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Re feeling safe with a man. For me, that means feeling safe not from danger. Rather, safe to become open and to build my life and fully bloom here. And if it’s not safe, we try to communicate in hopes of making it safe. If that doesn’t work, she will either keep trying or she’ll leave.
One thing that is so special about this Lady is that she answers the questions and then asks the asker, what do you think? Would you agree? What are your opinions? She is one of the rare people in today's world who is interested in listening more than she is interested in talking. Such a powerful woman, who showcases such amazing grace and power that comes out of genuine feminity.
What a special lady this one is! "When a man chooses wisely and has self-control, peace is an inevitable outcome" 💌this is going on my fridge today. Much love.
Omg you are so right! What it literally takes to walk away is not easy by any means! People who can advise walking away almost have to have that "right of passage" so to speak to have the right to even speak it. That's how huge walking away is to me! The actual act of walking can transform a person. Good or bad and definitely mentally!
Is it humanly possible to be so self aware?! Her understanding of self and society at large is cosmic level. Wow. I not only bumped up my IQ score after watching this episode, but credit score as well - feeling wealthy in compassion, empathy, personal insight and inner peace. Tremendous.
If you had good role models, you will absorb this stuff naturally. But it can be learned. Books like "Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus", and " The 5 Love Languages" help both to learn hos to express needs and understand each other's needs.
Spot on! A man has to choose an intelligent woman,but not one who has a big problem with jealousy and control. Actions speak louder than words,there is your answer.
I hope you read this Sadia : every time you talk about trauma in any of the podcasts, i get answers to my unresolved issues which caused me a lot of pain. Keep sharing !!
Oh so hard not to love her. I hope she really heals from not accepting compliments because she is a 20/10 that how beautiful phenomenal and down to earth she is
I am appreciating you both, the whole session was about me and my Ex. I really would like to have watched this with him. 25 years of painful learning. I am so grateful that we have internet and such interviews to learn faster the wisdom’s for a happy life. I wish my Ex that he is happy and finds peace! Sending love to all reading this.
I love listening to Sadia's conversations as they are so enlightening. I also struggle with receiving compliments and think people are lying or having low self-esteem. It's so weird I do not know why I downplay myself like that, yet I let other people shine. I know there's some childhood trauma there that needs healing. It's okay Sadia we'll work on it!
I had and sometimes still struggle with the same issue, receiving and believing compliments. Thanks for sharing, learn to compliment and love yourself because I promise you're amazing. Just allow yourself to see it. 🫶🏽
12:00 Men who say they want peace might be engaging in behaviors that not conducive to peace, they don't have self control. They coming home late, they are drinking or watching pronography
No we want solitude and peace. You can’t do that with an entitled toddler in an adult body who needs attention, validation and drama like he needs air and they have zero accountability. Facts!
More importantly Lewis, is the content you bring to my life/our lives! Thanks a million. I feel we have seen your growth as well. Pretty cool. Sending you and your lady good vibes. @@lewishowes
I am just discovering Sadia, I came across her speeches not to ling ago. The level of honesty this woman has with regards to herself is shocking. I greatly appreciate her straightforwardness. I like how she focuses in taking accountability for our choices that later lead to relationship failures. Happy to watch more episodes like this in the future.
Thank you so much Lewis! What I love about you so much is that you cover all aspects of life - spiritual, financial, health, relationships. And so much more. You are also so present in your interviews you give your full attention, you take notes, and you ask the questions that we have on our minds. I appreciate you so much.🙏🏼
So glad you touched on communication , if your relying on someone to guess what you need that’s a slippery slope . Lots of emotional maturity needed with both people .
I love her honesty. Gorgeous and down to earth woman. She is so feminine, assertive and peaceful. Thanks for bringing Sadia to teach us a lesson. She is the BEST!❤
I found myself struggling to have a partner who wanted to enforce boundaries for me, but didn't have boundaries/self-control for himself. It ultimately led to the end of our relationship.
Enjoyed this conversation. Whether you're a parent or not, you were a child and were raised by parents, therefore you can give objective advice to a parent. And even though a person may not have your exact situation they are looking in and can see the things you can't so they can give insight. Everyone along your path has something to offer. I hope people stop discrediting others because they have not been through the exact things as you.
