It's only when you get into your 60's that you start to figure out what you really should have done - and then it's too late. Enjoy what you have and don't get deluded with unrealistic expectations.
@@VOID-Venture_Geology There are plenty of honorable men, they're just invisible to you. The top 5%-10% of men are having to fight off puzzy being thrown at them (so they have no reason to settle for just one) while entire leagues of average good honorable men aren't paid any attention.
That is why I learned long ago to pay little attention to what women say, and focus on what they DO. Usually the two are quite different. Listening to women will drive you insane because of the changes, whims, lies, etc.
Imagine thinking only women lie in this world. I too started to look at peoples actions at the end of the day too. I had the same experience with men promising so much to me ''I am going to do this that'' whatever... And at the end of the day it's all about sex. Every human is complex. Everyone lies. Quit being an incel actually try to understand psychology and people
@@PunkBunniii You are the one that literally believes that just because some men are more interested in sex rather than relationships, it just means they supposedly taking advantage of you and objectifying you. You are the actual "Incel" in here, or "Femcel" to be exact. Have you ever wondering that, perhaps, not every single individual out there is sexually compatible, including yourself and those men who dated? Sexual incompatibility does not necessarily imply dishonesty. How many times do we have to state that is beyond me.
The system did not break itself. . . . You have a victim mentality and are unable to assume personal accountability. The citizen subjects have exactly the system they deserve.
@@VOID-Venture_Geology, you're entitled to your opinion, just as I'm entitled to not agree with it. And by the way, you don't know me, my dear - don't assume things based on nothing; my comment revealed NOTHING about me to you. "Beware of false knowledge; it is more dangerous than ignorance." - George Bernard Shaw Please don't embarrass yourself further, and have a great day. 😶🌫
@@FilipRanogajec Words are a window into the psyche. You chose those words and deny accountability for them now. This is my area of expertise. I can read into the depths of the psyche with only a few words. I was baptized by shame.. . .Perhaps you should steer clear of any further embarrassment.
It's difficult 😢 Family has been the greatest thing in my life. Do you want to know what the difference between the 2 choices is... (apart from the obvious direction you've taken) It's this. 1. Follow a career... it's later that people fully realise what they gave up, and any regret is futile. 2. Have a family... deciding there and then, what to give up, and not looking back with regret, and when regret raises it's ugly head, remember what you have. Both come with it's own type of regret, but money is unlikely to comfort anyone for the type of regret that comes with it. Family... are the comfort... for anything ❤from North East England ❤️
For most of us guys it’s simple. If we fall in love with a girl we’re stuck and forget everything. There is no choice. The only thing that can break the spell is signs of betrayal and disloyalty (e.g. her messing with other guys) or if she deliberately breaks it off. On the other hand, girls love to mess with the womanizing Chads - which leads to all kinds of problems.
Hi, Kira.Yes, I'm a man, but I can totally relate to what you are saying.I retired 2 years ago and right now.I'm still figuring out what I want to do after retirement.I'm very confused about it so I can totally relate to what you are saying
"The system broke us" translates to "the feminist movement lied to us" lol Recognizing the problems and lies are the first step towards developing solutions that actually fit your needs.
Yes and one of the most problematic problems are resentful men like you laughing at women for problems they didn't make. I'm sure you're buying into more bs than feminism, and pretty sure you're setting a bigger hole for yourself than the one feminists fall into at the end of their lives. You remind me of the blood lover who wears the cape of justice just to break some bones because he loves it.
The hard part is finding spaces that recharge us.... That's why we tell them _BE OUR PEACE._ But they don't get it. They see us sit down to relax and they come nagging. They make demands constantly then leave after taking all they can.
Good thoughts. To simplify it further, I think a family will give you love and purpose, while a career will give you purpose without love. A family's purpose is mostly beyond oneself but a career is primarily selfish.
Being self aware of how confusing and complex women are like that, is a big step in the right direction for you to attain what you truly desire out of life, in the core of your being. You're ahead of so many women of your generation and maybe even mine(Millennial)just by possessing this knowledge.
Could not agree more with you at 7:00. Family Guy missed a perfectly good "Men" cutaway in which a female customer causes a ridiculously overdramatic scene at a restaurant or clothing retailer about not being wanted in addition to flipflopping on what she wants as opposed to a terse male counterpart, which would be followed by a jingle that says "Men, we know what we want."
Freedom is a choice in obligation. Paraphrasing Jean-Jacque Rousseau . They more freedom you have the more you have to choice what you are responsible for.
For men, happiness and satisfaction usually involves acquiring both regardless of the beating you take along the way. lol I have neither. I don't have a dream career but I have satisfaction in having sufficient employment that pays the bills. A man who ignores his desire to start a family and instead only pursues money is just as likely to feel an empty dissatisfaction in the end because money is nice but it won't love you and bandage your wounds after braving the world like a woman can.
@@radfoo72 You are not entirely correct in that men can have both a successful career and a family exactly like women because of time constraints. For men, one precedes the other, first a man must have a successful career then a family may follow second. The challenge for a true masculine man to have a family and descendance is to become one of the top 20% of leaders in their industry who are influential, make an insane amount of money, and are emotionally intelligent to be able to handle a woman natural chaotic tendencies.
@radfoo72 you are correct its a lie on both ends. When you put all of your life in work you neglect the family both men and women thats why successful men usually have resentful kids. In life you literally cannot have it all or make everyone happy. Thats why its best to accept it or find a balance.
"The system broke us." You're right about that. I'm not a women; but I have heard that EVERY woman's greatest desire is to be a mother. Just thought it'd be helpful to share that if you wanted/needed more input.
No it really depends. Some women want a baby just for having a talking doll. And some are very sure to not wanting kids. It's not because we can be mothers that we want to be one. I'm saying even if I do want kids but let just be real not every women love their kids .
@@Baby_ghost__b I think the original message I heard from was more specifically referring to ***primal instinct***. I can only report what I heard, since I'm not a woman. I can't speak for women, but since the question was brought up if a woman had to choose a career OR being a mother, it made sense to share that information as a piece of the puzzle. Thanks for your input though, everybody sharing their thought and opinions helps everybody make more informed decisions for themselves. We're all living in very strange times, but we're also all learning together.
@@The_Sword_Saint don't worry it's just that I saw way too much people having the mindset that if you can have a baby that's must be that you want to have one.
