Girl Cries And Has A Mental Breakdown Over Being Called A "Lady"
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2023
- Today we're gonna be taking a look at a recent video someone posted on TikTok about an experience they had
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If you look up “I need attention!” in a gif image or in the dictionary, you’ll find a picture of this girl.
😂😂😂 yes!
I mean, it fits her perfectly
Did you just call her a girl? You'd better hope she doesn't see this!
You just made me snort 😂 😂😂😂
I can't with the lady behind her consoling her...like come on, miss, does this "problem" really warrant the ugly cry from hell?? Girl, bye.....
She - without irony - issued a “trigger warning”. She was at least correct about the vegetable-tier sensibilities of her target audience. She’s also right about another thing - she’s not a “lady” by any metric of adult behaviour.
Great comment!
Well I mean it is triggering. Just not in the way she meant though... But it is triggering a gag reflex. Don’t even know in what world someone has to live in for this to even matter. Wow!
@mr.duanesharpe we would be stepping over bodies and picking g up alot of weapons brand new. Never been fired 😂
And that's OK. It's called natural selection
@@ThatGirl-tg7wdLol let’s be honest, you and fat boy would be used for your meat and fuel
without irony LMAO
If being called a lady triggered her, I have to wonder if she would have suffered spontaneous human combustion by being called a dumb broad, which--in fact--she appears to be.
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Good one. I think my dad used that term a lot 😂
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Hold up, did she just assume the bartender's gender? Oh no, that's pure evil. What a bigot.
Yeah and she said he told her that which means she called him a strqight white male to his face and thats why she got kicked out. Gauranteed if this even happened she was aggressive and nasty, not this "persona" she is using for her channel. Her eyes tell the tale. Shes a fraud.
"Do as I say, not as I do" - Hypocrites
Not just the bartender, but all the white men in the bar.
Rules for thee, but not for me.
Ok, I'm a gay man, but her pronoun obsession is so obnoxious!
Most of her Tik Toks are all about pronouns it's really bizarre
How DAre you not be a lesbian 😂
Anyone who relates as a pronoun is obnoxious & needs help 💕🇦🇺💕
No one asked you about being gay
dude i literally know trans people irl who get misgendered and dont care shes being so dramatic in this video its embarassing
I don’t think the real issue is being called a lady. She’s got problems that the internet doesn’t need to know, but a therapist does. She felt more entitled than “gay white men” at a gay bar, and got kicked out for making everyone uncomfortable. Please get help.
If she's this bad on camera, than we can only imagine how she reacted in that moment at the bar. Yikes
Right?! I’m over here trying to process why they are upset…And it’s not making sense…
They go into specifically gay men’s spaces…all dolled up and expects people who doesn’t know them not to call them a lady… and then calls a man working there…. At a GAY BAR a typical straight white man… and I’m just so confused 😫
How is gonna invade their space, be rude when correcting them by insulting them like that then expect them to tolerate their presence?
This person needs some intervention and their wife needs to stop enabling.
Crazy how she says "I wanna be myself" and doesn't accept the other person trying to be themselves...like that's just delusional.
It is because thos doesn't ever have to BE an issue. All of us live with insults and offenses about who we ate all our lives. Thos gender stuff os out pf control. The line between tolerance and a need for constant validation is a very thin one and has been crossed .. a mission loses advocates when it goes too far
And that's simply the truth. Like the militant vegan bs.. no one needs to k ow and you do t have to go out SEEKO G to be offended
What a miserable life that makes❤✅️
Like the trans women that are insulting and complaining about women and underage girls that get upset when they use the ladies restrooms and locker rooms, often exposing their penis while changing and being right there while the women and underage girls are changing. It's all about how THEY feel and THEM FEELING SAFE and to Hell with how UNSAFE WE FEEL!
“I wanna be myself.” Gets mad about being called a woman.
She put a trigger warning on a video about someone calling her a lady? What? Lol
Psychotic
I'm seriously so confused. What was the bartender supposed to call (her?)? I'm genuinely asking because I don't understand any of this.
@@TheGhostMamanot only that, but she’s dressed and presenting herself like a normal woman.
Rofl
Back in the day she would have gotten a daily ass beating.
