Hi! As a former shopaholic, I did a no buy for the year of 2018. It was the most amazing and detoxifying experience. You will make it and feel so much better. I always wonder now how I used to have time for shopping… life is richer without consumerism. ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing!! I love hearing from people who have walked the path before me and had such a great experience. I really appreciate the encouragement ♥️
I've been doing no buy year for the past 6 years because i wanted to save money. This year i finally bought two dresses for myself. That was a huge breakthrough for me. 😂
I do Frugal February, Mindful May (no buy) NOBUY-July and NO-November (no buy) works out well for me, 4 no buy months and the rest are pretty low buy, the only month I spend is Stock-tober (October, as I stock up on all canned goods, personal items, and household stuff) I make sure I have a 1-year supply and I'm good .... try it, it really works. I'm a frugalnista and am okay with it : )
I have been in my nobuyyear journey this year. I thought - and so did many people - that I was not able to do it, but here I am. It has gone well, no impulse purchases at all. My ban list consist clothes, shoes, and bags. I bought zero of those. You can do it! It is also very catharsis. Take care! 🌼
Thanks for sharing your experience! It's very encouraging to hear from people who are currently completing a no buy year (or have completed one). I'm glad that it has gone well for you 🫶🏻
I split my clothing budget in half this year. A no buy seems to drastic to me, there's always something I need (like replacement undies/socks) or want enough (e.g. gaps in my wardrobe) to justify it. 😂 But I wanted to cut the latter drastically and I succeeded! One positive side effect besides the saved money is that I finally actually wear my clothes. I need and want to get good use out of them and not already wanting the next thing. I will definitely keep the smaller budget. Wishing you success, too! 😊
Im so inspired to do a no buy year for 2024. Im a shopaholic for sure and i think i feel this fomo of missing out on new trends and if im not buying the new styles and trends that im going to miss out on something amazing, but its really just stuff at the end of the day. Im terrified to do a no buy year, but i know it is possible. Shopping for myself is not beneficial for my family at all. I want to feel secure financially and im ruining it by constantly spending money oneaningless things. Good job! You can do it!
You can do it! I think that once you see the financial benefits that not buying unnecessary things has on your family's budget, you won't have fomo as bad. And the only purpose of trends is to keep us shopping, to make us feel like the things we own aren't good enough. But they are ♥️
I am the same. But, I want to pay off my car early and save money for my retirement so I need to cut the fashion spending and get back to basics and essentials. You can do this!
Mee too. I will be doing a no buy for 2024 as I want to spend more money on travels, but the fomo is real so will be unsubscribing from newsletters and find activities to do within the home ultimately I want my home to be similar to a hotel which has minimal items, it’s something I’m working towards
This is perfect timing, I will be on this journey with you. The dopamine hit that I get when I shop is SO strong. And, I have a feeling that a few friendships will,change as my shopping habits change.
I'm so excited for you! That dopamine hit is definitely really strong and I'd recommend removing shopping temptation as much as possible. I've been getting a ton of emails this past week (from brands I haven't heard from in years) and I've been doing a lot of blocking before I even have a chance to look at the email). If you want to keep your friendships but shopping is a big part, is there other things you can do?
My husband and I do no spending for 6 months. We usually either shop for spring/summer in one shot, then fall/winter in another. And most times, we set a limit or shop second hand. We both work in factories so there’s really no need to have a closet full of nice new trending items because we also don’t eat out as much! Also resulting in, not wearing make up as much! 😂 We have to work on Christmas and Birthdays but… otherwise we’ve gotten much better! You got this!
I am an inspiring minimalist for few years now and after having decluttered 50% of my wardrobe around 8 years ago I buy few good quality pieces a year (like 2 cashmere sweaters or a pair of shoes, gold earrings). My clothes budget is stable (below EUR 500 per year) all this time, I don’t have any urges to buy but it’s harder and harder to buy anything ant all. Be careful if you stick to this lifestyle, your expectations grow and one can overthink while it should probably be easier, right ? Anyway, I don’t regret my choices as it is very advantageous for me financially. I don’t need major decluttering anymore all this time as the use of my items increased and I wear them too death, they are also better quality and expensive (like 250 per cashmere sweater or shoes) so I would not be able to just give them away without any financial guilt.
You are where I want to be! I am already seeing the financial benefits of not buying clothes and I think it's going to make me question every purchase once this year is over.
Hi. I want to do this with you. I also declutterred a lot, was on a minimal journey. I even did a no spend month and was shocked and pleasantly surprised how much I saved. However, when stress creeps up to uncomfortable levels and I’m trying to lose weight, I can’t go to my comfort food. Shopping is what I choose. My spending has gotten out of control- even though I am a frugal spender. I justified every purchase, but my closet got full again. I am going to try journaling- it’s free. May we all succeed in our journeys.