@@Baby_ghost__b But women are the ones that prioritise parenthood and demand form men to be the primary financial providers so they can stay at home with their children. According to various scientific studies at least. Men are not the ones enforcing such standards. With such a mentality, I would advise you not refrain from having children to begin with. We have so many horrible parents in this world already. And we certainly do not need more of their kind.
That is harsh part for many young ppl that are indoctrinated from you age and than thrown to this totalitarian hell and it is rarely just happiness every after, everything has to be maintained and there are ups and downs, happiness is temporary and negatives are part of life and you cannot have it all, like how ppl in their 20 are to decide today: they cannot even get job after having college degree - LIFE IS JOKE!
being a beautiful model is what society instilled in you...because of your looks, and then the manufactured desire to maximize "fun", traveling, etc etc (don't get me wrong...nothing wrong with traveling and having a good time.) wanting to be a wife and mother is what G-d instilled in you...naturally. the wires are crossed when you try to reconcile the BS of today's society vs. what G-d (or if you feel more comfortable calling it 'Nature' or 'Universe') wants from you...that's when insanity, depression and mental breakdowns...come in. Hence, models are...drinking, snorting, etc etc...or if they have relationships, it's hardly ever normal. New boyfriend every 2 seconds on IG. new dude sliding into the DMs. narcissism. look at me. look at me. (we all know the deal.) You start off normal and then the BS of society convinces you to literally foment yourself into not being wife/mother material. (part of a greater population control agenda) it ultimately comes down to meaning vs no meaning in life. what in life means anything? The West without G-d, is a society that becomes allergic to meaning...and becomes attracted mainly to aesthetics. "Influencers", how things look, how everything makes us FEEL, etc etc. this is why we have all this bs in the political/social sphere today also, because no one knows HOW to THINK. all they know is what emotional reaction they get from x, y and z scenario or words or some concocted psyop that's fed to them on their screen. and emotions are part of the feminine sphere of the universe. but when you have too much of it and it's unbalanced, you get what we call in Hebrew...Tohu....chaos. instead of the mind controlling the heart. You have the heart controlling everything. our Jewish sages said: in the days before the redemption, the face of the generation will be like the face of a dog. The Hebrew world for dog is Kelev. the word 'lev' means heart. a dog is all heart. it could be a good thing for a dog. but for humans to be all heart and no brain?? very bad. chaos, emotional, unhinged, unbalanced, out of wack. hence, war, societal discord, collapse. BUT...it was all by design...by the powers that be. They want war, population control, to destroy the family, to destroy basic biology (trans movement), to destroy women's (and men's) concept of their roles (and no, i don't mean going back to the 1950s)..but there ARE gender roles, backed by biological needs and what men and women are NATURALLY drawn to. When you destroy all that, they get what they want. and what do they want? a modern-day Tower of Bavel. to fight G-d DIRECTLY. We know how that story ended for them. Grab your popcorn and pull up a chair :)
Hey let’s give the gender that’s renowned for their indecisiveness literally limitless choices. In life, in dating, everywhere. Then let’s see what happens 😅
I love this woman is so eloquent I wish I have a lady just like her her thoughts are truly certain, protect this lady make her happy lucky the gentleman who have her...
It's good you point out truths that women lie about to men. There is nothing worse than an ambiguous woman, which often reveals themself right when things are going well in a relationship. Once they have what they believe they wanted, it seems wrong and less exciting than previously thought. Why men cannot attach their purpose to a woman, ever. Because look at the strength of the mentality, it folds like a tent at any point in time. If you're meeting a woman who is still finding herself, avoid her. It's not worth your time. Work on yourself guys and look for woman who want to join your purpose.
Your videos are good for learning English. i'm from russian. -I love psychology topics and I love how different people talk about these topics and analyze these topics.)
You cannot do both! Most are not that lucky and will end up single. Most men look for replication value(age 18-26) and women look for protection & security.(this takes time for a male) The problem for females is you have limit time. Look down the best man in your 20's! Because at age 30-35 you have to much trauma and to high of body count to be wifed up.
Yea but its a hard generalization but not a false one. Im 28 and the chicks my age and older are just screwed up up in the head, too much baggage, the younger look better, have less baggage, not as mentally damaged but cant cook clean, hold convo, fix anything, solve any problem. Nobody is more disappointed than a man lol.
Nobody knows what to want in life, Keira So, its totally fine We dont have a "save"/"load" points to try and decide, we just go yolo, everytime Dont worry 🤣
Concur. Also, the Jeffrey Epstein story showed modelling is a high-class sex trafficking operation. Models may have the choice but they will be exposed to this. Millions of dollars have exchanged hands for one night with a model and a man who has way too much money to know what good to do with it. The woman will also, like it or not, get used to showing her body and being adulated, and will find it much harder to be loyal to her husband when the time comes. Likewise, the man will find it harder to trust and love her. Happiness, real happiness, will be fleeting, dependent on other's validation instead of the peace and trust in your marriage.
As someone who is now in his 40s, I would say that you need income to live but a career won’t give you happiness or fulfillment, and most don’t have a career, we have a job. If you do something that you love and doesn’t feel like work, then more power to you and happy for you, but very few people are lucky enough to have that in my experience. So, having a family is much more likely to bring you joy and fulfillment in the end, but you need income to sustain yourself and your family.
I can't relate to your videos as a man but as sad as I am its just nice to see you talk and agree with your ideas and principles. You are like a little sister, good luck with your model career. I genuinely wish you the best
To be able to be a good monkey brancher; you got have a firm root and footing. If you decide on that grounding; that what is possible will branch of that root. So Kira choose your intuition , connect to you and just enjoy your growth while connecting to you; not connecting to some expectation…🤗 Everything you do is RIGHT
Keira i can see that you are a kind girl and you have a good heart i really want you to study islam you will find what you are looking for ( real comment )❤
Women were the primary target for a massive psychological operation that has been going on for decades, and now here in 2024, we're looking at the fruits of it.
I can easily admit as a man, that I didn’t know what I wanted to work or my future until like 30, like I was a teenager until 29, I wasn’t ready to chose a major at 16, thank God my parents made me study something that I feel now was good, but back then I didn’t like it at all, I’m an engineer btw.
