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  • Опубликовано: 24 июн 2024
  • Finding your tribe is so important to me and now I know why I was meant to pick up the camera and share my story with you. I have found my tribe and I am thankful, and humbled at the same time.
    I was so lost but as a community you have wrapped your arms around me with compassion but most of all with kindness and respect. I still have my days but I no longer feel so alone. 🩷🩷
    You are why I smile again and I know that we are so able to offer this to everyone who is continuing to struggle right now in their lives.
    Let's keep this going and bring some love and support to others, I know that we can make a difference as a community of people who are willing, because you did it for me.
    Thank you🙏
    Thank you🙏

Комментарии • 62

  • @dianewatson23
    @dianewatson23 29 дней назад +3

    Beautiful 🎉

  • @Molkena27
    @Molkena27 29 дней назад +2

    You are even looking so much better ! You look beautiful x be proud of how far you have come.. Anna xx

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад +1

      Anna be proud of yourself too, you have been through a lot yet you are here supporting me, you are beautiful. Thank you 🙏 🩷🩷🩷

  • @user-nv6hv3vz2l
    @user-nv6hv3vz2l 29 дней назад +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @angela8187
    @angela8187 29 дней назад +2

    Love the 🧡🧡🧡colourful sitting areas and I already see your garden areas will be amazing ~ a piece of paradise is a balm to the soul ~ thank you for your positive energy ⛱⛱🌈

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад

      Thank you Angela, trying hard to create paradise but lm slow, if only l was 10 years younger 😂
      I will get there and love sharing it with you
      Wish l could have you all around for a night with a fire going, where we could sit and have a chat.
      🙏🩷🩷🩷

    • @angela8187
      @angela8187 29 дней назад

      @@AVanADogAndMyself I wish I were 10 years younger too. I was dreaming about being there, that would really be something. Hugs 🫂🤗

  • @jessicacampbell8231
    @jessicacampbell8231 28 дней назад +2

    What a beautiful video💗..we do have a supportive tribe going. I am so happy I found your channel, this video felt like chatting with you in your garden and that as so cool! You are loved and supported 💕. The garden tour was gorgeous, I love how you put together the sitting area for yourself and Griffen, and your friend I am sure. Have a lovely day or evening your way.

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  28 дней назад +1

      Thank you Jessica, l am so grateful to the tribe l have here, the most supportive people and l will never be able to thank everyone enough for this.
      I will forever welcome you into my heart and life and keep my videos sharing who l am and going forward help others as much as I can.
      Griffin and myself are loving our new space and lm trying to make it welcoming to all my friends to come and enjoy. How l wish I could have you and all my tribe come together here.
      Hope your day is filled with love and joy and lm sending my love to you.
      🙏🩷🩷🩷🤗

  • @raggedblossom508
    @raggedblossom508 29 дней назад +2

    Wow, you have done some good work already! I'm glad to see you settling in. Looking forward to your next video. ❤❤❤

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад

      Thank you 🙏 appreciate you taking the time to watch my videos, means a lot to me 🙏🩷🩷🩷

  • @joanponton3316
    @joanponton3316 28 дней назад +2

    Hi Gaye, I love your videos and being part of your "tribe". You and Griffin are an amazing team! From the Arizona desert my 2 fur babies Stormy and Tonka send happy tail wags! Enjoy your garden, we look forward to seeing your crop.❤

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  28 дней назад

      Hi Joan, thank you 🙏 Stormy and Tonka big hugs and kisses for your mum, she is a beautiful person. Stay cool over there and l keep myself warm doing the gardening here right now as it’s rather chilly 🥶
      Much love 🩷🩷🩷

  • @MotherOfThings
    @MotherOfThings 29 дней назад +3

    Moment to moment sometimes. I'm glad you reached out because some don't. Great people find great support❤