I’m so glad you showed some of her TikToks, I just wanted to tell you about it in the comments😂. She’s unreal, I remember showing her to all my friends, because I just couldn’t believe she was being dead serious talking about “using rat as a pronoun”. This latest video doesn’t surprise me at all.
She's probably doing all this for views
OMFG this is hilarious pleasee tell me who this lady is & where I can find. What’s rat handle?
Its about mental ullnrss with twr . Feel offended about gender issues is just the WAY in which she manifests her dysfunction
Yup
@@GlupShiddo I think it showed her handle in the begining of the vid
@@queenicedcoffee4217 I actually think she really means it and sees herself as extremely oppressed🫠
She probably was at least semi drunk when this all went down. Was probably making much more of a scene than the bartender ever did, crying and throwing a fit. She probably came off like she was totally wasted and they didn't want to serve her more alcohol. THATS why she got kicked out. 😂
Poor girl... 😂😂
Bingo.
Yup! Guarantee she was drunk and made a big Karen scene,and got booted out..she’s telling half truths
@@quadrogong1111Right?! She has to be leaving stuff out, bc there's no way they'd kick them out over what she described. She messed up by telling us the bartender said she was doing the same thing to him. I wonder if that "same thing" was about something different that she's completely left out...or if it was her calling the bartender a gay man bc she assumed the pronoun. I wish we knew, bc that would be some big irony & hypocrisy, considering she's still calling the bartender a gay man in these clips, smh.
You know back I'd say in the 50s if a woman was referred to as lady I meant that she was honorable and men were comfortable around her. Something along those lines. Why is she taking it like an insult? I swear I'm so afraid of this. To think this younger generation is going to be taking care of me when I am retired.
No they won't. We are all doomed
You need to save a big nest egg now so you can afford better care if needed
Wish I could just wake up and it not be true
But it is, oh, it is
Its okay,most of us aren't like this. I love being referred to as a lady :)
She probably was kicked out because she threw a puppy fit.
"It felt like a dad." ...and there you have it; straight from the cows' mouth - daddy issues. Grow up!
'Nuff said.
That used to be called,”being a gentleman”🙄 addressing a woman as a, ”lady” used to be called polite
Dwfinitely NOT a lady. Child. That's a child.
Don't insult the poor children like that! 😅
@@_labacanitaz Yeah since children are more well behaved compared to this "lady".
Look at the way she dresses, that´s not even juvenile she looks like and acts like a toddler.
On behalf of women everywhere, I apologize to the rest of the world.
Same here, I'm ashamed as a woman myself, we get these worthless crybabies as our gender. Ugh.
No need to apologize, crazies already have a name for themselves.
Lmao I feel you.
As soon as I saw her thumbnail on another video I knew right away "oh boy, pronoun girl"
Well at this point we still don’t know what that person is! It could be anything nowadays
Maybe she did need her dad to yell at her when she was a kid
Most of these psychos are products of single mothers who coddled these little shits until they became the garbage people we have to share the planet with today
Even if my husband went up to the bar and the bar staff called him a lady he would just laugh. Jeez
I've had a lot of crying jags over the past two years due to postpartum depression. Not one has ended up online. It's surprisingly easy not to put this stuff online.
You have a real reason, this though is just plain dumb lol
I hope you're doing well now 🙏
You are fantastic we love you! The only place I air my We will call them events since i'm severely Is mentally ill, Is my facebook wall and the only people on my facebook are family members... So virtually it's my body reaching out for help, Not my body reaching out for attention, I would Never air this to the actual public.
I hope you're healing very well from your postpartum. Never had postpartum myself but have had depression (still do) so I know it's very hard. I hope you're healing everyday and your child is wonderful. 💙🩵
Hope you're enjoying parenthood. 🩵
This whole crying online thing i truely believe has a lot to do with being chronicly online. Getting to a place where you feel like you have to treat your tiktok like a close personal friend to spill your guts to. Were progressing technologically and regressing socially. Im 38. MySpace came out when i was in college. So even tho i grew up with internet i never had it with me 24/7 since childhood. Its sad.