"How can you be certain you're on the right path" Remember those who have come before you, judge who has what you want, and emulate them. Do you want a family with a good man? Is your dad a good man? Do you know what one looks like? Was your mom a good mom and wife? Do you know what one looks like? Who were good role models around you growing up? Those are the models you should be concerned with. Without prior examples to go by, you're just shooting in the dark with inexperienced judgement. You can learn everything yourself and say "I get it now" in your rocking chair, with your cats all around you, or you can listen to the wisdom and advice of those who have already been there, done that and be much more successful earlier on. Be observant and remember good and bad examples of how to be. You seem wiser than most women your age, but don't let your uncertainty deceive you. Do you want a husband, kids, a family SOMEDAY, ANYDAY AT ALL, EVEN POSSIBLY? Then focus on being a young lady that would make a good wife and a good mother. You're a beautiful girl, you just have to play the role for the part you want and put yourself infront of a man making your interest known. If you've focused on really, truly living the role you want for any good period of time and a man sees this, then you'll probably get the part as his wife. Choose wisely though. A man you want is going to be a man other women want, and there are some chaste religious men, but also players and everything in between. I don't know your sexual past but you should probably try to match it to a man with a similar one who ALSO has the traits you want in a man. More important are generalizations than a specific "body count." Is he a devout Christian waiting for marriage? Are you? No, then is he a dater, been with a few women each for years at a time? Is this you? No, then is he a frat boy who spent 4 years of his life running through sorority girls and God knows what else? Were you a sorority girl? No, then is he a tatted up sailor out in bars and strip clubs every night and you don't know what diseases he's got? Hopefully, you're not a bar girl or a stripper, but if you are then you probably shouldn't go for the first guy on the list and just stick to the bar guy. If you focus on modeling or some other career, it's not just that it's a trade off while you do it, but its a trade off you can't ever undo. You will never be as beautiful as you are when you're young. You will never have less kids than you do now. You will never be less jaded, with less baggage, with less exes, with less sexual history for future men to question, with more ability to pair bond and be happy with a man, with more purity, with more feminimity than you do right now. Are you a virgin? Don't answer that but consider it. If not then you've had sex, you like sex and who doesn't, but you're not restrained by religion, morality regarding sex out of wedlock, ect. So where's the line? Is there one? What happens if you do become a model or focus on a high level career that prevents you from focusing on a man and a family? Well, you're not going to stop having sex I can tell you that, or I'd be surprised if you did, and you're not going to be having it with just one guy who's following you everywhere you go. The point is that all those things I mentioned in the above trade offs are going to keep stacking up for as long as you follow that path and if you change your mind at 35 and the modeling contracts dry up and the guys start going for younger girls, you have to start working for the man and family you want with what you have at that moment. There's no changing your mind and going back to the baseline of you right now and your options will FOREVER from thence forth be your best and only options. And no offense, you're a beautiful girl but girls your age, even though 24 is young, don't get into modeling, they're already into modeling. Unless you're talking about IG, reddit onlyfans, or pornography, models are usually already models by your age and they have been scouted out. I would hate to see a girl like you go down the path of only fans or porn or Reddit girls or IG "models" as those are bad paths to go down. I'm not saying necessarily to give up on your dream in modeling, but be realistic in that if you aren't one by your age already then it's not for no reason. I also think as someone getting into it a little late you'd find yourself as an outsider and feel very insecure competing with other girls. So I would ask yourself why you want to be a model in the first place? Easy money? Validation? No responsibility other than to keep yourself looking good? The lifestyle of expensive purses, coats, sunglasses, sexy bikinis, sex with hot and famous men driving around in their fast, sexy cars? All of the above? That lifestyle is only lived by a very small group of top percent models in the world, and not even that's just your fantasy created by only of what they post on social media, or film themselves doing, or rumors and talk, and then is that even a lifestyle you'd really want? Maybe it is, but you seem doubtful it is. If I were you I'd focus on saving yourself from here on for a relationship with a good and desirable man you want to marry, get a job that agrees with you or go to school for one, take care of your health and figure and in the meantime focus on becoming a good gf/wife for your future husband. But that's just what I would do. I like your honesty and introspection. Good content we need more of.
Horses! Women want horses! That was fascinating to watch your emotions and facial expressions, I've been alone a long time and I think I like it. I've never taken a job for the money, but for something I want to do, I don't even ask how much it pays! Challenge yourself alone and see what becomes of it.
If you can find the right guy, then I say get married and have kids. Modeling is a dead-end job because looks fade and most women start showing their age in their late twenties unless you have some really good genetics. My mom was a model, and it caused her to develop an eating disorder that she still had in her 50's. Long story short, just have kids.
You know what you want in life only retrospectively, we realize what is important only when it is too late - watch Pessoa. Also Lacan - Object Petit A (concrete + abstract universal)...
We’re all confusing in our own way… everyone has their own unique personality thats like a thumb print. That’s what makes us human unique. Have a great day & shout out from central Fl where the bears, bobcats & panthers roam…. Otters too!
I have found that when choosing a life path it is easy to get sidetracked by what other people say/advise and think and project onto you. Even when they mean the best they often project their own ideals onto you. Instead take a (metaphysical) step back and clear your head of all the white noise and ask yourself, why am I doing this? Is this for me or for what society says I should be doing at this stage in my life. Am I doing this for the attention of others, the dopamine hit, the gratification or am I doing it to develop myself as a human being. This requires self honesty. As you gain responsibility you lose freedom naturally over time but that's ok because with responsibility you gain more purpose. This applies to both career and parenthood. I cannot answer for what the right path is but only accept that there all always compromises and opportunity costs but that is life. Ultimately it comes down to what you think will give you the most fulfillment over the course of your lifespan.
3:08 Here’s the masculine equivalent of that vibe: ruclips.net/video/JQTXawaAKNA/видео.htmlsi=A3drDhwsB1hszp3P 😂 The context is random, but the energy is the same. People are faced with these daunting dilemmas where there’s the cake…and the eating and having seem to preclude one another-but they feel they’ll sure as hell be damned if they don’t die trying to square that circle. . . . One thing I’ll never get, though, probably-unless I’d been born a woman-is why women these days can’t just enjoy the freedom from being called to active life out in the workplace? Honestly-from my perspective, if I could, in good conscience, make a perfect transition into your position, it would be so, so, so easy for me to rest in my feminine submissive ego. Or at least that’s my current sincere belief. But then, I bet if a woman would take my place she might be more enthused about getting into Olympic level shape than I’d ever naturally be. lol We tend to overembellish the value of the things we’re denied. Or maybe at times we’re just not able to see our own innate value until we’ve clearly seen it through anothers’ lens. Similarly, you often see immigrants to America making so much more of their opportunities than us who were born into this life. Ambition and accurate appraisal of one’s potential is tricky to find sometimes. Who knows how many obfuscated goldmines we’re just sitting on…that others would strangle us to have if they could. We really need to count our blessings more, and be truly grateful.
