Answering Your Questions
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- Опубликовано: 17 июн 2024
- I know this is along video but l felt like just couldn’t give short answers to your questions. All were amazing and really did give me the chance to reflect on my past experiences and also now moving forward.
So much of my past l truly loved and yes, some l sooner forget.
I regret many things in my life but the good and the bad has shaped me into the person l am today.
Thank you to everyone who helped me make this video by asking questions and I hope it offers a little more clarity and insight into my life and the journey lm now on.
Thats horrible that people can be so verbally cruel, ignorant and judgmental towards "your" situation, when they haven't walked in your shoes or maybe never had an abuser/manipulater/narcissists consume them.
Its very brave and healthy saying these painful things out loud (even if its just you listening) and then hopefully letting it go, I beat myself up for so long that I let this abuse go on for so long when I new it was breaking me down.
I think even if you do speak up those kinda of people won't/don't hear you, actions seem to be the only path to freedom. I was so proud of myself for finally putting my foot down and getting him out of my life...but then I realized I was so broken and triggered now I needed help scooping myself back together.
Man emotional clutter is still a big issue for me, but I must say its felt so good decluttering my home & people. Unfortunately due to my bad health thats a bit difficult decluttering my home as fast as I'd like but im proud of my accomplishments. I do still miss a lot if the past but ive been looking forward to my new path of self care and focusing on me.
Ohhh i love the silence so much, its been my favorite part of my self care adventure, my soul just needed a break from everything, everyone and just soaking up the unconditional love from my cats in quiet is the best. Sadly I'm not great a meditation but im working on mindfulness...its so hard to shut off but your right it feels good when you can just be in the moment. Ive been programed my whole life to constantly take care of others, myself last. It saddens me but I thought it was making me happy caring for these people..but they just sucked me dry and abandoned me after I got sick and I wasn't any good to them anymore...💔
Hurts.
Love nature and im trying to get outside more, connecting to earth/mother nature...grounding, little bit of gardening although its all really hard for me physically but mentally its what I need so I push myself regardless.
I appreciate your open-ness and I really admire your strength, you seem like a sweet soul and I really appreciate you sharing, you make me feel less alone and faith that I'll get myself into a peaceful place like you have rebuilt for yourself.
Keep up the self care and soaking up the beautiful nature around you...❤
Your videos are appreciated.
Women need to believe other women, be more supportive of each other..and even if im all the way in Chicago Illinois, I enjoyed taking a walk with you through the bush the other day. It was so pleasant and peaceful, thank you for sharing. 😊
Thank you for being so open and supportive of me, you and l would be great friends, l wish l lived near. I hear and feel everything you are saying and you are also a sweet soul yourself.
We are all strong that survive our abusers, don’t ever forget that but you sound like you are moving forward. There is no rush, each day it’s about taking care of yourself, especially when health is a barrier but work around that, don’t push too hard.
I do what l can and stop, rest and revive, reading, listening to some nice music or just watching my dog play, then l do the next thing or l say, nope lve done enough 😊
Today’s plan, some more gardening 🧑🌾 and the bonus is planting and seeing it grow. Today is herb day so will hopefully have a nice herb garden growing soon.
All l know is l will sleep well come tonight.
I will never be able to thank you enough for your kindness and support it really does mean the world to me more than you know.
Sending my love and hugs, be well and lots of pats from me for your 🐱
Gaye 🩷🩷🩷
Life brings many pathways and byways. More often than not, we don't get exactly what we aspire to. However, I have found that the treasures of our heart attract people and places where our talents and aspirations can flower and benefit others who need our talents the most ~~~ Blessings from Canada. 🐾🐕🍀🌺
That is very true Angela, in many ways I have loved all that l done with my life and I am thankful l got to do all l did. I am thankful today for all that l have and now l will be focusing on, what else can l do with my life. I now aspire to be just happy. 🙏🩷🩷🩷
I've found my life's journey has mostly been one of solitude, not by choice just deaths. The men I have met I can say I dodged bullets. I just don't belong anywhere really and like you don't want to be a burden to anyone and so I've ended up a hermit. Funny life.
