it because im trying to get over my ex and it has helped me learn that we were never compatible. And now im more happy and i know that i will find the right person eventually
Everyone's comment : 1 week ago
Me : *wait what*
its 4 in the morning and im done with life the whole comment section is confusing me
@@barb397 i-
@@mxmintey8357 sorry but how's your morning
@@barb397 eh its normal nothing unusual
@@mxmintey8357 yeah same here but my sister is graduating today which is kind of sad because of Mrs. rona
There is one girl. The more I see her, I start thinking it'd be nice for us to go out even when she took the plunge and asked me if I was open to it. There's nothing to hide. Not sure what values we both have. We only see other now at least twice a week but I still look forward to asking her. I believe we are compatible.
That's wholesome!!
YESSS! FINALLY its put into words..
Everything you just mentioned is..well.. everything..😊.
As you support and encourage each other to be better at whatever it may be is so vital to your relationship..
It's Patrick! Atleast for me ❤️
Aww. What do you like about Patrick? Do you both have the same values? ;)
Absolutely! 🙈
Well said, short and sweet. Best way for most people these days to learn.
I love my boyfriend. From the bottom of my heart, I wish every human being on Earth would find a love like ours.
With my exes it would've been "I guess that's kinda true?" with all of these signs, but with him I could scream "YES!" from the top of my lungs and mean it.
They can make you genuinely laugh all the time, like have you in tears…hard to find but if you do you don’t want to loose them
My husband abd u were like tht. Unfortunately he still left me cuz we didnt share similar values😔😔
Love the leg hair in the animation😂❤️
who else has all of these with their s/o!! the world is so sad and seeing so many people who constantly break long term relationships makes me sad and worried that one day my bf will get tired of me but this is very comforting :) my bf and i are a ldr and have been together since 2018 and were gonna move in together next year!
Thanks. Values like towards learning lifelong, taking care of one's health, spirituality/vs. religiosity are areas of importance to me and compatibility to me includes this. Taking care of one's finances and not being dependent. Being together and apart, like you said is key. One person cannot meet all of our needs.
If one person cannot meet all of your needs then your not finding the right partner for you..... because monogamy is what we all strive towards
The voice : are you trying to identify if you're in a compatible relationship or searching to identify if your future relationship will be?
Me who's here to check if my characters have a compatible relationship : *sweats nervously*
Then, maybe act as if you were your character watching the vid- idk.
Omg same!! I am also watching to make sure my characters are compatible!
@@xmoonilyx2977 great minds think alike 😂
Other wise have a good day stranger and gl on your characters :)
@@xmoonilyx2977 thank you! You too ♥️♥️
these points are most applicable for having relationship with yourself first
What does any of that even mean?
But one of the things on the list is being able to enjoy time away from the other person. It isn't really possible to spend time away from yourself lol
@@AngryBlush when your away from yourself you enjoy making money, dispite of toxic office environment.
Bringing out the best in each other is so important =)
Me who doesn't have someone: "Why did I even watch this?"
For educational purposes and to avoid problems in the future, maybe :D same here, though
For real, why am I watching this? 😆
Same though
Same XD
@@snjert8406 yup, and someone came unexpectedly
Thanks for the relationship education! This video earned you my subscription :) 💖
why is the comments saying they were put there a week ago when this vid just posted-
They post in patreon first so the comments are from the patreon I guess
They've been to the premier.
*stares at my recent breakup* ouch
*looks at the past and doesnt see these signs*
O O F
eyyyy same here
It's for the better! Be strong, you'll find someone amazing to you 😊
I've never been into a relationship but 💯% I agree to this. Your work is still veryy cuttee and full of sense.