Shopping is such a quick and easy fix when we're stressed but I'm starting to realize that while it's stress relieving in the moment, it ends up causing more stress eventually. I hope that you find journaling helpful!
The less items I own the more i treasure and value what I own. I found when I had loads of clothes and house clutter i didn’t value anything I didn’t care for it it was something I would just throw in a corner or hide in a draw getting wasted with out even a second though but now I sold all my bits and rehomed them I been loving the items I have kept the small amount items I will use It’s made me realise I don’t need to buy stuff and I have been saving my money I’m happy with the stuff around me I don’t need that new trendy jumper in the store or that new decorative item that’s on display in the shop. I used to go into shops and by everything I liked the look off now I take a step back and go I don’t need that. I can proudly say after 4 months I can walk into a shop and walk out with nothing in my hands nothing interests me no more that I changed my mind set I’m content with what I got. It’s been such a amazing feeling to realise that.
You make a great point about not valuing belongings when there are so many. I think all the clutter overshadows the things that we truly love. And it's so great to hear that you are content...that's the ultimate goal, isn't it?!?
This is so inspiring and aligns very much with the new mindset that I've been trying to cultivate for myself!! Thank you so much for sharing this journey with us!!😊
Thank you for your honesty 😊 I have the same issue of "going in for one thing but falling in love with a ton" which has a cost at the end 😮 I only do no buy when I don't have the money for it and I'm able to be ok but it should always be a "I don't have the money for it " thing in order to be happier, simpler etc...😊
It's so hard to not look at all of the other things! I once had somebody comment that they do a number of no buy months throughout the year and the rest are low buy with the exception of 1 or 2 where they stock up. It's built into their plan and I liked the idea of this.
I’m about to do a low buy year for 2024 starting today…I’ve never done this before. But I’m a shopaholic in the form of Amazon & eating out. This new year I’m going to move out a the end of the year, lease a car (hopefully) & eat out less… I want less items in my home… I’m so nervous I’m gonna just keep buying stuff but I made a list of the things I’m allowed to buy if needed and stick to it & my reasons for doing a low buy year…
I'm so excited for you as you start your no buy challenge! It's great that you have a list to remind you of why you are doing this challenge and what you can buy. The hardest part is the beginning so remove as much shopping temptation as possible!
I feel this so much in my own life. Even started blogging, in a way, to hopefully give me reasons to continue the journey. This past year I started with great intent to do a low buy. Well, that fell apart. The past few months have been better but I really want to challenge myself to do a no buy where I only buy replacements for used up items or necessities and essentials. I am reading Greg McKeown's book, "Essentialism" and hoping to give myself a springboard to saving more money and finding peace and gratitidue for what I do have.
You can do it! I think you are taking great steps to increase your chances of success. Blogging is a great way to stay accountable and I think that's a great book...you've reminded me that I should re-read it as it's been years. Another thing that I've found helpful is to reduce temptation...no "browsing" online or at shops, reduce social media use or unfollow accounts that make you want to shop (reduces marketing) or whatever else that increases your chances of shopping. Once you get over the first month or 2, I think the benefits will be so motivating. I'm almost 2 months in and I'm starting to see and feel the benefits, and they make me excited to continue, although I acknowledge that I have a long way to go.
We only have 2 weeks to end the year 2023, it's also a season of gift giving to our loved ones and families. It is quite overwhelming to spend and give gifts to our loved ones just to make them pleased/happy and most of the times we tend to overspend thinking that this season only happens once a year. Right now, I'm so tempting to buy new clothes and shoes for this holiday season, but on the back of my mind, there is a voice reminding me that it is not practical to buy just because I want it. I'm glad I saw your video and watched it. It is a good reminder to why not buy and be practical. :) Watching from Philippines
When you said you have wanted to do it for four years, I was like, wait, I need to do this! I wanted to do a no buy for 2023 and didn't. Now that I have some better ground rules I think I won't feel stuck or deprived. Thanks!
I'm so excited for you! I definitely think that targeting your pain points while leaving room for the things you enjoy is important to success! You can also start small, with a month, and then keep increasing it (3, 6, 12).
