Also.....itching of the face and eye movements, blinking. Detective often us questions off topic to establish a baseline of how the person responds to easy questions where the subject will tell the truth with no consequence or pressure. Then once an established pattern of answering questions in an honest way has been elicited, those reactions and patterns of answering usually change demeanor when they start to lie. Breathing plays a big roll in a liar's non verbal cues, once again comparing the pattern and depth of breath to easy questions compared to the big questions.
My X wife, a serial narcissist, would always yawn for no reason when pretending to respond to me. Whether it was compulsive or pathological lying, a yawn would always be included in her response. How do you know when a narcissist is lying? When they open their mouth.
My ex husbands sister used to say “how do you know when P is lying?” Before I could answer she’d say “because his lips are moving” 😂 I thought she was very harsh took me about 10 years to fully cotton on. I still forget! We have chats when he collects the boys and I STILL listen to him in all seriousness
My sister is known for pulling her chin against her neck and making her mouth stiff when she's not being honest. She does it so much that we call it, "doing her chin thing."
@hands-to-work1601 yes you could be very gullible And it is in a woman's character to believe by emotion and you could be lying women have been lying since the beginning of the time read the Bible
I have read a bit from Paul Ekman. I find information like this useful not necessarily as a means of lie detection but of immersive listening; as in a coaching situation when you’re highly invested in someone, noticing things that may not be evident to them.
@TheWefikus true. We don't want to get out over our skis and miss the forest for the trees else we'll be drinking from a firehose and just spin our wheels.
Q. How to spot a liar? A. Look in a mirror (because we all lie less or more frequently). Q. How to spot if someone is lying in a particular situation? A. Compare with what you had done when you lied in a similar situation to find similarity.
The body not matching the words is a common one. But I don't think John Ramsey is guilty for murdering his daughter, but he does a lot of weird things.
The best way to lie is to be honest 99% of the time & have an understanding of the tell signs . Believe what your saying is the truth in your mind . Then you can lie threw your teeth when you need to 😂
Statements like this tend to oversimplify a complex subject and make assumptions about individuals without supporting evidence. Spotting deception is a nuanced skill that relies on observing inconsistencies in behavior, speech patterns, and context-not personal opinions or political biases. Furthermore, attributing dishonesty to someone based on political affiliation can lead to confirmation bias, where people only see what reinforces their preconceived notions. Instead of targeting individuals, it’s more constructive to focus on the techniques discussed in the video and apply them universally, irrespective of personal beliefs TLDR - Since it seems like you're still stuck in high school mode, let me break this down in terms you'll understand. YOU ARE AN IDIOT!
My daughter would always repeat the question back to me as she was thinking of a lie.
Also.....itching of the face and eye movements, blinking. Detective often us questions off topic to establish a baseline of how the person responds to easy questions where the subject will tell the truth with no consequence or pressure. Then once an established pattern of answering questions in an honest way has been elicited, those reactions and patterns of answering usually change demeanor when they start to lie.
Breathing plays a big roll in a liar's non verbal cues, once again comparing the pattern and depth of breath to easy questions compared to the big questions.
My X wife, a serial narcissist, would always yawn for no reason when pretending to respond to me. Whether it was compulsive or pathological lying, a yawn would always be included in her response. How do you know when a narcissist is lying? When they open their mouth.
A serial narcissist? 😂
My ex husbands sister used to say “how do you know when P is lying?” Before I could answer she’d say “because his lips are moving” 😂 I thought she was very harsh took me about 10 years to fully cotton on. I still forget! We have chats when he collects the boys and I STILL listen to him in all seriousness
@rebuildingdad3010 yep, experienced this with my ex too. The yawn.
I could always tell when my ex was lying to me. He had a specific change of expression and could especially tell by his eyes!
always felt a lie...hard to explain. Gut feeling !?
No you couldn’t 🧢
Ha ha Steven so funny at the end - very sharp
54% accuracy in spotting a lie basically means you can't tell at all, it's just guessing
I love Vanessa.found your pod through her,saw what you do and subbed. I can't wait for her new book
5:50 😂 I'm dying! Hilarious!