Am the same age as you and fully agree with you
Same age, same boat, and I couldn't agree more 👍🏼
This can’t be real
Scary stuff
You described the situation perfectly, that's how I also see how young people on TIK Tok behave, that's scary!
It's not healthy to constantly seek validation from strangers
"Clown Planet." - Carl Vernon
there was a picture of a young woman, probably 12-13, who was sobbing in front of a UN biohazard tent. Her whole family died from Ebola. It was heart breaking and I still think of that pain, confusion and sadness to this day.
I wish I could show this woman that girls photo. Maybe it would smack some sense into her.
Good point
Nary a tear in sight...
I absolutely support LGBTQ+ people and understand how difficult it must be to be non-traditional but this is ridiculous. She's making a spectacle out of something that was just a mistake by someone that didn't know her personally, all for clout.
For heavens sake, GROW UP!! 🙄
It really creates a bad name for the community when people do this shit unfortunately…
@@AlzMarioWolfeIt's definitely not right to judge a whole comment based on one person's behavior but, I'm afraid you're right.
@@pnwlaf Oh I know it’s not
@@AlzMarioWolfe Oh shoot, I didn't mean to imply that you were judging. I felt you were merely pointing out that others will and I am in agreement with you. ☺️
@@pnwlaf Yeah that’s what I was doing it’s fine lmao
Bartender is the hero in this by saying NOPE.
This the type of person who expects people to tiptoe around her crazy and I am willing to bet she can't keep a job to save her life. Imagine what it is like to be her coworker and have to read her mind and problems and emotions, and life's experiences all day long.I imagine she is exhausting to be around like suck the life right out of you exhausting.
The more I learn about all these different pronouns, the more I believe people are basically asking to be offended.
My first name is more common for men in Belgium (where I live), I amazingly don't have a breakdown or throw a hissy fit if someone gets my gender wrong. I usually just smile, accept the mistake (and any apology given), and carry on with my day 🤷♀️
I suppose you don't have gender dysphoria so that may be a different experience than a trans person has.
However, throwing a fit over an innocent mistake doesn't do anyone any good.
I admit I can't keep up with all the neo pronouns myself. He/she/they I can keep up with just fine, but rat/rats etc loses me. Never even heard of that before. 😅
@sylverscale He/she/they are pronouns I've known about my whole life, but I can't imagine just referring to someone as a horse/rat/dog... on the off-chance that they might identify as such.
I apologise if I unintentionally offended you or anyone else.
@@sylverscale Eh, gender dysphoria isn't a mental illness. It is just a reaction of discomfort when you're misgendered. Anyone can experience it. Trans people just experience it a lot more frequently than cis people do because they tend to have bodies that do not match societal perceptions of how someone of that gender should look. I'm a trans person, and I react the same way when I get misgendered as Dominique does. Honestly, I think the TikToker's reaction was more one of confrontation anxiety than gender dysphoria.
@@dominiquewild3823 Yeah, neopronouns are tough. I don't think I've ever met anyone who only uses neopronouns though. They want their neopronouns to be used in safe spaces where others are trying to practice using them, but they almost always use he/she/they in addition for most people to refer to them.
This made my whole motherfucking day!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I got pulled over by a cop, and he referred to me as SIR!!! Yes, I am a cis male, but I just felt so insulted! I hit the gas, trying to get away from this man but he pit maneuvered me and put me in cuffs! I am so sick of this society!
As a trans man, this video from her is cringe. I understand the frustration of being misidentified, but the thing is people do not know until you tell them. That’s why I do not like the whole conniption over something someone will not know. Like people misgender me. If I feel the need, I say what I prefer and then I go on my way. I really don’t try to start a fight over it. It’s a one time thing, if people don’t want to respect that, I literally just go on with my life and just not really talk to them anymore. It’s just how it goes sometimes. Chill out. Unless you’re being physically or verbally attacked, then it is just not something to scream out like you just went into a battle of the ages.
Prices are going up the trades need men to lay brick, machine metal, dig holes, run a 90 pound jack hammer, suck out septic tanks, frame houses, weld, cut down trees the list goes on and on. The work force needs hard working men. So what can we sign you up for?
