Today’s Takeaway: Why Overindulgence Cripples Kids
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- Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
- Dr. Phil says there’s a point when overindulgence becomes crippling to a child.
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He wants to be classy but the way he speaks and his education is way sub par. Boy if you are going to be elegant you better earn it!!
There is really nothing elegant in the way he dresses.
@@michaelalguire419 not at all! A suit and some dress shoes is elegant
@@XxhimynameiscynxX Exactly
He'll end up broke with nothing when she can't give him this stuff anymore. He'll get a real wake up call one day.
Cringe
The way he’s acting I thought he was an only child. He has a sister in the house and she lets him act like that? He needs his a quick reality check..
I agree & self love course too
She needs it...What's wrong with this mother? What if little sister wants to have as much stuff as he has? Is mom going to work 240 😜hours a week??
@@birgittkellermann1420 I like how they say she works 120 hours a week, I seriously doubt that lmao
I deadass thought he was an only child
Don't victim blame
He’s trying to be a meme. The catch me outside girl set a terrible precedent for all of these social media grubby, spoiled kids.
TryHardWriter or dr Phil did by letting these kids go on the show to furnish his own pockets
Exactly!!
Yessssss
@@teenindustry don't you dare speak down upon our lord and saviour
TryHardWriter She wasn’t spoiled or social media grubby, she just had a bad attitude. She’s fine now. All these kids just wanna get fame.
Why did she give him the Main bedroom???? She created his character!
Yes she did.....you discipline your kids from a young age
Mother is to BLAME !
For a "king", he sure knows very little. 😒
Exactly!! He will have a rude awaking one day soon
If anything he’s a court jester
He knows nothing
A point I want to make is (not sounding like a psychologist or Dr. Phil) when you have behavior like Ronald where you're
arrogant, vain, egotistical, narcissistic, fame-hungry, money-hungry, unsympathetic, conceited, self-obsessed, and insensitive
it generally and overtime destroys your intelligence and skills because a person like Ronald devotes all his energy
and memory to things he wants as opposed to things he needs. So in time people like Ronald are destined to go down
a road to an unsuccessful life.
Yup.
I’m currently taking ap psychology and I am so excited to be able to use this term: this boy has obviously not passed the preoperational cognitive developmental stage which consists of egocentrism; the attitude that everything revolves around you (ages 2-6 or 7 years) this is most likely due to his mother’s parenting style (obviously by the video) specifically called permissive parenting.
His grammar is that of a six year old.
What the heck I was such a nerd 🙃
@@vivio9865 he’s talking about the boy in the video
@@deecap1788 I don’t see your reason for this comment… who is “he”
very cool im going to keep this comment in mind for when i have kids it's great info to know tbh !!
I almost grew up like that but I actually wanted to work to pay for my own things. That attitude left me so quick when I had to pay bills and couldn't go out and look fly 😂
Testify 💅🏾
That kid needs to go spend a month at any African parent's home, he'll go back okay.
bit racist...."send him back to africa?"
Rahul Kemp it’s a joke
its not a funny joke
@@rexdz4000 You missed the point totally..
@@rexdz4000 he is speaking how good africans rase their children and if they do something like that they would get their a** wooped asap my g
She created this monster
She has low self esteem and needs good approval.
Take your love back mom.
I can see where this went wrong...trying to make him happy without a father to help and then he slowly turns into a bully who she hasn’t got the strength to deal with.
I would move out of that apartment when he finishes school into a 2-bedroom and tell him he’s not coming with us. That gives him a few months to get his life in order and shock therapy would be good for this boy...a reality check.
It’s a shame this situation got as bad as it did. His mother is well meaning but completely wrong in the way she had raised her son.
She’s has a house, not an apartment she’s going to need for him to be extracted from the master bedroom out of the house, and then she’s going to have to make sure the house is secure with cameras because he will be back‼️
A queen maybe!, a king most definitely NOT
😂
She's no queen either get real
jojo bean no the boy is a queen
@@jojobean9260 You are clueless about what was said. It's not his mother the queen, it's his dumb behind acting like a queen.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
How to raise a sociopath!!!
Aahhh!! It's *raise*
@@raymundofantastico thx bro
Yeah, he doesn't care if his mum is breaking her back to get him his allowance.
He likes to go to expensive restaurants... OK. And I BET he’s the kind of person that will tip a DOLLAR TOPSSSSSS....!!! ridiculous
Almost punched my computer screen
ImproVLOG same
Yes
ImproVLOG he has quite a punchable face with that stinking attitude
same
I stg !!!
120 hours a week? 17 hours a day leaving under 7 hours for sleep groceries driving etc. BS
God bless those people don't need to work 17 hours in a day, but I'm the one who need to.