I love this! It's so inspiring to hear from someone who has done a no buy year before! I think it's good to come back to it when we feel like our addiction is rearing it's ugly head again. But we will overcome it 🫶🏻
I love this idea! I am starting a new job in January 2024, so I want to get myself a first day of new job outfit, but after that, I love the idea of starting a no-buy. I may not go for a full year, especially because I'm not sure what is the dress code at my new job. Maybe I will start at 3 or 6 months, and then try 1 year. I just bought a bunch of secondhand clothes for a trip (I needed light weight clothing that covers my legs to fit the climate and respect the culture) that aren't really my style. It felt AWFUL to spend so much of my money on clothes that I doubt I will wear much beyond traveling. There are a few items that surprised me with how much I like them, but I prefer showing my legs, so I won't usually reach for long pants when it's hot outside. I really need to go through my wardrobe. I'm a working adult in my mid 20s now, so a lot of the clothes I wore as a student aren't appropriate for work, and I prefer to wear comfortable clothes on weekends!
This is so incredibly helpful. I know I consume too much, own too much, and I have used the excuse that the vast majority of my clothing is secondhand. But the inner issue- buying to feel that “ high”- is what needs work. Thank you.
I'm so glad that you found this helpful. I know that feeling well, and find it even even stronger when I'm shopping secondhand because it feels like I'm on a treasure hunt. It's definitely much easier when I just avoid going into shops! I hope you have a great day!
I'm going to try to do this for 2023 too. I finally got out of an abusive life for... well it was all my life lol and as a self employed disabled business owner, money isn't easy to come by for me and I have a lot of things to pay for and now two sick cats. I used to shop a lot to fill the depression void and I don't need to be doing that anymore... especially in a tiny 370 square foot studio lol. Fingers crossed for me aaaah. The only actual need on my list would be a good winter coat since I moved from the south to the midwest so... winter lol but other than that, I know I just don't need more stuff. Maybe documenting it again like you are will help me again.
I'm glad to hear that you're in a better place, I hope your cats feel better soon. Documenting your no buy challenge is a really good thing to motivate you to keep going. I've got my fingers crossed for you! You've got this 🙌🏻
thank u for making this video🙏 i always get so mad and disappointed in myself when i buy clothes or makeup. I am a uni student, so am moving apartments every year and my clutter and amount of clothes always stresses me out. i always justify a clothing purchase i never really wear, and the amount i own constntly stresses me. i am trying to remove clothes every 2 months that i dont wear and am going to try this with you!
I am slowly and effortlessly spending less on stuff, When I go to a thrift store to donate items, I browse the alleys and treat it like a museum where I can revisit things from the past; I will pick up an item, examine it and remember one of my aunt had one dish like this, and then I will put it back on the shelf. Then I exit the store and congratulate myself for not bringing home an item I didn't need. I will shop for food and some essentials like furnace filters, wipers, things I need. I did it for financial reasons and also because when my mom left for a care home, she had not cleared many years of accumulation. Too much stuff is toxic and bad for mental health.
That is such a great way to approach the thrift store, allowing you to enjoy the experience but not accumulate more stuff! It's interesting that you say that about your mom and the years of accumulation. My husband and I were just talking about that the other night in terms of our own parent's stuff.
I did even better. My mom gave me a nice china set with all the serving plates, she had not used it in years. But then she moved out. I realized after 2 years that I would not use it. I sold it , I got money for it and it gave me back my space. I won't tell my mom, this set was not a need for me, it was a burden I didn't want to push onto my children.@@uncomplicatedspaces
I love that you did that for yourself! I often see those china sets in antique shops and they're beautiful but who needs all those pieces, and to think that they're usually the second set that people own for special occasions.
I joined your no-spend in October. No new or thrifted clothes, shoes, bags, or jewellery. No new makeup, beauty, or hair products (only replace what runs out). No home or bathroom linens. My closet has been reduced considerably over the past few years and I have two capsules: Spring/Summer and Fall/Winter. I did find that I was adding more things to my wardrobe over the past year that I was comfortable with, so I'm putting on the brakes.
So far, so good. I nearly caved yesterday when I saw a cable knit sweater, but I reminded myself that I three sweaters for Fall/Winter and that this is enough for me. I walked around the store with this item (I was shopping for slippers, as I need a replacement pair) and by the time I completed the circuit, my internal dialogue was complete and I put the sweater back.
We started a journey about 6 months ago after looking at our spending. We make good money yet not a lot to show for it. We plan to retire in 10 years and want to be debt free. So I think we are over moving or building a house. Eating out is down to special occasions. I think we went to 1 foodie event in 2023 vs many. We quit a few wine clubs. We are more intentional with grocery shopping and meal prep. Shopping has been a problem for me for years...decades. I have moved to thrifting and cut costs considerably and we also have a set amount we can spend a month. I do not feel as bad thrifting. The stores I go to serve a ministry or the veterans. I rotate out clothes to donate also. It is a process. We struggled with purchasing another camper. Stipulation, we do not go in debt and it doesn't interfere with our overall plan to be debt free in 5-7 years. We spend less with camping overall including the cost of the camper than we did eating out a few times a week and going to foodie events. We want to be debt free for better retirement but we also want to be more generous to help others. Allow some grace, if we beat off track, we acknowledge it and try again.