Will we have to go back to teach you that "physical effort" jobs are not just for men? I am a woman and I am a welder, I do forging. Yes, it is true that women do not have the same physique as a man, if I cannot lift four three-meter iron bars, I apply intelligence and look for tools to do it alone. Don't talk nonsense please
@darealpontiac you are obviously not in the states but out of all the welders in the states only 5.3 are females. Let's not play dumb here you know females are few and far between in the trades I mentioned. I have been a welder for years and sometimes machinery or tools are just not an option. I am sorry I hurt your feelings but reality is reality.
Thank you for being sensible and understanding. I am also sick of this whole bull of over-reacting to something people can sometimes get wrong without meaning to be insulting.
You're a woman so ill call refer to you as such. It's not my problem what you do after that.
Trigger warnings are ridiculous unless its about S.A that can actually give someone a flashback or strobe lights for seizure potential
Everything else screams "i'm to sensitive for like"
This is too good for a one off video, I think we need to see more of this nutcase 🤣 🤣
Wow, I dont get why ppl feel they need to share stuff like that. Then when they dont get the reaction she wants then it's part 2
This Chick ISN'T A LADY??? I wouldn't have known!!!
There's more to being a lady. A lady she is not
I'm a transwoman, Anytime someone treats me at a woman I'm happy. I also have a back bone because when I started coming out there wasn't all this BS. I love who I am and sadly...
All these people need to think about one thing... “What's in a name? That which we call a rose, by any other word would smell as sweet.” IE. It doesn't matter what anyone calls you, you are who you are unless you have a sign people can't read your mind.
So, an actually trans person 🎉 Welcome normal person by today's standards..
Then you should be able to define what a woman is if thats what you claim to be
See you know who you are and I am proud of you for accepting who you are❣️
You are the most sweetest❣️
Love the quote ❣️
I am just an old lady living the last of my days trying to encourage everyone They Are Who They Are, No One Can Take That Away From Them❣️
@FrostByte42 I am a transwoman never do I claim to be a woman, I know I was born a with xy, but from a young age I prefer pretty things and traditional feminine thing. Now I live that way.
@@kewitt1I love that u used that quote... Good for u... I don't know u but feel so very proud of u for being true to urself and standing for what u feel is right, which I think we all should be doing, even around hateful cruel individuals, but even those individuals I feel should stand up for what they feel is right, right??? To each their own....
She’s so fragile especially because her whole life is online rather than living in the real world, good god.
I don't even understand how someone like this can leave the house. If that hurts your feelings, imagine what the actual real world would do to them.
Lady is a positive term regardless of anything. And straight women go to gay bars...he just was being polite and she took it to a level where she made it weird. She obviously was drunk and called him something on the same level that she was judging lady as and it pissed him off bc she was probably freaking out and clapping back and being petty. You don't get kicked out of a gay bar for being reasonable, especially a gay bar of men that love when women regardless of how they identify would hang out.
Congratulations on pulling the "LEAVE BRITNEY ALONE" thing of 2023, lady.
The mental instability of today’s society is truly terrifying. If you are comfortable in your own skin and know who you are deep down, why get this triggered if someone misidentifies you? The list of problems this person has must go on for miles.
Bruh, I looked for the account on tiktok and found it. Yes, pronouns are set to they/them, but literally has "lesbian" in the @ and uses the nickname "pronoun GAL". For someone who gets triggered when they're misgendered they're using gendered words in their own bio. How do you call yourself "gal" but cry when someone else calls you a "lady"? You can't pick and choose what triggers you because of aesthetics. Also, referring to their non-binary partner as a wife, which is a gendered term. You can't pick and choose what triggers you because of aesthetics. (And I respected their pronouns, they cant be triggered at me now. Non-binary is perfectly legit, but they aren't even sticking to their own pronouns.)
Her future Reddit posts will now reference 'PTSD' & 'survivor' every chance she gets. Not even joking.
That’s just sad 😢
I see NO tears while she's "crying".🙄
Great commentary about this CRAZY lady! I would definitely like to see follow-ups on this "lady" and those ridiculous pronoun videos of hers. Thanks for taking the time to guide us through these brain damaging videos, so we can be "safe."