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад

      That truly is how it is. I want more people to reach out and if l can do it, l know they can. I want to create a safe place with my videos and show others that there are so many beautiful people out there who are genuinely wanting to help and support others, it is incredibly really the response I have had and count my blessings everyday. 🙏🩷🩷🩷

  • @ruthwinnifred329
    @ruthwinnifred329 29 дней назад +3

    Love and strength and prayers for you! Keep sharing, I'm 82 and my life stresses have been different but stresses nonetheless 💕

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад

      Thank you and very true, the reason for stress maybe different but still has an impact on us.
      🙏🩷🩷🩷

  • @Prefer2Hibrn8
    @Prefer2Hibrn8 28 дней назад +2

    You’re a good egg Gaye 🙏

  • @jillconyers2710
    @jillconyers2710 29 дней назад +2

    I was with you when you moved in !
    Love what you have done so far❤❤😊

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад

      Thank you Jill, stay close to me it means a lot to know your there.
      🙏🩷🩷🩷

  • @storminight
    @storminight 29 дней назад +3

    Great to see a better day! ❤ Thoughts are with you!

  • @user-pb5vp8gf4z
    @user-pb5vp8gf4z 29 дней назад +2

    Such a peaceful sitting area and garden next to your van, wonderful way to surround yourself with good vibes and thats half the battle.
    I love gardening, im not the best at it but it give me peace..unfortunately my body/hands cant handle it these days but ill still push myself because in the end its worth it.
    Thanks for sharing, see you Saturday...on here.
    Stay fabulous.

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад +1

      That is so true, a nice place to soak up the sun and watching it all come together.
      I struggle too, but I may feel the pain but I like you push myself, I think our love for it pushes us. A little sense of at least achieving something.
      Look forward to hearing from you on Saturday and any gardening tips are appreciated as lm sure you’re better at it than you think you are. 🙏🩷🩷

    • @user-pb5vp8gf4z
      @user-pb5vp8gf4z 29 дней назад

      @@AVanADogAndMyself
      100% , thats my goal most day's...push myself in little burst to get things done. Same as you I like to finish what Ive start (ill just pay for it later) but at least I accomplished something or finished what I started even if it took me forever...along with a lots of funny noises from the pain as im doing stuff.
      I'm also learning when my body just can't, and instead of beating myself up or get frustrated, im working on self care and just letting my body/mind rest when needed.
      🌱🦶Make sure your kicking off your shoes and get some of mother earth grounding, so helpful with sleep, inflammation, healing the body/mind...at least 30min a few days in a row, its amazing.
      🦋🌻As for the garden, I found a bag of organic chicken poop fertilizer and man ohhh man...its the bomb. Now I focus on plants for the butterflies, bee's & birds. I cant handle much more these days, so im grateful I cant look out for mother nature creatures. Here in Chicago I do milkweed for the monarch butterflies, parsley for the black swallowtail butterflies and sunflowers for the chickadees and bees.
      Stay strong, you got this...💛

  • @theresapoole5412
    @theresapoole5412 29 дней назад +2

    I’m feeling you and I’m with you. Healing is happening. Appreciate your support and hard cord honesty.❤

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад

      Thank you Theresa, that means a lot me and honestly is what I will always give.🙏🩷🩷🩷

  • @sonysgirl6301
    @sonysgirl6301 22 дня назад +1

    Your videos help me, and I hope I help you❤❤

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  21 день назад +1

      Thank you and you help me more than I can ever say. 🙏🩷🩷🩷

  • @KrissCapen
    @KrissCapen 27 дней назад

    I just love your videos

  • @user-yc6lq9wi6u
    @user-yc6lq9wi6u 29 дней назад +2

    I love your heartfelt videos. You give us reasons to go on too, and keep getting up each morning. There's something about having shared experiences that draws people together. Having each other for a sound board of strategies and ideas. You are a beautiful kind soul, and your struggles will not be in vain. There are greater and better things ahead for you, and you deserve them all. See you on your next video.

