This is definitely changing the trajectory, making it to where women bring only baggage to the table with such entitlement.. then to use the Bible to encourage a man to love a unstable woman who has no empathy
3-26-23 A woman does NOT need leadership from a man. She's a grown behind woman, for goodness sakes. Neither does the woman need dangerous masculine energy. You all ought to be ashamed telling women and girls, these awful things. Make some rules for men. You know our male masculine energy causes rapes, molestations, aggressive behaviors. She only needs us to respect her, honor her, stop trying to dominate her.
Yes all of them and finally masculine energy! No one wants a man who cries when you cry, complains, murmurs and doesn't take leadership when he is called to. We will support him in the tough situations but we want him to give confidence
I am needing a man who respect me and my opinions I am needing true affection that is authentic I am needing him to communicate what he needs, verbally, physically, and know what makes him happy beyond the physical. I need a romantic love language, that is expressed everyday, in soft touch, unselfish Spending once a week. Like dating to different restaurant, location, sport, or movie. If he likes something I do tell me. If he don't like something tell me. I can't understand cooking chilling just fir him. Then after 1 year he say he liked it not to hurt my feelings. Then the whole year is a lie. I really don't know him. Yes. I love a man knows his place in the world, defenders, protectors, fixers, honest, secure in himself, Know what to do in crisis, have goals, don't mind sharing his life with me. Most is trying to be single, bringing bad choices, others in a fragile relationship.
Love this! My husband prays for me and our family every morning. When I hear him in our prayer closet, I am immediately filled with gratitude and began thanking God that I was wise enough to be open to his choosing of me ❤
Bottom line is these are the areas that should be looked into in each and every covenant that I believe are gold into you either all Ian or you’re not and if you’re all in some of these questions are done without even asking
And YOU TOO can pray for him as well. And he should also appreciate you and be filled with gratitude when he hears you praying for you and your children. and be thanking God for you. See, it works both ways. Both spouses must pray. But you didn't even realize that, did you? Has the world indoctrinated you
Most women give way more than what they ask for. She needs a partner, that prays for her, gives her at least a few hours of uninterrupted time every few weeks because she understands what he's doing to love and provide for her and the family, and he has a direction for them. WOW a partner. Oh, how so many of us have be used, abused, and looked over, because he didn't take the time to learn our love language.
Well, I can tell you now He does not hear you. (you should be walking and talking to the Lord) But that depends on how you divorced. If your husband committed adultery and you did not want to forgive him then you were free to divorce him. If you left him you are to be reconciled with him. Unless you have been with other men during that separation. (and a few other views from the bible) See what counts in relationships in 'favor'. It is made to rule the relationship for us by the libido. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains "favor" from the Lord. How? She has it if you don't if she has been virtuous. Everyone has two chances in life to have double favor. But hers carry an extra influence on the power of God to exercise over her husband if he is being disobedient to the Lord. The 1st is with virginity. (wuss gud 4 the goose) Just remember virginity favor is of the Heavenly Father. The Blood Covenant favor is of the Lord. What the double favor also does is cancel any chance of the double curse being in your house. The curse of the fall and the curse of the law. If either gives it up before marriage, how can that be a good thing? Virginity is forfeited forever with the sacrifice by blood. Then the 2nd time comes when a person receives Jesus. "Favor" is in the blood covenant as one of the 7 pillars of Wisdom. (Prov.9:1.) She is the doorkeeper the Lord said. (Matt.11:19.Lk.7:35.) She must justify you! The Blood Covenant (1st pillar) is (1st 2 you must fulfill by The Spirit - Ruach - Zech.4:6.- and faith) but b4 these you have the blessing, favor, prosperity, abundance, and excess. Very few find this even. But there is no hope left for sexuality in these last days. He does not see the problem. In fact, marriage will be abolished within the decade (by antichrist) of the Patyr' cutting time short from 2018. (Matt.24) This is according to the Word of the Lord. But trust no man! (Jerm.17:5.) whomever you agree with, knowing you are still in your sins, then you are not one of the Lord's who he said his sheep know his voice. He said many will come and deceive many. But the Elect (I am Elect) cannot be deceived. You must repent of your life (humble) and turn from sin (contrite). Let me give you a hint. What the Heavenly Father looks at is how much temptation you are resisting just living your life not fretting about the challenge of it. Bottomline a woman was meant to be with a righteous man to stimulate her. Sin came before they could do it
I Love this BibleCast. Before my 30s, I never knew having a husband/ significant other who interceeds for me. When I got a sig. other who interceeded for me, it is now a crucial characteristic. I feel so safe & peaceful. I feel loved. And I do my best to treat my sig. other best way I could. That relationship did not work out, but GOD showed me that HIS plan is better than my dreams. Not married yet, but I've learned to wait on GOD & I'm confident it will happen. Isaiah 60:22. Thank U for teaching, Pastor.