Wow! Thanks for sharing all of the ways that you are changing your spending habits. It sounds like you've really thought about the best path forward for your future goals. Isn't it mind-blowing the amount of money we can spend eating out vs. cooking at home? It sounds like the camper will add a lot more value to your life that the restaurant meals!
I wish you success. 😊 Not going to the stores or watching any shopping channel is a must. I have bought based needed replacements per season for years. I shop my own closet first.
Loved your video !!! Slowly starting to question my own consumption, I am at the very beginning of this journey. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability, your insights have really enriched my thinking and will be of great inspiration in this quest. Thank you, thank you, thank you !!
As long as I started to watch this video I immediately subscribed. I have problem with shopping. I field my first no buy year…. I need some inspiration
Welcome! I'm so glad you're here. And you are not alone...I've failed no buy challenges in the past. But failure is a (necessary) part of the journey. Every time we fail, we learn something new that we can use the next time, until eventually we succeed ♥️
I'm so excited to see your videos!! You seem so down to earth and i love that you are doing this with a family. Its hard to relate to single people living minimally.
Looking forwards to seeing the progress you make. I'll be doing it along with you. I'm just in the process of making decisions about the details. I'm really hopeful and enjoyed your video.
i waited for jcp black friday to get cable sweaters and long sleeve tee's because i have holes in the elbows in the old ones lol.did christmas shopping but got car seat warmers.....practical not a want
My last buy for clothing was last month and it was only one pair of jeans before that I had brought some clothes in July/aug I'm aiming to not buy any clothes for myself for 6 months let's see if I can do it
I’d like to try this but am pretty sure I’d fail. Maybe try a no buymonth or week first. Plus I doubt my husband would go for it. So frustrating when your partner doesn’t agree with your ideas. Oh well 😔
You can do it! Starting off with a shorter amount of time is a great idea. It really helps to build your confidence. You can also do 1 month no buy, normal month and alternate.
I started a no buy 1 month ago but I still have credits in stores that I have been using I just made my last order and can’t wait to get of the hamster wheels of consumption ill be watching all your videos for inspiration
I think so. Removing the option to shop has left room for self reflection about why I buy things that I don't need. I can't tell now if the cycle will continue but I think it's worth a try.
My problem is not clothing but purses. I keep looking for the right purse. I see one that I really like then a few weeks later I find fault with it. Any advice
I know that feeling! How about instead of focusing on what you DON'T like about it, start thinking about what you DO like about it? Reframing your thoughts from feeling negative about the item towards feeling positive about it might help. It's more along the lines of an abundance mindset, which is something I'm trying to develop too.
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Hi! As a former shopaholic, I did a no buy for the year of 2018. It was the most amazing and detoxifying experience. You will make it and feel so much better. I always wonder now how I used to have time for shopping… life is richer without consumerism. ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing!! I love hearing from people who have walked the path before me and had such a great experience. I really appreciate the encouragement ♥️
I've been doing no buy year for the past 6 years because i wanted to save money. This year i finally bought two dresses for myself. That was a huge breakthrough for me. 😂
This is so inspirational! Thanks for sharing and I hope you're enjoying your new dresses.
I do Frugal February, Mindful May (no buy) NOBUY-July and NO-November (no buy) works out well for me, 4 no buy months and the rest are pretty low buy, the only month I spend is Stock-tober (October, as I stock up on all canned goods, personal items, and household stuff) I make sure I have a 1-year supply and I'm good .... try it, it really works. I'm a frugalnista and am okay with it : )
I really love this approach! I would like to adopt a similar mindset once this year is over. Thank you for sharing 🫶🏻
"I thought the amount of clothing I bought was okay because it was secondhand, but I was no longer okay with my rate of consumption" perfectly said!!
I have been in my nobuyyear journey this year. I thought - and so did many people - that I was not able to do it, but here I am. It has gone well, no impulse purchases at all. My ban list consist clothes, shoes, and bags. I bought zero of those.
You can do it! It is also very catharsis. Take care! 🌼
Thanks for sharing your experience! It's very encouraging to hear from people who are currently completing a no buy year (or have completed one). I'm glad that it has gone well for you 🫶🏻
I split my clothing budget in half this year. A no buy seems to drastic to me, there's always something I need (like replacement undies/socks) or want enough (e.g. gaps in my wardrobe) to justify it. 😂 But I wanted to cut the latter drastically and I succeeded! One positive side effect besides the saved money is that I finally actually wear my clothes. I need and want to get good use out of them and not already wanting the next thing. I will definitely keep the smaller budget. Wishing you success, too! 😊
Thank you! It sounds like you've found something that's working really well for you. Best of luck to you as well!