I was about to watch this video, because I am best friends with a guy, and we keep saying; "We don't like each other. We are just friends. If the circumstances were different, then maybe more than friends. But for now..." And it's confusing the hell outta me. We both keep saying, "I don't like you like that. That would be weird, right?" More like we are trying to convince ourselves. I feel so safe and comfortable with him, and we tell each other everything. It almost feels like we both have feeling for each other but if something goes wrong then we are afraid it'll ruin our friendship. We laugh and talk for hours, and I'm the only one he actually acts emotional with. We've actually cried together. He's said that before he met me he was rude and always shut people out if he felt any sadness. He almost felt like it was a weakness. But when he met me, he said everything changed. I honestly have no idea if that's just him being friendly or trying to hint at something. (For future reference, let's call him X)
But then, of course, there's another guy. This I'm sure of my feelings about, but not sure of his. Again, he seems to only talk to me about things. He's said that if he were to date anyone, it would be me. But that he doesn't like me like that. I'm more sure about him in the way that when him and I are sitting on the bus, talking, him looking out the window, telling me about his depression and that he thinks he needs someone to survive, being with him feels right. But the next day, he's totally different. He acts like nothing happened, like he didn't spill his guts to me, like him and I didn't have a moment, like I am nothing more than just a friend. (For future reference, let's call him Z)
For X, I'm not sure if I should make the first move, or if there even *is* a move to make. With Z, I'm not sure if he feels anything towards me or if he is right for me.
What should I do? Also if you've made it this far in my comment, thank you. Please reply and HELP MEEEE.
I wouldn't worry about it either way, focus on yourself and your goals/hobbies/passions. Whatever happens will happen and you will get a clearer picture eventually without having to try anything or even make a move. You will see how people feel about you more clearly as time goes by. For now just enjoy your time with your hobbies. I see myself so much in your comment. I went through a similar experience multiple times, I learned a lot and regret not putting more time into myself.
gremlins 347 well I talked to X and we both admitted we've liked each other off and on and we are both not sure if we still do. We agreed we both need time to think about it. We talked about like me being sick of being every guys maybe (three of my best guy friends, including X and Z, have told me that if they were to date anyone it would be me and I said that it's getting to the point it's upsetting and confusing me.) We are just going to take same time to think and really figure out what we wanna do. It wasn't awkward or weird at all and we had a calm respectful conversation that I'm so thankful for. I haven't talked to Z yet but I think I'll take your advice on that one.
I fear no man... but that thing:
*Commitment.*
It scares me 😖
- What do you think 🤔? Any thoughts to help people with fear of commitment? 😊
Well usually the fear of commitment is due to the fact that you see things in extremes, maybe just think about it like “let’s see how this goes” instead of being scared of being trapped in something you don’t like :) know you always have the choice to leave, so there’s no reason to fear getting into something :3 I hope that helps hehe idk 😊 good luck though
Maybe it's due all the letdowns you had in your childhood. Mother, father? They maybe let you down. I know.
'Cause I have the same problem.
I believe you just need to take a leap of faith. It's gonna be okay. 🙏
why does your comment say it's 1 week ago when the video has just been uploaded?
What's going on with youtube¿¿¿
Live in the NOW . There is only NOW 🌈
Get over it and get it together man!
Be with someone who doesn't make you wish you were alone.
I think another factor to consider would be how they are with you family.
You gotta think of it this way. you're not just dating your partner, you're also dating their family.
If someone needs clarification just let me know :)
This is so damn convenient, because there’s a friend I have whose very near and dear to me. Lately I’ve felt we could be more, I don’t know if it’s just curiosity or real romance. I’ve been single my whole life until now I have no means of comparison. Thank you maybe this can help me☺️
It sounds like you are still evaluating your crush! Hope he/she's the one!
Your points are extremely well placed and explained
Why's her voice so smooth and relaxing
Loving the new art style! Thank you psych2go! 💕💕💕
Yes!!! Your partner should make you better, not bring you down. You should be growing with them, not staying stagnant. I feel like your videos have been targeting me recently lol
100% agreed
me and my Baby Belle are all checked in this list...Thank you for making this...