Finally good to hear a man who addresses BOTH men and women and is not trying to cover for a sorry husband, just because he's a man. Wives/mothers give, give, give, give, serve, serve, serve, serve, do, do, do, do like the Energizer bunny and then some, wearing a plethora of hats while meeting EVERYONE ELSE'S NEEDS. Yes, what are you (husbands) giving your wives, or are you being selfish as can be?! When there is spiritual, physical, and emotional neglect over an extended period...the frustration, resentment, and bitterness mounds. Men protecting their PRIDE and EGO further adds insult to injury. God bless the marriages in which both people are driven by them being givers, truthful, trustworthy, loving, caring, loyal, sacrificial, intimate, communicate openly and regularly, both parent their children, affectionate, forgiving, and function as a team. It's not on your list, but a woman wants to know that her man will PROTECT her and the family (spiritually and physically). God has called husbands to be four p's: priest, prophet, protector, and provider.
Excellent job of describing what we women need! In most magazines , documentaries and interviews people only focus on what a woman should do for a man. It’s as though all men need to do is just be present. Men do need to look good , smell good and be well groomed. Men want us that look like a million bucks and they look like ten cents. We should compliment each other. Thanks again Pastor!
I will always pray for a husband. Who understands my needs and desires and all 6 of my Children ❤ By God Grace our season will come. I love a praying Man and a man that is for the Lord and his word. I still have hope that God will choose a husband for my children and I one day.
My heart goes out to you...I lost my praying King 28 months ago and I still miss him to this moment. God has comforted me through these last 28 months, but I too, know he has a plan for my life still. Hang in there, my sister... we have victory in Jesus. ❤
I wish I had experienced your ministry 90 years ago, before I married there was so much I didn' t know about marriage, but now I am able to help others who are in the same situation i was at 18 yrs. Old. In His name!!! ,
This was good. I appreciate the balance of your ministry Pastor Vernon. It’s not just about women and it’s not just about men, it’s about partnership! I love this series!!!
Thank you, Pastor🙌🏾... This is GOD sent. I'm about to marry, & we have been listening to the WORD sent from GOD. Be RAW. That's what people need today. AMEN? AMEN!
I have a great local in-person Pastor here in KCMO...but...if there is a such a thing as a Facebook or social media pastor...it would be Rev. R.A. Vernon...
A praying man full of the Word of GOD. A man who takes charge. Love and affection, affirmation. Who helps with chores, cooks and cleans. Helps take care of our children. A sense of humor, and handles the fiances, smart with good sense. He is known in the gates and sits among the elders. A godly man!
Pastor Vernon, I live in the United Kingdom and I woke up this Sunday and this message is what I chose to listen too before church. It has spoken to my heart. I believe God allows us to hear what we need at the right time. This is a game changer. Yes I am married I have shared it to my husband and so many men thank you
I Love This Biblecast!!!! Thank you Dr. RA Vernon for pouring into us. Can you please do a few episodes on us women Preparing and Positioning ourselves for the man that God has for us?
"This is what so many are missing " Real Talk As Is",. ...Let the Church say AMEN IN BOLD LETTERS,..."TRULY I LOVED ❤ " EVERYTHING THAT WAS SAID..." THANK YOU "PASTOR " V" and "QUEEN V, for helping the "saved and the unsaved...most of all the ones who just didn't know how to love... truly it takes two!" Y'all keep "Loving GOD Style... Sharing to help others who are married ...thinking about marriage...I share this video..."Powerful...Grown Folk Raw Talk 😅...LOVE IT!" Y
I just wanted to address this to your wife, you are so blessed. I would hope and pray that my mom or/and myself would meet and have a husband that would pray for us.