Lewis is such a great interview host. I love these interviews and the things that are discussed. The questions that Lewis asks are excellent and keep such a good flow throughout the whole thing. Theres a lot of great content creators out there but Lewis just comes off as such a genuine guy. Its really inspiring and respectable. This channel has been a significant benefit to my life. Thanks Lewis, for all that you do and for being real with the world.
I love his first question. It’s valid. 100% valid. When I select a coach, I need them to understand my struggles. If you’ve haven’t struggled thru anything and cannot relate to me as a mother, wife, ex wife or single parent … then I’m not sure they can truly relate to MY life. To each their own. ❤
Totally recognize myself. The more distant and avoidant men are. The more I want them. The more complicit the more I don't want. But raised with two parents with addiction. They prioted themselves. Took many years to start going another way. But the way is not to find a new partner. But to find myself. I also disappeared from myself as a 7-year-old. Just started giving and became a total people pleaser to those who never give. Now yes, almost 50 years later. People pleaser to myself. Gives what I gave to others to myself. But the toughest spiritual journey I've done. No dancing on roses. But stand firm and go my way. Not the programming that sat like the mountain. No more ever. I had to get real how i feel so i could heal.
As painful as these realizations are when we finally come to understand what drives us to behave the way we do, it’s also very liberating. I relate to your comment and hope you’re doing well
I can relate to some of what Sadia was talking about ( except the compliments - I love them). I give good relationship advice and as a social worker, I used to give great parenting advice and I don’t have children either and not married. I have the knowledge, experience, training, and wisdom and curiosity. As a therapist, you have to be able to build a strong therapeutic connection with your clients, give more than what’s expected, and continually being able to learn and develop as a counsellor.
I've listened to Sadia on several interviews and see that she is experienced with her subject material. Way better than so many in the influencerfield. Thank you
Just listening to them talk about childhood, to any parents your middle child only knows if they middle of you tell them my 21 young adult child didn’t even tell me till until lately she didn’t even know she was. I tried to alway encourage your the only one with younger siblings and an older sibling. As I explained the same to the oldest and youngest. Your in your own special order. And I seen in Lewis channel he had a guest to say parent make sure your children know they belong with you there home is where they belong. That’s something that was a takeaway for me. That’s amazing to tell your children. Like Lewis said he felt like he didn’t belong. There is so much power in parenting. ❤️❤️
One of the reasons and a big one as to why i like your messages is that you are not about rubbishing males. You have a good understanding of what we go through in life too.🙏
Imagine such a beautiful, bright, nice woman having felt criticized and judged most of her life...unfortunately, so many women can relate! So happy that she attained this level of success in spite of all the negativity which she still experiences!
Thank you for sharin that was very personal. So I guess I’m not as crazy as my family made me out to be. I was felt alone lonely ostracized, so I’ve been without them for 25 years and I feel great.
Sadia is so authentic. I enjoy every podcast I’ve seen her in 💯 and definitely enjoy Lewis being vulnerable. Can you do a podcast and share how you overcame your sleep disorder?
I’m exactly like Sadia. I was a people watcher as well. Currently working on my inner child, along with 2 decades of work and continuing to grow and love myself. I was always gender neutral, and was a tomboy in the military. I’ve also discovered that I haven’t had a successful male friend that didn’t want more.
I identify with this woman so much!!! My family was the same way. I am the same way as an adult. Wild. I loved his question "what would life be like if you accepted all the "positivity" and accolades. " I didnt word it word for word.
I relate to Sadia and what she called weird despite being herself. It's self sabotaging, imposter behaviour. Once I got an employee of the month award and literally I talked bad about myself before all my colleagues and they simply heart it without denying me. I really felt I didn't deserve that award... But when I see that from now, it seems none of them also were better deserving than me. Yes I have a rebel kind of confidence. I don't care if my superiors don't like me, but I care the most what my juniors and my colleagues think about me.
How a person sits, tells you a lot about their character. A person that leans back is too into themselves and dismisses your feelings or anything you say. A person that sits up straight or slightly leans forward when you are having a conversation with them is a good listener and cares about your feelings and what you have to say.
