How focusing on my mental health gave me a new perspective of life in Denmark

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  • Опубликовано: 15 июл 2024
  • Leaving RUclips and social media for my mental health gave me a new perspective of life in Denmark for foreigners!
    See how this American started to view Denmark differently after a change occurred after nearly 7 years in Denmark!
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Комментарии • 57

  • @vonduus
    @vonduus 2 месяца назад +2

    I can recommend getting a cat as a cure against depression. No matter how sorry you feel for yourself, your cats don't care. Instead they show you what life is really about: Eating, sleeping and being entertained. Plus the occasional zoomies. Kind of put your whole life in perspective. Cheers from Copenhagen!

  • @incantrix1337
    @incantrix1337 5 месяцев назад +15

    Wonderful to hear you are feeling better!

  • @sign3984
    @sign3984 5 месяцев назад +17

    🎉 Good to have you back again. Gælder mig til at se mere fra dig, håber det bliver ved med at være godt for jer her i Danmark 😊

  • @benthansen3415
    @benthansen3415 5 месяцев назад +8

    You are such a loveable person and I wish you all the best in life!! ❤

  • @jjinwien9054
    @jjinwien9054 5 месяцев назад +5

    Good to hear from you, Kelly, I was wondering about your fate as I follow USA citizens who move to Europe. I can understand your situation somehow: I was a high school teacher and I moved to Vienna, Austria, 50 years ago to be with my then Austrian boyfriend, then Austrian husband, now Austrian ex-husband (time goes on!) However, I never went through this stage of "what am I, where am I" as I was so excited to learn a new culture, get used to European life and get myself absorbed in my future in Austria. As soon as I arrived I knew I would never return to the States. As they say, "you made your nest, now live in it". I have never once looked back.

  • @peterlarsen7779
    @peterlarsen7779 19 дней назад +2

    I'm so sorry you've been through such a hard time... I always enjoyed your posts, and TBH, I was under the impression that everything was hunky-dory from day 1....
    I truly hope you find your place and feel great ☺️👍👋

  • @ejlufpedersen742
    @ejlufpedersen742 5 месяцев назад +4

    There's always a rainbow after the rain😊 Im so happy on your behalf. I'm glad to hear that you still like our country.
    I was and will still be a keen follower of your videos.
    I wish you the best of luck and stay mellow.

  • @tw418
    @tw418 4 месяца назад +3

    Your Danish is so much better than you give yourself credit for.
    Danes speaking English make mistakes, too, and we have accents, etc. And you understand us anyway. So it’s the same, when you speak Danish ❤

  • @MrFtoudalk
    @MrFtoudalk 5 месяцев назад +5

    We all need a break to evaluate from time to time. Happy for you getting help and guidance in a difficult period and getting through with a positive outlook. I look forward to seeing more of your videos.. To quote Benny Andersen: Livet er ikke det vaerste man har, og om lidt er kaffen klar!

  • @anjagrue
    @anjagrue 5 месяцев назад +6

    You look så much more relaxed - good for you ❤❤❤

  • @mortenerichsen6487
    @mortenerichsen6487 5 месяцев назад +5

    Nice to see your beautiful smile again. Glad you like living here in Denmark.

  • @krabbediem
    @krabbediem 5 месяцев назад +4

    Hi Kelly. It's great to hear from you again. I'm sorry to hear things were that rough for you, but I'm also delighted that you're feeling better :D

  • @kathleenscharf7600
    @kathleenscharf7600 5 месяцев назад +4

    Glad to have you back. Thank you for sharing; I’m sure it will help someone who is struggling with any type of major life change. Looking forward to the new videos. Take care. ❤️

  • @LuiWallentinGttler
    @LuiWallentinGttler 5 месяцев назад +3

    Sounds really good that you have, if not found, then on the way to finding your own balance in your Danish life. I think a lot of us have to learn to be a bit more selfish, in order for us to have real energy to be there for others. Because if you don't find that balance, you will end up feeling some kind of miserable: stress, depression, anxiety and so forth. But it can be so hard, and I can only imagine how much harder it is when you also have some small human beings (aka kids) to take care of.
    In short: happy to see and hear that you are all in all happy :D.