I love this bible cast! Hallelujah for this word! Me and my husband are approaching 5 years and ever learning. This teaching blessed us both! This teaching is right on time for us.
Thank you very much for this word Man of God... I am a Man... You told me In my 20s I looked like a preacher. I thank God for you. Watching you from ATL
So true!!! I'm still praying in my 2nd marriage of 10 years🙏🏾...the first was 17 years of marriage, after 6 years of dating the "highschool sweetheart". Thank you for sharing your ministry!!
The number two thing a woman needs from her man is communication. Now, I’m sure you heard it or you seen plenty of jokes told on TV shows and pretty much the woman just want to talk, talk, talk and the man just wanted to be left alone. And in a lot of situations there’s a level of truth to that, but the reality is that and this pours back into security. If she doesn’t feel like she can talk to you there’s going to be a problem. If she doesn’t feel like she can talk to you then how is she going to feel confident that you’re even into her and committed to this relationship? That lack of communication can breed doubt it can cause confusion and once you have confusion then you have chaos, all right. So, you’ve got to be mindful of listen, always keep lines of communication open with your woman. It’s important that she knows that she can feel comfortable talking to you. It’s important that she knows whatever questions she has she is allowed to ask you. And yes, you can establish this even in the dating phase by letting a woman know up front hey, I’m serious about this so anything you want to talk about feel free. Anything you need to ask me don’t be afraid like, literally say that to her because a lot of women hold back in fear of running the man off or you know, overwhelming you. And again, yes, if she’s dealing with the wrong guy then he doesn’t want to talk to her, but are you’re serious about this woman and again, you’re trying to have a healthy loving relationship then you want to make it clear. You should, that the lines of communication are always open and with that, you have to be willing that when she does come and talk to you to listen, all right. As well as express yourself because one of the greatest frustrations from women is the lack of communication from men in expressing themselves how they feeling and what their desires are. Now granted, there are many men who don’t do it because the woman don’t handle it well. That she is a poor communicator, all right. But if that’s the case, let it be known, tell what’s going on. Tell her why you don’t communicate and let’s see if we can correct it and if we cannot correct it why are we wasting time in this relationship? If she is a horrible communicator, if she is bringing too much trauma from her past into this relationship and she cannot have healthy conversation with you, then don’t drag this relationship any further. But you have to make sure you’re doing your part and that is communicate, to be open to it. Be open to listen, be open to expressing yourself, all right. And learning how we and when I say we you and your partner can better communicate with each other specifically because what may work really well for one couple as far as communication may be different from another couple. Quick example, one couple may do very well with verbal communication face to face. Another couple may need to start the conversation off with a letter, all right. It may be easier to express themselves that way and then they’re able to come together sit down and have a talk face to face. So, explore the ways to make it easier for the both of you, but make communication a priority because she needs that from you.
I admire you as a true man of God, for the love and respect you have for your wife and your family, you treat your wife like the queen she is, you have all the qualities of the way God said a men should treat their wives, my prayer is one day God will bless me with a Man that love me like Christ love the church.
What a word tonight Pastor. I’m truly enjoying you as you bring to the table some needed information. Keep doing what you do. The reason marriages and relationships are not surviving during a time such as this is because Pastors don’t keep it real. Also, many of their marriages needs reviving. All of your points were just what needed to be said. Thanks
You’re killing it Pastor V.!!!! Keep preaching the truth!!! These topics are very relevant, especially in the church. Thank you and your bride for making yourselves transparent.
Your practical teachings are truly a blessing and greatly appreciated!!! I have followed your ministry for years and have gleaned so much from both you and Lady Vernon. May God continue to bless your marriage and your ministry richly🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Not really. "Truth" is "Tav" as the God of Truth. (Isa.57:16.The Word f the Lord specifically says, stay out of ppl's marriages. It says if you see someone in trouble yo are to help them. If it is a husband and wife you are to leaven them alone. In another place is says, that in the presence of many counselors (they formed the 70 person sanhridin upon) there is wisdom. This clown thinks bc ppl who are cursed in their relationships come to him. A Pastor has no right to be a Mariaige Counsel without some credentials. Else they are saying, why be an 8-year Ph.D. when you can be a Pastor and counsel ppl on their marriages? His opinion is not righteous godly advice. It would not be so bad if he knew what he was talking about. Since time began women have suffered in the marriage with the husband not knowing how to sexually satisfy them in bed. I bet you he is not satisfying his wife in bed. There is no way for him to and say that its hard work.