Im so inspired to do a no buy year for 2024. Im a shopaholic for sure and i think i feel this fomo of missing out on new trends and if im not buying the new styles and trends that im going to miss out on something amazing, but its really just stuff at the end of the day. Im terrified to do a no buy year, but i know it is possible. Shopping for myself is not beneficial for my family at all. I want to feel secure financially and im ruining it by constantly spending money oneaningless things. Good job! You can do it!
You can do it! I think that once you see the financial benefits that not buying unnecessary things has on your family's budget, you won't have fomo as bad. And the only purpose of trends is to keep us shopping, to make us feel like the things we own aren't good enough. But they are ♥️
I am the same. But, I want to pay off my car early and save money for my retirement so I need to cut the fashion spending and get back to basics and essentials. You can do this!
Mee too. I will be doing a no buy for 2024 as I want to spend more money on travels, but the fomo is real so will be unsubscribing from newsletters and find activities to do within the home ultimately I want my home to be similar to a hotel which has minimal items, it’s something I’m working towards
This is perfect timing, I will be on this journey with you. The dopamine hit that I get when I shop is SO strong. And, I have a feeling that a few friendships will,change as my shopping habits change.
I'm so excited for you! That dopamine hit is definitely really strong and I'd recommend removing shopping temptation as much as possible. I've been getting a ton of emails this past week (from brands I haven't heard from in years) and I've been doing a lot of blocking before I even have a chance to look at the email). If you want to keep your friendships but shopping is a big part, is there other things you can do?
My husband and I do no spending for 6 months. We usually either shop for spring/summer in one shot, then fall/winter in another. And most times, we set a limit or shop second hand. We both work in factories so there’s really no need to have a closet full of nice new trending items because we also don’t eat out as much! Also resulting in, not wearing make up as much! 😂 We have to work on Christmas and Birthdays but… otherwise we’ve gotten much better! You got this!
I love the sound of this! I hope to do something similar once this year is over so I appreciate you sharing you sharing this with me.
I am an inspiring minimalist for few years now and after having decluttered 50% of my wardrobe around 8 years ago I buy few good quality pieces a year (like 2 cashmere sweaters or a pair of shoes, gold earrings). My clothes budget is stable (below EUR 500 per year) all this time, I don’t have any urges to buy but it’s harder and harder to buy anything ant all. Be careful if you stick to this lifestyle, your expectations grow and one can overthink while it should probably be easier, right ? Anyway, I don’t regret my choices as it is very advantageous for me financially. I don’t need major decluttering anymore all this time as the use of my items increased and I wear them too death, they are also better quality and expensive (like 250
per cashmere sweater or shoes) so I would not be able to just give them away without any financial guilt.
You are where I want to be! I am already seeing the financial benefits of not buying clothes and I think it's going to make me question every purchase once this year is over.
Compulsive shopping tendencies is a good way to put it. Sometimes I go in for one clothing item and come out with several.
It's so hard not to 🥲
Hi. I want to do this with you. I also declutterred a lot, was on a minimal journey. I even did a no spend month and was shocked and pleasantly surprised how much I saved. However, when stress creeps up to uncomfortable levels and I’m trying to lose weight, I can’t go to my comfort food. Shopping is what I choose. My spending has gotten out of control- even though I am a frugal spender. I justified every purchase, but my closet got full again. I am going to try journaling- it’s free. May we all succeed in our journeys.
Shopping is such a quick and easy fix when we're stressed but I'm starting to realize that while it's stress relieving in the moment, it ends up causing more stress eventually. I hope that you find journaling helpful!
omg me 2 doing both a no buy and a health journey is hard but we can do it
The less items I own the more i treasure and value what I own. I found when I had loads of clothes and house clutter i didn’t value anything I didn’t care for it it was something I would just throw in a corner or hide in a draw getting wasted with out even a second though but now I sold all my bits and rehomed them I been loving the items I have kept the small amount items I will use
It’s made me realise I don’t need to buy stuff and I have been saving my money I’m happy with the stuff around me I don’t need that new trendy jumper in the store or that new decorative item that’s on display in the shop. I used to go into shops and by everything I liked the look off now I take a step back and go I don’t need that. I can proudly say after 4 months I can walk into a shop and walk out with nothing in my hands nothing interests me no more that I changed my mind set I’m content with what I got. It’s been such a amazing feeling to realise that.
You make a great point about not valuing belongings when there are so many. I think all the clutter overshadows the things that we truly love. And it's so great to hear that you are content...that's the ultimate goal, isn't it?!?
