5 Body Language Rules To Read Anyone INSTANTLY! | Robert Greene

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  • Robert Greene, NYT bestselling author, whose books include, ‘The 48 Laws of Power & more reveals how to read anyone from their body language instantly...
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  • @valcurley5010
    @valcurley5010 2 месяца назад +48

    Watching body language was how I quit smoking decades ago. I noticed that I wanted a cigarette only in the company of other people so I needed another habit to replace it. Watching people totally worked!

  • @stellarhope6954
    @stellarhope6954 2 месяца назад +63

    1. attune to their energy, or emotions, an overall feel.
    2. their eyes
    3 their voice
    4 their smile
    5 body language, positioned towards or away
    6 detect first micro expession - approach from side

    • @eliseross6885
      @eliseross6885 2 месяца назад +4

      Feel the energy and experience their essence... Your eyes will lie, your thoughts and their words are spells. There is only souls and soulless.... The light and the dark..

    • @bonitahamilton5762
      @bonitahamilton5762 2 месяца назад +8

      I use the term..dead eyes! I notice that and leave! My mom had a saying..actions speak louder than words! Watch them!

    • @michellebustillos8764
      @michellebustillos8764 Месяц назад

      Spot on​@@eliseross6885

    • @donwrinkles717
      @donwrinkles717 Месяц назад +1

      Thanks. I'm outta here!
      🏃‍♂️ 💨

  • @Beardybuds888
    @Beardybuds888 2 месяца назад +18

    I feel someone energy and 9/10 I’m right about them

  • @thecarolineway555
    @thecarolineway555 Месяц назад +13

    scary how right he is and how we deny how right we are about our intuition....specially when folks who are good at at deceiving are good with smoking mirrors and creating illusions.

    • @dary369
      @dary369 11 дней назад

      Once thinking is involved, the intuitive knowing is already gone.

  • @Steve24527
    @Steve24527 2 месяца назад +37

    I got rid of a fake best friend recently after 17 years of untrustworthy treatment and disrespect

    • @te9591
      @te9591 Месяц назад +1

      This kind of thing is hard because you erase the mutual memories that might help define your sense of self. But remember, some of the greatest abusers mix affection and disrespect to confuse you. A true ally may challenge you but not disrespect your boundaries.

    • @Malaakies
      @Malaakies Месяц назад

      Me too I just found out that who I thought was my best friend sister and all was only a jock and that I was a fool for almost 18 years she was only using me and wanted me down cus I saw the joy and happiness in her eyes when I was depressed in had many shocked and problems ,but now that I’m back to my feet she’s playing the bestie again

  • @farooqbinadam
    @farooqbinadam 2 месяца назад +31

    There is a fine line between someone not being present when you’re talking them and it being narcissism, and someone having ADHD.

    • @wakegary
      @wakegary 2 месяца назад +2

      sorry, what?

    • @vanessita4138
      @vanessita4138 2 месяца назад

      Or someone with Asperger's.

    • @liljohnson3413
      @liljohnson3413 Месяц назад +4

      ADHD can definitely make you not be able to listen sometimes , we get bored so fast so if the conversation seems shallow then we zone out

  • @sharonadams9721
    @sharonadams9721 2 месяца назад +8

    The best negotiators watch body language first & only listen to speech second. 80% of what we convey is done through body language.

  • @TheyCallMeJesse
    @TheyCallMeJesse 2 месяца назад +40

    Robert Greene - the big brother everyone wished they had.

  • @Universal_Knowledge369
    @Universal_Knowledge369 2 месяца назад +145

    I'm a bit "nuts" not when it comes to relationships. I have a wife and kids and many associates but practically no friends. Probably because I go on and on about government propaganda, fluoride in the water and chemicals in our food etc 😂

    • @Rudimentary007
      @Rudimentary007 2 месяца назад +20

      I’m right there with you.👍😂💪🙏🏼

    • @sollovinlion
      @sollovinlion 2 месяца назад +11

      💚 this.

