Exercise 4 - Enter Their World

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  • Опубликовано: 1 дек 2024

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  • @Yeeeeeehaw
    @Yeeeeeehaw Год назад +59

    Hope that you are in good health Robert

  • @Unvaccinated100Percent
    @Unvaccinated100Percent Год назад +20

    This video is incredible. A good example is interacting with neighbors. Oftentimes, some neighbors get a bad reputation based on their past actions. But through life, I have learned to appreciate all neighbors regardless. We do not know what people are going through and the best we can do is be kind and compassionate.

  • @davidgordon7717
    @davidgordon7717 8 месяцев назад +3

    Robert is skillfully putting into practice the commandment to love your neighbour as yourself

  • @sourapril
    @sourapril 9 месяцев назад +2

    You are so good at what you do. I appreciate your beautiful mind.

  • @Cc-gb3rf
    @Cc-gb3rf 11 месяцев назад +4

    I learned that when your conciousness rises out above your childhood programming, you can realize that narcissists and empaths are actually the same. Both extremely afraid of accepting themselves and letting somebody else in. Different coping mechanisms. Life becomes beautiful when you see that the most daunting of narcissists is actually not that bad, they may actually want to slowly genuinwly enter your world. The most extreme codependent may actually chill out and self reflect. Both are more capable than we previously knew at following intuition, setting boundaries, self respect and a friendship may occur where one would never think possible. Abraham Hicks says "nobody is after you, nobody is out to get you, you can manifest whatever side of anybody you want." I've discovered the power of this. Stop placing your preconceived ideas on people, and you'll be amazed at what kind of support in life you actually have. The amazing partnerships, friendships and romantic partners you can find. As within, so without. As above, so below.

  • @nobodyaskedbut...3292
    @nobodyaskedbut...3292 9 месяцев назад +1

    i think infjs, empaths, and introverts naturally do this (?) it almost feels automatic to most of them.
    Truly appreciate you and your work Sir. Humanity is blessed to have you ✨

  • @JG-st2fy
    @JG-st2fy Год назад +20

    Robert you are really a master in your field. You can be proud of that.
    I really do love your calm way of talking and explaining because you have a voice that one could listen to all day long since its so calm😃

  • @memeranque
    @memeranque Год назад +29

    "In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I also love him. I think it's impossible to really understand somebody, what they want, what they believe, and not love them the way they love themselves." -- Ender's Game

    • @HeavyMedal
      @HeavyMedal Год назад +3

      There is no enemy, there is only someone who didn't understand you and you didn't understand him either.

    • @emeraudeazimile4596
      @emeraudeazimile4596 Год назад +2

      ​@@HeavyMedal One of the realest statement i've ever read about human nature.

    • @dantex3469
      @dantex3469 11 месяцев назад

      Not too difficult to understand the devil but okay…

  • @BashaerB-h2c
    @BashaerB-h2c Год назад +6

    I've never heard someone suggest such a strange yet thrilling approach! Mr. Greene always has original ideas. I'm excited to apply this as soon as possible. Thank you!

  • @muhammetlsmailyesilrmak8254
    @muhammetlsmailyesilrmak8254 Год назад +1

    I do this without unconsciously untill this year but I couldn't aware of myself for a long time bcs of this and this is why the part of the knowing "They're something else in your world." is so important guys. At some degree, I wasn't aware of myslef instead of that I was feeling like im somebody else (particularly my partner.).

  • @Santiino
    @Santiino Год назад +9

    This is so powerful but so hard to master.

  • @coleyod
    @coleyod Год назад +4

    Entering into someone's world is difficult but it would be really helpful way of connecting with people.

  • @shyammahajan4098
    @shyammahajan4098 Год назад +15

    Three persons really inspire me
    1.Robbert Greene
    2.Jim Rohn
    3. James Peterson

    • @govindtripathi6482
      @govindtripathi6482 Год назад +1

      James peterson or jordan b peterson

    • @jiensuyang3915
      @jiensuyang3915 7 месяцев назад

      Since ur value is not self evident , why should ur lil list have any value . On the contrary u might be jobless .

  • @harbinlevismendozaurbina6121
    @harbinlevismendozaurbina6121 Год назад +4

    I love you, Robert. You are like a father to me.

  • @noahbbbell
    @noahbbbell Год назад +1

    That practice of "making empathy real" is a way of cultivating/ strengthening empathy- becoming insightful and fluid. Appreciate the video and it reinforces my value of the practice.

  • @cynthia-jo1zz
    @cynthia-jo1zz Год назад +93

    One of the most draining thing to do.. entering a world of relentless toxic person.. interacting with them makes you want to end it and be gone forever..but well some people we have to deal with daily, or for some time.