I really appreciate your ministry and I absolutely love your honesty. My husband needs someone like you to sharpen him. Continue in blessings and favor.
I’m a older woman ;things right now in my life aren’t going so well. I’ve always wanted someone in my life. My children are grown , been divorced for a very, very long time. I feel empty inside! I’ve been with Jesus Christ for sometime now , I have walked away from Jesus, Jesus would always bring me back, I’m grateful for that ! I’ve heard men say men do not want older women, I’m past 65! I want a man that love Jesus Christ for real and live it ! (I do want a husband)😊
Sis God knows you and what you need and desire. Listen to Pastor Vernon's message Do you want to keep your man? Do you want a man? Prepare yourself for the Blessings God has for you.
I love my church and my pastor because he just doesn't teaches about God, Jesus and mother Mary he teaches what they have to do with me which is very important.
Keep this up, Pastor. I know you've been doing this long time even before it was popular! Please don't stop. We must change the trajectory.
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This is definitely changing the trajectory, making it to where women bring only baggage to the table with such entitlement.. then to use the Bible to encourage a man to love a unstable woman who has no empathy
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6 Things A Woman Needs From Her Man
1. Security
2. Communication
3. Patience
4. Leadership
5. Attention
6. Masculine Energy
3-26-23
A woman does NOT need leadership from a man. She's a grown behind woman, for goodness sakes. Neither does the woman need dangerous masculine energy. You all ought to be ashamed telling women and girls, these awful things.
Make some rules for men.
You know our male masculine energy causes rapes, molestations, aggressive behaviors.
She only needs us to respect her, honor her, stop trying to dominate her.
Love this ❤
Yes all of them and finally masculine energy! No one wants a man who cries when you cry, complains, murmurs and doesn't take leadership when he is called to. We will support him in the tough situations but we want him to give confidence
I am needing a man who respect me and my opinions
I am needing true affection that is authentic
I am needing him to communicate what he needs, verbally, physically, and know what makes him happy beyond the physical.
I need a romantic love language, that is expressed everyday, in soft touch, unselfish
Spending once a week. Like dating to different restaurant, location, sport, or movie. If he likes something I do tell me. If he don't like something tell me.
I can't understand cooking chilling just fir him. Then after 1 year he say he liked it not to hurt my feelings. Then the whole year is a lie. I really don't know him. Yes. I love a man knows his place in the world, defenders, protectors, fixers, honest, secure in himself,
Know what to do in crisis, have goals, don't mind sharing his life with me. Most is trying to be single, bringing bad choices, others in a fragile relationship.
Love this
Love this! My husband prays for me and our family every morning. When I hear him in our prayer closet, I am immediately filled with gratitude and began thanking God that I was wise enough to be open to his choosing of me ❤
Bottom line is these are the areas that should be looked into in each and every covenant that I believe are gold into you either all Ian or you’re not and if you’re all in some of these questions are done without even asking
And YOU TOO can pray for him as well. And he should also appreciate you and be filled with gratitude when he hears you praying for you and your children. and be thanking God for you. See, it works both ways. Both spouses must pray.
But you didn't even realize that,
did you? Has the world indoctrinated you
God bless your union til death do you part.
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God bless your union til death do you part.
@@Kcorrrwhere did this comment come from...? A woman is always praying for her family
Most women give way more than what they ask for. She needs a partner, that prays for her, gives her at least a few hours of uninterrupted time every few weeks because she understands what he's doing to love and provide for her and the family, and he has a direction for them. WOW a partner. Oh, how so many of us have be used, abused, and looked over, because he didn't take the time to learn our love language.
Protect this man! He gets it!!!!
I wish more pastors had messages like this.
Amen
I need this in my life. I want to marry again.....been divorced 10 yrs. I'm praying and trusting God hears my prayer 🙏
Good morning, let love find you, and you will know that love came from God
So am I. I'm looking to marry again. Been divorced 5 years now. Currently not dating.
@@Jesusistheonlyway979 - she might have had a scriptual divorce. Bible mentions this!