This is so inspiring and aligns very much with the new mindset that I've been trying to cultivate for myself!! Thank you so much for sharing this journey with us!!😊
I'm so glad this resonated with you! Wishing you success on your journey 🌻
Thank you for your honesty 😊
I have the same issue of "going in for one thing but falling in love with a ton" which has a cost at the end 😮
I only do no buy when I don't have the money for it and I'm able to be ok but it should always be a "I don't have the money for it " thing in order to be happier, simpler etc...😊
It's so hard to not look at all of the other things!
I once had somebody comment that they do a number of no buy months throughout the year and the rest are low buy with the exception of 1 or 2 where they stock up. It's built into their plan and I liked the idea of this.
I’m about to do a low buy year for 2024 starting today…I’ve never done this before. But I’m a shopaholic in the form of Amazon & eating out. This new year I’m going to move out a the end of the year, lease a car (hopefully) & eat out less… I want less items in my home… I’m so nervous I’m gonna just keep buying stuff but I made a list of the things I’m allowed to buy if needed and stick to it & my reasons for doing a low buy year…
I'm so excited for you as you start your no buy challenge! It's great that you have a list to remind you of why you are doing this challenge and what you can buy. The hardest part is the beginning so remove as much shopping temptation as possible!
I feel this so much in my own life. Even started blogging, in a way, to hopefully give me reasons to continue the journey. This past year I started with great intent to do a low buy. Well, that fell apart. The past few months have been better but I really want to challenge myself to do a no buy where I only buy replacements for used up items or necessities and essentials. I am reading Greg McKeown's book, "Essentialism" and hoping to give myself a springboard to saving more money and finding peace and gratitidue for what I do have.
You can do it! I think you are taking great steps to increase your chances of success. Blogging is a great way to stay accountable and I think that's a great book...you've reminded me that I should re-read it as it's been years. Another thing that I've found helpful is to reduce temptation...no "browsing" online or at shops, reduce social media use or unfollow accounts that make you want to shop (reduces marketing) or whatever else that increases your chances of shopping. Once you get over the first month or 2, I think the benefits will be so motivating. I'm almost 2 months in and I'm starting to see and feel the benefits, and they make me excited to continue, although I acknowledge that I have a long way to go.
We only have 2 weeks to end the year 2023, it's also a season of gift giving to our loved ones and families. It is quite overwhelming to spend and give gifts to our loved ones just to make them pleased/happy and most of the times we tend to overspend thinking that this season only happens once a year. Right now, I'm so tempting to buy new clothes and shoes for this holiday season, but on the back of my mind, there is a voice reminding me that it is not practical to buy just because I want it. I'm glad I saw your video and watched it. It is a good reminder to why not buy and be practical. :) Watching from Philippines
You make so many excellent points! It sounds like you're heading into 2024 with a strong mindset.
When you said you have wanted to do it for four years, I was like, wait, I need to do this! I wanted to do a no buy for 2023 and didn't. Now that I have some better ground rules I think I won't feel stuck or deprived. Thanks!
I'm so excited for you! I definitely think that targeting your pain points while leaving room for the things you enjoy is important to success! You can also start small, with a month, and then keep increasing it (3, 6, 12).
Im doing a No buy year again.
Its taking time for me to untangle my addiction.
I love your channel ❤
I love this! It's so inspiring to hear from someone who has done a no buy year before! I think it's good to come back to it when we feel like our addiction is rearing it's ugly head again. But we will overcome it 🫶🏻
I love your soothing voice
Thank you so much! And that's so inspiring. Sounds like you're all prepared for winter 😀
"I bought 20 items of clothing"
I’m doing a no buy year. No clothing, no perfume, no shoes, no home decor, no more unnecessary stuff. I’m just buying the needs food etc
Love this! How is it going?
@@uncomplicatedspaces I’m doing it. Things came up but I’m glad I had the money. It really feels great and you are in control
That's amazing! Way to go 🙌🏻
I love this idea! I am starting a new job in January 2024, so I want to get myself a first day of new job outfit, but after that, I love the idea of starting a no-buy. I may not go for a full year, especially because I'm not sure what is the dress code at my new job. Maybe I will start at 3 or 6 months, and then try 1 year. I just bought a bunch of secondhand clothes for a trip (I needed light weight clothing that covers my legs to fit the climate and respect the culture) that aren't really my style. It felt AWFUL to spend so much of my money on clothes that I doubt I will wear much beyond traveling. There are a few items that surprised me with how much I like them, but I prefer showing my legs, so I won't usually reach for long pants when it's hot outside. I really need to go through my wardrobe. I'm a working adult in my mid 20s now, so a lot of the clothes I wore as a student aren't appropriate for work, and I prefer to wear comfortable clothes on weekends!
Congrats on the new job! I think trying out shorter periods at first and working up to longer ones is a great idea.