Her transparency is everything!! Sadia you are phenomenal, I understand you totally. I truly believe your beauty is both a gift and a curse and the hate you receive from women comes from their insecurities. This is because you exude greatness and the confidence men gravitate towards. So in essence they try hurting you with hatred and unkind words. Because of your experiences you are humbled.. If beautiful was a person your picture of your face would be along the side of it . Beautiful innermost ❤total package
It is good to hear what they say. As in my last relationship, I was told that something was wrong with me and that I didn't appreciate her chatting with her exes and finding more guys to befriend. 😅
When people don't communicate their needs and wants and so on then they're leaving themselves open to assumption and presumption which usually leads to chaos
I believe her when she says she doesn’t have self esteem but has self confidence. I seem like a very confident person, always get compliments on that and people say, you’re so confident I wish I was like you. I am…. But also have a low self esteem that makes me think they are lying. Exactly what happened to Sadia in this episode when he was acknowledging her work. It’s crazy.
Thank you for sharing- a lot of good points made! I stumbled onto the short and the “committed” word grabbed my attention to listen to it all after I started to read the comments…I wanted the whole story…touché you got me to listen lol & I’m glad!
I felt the level of uncomfortableness when she said she doesn’t like compliments. I’ve struggled with this a lot. I have had to practice not trying to state why I don’t think that’s true instead trying to just say thank you regardless of how untrue I feel it might be.
People don't always tell you who they ,lol you have to find out,actions are everything.I love men and women who are not too insecure to walk,thats a real person.
You are beautiful that is why!! Don’t dislike me. I am a straight female and had the same experience with my siblings but my mother and father told me how much they loved me and valued me before they passed. Middle child here. 18 years old I moved into my own apartment and paid all my bills and purchased my first vehicle with my dad co-signing.
Cool video, My relationship of 6 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
I really want her to start receiving compliments more whole-heartedly because she is totally totally totally worth it. Really loved the host as well❤. He seems so mature, sorted and considerate
The safety part for women is so true, im 26 and not in a relationship but the thing i crave the most and i guess is also the reason that im single is financial protection, and not in a way that the man needs to provide for my needs at all times but I do not want to be put down because of my inability to meet up to the challenge especially in this culture of what do you bring to the table. It's sort of like a pressure that he'll look down on me if i ask him for anything, therefore I'm driven to put more effort on my self financially and i neglect my relationship needs
I have never heard anyone explain self esteem and self worth and confidence that resonates with me so much. I’m so thankful for watching this. Really good episode.
This has open me up in ways i never expected! Her way of seeing, expirencing her world resonate so much with mines. So her view on human psychology is very much on track with my generation I'd say.
This was one of the most condensed and superb interviews I have seen. Deeply appreciate both of you, it doesn't take much to understand that you are sharp as blades and empathetic. Add to that the inspired "inward searching" questions and equally truthful and honest answers and you've got a superb interview, on a -subjectively- hot topic, with solid both understanding but also conceptually solution oriented. Loved it🎉🎉
I have to say she is very brave. She has great insights into relationships and psychology but every time she says “isn’t that weird” she knows deep down that it’s her childhood shame that is manifesting in her behavior. Anger/lack of sleep/not being able to accept. praise. She is still deflecting a little but what balls that takes to tell the world. Very brave.
Thank you Sadia for sharing with us your experience in family relationship. You are straight forward mother. You speak what you've experience. I'm grateful Sadia. We'll keep in touch t.
Anyone who has good instincts or dare I say psychic abilities can take away one thing from this podcast. These two are beautiful souls inside and out, genuine and humble.
The wisdom comes from one's own.challenges and experiences, but childhood challenges/wounds are surfacing and governing the dating world for the baby boomers (and all others). Our journeys are not just about us; it's to help uplift humanity. In the dating world, I didn’t realize until recently, how broken and afraid of love the men are out there. They are proclaiming that they want relationships, but they are truly seeking emotional safe-havens. I'm having issues dating as an awakened woman of self-love and respect and this intimidates men or make them run away (good for me!); I believe in establishing a friendship, first, and it gives me time to use logic and not emotions making decisions about "the guy". This allows me to see if he will be around or just looking for the next best thing. It's really sad to me that there's so much mistrust and lack of love in the people of our world. Great interview, Lewis and Sadia!