I am a widow, and I think I would like to marry again. This lesson was great. Thanks Pastor Vernon
Well, I can tell you now He does not hear you. (you should be walking and talking to the Lord) But that depends on how you divorced. If your husband committed adultery and you did not want to forgive him then you were free to divorce him. If you left him you are to be reconciled with him. Unless you have been with other men during that separation. (and a few other views from the bible)
See what counts in relationships in 'favor'. It is made to rule the relationship for us by the libido. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains "favor" from the Lord. How? She has it if you don't if she has been virtuous. Everyone has two chances in life to have double favor. But hers carry an extra influence on the power of God to exercise over her husband if he is being disobedient to the Lord.
The 1st is with virginity. (wuss gud 4 the goose) Just remember virginity favor is of the Heavenly Father. The Blood Covenant favor is of the Lord. What the double favor also does is cancel any chance of the double curse being in your house. The curse of the fall and the curse of the law. If either gives it up before marriage, how can that be a good thing?
Virginity is forfeited forever with the sacrifice by blood. Then the 2nd time comes when a person receives Jesus. "Favor" is in the blood covenant as one of the 7 pillars of Wisdom. (Prov.9:1.) She is the doorkeeper the Lord said. (Matt.11:19.Lk.7:35.) She must justify you! The Blood Covenant (1st pillar) is (1st 2 you must fulfill by The Spirit - Ruach - Zech.4:6.- and faith) but b4 these you have the blessing, favor, prosperity, abundance, and excess. Very few find this even.
But there is no hope left for sexuality in these last days. He does not see the problem. In fact, marriage will be abolished within the decade (by antichrist) of the Patyr' cutting time short from 2018. (Matt.24) This is according to the Word of the Lord. But trust no man! (Jerm.17:5.) whomever you agree with, knowing you are still in your sins, then you are not one of the Lord's who he said his sheep know his voice.
He said many will come and deceive many. But the Elect (I am Elect) cannot be deceived. You must repent of your life (humble) and turn from sin (contrite). Let me give you a hint. What the Heavenly Father looks at is how much temptation you are resisting just living your life not fretting about the challenge of it. Bottomline a woman was meant to be with a righteous man to stimulate her. Sin came before they could do it
I Love this BibleCast. Before my 30s, I never knew having a husband/ significant other who interceeds for me. When I got a sig. other who interceeded for me, it is now a crucial characteristic. I feel so safe & peaceful. I feel loved. And I do my best to treat my sig. other best way I could. That relationship did not work out, but GOD showed me that HIS plan is better than my dreams. Not married yet, but I've learned to wait on GOD & I'm confident it will happen. Isaiah 60:22. Thank U for teaching, Pastor.
Finally good to hear a man who addresses BOTH men and women and is not trying to cover for a sorry husband, just because he's a man. Wives/mothers give, give, give, give, serve, serve, serve, serve, do, do, do, do like the Energizer bunny and then some, wearing a plethora of hats while
meeting EVERYONE ELSE'S NEEDS. Yes, what are you (husbands) giving your wives, or are you being selfish as can be?! When there is spiritual, physical, and emotional neglect over an extended period...the frustration, resentment, and bitterness mounds. Men protecting their PRIDE and EGO further adds insult to injury.
God bless the marriages in which both people are driven by them being givers, truthful, trustworthy, loving, caring, loyal, sacrificial, intimate, communicate openly and regularly, both parent their children, affectionate, forgiving, and function as a team.
It's not on your list, but a woman wants to know that her man will PROTECT her and the family (spiritually and physically). God has called husbands to be four p's: priest, prophet, protector, and provider.
Amen Amen Amen
Excellent job of describing what we women need! In most magazines , documentaries and interviews people only focus on what a woman should do for a man. It’s as though all men need to do is just be present. Men do need to look good , smell good and be well groomed. Men want us that look like a million bucks and they look like ten cents. We should compliment each other.
Thanks again Pastor!
Typical pitty party comment… you don’t know what you want and money women don’t, a woman’s needs and wants change by the season
Love this series my husband sent it to me. I'm greatful that he is willing to listen to another godly man
Treat her as you should so yo prayer life won’t be HENDERED!
Pastor Vernon’s love for his wife is admirable. I can tell where Lady Vernon is sitting by the amount of times he looks to his right side 😂
OUTSTANDING. Stay right in this area & keep it going. Just what the world needs now. Love u man.