    • @TheFoodie77
      @TheFoodie77 2 месяца назад +8

      some people are genetically predisposed to believe in conspiracy theories. try studying more about the scientific method and critical thinking? it can be hard to decipher real threats these days though I agree

    • @phoenixrisin2269
      @phoenixrisin2269 2 месяца назад

      💪

    • @household6098
      @household6098 2 месяца назад +16

      ​@@TheFoodie77 Conversely, some people are also predisposed to thinking, whereas most people are not - regardless of how much evidence you put in front of them.
      The tricky part is seeing the difference between those who do think and question and people who are prepared to believe anything just so long as it is controversial.
      In the eyes of mainstream media though, those 2 types of people are one and the same.

  • @ritaauld3331
    @ritaauld3331 2 месяца назад +13

    Love these shorts. Thankyou. I want to watch all your interviews but dont have the time. Now I can choose.

  • @richardgregory2020
    @richardgregory2020 2 месяца назад +27

    1. Emotions/ Feelings
    2. Eyes
    3. Voice/ Tones
    4. Smile
    5. Body language

    • @faysalAub
      @faysalAub 2 месяца назад

      I’m going to dislike your comment because I want to

  • @Steve24527
    @Steve24527 2 месяца назад +4

    Excellent analysis

  • @mariepetterson7281
    @mariepetterson7281 Месяц назад +10

    The best way to get a genuine smile is to think of something genuinely funny.

    • @rowan7658
      @rowan7658 4 дня назад

      If you have to do that then by definition it isn’t a genuine smile 🙄

  • @gretchenburton7184
    @gretchenburton7184 Месяц назад +4

    The energy of deception. I feel it in my body.

  • @beyondfitrd
    @beyondfitrd 2 месяца назад +8

    Please interview Stephen Porges, or Seth Porges, regarding Polyvagal Theory for insights about how our nervous systems “read” each other for clues of safety and coregulation.

  • @Betterworldforyou.
    @Betterworldforyou. 2 месяца назад +4

    Great episode to come .

  • @superkb172
    @superkb172 2 месяца назад +2

    Lol, the internet is filled with opinions and everyone has one:
    There are many different types of nonverbal communication or body language include:
    Facial expressions. The human face is extremely expressive, able to convey countless emotions without saying a word. ...
    Body movement and posture. ...
    Gestures. ...
    Eye contact. ...
    Touch. ...
    Space. ...
    Voice. ...

  • @Eudaimonia88
    @Eudaimonia88 2 месяца назад +10

    Robert Greene - as unscientific as his argumentation is, based entirely on perception and gut instinct - fits perfectly with the theme and intellectual standard of Diary of a CEO.

    • @user-bd6qh5sf8d
      @user-bd6qh5sf8d 2 месяца назад +2

      Are you trying to mock him? I'm not offended or anything, just curious

    • @Eudaimonia88
      @Eudaimonia88 2 месяца назад

      ​@@user-bd6qh5sf8d I'm not mocking anybody. I simply stated the obvious.

    • @chriskiely7897
      @chriskiely7897 Месяц назад

      Same??....

  • @sallykins3800
    @sallykins3800 2 месяца назад +2

    Interesting

  • @janhirahara9001
    @janhirahara9001 2 месяца назад +3

    I look 👀 I see ..I hear 👂 🔥🔥🔥Ty 🙏♥️♥️♥️☮️

  • @essiebee3187
    @essiebee3187 Месяц назад +1

    People who are on the autistic spectrum find it hard to make eye contact and can be uncomfortable with one to one conversations. A friend of mine only just found out she is on the spectrum she is 61. years old. She always knew something was different and would often ask why she did things that were not 'normal'.Statistic show there are far more people who haven't been diagnosed especially those in their 40s -60s since neuro divergent conditions were not being studied like they are now. It might be wiser to consider whether someone is neuro divergent rather than anything sinister or weird.

  • @donnabu
    @donnabu 2 месяца назад +8

    5:42 So I knew someone like this.
    Theyre mostly seem like the charming narcissists Ive met. One of them was a doctor (psychiatrist to be specific) and I think he was the worst one… This doctor who was close friends with my s.o. are sadly not close anymore. He was always seen as competitive, he seemed to gossip about his other friends to us alot. He ended up being someone completely different from the person I thought he was, and I wasn’t aware of the signs at all.

    • @coffeeli4417
      @coffeeli4417 2 месяца назад

      I had one in my family. Devastating.