    • @freeman37
      @freeman37 Год назад +15

      Make sure that person is not you.

    • @brice9996
      @brice9996 Год назад +1

      ​@@freeman37 ❤ ❤ True.

    • @MichaelGwin
      @MichaelGwin Год назад +4

      Especially when it's your baby mama. I've been a toxic relationship for 4 years and I've tried to escape it. Me in some ways being a narcissist makes it easy for her to emotionally blackmail me In every argument.

    • @grumblydoore8551
      @grumblydoore8551 Год назад +1

      So the law “don’t commit to anyone” is for you.

    • @Tnc874
      @Tnc874 Год назад +1

      That's their choice. If you make the choice to deal with it, then that's your choice

  • @janericca6180
    @janericca6180 Год назад +1

    I honestly couldn’t believe you were describing my repeating dream exactly! That large house with newly discovered rooms… but surely open to many interpretations

  • @kimariokiji
    @kimariokiji Год назад +8

    Thank you Robert. Just discovered this series of exercises, and appreciate this very much.

  • @ilonapitt
    @ilonapitt Год назад +3

    I wanted to share a tip on creating the inner landscape to help you with mastering this exercise. I’ve used chat gtp to help me come up with various ideas and details within my space symbolising emotions and events - I used the wildflower field and forrest as analogy as it’s a familiar place. Here is what I’ve come up with and hope this can be helpful to somebody : Entering the Wildflower Field (Joy and Anticipation):
    As you entered the mystical land, you found yourself in a vast field of wildflowers, each species painting the landscape with its unique colors and shapes. The brilliant summer sunshine warmed your skin, and the vibrant blooms reached toward the sky. Delicate butterflies flitted from flower to flower, adding to the enchantment of the scene. The field signified moments of pure joy and anticipation.
    Each wildflower species had its own story to tell. Bright sunflowers symbolized the warmth of joy, while lavender brought a sense of peace. The scent of roses filled the air, representing love and gratitude for the beauty of the world. You wandered through the field, feeling the soft earth beneath your feet, symbolizing the potential for new beginnings and growth.
    The Bright Clearing (Joy and Calm):
    Upon entering the forest, you found yourself in a bright and open clearing. Sunlight filtered through the towering trees, casting dappled shadows on the forest floor. In this serene space, wildflowers stretched their vibrant petals towards the sky. The scent of floral fragrance filled the air, and a gentle stream gurgled nearby, creating a soothing backdrop.
    This clearing represented a haven of pure joy and happiness. The colorful blossoms symbolized optimism and the anticipation of good things to come. Birds sang merrily from the treetops, their melodies reflecting the lightness of your heart. It was a place of inner calm and tranquility, where you could find solace and clarity amidst the chaos of life.
    Nesting birds filled the trees, their cheerful chirping adding to the symphony of nature. The presence of these delicate creatures symbolized the nurturing, protective, and caring aspects of your inner world. Just as a mother bird watches over her eggs, you, too, had the ability to protect and nurture the positive aspects of your life, fostering their growth and development.
    Amidst the Dark Thicket (Sadness and Fear):
    Leaving the bright clearing behind, you ventured deeper into the forest, where the path became more challenging. A dense thicket of trees surrounded you, their branches creating a canopy that blocked out the sunlight. Overcast skies hung low, and the howling of distant wolves echoed through the forest.
    This part of the forest symbolized moments of sadness, introspection, and fear. Uncertainty seemed to shroud your thoughts, and you navigated through the intricacies of your inner world, much like exploring the rings of ancient trees. The forest floor was marked with tree rings, each representing a year of growth. Some rings were dark, indicating difficult times, while others were lighter, signifying happier moments.
    The challenging terrain served as a metaphor for the times in your life when you faced sadness, introspection, and fear. Just as the trees had weathered countless storms and seasons, you, too, had endured and grown stronger through your life experiences. The howling of wolves reminded you that even in moments of darkness, there was a deep reservoir of strength and resilience within you, ready to guide you through the thicket.
    Beneath the Tall Trees (Peace and Gratitude):
    Emerging from the thicket, you entered a tranquil realm beneath the canopy of tall, ancient trees. The forest floor was bathed in the soft, silvery light of the moon, and the gentle sound of a flowing stream filled the air. The scent of pine and evergreens enveloped you, creating a sense of profound peace and gratitude.
    This part of the forest represented moments of inner peace and gratitude, where you found solace and appreciation for the beauty of life. The tall trees symbolized your enduring strength and resilience, their roots stretching deep into the earth. Just as the forest stood tall and steady through the ages, you, too, possessed the ability to weather life's storms and remain grounded.
    Here, you encountered wise owls nestled in the branches, their wise and knowing eyes watching over you. These creatures represented the wisdom you had gained throughout your life's journey. They reminded you that, in moments of stillness and reflection, you could tap into your inner wisdom and find guidance.
    Through the Challenging Terrain (Anger and Anxiety):
    Leaving the peaceful glade, you continued your journey through the forest, and the path became more challenging. Strong gusts of wind swept through the trees, causing branches to crack under pressure. The scent of campfire smoke hung in the air, and dense fog engulfed the forest, creating an eerie atmosphere.
    This part of the forest symbolized moments of anger, frustration, and anxiety. The turbulence in the trees mirrored the inner turmoil you sometimes experienced. The branches cracking under pressure represented the times when you felt pushed to your limits. The dense fog signified moments of confusion and uncertainty, where you had to navigate through the mysteries of your own mind.
    Amidst the challenges, you discovered a complex and vibrant ecosystem of insects, each playing a role in the forest's delicate balance. Insects symbolized the intricate and often overlooked aspects of your inner world. They reminded you that even in the midst of chaos, there was a beauty and purpose to be found.
    Into the Open Glade (Hope and Courage):
    Emerging from the challenging terrain, you entered an open glade, where strong gusts of wind transitioned to lush green grass. The scent of rich soil filled the air, and this place represented the courage to face challenges and embrace growth.
    Here, the winds had transformed into gentle breezes, symbolizing the lightness of hope and optimism. The lush grass represented your ability to adapt and grow, just as nature flourished in response to the changing seasons.
    The open glade was a place of hope and courage, where you could reflect on your journey and find the strength to face life's challenges with a sense of optimism. Hidden caves marked the landscape, waiting to be explored. They symbolized the uncharted territories of your inner world, inviting you to delve deeper into your thoughts and emotions, revealing hidden insights and treasures.
    Transition to the Dunes (Change and Exploration):
    As you ventured deeper into the open glade, the landscape began to change once more. The dense forest gradually gave way to rolling dunes. The soft sands beneath your feet symbolized the constant shifts and changes in your inner world. The dunes represented a period of transition and change in your life, and you navigated through the soft sands with determination and curiosity.
    The sun hung low in the sky, casting a warm, golden light over the dunes. This transition from the forest to the dunes symbolized your readiness to embrace change and explore the uncharted territories of your inner self.
    You can ask the chat to give you more details on each element of your landscape to build on.
    There’s more ideas regarding animals, types of trees, insects and mushrooms, changing seasons - happy to share here or invite you to explore for yourself to help you master your inner landscape x