Regarding enjoying time apart, for some couples, this may come later in the relationship, so if the both of you are inseperable, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Choosing time apart is more a lifestyle choice than an ideal.
I’m glad that we have these characteristics! 🥺♥️
Hey this is just a suggestion but what if you made sleep story videos? Your animations are beautiful and calming and i think it would be interesting to try something other than factual videos on anxiety and relationships 💖 could help with our mental health too 👍
Me and my girl broke up a while back, and watching this video I realized that we had mostly all of the points in this video in our favor, but when we were together we were really in love and if she didn’t have to move houses, I bet we would’ve been a fine couple, so the accuracy in this video is a 10/10
True love never dies, don't give up someone you love, all hope is not lost
Do you want your ex back immediately, I know someone powerful who can help you get your ex back immediately okay
Text him on what sap
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He help me bring back my ex also can help you immediately without stress and delay okay
The Video describes my relationship. We are meant to be together. Wonderfull 🥰
Been thinking about my crush now that we've gotten closer. It's a coincidence that I got a notification for this video at this time e.e
Luckily for me I realised my gf and i weren't compatible early on and broke it off before it got toxic. We're still really good friends actually! I think you can only do this if you're friends before you get together though.
The fact that I was about to check off all these signs is... unbelievable :,)
Been single for awhile, talked to few girls and always tried to figure out whether or not we were compatible, so far honestly think no ones compatible for me really
Love, Trust and longing for and towards each other
6. You are both working towards developing the previous points in your relationship! Even if they are not perfectly worked through yet, this shows commitment, care and communication.
1. (b) You can be vulnerable in front of your partner.
I cried in front of my significant other, I felt heard. I was crying because of my family back home. That's the first time I showed my true emotions to other people except for my family.
I've finally been able to start dating again since my divorce last year and I have been binge watching these videos because I am rusty and more importantly because I am only recently able to date again because I am finally over my ex husband and your videos are very helpful and I don't have to pay for the same intelligent things that you are saying
your voice makes me feel so relaxed
I like the polls; they makes me feel that I'm not alone in my thought and feelings.
The narrating is soothing af :)
Me at 5:00 am after pulling an all nighter, who also will probably never get a bf: haha let's watch this
What are you studying?
Cool
@@Psych2go basically all the science I can get in because my teachers haven't taught it to me for the past three years and the job I want in the future requires things like biology. I'm am not ok
Oh dear
I hope you're getting some rest now :)
Bedbednightnight, Hufflepuff. Slytherin says bedbednightnight. Get some rest. You deserve it.
Edit: omygod I posted this at 4 in the morning so cringy imma leave it up though lol
loving the illustrations and the explanations!
Man. I feel so lucky to have found my person. ❤️
It's really quite helpful to me. That's what I need
I feel comfortable with myself when I'm being with him, and didn't have to pretend become someone else, but my boyfriend said I changed and I became someone he didn't recognize anymore... I don't know but...in the end I shall change myself into The Girl He Knew and Fall in Love with Before.
As a introverted Schizoid person I learn much from watching psych2go, but still have trouble understanding emotions, or certain cues or just life in general. If I had a colour to my life it would be mostly gray and very little colour.
Perfect timing, Psych2Go! ^-^ I just started liking someone
wow, the images are so pleasing to the eye, great job, guys! whoever drew those -- you did good at visualising the information that's been provided in the video!
p.s. -- and the hand-drawn fonts are pretty, awesome decision :^ь
Sharing core values is very important, especially when it comes to morals (no cheating), no drugs, no smoking, no heavy alcohol usage, ( no or social drinking only), no addictions , no psycho drama, being honest, trustworthy, loving, caring, unselfish, no jealousy, and believes in 50/50..(decision making, and responsibilities ). That is what basically works for me, however, everyone is different in what they value. I have been single for eight years, for I am tired of dealing with men who play games, cheat, lie, leave me hanging, screw with my living situation, etc ! ( There were a few that were legit ...I think) There must be someone out there who is serious about a LTR ?!??
