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Do You Want To Keep A Man Or Not? // Dr. R.A. Vernon
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Thank you Pastor Vernon for your real raw transparency
Amen!
Awesome, sermon and message.
Thanks, for sharing, it with me.
I have reposted it.
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Pastor Vernon I like what u are saying keep saying still I'll we all here this and men no how to treat women thank you
I have been married for 48 years and we both received Christ as our Personal Savior together. Only then, after studying the Word of God we learned through Biblical Principles what it took for our marriage to work. We both worked hard outside the home and we shared everything. Our marriage was built on Biblical Principles, not on worldly beliefs. Unfortunately, noone is capable of making one happy or keeping them happy because we all have situations at times. God is the source of a happy marriage. Without God we can't maintain a healthy marriage.
I absolutely love this Pastor Vernon and yes you’re my Pastor’s Pastor! This is much needed wisdom. I look forward to putting these gems into action while waiting for my husband to find me.
When we take the Word of God at His Word and noone else's, we will find that husband has to submit to their wives as well in a loving respectful Godly manner. It just doesn't work one way in a marriage. That way two loving people in a marriage makes one. That means unity
Yes AND AMEN! IF God is not the FOUNDATION it’s destined to fail.
Well spoken , and very much needed.😊
Amen
I have been with my husband for 17 years, I have known him for 20 years. It did not take that long for my husband to marry me, we got married after 2 years knowing him. He still have me blushing, after 20 years. Thank you Lord
I keep my husband for 50th blessed years, we both married at a early age he was 21 and i was 16 and we dated for 3 months and he asked me to be his wife and I said yes, it was our first and only marriage together through God, for 50th blessed years,he was the best husband any woman could have asked God for, we had 4 children together,he was a great husband and a father to his children, God called him home to be with him in heaven,in the year of February 21day year of 2014 and I thank God for my beloved late husband James.he unity us together from heaven,our marriage was made in heaven by God Amen.🙏❤️
I met My Wife in 2002 Joined The Word in 2004 still Married listen to Him now Believe Him Later On and we're 10 Years Older
This man is teaching what we Christian need to hear the truth this is truly GOD
Honor and respect is what your partner needs.
Absolutely. A man and a woman, Both, want respect and honor.
If a grown person doesn't know that, then they are lacking some basic common sense.
A man stays only if HE wants to, regardless of any other factors
A devout Christian man stays because he honors his vows to God in the Holy Matrimony. Same as a devout Christian woman will.
That man is lying. The Bible says dress modest hes a liar do not wear jewelry. It is said in The Bible hes a false prophet check your bible and you will see it.
Right
I am real , saved, living and I have a good heart. I have no kids so we can travel and see the world
Well the factors made me leave! I don’t think this is true at all what you said
Wow! This is exactly what I needed. I have been praying for a Godly man, who would be good to me. I finally met him and I thank God for him.
Please update us in a couple years!!
Amen it's nothing hard about waiting on God that's what I did after a bad marriage praise him amen
I love that you refer to your wife as "My Girl." I believe it makes her feel so good.
Dr Vernon has been real for decades! I used to watch him on Sunday nights on the Word Network to hear these messages 🙏🏽🙌🏾
Me, too. The Word Network is where I got acquainted with the VVernon's. Keep it real
If a man is asking me what I bring to the table then he doesn’t need to be my man. The Bible says that “he” who finds a wife finds a good thing. The only way for him to figure out what I bring is by getting to know me
Exactly. It doesn't even sound masculine...a man asking me what I bring to the table? That's backwards ans unnatural.
I have been married 35 years and God is at the center of our marriage 🙏 always can use more word
Beauty and “style” is in the eye of the beholder as well. You can’t speak for every man. There are some men who don’t care for all of the extra. I’ve dated men from different backgrounds, physical fitness levels, taste in clothing and height. I’ve dated gentlemen who were NOT considered physical attractive or “handsome” BUT their energy, their conversation, their energy, their personality and their love and affection for ME made the difference. And the FINE FINE couldn’t pull me.
THIS IS DEFINITELY APART OF MY HEALINGGGG....I HAD IT ALL WRONG, BUT God's Mercy & grace!!!
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I am enjoying this ! I love the Lord, single, saved and whole. I believe in looking good when I step out the door. When you look good, you feel good !
38 years of marriage later you speaking 'nuttin but the truth!' Pastor
Haven’t heard you in over 15 years you still GOT IT!