You need a "Huberman Husband", a powerful man who will help you navigate your priorities - and that is your way to do both, and you most certainly can.
Most women are rebellious with goals that align with proving they can do anything a man can do, if not better. That's the bulk of the problem, but to answer your question. Sure, it's very possible for a woman to balance out career and family if the woman is highly exceptional on both ends with a man who has the desire and is able to get more involved with nurturing the kids and homemaking, but the general answer would be NO because most women are not exceptional and there are simply not enough men who are able to balance out work and family, especially if they're not business owners or working a high paying job that allows them to work from a computer. There are more variables, but I tried making it short.
A wise man or woman once said... if a big decision is facing you do the following: If you know yes the do it.If the answer is no then don't do it. If the answer is I don't know then you must be patient till you do. The Universe, as it is for most of us, doesn't work for you. The answer you so dearly want... you may not be ready to hear. But have faith that the Divine has heard you Now be patient till you get your answer.
Selfishness often times leads to discontentment in the long run if other desires go unfufilled. The key to that is balance and prioritization. Not everyone can have it all, sometimes you compromise a little here and a little there in order to achieve similitude of "best of both worlds".
Don't see becoming a mother as "throwing potential away" rather it's just a new chapter in your life, you evolve as a woman and you have the potential to serve many different roles that can bring you and those around you long lasting fulfillment. Getting locked into one identity based solely on career is self limiting behavior. Broaden your perspective, dear. You have the world at your finger tips, make it what you will❤
thank you for ur honest , u make it so clear work on ur career or work to be true wife true mother for good family for ur kids , its simple as that and tbh some women can do both but they are 3% maybe less in the world and its so tough for them they didnt even enjoy life , when someone hit 70s and find himself alone no kids no family no one care about him in that time he or she understand the important to raise good kids and have good straight family, we r in time that media TV social media against the human nature nd making the society worse , even they success to make ur partner who should be in ur shoulder as team to be your 1st competitor unfortunately sometimes ur enemy
I think a lot of women push away men there attracted too, perhaps scared of him not wanting her then realise they shouldve gone for it but then its too late seen it happen so many times.
4:14 I see you! We should start making Mothers (like you will be) into models... Thats the solution. We dont want those infertile looking models... we need and want models who are fruitful, fertile and beautiful mothers with lots of children!!!!
Thank you, Keira. Also, men look at your choices and priorities and they may choose someone else. You may not be there for them if you're there for yourself. Life isn't always fair. It's just life.
I got everything I ever wanted. What I would give to not be alone….to hear some kind and well deserved words. To have someone welcome into my bubble but holding a hand is more than I deserve, apparently. I think women are afraid to truely fall in love. It would hurt too much to lose that person.
"Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." -Al Bundy
haha
As a girl I love my girls 💕
True words left unspoken and he was right
name at least 5 women that can trust you in your contacts other than your mother (still questionable)
@@PunkBunniii are you being legit or quoting something?
It's only when you get into your 60's that you start to figure out what you really should have done - and then it's too late. Enjoy what you have and don't get deluded with unrealistic expectations.
That's a projection of your life. Like most boomers, you squandered your children's future by doing nothing.
@@VOID-Venture_Geology It's going to be a HUGE amount of millennial and gen-z's life too.
@@VOID-Venture_Geologyfucking boomers.
@@Billy-bc8pk The slaves are starting to realize they are slaves. I am optimistic, though their masterss are cunning.
It's everyone bro @@VOID-Venture_Geology
Modern women have so many options and attention it's no wonder their going crazy
EXACTLY
There are zero honorable men is the problem.
@@VOID-Venture_Geology don't make shit up
@@ajajpk so you've seen one .. ... ? did you catch his name?
@@VOID-Venture_Geology There are plenty of honorable men, they're just invisible to you. The top 5%-10% of men are having to fight off puzzy being thrown at them (so they have no reason to settle for just one) while entire leagues of average good honorable men aren't paid any attention.
The thing you have to keep in mind is that there are no solutions, only trade offs.
More women should read Thomas Sowell.
a keira pill a day keeps the matrix away
What color would that pill be? 😅
@@FilipRanogajec blonde
@@u9aq34u0ejg, perfect combo with my No.1 favorite; black. 🟡⚫
Matrix all around us
You already surrounded by the matrix
People are programmed to think that happiness comes from a career or from material stuff....
All by design…..your material possessions will not be with you on your deathbed
@@blackshadexlRoly on my wrist
The honesty here is refreshing!
That is why I learned long ago to pay little attention to what women say, and focus on what they DO. Usually the two are quite different. Listening to women will drive you insane because of the changes, whims, lies, etc.
Imagine thinking only women lie in this world. I too started to look at peoples actions at the end of the day too. I had the same experience with men promising so much to me ''I am going to do this that'' whatever... And at the end of the day it's all about sex. Every human is complex. Everyone lies. Quit being an incel actually try to understand psychology and people
@@PunkBunniii You are the one that literally believes that just because some men are more interested in sex rather than relationships, it just means they supposedly taking advantage of you and objectifying you.
You are the actual "Incel" in here, or "Femcel" to be exact.
Have you ever wondering that, perhaps, not every single individual out there is sexually compatible, including yourself and those men who dated?
Sexual incompatibility does not necessarily imply dishonesty.
How many times do we have to state that is beyond me.
The system already broke itself. The question is: will we allow it to break us too?
Amen🎉❤
The system did not break itself. . . . You have a victim mentality and are unable to assume personal accountability. The citizen subjects have exactly the system they deserve.
@@VOID-Venture_Geology, you're entitled to your opinion, just as I'm entitled to not agree with it.
And by the way, you don't know me, my dear - don't assume things based on nothing; my comment revealed NOTHING about me to you.