  • @Goal-galore.football
    @Goal-galore.football 2 месяца назад +1

    That "less than a second" moment, I often use it and From there, I know we've got nothing

  • @zoecoote3746
    @zoecoote3746 Месяц назад

    Robert Green is a fantastic writer and has a degree in literature. It’s important when presenting people as experts that you identify that this is the persons personal opinion and not based research, education and personal experience. He is saying sone absolutes here. My neighbour could do the same thing.

    • @JoeMaama190
      @JoeMaama190 Месяц назад

      Wow,so r u concluding that,bcuz he's a fantastic writer, he doesnt have any personal experiences or hasn't made research (for characterdriven material) that leads to expertise -- & all this bcuz u have personal experiences with fantastic writers that leads to u knowing how they as a demographic work? Or r u just saying something that ur neighbor told u?

  • @MaitLember
    @MaitLember 2 месяца назад +1

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 *🕵️ Understanding Body Language and Non-verbal Communication*
    - Reading non-verbal communication involves attuning oneself to others' emotions and overall vibe.
    - Specific cues like eye contact, tone of voice, and smiles provide insights into people's emotions and intentions.
    - Body language, including posture and facial expressions, can reveal genuine feelings or deception.
    05:00 *🔄 Importance of Surrounding Yourself with the Right People*
    - Surrounding oneself with the right people is crucial for personal and professional success.
    - Beware of individuals who spread negativity or drama, as they can infect others with their negative energy.
    - Seek out confident and proactive individuals who inspire positivity and productivity.
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  • @DouBBy-The-Great
    @DouBBy-The-Great 2 месяца назад +1

    I smiled too when Robert smiled 😂

  • @asymon
    @asymon 2 месяца назад +1

    l choose solidarity for this v reason.
    In my selective view - silence has always spoken the loudest. Besides that, the truth about most is usually masked and there is no real authenticity because this mostly feels like an imposter or otherwise known as fake.
    It’s uncomfortable. It also,spikes my nerves and my sensitive BS radar.

  • @AidanDoesStocks
    @AidanDoesStocks 12 дней назад

    He should write a whole book on body language

  • @a_gdia2300
    @a_gdia2300 Месяц назад

    What happen to his left arm?

  • @jessejarrett8981
    @jessejarrett8981 2 месяца назад

    As if him almost running out of the court room after the incomplete verdict wasn't all the proof needed. The body language gave it away. I was told it would be addressed there was no need to wait. Her mom and I agreed on a schedule in mediation and another schedule was introduced at some point. After having proven so many lies in original paperwork it should have been addressed. Sending a kid to spy on a parent was twisted. She said she asked what she could do to get a little more time with her mother. All she had to do was ask for one more weekend. I would have had more time to live an adult life. I didn't just drop her off at moms and do as I please.

  • @Telle875
    @Telle875 2 месяца назад +8

    Words: Trauma, autism, annoyance, interference, toxic positivity, self control. I’m sorry but while some of this is relevant a lot is not!!! You have to know the person, your own person, what is happening situationally, variance in situations etc!! If people smiled all the time that’s a problem. If people smile when you’ve just sucked punched them that’s a problem. Also to say you don’t want to be around insecure people, most psychopaths are very secure!! Probably don’t want to be around those either. I’m sorry but I personally don’t take this guy seriously.

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 2 месяца назад

      As some say superiority is a sign of inferiority.That the pesron uses aggression to hide his/her insecurities.
      They just look confident.

    • @John-rb3yv
      @John-rb3yv Месяц назад

      Yeah fuck this emotionally perfecy guy lol

  • @allentubman8052
    @allentubman8052 Месяц назад

    He's talking about my ex....pay attention to your gutt energy when you're dealing with people. I saw this and tried to ignore it.

  • @shankarbalakrishnan2360
    @shankarbalakrishnan2360 Месяц назад +1

    So much about lying people write about genuine people haha ❤❤🎉🎉spare me

  • @Taranis2b
    @Taranis2b 2 месяца назад

    Cool, I’m insecure. Good to know, people should be avoiding. They are very successful, so far.

  • @eriamhsl3841
    @eriamhsl3841 2 месяца назад +3

    Lol good luck w nuerodivergent peeps .