As cringy as it is, we NEED a follow up video. You always get the JUICY details🤣
Watching this when there's an actual war going on in Ukraine makes me so upset. 😂
She’s sobbing without a tear
I’m getting major narcissist vibes.
Emotionally unstable
I'm a cis woman with an extremely deep voice and I've never lost it when people on the phone mistakes me for a man. If this situation makes you have a melt down, there's something else going on, mental health, problems in your interpersonal life. Either way seek therapy.
Haha, same here. I was always mistaken for my dad or brother on the ph. Good dj voice ☺️
The funny thing is I had people thinking that I'm American due to how I speak when I'm actually English but learnt to speak when I was young from watching American TV shows and yet I have never felt offended by it but rather find it amusing.
i hate the internet
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People get offended by anything these days and its just sad.
it’s pathetic. these people need a asylum room
I think the end part showed us exactly what the problem was: she lives in an alternate reality. Not the one we all live in.
I hope the bartender sees this video and gives us their side of the story.
I'd love a deep dive on this! I seriously didn't know there were so many pronouns for so much stuff... bunnys? Rats? Mages? 🤯
I'm waiting for the "you're a transphobe" comments. I love those.
That's like telling Bugs Bunny he's just a Voice actor 😅😅😅
Someone would swear that the bartender called her Sir...like wtf is this? So people will now go to the bartender social media page and bash him for being...the world is sisck
imagine the day this girl face a real problem.... my god, you're in for a rude awakening....
Jesus ive been kicked out of hundreds of bars for far worse, way more embarrassing reasons and it didn't once phase me. I just moved down to the next bar and the next day sucked it up, and went back to apologize for whatever stupid thing my drunk ass did.....and every single time i was welcomed back with open arms. Thats what a true adult drunk does. 😅😂😊
“Felt like a dad yelling at you” is telling
People are always so offended these days. Everything is a problem
True
Im offended that other people are so easily offended
@@WaitWhatsMyNameI'm offended that other people being offended offends you... Haha! 🤣😂
Yeah imagine getting so offended about being told someone’s preferred pronouns that you hit the table and kick them out.
@@roberthuman8091 Yeah, except he wasn't offended by the pronoun thing. He was simply not interested in the unnecessary drama this woman was causing by making a big deal out of an unintentional error, or rather, a perceived error. Personally, I wouldn't consider it an error because she is very obviously a lady and that is what he called her...
She kicks off the video by saying into the camera, "I appreciate you for being you and I love you." I'd be perfectly comfortable writing that off as being another ridiculously disingenuous tag line, but the reality is much more pathetic. This is a demented line of reasoning so commonplace today, especially among content creators. "I love you" is synonymous with "I love views, I love likes and subscriptions, I love attention." In other words, she says "I love you" to a bunch of strangers. There could be murderers, chilx molesters, mail fraudsters, or identity theives in the mix. But she means it. It's genuine, if only for how twisted her idea of love is.
I think she’s being ridiculous but what the fuck are you waffling about
These people need a taste of REAL ADVERSITY. They need to spend some time in difficult situations because the nerfy lives they have now are NOT doing them any favors.
Should have called her "Mister". 🤡😂
At first without seeing the entire title I read that as “Woman has a mental breakdown over being called lazy” and instantly I started thinking of ways I could understand why that would upset someone to that point. Possibly if you grew up with parents who called you lazy when you really tried your best, and maybe even struggled helplessly with depression or other issues, besides mental illness. Then I read “lady”. I literally have the song called “She’s a lady” in my Musi playlist and it’s tbh the most romantic song I’ve ever heard.
Tom Jones is the best 👍
Quick, quick, someone give her a trophy!
The last time it was truly acceptable to cry like this over a situation like this was grade school.
My mouth dropped and still opened as I type this 😂😂😂😭 the end confused me so much like what reality am I living in
Ironically, SHE is laying down in her warm bed, IPhone in hand, full makeup, furnished home, clean clothing, clean water, electricity, indoor plumbing, in a free country…& yet SHE feels traumatized & UNSAFE?! People are seriously suffering all over the world right now. This is truly pathetic & embarrassing…not only as an American…but as a woman. Be PROUD!!