Yes! 💯
I give him Confirmation and tell him how wonderful he is so handsome he is and what a beautiful heart he has and how much I love and need and respect him each and every day❤
This is so good! I am newly married and always open to learning how to be a better person, wife, partner, and better representative of the kingdom! This is so needed in this culture. Before I met my husband at church, I was focused on service, as well as listening to everything because I needed help in various areas. I was single and saved and satisfied but waiting on God! The Holy Spirit led me to learn about Esther! Read it, ladies. God did it. Now it's real work daily to keep it together! If the enemy have his way, he would kill, steal, and destroy our testimony! We are not having it! So thank you for the reminders, and thank you for being bold and telling women and men what most churches barely touch🙏🏾
Today is March 26, 2023. I just listen to Dr. Vernon, for the first time. I am a single Muslim Woman. Been married twice. He speaks Real.. Thanks
Does he affirm you as well?
Yes Nicol he does all the time we have been married 30 year’s and we still act like newlyweds❤️❤️
@@harrietmoton1941 I've been married 44yrs
Whew chile. Been following him for the past few weeks. I feel like I’ve grown relationally already. I listen to him throughout the day. Wish I was in his church’s area. I’d definitely be there. And I LOVE the way he calls his wife his Girl😊
I have to honestly say I got a lot out of this lesson. Although I always give my husband positive affirmations. My baby is a military man he's a major general he's been away from home for a little while now, every single time we conversate over the phone or via Zoom. I always want him to know that he is special he's a wonderful man with very proud of him. I let him know how much I adore him daily, I tell him how fine I think he is. I love that he's a God-fearing man and we were friends before.❤❤❤❤
We have the best 1st lady ever!!! Lady Vernon❤🎉
Dr. Vernon, I love your Rawness and transparency!!! Keep Soaring!!!!🦅
If a woman keeps herself up, works, cooks and cleans that is a bit too much to ask. Some of those Household duties should be shared if both work full time.
If a man is with Keisha in the projects and doesn’t talk to me then he is not the man for me.
Both men an women need to be happy in these marriages! A woman should not be overworked and muled.
Bingo. Honestly, this message should turn women off from marriage completely .
I just found your podcast, and you are speaking your truth. I always leave home looking presentable even when I don't feel like it, and most of the time, when I have no where to go, I like to look good around the house. It makes me feel sexy, loved, wanted, needed and I'm happy even tho I'm living a single life. I'm good at stroking my man's ego, and I enjoy telling him how wonderful he is, especially when he has had a bad day. I will take good care of him whether its emotionally, spiritually or physically. You speak life into his existence by stroking his mind gently with your love because he's human and needs to know that his woman is there by his side to help when he needs her the most. Some men never show their vulnerable side because of their ego and pride. Sometimes vulnerability can be your strength to overcome obstacles presented before you especially if it's fear that's stopping you.
Wow…….
I pray you receive the right Man for you . Cause , I would Love to look forward to that .
Be blessed ….
Dear paster i just found your chat and i love your talk but i dont have a husband he passon so i would like to have one. Yahweh blessy you on your chat paster v
Watch out ....... What man wants to come home 🏡 stepping over stuff ! .... Pick it up !!! Ouch.......Lord 🙏 give me real stuff PASTOR ❣️ Thank you for this Word Lord ❣️ Help me Lord!!!! Get me together inside and out! I Love the WORD CHURCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Teach Doc!!!!! You got to stay looking good for your man!!!!
Pastor, you are in the one of a kind category. There aren't many left like you anymore.
Wow!!! I have been so blessed by this teaching.. I have a lot of work to do but my future husband is worth it!!!
Yes
I was in a relationship and I was doing wifey duties. Now I look back and feel that I should have not been doing those things. Me and that gentleman is not together today and I feel I made a mistake doing that.
I totally understand what you are saying....I've done the wifey things too. But what God showed me, sometimes we do wifey things to the wrong man.
Yes, Ladies we’ve all made those mistakes. The beauty is the learned lesson. Wifey things should only be done for your Hubby.
I love this man of GOD RIGHT Here😍😍😍Teach Us GODLY Women & Young ladies
Thank you Pastor Vernon for expressing your love about Lady V. All it takes is one, and the rest of the men will follow. I think men really want to tell the world how much they love their girl. And your platform has made it easier for them to do it.
Dr Vernon, so happy that the Lord is using you to speak the truth about relationships. The Black church has not addressed these sensitive topics. I am praying that you have stoked a "fire storm". Hopefully, other pastors will catch fire about these relationships. If they are uncomfortable or feel inadequate to teach along these lines, hopefully they will invest the time, finances, seeking out those relationships folks who are qualified and willing to help. Pastors, the congregants need this...singles and marrieds. Praise God for the truth in what you are preaching
Amen my husband was on point in the beginning he was checking my apartment out to see how clean it was when we were dating 35 years our house is still clean amen
Thanks Yahweh...For Showing Me This Channel... You Know Exactly What I Need ‼️✝️🕊️🙌🏿
YES!!!!