  • @sole129
    @sole129 5 месяцев назад +3

    You look/feel different in a very good way. I am so glad you feel better

  • @colinhetherington1396
    @colinhetherington1396 5 месяцев назад +3

    Hi Kelly, great that you are back on track again. I think a lot of us immigrants have been through similar. Take care of yourself x

  • @HenrikFrejasFar
    @HenrikFrejasFar 5 месяцев назад +3

    For the win Kelly :D Det er en af de bedste nyheder online i lang tid :) Du har været savnet :)
    Du har så mange gode evner, så du skal nok få et godt job snart :) og du er meget velkommen til at bare kalde dig dansker med amerikansk baggrund ;)

  • @lilly6766
    @lilly6766 5 месяцев назад +4

    Hurra du er tilbage! ❤❤❤

  • @piasejensen699
    @piasejensen699 Месяц назад

    Tak for at dele din historie. Vi danskere kan være svære at komme tæt på så ros herfra- du gør det godt 😊
    Godt at høre fra dig igen. Ønsker dig en god dag
    Pia

  • @lesliewhereflowersgo9864
    @lesliewhereflowersgo9864 5 месяцев назад +3

    Hi Kelly! Welcome back so nice to see you again. You do look more relaxed. I had also taken medication for about a year at the beginning of menopause. The world was so much clearer;) Wishing you all the best!!

  • @BjarneDuelundTV
    @BjarneDuelundTV 5 месяцев назад +3

    Nice to see you back, happy and with great smile.

  • @olechristiansen8739
    @olechristiansen8739 5 месяцев назад +3

    So lovely to hear from you😊

  • @HenrikJ1967
    @HenrikJ1967 5 месяцев назад +3

    So good to see you back :) Verden er fud af muligheder :)

  • @mekanikerpetersen4876
    @mekanikerpetersen4876 5 месяцев назад +1

    Glad to see you back - you had me more than a bit concerned. Sorry to hear about your problems though!

  • @mettegrundt8932
    @mettegrundt8932 5 месяцев назад +2

    Fantastisk du er klar til dit nye perspektiv og vil slappe af i, at dit helbred og fremtid er vigtigt🎉 vi nyder dine observationer og dit gejst i, at ville Danmark❤️❤️🎉☀️🍀

  • @beverlywalker4111
    @beverlywalker4111 5 месяцев назад +3

    Hi from Tennessee! Glad you are back and better! Have seen you a little on Facebook and Instagram. Looking forward to more videos! You take care too!

  • @michael-7240
    @michael-7240 4 месяца назад +1

    I think the grey and rainy weather here can slowly knock a person down. I went through depression as well, now I feel more like a dane.

  • @verbatimdk
    @verbatimdk 3 месяца назад +2

    yay she is back

  • @camillasaietz4856
    @camillasaietz4856 5 месяцев назад +1

    Uuhh! Nice to hear from you again Kelly! I was wondering where you were. Love from Zealand ❤

  • @JEmmertz
    @JEmmertz 5 месяцев назад +3

    Good to see you back! And thanks for sharing. I hope it will make you grow even more.

  • @jonny9789
    @jonny9789 5 месяцев назад +2

    glad to see your back, i follow all your posts , take care

  • @danfrompc
    @danfrompc 5 месяцев назад +3

    Hej Kelly...
    Mange tak for the nice video. :)
    Cheers og skål.

  • @swagbag1835
    @swagbag1835 2 месяца назад

    Jeg er så glad på dine vegne. Din energi er meget, meget roligere. Du er sej. 😊

  • @larsblakrasmussen5820
    @larsblakrasmussen5820 5 месяцев назад +2

    Velommen tilbage, vi har savnet dig 🙂

  • @laa6549
    @laa6549 3 месяца назад +1

    Glad to see you again

  • @hansliljense5718
    @hansliljense5718 4 месяца назад +1

    Hi Kelly ! Husk at sige pyt.du er et godt menneske.all the best to you and your family ❤

  • @stellaoware4528
    @stellaoware4528 5 месяцев назад +1

    So good to see you back, you were missed!!