My sister is known for pulling her chin against her neck and making her mouth stiff when she's not being honest. She does it so much that we call it, "doing her chin thing."
How do we know she's not lying 🤔
Lots of research quoted when this one speaks; Vanessa is pretty awesome. But then, I could be lying 😉
@hands-to-work1601 yes you could be very gullible
And it is in a woman's character to believe by emotion and you could be lying women have been lying since the beginning of the time read the Bible
Funny how Steven did that at the end lol
I have read a bit from Paul Ekman. I find information like this useful not necessarily as a means of lie detection but of immersive listening; as in a coaching situation when you’re highly invested in someone, noticing things that may not be evident to them.
Top tip from me: never EVER use the phrase "Let's double-click on that for a second" 😬
Yeah, double-right click is much better everyone knows that..
Hmm I see your point. Let’s table that and take it offline, shall we? I feel like we need a bit more synergy to work it out.
@TheWefikus true. We don't want to get out over our skis and miss the forest for the trees else we'll be drinking from a firehose and just spin our wheels.
@@TheWefikus great suggestion. Next week's off-site would be a great opportunity to work out some synergies.
I sense your issue is a lack of 50,000 ft. bird's-eye view blue-sky thinking. Thoughts?
Trouble these days ppl talk without seeing, on text or voice note.. Obviously you can hear them but it tks away a lot of the communication
Love Vanessa!
I need to read captions/info for spotting a narcissist!
Those are not lies! They are someone actually trying to communicate
These are fascinating!
Lie to me , is a fantastic tv series
Agreed
I don't believe you.
Yes, very good. A bit over the top, but that's expected from entertainment, still a lot of it was based in real science.
Q. How to spot a liar?
A. Look in a mirror (because we all lie less or more frequently).
Q. How to spot if someone is lying in a particular situation?
A. Compare with what you had done when you lied in a similar situation to find similarity.
odd, she never mentions smirking
We are watching two in this program.
Is that Tim Roth in the thumbnail?
Yep
Crime channels are good at spotting liars when they know the outcome.
Salespeople get nervous when asking for the sale, ground breaking stuff 😄
I like it! I can’t STAND taking a ‘deep dive’ tho.
My ex was pretty obvious, a visible flame would come out of her mouth.
The body not matching the words is a common one.
But I don't think John Ramsey is guilty for murdering his daughter, but he does a lot of weird things.
I hope Steve loves my thumb-ups differently! 🤣
Greeks also nod when they mean no.
Where does he get those black T-shirts ? and why does he always wear a black T-shirt ? the same one ?
No offense 🗑️. But love the show
The best way to lie is to be honest 99% of the time & have an understanding of the tell signs .
Believe what your saying is the truth in your mind .
Then you can lie threw your teeth when you need to 😂
Whereas poor spelling says someone has poor standards.
We don’t nod the opposite way (like in India) in pakistan :)
Code 113
This head shaking thing is the biggest crap in the body language psychology, ever
Yep..knew it, she's lying
Munecat where are youuuuuu
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She’s a pathological liar 😂
Hahahaha!
Just look at Joe Biden and Kamala Harris
Statements like this tend to oversimplify a complex subject and make assumptions about individuals without supporting evidence. Spotting deception is a nuanced skill that relies on observing inconsistencies in behavior, speech patterns, and context-not personal opinions or political biases.
Furthermore, attributing dishonesty to someone based on political affiliation can lead to confirmation bias, where people only see what reinforces their preconceived notions. Instead of targeting individuals, it’s more constructive to focus on the techniques discussed in the video and apply them universally, irrespective of personal beliefs
TLDR - Since it seems like you're still stuck in high school mode, let me break this down in terms you'll understand. YOU ARE AN IDIOT!
Elections are over bot
Or every state department spokesperson ever.
The ones that don’t appear to tell a lie a the real dangerous ones
Any politician, spokesperson or actor are experts at sending a believable message even when it's a bald-faced lie.
Load of crap. It's just common sense...