From two bedroom condo to two suitcases: how I simplified my life to find freedom

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2025

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  • @gregorriusadolphus2729
    @gregorriusadolphus2729 10 месяцев назад +3

    I hear ALL of what you speak of! For the past few years I have been shedding the material stuff...I owned two homes (one was a rental property in the HIPPEST neighborhood in Denver); I sold it last year when my renter broke her lease due to unemployment-I didnt want the stress. I also had a second car that I used as a weekend car (manual shift so I could have fun in the twisties)-sold it. Then six months ago I quit my software engineering job due to burnout. But during the past few years I also travelled the world while working remote and that absolutely "ruined" me LOL. I want to get off the treadmill and explore more. Since I haven't been working I have been travelling even more and contemplating what to do next as I sporadically look for work. I still have a car and a house that I think I may sell in the next few months and just break free for a little bit. But conversely, I know I will get board if I don't have a purpose or daily work to do. I also will need to get some kind of income going too.....don't wanna be free AND BROKE. It's all a balance. If I could find a non-toxic job that I enjoy doing and will let me work wherever I want to, that would be ideal. I'm not sure I'm 100% ready to give up my home base for the sake of freedom.

    • @FrugalBloom
      @FrugalBloom  10 месяцев назад +1

      Sounds like we have a lot in common! It's certainly not as simple as sell everything then be happy. It highly depends on what you value in life. I could see owning a home being a really freeing thing especially if you got it at a good price. I mean Denver is a really great area to be in. It would be difficult to buy in that area today. Even though I really liked it there I don't think I would be able to live there without being stuck in a job. For me I found a way to make my life work without having a job but it also means I cant live in certain parts of the world. There is a price to pay for every decision we make which brings it all back to values. I hope you find what it is you're looking for and thanks for watching!

    • @gregorriusadolphus2729
      @gregorriusadolphus2729 10 месяцев назад

      @@FrugalBloom thanks man. I actually moved to San Antonio where it is DIRT CHEAP by comparison....so I also struggle with if I want to give up this house I purchased right before the pandemic price boom...prices won't drop if I want to buy in the future. But at any rate thank you and I will continue living vicariously through you haha until I make up my mind. Mexico City is actually tops on my list to jump to if I leave the U.S. And make your way to Lima, Peru, if you can-surprisingly GREAT ENERGY there!

  • @colton..
    @colton.. 10 месяцев назад

    Love it. Waiting for your next video :)

  • @stanpister6832
    @stanpister6832 10 месяцев назад

    Nice. Enjoying your new videos.
    I think what resonants with me is Im also doing a career change and taking breaks and taking time off can seem so uncomfortable because for so long we have been consumed in the grind the money the corporate ladder climb but at the end of the day we are longing for a simplified life with cheap prices for food and sunny weather. You have the benefit of having the USA as a home base. Im in Canada and the rainy cold weather has me longing to be a snow bird in the later years of my life.
    I think everything happens for reasons and life is one big matrix glitch.
    Cheers

  • @Prodigious1One
    @Prodigious1One 10 месяцев назад +1

    I sometimes think about doing what you're doing. I'm waiting to get my student loans forgiven. For now I take trips because I love to travel.

  • @jpatrickjansen
    @jpatrickjansen 10 месяцев назад

    Each of your videos has had unique qualities! I think I really enjoyed this one most of all. It was autobiographical, analytic, philosophical and full of bold and admirable vulnerability. Your storytelling is always so sincere that to me it comes off like poetry. So yeah, it seems that freedom and happiness are not easily defined finite quantities. I view your uncertainties as a very good thing, because it seems that many people unnecessarily box themselves in by making hasty assumptions, drawing premature conclusions, and thereby erecting faulty psychological barriers for themselves, many times in a somewhat desperate attempt to alleviate the discomfort of uncertainty. I enjoy your thoughtful process analysis and I am stoked about being alongt with you on your adventure! Thank you for creating meaningful content and also for sharing your life. I admire you for several reasons, but notably for your humble bravery ❤

    • @FrugalBloom
      @FrugalBloom  10 месяцев назад

      thks means a lot to me and thank you for being along for the ride ❤️

  • @bobbyball1057
    @bobbyball1057 10 месяцев назад

    Don’t listen to the haters…at least you’re trying new things…and if it doesn’t work out then you can always go back!