Husband out of order, women supposed to be cover or modest. It's the heart ❤️ that matters and how a young lady or woman carry herself.
Pastor Vernon! Pastor, you are elevating my understanding. I am going to get myself some clothes that are more pretty and wear them. I want a husband that wants me. This makes so much sense. Pick right. I don't have to pick what I don't want. This is so good. Thank God for you.
CarmelaPattillo, if you have to “ get you some cloths that are pretty” so that you can attract a man, you have low self- esteem, devaluation, and low self-worth. Also it’s a false doctrine that a woman must “pick” right. It is a man who finds a wife who finds a good thing, not the opposite. I exude so much confidence, self esteem, and self worth that if I were to go out with pajamas on, men would still be attracted to me. In fact I have always dressed very modestly. Yet men have walked up to me and stated that I was someone they thought they needed to know. My presence always demands attention.
I’m a married woman and this message was needed we are in a war for our families and the least I could do is my part learning how to work as a team that was the hardest thing for me please let that be your next topic married women from broken homes
Very insightful! Definitely needed this! The church needs to continue to have courageous conversations to build and maintain relationships!
My cousin recommended this video to me, and I'm glad I watched!
This is SOOO NECESSARY!! 🔥🔥💪🏾🙌🏾
No. I do not want to KEEP a man. I want to KEEP the Relationship. If my Partner not happy...there's the door.
Bingo
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Why keep a man that don’t want what I got? He’s not chosen by God!
It’s good raw teaching! For the married, RAW makes you wash it, season it, cook it till it’s done then serve it hot! Not being distasteful but nobody teach the truth like this anymore. We work at preparing meals, preparing for outings etc, so why not work on our marriages in every area.
I needed to hear this! Thank you for your teaching❤
I've always enjoyed listening to Dr. Vernon's messages. They are so clear. I'm 71 and am glad to hear them all.😇🥰
This was so fire! Definitely my new pastor from a distance when it comes to dating and waiting in Gods presence in my single season. I know that this year, God is bringing my side piece, my rib, my baby mama, my boo thang in my life.
Wow I know your age I haven't heard of Boo Thang and a long time. LOL I love that word that's my word too boo thang. Blessings
@@tinaharris7046 Haha yes when its special, its all kind of sexy names. :-) and that it will be when she comes, special. My favor activator.
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He is a liar check your Bible God said dress modest
In Jesus name me 2❤❤❤
Hello, Hello, Hello!!
I received the link to this broadcast via text message from my daughter on Friday March 31, 2023. I didn't click on it until 3:30 a.m. and it is captivating to say the absolute least.
The message is so relevant to my portion!!! "GOD'S TIMING. " My, My!!
I totally agree,as a 1st Lady, we must know how to Honor & Respect to the fullest our Man of God...Submission is the key
My God I love this preacher just started watching him but he blessed my soul with this message I am single and waiting.
I LOVE how this ministry is so transparent and raw with it. I am trying to sustain a marriage when I didn't any role models of even being married and it is TOUGH! THANK YOU!
Lady Vernon is so amazing and authentic ❤️🔥
Excellent teaching
It’s good to see a man and woman of God living what they preach and teach
Sound teaching, Dr. A. Vernon you're absolutely right.
Pastor V is keeping it real. Men do desire honor and respect
Really really
Thank you for this, God keeps putting these Golden nuggets in my path. I know He is preparing me for my husband.
Teach Dr Vernon so glad you and Dr Lady Vernon teach real about relationships
Pastor Vernon, This is a really interesting subject. I really love to hear you celebrate and honor Lady Vernon. Please keep doing it:) How a man treats his wife says alot about his character and sets the tone for how other people respect their relationship. She truly is the heart of the Word Church and an amazing woman. Real communication is truly needed on this subject because many of us can't see past our own needs and past hurts. As you understand,this is a nuanced conversation that isn't simply about women needing to look better, be respectful and help. Nor is it just about men just being the knight in shining armor to rescue us as women (whether financially or otherwise). Both partners need to add value- how that value is perceived is different depending on who is evaluating it. I watched my parents love and respect each other consistently until my dad went to heaven. Both had a heart of service for the other that was evident to our entire family. That is a beautiful example.
I love your Raw Teaching !!!