    • @lmfao1773
      @lmfao1773 Год назад

      shut up

    • @emeraudeazimile4596
      @emeraudeazimile4596 Год назад +1

      Wow i really took my Time and immersed myself deeply into the beauty of the described landscape as i imagine it with every given detail, truly a trip for the soul.
      Thanks for sharing this my Friend as it brought up some incredible insights i never really thought about.

    • @umikaumika1066
      @umikaumika1066 7 месяцев назад +1

      Tq so much for ur effort, it's definitely helped everyone whose come across it ...

  • @Star-iw1kr
    @Star-iw1kr Год назад +2

    I agree. I spend most of my time this year with school, work, and writing. I've been enjoying studying and entering other peoples world because mine is boring at the moment.

  • @d3adpool472
    @d3adpool472 Год назад +3

    ngl ive always tried to do this since i was a child because im really curious and empathetic and because i desire gaining new perspectives. mainly because i wasnt allowed to go out more and thats what i tried to do with the few people i meet out of my circle to gauge if they were good or bad ... and i really like seeing that side of people, it makes connecting really easy and fun.

  • @Rafael-xl4fq
    @Rafael-xl4fq 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you.

  • @auradiana
    @auradiana Год назад +4

    I love your beautiful mind Robert Greene 💚 !

  • @MrRodQ
    @MrRodQ Год назад +1

    I'm going to replay this one a few times till I get it down

  • @pedrodobandolim
    @pedrodobandolim 9 месяцев назад

    you are so right. cheers from cologne :)

  • @briandan0521
    @briandan0521 Год назад +2

    Understanding people is a weakness. I will try to understand people as subjects and not objects, getting to understand their inner world and their childhood, which is their foundation for who they really are 🧎‍♀️

  • @HeavyMedal
    @HeavyMedal Год назад

    The kingdom is inside of you and outside of you. Know thyself because this is the path to finding truth. One has to discover himself to understand the truth.