I will always pray for a husband. Who understands my needs and desires and all 6 of my Children ❤ By God Grace our season will come. I love a praying Man and a man that is for the Lord and his word. I still have hope that God will choose a husband for my children and I one day.
I WANT TO FEEL SAFE AND PROTECTED.
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Amen
I love this bible cast thank you so much pastor, for helping families out there.
I just started dating an Alpha Man and I see a lot of what you said in him already.
Praise God🙏🏽 I lost my King 15 months ago and it’s rough out here but I’m still trusting the plans he has for me. Thanks for the word😊
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My heart goes out to you...I lost my praying King 28 months ago and I still miss him to this moment. God has comforted me through these last 28 months, but I too, know he has a plan for my life still.
Hang in there, my sister... we have victory in Jesus. ❤
The women feel you went light Pas. They also felt Lady Vernon should have had a part in this. Love you Pas!!!
Love this message Pastor. My husband said he found his pastor, he listen to you all the time. Finally a real pastor. I thank God for you both.
I’m blessed to have finally met someone who meets ALL of these criteria 🙏🏽❤️. Thank you for your podcast ministry!
This was really good! Keep up the good work!
I wish I had experienced your ministry 90 years ago, before I married there was so much I didn' t know about marriage, but now I am able to help others who are in the same situation i was at 18 yrs. Old. In His name!!!
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Your teachings are riveting and relatable!!!
Great Delivery! The level of transparency & teaching was unmatched, but thanks!
This was good. I appreciate the balance of your ministry Pastor Vernon. It’s not just about women and it’s not just about men, it’s about partnership! I love this series!!!
Pastor Vernon this was great to hear
Thank you, Pastor🙌🏾... This is GOD sent. I'm about to marry, & we have been listening to the WORD sent from GOD.
Be RAW. That's what people need today. AMEN? AMEN!
I have a great local in-person Pastor here in KCMO...but...if there is a such a thing as a Facebook or social media pastor...it would be Rev. R.A. Vernon...
A praying man full of the Word of GOD. A man who takes charge. Love and affection, affirmation. Who helps with chores, cooks and cleans. Helps take care of our children. A sense of humor, and handles the fiances, smart with good sense. He is known in the gates and sits among the elders. A godly man!
This is a Kingdom Man… in that statement…
Pastor Vernon, I live in the United Kingdom and I woke up this Sunday and this message is what I chose to listen too before church. It has spoken to my heart. I believe God allows us to hear what we need at the right time. This is a game changer. Yes I am married I have shared it to my husband and so many men thank you
I Love This Biblecast!!!! Thank you Dr. RA Vernon for pouring into us. Can you please do a few episodes on us women Preparing and Positioning ourselves for the man that God has for us?
You hit it on the head pastor. Keep speaking that good word
I love this bible podcast! 😊
Good afternoon, Thank you for always keeping it 100%. Much love and respect to you and your beautiful wife.
Very good advice love the message I've always prayed for a Praying husband and I know that my God will answer my prayers soon.❤
"This is what so many are missing
" Real Talk As Is",. ...Let the Church say AMEN IN BOLD LETTERS,..."TRULY I LOVED ❤ " EVERYTHING THAT WAS SAID..." THANK YOU "PASTOR " V" and "QUEEN V, for helping the "saved and the unsaved...most of all the ones who just didn't know how to love... truly it takes two!"
Y'all keep "Loving GOD Style... Sharing to help others who are married ...thinking about marriage...I share this video..."Powerful...Grown Folk Raw Talk 😅...LOVE IT!"
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I love this Bible cast!!!! This is great!!!!
I love this Biblecast! Keep going steadfast and may God continue to bless & keep you, your wife & family. 11:01...🙌🏾 total shout! Thank you!
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Yes, I need a man. I'm waiting on God to bring special man across my path.
I love the partnership, now that’s on point. I’m saved by the way! Thank you and God bless yall
Thanks for this biblecast. I will definitely share it with my kids. They need to hear this. As for me, I wish I had this dream, men in my life.
Pastor Vernon Teach!! Us who are in need of tools for next Level in our lives ❤❤🎉
I just wanted to address this to your wife, you are so blessed. I would hope and pray that my mom or/and myself would meet and have a husband that would pray for us.