Being alone is ok but we all need someone to talk to sometimes, not all the time because we can like being alone too. I’m sorry to hear you have lost obviously many in your life 🩷🩷
Certainly glad you dodged bullets when it came to men, that’s a good thing.
I can get the word Burden and l have a video l will do about that word as l certainly don’t want to be one myself but are we that only in our thinking.
I’m sure l would be surprised at responses about this but inwards that is what we feel.
I was a hermit myself, I was often called one, though define what that means. l liked being home but my home was always open to others. I would talk to people, though l did go silent for awhile on everyone. Today I do prefer my own company.
Jane you are never alone and I am so appreciative of you sharing with me and I hope you will continue to stay in contact.
I hope to start a membership where we can get together and share our experiences together with a group or privately as long as know not all want to share with others. I am just looking forward to getting to know others here and also being able to connect more. Let me know if you would be interested as l would love to chat with you more.
Sending my love 🩷🩷🩷
Gaye
Prayers for you . . . thanks for sharing again.
Your very welcome 🙏 🩷🩷🩷
Thanks for answering and thanks for your previous service to foster caring
Nice touch with the white vase and succulent
Hope you get to your first RUclips payment very soon 👍
You’re very welcome to both.
Whatever l get will be saved for a laptop, make life a little easier for doing my videos.
Hope you’re doing well and always lovely to hear from you. 🙏🩷🩷🩷
Lovely video💗..I also enjoy walking bare foot in grass, and gardening with ungloved hands, there’s something grounding about it. I think people that are empaths enjoy that to sort of reset. If that makes sense to you 😊. I have done that my whole life, my mother would always be on my case for not wearing shoes while playing etc😂.
Thank you Jessica, you are very right, it is grounding and barefoot is the best. In shoes my feet are so cold, why l don’t like the cold weather so much for that reason alone. Mum used to always say to put shoes on or l will catch a cold, 🥶 never did when l was younger, always healthy 🙏🩷🩷
Tu privacidad es muy importante para cada mujer sabes saludo y beso a vos
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I try to keep in mind that no matter how little I may have someone out there has less.
Me too, l have more than enough to get by with and any extra l would gladly give to anyone who needs it. Keep smiling, life is beautiful and we are on the last leg of our journey together. We are good people and kind, sharing that with others is the best thing we can do. 🙏🩷🩷🩷
Hello 😊 thank you for your video
Your very welcome 🙏 🩷
Very interesting job history ❤❤
Had a variety that’s for sure.
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Thanks for answering my questions. I am Estee-B..confusing the way Iwrote it😁
Married at 19, widowed at 59.. feel like I am just beginning to find out who I am which is hard. I had an intake with a talk therapist this morning, hoping it helps.
Hi Estee, now l know thank you. You’re very welcome. I’m sorry for your loss after 40yrs, it’s starting life differently and you will feel lost but lm sure the therapist will be there to help and support you. I hope it all goes well. Sending love 💗
Hello my friend. Thank you for taking the time to respond to everyones questions. I really appreciate you and you truly are an earth angel. Sorry it took me a while to reply to the email. Sending you love and protection Gaye. Xoxo have a beautiful day, stay warm and dry. ❤
Your welcome Neo, don’t apologize l know you have a lot going on and I’m hoping it’s going well for you thus far.
Have settled in but l feel a little lost and l don’t know why, just can’t put my finger on it. 😞
Maybe l just find feeling comfortable uncomfortable. I’m sure it will get easier.
Staying warm and you too, l know it’s chilly there too. Just bought some new warmer clothes. So needed them coming from Queensland.
Love to you 🩷🩷🩷
You're very interesting and genuine. You seem to be around my age 67. I live alone and may be experiencing some big changes in my living situation I told God I'm not ready for but trust Him. Nice to watch your journey.
👋 Sharon l am 64 so yes very close to your age. Big changes are not easy, little ones are better but sometimes things happen that we cannot control and that is when we have to be strong and resilient. Easy to say but l have been there, after the dust settles then we can let go and cry about it all.
God has his reasons, we may not know what that is but certainly trust him.
Happy to share my journey with you and for you to be able to share yours.
I send my love to you.
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