  • @marykinsella417
    @marykinsella417 2 месяца назад

    The eyes have it Hmm body language 😂❤

  • @RecreationalUseOnly
    @RecreationalUseOnly 2 месяца назад +1

    Stay away from Pro Victims who are constantly complaining about their “ex narcs” and gossiping.

  • @thenatureofnurture6336
    @thenatureofnurture6336 2 месяца назад +1

    This guy is like a first year student at the bar after lecture

  • @3rty7
    @3rty7 Месяц назад +1

    Everyone got issues, even you son 🤔

  • @oliversmith7820
    @oliversmith7820 2 месяца назад

    You think you've got it all worked out but you don't

  • @ukaszpospiech3817
    @ukaszpospiech3817 2 месяца назад

    The CEO's pronunciation is very poor.

    • @sadatt7584
      @sadatt7584 8 дней назад

      Thats what narc does, pointing out other's mistakes 😮

  • @hamiamiam
    @hamiamiam 2 месяца назад +3

    I don’t take Greene seriously

    • @sissi5598
      @sissi5598 2 месяца назад +2

      Why?

    • @saar237
      @saar237 2 месяца назад +1

      Ya please elaborate

    • @user-rn4wn9gf3b
      @user-rn4wn9gf3b 2 месяца назад +2

      Why?

    • @hamiamiam
      @hamiamiam 2 месяца назад +1

      He has no education on the topic. He also has no credentials on this topic. And now if you listen to what he says in this video, on this topic, it is not relevant nor smart, nor eyes opening. He doesn’t say much here except some very common things.
      I usually doubt all those selfhelp writers whose success has only been to write a book about how to do things, but not really doing them themselves.
      I’d put Jordan Peterson in the same category. Just cause you say something in front of a camera with a lot of confidence, does not make it true, does not make you a specialist on the topic.

    • @user-rn4wn9gf3b
      @user-rn4wn9gf3b 2 месяца назад +9

      @@hamiamiam You might be right, you might not be right. Education is one part of things, experience is another. To me personally experience is first. I find his conclusions true because I have experienced most of things he is talking about. Also I can think of many examples where educated people are shaped by a system, that serves certain interests. So, I understand your argument, but I don’t agree with it. It’s your choice to accept what he says or not, but your opinion won’t change mine. My opinion is a choice I make and that is the beauty of experience :)

  • @minkeekat
    @minkeekat Месяц назад +1

    😂drama llamas, works for either genders

  • @island661
    @island661 2 месяца назад +3

    I can read people in one second.

    • @sticks2478
      @sticks2478 2 месяца назад +2

      I can do it in 0.9 of a second

    • @karentonks7581
      @karentonks7581 2 месяца назад +5

      You'd know if they'd had a death? Their history? Their health? Their thoughts? If they're married? Their career choice or job status? Their age? Their sexual orientation? Their I.Q, Whether they are taking prescription medication? Their mental health? Their financial situation? Their sleeping habits? What they eat?Whether they have good brain health? Whether they are suffering mental health issue's? Whether they are being bullied? In domestic violence? Traumatised by something? ..I could go on and on..but you can read someone in 1 second? You can't do that because no person can do that. Your brain just makes short cuts. Maybe your intuitive nature can indicate good from bad energy buy even that can't always be accurate and then energy changes depending on so many variables

    • @island661
      @island661 2 месяца назад +3

      @@karentonks7581 Apparently you know it all, Karen. 🥴 And yes, I can see a lot when I look at people. Does that intimidate you?

    • @karentonks7581
      @karentonks7581 2 месяца назад +3

      @@island661 I think I just provided evidence as to how we cam not know it all. That means none of us. No it doesn't intimate me because it's not a pure absolute truth. I understand the intuitive side of human nature but even that can be flawed given all the variables I mentioned...in other word's..The human brain is limited , then there are biases. Count me in on the not knowing everything but I will question everything. OK, tell me how you read someone in 1 second?

    • @island661
      @island661 2 месяца назад +1

      @@karentonks7581 Speak on your own flaws. I'm sure people can read me too. There's nothing to debate here. But keep on trying to prove something...

  • @alaskalograft
    @alaskalograft 2 месяца назад

    Bullshit

  • @user-zl2hv1vo9p
    @user-zl2hv1vo9p 20 дней назад

    Double faced. Carry ing something in the mind speaking sweet things people please r. Run away from such ones