"Beware of false knowledge; it is more dangerous than ignorance." - George Bernard Shaw
Please don't embarrass yourself further, and have a great day. 😶🌫
@@FilipRanogajec Words are a window into the psyche. You chose those words and deny accountability for them now. This is my area of expertise. I can read into the depths of the psyche with only a few words. I was baptized by shame.. . .Perhaps you should steer clear of any further embarrassment.
Not only women, but humans themselves: we don't choose our desires or what we want. We choose only not to pursue it.
It's difficult 😢
Family has been the greatest thing in my life.
Do you want to know what the difference between the 2 choices is... (apart from the obvious direction you've taken)
It's this.
1. Follow a career... it's later that people fully realise what they gave up, and any regret is futile.
2. Have a family... deciding there and then, what to give up, and not looking back with regret, and when regret raises it's ugly head, remember what you have.
Both come with it's own type of regret, but money is unlikely to comfort anyone for the type of regret that comes with it.
Family... are the comfort... for anything
❤from North East England ❤️
Great response, makes perfect sense
Women aren't confusing, they're confused. What a woman thinks depends on who got to her last. There is even jargon for it: "social proof".
For most of us guys it’s simple. If we fall in love with a girl we’re stuck and forget everything. There is no choice. The only thing that can break the spell is signs of betrayal and disloyalty (e.g. her messing with other guys) or if she deliberately breaks it off. On the other hand, girls love to mess with the womanizing Chads - which leads to all kinds of problems.
Facts
cope, miserable western incel male.
@@PunkBunniiigg
I genuinely appreciate the honesty.
Hi, Kira.Yes, I'm a man, but I can totally relate to what you are saying.I retired 2 years ago and right now.I'm still figuring out what I want to do after retirement.I'm very confused about it so I can totally relate to what you are saying
Learn engineering? Restore a pet car? Buy ships in Star Citizen?
"The system broke us"
translates to "the feminist movement lied to us" lol
Recognizing the problems and lies are the first step towards developing solutions that actually fit your needs.
Not really it's more capitalism that lies to us.
Yes and one of the most problematic problems are resentful men like you laughing at women for problems they didn't make.
I'm sure you're buying into more bs than feminism, and pretty sure you're setting a bigger hole for yourself than the one feminists fall into at the end of their lives.
You remind me of the blood lover who wears the cape of justice just to break some bones because he loves it.
The honesty here is definitely appreciated. The system was specifically made to break you. So the self awareness will help you with making decisions.
For men it's easy we just need to work and pay bills and find quiet time to charge our batteries.
what batteries?
@@Thebest-wz7ufyour energy man...energy...how old are u
Retaining sexual energy only requires that you're not in a state of constant exertion.
The hard part is finding spaces that recharge us.... That's why we tell them _BE OUR PEACE._
But they don't get it. They see us sit down to relax and they come nagging. They make demands constantly then leave after taking all they can.
@@26MECHLeave it, it‘s IQ is just high enough to read and write comments, anything above is rocket science to that test subject.
Good thoughts. To simplify it further, I think a family will give you love and purpose, while a career will give you purpose without love. A family's purpose is mostly beyond oneself but a career is primarily selfish.
Being self aware of how confusing and complex women are like that, is a big step in the right direction for you to attain what you truly desire out of life, in the core of your being. You're ahead of so many women of your generation and maybe even mine(Millennial)just by possessing this knowledge.
"Don't look for a perfect man. Find YOUR husband." (your intended...by first tapping into your soul)
- Rabbi Manis Friedman
Could not agree more with you at 7:00. Family Guy missed a perfectly good "Men" cutaway in which a female customer causes a ridiculously overdramatic scene at a restaurant or clothing retailer about not being wanted in addition to flipflopping on what she wants as opposed to a terse male counterpart, which would be followed by a jingle that says "Men, we know what we want."
When you find a channel run by a woman with something between her ears, it's truly a divine experience
Freedom is a choice in obligation. Paraphrasing Jean-Jacque Rousseau . They more freedom you have the more you have to choice what you are responsible for.
Every video that pops into my feed I watch, and it reminds me each time how much I am looking forward to meeting you.
It's not only women who have to make a choice. Men have also to choose something similar.
no not really. Men are hard wired to be providers and get jobs and work. Men who dont really do that are not really men, they're overgrown boys.
For men, happiness and satisfaction usually involves acquiring both regardless of the beating you take along the way. lol
I have neither.
I don't have a dream career but I have satisfaction in having sufficient employment that pays the bills.
A man who ignores his desire to start a family and instead only pursues money is just as likely to feel an empty dissatisfaction in the end because money is nice but it won't love you and bandage your wounds after braving the world like a woman can.
@@radfoo72 You are not entirely correct in that men can have both a successful career and a family exactly like women because of time constraints. For men, one precedes the other, first a man must have a successful career then a family may follow second.
The challenge for a true masculine man to have a family and descendance is to become one of the top 20% of leaders in their industry who are influential, make an insane amount of money, and are emotionally intelligent to be able to handle a woman natural chaotic tendencies.
@@antikertech157 Not top 20% only 1% of men are like this.
@radfoo72 you are correct its a lie on both ends. When you put all of your life in work you neglect the family both men and women thats why successful men usually have resentful kids. In life you literally cannot have it all or make everyone happy. Thats why its best to accept it or find a balance.
I really really appreciate your authenticity... love you, love you all...
Women confuse 😕 but men know what they want 😏
Great 👍 to see the clear divide between money 💰 and a family.
"The system broke us." You're right about that.
I'm not a women; but I have heard that EVERY woman's greatest desire is to be a mother.
Just thought it'd be helpful to share that if you wanted/needed more input.
No it really depends. Some women want a baby just for having a talking doll. And some are very sure to not wanting kids.
It's not because we can be mothers that we want to be one.
I'm saying even if I do want kids but let just be real not every women love their kids .
@@Baby_ghost__b I think the original message I heard from was more specifically referring to ***primal instinct***.
I can only report what I heard, since I'm not a woman.
I can't speak for women, but since the question was brought up if a woman had to choose a career OR being a mother, it made sense to share that information as a piece of the puzzle.
Thanks for your input though, everybody sharing their thought and opinions helps everybody make more informed decisions for themselves.
We're all living in very strange times, but we're also all learning together.
@@The_Sword_Saint don't worry it's just that I saw way too much people having the mindset that if you can have a baby that's must be that you want to have one.
@@Baby_ghost__b You're right; that's not a very good reason lol.