I love this Podcast!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Love, love, love this message. Blessings to you and your family. 🥰🙌🏽
I love this bible cast! Hallelujah for this word! Me and my husband are approaching 5 years and ever learning. This teaching blessed us both! This teaching is right on time for us.
Love it .I sent to my family! Thank God for being Bible real , and Black real. I’m praying Gods will for me. Thank you.
I love this Biblecast!! Pastor and First Lady may God to continue to bless you two and your family. Keep blessing us with the Word. ❤
Boom!!! You hit the bull’s eye! Thank God my fiancé prays for me! And knows my love languages! Thank you Jesus!! ❤🙌🏽
Thank you very much for this word Man of God... I am a Man... You told me In my 20s I looked like a preacher. I thank God for you. Watching you from ATL
Appreciate all these wisdom nuggets sir! Sharing with family and friends. Bless you and Lady Vernon.
This podcast was a blessings
I love this Biblecast ❤❤❤❤thank you The Vernon’s is my inspiration
So true!!! I'm still praying in my 2nd marriage of 10 years🙏🏾...the first was 17 years of marriage, after 6 years of dating the "highschool sweetheart". Thank you for sharing your ministry!!
Awesome. Soo educational for our sisters and brothers.
I’m expecting a boaz,someone I can pray for and he pray for me,I loved this message,perfectly said, totally agree, thanks for sharing
Man, you have spoken my mind, God bless you and stay blessed
I love this channel! This content is life changing, I do love the real-ness!!!! Blessings to you and your entire family! ❤️
You are truly a God’s fearing man !
Thank You for all the correct words for me. I needed to hear that. Bless you always...
So profound! Very glad I ran across this channel.
Praise God for this topic Pastor. I’m praying for my marriage you just gave me so much hope
The number two thing a woman needs from her man is communication. Now, I’m sure you heard it or you seen plenty of jokes told on TV shows and pretty much the woman just want to talk, talk, talk and the man just wanted to be left alone. And in a lot of situations there’s a level of truth to that, but the reality is that and this pours back into security. If she doesn’t feel like she can talk to you there’s going to be a problem. If she doesn’t feel like she can talk to you then how is she going to feel confident that you’re even into her and committed to this relationship? That lack of communication can breed doubt it can cause confusion and once you have confusion then you have chaos, all right. So, you’ve got to be mindful of listen, always keep lines of communication open with your woman. It’s important that she knows that she can feel comfortable talking to you. It’s important that she knows whatever questions she has she is allowed to ask you. And yes, you can establish this even in the dating phase by letting a woman know up front hey, I’m serious about this so anything you want to talk about feel free. Anything you need to ask me don’t be afraid like, literally say that to her because a lot of women hold back in fear of running the man off or you know, overwhelming you. And again, yes, if she’s dealing with the wrong guy then he doesn’t want to talk to her, but are you’re serious about this woman and again, you’re trying to have a healthy loving relationship then you want to make it clear. You should, that the lines of communication are always open and with that, you have to be willing that when she does come and talk to you to listen, all right. As well as express yourself because one of the greatest frustrations from women is the lack of communication from men in expressing themselves how they feeling and what their desires are. Now granted, there are many men who don’t do it because the woman don’t handle it well. That she is a poor communicator, all right. But if that’s the case, let it be known, tell what’s going on. Tell her why you don’t communicate and let’s see if we can correct it and if we cannot correct it why are we wasting time in this relationship? If she is a horrible communicator, if she is bringing too much trauma from her past into this relationship and she cannot have healthy conversation with you, then don’t drag this relationship any further. But you have to make sure you’re doing your part and that is communicate, to be open to it. Be open to listen, be open to expressing yourself, all right. And learning how we and when I say we you and your partner can better communicate with each other specifically because what may work really well for one couple as far as communication may be different from another couple. Quick example, one couple may do very well with verbal communication face to face. Another couple may need to start the conversation off with a letter, all right. It may be easier to express themselves that way and then they’re able to come together sit down and have a talk face to face. So, explore the ways to make it easier for the both of you, but make communication a priority because she needs that from you.
I admire you as a true man of God, for the love and respect you have for your wife and your family, you treat your wife like the queen she is, you have all the qualities of the way God said a men should treat their wives, my prayer is one day God will bless me with a Man that love me like Christ love the church.