  • @ilonapitt
    @ilonapitt Год назад

    Great exercise, thank you for sharing ❤

  • @danp6346
    @danp6346 Год назад +5

    You are the greatest to me

  • @owengreene382
    @owengreene382 Год назад

    Robert, my dreams as a boy, were, horrifying nightmares. I'm trying to reach the bottom of the dark stairs, chast by ghost. But i never get there. The devil is getting closer, but I can't reach the last step. And I don't understand why. The nightmare dream, stayed with me on until my 40s, and eventually stop. My dreams, were always of dispear and unhappiness and when i wake, im frightened and drained. Never once, had l beautiful calming dreams.But, then, my childhood was of total conflict. I come from a large Irish family in the fifties, wher poverty was the norm. When i reached 17, I left.
    Thank you, Rob, I follow your work, your a wonderful human being.
    Owen.

  • @user-eg4nj5mw1d
    @user-eg4nj5mw1d Год назад

    Fascinating

  • @mariamnagujjatheladiesguid8757

    The Way i Love Your books😅... I put them in a Special Area... Just to look at them n remember how u saved my business from manipulative people😂😂😂

  • @samoGoca
    @samoGoca Год назад

    Thank You!❤

  • @satnamo
    @satnamo Год назад +12

    Like Greene says: The way to seduce a person is to enter her spirit ❤

  • @KingGandhi66
    @KingGandhi66 Год назад +1

    Nice BG Robert

  • @bibib2455
    @bibib2455 Год назад

    Interesting mind ❤ great video

  • @reckszkingzactivitiesrkat.4134
    @reckszkingzactivitiesrkat.4134 Год назад +1

    Exercise 4 is facts 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @حمزةسلهب-ذ3ب
    @حمزةسلهب-ذ3ب Год назад

    روبرت جرين الكاتب المفضل لدي

  • @asgardianews6647
    @asgardianews6647 Год назад +9

    Do you mean that people don't naturally do this this all the time? I've always done this with everyone, never had to try, it just happens. I assumed everyone did it.

    • @LittleMissHoop
      @LittleMissHoop Год назад +2

      I know what you mean!

    • @JG-st2fy
      @JG-st2fy Год назад +2

      I also understand what you mean. But for example the people I talk to daily are way too self-centered. Thus it obviously is not something natural that any individual has. It would be nice though if it was this way…

    • @dfxjedi
      @dfxjedi Год назад

      Not natural for me

    • @janedoh123
      @janedoh123 5 месяцев назад

      I also pick up the emotions and energy from people and I can absorb them and confuse them with mine especially if it’s something like someone who is really into me and they think they love me very quickly and I sadly have ended up being in a relationship with them and I didn’t really feel attracted to them initially but it he was highly NPD which turned into psychopathic when he started physically abusing me as well as verbal and emotional abuse which was very draining
      He never did anything he said we were in some kind of a shared fantasy world and then I worked him out for the game he played and I had to get sturdy boundaries fast
      Theses patterns
      I remember that I said that I look at actually actions not talk , wow how did I forget that 😢
      Gone totally no contact

  • @editx842
    @editx842 Год назад +1

    thank you robert

  • @Rishavverma11
    @Rishavverma11 Год назад +1

    Sir I just wanna say you I Love you

  • @kathleenlewis1954
    @kathleenlewis1954 Год назад

    I try this often... sometimes others are really draining

  • @ryandavis4936
    @ryandavis4936 11 месяцев назад +2

    really abstract. just sounds like trying to empathize

  • @gus8310
    @gus8310 Год назад +2

    Robert i believe you are what Nietzsche thought of when he predicted the future philosophers. A person who can apprehend the world around him and become an obeyer and not an obeying

  • @ursanirak2870
    @ursanirak2870 Год назад +1

    As an extroverted feeler I do this all the time.

  • @Shekhar-ok7mx
    @Shekhar-ok7mx Год назад

    This is what I was waiting for..