That's $1000/month not going into savings and a retirement fund. She will be working until she is 80 years old already. He needs 12 months on a dude ranch with no internet so he can get that show to go fame game out of his head.
Where would she work 120 hours a week?
Does she own her own business?
Yea, I find it hard to believe some broad is working 120 hours a week and is giving $1,000 a month to her stupid bratty kid.
@@blinkfan87 saw her wearing scrubs in one of the shots.
I would be so disappointed as a parent if my child treated me this way
Disappointed in your parenting?
@@emoquent9447 yes
@@emoquent9447 Yes, obviously
"hold their feet to the fire" perfectly said
Either they're clout chasing or this woman is seriously delusional. It's one thing when you have the money, but she clearly doesn't.
Sadly I imagine she has a lot of debt because of him
She cut his allowance, so at least she changed. Kid on the other hand...didn't really change. He made a video complaining about it. LOL
@@seta_souji whats his channel name?
@@doublelol 1King Rizz (but loljayson also did a video about it and it's pretty funny)
He’s already ruined. He will have to go through something to humble himself. She made him this way
Something humble. It's called get out of my house. But it's too late now.
Why is she giving him the money?! Lady is creating a monster. When she eventually dies or stops giving him money, he will resort to stealing or taking advantage of other people to get what he wants. He will never work a day in his life. Probably wind up in jail eventually
When I have kids I will teach them that if they want something, they gotta earn it by working for it. Only then they can see the true value
Dennis de Jong I'm glad I was raised to see the value of hardwork and earning things
@@shanapiggott2321 Amen
Amen! I'm almost 30 & we still want to wait a few more years for kids. My kids will NEVER act like this! This is actually child abuse in a sense, because he has NO IDEA of REAL life! So sad!!
Dennis de Jong also, I agree with you, I plan on raising my kids with values and morals
If it were that easy, every one would be doing it. It's a work in progress every single day to teach them whatever it is you want them to learn. It takes lots of hard work, time and PATIENCE.
You are raising a narcissist here!
@Helen Saghy actually no. It is a developmental disorder.
He clearly is one though, the fact he's working his mother into an early grave with no shred of empathy proves that.
@Helen Saghy Personality disorders aren't biochemical. They are learned behavior.
damn i might think he is one
@Ybonne Monde yes I said the same thing. Psychiatrist says that narcissism develops from experiencing trauma as a kid or being spoiled to the extent its unhealthily).
I get a sense he has a really hostile, aggressive streak.
Cut him off 💯%
If he wants to move out.. see ya! Otherwise he will never learn!
*TOUGH LOVE IS REAL LOVE!*
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Every muscle in my body is keeping me from handling him the old fashioned way. Dad's belt, and Mom's slippers.
Oh, I definitely had the belt thing...
Maybe they should use this boy's exepensive belts (if he has any) and whip him with them to see the painful reality of owning such clothes! ;)
That makes the two of us
Yet my 6 yrs old daughter when we cant buy her a toy right now or something because we need it to eat or rent is : "That ok, mommy! I can help you! Just take my money of my Peggy banks". We give her 50 cents or a dollar occasionally when she has done chores to help us. God, I'm so greatful to have a child like that!!!
The mother has serious issues
When i was a child who live under my parents roof, i don't get money for doing chores. If i asked for $10 i will need reasons and negotiate for the amount i asked and end up getting half or quarter of what i ask for. I had my clothes, bed and well fed tho what more a child could ask. But what my parents did teach me to be smart, i start make my own money and spend it however i want.
Mama is an enabler, she created this whole catastrophe.
This Ronald person is DELUSIONAL, Dr. Phil. Of course, you KNOW this! I pray that this Mom Can get ahold of the concept of “Commando Parenting” for the entire family’s sake‼️👌🏼💯😎
He’s has a harsh reality to come 🤦♀️ the solution to that problem is make him get up, get out and get his own. A real man don’t wait on a female to take care of them even if it is mom. He’s a peasant not a King he should bow to the queen... FACTS
That is sad.
$12,000 spent year after year. She could've paid the house off, save a little for investments, retirement or for future college/trade school tuition. I feel so bad 😢
She did this to herself
Mommy you have big hearts!! 🤭🤭🤭
He almost seems like he would get abusive with her
He already is. See how he talks to her, in public! Imagine how he’d speak to her when they’re alone.
he even stole her credit card 😩
Dr. Phil you Rock! One of the best host on tv. Keep the great topics coming in!
My parents had a bakery when I was growing up. We worked in the bakery from the time we were in 3rd or 4th grade, and we earned a SMALL amount ofmoney. Like 50 cents an hour.
WAY better.
I have a 4 year old who i can afford to buy fancy toys for. If she breaks her toy, she doesn't get a new one until she learns to appreciate her possessions. This guy still missed that class.