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад

      I’m so glad my videos are able to inspire others, that is what keeps me going everyday. You are inspiring to me and I will always support you find peace and happiness as long as am trying to do.
      You have the same beautiful kind soul, and I love connecting with you no matter where you live in the world. Why RUclips is amazing for us to be able to share and interact with like minded people.
      Thank you for being there for me. 🙏🩷🩷🩷

  • @trynsurviven2440
    @trynsurviven2440 29 дней назад +3

    Looks like you’ve gotten a lot done it looks great. You have way more energy than I seem to have these days. It’s good to see you starting to perk up and letting that old spirit show itself again. Take a few moments a day and just listen to the birds singing it will lighten your soul.

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад +1

      Doing as much as l can, lm slowly getting there as my energy runs low these days too but lm in no rush.
      Every afternoon I have a tree full of birds next to me and l do sit and watch their antics, it does lighten the soul.
      I’m just finding my way back into living with moments of peace and digging through the garden gives me that.
      Lots of breaks in between too. 😊
      Much love to you
      🙏🩷🩷🩷🪴

  • @MyCraftyStyles
    @MyCraftyStyles 29 дней назад +2

    Yay I am here and I will stand by you no matter where your journey takes you. Your furbaby is so cute. I call my dog my cuddle bug too Lol. You take care special lady. 🤗💙

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад +1

      You make my day so good, to know l have you right there with me, virtually holding my hand and I love you for doing that for me. Such kind words that fill my heart with gratitude for the ability to see me and the world needs more people like you.
      I am pretty ordinary as an individual but with the people l have connected on here we will make a difference to others who are struggling more so than me.
      lol, they are our cuddle bugs, and all they ask in return is to loved by us, a full belly and a bed to sleep on, which we do.
      So many people don’t have any of that and that makes me sad. Let us do what we can and be kind and caring to others.
      Much love my friend
      🙏🩷🩷🩷

    • @MyCraftyStyles
      @MyCraftyStyles 29 дней назад

      @@AVanADogAndMyself much love right back to you. 💙🤗

  • @jillconyers2710
    @jillconyers2710 29 дней назад +2

    I feel you ,one day at a time that's all we can manage❤

  • @Molkena27
    @Molkena27 29 дней назад +3

    The garden looks so beautiful and cozy ! I’m currently living only for my two dogs… I look forward to the day that I actually find my joy and peace again. I go down to my local park when I walk my dogs and just scream out to god, I sob and just scream so loud… then I apologise 😂… I don’t know I will ever recover from losing my child, it’s been 8 years and it’s all still so raw. Your videos make me feel not so alone anymore.. thank you 😊

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад +3

      Thank you. You scream at god, you can argue with him when you’re angry about what has happened to you, then tell him how this has been the hardest years of your life, to give you a little peace, from that pain. He is happy to listen.
      One never recovers from the loss of losing a child, though no comparison and why l struggle everyday, my daughter is alive but I had to walk away from her and l miss that little girl l dreamt about having in my life, a daughter who l loved (love) with all my heart.
      We will always remember them together till we pass away, because we were their mother, we cherished them but we cannot forget that we are still here right now and what is our purpose.
      If your dogs are yours lm so grateful for them being in your life and grateful to have you be here to talk to me because you are important and lm sure to others around you that are in your life.
      You are allowed to be happy, remember that it doesn’t mean you have forgotten that child you lost. You are not alone, l will always be here. 🩷🩷🩷

    • @Molkena27
      @Molkena27 29 дней назад

      @@AVanADogAndMyself 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 I’m glad I found you on RUclips xx thank you for your beautiful words 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @fearlessmasters6678
    @fearlessmasters6678 29 дней назад +2

    Just remember you have a friend across the pond here in Canada 🥰 I loved your picture with your puppy 🐶- you look very serene and happy at peace ❤️
    Yes we are a tribe/community and met through your reaching out in video. I’m very thankful for that. 🙏

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад +1

      A friend you are and lm so thankful to have your friendship. I am so glad l started this journey with you and l will continue to do this. We can certainly help others as a tribe and support each other through the good and the bad times. You’re a beautiful person and l am so lucky to have you in my life.
      Much love to you 🙏🩷🩷🩷

  • @betha3558
    @betha3558 29 дней назад +5

    I am so happy that u can see a better tomorrow. I would support anyone who has emotional stress. Sometimes, kind words can be reassuring.