31:30 Fits of rage and anger with hurtful words is a big one. That's not 6 or 7 on the scales, that's more like 2 or 3 for self control that no amount of gym membership or whatever can compensate for....
100% this. Behaviours have weightings. Fits of rage are potential dealbreakers. Eating salad, not watching porn etc, hardly compared to attacking/shaming your partner verbally, emotionally etc.
Yes let’s start using what she said against her, she didn’t say that happens every day. That probably happens once in a blue moon and with reason as she is very self-critical.
I luv her... she speaks so much truth ...i actually think she has some psychic abilities cause she touches on things that are inner truths, things that i know are true but would never admit about myself ❤
Love this podcast so much and at the same time I would challenge the idea that you can’t have 100% confidence and zero % self esteem. Self esteem feeds from confidence so at the very least she has at least 50% self esteem
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@lewishowes You need to do a little homework, the women you just called on your podcast justified the October 7 Massacre in one of her podcast..
Yes agree with what she said. You provide an alternative to TV and Netflix.
Re feeling safe with a man.
For me, that means feeling safe not from danger. Rather, safe to become open and to build my life and fully bloom here.
And if it’s not safe, we try to communicate in hopes of making it safe.
If that doesn’t work, she will either keep trying or she’ll leave.
Yes!
YES!🙏🏻🙌🏻
One thing that is so special about this Lady is that she answers the questions and then asks the asker, what do you think? Would you agree? What are your opinions? She is one of the rare people in today's world who is interested in listening more than she is interested in talking. Such a powerful woman, who showcases such amazing grace and power that comes out of genuine feminity.
Act of a psychiatrist 😌.
Aptly said about genuine feminity. Powerful in a different way from the mainstream idea.
Well said,I agree totally,she shows great respect on doing this.
He who asks the questions control the conversation
Yes. She. Has. The. Pure. Power. Of. Deflection and. Bullshit.
What a special lady this one is! "When a man chooses wisely and has self-control, peace is an inevitable outcome" 💌this is going on my fridge today. Much love.
Thank you so much for watching!
Sure is a stellar line, as it's rooted in truth!
Absolutely words to live by!@@PlanningwithChloe
It's rare in today's world that I see a woman I want to emulate..she's definitely one.❤
She's so classy...unlike those only fans girls and others I see online. So glad I saw this! Not many of us classy chick's left...lol😂
YES. The strength to walk away is huge.
Omg you are so right! What it literally takes to walk away is not easy by any means! People who can advise walking away almost have to have that "right of passage" so to speak to have the right to even speak it. That's how huge walking away is to me! The actual act of walking can transform a person. Good or bad and definitely mentally!
Is it humanly possible to be so self aware?! Her understanding of self and society at large is cosmic level. Wow. I not only bumped up my IQ score after watching this episode, but credit score as well - feeling wealthy in compassion, empathy, personal insight and inner peace. Tremendous.
If you had good role models, you will absorb this stuff naturally.
But it can be learned.
Books like "Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus", and " The 5 Love Languages" help both to learn hos to express needs and understand each other's needs.
💗
Amen
Sadia is brave, honest, wise, courageous and so strong!
We need more women like Sadia!
Thank you so much for watching!
This is what a real powerful "boss" woman looks like. Not the mainstream idea of a strong woman.
And we need stronger men not weak ones 😉
Spot on! A man has to choose an intelligent woman,but not one who has a big problem with jealousy and control. Actions speak louder than words,there is your answer.
I hope you read this Sadia : every time you talk about trauma in any of the podcasts, i get answers to my unresolved issues which caused me a lot of pain. Keep sharing !!
Oh so hard not to love her. I hope she really heals from not accepting compliments because she is a 20/10 that how beautiful phenomenal and down to earth she is
I am appreciating you both, the whole session was about me and my Ex. I really would like to have watched this with him. 25 years of painful learning. I am so grateful that we have internet and such interviews to learn faster the wisdom’s for a happy life. I wish my Ex that he is happy and finds peace! Sending love to all reading this.
