I can't Sleep | I'm in a Financial Hole with this Separation | Self-Talk #2
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- Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
- I'm now realizing how much of financial damages it is being in this relationship. I don't mind being the bread winner of the family, but when your spouse didn't put in equal amount of work... yet hide all their medical issues for their incapability to work... And now with the separation you have to split in half of everything you've ever worked hard for in 10 years....I felt lied to, hurt and so lost!!!
This might be crude and crass, but embrace the humility and frugalness that you need to endure as you transition. Be humble, reach out to your close friends, reach out to your siblings (if you have), reach out to your parents and ask for help. Put aside baggage you may have had with close friends and family and lean on them for help. You're not alone. Take a look at your finances if you haven't already, look at things that you need and don't need and discontinue subscriptions and whatnot for other things you don't need at this time. You can revisit them in the future. You can rebuy what material things you want to keep later down the road. Good luck.
Thank you, I'm trying to be frugal and humble.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Divorce is completely unfair when one partner is the breadwinner. You seem like a very driven person with a good heart. You’ve already accomplished so much, so I’m sure you have it in you to bounce back. I know it’s easier said than done, but just know you gave it your all and you still have time to accomplish your dreams. Don’t give up! I hope you can take time to heal and focus on yourself and well being for now. Just take it one day at a time. I hope the best for you.
Thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate your support. 🙏🏻
you grew up never been held accountable for anything. Now it's time you learn
Now it's time
Under Arizona's community property laws, you likely have rights to the gas station, even though his family provided the initial funding. All that time and effort your husband invested in the business during your marriage counts as a shared asset. When he worked to grow the business while you were married, he was essentially using shared resources - which means the growth and profits of the gas station legally belong to both of you.
With what's at stake, solid legal representation is crucial (avoid cheap lawyers). Stay strong through this process, and try to avoid making emotional decisions that might feel good in the moment but could hurt your future well-being. Wishing you the best as you navigate this.
Thank you for your insights 🙏🏻 God bless you
I’m so sorry for you lovely. Do you have any legal representation? Hun if you’re resenting the help you keep giving him, stop giving it. You’re not his parent. Yes he may have problems but seems he has a family that will support him. At this point you’re creating your own unrest and really you can’t help another if you can’t even give yourself peace. It sucks but sometimes we have to pay 💰 for our freedom. And you seem extremely capable, I’m sure though you may be “starting again”, it may be an even better chapter once you’re living in your freedom. I wish the best for you ❤
Those who put a price on freedom, have no freedom.
If there's a price to pay, then there is no free will.
Thank you for your kind words. They really gave me strength!