BOOOOO HOOOOO!!! Get over yourselves!! I’m so sick of this garbage behavior…& I’m a member of the community. 🌈
This is absolutely f**king disgusting. She needs to be slapped into reality. I know that sounds harsh, but, c'mon!! These people have no clue what hardship or even abuse is! I'm not usually one to compare one's painful experiences to another's, as we all deal with grief and pain in different ways. But this is utterly ridiculous.
"Today, I'm here to teach you how to cry on queue".
Meant to say "Cue"
Xeno, that last part just killed me, honestly 🙃 I would really like for you to do a deeper dive 😂
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 one of your greatest videos bro !
Here in Brazil, When we see that someone is wanting a lot of attention, we usually say that this person wants a "Biscoito" (Cookie). We also suggest to that person, who wants our attention, hang a watermelon around their neck (that's a popular saying around here)
(English is not my first language, sorry for any mistakes)
😂😂😂😂i can't lol so speechless 😂😂😂😂 what a nuts
She should press charges and they should be ordered to pay for her hospital bills. That poor, poor lady.
My grandpa feels unsafe to leave the house because of COVID
Everyone seems to have a victim complex
Please do a follow up 🙏🏾
This killed so many brain cells that I think it qualifies as a traumatic brain injury.
I think my brain caved in on itself when you showed the content she posts. 😂
I remember being called homophobic and antisemitic slurs on multiple occasions and I never had a pity party about it. Woulda been cooler if they called me " lady " even though I'm clearly a dude.
It was annoying from the start but the moment she started in with the whole trigger warning that's(in my opinion used easy too much these days) as a person who personally understands the meaning behind it. It's just frustrating to hear people in soft cry baby poor me voices talk like they really just had a horrible & complete life changing experience . When really most people under the age of 25 would most likely consider that same experience LIFE , without going on Tik-Tok and having a mental breakdown!
Being called a lady is such a sign of respect and doesn’t make you feel old like being called ma’am.
What a narcissistic infant.
Please do a follow up video taking a deeper dive into this. She's insane!
So part of her social media handle is her referring to herself as a "lesbian" and she referred to her partner as her "wife" and it's somehow the end of the world and inappropriate to be called a "lady" by mistake when she herself is making feminine references to both of them...? I'm a bit lost....
Safe spaces don’t exist
I wonder how many times she’s had to sleep in her car or scavenge her dinner from a dumpster behind a restaurant. She must have a REALLY tough life. 😒
YESSS follow up video!
She’s gotta be a brain washed robot or a troll lmao
This person is probably also a middle school teacher…🤓
Shouts out to that bar for not taking her bs nd tryna make them seem like they dnt understand gender identities like they dnt get a mix o ppl in there
I seriously laughed so hard, I almost fell off my chair 😂😂😂😂😂
Not another staight woman wanting to be the spotlight at a GAY BAR
something is wrong with her she belong in alcatraz
Oh boo hoo! She couldn’t get her drink and cried like a 5 year old. Someone needs to finally tell her to grow up and stop expecting everyone to treat her “special” just because she obviously has problems with herself.
All of this is painful & truly sad
Everyone is entitled to their own thoughts and opinions on everything, but don't expect everyone to have the same thoughts and opinions as you. The way she keeps mentioning that the servers were "straight white men" I think is why they accused her of doing the same thing to them.
I’m nonbinary who goes by they/them. but at work, I get called miss, sweetheart, and yes, lady, every single day. if I had a mental breakdown every time it happened to me I would’ve been fired a LONG time ago. they’re strangers, their opinions literally don’t matter. only the people who I care about and who care about me matter. she has extremely unrealistic expectations about how the world works and she’s going to end up in a straight jacket if she doesn’t get a grip.
U would probably be posting this comment from a high security mental institution of some sort... Maby the 1 she will be involuntarily admitted to in aprox. 5 - 6 months at this rate... 😂😂😂😂
@@nadiaduplessis16feb84 you tried 🥲🤣
Shouldn't you be going with "we", and "us", instead of "I", since you delusionally believe you're more than one person? Like, how Venom does so.
@@anthonymarquez4617 you tried 🥲🤣
Years from now she’s gonna look back on this with embarrassment and regret
The rehearsal you can tell went into her tiktoks is so wild.