Showing a complete disregard for a woman's emotional well being make a woman feel unsafe for a man they are with. Very important
💯 it's so very true
not sure if unsafe is the word maybe unsettling?
I love her. I don’t think it’s low self esteem I think she is humble
I love listening to Sadia's conversations as they are so enlightening. I also struggle with receiving compliments and think people are lying or having low self-esteem. It's so weird I do not know why I downplay myself like that, yet I let other people shine. I know there's some childhood trauma there that needs healing. It's okay Sadia we'll work on it!
I had and sometimes still struggle with the same issue, receiving and believing compliments.
Thanks for sharing, learn to compliment and love yourself because I promise you're amazing.
Just allow yourself to see it.
🫶🏽
12:00 Men who say they want peace might be engaging in behaviors that not conducive to peace, they don't have self control. They coming home late, they are drinking or watching pronography
Yeah, usually when people say they want peace, they don’t realize that they have to have the find the peace within themselves
This is true in many cases.
What they really mean is "be quiet & let me do whatever I want".
No we want solitude and peace. You can’t do that with an entitled toddler in an adult body who needs attention, validation and drama like he needs air and they have zero accountability. Facts!
I love this episode. She is beautiful, real and confident. She is human. I could relate with her emotions
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
More importantly Lewis, is the content you bring to my life/our lives! Thanks a million. I feel we have seen your growth as well. Pretty cool. Sending you and your lady good vibes. @@lewishowes
I am just discovering Sadia, I came across her speeches not to ling ago. The level of honesty this woman has with regards to herself is shocking. I greatly appreciate her straightforwardness. I like how she focuses in taking accountability for our choices that later lead to relationship failures. Happy to watch more episodes like this in the future.
Love her honesty in response to the question on her ratings on self esteem and confidence.
Thank you so much for watching!
Thank you so much Lewis! What I love about you so much is that you cover all aspects of life - spiritual, financial, health, relationships. And so much more. You are also so present in your interviews you give your full attention, you take notes, and you ask the questions that we have on our minds. I appreciate you so much.🙏🏼
Glad you enjoyed it! What stood out to you as a lesson to move forward with?
So glad you touched on communication , if your relying on someone to guess what you need that’s a slippery slope . Lots of emotional maturity needed with both people .
I love her honesty. Gorgeous and down to earth woman. She is so feminine, assertive and peaceful. Thanks for bringing Sadia to teach us a lesson. She is the BEST!❤
I found myself struggling to have a partner who wanted to enforce boundaries for me, but didn't have boundaries/self-control for himself. It ultimately led to the end of our relationship.
🎉 congratulations for being brave enough to end it. 🕊️
Yes isn't that amazing how they do that smh 🙄 ugh! I say "If u don't like it what makes u think I like it" smh 🤦🏽♀️
Enjoyed this conversation. Whether you're a parent or not, you were a child and were raised by parents, therefore you can give objective advice to a parent. And even though a person may not have your exact situation they are looking in and can see the things you can't so they can give insight. Everyone along your path has something to offer. I hope people stop discrediting others because they have not been through the exact things as you.
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!
Her words are pure gold. She is the only RUclipsr thats realy helped me about my relationships and myself.
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
Lewis is such a great interview host. I love these interviews and the things that are discussed. The questions that Lewis asks are excellent and keep such a good flow throughout the whole thing. Theres a lot of great content creators out there but Lewis just comes off as such a genuine guy. Its really inspiring and respectable. This channel has been a significant benefit to my life. Thanks Lewis, for all that you do and for being real with the world.
Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡
I agree completely!
Even though this is the first episode I came across from this channel! Thanks algorithm 😅
This collaboration is my favorite. Thank you both for an amazing Q&A!
Thanks for watching! I'm glad you liked it!
I love his first question. It’s valid. 100% valid. When I select a coach, I need them to understand my struggles. If you’ve haven’t struggled thru anything and cannot relate to me as a mother, wife, ex wife or single parent … then I’m not sure they can truly relate to MY life. To each their own. ❤
Appreciate you for sharing!
@@lewishowesApart from the content, why you invited a Hamas terror sympathizer on your show ?
@@sturmgewehr8145 WTF?