I mean he’s right my mom did everything for me and it really hindered me as an adult.. she did my homework for me in high school she paid for everything until I was 24 years old I’m slowly being an independent adult i was never disrespectful or bratty but I got treated the same when I did good or did bad and so I wouldn’t try incschool I wouldn’t try and be motivated because I didn’t have to and it really crippled me.
“Does it bother you that…”
“No it doesn’t bother me.”
My folks would have thrown me out right there
It all begins when they turn 2. By age 4 it can already be out of control. This poor mom probably didn't get any help during those toddler years and now she's feeling so defeated.
You mean no blk father lol that's most of the blk community then
He just singing that song now,
"I dont know i dont know i don't know i dunno i dunno"
ppl calling this mother weak, when she was strong enough to get help. Most people can't even admit when their doing something wrong.
he should be on the show, worlds strictest parents
He needs a male figure in his life to give him real discipline and teach him how to be a man.
I agree that it would have been greatly beneficial for this kid to have a male figure in his life, but mothers can provide discipline, structure, and good life skills as well. My mother did that much better than my father. She taught us that life is not fair, that decisions have consequences both good/bad, the value of money, hard work is a virtue, integrity is #1 importance, and being poor doesn't mean you earn the right to be sloppy/dirty. She also stressed that we must not base decisions and commitments on "feelings"; rather they must be made on the values I already listed. Unfortunately, women tend to be more "feelings" based and therein lies the problem. I'm glad that my mother had a great balance between the love of a mother and the practical side of a father.
it can be male or female disciplinary figure, no need for this toxic mucsculanity incel!
The great Jesse Owens shined a million pair of shoes, operated an elevator, so he could study while working......Was grateful for everything and was the GOAT in track and field
Dr Phil giving some quality advice right here
I can only go by the few clips shared on youtube as I did not watched the whole show. But is there a part 2 to this because to me it seems as this young man is holding his Mom hostage for some unresolved issue and I know Dr. Phil can read that?
He needs to get a reality check, send him to boot camp he'll get a sense of gratitude for what he has and gets
Someone give this boy a reality check ...
He’s killing his mom, 120 hours a week is ridiculous, that’s almost 4 full time jobs
It's okay to spoil your kids once in a while but there has to be a limit. I'm not gonna lie, sometimes I be feeling guilty when I ask my mom for stuff. I don't really ask for a lot but sometimes I feel guilty when she gets me something nice that I didn't ask for.
same
Soooo, what ended up happening? Did he send him somewhere? Or give them a life coach?
I'm curious too
Loving him is not given him whatever he want........I love that Dr Phil
When I was a teenager I received $5 weekly allowance. Most of the time I turned around, spent it on my mom!
You da man Dr. Phil
when I was about 11 i got my firsth nintendo DC that I worked for, by shoveling snow for neightbors or walk other neighbours dogs or cut the grass it took me over a year of hard work afther school and homework. but it was a satisfying feeling when you get the things that you have earned. I thank my parents who taought me that.
This is low-key a great advertisement for using protection 👍
I am willing to teach him some lessons and manners if he comes to PAPUA NEW GUINEA..we have a lot of spoilt Australian kids who come, experience life and change here.
Mom's laziness....he does not make her go to work, she chooses to so she can keep him stupid.
How can I see this whole episode without it being broken up like this?
Look up dr Phil full episodes. It’s there. Just watched. Funny asl
Where i live this is not happening even if we know the child has parents that have good paying jobs he was just humble about it, and the fact that i'm am the same age as this boy just disgusts me.
These kids have no concept of the real world and the way things work at all,and its the parents own fault
Commenting allowed on Dr. Phil's channel??? What kind of sorcery is thissss
This kid doesn't realize how much the world is going to hate him!
This is a sad but common phenomena in big cities in China. What a global mess!
This kid is almost an adult. His mother created this problem by being his enabler. I hope and pray Mom puts her foot down and parents this entitled brat by taking back the master suite in her home and giving this child a bedroom with the bed, non-designer clothing, and other essentials. Mom needs to insist he get a job so he learns how to work hard. Mom needs to sell the designer clothing, the TV, the car, & other non-essentials to recoup some of the money and to send a strong message that there are consequences for the bad behavior. When this kid gets out in the real world, he is going to be slapped with a rude awakening.
His ‘therapy’. This kid needs a hobby.
If he enjoys fashion to such an extent, learn to sew! Design your own clothing and make it! It will be worth so much more emotionally, on a skill basis, self esteem etc.
He needs to get kicked out of the house
I sure hope that things change.....drasticlly
Throw the whole kid away
I prefer that he goes to his dream places by his own money and gets a job his mom doesn't needs to give him anything he is a grown teen and should do his own stuff himself
Spending her retirement on someone who will not take care of her when she can't work anymore.