  • @ishansubedi3054
    @ishansubedi3054 Год назад

    🔥🔥

  • @Derinnegan
    @Derinnegan Год назад +1

    🙏🏾❤️

  • @kassykass89
    @kassykass89 Год назад +1

    Would love to chat with you! Looking forward to the sublime 🎉

  • @Z97335
    @Z97335 Год назад +1

    Thanks for the video indeed love your content. tough maybe you can consider changing the background? I dont know if you look down to the camera and the ceiling is behing or if its frontal

  • @guittatim4300
    @guittatim4300 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @natnaelwolde2694
    @natnaelwolde2694 Год назад

    Hey man we need your perspective about the Gaza Israel war

  • @JG-st2fy
    @JG-st2fy Год назад

    This video is great. It made me think a lot.
    I am wondering if it is really like „you do have empathy or you dont. There is no such way as learning it“
    That made me think that maybe people who do not feel empathy can learn how other people feel but they are still not really affected by these recognitions and may still not act empathic since they do not feel the empathy on the emotional level but much more on a rational level.
    Nonetheless it is effective to put oneself in the position of others since it will always be useful in someway. Empathy is something very important und precious.

  • @lshubham3692
    @lshubham3692 Год назад +1

    I have taken time to digest the video and make it into use. The landscape thing is new ,will try to implement and enter in other landscapes .
    Day1 ☑️ 14.10.23
    Day2 ☑️ 15.10.23
    Day3 ☑️ 16.10.23
    Day4 ☑️ 17.10.23
    Day5 ☑️ 18.10.23
    Day6 ☑️ 19.10.23
    Day7 ☑️ 20.10.23
    Day8 ☑️ 21.10.23
    Day9 ☑️ 22.10.23
    Day10 ☑️ 23.10.23
    Missed few days
    Day11 ☑️ 26.10.23

  • @h.w.4482
    @h.w.4482 Год назад

    at first I thought the camera was aimed at the ceiling and he was bent over it lol

  • @olisykes44420
    @olisykes44420 Год назад

    🔥

  • @briandan0521
    @briandan0521 Год назад

    I think you should write a book on religion

  • @iNGryL
    @iNGryL Год назад

  • @rajatsaxena6470
    @rajatsaxena6470 Год назад

    Nice backlighting

  • @potatopotato-i4y
    @potatopotato-i4y Год назад

    Nice video 💯

  • @camandagtv
    @camandagtv Год назад +2

    That's invasion of privacy. You should know your boundaries. You can enter their mind but with permission, you just ask them nicely. It causes headache to that person if you enter in their consciousness without permission.

  • @TundeEszlari
    @TundeEszlari Год назад

    Nice video.

  • @AniPistachio
    @AniPistachio Год назад

    ❤️✨

  • @salmanalmutiry4217
    @salmanalmutiry4217 Год назад

    أدام الله ظلك

  • @Manuel-6
    @Manuel-6 Год назад

    Take care

  • @raginald7mars408
    @raginald7mars408 Год назад +1

    when you
    double the Light bulbs
    you get en Lighted yourself
    the Back ground dominates the Person

  • @marinaimmigration
    @marinaimmigration Год назад

    Is Robert Greene your real name or a pen name fashioned after the 16th century writer?

  • @noxusnoxy3702
    @noxusnoxy3702 Год назад

    Do you ever wish to go back to that young world ?

  • @matias7527
    @matias7527 Год назад +1

    Canal en español por favor

  • @shankarbalakrishnan2360
    @shankarbalakrishnan2360 11 месяцев назад

    Basic thinking prowess is missing not impressed by most clips thks❤❤

  • @ARMIMFANNI
    @ARMIMFANNI Год назад

    🌷🌷🌷🙏🙏🙏

  • @nickk.9111
    @nickk.9111 Год назад

    “When you’re talking to them you are slowly entering their foreign alien landscape” 👽
    Are you talking about the Social Sublime? 😮

  • @higherlove8886
    @higherlove8886 Год назад +1

    I don't think you can "make empathy real". You either have empathy or you don't.

  • @TheMPExperience
    @TheMPExperience Год назад

    ONLY DO THIS IF YOU ARE ALREADY IN RELATIONSHIP WITH PEOPLE!!!! If you don't have consent this can be abusive and manipulative. Asking someone about their reoccurring dreams is like asking someone what is your deepest darkest secret. Study Jung.

  • @GodGivesNewBeginnings
    @GodGivesNewBeginnings Год назад

    This sounds like manipulation-

  • @PrenticeIpanemia
    @PrenticeIpanemia Год назад +5

    What a sad man

    • @JG-st2fy
      @JG-st2fy Год назад +9

      Imagine someone texts you this. How are you going to feel? Try to understand this video more because exactly this lesson might help you to build more empathy.
      Really not in an offensive way meant but that kind of comment might be hurtful even if its not meant in such a way

    • @cucovermillion369
      @cucovermillion369 Год назад +18

      Usually negative comments made towards others is a reflection of how we feel and think of ourselves.

    • @lordmaximus5
      @lordmaximus5 Год назад +2

      ​@@cucovermillion369exactly , seems like a bitter projection