Totally recognize myself. The more distant and avoidant men are. The more I want them. The more complicit the more I don't want. But raised with two parents with addiction. They prioted themselves. Took many years to start going another way. But the way is not to find a new partner. But to find myself. I also disappeared from myself as a 7-year-old. Just started giving and became a total people pleaser to those who never give. Now yes, almost 50 years later. People pleaser to myself. Gives what I gave to others to myself. But the toughest spiritual journey I've done. No dancing on roses. But stand firm and go my way. Not the programming that sat like the mountain. No more ever. I had to get real how i feel so i could heal.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! 🧡
As painful as these realizations are when we finally come to understand what drives us to behave the way we do, it’s also very liberating. I relate to your comment and hope you’re doing well
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I like the transparency in the conversation, it was amazing to listen in.
I love her authenticity, honesty, and vulnerability! Shes awesome!
I can relate to some of what Sadia was talking about ( except the compliments - I love them). I give good relationship advice and as a social worker, I used to give great parenting advice and I don’t have children either and not married. I have the knowledge, experience, training, and wisdom and curiosity. As a therapist, you have to be able to build a strong therapeutic connection with your clients, give more than what’s expected, and continually being able to learn and develop as a counsellor.
I love how honest and open she is about everything.
🙏
Such a deep woman with great insight and to open up as showing a vulnerable side was wonderful for the conversation.
🙌
Having confidence to do something but not have self esteem resonates so much.
sadia, you’re not as hated as u think - u are indeed very much appreciated. thx u for your work, your wisdom, your insights, thank u!
Sadia is such a smart, genuine and compassionate person🇵🇸♥️
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Who doesn't? It's healthy and delicious! Have you tried garlic hummus?
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@@frankG335 that’s racist
She is so beautiful inside and out, and so honest and smart. I truly enjoy listening ❤️
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
I've listened to Sadia on several interviews and see that she is experienced with her subject material. Way better than so many in the influencerfield. Thank you
You're welcome, thank you for watching.
WOW, I heard so many great suggestions and information about relationships, family. Thank you, Sadia and you Lewis! Iwish you the best in your lives .
All easy to say when you are youngish, beautiful and succeed at life. I’d love to hear from an older woman who’s had to ride the waves of life
Just listening to them talk about childhood, to any parents your middle child only knows if they middle of you tell them my 21 young adult child didn’t even tell me till until lately she didn’t even know she was. I tried to alway encourage your the only one with younger siblings and an older sibling. As I explained the same to the oldest and youngest. Your in your own special order. And I seen in Lewis channel he had a guest to say parent make sure your children know they belong with you there home is where they belong. That’s something that was a takeaway for me. That’s amazing to tell your children. Like Lewis said he felt like he didn’t belong. There is so much power in parenting. ❤️❤️
One of the reasons and a big one as to why i like your messages is that you are not about rubbishing males. You have a good understanding of what we go through in life too.🙏
Imagine such a beautiful, bright, nice woman having felt criticized and judged most of her life...unfortunately, so many women can relate! So happy that she attained this level of success in spite of all the negativity which she still experiences!
Thank you for sharin that was very personal. So I guess I’m not as crazy as my family made me out to be. I was felt alone lonely ostracized, so I’ve been without them for 25 years and I feel great.
Sadia is so authentic. I enjoy every podcast I’ve seen her in 💯 and definitely enjoy Lewis being vulnerable. Can you do a podcast and share how you overcame your sleep disorder?
YES! I love listening to what she has to say. She sums everything that's going with relationships so concisely. Love her.
What delightfully honest woman! So rare. 🎉
🙌
I’m exactly like Sadia. I was a people watcher as well. Currently working on my inner child, along with 2 decades of work and continuing to grow and love myself.
I was always gender neutral, and was a tomboy in the military. I’ve also discovered that I haven’t had a successful male friend that didn’t want more.
This is useful content. Sadia so not afraid to speak about her inner fears. Bravo.
Thank you so much for watching!
I identify with this woman so much!!! My family was the same way. I am the same way as an adult. Wild. I loved his question "what would life be like if you accepted all the "positivity" and accolades. " I didnt word it word for word.
Oh my gosh I love her, her honesty and authenticity is through the roof. Love, love, love
The complementing thing I feel it so much! My reaction is quite the same. I always think straight away: what do they want from me?