I hate people that have such a kind mom, and take advantage...she seems superr cool. And I get she giving him money so that he don’t get money illegal way... but🤷🏽♂️he spoiled man
“I don’t know” is all he has to say. Seriously, this dude needs to learn some responsibility with money.
I'd like to see the carbon footprint of this guy. He needs to be confronted with the consequences of his lifestyle.
That kid needs a good slap to the face he’s pathetic to be like that and his mom should be ashamed for encouraging this behavior
Give him a reality check let him run the household for a week do what his mom does work...cook...clean...ect..he'll break
If I were mom I would let him go out w friends one night and if I can’t find receipts I would eBay auction all of his clothes and leave him w a $6 shirt and maybe a jacket, cut his allowance completely and make him pay on days where he does not have a job yet
Poor lady could've slapped that disrespectful son of hers,though REALLY? Come on! Mum sets the rules NOT YOU SPOILED STILL A MINOR CHILD
EVEN IF YOUR 20 YOUR BRAIN HAS NOT FINISHED COMPLETELY GROWING
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN MUMMY NO LONGER FOOTS THE BILLS?
IM WORRIED FOR THIS WOMANS HEALTH STRESS CAN DO BAD THINGS TO YOUR HEALTH
CHERISH YOUR MUM! ONE DAY SHELL BE GONE LIKE MINE WAS
I bet that boi took all CP classes in high school. I'm a sophomore taking AP Calc (yes, I'm flexing), AP World, AP Chem, and AP Spanish. I make $500 a month (with a job, I' never gotten an allowance), and this boi GETS $1000 a month.
Society is broken
She says the extravagance needs to stop so she can set aside money for college. I think she needs to focus on preparing for retirement at this point.
um not everyone can afford to live a fancy lifestyle like that and its not crippling because not all millineals are like that.
I was a little spoiled but I got punished when I did something wrong don't worry about that
I wanna send all these people to that scared straight show
Well, for starters, he's gen Z. The youngest millinials were born in 1995. Second, no one said this applies to EVERYONE.
@@rosieglows I was born in 95 and i get that but still not all are though
@@rosieglows well I was born 1996 so am I one or not
Wow. He really thinks he's on th right. The arrogance in this kid is criminal.
Ok, so what happened? Did he just go home and resume being the King of Selfishness? Did mom get help? The message Dr. Phil sent in this video should be heard and understood by every parent on the planet; however, it would have been helpful to show us the consequences of what happens if this message is not followed and what Dr. Phil will do to Ron and any other kid who behaves this way
Ronald does have a RUclips channel and his most popular video is his mom finally grew a spine and stepped up as a parent
Mom's a fool to have even considered that kind of allowance.
This reminds me so much of my brother
My mom doesn’t even give me a single penny when I clean and kid gets payed for nothing
This is so bizarre....the mom is acting like it is difficult or something to tell him no. You need help to NOT give your kid money, really??
I have a completely different approach. He wouldnt get an allowance AT ALL. He would move into the smallest room, and donate alllll those clothes... he would be completely cut off. His obnoxious attitude is annoying... he isnt even likable, so that RUclips "career" is dead on arrival...
This kid is something else
😂 this is too funny... like way too funny, how are you letting your child be so loose. Like he’s dictating what’s gonna happen under your roof... with your own money? Wow
What's he gonna do if something happens to her? (illness, accident etc) and can't do anything anymore. He's gonna have nothing, and he's not gonna be able to do anything about it, except be angry and confused as to why he can't buy more useless stuff.
How does she work 120 hours a week and still cook dinner?? That's 17 hours a day, 7 days a week. That's only 7 hours a day not at work, hope she lives next door to where she works.
He is NOT the Issue - The Mother Is the Issue - She Created & Feeds that MONSTER.
Mom, you are working the equivalent of 3 full time jobs! What about the daughter, his little sister??? Does he even think about her? What is left for her? I sincerely hope for his own sake, this kid gets a reality check sooner rather than later. Mom needs a break and to rest! If SELFISH had a picture, this kid would be front and center!
Great advice Dr Phil!
Dr. Phil, could you do a follow up on this episode? Please and thank you.. I would like to know where are they now since to show..
I've never wanted to beat up a damn child so bad til now...OMG😡😡😡😡 THIS DAMN BOY NEEDS TO COME LIVE IN MY HOUSEHOLD FOR ONE, I REPEAT, ONE MINUTE!!!! I have 2 grown sons with good jobs & I thank GOD everyday they've ALWAYS wanted their OWN job & money. The little bit of allowance I was giving them MADE them want jobs 😂
I blame mom she needs a backbone and tell him "NO" I loathe kids like him😬😡
Sad but his mother failed him and her by allowing him to become this monster