  • @peterskovgaard1623
    @peterskovgaard1623 3 месяца назад +1

    Godt at se dig igen. Knus Peter ❤

  • @emmymusimbi285
    @emmymusimbi285 5 месяцев назад +1

    Good to hear you Are doing Better❤❤❤ nice to have you back

  • @Cindys-bc1dp
    @Cindys-bc1dp 5 месяцев назад +1

    Welcome back, Kelly! Happy to hear you are feeling better and getting greater enjoyment from your life in Denmark.

  • @HansM-bg8lm
    @HansM-bg8lm 10 дней назад

    I love this video, so positive!

  • @jomjohny
    @jomjohny 5 месяцев назад +2

    Miss you all 👏👏👏

  • @mettekragballe5344
    @mettekragballe5344 2 месяца назад +1

    Lovely to see you again❤❤

    • @peterskovgaard1623
      @peterskovgaard1623 2 месяца назад

      Håber du har tid og lyst til at laver nogle flere video. 🥰

  • @dannydelvis
    @dannydelvis 5 месяцев назад

    Omg, that’s soooo true! I’m extremely glad that you have finally found your peace here in Denmark 🇩🇰 it takes ages sometimes to settle down and just enjoy your life instead of always stressing out because of we (immigrants) are not fluent in danish after living here for couple of years, or because it’s not easy to assimilate here. ‘Ting tager tid’ - we all need to keep it in mind. I do feel you, and I hope one day I’ll also finally breathe out and just enjoy the life as much I did back in my country 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @nopenope3164
    @nopenope3164 21 день назад

    I dont think, people really understands how it is to be an "immigrant", it takes huge courage and effort, to say "I'm now a citizen of this country. This is my home and my people", I think it is embedded in us, that we dont want to try to force our way into something, we might not be allowed to be a part of, or we're afraid that we won't be accepted maybe. But truth be told, Anyone who lives in Denmark, who embraces denmark, and wants the country to be good for the people and everyone else, is a dane (obviously you need a citizenship eventually to have it on paper too) but if you connect with a people, and want to be a part of the society and can relate to the direction the country is going in, then you're one of us. Thats just my opinion.
    It is ok to call yourself "American dane" or "American", or "Dane" w/e you want, it makes no difference, and it is important to remember where you came from, and where your roots were, but we're humans, we can adapt to so much if we allow ourself. I myself feel that any person can be a part of who i associate with, if they're likeminded and share a love for the people, it doesn't matter where you came from, what you believe in, or what you look like. If you're a part of the team, your're in as a equal

  • @nielsraunkjr6663
    @nielsraunkjr6663 5 месяцев назад +3

    Yeah - hun er tilbage 😊👍

  • @joenthesaorgian
    @joenthesaorgian Месяц назад

    Nice. Looking good too 👌

  • @Styggejoe
    @Styggejoe 5 месяцев назад +2

    Good luck on the job hunt!

  • @bookshelflearn9352
    @bookshelflearn9352 4 месяца назад

    Could you sing some french songs as you did the danish birthday song. I would like to hear you sing in french because it reminds me of a lullaby. Please and thank you

  • @SimonRaahauge1973
    @SimonRaahauge1973 5 месяцев назад +5

    rart at du er tilbage.. 🙂

  • @Luxhoj
    @Luxhoj 5 месяцев назад +3

    Dejligt du er tilbage. Savnede dig …

  • @lailavestergaard2429
    @lailavestergaard2429 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love you'r understy hope i spelled it reight❤❤❤

  • @Sekhet5
    @Sekhet5 4 месяца назад +2

  • @535535peter
    @535535peter 5 месяцев назад +1

    Living in small danish communities can be..........suboptimal😉

  • @yyy_seungmin
    @yyy_seungmin Месяц назад

    hello! :) Im in denmark 7 months i think and can you make lessons about the conversation in cash register?