Cebu, a Sad Story
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- Опубликовано: 1 июл 2024
- Hello. This is a special video that gets in touch with some feelings I had while in Cebu. You might want to get out some tissues. This is part of my series of my Philippines vacation that took place from February 3-19, 2024. I have other videos about other things. So check them all out please. #cebu #philippines #cebuisland #cebucity #poverty
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Hey just like california, frisco, san jose,oakland..
@@peter-pg5yc I know. Poverty is everywhere. But poverty in America is different. It’s hard to explain in words. You just have to see it to understand.
@@dannystravelvlogindeed
In America, they do have lots of homeless people as well. But compared to those homeless people in the Philippines, they are more respectful, kinder, and friendly despite their hardships, they're happier.
@@user-ui9yo1kb9v I live near Boston, and there, is a place called methadone mile. Many drug addicts gather there. It is extremely sad. But I never once saw any children there. I’m not immune to the homeless problem in the United States. This is about the Philippines.
I just moved here. Two weeks now. In the province of Leyte. I’ve been here before. Several times. But now I’m trying to live here with my wife. Very tough going so far.
There are many issues. But I’ll name two.
Privacy and the food.
@@mike.p.1400 enjoy what you can. Your wife is the best reason to be there. Maybe we can meet someday
I'm afraid that I will have the same reaction as you if I go there. I could feel your emotion. I would be the same way. I am helping a single mom in the Philippines. People would think I'm a fool and that I'm being used. I don't care what people think. I know she needs my help and I have been blessed with a great job and I can afford to help her. I ask for nothing from her.
@@hughjanis6439 I pray every day that God can use me in anyway that he needs to use me for me. It’s as simple as that.
if poverty bothers you that much just go home this place will break you
Omy goodness, a grown arse man crying cause he see poverty...Man up! Go visit the USA,,, its rich with poverty
@@jamesgilbert2181 not an option. But thanks for your concern. I will adjust in time. But I never want to be completely shut off to my feelings either.
Not his point. Seeing it merely reminded him of the struggles of others, his gratitude for the life and family he has, and keeping others in mind....be kind, be generous, and be humble.
@@normalperson9646 thanks! You get me! And I appreciate you!
@@dannystravelvlog you will adjust in time. You will start to be able to determine who are truly working hard to make ends meet, who truly need the help being unable to work and those who just want the easy money. You will have to lead with your gut, then your heart.
Two examples:
1) One woman I see almost everyday at the nearby 7-11. On several occasions, I've seen her pull an old beat up coffee cup from her bag, then buy a coffee with a 1000 peso note. Drink the coffee, throw that cup away, then put the coins into the old cup and beg for money from customers throughout the day, shaking the cup in their faces. Once I saw her routines several times, I stopped helping her. I talked to a couple of the 7-11 workers and they confirmed my suspesions. i asked why didn't they chase her off and they said their boss said to not bother her.
2) Walking into another 7-11 on the other side of town (I live in Cabanatuan) a little girl about 7 or 8 held the door open for me. I'm an amputee and the gesture was nice. I went to get my Coke Zero and I saw her just staring through the outside window where the ice cream was. She wasn't looking at me, not expecting anything from me. I set me bottle on the counter and said be right back, went outside to approach her. She stepped back, I think thinking she was in trouble. I just pointed to the window and said "you want some ice cream?" She shyly nodded. I took her inside to the cooler and let her pick what she wanted. Wasn't the most expensive nor the cheapest, just what she taught looked yummy. She looked at me and said "I take two?" I laughed and said why not. So she picked a smaller ice cream as well. I told her to go to the counter and when she did, the cashier yelled at her in Tagalog. The little girl held her head down went back to the cooler, put her picks away and grabbed the cheapest items in the cooler. I asked the cashier if the little girl was her daughter or relative (thinking she was teaching a lesson) and she said "no, just a pain who shows up sometimes." This pissed me off. I bent down to the little girl and said "put those up and get what you wanted." The cashier started yelling again and I said to her "enough, I'm buying the ice cream, not you. She can get what she wants." Cashier gave me a F U look, but rang me up. We walked outside to the building next door where a little boy no older than 5 was sitting. The little girl gave the boy the LARGER ice cream and said "Americano bought, say thank you." The boy sheepishly said thank you and I almost lost me. I gained my composure, gave each of them a 50p note and said my goodbyes.
You will learn when to give and when to hold your wallet. And you have to remember, you cannot help everyone. It's sad but true. You have to pick your battles, and you'll sometimes choose wrong. Just part of the learning experience.