Appreciate U” & Lady Vernon’s
Blessings Of Kingdom Maturity
Wooooweeee!!! If you can’t say Amen..then say OUCH!! This was great spiritual food! Thank you Pastor Vernon. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😄
I'm so grateful, Pastor Vernon, for your unuque teaching. It is especially helpful to me when you share how Lady Vernon encourages you. She is an incredible role model.
I really respect your realness and your Christian conviction. I don't practice the Christian faith I do believe in God and do read the Bible and very few pastors are honest enough to handle the text of the Bible and give it the proper perspective in the context in which it was originally created.
Pastor Vernon you are being real. I love it. From a save single woman. Give it to me straight and no chaser. I love how you treat your Queen. Teach me I am all ears. The wedding was beautiful.
I love your teachings and I love how real you are. This is exactly what single people need today . I admire how you have not forgotten the singles. Most churches and Pastors focus only on married people
Ive just invited my husband to watch this. God bless your ministry Pastor
Thank Dr. Vernon, Amen. This needed to be said
Pastor thank you for this much needed message Amen.
Thank you both so much for pouring into singles & relationship matters. It's MUCH needed 🙏🏽 keep it coming 💯
Lord we are nothing but your WORD lives on from generation to generation, to children's children. No matter the time his word is everlasting. WOW. Lord forgive this man for he know not what he do. NOW I SEE WHY THE MOST HIGH GOD PUSH ME TO STUDY. ALL PRAISES BE TO THE MOST HIGH GOD, PEACE AND GRACE AND MAY THE KINGDOM REIGNED FOREVER AND EVER. AMEN
Raw & uncut!!....ouch! But it's right!...thanks Dr👍🏾
Single ladies need to listen up! Good word Pastor 😊
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Jennifer
No they don't need to listen to sexist talk.
Yep, pastor Vernon has been doing this for years. I was a member of the word church from 2007-2016. He has some great sermons on relationships.
One of the best, simply put and Godly, common sense "how to" meet a godly man video that I've seen. I'm saved, homeowner, have my own through God but I'm a little shy, very conservative and and a little unsure. I get attention but they don't commit. I'm told that I am "too good", "they are not good enough" or "I don't need a man." I don't have unreasonable expectations. Yes, I have a type but that is more scripturally based than physical. I want an attractive man but I want a mature, godly man who loves me as Christ loves the church, the head, chivalrous, a protector, live with me according to knowledge and won't be jealous of my accomplishments. Shamefully, I have dumb down or hide my blessings to keep them from being insecure and insulting me. When you addressed it, it was appreciated and confirmation. I will open up more and make myself "seen" and approachable. Thank you!
Thank you so much for fathering our generation. We honor your heart of serving Doc. Your daughter from Zimbabwe.
Brotha Pastor... I've been occasionally checking in with you for a long time. You're on your game with this! Bravo and Thank You!
Pastor, I LOVE IT!!! Thank you for sharing with us; for giving us the inside scoop! Thanks for being transparent. 💯
I was sent this..An I was truly enlighten..Many need to listen to this...
RA Vernon is my pastor‘s pastor . Dharius Daniels is my pastor. R A showed up in my feed. I did not know he was this dope. I’m HOOKED!!!
You are definitely an expert. Thank you, Pastor Vernon, for being transparent!
This teaching is definitely needed!!👏🏾👏🏾 Thank for for the transparency and truth!! 👏🏾💯
Lololol said even in their 80's their still nasty 🤣🤦♀️🙌
Pastor I don't know how you popped up on my timeline, but you did and I'm so thankful. I was stuck in Peter woman mode, covered, conservative, and I'm telling you I've been hurt in the process because hubby has wondering eyes based on the fact that my good heart is not enough. I didn't understand but I'm going to do better moving forward. My girlfriend tried to tell me but holiness had me not listening and well I'm sure you know where I'm going with this.
I've been married for almost seven years and I'm still learning. I appreciate this teaching so much. I was raised in a traditional home by my grandparents and I couldn't understand why she'd be do hard on me. As I look back she was preparing me for this time in my life being a wife and mother. I'm so blessed to have a husband that is a true believer God gave me his best man for me. I desire to keep my self looking good and being a woman that he wants.
Yessss!! This was so good! I’m practicing on my apartment 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Minister R.A. Vernon has rendered an awesome podcast to listen to. . . Will be passing it on!