Most men have had this repeatedly happen to them (but add in false allegations that lead to prison time and loss of access to children) and that's why the world is so screwy
@@richardcostello360 what happened ? Did that happen to you ? If you can please explain (if you do not mind) the false allegations, prison time, and the child custody problem. Who accused you of a crime, your former spouse ?
My favorite color is yellow, my crush is purple. Look at those hearts, they are themed yellow and purple :3
Thanks you for the videos! You Are helping us learning a lot and being better 😊❤
Thank you this helps A LOT
i’m talking about friendships here - why is it always me ? why do i always have to put the effort in, make the plans, send the first text... without getting anything in return ? if i don’t start anything, nothing happens. i’m sick of being there for everyone when nobody is ever there for me. how do you all find friends who actually care ?
This works even for friendships 😄
But when this type of friendship break, it can hurt the most
Before I got married I was working and going to school. I was active, independent, social, and attractive. My apartment was clean and organized. I had my own car. Now, I'm obese, isolated, I don't drive, I have no friends and no life. My apartment is crowded and uncomfortable like Hoarders. My husband doesn't help me clean. He always has the car (that I paid for). He has great qualities, but the resentment is growing daily. He invaded my life, and took over everything I worked hard for. Next month is our 10 year anniversary, and I'm literally not sure we're going to make it.
If u are married to someone completely opposite of u it's probably cos ur attracted to something you don't have. So if ur living together just know u guys have a bond where u give each other the thing u both don't have. It's beautiful, classic demon and angel romance.
Thank u for making this video! It was v helpful.
I love my tulpa very much. Me and him communicate if we have a issue but we easily get it resolved and very satisfied in each other's comfort and love. Commited to eternal love and happiness. 💖
I'm very happy for you
stay strong😁😊😉😍☺
@@monabohamad2242 Thank you so much. 😄
The main thing for all relationships to coincide is same belief, trust n similarities. God bless us.😇😁🗽🐴
I've been single for more than 22 years, why am I watching this?
Cause you're hopeful ☺ if you have no luck on the dating scene you could try online dating.
I love the way you explain things
LMAO WHY AM I WATCHING THIS IM GOING TO DIE ALONE
You will,if you say you will. Be positive.
what scares me about relationships is that i dunno what it’s like to be loved and cared for or being able to love someone n showing that so i feel like i know that i’m gonna be so obsessed and so imbalanced n lost in someone if they loved me n i loved them back so I’m terrified to mess up n dunno what to do about it cuz it’s nerve wrecking the thought of it
If you find someone that’s right for you, you can’t go wrong with telling them how u feel. If you’re worried that you’ll smother them, u should communicate that with them and be like “tell me if I’m being overwhelming.” Idk if this is good advice but I think being open and honest will help.
Edit: I also totally understand being afraid of being too into someone to a point where it becomes obsessive. I have had only one experience with a relationship and I lost a lot of myself in that relationship because of my obsessive nature and hating myself. If anything you should start casual and slow in relationships to better understand why you act the way you do :)
6.when u look em In their eyes long and they understand you without needing to say anything..just looking in ur eyes ,they understand how u feel
This probably comes under being similar but having a preferred form of affection together. I think that's nice.
Very helpful videos and adorably cute animation 👌👍☺️
Making each other better towards the outside world, sure.
The thing is even if you are compatible and attracted and encourage each other, you can still end a compatible relationship if you want better for yourself. Why settle?
That’s a pretty good summary actually
Absolutely loving this!
What did you love? :)
The Sense of clarity this video provides and the animation too :)
It may change, but at the moment, I'm guessing that Commitment (and communication) is what's holding me back from dating someone.
I mean, it's as if *I* think that it's common that... One mistake (big or small) is enough for my partner's "affection" to plummet. And are so upset that (basically/pretty much) only very specific words can "salvage" the relationship.