@@Baby_ghost__b But women are the ones that prioritise parenthood and demand form men to be the primary financial providers so they can stay at home with their children.
According to various scientific studies at least.
Men are not the ones enforcing such standards.
With such a mentality, I would advise you not refrain from having children to begin with.
We have so many horrible parents in this world already.
And we certainly do not need more of their kind.
That is harsh part for many young ppl that are indoctrinated from you age and than thrown to this totalitarian hell and it is rarely just happiness every after, everything has to be maintained and there are ups and downs, happiness is temporary and negatives are part of life and you cannot have it all, like how ppl in their 20 are to decide today: they cannot even get job after having college degree - LIFE IS JOKE!
Keira is the most confusing of them all.
😂😂
"A career or a family" as if those are the only two options in life. Nevermind how we even define "career" or "family" yet...
being a beautiful model is what society instilled in you...because of your looks, and then the manufactured desire to maximize "fun", traveling, etc etc
(don't get me wrong...nothing wrong with traveling and having a good time.)
wanting to be a wife and mother is what G-d instilled in you...naturally.
the wires are crossed when you try to reconcile the BS of today's society vs. what G-d (or if you feel more comfortable calling it 'Nature' or 'Universe') wants from you...that's when insanity, depression and mental breakdowns...come in.
Hence, models are...drinking, snorting, etc etc...or if they have relationships, it's hardly ever normal. New boyfriend every 2 seconds on IG. new dude sliding into the DMs. narcissism. look at me. look at me. (we all know the deal.)
You start off normal and then the BS of society convinces you to literally foment yourself into not being wife/mother material.
(part of a greater population control agenda)
it ultimately comes down to meaning vs no meaning in life. what in life means anything?
The West without G-d, is a society that becomes allergic to meaning...and becomes attracted mainly to aesthetics.
"Influencers", how things look, how everything makes us FEEL, etc etc.
this is why we have all this bs in the political/social sphere today also, because no one knows HOW to THINK. all they know is what emotional reaction they get from x, y and z scenario or words or some concocted psyop that's fed to them on their screen.
and emotions are part of the feminine sphere of the universe. but when you have too much of it and it's unbalanced, you get what we call in Hebrew...Tohu....chaos.
instead of the mind controlling the heart. You have the heart controlling everything.
our Jewish sages said: in the days before the redemption, the face of the generation will be like the face of a dog.
The Hebrew world for dog is Kelev. the word 'lev' means heart. a dog is all heart. it could be a good thing for a dog.
but for humans to be all heart and no brain?? very bad. chaos, emotional, unhinged, unbalanced, out of wack.
hence, war, societal discord, collapse. BUT...it was all by design...by the powers that be.
They want war, population control, to destroy the family, to destroy basic biology (trans movement), to destroy women's (and men's) concept of their roles (and no, i don't mean going back to the 1950s)..but there ARE gender roles, backed by biological needs and what men and women are NATURALLY drawn to.
When you destroy all that, they get what they want. and what do they want? a modern-day Tower of Bavel. to fight G-d DIRECTLY.
We know how that story ended for them. Grab your popcorn and pull up a chair :)
Hey let’s give the gender that’s renowned for their indecisiveness literally limitless choices. In life, in dating, everywhere. Then let’s see what happens 😅
What were they thinking?
Let's let them run companies and countries too. Another great idea.
Oh no no no
I love this woman is so eloquent I wish I have a lady just like her her thoughts are truly certain, protect this lady make her happy lucky the gentleman who have her...
It's good you point out truths that women lie about to men. There is nothing worse than an ambiguous woman, which often reveals themself right when things are going well in a relationship. Once they have what they believe they wanted, it seems wrong and less exciting than previously thought. Why men cannot attach their purpose to a woman, ever. Because look at the strength of the mentality, it folds like a tent at any point in time. If you're meeting a woman who is still finding herself, avoid her. It's not worth your time. Work on yourself guys and look for woman who want to join your purpose.
Keira, I think you should read Ève Salvail's book on modeling in the 90s titled « Sois Toi et T'es Belle » (Be You and You're Beautiful).
Which is a clever play on words with "Sois Belle et tais-toi" (Be Beautiful and shush)
Choose wisely while you are still young.
This passion and ambition is attractive.
lol. Such a fire inside.
Your videos are good for learning English. i'm from russian. -I love psychology topics and I love how different people talk about these topics and analyze these topics.)
You cannot do both! Most are not that lucky and will end up single. Most men look for replication value(age 18-26) and women look for protection & security.(this takes time for a male)
The problem for females is you have limit time. Look down the best man in your 20's! Because at age 30-35 you have to much trauma and to high of body count to be wifed up.
Yea but its a hard generalization but not a false one. Im 28 and the chicks my age and older are just screwed up up in the head, too much baggage, the younger look better, have less baggage, not as mentally damaged but cant cook clean, hold convo, fix anything, solve any problem. Nobody is more disappointed than a man lol.
"You are a shining example !" - No, just joking, you seem to be one very fine & special specimen of your species. That's truly my notion.
Keep life as simple when possible. That's my goal.
Nobody knows what to want in life, Keira
So, its totally fine
We dont have a "save"/"load" points to try and decide, we just go yolo, everytime
Dont worry 🤣
I don't pay attention to what woman say they want, I only pay attention to what they respond to.
this is actually said a lot, its just dismissed as misogyny or oppression
Women are built to survive all possibilities, hence the ability to go many different ways.
You should not want to become a model. It's selling your body.
And the face too....
The soul...etc
This chick is delusional if she thinks she can make it as a model. She's already 23 or 24.
@@kbrewski1 She will be 24 in October.
Concur. Also, the Jeffrey Epstein story showed modelling is a high-class sex trafficking operation. Models may have the choice but they will be exposed to this. Millions of dollars have exchanged hands for one night with a model and a man who has way too much money to know what good to do with it. The woman will also, like it or not, get used to showing her body and being adulated, and will find it much harder to be loyal to her husband when the time comes. Likewise, the man will find it harder to trust and love her. Happiness, real happiness, will be fleeting, dependent on other's validation instead of the peace and trust in your marriage.
As someone who is now in his 40s, I would say that you need income to live but a career won’t give you happiness or fulfillment, and most don’t have a career, we have a job. If you do something that you love and doesn’t feel like work, then more power to you and happy for you, but very few people are lucky enough to have that in my experience. So, having a family is much more likely to bring you joy and fulfillment in the end, but you need income to sustain yourself and your family.