Loved "No one hangs out where they don't feel honor!" So true! Have spoken to a Couple (D&T 3 years ago) and a wife (AA 5/23) . . In a similar format! Couple D&T never been closer! Often seen together now! He was a truck driver. She a stay-at-home wife. They were coming to the courthouse for the third time and final time to get a divorce! When he saw me he said oh Lord! My response was "Well whatever it is! That's who you need to call upon the Lord!" Long story short I end up praying on this couple for about 15 to 20 minutes. Right in the halls of the court house. People walked around us repeatedly. Security guard bringing a roll of paper towels to (me) where I was in an intense realm of praying. My tears saturated the husband's shirt. The wife was crying! She had said "I dont want a divorce!" Yet according to the husband, who said "I do all the work! I drive 16 18 hours a day, come home and and give her the check! She still ain't satisfied!"
AA her husband (has since joined the Usher board) said to me weeks later, "I don't know what you said to her, but she's been a whole different person!" He went on to say "She'll tell you I was on my way out the door!"
I was like wow in my head! I was shocked to hear this come out of his mouth! As we stood in the church! Given we had just met!
The wife AA, had shared the same during our conversation. I had the time to minister to her as we were en route to a women's retreat! And during our conversation all I could hear was "I", "Self" aka "selfishness" or "Blame!" "T's always threatening to leave."
However by the time I finished our conversation, tears were running down her face! I didn't shoot no bull. I laid down some more truths of her! Not seeing herself! Lacking
communication skills! Etc. . . . "Honoring and respecting your spouse, and yourself" etc . . .
Her exact words "No one has ever talked to me like this before! This was her second marriage. Go figure. AA "possibly" did her share of damage in her first marriage! Always two sides! Yet he left.
For all the single spiritual ladies! And men! Keep praising the Father!
Your King! Your Queen! Desires of your heart will show up one day! 😉
Victoria, wv
This is it right here!!!! Absolute 🔥 podcast!!!! OMG
Amen PASTOR 🙌 🙏. I NATURALLY DO THIS AND IM PROUD OF ME AND PRAY THAT GOD IS PLEASED BECAUSE I NATURALLY CATER FROM MY ❤️. I HAVE THE HEART TO SERVE. TY PASTOR FROM THE DEPTHS OF MY HEART. TO GOD BE ALL OF THE GLORY.
I wish I saw this before my divorce. I still love my husband so much but I just didn’t get it. I have money and degrees but he just wasn’t not happy with me. And when you said the maid par, that was my thoughts. A clean house was important to him and not to me. Making money was important to me because I grew up poor. I would say let just get a maid but he did not want that. Thank you Lord
If you are both still single and still love each other, perhaps a reconciliation is possible. You could get some bible-based reunification counseling. Be authentic and transparent and put your newfound wisdom and lessons learned into practice. Hopefully he will receive you in love and follow suit. I say this because true love is hard to find. Love that still smoulders can sometimes be reignited if both parties are on the same page. Best wishes.
If he valued a clean house, then what does it matter to him if you cleaned the house yourself, or of you got a maid?
Appreciate your boldness and being authentic!!! GOD Bless You and Your Beautiful Wife!! This message was good.
Praise God that your channel came across my suggestion feed today. There aren’t words how this is life changing and impeccably timed information from the Holy Spirit. ❤🙏
I HAVE SAT AS A SPONGE AND SOAKED IT ALL EVEN THOUGH SO MUCH OF THIS MESSAGE I KNOW AND HAVE LIVE THROUGH THE EXPERIENCES. I HAVE NOT BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 16 YEARS AND I KNOW THIS IS MY YEAR!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING!
Wow!! As usual AMAZING WORD! I still slip sometimes with jumping in when my husband talks to the kids. I sometimes feel like he's too harsh but I've found that sometimes the "silence" in me elevates the depth and seriousness of the situation with them. :-D
How is he harsh? Is he harmful
Love Your Vibe Pastor... Spiritual & Realistic‼️
THANK YOU Pastor Vernon!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love that family. The Vernon people are simple and wise. They are real and love God. I feel the connection. Actually, I am preparing myself to see them or call them. God bless you people of God
Thank you Pastor this was so eye 👀 opening we need more of real Pastor to tell the truth and help they congregation too many people are getting divorce so now and I thank God for the Valentine program your beautiful wife first lady did the ladies was so awesome I look at it three times may God continue to bless your family and your ministry 🙏🙌❤️
Pastor Vernon as I watch your wedding anniversary. I could see and feel the love. I wish the sacredness of marriage be a model in every home and be taught in every church youth group. I am so happy I am single and being schooled. Sincere thanks.
👍👍👍💯💯💯✔✔✔🎯🎯🎯Thank you one million times. Happy for your happiness. 👏👏
Be Immensely Blessed. 🙏🙏🙏
Excellent Teaching as always Pastor Excellent 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I'm giving, and thank you very much, Pastor Vernon.
The bible doesn't change for no one sir .