This is so incredibly helpful. I know I consume too much, own too much, and I have used the excuse that the vast majority of my clothing is secondhand. But the inner issue- buying to feel that “ high”- is what needs work. Thank you.
I'm so glad that you found this helpful. I know that feeling well, and find it even even stronger when I'm shopping secondhand because it feels like I'm on a treasure hunt. It's definitely much easier when I just avoid going into shops! I hope you have a great day!
I have decluttered my wardrobe to 30 items and I love it.
That sounds so freeing!
I'm going to try to do this for 2023 too. I finally got out of an abusive life for... well it was all my life lol and as a self employed disabled business owner, money isn't easy to come by for me and I have a lot of things to pay for and now two sick cats. I used to shop a lot to fill the depression void and I don't need to be doing that anymore... especially in a tiny 370 square foot studio lol. Fingers crossed for me aaaah. The only actual need on my list would be a good winter coat since I moved from the south to the midwest so... winter lol but other than that, I know I just don't need more stuff. Maybe documenting it again like you are will help me again.
I'm glad to hear that you're in a better place, I hope your cats feel better soon. Documenting your no buy challenge is a really good thing to motivate you to keep going. I've got my fingers crossed for you! You've got this 🙌🏻
I want to do a no buy month to start. Its hard because my weight fluctuates and i keep needing to purchase new bras and jeans 🤦🏼♀️
That's a great goal!
thank u for making this video🙏 i always get so mad and disappointed in myself when i buy clothes or makeup. I am a uni student, so am moving apartments every year and my clutter and amount of clothes always stresses me out. i always justify a clothing purchase i never really wear, and the amount i own constntly stresses me. i am trying to remove clothes every 2 months that i dont wear and am going to try this with you!
I understand that frustration and have spent years with those same feelings. I'm happy to do this journey alongside you!
I am slowly and effortlessly spending less on stuff, When I go to a thrift store to donate items, I browse the alleys and treat it like a museum where I can revisit things from the past; I will pick up an item, examine it and remember one of my aunt had one dish like this, and then I will put it back on the shelf. Then I exit the store and congratulate myself for not bringing home an item I didn't need. I will shop for food and some essentials like furnace filters, wipers, things I need. I did it for financial reasons and also because when my mom left for a care home, she had not cleared many years of accumulation. Too much stuff is toxic and bad for mental health.
That is such a great way to approach the thrift store, allowing you to enjoy the experience but not accumulate more stuff! It's interesting that you say that about your mom and the years of accumulation. My husband and I were just talking about that the other night in terms of our own parent's stuff.
I did even better. My mom gave me a nice china set with all the serving plates, she had not used it in years. But then she moved out. I realized after 2 years that I would not use it. I sold it , I got money for it and it gave me back my space. I won't tell my mom, this set was not a need for me, it was a burden I didn't want to push onto my children.@@uncomplicatedspaces
I love that you did that for yourself! I often see those china sets in antique shops and they're beautiful but who needs all those pieces, and to think that they're usually the second set that people own for special occasions.
I joined your no-spend in October. No new or thrifted clothes, shoes, bags, or jewellery. No new makeup, beauty, or hair products (only replace what runs out). No home or bathroom linens. My closet has been reduced considerably over the past few years and I have two capsules: Spring/Summer and Fall/Winter. I did find that I was adding more things to my wardrobe over the past year that I was comfortable with, so I'm putting on the brakes.
I'm so happy to be on this journey alongside you! How has your experience been so far?
So far, so good. I nearly caved yesterday when I saw a cable knit sweater, but I reminded myself that I three sweaters for Fall/Winter and that this is enough for me. I walked around the store with this item (I was shopping for slippers, as I need a replacement pair) and by the time I completed the circuit, my internal dialogue was complete and I put the sweater back.
We started a journey about 6 months ago after looking at our spending. We make good money yet not a lot to show for it. We plan to retire in 10 years and want to be debt free. So I think we are over moving or building a house.
Eating out is down to special occasions. I think we went to 1 foodie event in 2023 vs many. We quit a few wine clubs.
We are more intentional with grocery shopping and meal prep.
Shopping has been a problem for me for years...decades. I have moved to thrifting and cut costs considerably and we also have a set amount we can spend a month. I do not feel as bad thrifting. The stores I go to serve a ministry or the veterans. I rotate out clothes to donate also.
It is a process. We struggled with purchasing another camper. Stipulation, we do not go in debt and it doesn't interfere with our overall plan to be debt free in 5-7 years.
We spend less with camping overall including the cost of the camper than we did eating out a few times a week and going to foodie events.
We want to be debt free for better retirement but we also want to be more generous to help others.
Allow some grace, if we beat off track, we acknowledge it and try again.