I can't relate to your videos as a man but as sad as I am its just nice to see you talk and agree with your ideas and principles. You are like a little sister, good luck with your model career. I genuinely wish you the best
Thank you! You too.
Have an amazing wonderful day girl. ❤
All I can say is Glory to God for all things.
To be able to be a good monkey brancher; you got have a firm root and footing. If you decide on that grounding; that what is possible will branch of that root. So Kira choose your intuition , connect to you and just enjoy your growth while connecting to you; not connecting to some expectation…🤗 Everything you do is RIGHT
Keira i can see that you are a kind girl and you have a good heart i really want you to study islam you will find what you are looking for ( real comment )❤
Women were the primary target for a massive psychological operation that has been going on for decades, and now here in 2024, we're looking at the fruits of it.
Keira is adorable.
You want a family, most likely. Everyone chases a lot of different things, but what they really want is a family and community.
Im so oroud of generation z women like this. Salute from a millennial ❤
Girl… you need a hug.
I can easily admit as a man, that I didn’t know what I wanted to work or my future until like 30, like I was a teenager until 29, I wasn’t ready to chose a major at 16, thank God my parents made me study something that I feel now was good, but back then I didn’t like it at all, I’m an engineer btw.
The system is a garbage, It is complety broke 👎
The people are broken and the system picks up the slack. Assume some personal accountability for once in your life!
@@VOID-Venture_Geology Whatever fuckin bot system and your lies 🖕
@@kicker_leopard8685 Are you going to be, okay?
@@VOID-Venture_Geology Stop to be a robot, fix your system😒
Regardless of what path you choose, neither is guarenteed security and success.
I think we all have issues to face as people- men and women alike.
What is natural? That's what you can be certain about. The choices make themselves.
Nothing is perfect.
"How can you be certain you're on the right path"
Remember those who have come before you, judge who has what you want, and emulate them.
Do you want a family with a good man? Is your dad a good man? Do you know what one looks like? Was your mom a good mom and wife? Do you know what one looks like? Who were good role models around you growing up? Those are the models you should be concerned with. Without prior examples to go by, you're just shooting in the dark with inexperienced judgement.
You can learn everything yourself and say "I get it now" in your rocking chair, with your cats all around you, or you can listen to the wisdom and advice of those who have already been there, done that and be much more successful earlier on. Be observant and remember good and bad examples of how to be.
You seem wiser than most women your age, but don't let your uncertainty deceive you. Do you want a husband, kids, a family SOMEDAY, ANYDAY AT ALL, EVEN POSSIBLY? Then focus on being a young lady that would make a good wife and a good mother. You're a beautiful girl, you just have to play the role for the part you want and put yourself infront of a man making your interest known. If you've focused on really, truly living the role you want for any good period of time and a man sees this, then you'll probably get the part as his wife. Choose wisely though.
A man you want is going to be a man other women want, and there are some chaste religious men, but also players and everything in between. I don't know your sexual past but you should probably try to match it to a man with a similar one who ALSO has the traits you want in a man. More important are generalizations than a specific "body count." Is he a devout Christian waiting for marriage? Are you? No, then is he a dater, been with a few women each for years at a time? Is this you? No, then is he a frat boy who spent 4 years of his life running through sorority girls and God knows what else? Were you a sorority girl? No, then is he a tatted up sailor out in bars and strip clubs every night and you don't know what diseases he's got? Hopefully, you're not a bar girl or a stripper, but if you are then you probably shouldn't go for the first guy on the list and just stick to the bar guy.
If you focus on modeling or some other career, it's not just that it's a trade off while you do it, but its a trade off you can't ever undo. You will never be as beautiful as you are when you're young. You will never have less kids than you do now. You will never be less jaded, with less baggage, with less exes, with less sexual history for future men to question, with more ability to pair bond and be happy with a man, with more purity, with more feminimity than you do right now.
Are you a virgin? Don't answer that but consider it. If not then you've had sex, you like sex and who doesn't, but you're not restrained by religion, morality regarding sex out of wedlock, ect. So where's the line? Is there one? What happens if you do become a model or focus on a high level career that prevents you from focusing on a man and a family? Well, you're not going to stop having sex I can tell you that, or I'd be surprised if you did, and you're not going to be having it with just one guy who's following you everywhere you go. The point is that all those things I mentioned in the above trade offs are going to keep stacking up for as long as you follow that path and if you change your mind at 35 and the modeling contracts dry up and the guys start going for younger girls, you have to start working for the man and family you want with what you have at that moment. There's no changing your mind and going back to the baseline of you right now and your options will FOREVER from thence forth be your best and only options.
And no offense, you're a beautiful girl but girls your age, even though 24 is young, don't get into modeling, they're already into modeling. Unless you're talking about IG, reddit onlyfans, or pornography, models are usually already models by your age and they have been scouted out. I would hate to see a girl like you go down the path of only fans or porn or Reddit girls or IG "models" as those are bad paths to go down.
I'm not saying necessarily to give up on your dream in modeling, but be realistic in that if you aren't one by your age already then it's not for no reason. I also think as someone getting into it a little late you'd find yourself as an outsider and feel very insecure competing with other girls. So I would ask yourself why you want to be a model in the first place? Easy money? Validation? No responsibility other than to keep yourself looking good? The lifestyle of expensive purses, coats, sunglasses, sexy bikinis, sex with hot and famous men driving around in their fast, sexy cars? All of the above? That lifestyle is only lived by a very small group of top percent models in the world, and not even that's just your fantasy created by only of what they post on social media, or film themselves doing, or rumors and talk, and then is that even a lifestyle you'd really want?
Maybe it is, but you seem doubtful it is. If I were you I'd focus on saving yourself from here on for a relationship with a good and desirable man you want to marry, get a job that agrees with you or go to school for one, take care of your health and figure and in the meantime focus on becoming a good gf/wife for your future husband. But that's just what I would do.
I like your honesty and introspection. Good content we need more of.
Colab with Gerbert Johnson please!!!
eagle to bravo1: I'm deep into enemy's territory, over
Horses! Women want horses! That was fascinating to watch your emotions and facial expressions, I've been alone a long time and I think I like it. I've never taken a job for the money, but for something I want to do, I don't even ask how much it pays! Challenge yourself alone and see what becomes of it.