I relate to Sadia and what she called weird despite being herself.
It's self sabotaging, imposter behaviour.
Once I got an employee of the month award and literally I talked bad about myself before all my colleagues and they simply heart it without denying me. I really felt I didn't deserve that award... But when I see that from now, it seems none of them also were better deserving than me.
Yes I have a rebel kind of confidence. I don't care if my superiors don't like me, but I care the most what my juniors and my colleagues think about me.
I think a person should always be able to change in a relationship in a positive way and for the relationship.
How a person sits, tells you a lot about their character. A person that leans back is too into themselves and dismisses your feelings or anything you say. A person that sits up straight or slightly leans forward when you are having a conversation with them is a good listener and cares about your feelings and what you have to say.
Observing is a Great tool to have, I use it Everyday. Amazing what you can pick up about people and the way they are
Her transparency is everything!!
Sadia you are phenomenal, I understand you totally. I truly believe your beauty is both a gift and a curse and the hate you receive from women comes from their insecurities. This is because you exude greatness and the confidence men gravitate towards. So in essence they try hurting you with hatred and unkind words. Because of your experiences you are humbled..
If beautiful was a person your picture of your face would be along the side of it . Beautiful innermost ❤total package
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
14:50 If you choose a woman who is healed or secured, she wants to be protected In a way that no one can
It is good to hear what they say. As in my last relationship, I was told that something was wrong with me and that I didn't appreciate her chatting with her exes and finding more guys to befriend. 😅
I think a lot of women suffer from Imposter Syndrome. Thank you for being so vulnerable during this interview. Loved it!!
When people don't communicate their needs and wants and so on then they're leaving themselves open to assumption and presumption which usually leads to chaos
I believe her when she says she doesn’t have self esteem but has self confidence. I seem like a very confident person, always get compliments on that and people say, you’re so confident I wish I was like you. I am…. But also have a low self esteem that makes me think they are lying. Exactly what happened to Sadia in this episode when he was acknowledging her work. It’s crazy.
She’s self aware and all of that but little more work to be done on self. I come in peace ❤
Pls explain what do you mean by that?
She lacks authenticity to me
Thank you for sharing- a lot of good points made! I stumbled onto the short and the “committed” word grabbed my attention to listen to it all after I started to read the comments…I wanted the whole story…touché you got me to listen lol & I’m glad!
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OMG! She has so many words of wisdom.
Love this Woman Sadia Genuity &Truth ful of her Divine Wisdom ⭐
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I felt the level of uncomfortableness when she said she doesn’t like compliments. I’ve struggled with this a lot. I have had to practice not trying to state why I don’t think that’s true instead trying to just say thank you regardless of how untrue I feel it might be.
So authentic! ✨Love her! ❤️🙏
All though she doesn’t like compliments! 😁❤️
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People don't always tell you who they ,lol you have to find out,actions are everything.I love men and women who are not too insecure to walk,thats a real person.
Lewis, you are so fabulous. Wish I was young and you available! Much happiness to you for what to bring to all!
Appreciate you and your support🧡
You are beautiful that is why!! Don’t dislike me. I am a straight female and had the same experience with my siblings but my mother and father told me how much they loved me and valued me before they passed. Middle child here. 18 years old I moved into my own apartment and paid all my bills and purchased my first vehicle with my dad co-signing.
Cool video, My relationship of 6 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
Great interview!! Thank-you!!! Wonderful gems!!!
I appreciate the transparency in this conversation.
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I really want her to start receiving compliments more whole-heartedly because she is totally totally totally worth it. Really loved the host as well❤. He seems so mature, sorted and considerate
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The safety part for women is so true, im 26 and not in a relationship but the thing i crave the most and i guess is also the reason that im single is financial protection, and not in a way that the man needs to provide for my needs at all times but I do not want to be put down because of my inability to meet up to the challenge especially in this culture of what do you bring to the table. It's sort of like a pressure that he'll look down on me if i ask him for anything, therefore I'm driven to put more effort on my self financially and i neglect my relationship needs
I have never heard anyone explain self esteem and self worth and confidence that resonates with me so much. I’m so thankful for watching this. Really good episode.