Wow! Thanks for sharing all of the ways that you are changing your spending habits. It sounds like you've really thought about the best path forward for your future goals. Isn't it mind-blowing the amount of money we can spend eating out vs. cooking at home? It sounds like the camper will add a lot more value to your life that the restaurant meals!
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Your hair is beautiful!
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Thank you so much! I'm so happy that you're enjoying it ♥️
Me too!!
I wish you success. 😊 Not going to the stores or watching any shopping channel is a must. I have bought based needed replacements per season for years. I shop my own closet first.
Thank you ♥️ and I definitely believe that! I haven't been to a store and I'm limiting social media and I feel like that's helping a lot.
Loved your video !!! Slowly starting to question my own consumption, I am at the very beginning of this journey. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability, your insights have really enriched my thinking and will be of great inspiration in this quest. Thank you, thank you, thank you !!
I'm so glad that you enjoyed the video! Glad to be on this journey with you...you've got this!
Very inspiring. I needed this video so much. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
You seem like such a gentle person.
Thank you for those kind words 🌻
As long as I started to watch this video I immediately subscribed. I have problem with shopping. I field my first no buy year…. I need some inspiration
Welcome! I'm so glad you're here. And you are not alone...I've failed no buy challenges in the past. But failure is a (necessary) part of the journey. Every time we fail, we learn something new that we can use the next time, until eventually we succeed ♥️
I'm so excited to see your videos!! You seem so down to earth and i love that you are doing this with a family. Its hard to relate to single people living minimally.
Thank you so much! I appreciate that ♥️ And having a family definitely adds an extra element to it!
Looking forwards to seeing the progress you make. I'll be doing it along with you. I'm just in the process of making decisions about the details. I'm really hopeful and enjoyed your video.
Thank you! So happy to do this together 🫶🏻
Love this! Good luck on the rest of your year!
Thank you so much!
Your cats are so sweet, also your doggo! Doing too a no buy year.
They're the best little assistants...if only for their cuteness!
And that's awesome...how far into it are you?
i waited for jcp black friday to get cable sweaters and long sleeve tee's because i have holes in the elbows in the old ones lol.did christmas shopping but got car seat warmers.....practical not a want
That's a great way to use the Black Friday sales!
I love this idea- and would love to try this, maybe month by month.
That's a really great plan!
Good luck with your new projects!
Thank you!
My last buy for clothing was last month and it was only one pair of jeans before that I had brought some clothes in July/aug I'm aiming to not buy any clothes for myself for 6 months let's see if I can do it
You can do it! 🙌🏻
I’d like to try this but am pretty sure I’d fail. Maybe try a no buymonth or week first. Plus I doubt my husband would go for it. So frustrating when your partner doesn’t agree with your ideas. Oh well 😔
You can do it! Starting off with a shorter amount of time is a great idea. It really helps to build your confidence. You can also do 1 month no buy, normal month and alternate.
I want to do this (No buy year) in 2024. I hope get it !!!
Good luck on your journey!
I'll be going to have a no spend month for January. I'm very curious about how I'll be feeling. ❤
That's great! You can do it 🙌🏻
I havent bought clothes, shoes, wallets, jewelry, cologne, makeup like in 10 yrs.
Thanks for sharing!!
I'm surprised so 10 years without shoes and pants and socks ?
I buy socks+ underware. I get my daughters clothes. Im retired/disabled past 9 yrs. So Im mostly home.
I started a no buy 1 month ago but I still have credits in stores that I have been using I just made my last order and can’t wait to get of the hamster wheels of consumption ill be watching all your videos for inspiration
That's so great! You can totally do it 🙌🏻
I'm going to be doing a no buy year Next year!
Good luck! You can do it 🙌🏻
@@uncomplicatedspaces thank you!
Your cat is majestic
Thank you! She definitely thinks she's a queen, so that's fitting 😺
I love this ❤I needed it
I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
I’m with you
Love to hear it! 🙌🏻
But is this really fixing the source of the need to buy unnecessary items? Otherwise the cycle could start again.
I think so. Removing the option to shop has left room for self reflection about why I buy things that I don't need. I can't tell now if the cycle will continue but I think it's worth a try.
My problem is not clothing but purses. I keep looking for the right purse. I see one that I really like then a few weeks later I find fault with it. Any advice
I know that feeling! How about instead of focusing on what you DON'T like about it, start thinking about what you DO like about it? Reframing your thoughts from feeling negative about the item towards feeling positive about it might help. It's more along the lines of an abundance mindset, which is something I'm trying to develop too.
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you look as if you were drawn and came to life. ✨ as a former shopaholic i reallyyy wanna try this. thanks for the tips 😊
You can do it! 🙌🏻