  • @Amlcolyunrr
    @Amlcolyunrr 6 месяцев назад

    nice man, are you just taking ubers, taxis, buses etc wherever you go?

  • @stanpister6832
    @stanpister6832 10 месяцев назад

    Also its extremity common for people in other countries to take long breaks or months off between jobs. I think changing the norm within North America about "gaps" in resume is normal.

  • @bobbyball1057
    @bobbyball1057 10 месяцев назад +2

    You can be free but are you happy??

    • @FrugalBloom
      @FrugalBloom  10 месяцев назад +3

      I'm not sure. I feel more happy than before

    • @Pixelpunch3
      @Pixelpunch3 10 месяцев назад

      @@FrugalBloomyou seriously need some therapy my friend. You’re acting very erratically and it still hasn’t improved your happiness much. You need to get to the root of your unhappiness. You’ve made some pretty poor decisions in my opinion and you seem quite just sad even when you talk about supposedly being happier.

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths 7 месяцев назад

      @@Pixelpunch3this is a really judgmental and frankly inaccurate comment.
      Happiness is 50% genetic. So his odds of being “happy” is mostly out of his control.
      That said, his actions are quite reasonable and relatable. Many people want to do what he’s doing, but they simply don’t have the courage to break the norms of modern western culture.

    • @Pixelpunch3
      @Pixelpunch3 6 месяцев назад

      @@The.Harsh.Truths and your comment is judgmental of mine, and…?
      You know nothing of his genetics.
      And “western culture”? What other cultures is it normal to live out of a suitcase when you have other means? You think that’s a part of eastern cultures? Become educated. You’re looking at it from a point of privilege. Most of the people in the world would love a nice 2 bedroom condo, you have no idea what the world is like and how lucky we are.

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths 6 месяцев назад

      @@Pixelpunch3 I don’t think you know what the word judgement means.
      You made assumptions about his happiness. Simply pointing out that you don’t know what makes him happy.
      Monks will leave a boring job like that to live in a monastery. Mormons or other religious types will often go on a pilgrimage to find themselves. The kid has a plan and he’s following through on it. Good for him.

  • @Faithinchaos666
    @Faithinchaos666 9 месяцев назад

    Why would you sell the condo? Why not rent it out and make money from it?

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths 7 месяцев назад

      It’s a pain in the ass to manage a condo remotely like that. Even property managers are annoying because they take shortcuts or give kickbacks to their contractors when they know you won’t be checking up on them.
      It makes more sense to sell the condo, and put it in the stock market. Historically, owning real estate vs the stock market are neck to neck.

  • @bobbyball1057
    @bobbyball1057 10 месяцев назад +1

    Are you not missing your friends & family?

    • @FrugalBloom
      @FrugalBloom  10 месяцев назад

      I don't have many but it can be lonely for sure!

    • @bobbyball1057
      @bobbyball1057 10 месяцев назад

      @@FrugalBloomah ok…you seem like a good guy and I think it’s great that you’re doing this. Single gay guy here also…I enjoy watching your vids

  • @bobbyball1057
    @bobbyball1057 10 месяцев назад +2

    I think you’re brave to do this…but where can you really go in the world to find true freedom & happiness? The whole world seems to be a mess these days

    • @FrugalBloom
      @FrugalBloom  10 месяцев назад +1

      It seems that way doesn't it? Maybe it's more about mindset although external factors matter!

    • @marionopisso212
      @marionopisso212 10 месяцев назад

      ​@FrugalBloom Detachment is an important mental concept. It won't matter if you have much or little if you are indifferent to the status quo.

  • @Pixelpunch3
    @Pixelpunch3 10 месяцев назад +1

    Your thinking in the first few mins of this video is twisted. Sounds to me like you need a therapist more than anything. This sounds like a cry for help lol

  • @germanfranco201
    @germanfranco201 10 месяцев назад +3

    Hey brother, leaving a six figure job not knowing next is a immature decision. Unless u r happy living on the streets. how r u making a leaving. There r people who hates their jobs , but they know that if they leave they will be in a worse situation. Good luck on you