If you can find the right guy, then I say get married and have kids. Modeling is a dead-end job because looks fade and most women start showing their age in their late twenties unless you have some really good genetics. My mom was a model, and it caused her to develop an eating disorder that she still had in her 50's.
Long story short, just have kids.
Lol best comment yet
She is a rare woman.
You know what you want in life only retrospectively, we realize what is important only when it is too late - watch Pessoa. Also Lacan - Object Petit A (concrete + abstract universal)...
We’re all confusing in our own way… everyone has their own unique personality thats like a thumb print. That’s what makes us human unique.
Have a great day & shout out from central Fl where the bears, bobcats & panthers roam…. Otters too!
regarding the 2 ways of life, there are infinite ways of life, how you only came up with 2 is MIND BLOWING to me
Look at the spirit.
I have found that when choosing a life path it is easy to get sidetracked by what other people say/advise and think and project onto you. Even when they mean the best they often project their own ideals onto you.
Instead take a (metaphysical) step back and clear your head of all the white noise and ask yourself, why am I doing this? Is this for me or for what society says I should be doing at this stage in my life. Am I doing this for the attention of others, the dopamine hit, the gratification or am I doing it to develop myself as a human being. This requires self honesty.
As you gain responsibility you lose freedom naturally over time but that's ok because with responsibility you gain more purpose. This applies to both career and parenthood.
I cannot answer for what the right path is but only accept that there all always compromises and opportunity costs but that is life. Ultimately it comes down to what you think will give you the most fulfillment over the course of your lifespan.
It’s a good thing y’all have men to pick up the slack
3:08 Here’s the masculine equivalent of that vibe: ruclips.net/video/JQTXawaAKNA/видео.htmlsi=A3drDhwsB1hszp3P 😂 The context is random, but the energy is the same.
People are faced with these daunting dilemmas where there’s the cake…and the eating and having seem to preclude one another-but they feel they’ll sure as hell be damned if they don’t die trying to square that circle.
. . .
One thing I’ll never get, though, probably-unless I’d been born a woman-is why women these days can’t just enjoy the freedom from being called to active life out in the workplace?
Honestly-from my perspective, if I could, in good conscience, make a perfect transition into your position, it would be so, so, so easy for me to rest in my feminine submissive ego. Or at least that’s my current sincere belief.
But then, I bet if a woman would take my place she might be more enthused about getting into Olympic level shape than I’d ever naturally be. lol
We tend to overembellish the value of the things we’re denied. Or maybe at times we’re just not able to see our own innate value until we’ve clearly seen it through anothers’ lens.
Similarly, you often see immigrants to America making so much more of their opportunities than us who were born into this life.
Ambition and accurate appraisal of one’s potential is tricky to find sometimes. Who knows how many obfuscated goldmines we’re just sitting on…that others would strangle us to have if they could. We really need to count our blessings more, and be truly grateful.
You are very self aware great to ask these questions about ourselves
You need a "Huberman Husband", a powerful man who will help you navigate your priorities - and that is your way to do both, and you most certainly can.
Most women are rebellious with goals that align with proving they can do anything a man can do, if not better. That's the bulk of the problem, but to answer your question. Sure, it's very possible for a woman to balance out career and family if the woman is highly exceptional on both ends with a man who has the desire and is able to get more involved with nurturing the kids and homemaking, but the general answer would be NO because most women are not exceptional and there are simply not enough men who are able to balance out work and family, especially if they're not business owners or working a high paying job that allows them to work from a computer. There are more variables, but I tried making it short.
Lmao
A wise man or woman once said... if a big decision is facing you do the following: If you know yes the do it.If the answer is no then don't do it. If the answer is I don't know then you must be patient till you do. The Universe, as it is for most of us, doesn't work for you. The answer you so dearly want... you may not be ready to hear. But have faith that the Divine has heard you Now be patient till you get your answer.
Some day when this young girl is forty and looks back at these talks, she will be see how much she matured and how naive she was.
Don't let ego and emancipatiation to stuck you up
Selfishness often times leads to discontentment in the long run if other desires go unfufilled.
The key to that is balance and prioritization.
Not everyone can have it all,
sometimes you compromise a little here and a little there in order to achieve similitude of "best of both worlds".
Don't see becoming a mother as "throwing potential away" rather it's just a new chapter in your life, you evolve as a woman and you have the potential to serve many different roles that can bring you and those around you long lasting fulfillment.
Getting locked into one identity based solely on career is self limiting behavior.
Broaden your perspective, dear.
You have the world at your finger tips,
make it what you will❤
Too many options? Throw some dices...
9:42 That impression at the end… 😂 Anyhow, good vid. Thanks. 👍
thank you for ur honest , u make it so clear work on ur career or work to be true wife true mother for good family for ur kids , its simple as that
and tbh some women can do both but they are 3% maybe less in the world and its so tough for them they didnt even enjoy life , when someone hit 70s and find himself alone no kids no family no one care about him in that time he or she understand the important to raise good kids and have good straight family, we r in time that media TV social media against the human nature nd making the society worse , even they success to make ur partner who should be in ur shoulder as team to be your 1st competitor unfortunately sometimes ur enemy
You forgot the spiritual path
The career, is the matrix path of the slavery, be careful
The family path is not for everyone..
I think a lot of women push away men there attracted too, perhaps scared of him not wanting her then realise they shouldve gone for it but then its too late seen it happen so many times.
Haha LOL
Women “want” to please their man and to be the glue of the family. Whether they figure that out is another issue 😂😂😂.
4:14 I see you! We should start making Mothers (like you will be) into models... Thats the solution.
We dont want those infertile looking models... we need and want models who are fruitful, fertile and beautiful mothers with lots of children!!!!
Thank you, Keira. Also, men look at your choices and priorities and they may choose someone else. You may not be there for them if you're there for yourself. Life isn't always fair. It's just life.
So make sure you're making the right decisions
❤Beautifully said.....Nice Eyes Baby Golden in my Opinion just like your Classic Paris Style Christmas Lights in your room❤
I am in love with your brain!
Nobody has it all figured out.
The technical term is opportunity cost.
I got everything I ever wanted. What I would give to not be alone….to hear some kind and well deserved words. To have someone welcome into my bubble but holding a hand is more than I deserve, apparently.
I think women are afraid to truely fall in love. It would hurt too much to lose that person.