What a word tonight Pastor. I’m truly enjoying you as you bring to the table some needed information. Keep doing what you do. The reason marriages and relationships are not surviving during a time such as this is because Pastors don’t keep it real. Also, many of their marriages needs reviving. All of your points were just what needed to be said. Thanks
Thanks for sharing, keep it coming.
You have been really blessing me with the relationship series. Blessings!
You’re killing it Pastor V.!!!! Keep preaching the truth!!! These topics are very relevant, especially in the church. Thank you and your bride for making yourselves transparent.
Your practical teachings are truly a blessing and greatly appreciated!!! I have followed your ministry for years and have gleaned so much from both you and Lady Vernon. May God continue to bless your marriage and your ministry richly🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
YES , LOVE THIS & EACH OF THESE POWERFUL BIBLECAST !!!I ♥️🙏🏽📖👑🎤🎧
I'm am so happy my friend girl sent this to me.
Love it !! Preaching the truth !❤
Not really. "Truth" is "Tav" as the God of Truth. (Isa.57:16.The Word f the Lord specifically says, stay out of ppl's marriages. It says if you see someone in trouble yo are to help them. If it is a husband and wife you are to leaven them alone. In another place is says, that in the presence of many counselors (they formed the 70 person sanhridin upon) there is wisdom.
This clown thinks bc ppl who are cursed in their relationships come to him. A Pastor has no right to be a Mariaige Counsel without some credentials. Else they are saying, why be an 8-year Ph.D. when you can be a Pastor and counsel ppl on their marriages? His opinion is not righteous godly advice.
It would not be so bad if he knew what he was talking about. Since time began women have suffered in the marriage with the husband not knowing how to sexually satisfy them in bed. I bet you he is not satisfying his wife in bed. There is no way for him to and say that its hard work.
Pastor Vernon, this is awesome 👏
You have this on point ; I can’t thank GOD enough for using you to minister this word
Love to listen...its a life long partnership. I began on this path, I want to take the rest of it with him. 💓
This is so needed!! God bless you and your family🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thanks Pastor I needed to hear this. God is speaking threw you to me. Thank You Lord Jesus!
A true and powerful message 👏 🙌 I love this ..wow.
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Thank you one million times.
Be Immensely Blessed. 🙏🙏🙏
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The Word is always right on time . 😊We don't know how you do it but you always do it !🙏🙏🙏
This blessed my life thanks pastor and Lady Vernon.
New subscriber here..your message was so refreshing and factual. 😊
I really appreciate your ministry and I absolutely love your honesty. My husband needs someone like you to sharpen him. Continue in blessings and favor.
Be careful what u ask for
Im here for it. Enjoyed!
I love this Bible cast!! ❤
I am loving this
I Love this Bible cast!
I’m a older woman ;things right now in my life aren’t going so well. I’ve always wanted someone in my life. My children are grown , been divorced for a very, very long time. I feel empty inside! I’ve been with Jesus Christ for sometime now , I have walked away from Jesus, Jesus would always bring me back, I’m grateful for that ! I’ve heard men say men do not want older women, I’m past 65! I want a man that love Jesus Christ for real and live it ! (I do want a husband)😊
Praying for you sister that God will answer your prayers and bless you with a husband who cherishes you and who loves the Lord.
Older women have a lot to give
I am in that group am looking don't want to be lonely. 😊
The Lord has heard your prayer 🙏❤️.
Same here ..Believing God for both of us and all the women here like us 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sis God knows you and what you need and desire. Listen to Pastor Vernon's message Do you want to keep your man? Do you want a man? Prepare yourself for the Blessings God has for you.
I love it you hit all the good points, I have been saying a lot of that for years.🙏🏽💞
I love this Biblecast!
I LOVE THIS BIBLECAST🙏🏼💕
I love this bible class!
Amen Pastor !!! I enjoy your podcast. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
❤HALLELUJAH AMEN
ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL A MAN WHO PRAYS👏💪❤💯
Once again, raw teaching makes for an awesome marriage! Thanks for this, my husband and I thoroughly enjoyed it!
I love my church and my pastor because he just doesn't teaches about God, Jesus and mother Mary he teaches what they have to do with me which is very important.
You've got to be in it to win it praise him JESUS
I love this Bible Podcast ❤
Good teaching true word God bless .
You Preached nothing but the truth. I really enjoyed you.