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I like this woman very wise woman. We need more woman like her in life
That's how a lot of people learn most important things in life is to observe and analyze and profile
She's utterly amazing and naturally brilliant...!
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Lewis your last words hit it on point, Saadia pls do ur homework 😉- your are an incredible human 😘
This has open me up in ways i never expected! Her way of seeing, expirencing her world resonate so much with mines. So her view on human psychology is very much on track with my generation I'd say.
LOVED THIS INTERVIEW! And love this channel! I have learned and grow so much thanks to this! Thank you! And what a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN!
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
This was one of the most condensed and superb interviews I have seen. Deeply appreciate both of you, it doesn't take much to understand that you are sharp as blades and empathetic. Add to that the inspired "inward searching" questions and equally truthful and honest answers and you've got a superb interview, on a -subjectively- hot topic, with solid both understanding but also conceptually solution oriented. Loved it🎉🎉
Sadia is so gorgeous- exudes from within. Great interview Lewis!!
I have to say she is very brave. She has great insights into relationships and psychology but every time she says “isn’t that weird” she knows deep down that it’s her childhood shame that is manifesting in her behavior. Anger/lack of sleep/not being able to accept. praise. She is still deflecting a little but what balls that takes to tell the world. Very brave.
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We learn by seeing others struggling to love each other... An there hearts fold... Rather then unfold into love...
Thank you Sadia for sharing with us your experience in family relationship. You are straight forward mother. You speak what you've experience. I'm grateful Sadia. We'll keep in touch t.
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Anyone who has good instincts or dare I say psychic abilities can take away one thing from this podcast. These two are beautiful souls inside and out, genuine and humble.
15:22 If a man is frugal with her, she will feel more powerful than the man when she feels the man is not protecting, she become disrespectful
The wisdom comes from one's own.challenges and experiences, but childhood challenges/wounds are surfacing and governing the dating world for the baby boomers (and all others). Our journeys are not just about us; it's to help uplift humanity. In the dating world, I didn’t realize until recently, how broken and afraid of love the men are out there. They are proclaiming that they want relationships, but they are truly seeking emotional safe-havens. I'm having issues dating as an awakened woman of self-love and respect and this intimidates men or make them run away (good for me!); I believe in establishing a friendship, first, and it gives me time to use logic and not emotions making decisions about "the guy". This allows me to see if he will be around or just looking for the next best thing. It's really sad to me that there's so much mistrust and lack of love in the people of our world.
Great interview, Lewis and Sadia!
31:30 Fits of rage and anger with hurtful words is a big one. That's not 6 or 7 on the scales, that's more like 2 or 3 for self control that no amount of gym membership or whatever can compensate for....
100% this. Behaviours have weightings. Fits of rage are potential dealbreakers. Eating salad, not watching porn etc, hardly compared to attacking/shaming your partner verbally, emotionally etc.
Perfectionism is right In there..
Yes let’s start using what she said against her, she didn’t say that happens every day. That probably happens once in a blue moon and with reason as she is very self-critical.
Wow! what a inspiring video, thanks Sadia and Lewis, this was enjoyable.💐
I luv her... she speaks so much truth ...i actually think she has some psychic abilities cause she touches on things that are inner truths, things that i know are true but would never admit about myself ❤
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Her insights r very profound. N u saying she might b psychic is interesting
Some people have very strong gut instincts, normally the very honest ones. She is a good soul, not perfect but who is. She means well.
03:21 honesty, compliment, feedback, lying 05:32 made me an observer
So beautiful so real and so authentic! What a refreshing interview! Love it! Great podcast Lewis! ❤
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You're welcome, thank you for watching!
❤Dear Lewis! I really luv that you appreciated Sadia for Wisdom! Thanq and Hugs to both you! :)♡♡♡♡♡
LOVE YOU SADIA!!! Humble and beautiful queen 🤍🇵🇸
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Define love.
Love this podcast so much and at the same time I would challenge the idea that you can’t have 100% confidence and zero % self esteem. Self esteem feeds from confidence so at the very least she has at least 50% self esteem
Lewis you are so incredible, thanks for the great work
Thank you so much. I appreciate you!🙏🙏🙏