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад

      Thank you Bertha, read the comments and even just saying hello to someone struggling with their life will make a huge difference in their day. You’re a beautiful person. 🙏🩷🩷🩷

  • @esteeb42
    @esteeb42 29 дней назад +2

    I really liked it when you said several times.."its not just about me"
    I have never been what I would call a selfish person quite to the contrary, more of a selfless person. However lately I have had more of the poor me I didn't deserve, etc etc. My loved ones can pick up on the negative emotion even though it's not verbal. I do need to think of myself more than I have in the past, however "its not just about me."
    I think the fact that I have a therapist and our sessions in that hour are only about me helps.💝

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад +1

      Hi Estee, sometimes we tend to forget that but hey, we are not perfect. We are not being selfish, we are simply being honest about our feelings to ourselves and the main thing is to then remember how it affects others as well and be mindful it hurts them to see you hurting. Never feel guilty though Estee.
      Acknowledging that is good for everyone.
      Yes so true, the therapist should be about you, your feelings, let them know that conflict of selfish and selfless behavior you feel, that is importantly something to understand in moving forward.
      Much love 🙏🩷🩷🩷

  • @sonyak9879
    @sonyak9879 26 дней назад

  • @narcabusesurvivor
    @narcabusesurvivor 4 дня назад +1

    I remember watching your first few videos and then I lost your channel along the way. I am elated to have found you again today and to see you managing so well 🙏✝️👑

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  4 дня назад

      Thank you, I am doing better, ups and downs but l know it’s how it’s going to be.
      Hope all is well with you. 🩷🩷🩷

    • @narcabusesurvivor
      @narcabusesurvivor 4 дня назад +1

      @@AVanADogAndMyself yes, thank you ... by the grace of our Lord I am free 🙏✝️👑

  • @KeepingitrealwithNeo
    @KeepingitrealwithNeo 29 дней назад +2

    Hello, my friend. Thank you for the video content, i couls relate to your story. And i read your email. I have been working on my video. I made a new channel for my safety and I am ready to talk about my traumas. Hopefully today is the day i can find the strength to actually finish it and post it. Love you my friend and you are looking lighter in spirit.❤❤❤

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад

      I think it will be great for you to open up, speaking out loud can be hard but l believe in you and your ability to do this.
      I will be sending my love and strength to you and will offer all the support and encouragement to stick with it.
      🙏🩷🩷🩷🩷🙏

  • @buffylife00061
    @buffylife00061 29 дней назад +2

    That’s a great idea 💡 I would love to be apart of the tribe!!! But would still love to see your content as it started because we have related to your heart felt experiences which leads us to be able to share with you what we’re going through. Can’t wait to see your video on Saturday….toodaloo 🫶

    • @AVanADogAndMyself
      @AVanADogAndMyself  29 дней назад +2

      Thank you for joining me as apart of the tribe and the community as a whole, lm so grateful to you.
      I will not change my videos and will continue to share my life as it unfolds and the effects of abuse that l still struggle with daily.
      I think more so when I am alone with my thoughts, especially at night. I keep myself busy, rain, hail or shine during daylight hours but l also feel exhausted at times. I need to slow down a little bit and lm trying to do that but then the hurt hits me.
      With everyone’s support I can do this and help others to find some peace within themselves.
      Keep sharing, I will always be here for you too.
      Much love my friend xx
      🙏🩷🩷🩷