I have been privileged to have visited 42 countries and conclude there is no limit to man's inhumanity to their fellow man.
Re the P.I.? I myself have been a resident for 10 years and will always give food ( never ever cash) to those that ask.
As a Pyschologist I often refer my clients (as well as myself) to the Karpman triangle which,in short, states all rescuers become victims be it financially, emotionally or simply being kept up all night thinking.
In the final analysis of any or all countries I visit i first look at how the locals treat each other as a guide of what to expect when I arrive. I do not speak or engage with any expats ( except as clients) for the very reasons you will see in the comment section,however you mentioned you are about to meet up with some "good people" in Duma ( where i have lived)should that be the case, keep them close and cherished but above all listen to them carefully.
Thank you for your time in the making of this video as a reminder to us all that gratitude is an action, not merely a fleeting thought.
@@Old_Grey_Wolf_ I appreciate your comment. It’s all good advice. Like everything else in life, this too is a learning experience.
I watched all your video friend, I really salute you. You have a big heart . Take care always friend.
Thank you! I really appreciate that you watched it. It was definitely from my heart
Reality most of the world live in abject poverty..we in america dont have a clue
@@peter-pg5yc that’s exactly it! And this video was my wake-up call.
Philippines needs more top rate schools and basic social services, and a lot less SM Shopping malls popping up everywhere. Maybe some government regulations could actually have a good impact on the future of its people, instead of letting Chinese investors get all the profits.
@@Mikeycambovideos good points. Social services in the Philippines has a long way to go be effective. I have come across many people who need services but don’t qualify. Which makes me scratch my head and wonder why.
amazing, eye opening, very touching, great reminder of gratitude for all the simplest of things we have.💯💯👏🏼👏🏼
Thank you thank you thank you! I am a man with a grateful heart.
Definitely the most emotional video I ever made. I still feel the feelings when I watch this.
You cant be there your to empathetic. The poverty situation will constantly make you sad. Your too nice of a guy...
@@user-qs5hz4mf3p thanks for the compliment, but I don’t want to be anywhere else. I will grow thicker skin eventually.
Hi Danny, thanks for posting this. Now I know to stay at that hotel in Cebu & I'll look out for the street people you saw. You have a great heart & you should be proud. I'll be following your journey from here. I guess RUclips served me your video because I've been searching for travel & accommodation in Cebu, so Google's snooping has had a positive effect this time.
@@ferney2936 good to hear. I was post more soon. I do room reviews on many of my videos
Nice video!
Tough one to make! Brought back all the memories and feelings.
I get it. When we see for ourselves what we know exists in the back of our heads..then suddenly turns to reality..but what I am seeing from you is a man who was completely sheltered from the struggles of life... kept away from areas that even had the slightest of poverty his entire life. You've never been to , let's say, a city block in America with gleaming streets... then around the corner a homelessness encampment with kids begging and men in filthy clothing?
Or is this just an act(most likely) 🙄
@@usaalways I liked the way your comment began, but then you decided to judge me. So, thank you, but you are wrong about me. And I would never fake emotion. It was hard for me to post this because of the feelings that came up. I have not lived a sheltered life. I have seen many things and experienced many things that other people have not. What you saw in this video was my genuine reaction to a sad situation. By the way, your channel is awesome! I hope you get more subscribers soon. You have some real talent creating content. I’m impressed!
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You are staying in a cheap hotel and that's what you get from that neighborhood. Not all are rich just like in the US and probably worst than Cebu. What are you trying to get from this video? You don't need to compare Cebu to anywhere you are.
You must be American? C’mon, even in first world countries there are so many homeless people.
@@f0xykitty I am American. We have homeless people here. It’s just different. It doesn’t effect me the same way
@@dannystravelvlog I see the difference too. In America, there are safety net programs such as food stamps, subsidized housing, food banks, free health insurance for low-income citizens yet some recipients are entitled, angry and anti-government. In the Philippines, despite their daily struggles, when approached most are happy to help and be friendly.
@@dannystravelvlogin the Philippines the street kids or homeless use Rugby, in America they use high end drugs
If you're a Foreigners don't give penny they'll throw it back to you 😅 foods is much better
yes,,,but most of the homeless are caused by their problems like,,,alcohol, drugs, mental illness,,,,You can get some support in the usa, the poor in the Philippines have no support and are not drug addicts or alcoholics,,,,,maybe some